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You've likely heard that confidence comes from thinking positive thoughts about yourself - which can help give us confidence sometimes, although other times it can backfire because those thoughts might not feel believable or we get us so focused on ourselves that we get in our own way and stops us from taking action on our goals. So in this episode I teach you the most powerful shift in mindset I've made to help me build my confidence that isn't thinking more of myself - but actually less. I know that sounds counterintuitive, so tune into the episode to find out why this is true & how to put it into practice in your life. 🙌
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Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate Gladdin welcomes listeners to episode 14 of "Okay Now Watch" and sets the stage for the discussion.Book Announcement (00:00:19)
Kate shares excitement about her upcoming book "Okay Now What?" focused on resilience, launching in six days.Journey of Writing the Book (00:01:07)
She reflects on her two-year journey writing the book across various countries and challenges faced during the process.Shifting Focus from Self-Doubt (00:02:05)
Kate discusses the importance of moving beyond self-doubt to cultivate confidence and embrace discomfort.Redefining Confidence (00:04:04)
She challenges conventional views on confidence, emphasizing action and courage over self-centered thoughts.Contribution Over Self-Interest (00:06:11)
Kate explains that true confidence comes from focusing on contributing to others rather than obsessing over self-worth.The Question of "Am I Good Enough?" (00:07:05)
She argues that instead of asking if one is good enough, it’s more beneficial to consider how to contribute.Embracing Discomfort (00:09:03)
Kate highlights the value of embracing discomfort to grow and take meaningful actions in life.The Importance of Self-Expression (00:10:43)
She encourages listeners to express themselves freely, using personal choices to inspire others.The Selfishness of Self-Doubt (00:11:33)
Kate asserts that dwelling on self-doubt is ultimately selfish, preventing meaningful contributions to the world.Final Thoughts on Contribution (00:12:29)
She concludes with a message about the importance of contributing value to the world rather than questioning self-worth. -
In this episode I want to share with you a story I heard about two runners that really had a big impact on me. It's one of those stories that makes you think deeply about what it means to truly be a winner. Is it getting first place against your competitor or being the one who gets promoted? Or is it something more? The answer to this is a personal choice, but when I heard this story about this runner I knew that to me the choice he made is the one I always want to - integrity first. Always.
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Welcome and Introduction (00:00:02)
Kate introduces the episode and expresses excitement about the changing season in Wyoming.Reflection on Community (00:01:13)
Kate shares gratitude for volunteers and firefighters, emphasizing the good in humanity amidst challenges.Story Introduction (00:02:16)
Kate introduces the story of athletes Abel Mutai and Ivan Fernandez, highlighting its inspirational nature.The Race Begins (00:03:29)
Description of the competitive cross-country race between Abel and Ivan, leading to a pivotal moment.The Act of Kindness (00:04:30)
Ivan chooses to help Abel, demonstrating integrity instead of taking advantage of his mistake.Ivan's Perspective (00:05:45)
Ivan reflects on the importance of community and the true meaning of victory beyond medals.Personal Reflection on Values (00:06:54)
Kate shares her own journey of prioritizing integrity over personal gain in her life and business.Legacy of Character (00:09:45)
Kate discusses her sister's legacy of kindness and character, emphasizing the importance of moral values.The Gold Medal Mentality (00:10:52)
Exploration of what it means to embody the gold medal mentality through integrity and good choices.Reflection on Identity (00:12:07)
Kate emphasizes the importance of being a good human above titles or identities in life and business.Conclusion and Legacy (00:15:41)
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Do you sometimes feel like you're living at the effect of the next email in your inbox or notification from your phone? In a world that's so 'switched on' and technologically all of the time now, it's easy to start to feel like your work tasks and to-do's are never ending and always with you. You value your family time or exercise, but next thing you know you're sending emails during dinner time or skipping your workout to squeeze in that extra meeting. Before you know it, your health starts to suffer as burn out creeps in. The truth is, relentless productivity often comes at the expense of our priorities, and it’s time we start measuring success by the quality of our lives, not just our to-do lists.
That's why on this episode I invited the incredible Marcey Rader onto the show. Marcey is an award-winning keynote speaker, trainer, coach, and author focused on health-powered productivity™ after a preventable medical diagnosis shifted her relentless pursuit of more. She's inspired over 100,000 people across five continents. As a Certified Speaking Professional®, Virtual Master Presenter®, and TEDx speaker, Marcey helps individuals and companies discover what truly matters, fostering sustainable habits to reclaim their workday, work well, and play more!
Check out more about Marcey including her books and resources here: https://www.marceyrader.com/
And Marcey's amazing Tedx Talk, The Relentless Pursuit of More, here: https://www.marceyrader.com/tedx/
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In a fast paced world that's so 'go go go' all the time, it's easy to start feeling buried under a mountain of obligations and responsibilities. Before you know it, you start feeling resentful towards your boss for 'making' you work late or that you 'have' to go to your husband's friends birthday dinner - which makes you feel even more frustrated and overwhelmed by it all.
So in this episode I dive deep into how to shift from feeling at the mercy of your schedule to back in control of it. It's a simple mindset shift that really changes how you feel towards your commitments so you can tackle your schedule with renewed energy and sense of empowerment.
Here's where you can watch the podcast episodes on YouTube!
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
Want to Kate to speak at your event or workplace? Visit https:https://www.kategladdin.com/
Check out Kate's personalised life coaching programs: https://www.kategladdin.com/coaching
Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate Gladdin introduces the podcast and its focus on personal empowerment.Gratitude for Emergency Responders (00:00:17)
Kate expresses appreciation for firefighters in Australia and their tireless efforts.YouTube Channel Announcement (00:01:07)
Kate shares her new YouTube channel featuring video recordings of podcast episodes.Upcoming Book Release (00:02:06)
Kate discusses her upcoming book "Okay Now What?" focusing on resilience, available for pre-order.Understanding Personal Choice (00:03:04)
Kate emphasizes the importance of recognizing personal choice in responding to life's challenges.Victim Mentality vs. Empowerment (00:04:06)
Kate discusses the mindset shift from feeling overwhelmed to taking control of one's schedule.Self-Talk and Motivation (00:05:05)
Kate highlights how negative self-talk affects motivation and personal commitment.Recognizing Autonomy (00:06:53)
Kate stresses that individuals are responsible for their choices and commitments.Choosing to Participate (00:08:38)
Kate explains the importance of recognizing personal desires behind commitments rather than feeling forced.Confronting People-Pleasing (00:11:25)
Kate addresses the issues of people-pleasing and its impact on personal well-being.Final Thoughts on Ownership (00:12:21)
Kate encourages listeners to embrace their choices and take pride in their decisions. -
Ever faced a situation before that's felt completely beyond your control? It's so easy to spiral into anxiety and overthinking every single worst case scenario which only causes more stress and chaos. That's been me this past week - with my new hometown of Sheridan, nestled in the beautiful Bighorn Mountains, facing the threat of wildfires. This situation has brought a whirlwind of emotions—anxiety, worry, and stress. But it has also reminded me of the importance of how we can heathily cope with situations beyond our control, especially during times of crisis - so that's what this episode is all about!
Tune in to learn actionable advice and insights to help you manage your anxiety and regain a sense of control - even when a situation is way beyond your control. Whether you’re dealing with a crisis or just everyday stress, this episode is packed with insights to help you find comfort and clarity.
So, grab a cup of tea, get comfy, and join me on this journey. Let’s navigate life’s uncertainties together with grace and resilience.
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CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate introduces the podcast and shares her mixed emotions about the current situation in Sheridan.Wildfire Concerns (00:00:19)
Kate discusses the anxiety and stress caused by nearby wildfires threatening her new hometown.Acknowledging Emotions (00:01:16)
She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and processing feelings during challenging circumstances.Control in Crisis (00:02:15)
Kate reflects on the lack of control in crisis situations and the shared experiences of anxiety.The Survival Brain (00:06:16)
She explains how our brains are wired for survival, leading to automatic negative thoughts.Present Moment Awareness (00:08:00)
Kate encourages focusing on the present and acknowledging that worries are often unfounded.Making Space for Emotions (00:09:44)
She advocates for accepting and feeling sadness and anxiety rather than trying to escape them.Grounding Techniques (00:11:29)
Kate introduces grounding exercises and deep breathing as methods to calm the nervous system.Engaging the Senses (00:13:45)
She describes the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise to help bring awareness back to the present moment.Physical Activity for Anxiety (00:15:59)
Kate discusses the importance of exercise in processing emotions and managing anxiety.Worry and Perspective (00:16:58)
She talks about maintaining perspective on worry, balancing awareness with action to mitigate anxiety.Controlling What You Can (00:18:51)
Focus on what you can control and let go of the rest.The True Impact of Loss (00:19:57)
Emotions associated with loss can be more challenging than the loss itself.Avoiding Unnecessary Worry (00:21:07)
Creating worst-case scenarios in your mind adds unnecessary anxiety.Finding Positives Amidst Adversity (00:24:05)
Challenge negative thoughts by identifying positive truths in difficult situations.The Importance of Resilience (00:27:06)
Life’s challenges help us grow and adapt, reminding us we will be okay.Embracing Life's Contrasts (00:29:26)
Adversity and joy coexist, providing perspective on life's experiences.Accepting Every Experience (00:33:04)
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This episode is an eye opening chat with John Ford, a seasoned coach and mediator with over 30 years of experience. We dive into the heart of conflict resolution and the transformative power of empathy. John shares his journey from South Africa to the U.S., emphasizing how empathy can shift us from a blame mindset to one of responsibility. We discuss practical strategies, like using feelings and needs cards, to navigate conflicts and foster deeper connections. This episode is packed with insights and tools to help you communicate better and grow personally. Tune in for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation!
You can learn more about John's empathy resources here: https://www.empathyset.com/
Download FREE resources from John here:
https://www.empathyset.com/free-stuff
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CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate Gladdin introduces the podcast and highlights its focus on personal growth and conflict resolution.Guest Introduction (00:02:49)
John Ford, a mediator with 30 years of experience, joins the show to discuss conflict resolution.John's Background (00:04:14)
John shares his journey from South Africa to the U.S. and his discovery of mediation.Importance of Empathy (00:05:52)
John emphasizes the role of empathy in resolving conflicts and improving interpersonal relationships.Shifting from Blame to Responsibility (00:06:50)
Discussion on helping individuals move from a blame mindset to taking responsibility for their actions.The Role of Self-Empathy (00:08:12)
John explains the importance of self-empathy in mediation and conflict resolution.Understanding Common Humanity (00:10:10)
John discusses recognizing shared human struggles to reduce blame and victim mentality.Validating Feelings (00:14:02)
The significance of validating emotions in conflict resolution without necessarily agreeing with the other party.Clarifying Perspectives (00:15:44)
John highlights the importance of language in expressing perspectives during mediation to avoid misunderstandings.Misunderstandings of Empathy (00:18:21)
John addresses common pitfalls in understanding and practicing empathy, distinguishing it from sympathy.Empathy and Its Dangers (00:18:41)
Discusses the balance between empathizing with others and the risk of shifting focus to oneself.Cognitive Biases in Empathy (00:19:37)
Explores how personal biases can distort our perception of others' experiences.The Pitfalls of Giving Advice (00:20:35)
Highlights how offering unsolicited advice can undermine genuine empathy.Evolution of Empathy (00:21:27)
Examines the historical context of empathy and its growing importance in interpersonal communication.Hollow Empathy vs. Action (00:22:18)
Stresses the need for empathy to be accompanied by meaningful actions, not just words.Personal Experiences of Empathy (00:23:09)
Kate shares her experiences with differing levels of empathy during her time in university.Emotional Literacy and Acknowledgment (00:24:28)
Discusses the importance of recognizing and validating others' feelings to foster emotional understanding.The Power of Labeling Emotions (00:27:22)
Emphasizes how identifying feelings can aid in emotional healing and understanding.Embracing Anger as a Valid Emotion (00:30:37)
John advocates for recognizing anger as a sign of care and engagement rather than a negative emotion.The Impact of Emotional Avoidance (00:32:20)
Addresses societal tendencies to suppress emotions and the need for tools to reconnect with feelings.Feelings and Needs Cards (00:34:08)
Introduces a tool designed to help individuals articulate their feelings and needs effectively.Podcast Episode Timestamps
Understanding Needs (00:35:51)
Discussion on recognizing personal needs and the importance of asserting them for healthy relationships.The Power of Prompts (00:36:47)
Using prompts, like feelings lists, to help individuals articulate their emotions and needs more clearly.Bonding Through Neediness (00:37:33)
Exploring how acknowledging needs can enhance connections in friendships and relationships.Preparing for Difficult Conversations (00:38:41)
Strategies for approaching tough discussions using feelings and needs cards for self-empathy.Reframing Communication (00:39:49)
Transforming potentially confrontational statements into respectful, needs-based expressions to reduce defensiveness.Using Cards for Conflict Resolution (00:40:43)
Employing feelings and needs cards to facilitate understanding and civility in conflict scenarios.Transformative Moments in Mediation (00:42:27)
Real-life example of a teacher using needs cards to help students express their feelings and resolve conflicts.Accessing Empathy Tools (00:43:26)
Information on obtaining empathy cards, dictionary, and app for enhancing communication skills.Engaging with the Community (00:45:29)
Encouragement for listeners to reach out with questions or experiences using empathy tools. -
Do you have a spare $82,000 lying around to pay for the medical bills of sand fly bites on a tropical island? Yeah, me neither. Yet that's the exact cost a traveler had to pay during their trip overseas. While the chances of the unthinkable happening while you're holidaying overseas are slim, it can happen. Unfortunately my family learned the hard way, after my sister was killed in a motorbike accident in Thailand. It shattered us, but there was one thing that helped us out most during those heartbreaking days of bringing Nicole back home - travel insurance.
Tune in to find out why travel insurance is the best financial investment you make towards your next vacation and all the different ways it can help your trip run more smoothly when you face big or small hiccups as you travel overseas. If you can't afford insurance, you can't afford to travel - at all.
Want to Kate to come and speak at your event? Visit https:https://www.kategladdin.com/
Check out Kate's personalised online coaching programs for women: https://www.kategladdin.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
Podcast Introduction (00:00:00)
Kate welcomes listeners to the episode and introduces the theme of life’s unpredictability.Recording the Audiobook (00:00:18)
Kate shares her excitement about recording her new audiobook and the audition process involved.Emotional Reflections (00:01:03)
She reflects on the emotional journey of reading her book, connecting it to her sister's memorial.Sister's Legacy (00:01:55)
Kate discusses her determination to honor her sister's memory and the resilience learned from her life.Announcement of Audiobook Release (00:03:43)
Kate informs listeners about the release date of her audiobook and paper copy book on November 12th.Importance of Travel Insurance (00:05:41)
Kate introduces the topic of travel insurance, emphasizing its potential to save money and heartache.Sister’s Tragic Accident (00:06:34)
She recounts the tragic circumstances surrounding her sister Nicole's accident while traveling in Thailand.Travel Safety Message (00:08:31)
Kate stresses the importance of safety precautions, particularly wearing helmets while riding motorbikes abroad.Accessing Travel Insurance (00:10:24)
Kate shares her experience of accessing her sister's travel insurance documents after the accident.Financial Impact of Insurance (00:12:21)
She explains how travel insurance saved her family from significant financial burdens following her sister's death.Support from Insurance Company (00:14:21)
Kate recounts the emotional support and assistance her family received from the travel insurance company.Encouragement to Get Insurance (00:15:27)
She urges listeners to obtain travel insurance before traveling to avoid devastating financial consequences.Cost of Medical Bills Abroad (00:16:42)
Kate highlights the high costs of medical treatment overseas and the importance of having insurance coverage.Navigating Insurance Options (00:18:46)
She provides tips on comparing and selecting the right travel insurance policy based on individual needs.The Importance of Travel Insurance (00:19:43)
Kate discusses how travel insurance can cover unexpected costs and emphasizes its necessity for travelers.Personal Experience with Insurance (00:20:39)
Kate shares a personal story about a laptop incident during travel, highlighting the benefits of having insurance.The Consequences of Not Having Insurance (00:21:54)
She recounts Jacob Webster's story, illustrating the severe financial burden of medical bills abroad without insurance.Encouragement to Get Insured (00:22:42)
Kate urges listeners to prioritize travel insurance when planning trips, stressing its critical role in travel safety.Final Thoughts and Call to Action (00:23:37)
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In this episode I have the honour of chatting with Katie Coleman, who shared her incredible journey after being diagnosed with stage four kidney cancer. Katie opened up about the emotional and physical challenges she faced, navigating the healthcare system, and the profound impact her diagnosis had on her life and marriage. We discussed the importance of self-advocacy, resilience, and finding joy in the little things, even during tough times. Katie’s story is a testament to the power of love, community, and the human spirit. Her memoir, "Too Young for Cancer," offers hope and inspiration to anyone facing adversity in the most unexpected ways.
You can check out Katie's new book, Too Young For Cancer, here!
Want to Kate to come and speak at your event? Visit https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com
Check out Kate's personalised online coaching programs for women: https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
=Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate Gladdin introduces the podcast and expresses excitement about the special guest.Welcome to Katie Coleman (00:01:20)
Katie Coleman joins the show, sharing her gratitude for the introduction.Reflecting on 2020 (00:02:08)
Discussion about significant life events in 2020, including marriage and health concerns.New Year's Eve Diagnosis (00:02:24)
Katie recounts the moment she was diagnosed with stage four kidney cancer.Initial Reactions to Diagnosis (00:05:07)
Katie describes her surprising relief upon receiving her cancer diagnosis.The Importance of Being Believed (00:07:54)
Discussion on the power of being taken seriously in the healthcare system.Understanding the Cancer Type (00:09:32)
Katie explains the confusion surrounding her cancer diagnosis and its rarity.Complications from a Bleeding Disorder (00:11:50)
Katie shares challenges faced due to an undiagnosed bleeding disorder during treatment.Resilience Through Treatment (00:13:24)
Katie reflects on her determination to keep fighting despite a grim prognosis.Motivation from Love and Purpose (00:15:36)
Katie discusses how love and honoring friends influenced her will to fight.The Duality of Cancer Experience (00:18:12)
Katie emphasizes the complexity of emotions and motivations during her journey.Reflection on Grief and Purpose (00:19:18)
Kate discusses the power of sharing personal stories of grief as a source of strength for others.The Importance of Community Support (00:20:10)
Katie emphasizes how vital community and support groups were in her journey through cancer.Finding Common Ground in Unique Experiences (00:22:17)
Katie shares how connecting with others, despite different experiences, can provide encouragement and hope.Creating Personal Definitions of Grief (00:23:20)
The speakers discuss the importance of forming individual understandings of grief based on personal experiences.Trusting Intuition in Healthcare (00:24:31)
Kate asks Katie about trusting her intuition when facing medical decisions during her treatment.Overcoming People-Pleasing Tendencies (00:28:08)
Katie reflects on her struggles with people-pleasing and how it affects communication with doctors.Recognizing and Communicating Symptoms (00:30:39)
Katie discusses the importance of accurately describing symptoms to healthcare providers for effective treatment.Fear and Pain as Universal Experiences (00:33:01)
Katie explains that fear and pain are relative and can be genuinely felt regardless of the situation's severity.Advocating for Oneself (00:34:03)
Kate and Katie discuss the necessity of self-advocacy in healthcare and everyday interactions.Living Authentically After Cancer (00:37:31)
Katie shares how her cancer experience taught her to live authentically and pursue her passions.Katie's Birthday Programming (00:39:13)
Katie discusses how her diagnosis changed her perspective on enjoying programming on her birthday.Living True to Yourself (00:40:08)
Katie emphasizes the importance of authenticity and pursuing what brings joy, regardless of societal norms.The Power of Resilience (00:40:20)
Kate reflects on resilience, highlighting the significance of responding purposefully to life's challenges.Sharing Stories of Hope (00:41:03)
Kate expresses gratitude for Katie's journey and the inspiration it provides to others facing similar struggles.Connecting Through Shared Experiences (00:42:14)
Katie shares insights on the importance of shared experiences and how they contribute to personal growth.The Only Way Out is Through (00:43:23)
Katie discusses the theme of perseverance in her book, emphasizing that sometimes you just have to endure.Post-Traumatic Growth (00:44:54)
Kate talks about the concept of post-traumatic growth and the necessity of navigating dark times for personal development.Book Release Announcement (00:45:21)
Katie announces the release date of her book "Too Young for Cancer" and shares where to find it.Resources for Cancer Patients (00:46:22)
Katie provides information about her website, which offers resources for cancer patients and shares her writing journey.Acknowledging Support (00:47:10)
Katie expresses gratitude towards her editor, Laura, for her essential role in the book's creation.Continued Connection (00:48:04)
Kate and Katie express their desire to stay connected and support each other moving forward.Coaching Offer (00:48:20)
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In this episode we delve into the intricacies of the mind with special guest, Jaqui Letran, an award-winning author and mindset mentor. This episode is a treasure trove of insights on personal development, focusing on how our life experiences shape our mindset and the profound impact of our subconscious beliefs.
Jacqui's insights provide practical strategies for reclaiming control over our thoughts and emotions, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking personal growth and resilience. By understanding the workings of the subconscious mind and implementing Jackie's practical advice, you can begin to reshape your beliefs and lead a more calm & fulfillling life.
Tune in to learn:
Understanding the workings of the conscious and subconscious mind. The impact of childhood experiences on adult beliefs and mindset. The distinction between positive thinking and the underlying mechanisms of the mind. The role of negative self-talk and its influence on emotions and experiences. Identifying and challenging disempowering beliefs. Strategies for managing anxiety and negative thoughts. The importance of self-awareness in personal development. The significance of gratitude in transforming perspectives and experiences. Techniques for reprogramming the subconscious mind for positive outcomes. The necessity of consistency in practicing positive mental habits.Check out Jacqui's books for adults here!
Want to Kate to come and speak at your event? Visit https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com
Check out Kate's personalised online coaching programs for women: https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
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I'm sure you've heard the saying many times before, "everything happens for a reason". But is that really true? Or are you just delusional to think that there's meaning in everything that happens to you? Tune in as together we're explore the impact of this belief and whether it's worth holding onto during tough times.
Want to Kate to come and speak at your event? Visit https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com
Check out Kate's personalised online coaching programs for women: https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate Gladden introduces herself and the theme of the episode, emphasizing personal empowerment.Personal Reflections on Father's Day (00:00:17)
Kate shares her experiences during Father's Day and the support from her dad.The Concept of Everything Happens for a Reason (00:01:02)
Discussion on the common phrase and its implications during life's challenges.Instagram Poll Results (00:02:44)
Kate reveals the results of her Instagram poll regarding belief in the phrase.Exploring Different Perspectives (00:03:37)
Kate addresses varied reactions to the belief that everything happens for a reason.Personal Loss and Its Impact (00:04:50)
Kate reflects on her sister's death and how it shaped her beliefs.Choosing Empowering Beliefs (00:06:52)
Discussion on the importance of selecting beliefs that provide peace and strength.The Nature of Beliefs (00:08:09)
Kate explains that all beliefs are interpretations, and we choose which to adopt.Empowerment Through Belief (00:09:12)
Believing that everything happens for a reason fosters resilience and hope.Creating Meaning from Challenges (00:10:09)
Kate emphasizes the importance of finding meaning in difficult experiences.Choosing Your Own Adventure in Life (00:11:59)
Life's challenges offer opportunities to create personal meaning and purpose.Mindset and Opportunities (00:13:09)
Negative mindsets limit our ability to see opportunities for growth.Legacy and Purpose After Loss (00:14:04)
Kate discusses how her sister's legacy motivates her to create positive change.Reflection on the Pandemic Experience (00:15:59)
Kate shares insights gained from her time during the pandemic and its silver linings.Resilience and Adaptation (00:16:47)
Emphasizing the power of resilience and the ability to find purpose in adversity.Understanding Negativity Bias (00:17:45)
Kate discusses how our brains are wired to focus on negativity, affecting our perceptions.Courage vs. Pessimism (00:18:58)
She contrasts pessimism with optimism, highlighting the importance of resilience and creativity in facing challenges.Beliefs Shape Outcomes (00:19:50)
Kate emphasizes that beliefs drive actions and outcomes, influencing personal reality and success.Choosing Meaning in Adversity (00:21:44)
She shares her belief that everything happens for a reason, emphasizing personal interpretation and response.Connecting Dots in Life (00:22:47)
Kate reflects on Steve Jobs' quote about connecting past experiences to find meaning in current circumstances.Empowerment Through Belief (00:23:53)
She discusses how believing in meaning can foster resilience and creativity in overcoming challenges.Finding Strength After Loss (00:24:46)
Kate shares her personal journey of finding meaning and strength after her sister's death.Trusting the Process (00:25:42)
She recounts her house-hunting experience, emphasizing trust in the unfolding of life events.Encouragement to Engage (00:26:39)
Kate invites listeners to share thoughts and engage with her on social media for deeper discussions.The Power of Response (00:27:47)
She concludes by highlighting the importance of choosing how to respond to life's challenges. -
You don't get to this age without having struggled with feelings of being disrespected, whether it's in your workplace or your own relationship. Your partner might be scrolling on their phone rather than listening to you, or your boss might be leaving you out of email chains or work meetings. It's easy to then feel frustrated that they're acting so disrespectfully towards you and let resentment build.
So in my latest episode, I share personal stories and strategies to help you navigate these tricky moments. I teach you how to address disrespect in a way that is constructive and empowering for yourself and your relationships, rather than adding to the conflict. Because the last thing we want to do is address disrespect with disrespect, so join me for valuable insights to handle this issue with confidence.
[object Object]Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate introduces the episode and shares her excitement about recording and upcoming audiobook.Friend's Experience of Disrespect (00:01:15)
Kate discusses a friend's feelings of disrespect at work, possibly due to age differences.Navigating Feelings of Disrespect (00:02:07)
Kate emphasizes the nuanced nature of feeling disrespected and the importance of boundaries.Cyclical Nature of Disrespect (00:03:31)
Kate warns against responding to disrespect with more disrespect, perpetuating a negative cycle.Personal Experiences of Disrespect (00:04:30)
Kate shares her own experiences of feeling disrespected in professional settings as a woman.Identifying Personal Disrespect (00:05:29)
Listeners are encouraged to reflect on moments of feeling disrespected in various relationships.Three Steps to Handle Disrespect (00:06:25)
Kate outlines three insights for navigating feelings of disrespect without mirroring negative behavior.Understanding Disrespectful Behavior (00:07:21)
Kate explains that disrespect is subjective and often rooted in personal interpretation.Cultural Differences in Respect (00:08:22)
Kate shares a personal anecdote about cultural differences in perceptions of respect.Separating Behavior from Interpretation (00:10:13)
The importance of distinguishing between actions and personal interpretations of those actions.Navigating Painful Situations (00:11:15)
Kate reflects on her experiences dealing with disrespect in the context of a family tragedy.Recognizing Personal Interpretation (00:12:13)
Listeners are encouraged to recognize their interpretations of others' behaviors as a source of distress.Empathy and Understanding (00:15:07)
Kate emphasizes the need for empathy and understanding in navigating feelings of disrespect.Importance of Communication (00:16:07)
Kate stresses the necessity of having conversations about disrespectful behavior to promote self-respect.Avoiding Mind Reading (00:18:05)
Kate highlights the toxic expectation that others should understand our feelings without communication.Understanding Misinterpretations (00:18:58)
Discusses how misinterpretations of behavior can lead to feelings of disrespect and resentment in relationships.Cultural Differences in Time Management (00:19:58)
Explores how cultural backgrounds influence perceptions of punctuality and respect in social interactions.Separating Facts from Thoughts (00:20:54)
Emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between objective facts and personal interpretations to reduce blame.Expressing Feelings Respectfully (00:21:46)
Encourages open communication about feelings rather than passive-aggressive behavior to avoid misunderstandings.The Impact of Assumptions (00:22:45)
Highlights how assumptions about others' intentions can lead to conflict and defensiveness in conversations.Agreeing on Common Ground (00:23:51)
Suggests establishing shared facts in discussions to foster cooperation and understanding between parties.Owning Your Perspective (00:24:38)
Stresses the importance of expressing personal feelings while acknowledging they stem from individual interpretations.Vulnerability in Conversations (00:25:33)
Promotes vulnerability as a means to invite understanding and connection in discussions about disrespect.Different Backgrounds, Different Expectations (00:27:35)
Discusses how different upbringings shape individuals' interpretations of respect and behavior in relationships.Maintaining Personal Values (00:29:20)
Encourages listeners to uphold their values and character when addressing disrespectful behavior in others.Specificity in Communication (00:30:16)
Advocates for addressing specific behaviors rather than labeling individuals as disrespectful to foster constructive dialogue.Curiosity and Open-Mindedness (00:30:55)
Encourages curiosity about others' perspectives to enhance understanding and reduce conflict.Setting Boundaries (00:31:10)
Highlights the importance of setting personal boundaries to communicate needs and prevent feelings of disrespect.Empathy in Responses (00:32:04)
Encourages responding with empathy and understanding rather than blame to improve interpersonal relationships.The Challenge of Difficult People (00:34:20)
Acknowledges that difficult interactions are common and emphasizes the need for resilience and self-empowerment.Practicing Healthy Communication (00:35:22)
Encourages listeners to practice healthy communication techniques to strengthen relationships and personal well-being.Want to Kate to come and speak at your event? Visit https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com
Check out Kate's personalised online coaching programs for women: https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
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Are you promising yourself "yes! I WILL go to the gym tomorrow!" - only to not end up working out at all? It's easy to tell yourself it's because you're not "motivated enough" to do it. But I call BS on that! Instead tune in to hear what I think the real problem is and then learn the solution to consistently working out, even when you're super unmotivated to do so.
Timestamps (by podsqueeze)
Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)
Kate Gladden welcomes listeners and introduces the theme of the episode.Kate's Fitness Journey (00:01:00)
Kate shares her personal experiences with fitness, emphasizing mindset over aesthetics.The Myth of Motivation (00:03:11)
Kate challenges the belief that motivation is necessary for starting and maintaining a workout routine.Understanding Human Instincts (00:05:15)
Discussion on how our brains are wired for survival, impacting motivation for effortful tasks.Self-Discipline vs. Motivation (00:09:07)
Kate emphasizes the importance of self-discipline over relying on fleeting motivation.The Role of Prefrontal Cortex (00:10:54)
Explains how adults can override instinctual behaviors with conscious choices.Commitment for Long-Term Success (00:12:51)
Encouragement to commit to actions for future feelings rather than immediate comfort.Building Mental Discipline (00:14:43)
Kate discusses how workouts contribute to mental strength and discipline.Flipping the Script on Excuses (00:16:38)
Strategies for reframing excuses to promote commitment to fitness goals.Building Self-Discipline (00:18:36)
Kate emphasizes the importance of self-discipline over motivation for achieving fitness goals.Commitment to Discomfort (00:19:35)
She discusses committing to uncomfortable actions, like early workouts, for long-term benefits.Overcoming Excuses (00:20:30)
Kate encourages listeners to confront their excuses and take action regardless of feelings.Survival Instinct vs. Living Fully (00:21:36)
She explains how survival instincts can hinder living a fulfilling and healthy life.Future Self's Gratitude (00:22:31)
Kate shares the mantra "my future self will thank me" to motivate action over comfort.Realistic Goal Setting (00:23:24)
She advises starting with achievable workout goals and gradually increasing them for success.Call to Action (00:24:26)
Kate promotes her life coaching services to help listeners implement these strategies in their lives.Want to Kate to come and speak at your event? Visit https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com
Check out Kate's personalised online coaching programs for women: https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
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Are you an overthinker when it comes to making a decision? I get you! I used to fall into the 'analysis paralysis' trap ALL the time. Until I learnt what I share in this episode. Tune in to tackle indecision and anxiety with me!
🌟 Main Lessons & Ideas: The Merry-Go-Round of Indecision: Feeling stuck and going in circles? I share how to break free and take control. Fear and Overthinking: How our desire for control can lead to anxiety and paralysis. Personal Stories: My own struggles with decision-making, including a costly lesson about transferring funds between countries. Empowerment Through Action: Why making decisions, even imperfect ones, is crucial for growth.
In this episode, I dive deep into the challenges of decision-making, especially for women in their 30s who might feel settled in some areas but are eager for growth in others. Here are the key takeaways:Timestamps
Introduction (00:00:00)
Kate welcomes listeners to the podcast and shares her excitement about recording in her new home.Personal Reflection (00:00:18)
Kate expresses gratitude for her mountain view and shares a humorous anecdote about driving a John Deere mower.Main Topic Introduction (00:02:00)
The episode focuses on overcoming indecision and anxiety, particularly for women in their 30s.Types of Decisions (00:02:45)
Kate discusses various decisions people face, from significant life choices to everyday decisions.Personal Anecdotes on Decision-Making (00:03:20)
Kate shares her struggles with overthinking big decisions, including moving and financial choices.Impact of Overthinking (00:05:09)
She reflects on the psychological burden of indecision, including a recent financial loss due to overthinking.Pros and Cons Lists (00:05:58)
Kate suggests using pros and cons lists but warns they can sometimes lead to confusion.Understanding Fear in Decisions (00:08:39)
She emphasizes that fear often underlies indecision, stemming from a desire for control.Avoiding Feelings (00:10:39)
Kate explains that avoiding uncomfortable feelings can lead to overthinking decisions.The Cost of Overthinking (00:11:40)
She discusses how overthinking creates anxiety and can lead to negative emotions.Making Decisions as Empowerment (00:12:38)
Kate encourages viewing decision-making as a power move that brings clarity and momentum.Reframing Decisions (00:14:25)
She suggests that there is no wrong decision; interpretation of choices can change outcomes.Setting Decision Deadlines (00:16:20)
Kate advises setting time limits for making decisions to avoid endless overthinking.The Power of Decision-Making (00:18:27)
Kate emphasizes the importance of making decisions to regain control and move forward in life.Pep Talk for the Week (00:19:20)
A motivational message encouraging listeners to overcome fears and anxieties to achieve their desired life.Book Announcement (00:20:20)
Kate promotes her upcoming book "Okay Now What," offering deeper insights and tools for personal growth.Support the Podcast (00:20:20)
Listeners are encouraged to support the podcast by pre-ordering the book and contributing to its launch.Personalized Coaching Offer (00:21:16)
Kate discusses her one-on-one coaching services aimed at helping women overcome overwhelm and regain control.Want to Kate to come and speak at your event? Visit https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com
Check out Kate's personalised online coaching programs for women: https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER Kate's new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow Kate on instagram: @kategladdin
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Welcome to the first podcast episode of "Okay. Now What?" relaunched for adults! Together we're going to cover a whole range of topics that will help you get 'unstuck' and make the progress you've been dying to make in all areas of life - whether it's in your relationship, self confidence, career, health and body image - this show will have your back!
Throughout the episodes, you'll gain unique perspectives, inspiration and strategies that you can immediately put into practice and better navigate life's suprise detours and 'oh sh*t' moments. I will teach you mindset tools that will finally end your cycle of self sabotage and overcome your insecurities so you don't go to the grave saying "I was going to but I was scared.."
My goal as your host is to take you out of passive mode and stop letting life happen to you. Instead, together we are going to help YOU happen to life and take back control over how any situation impacts you. This means less anxiety, worrying and second guessing yourself, and more deciding, believing and taking action on what matters most to you. Let's do this!
This first episode comes from a question on Instagram that I received:
"I’ve been struggling with feeling like people don’t like my big sparkly personality at work. Now I don’t do it when we have a big external person meeting. But within my team I want to let myself be me. But I don’t think that’s being received very well? But authenticity is important to me so I don’t want to dull my shine. But I feel like I should for the sake of my career?"
The dilemma of wanting to be yourself at work while wanting to make friends and align with the company's culture is one that many people can relate to. In fact, should we even strive to be our authentic selves at work to begin with? Tune in to learn what I believe is a healthy balance to strike and how to better connect with colleagues without feeling like you're faking or pretending to be someone you're not.
In this episode you will find out about:
The importance of authenticity in personal and professional settings. Navigating workplace dynamics and interactions. The concept of personality multiplicity and having different aspects of self. Strategies for expressing authenticity while being adaptable. Practical steps for self-reflection and understanding one's personality. Building rapport and trust with colleagues through consistent interactions. Shifting focus from authenticity to appropriateness in different contexts. Encouragement to embrace change and adapt personality expression while staying true to core values.Want to me to come and speak at your workplace? Visit https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com
Check out my personalised online coaching programs here: https://www.theresiliencespeaker.com/coaching
CLICK HERE to PRE ORDER my new book "Okay. Now What?" - How to Be Resilient When Life Gets Tough.
For daily inspiration and tips, follow me on instagram: @kategladdin
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Over the last 5 years and 5 months, I've dedicated myself to recorded over 290 episodes for teens and young adults around the world. It has been a very fun and fulfilling journey that I hope has helped many of my listeners learn and grow along with me. Now, in this episode, I announce some big changes that are coming for the show and who I'm transitioning to supporting next! Thank you for being a listener and I hope you continue to tune in to the new shows coming on August 5th, 2024!
PRE ORDER my new book, "Okay. Now What?" and be among the first in the world to get your hands on it when it releases on November 12th, 2024!
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I'm excited to welcome back special guest, Amanda Lecaude, onto the show! She's an academic coach and an expert on all things time management and organisation, so you won't want to miss out on her powerful tips on how to use the 'feedback loop' to keep improving your efforts and results at school.
Click here if you're in Australia to check out her new book, "Conquering Time Management and Organisation".
Live in the US or internationally? Click here to check out Amanda's book!
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Losing someone you love and the grief that comes with it, will change you forever. Everyone's journey with it is unique and cannot be compared, but there is a shared bond that can be found with learning how to live with the reality you'll never see the person who means so much to you again. We all have to find our ways to cope and adapt to that new reality, and while sometimes we go on detours to get there, today's guest, Ally Artis, is a beautiful example of how to channel that grief with creativity and purpose. Tune in to learn how to found her way through the depths of her grief to create something that will now help others, particularly young people, find their way through it too.
You can check out Ally's book for kids here.And learn more about the awesome work, Feel the Magic, is doing by visiting their website.
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Do you dread going to practice because it's 'so boring'? Or put off doing something because of how 'boring' it is? Tune into this episode to learn why learning to get good at boring things is a critical part of becoming more successful.
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Many of us feel like we have to shame and punish ourselves in order to achieve more - we think if we accept ourselves the way we are, we won't feel motivated to fulfill our potential. In this flashback episode I reveal to you why the opposite is actually true and how to begin to break the shame cycle so you can bring more of your worth into the world and achieve your goals!
Want to feel more confident and less stressed every day?
Check out my personalised online coacing programs here: www.kategladdin.com/coaching
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Do you sometimes walk away from meeting someone thinking that they didn't like you or you made a fool of yourself? Well this episode is a must listen to stop you from dwelling on past social interactions and find more courage to show up as YOURSELF, regardless of what others may think of you.
Want to feel more confident and less stressed every day?
Check out my personalised online coacing programs here: www.kategladdin.com/coaching
For daily inspiration and tips, follow me on instagram: @kategladdin
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