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Originally Aired on May 1, 2024
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In this episode, we're hanging out with the dynamic duo, Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, who share their journey and collaborative work in the world of sexual education and theology of the body.
They tell about their work with the Identity Project, aiming to help parents and families chat about sexuality and relationships in a faith-filled, positive way. The Lindas talk about their own lightbulb moments at the Theology of the Body Institute and how they're now passionate about giving parents the tools to paint a beautiful picture of God's design for their kids.
They're all about tackling the big questions and easing those parent jitters with resources like their books and workbooks. It's all about building trust, having heart-to-hearts, and guiding the little ones through life's big topics.
Learn more about the Lindas and their work at IdentityProject.tv and TheConversationWorkshop.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Collaboration of Linda Stewart and Linda Noble in sexual education and theology of the bodyThe Linda's Involvement in the Identity ProjectApproach to educating parents and families about sexuality and relationshipsInitial reluctance to discuss sexuality and the journey to embracing the theology of the bodyTheology of the body as a comprehensive view of sexuality and Christian sexual ethicImportance of understanding God's design for sex in addressing sexual brokennessThe role of parents in teaching children about God's love and their designAddressing the fears and anxieties of parents in discussing sexuality with childrenProviding support and resources for parents to navigate sexuality and relationships with their childrenMore Resources:
Before the Sex Talk* by The LindasHonest Talk* by John FortOur Bodies Tell God's Story* by Christopher WestRelated Podcasts:
God's Design for Emotional Growth and SexualityHelping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and SexualityKeeping Kids Safe in a Digital World*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, our guest is Stephen Thomas, who bravely shares his journey through struggles with pornography and same-sex attraction. Stephen opens up about his Christian upbringing, the shame he felt for his early porn use, and the pivotal role of community, faith, and vulnerability in his healing process.
He recounts how early exposure to pornography led to a cycle of hiddenness and shame, and how opening up to his family and seeking therapy marked the beginning of his recovery. Stephen's story is a powerful reminder of the grace of God and the importance of authentic connections and support in overcoming deep personal struggles.
To learn more about Stephen and his coaching services, visit StephenThomasConsulting.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Personal journey of overcoming struggles with pornography and same-sex attraction.Impact of upbringing in a Christian household on sexual identity and shame.The significance of vulnerability and honesty in relationships.The role of community and support in the healing process.The internal conflict between desires and societal expectations.The importance of confession and accountability in recovery.Addressing underlying emotional issues related to addiction.Strategies for maintaining sobriety and fostering meaningful connections.Advice for men at different stages of their recovery journey.Resources available for further support and coaching in overcoming sexual brokenness.More Resources:
Get Free, Stay Free MasterclassGateway to Freedom 3-Day IntensiveGrace-Based Recovery 8-Week Online Study GroupsRelated Podcasts:
The Sex Talk You Never GotAm I Gay? (with Garry Ingraham)How Group Work Will Transform Your Recovery Journey----------
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In today’s episode, my guests are Mark and Jill Savage, a couple that understands struggle, betrayal, and restoration. They talk about their incredible journey, betrayal, and the journey to rebuild trust. Mark opens up about his midlife crisis and infidelity after 28 years of marriage, while Jill shares the deep pain and the process of healing.
They emphasize the importance of personal growth, accountability, and transparent communication. Mark's transformation began with a personal "resurrection" moment one Easter Sunday, leading to consistent efforts to regain Jill's trust. Their story is a testament to the power of God’s faithfulness and commitment in overcoming marital challenges, offering hope and practical insights for couples facing similar struggles.
To learn more about Mark and Jill and their resources, visit JillSavage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
The journey of Mark and Jill Savage through marriage challenges, including infidelity.The impact of betrayal on family dynamics and emotional well-being.The process of rebuilding trust after infidelity and the time it requires.The importance of transparency and accountability in restoring trust.Individual growth as a crucial element in healing and relationship improvement.The role of effective communication and vulnerability in strengthening relationships.The nature of trust as a gradual process that cannot be forced.The significance of personal responsibility and self-improvement in overcoming marital issues.Offering hope and resources for couples facing similar challenges.The transformative power of faith and commitment in rebuilding a marriage.More Resources:
RebuildingTrust.usNo More Perfect Marriages* by Mark & Jill SavageMarriage 2.0 IntensiveRelated Podcasts:
Rebuilding Your Marriage After Betrayal Podcast PlaylistA Journey of Redemption and HealingHow Can Therapeutic Disclosure Help Heal Marriages Affected by Sexual Betrayal?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, I welcome Kim Hansen Petroni, an expert in betrayal trauma healing. We dive into the challenges many women face when dealing with emotionally lifeless marriages or divorce. Kim shares her personal journey and professional insights, emphasizing the importance of safety, grief, and reconnecting with God and self.
We discuss the common lack of support from the church and the critical need for understanding and compassion. Kim offers practical tools for healing across physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational aspects. This episode is a beacon of hope, reminding women that healing from betrayal and a stronger sense of self and community are within reach.
To learn more about Kim and her resources, visit NotaCasseroleWidow.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Betrayal trauma healing, particularly for women in difficult marriages.Personal experiences and professional background of the guest in psychology and counseling.The impact of betrayal trauma on women's emotional and spiritual well-being.The three main stages of healing from betrayal trauma: 1) safety and stabilization, 2) grief and mourning, and 3) reconnecting with the outside world.Challenges faced by women during divorce, including identity loss and lack of community support.The role of the church in supporting women experiencing betrayal trauma.The importance of self-care and emotional support during the healing process.Practical tools for physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational healing.The significance of community and shared experiences among women dealing with betrayal trauma.Messages of hope and empowerment for women navigating their healing journeys.More Resources:
Not a Casserole Widow* by Kim Hansen PetroniCoachingHope4U.comOnline Care Groups for WivesRelated Podcasts:
Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?Life and Hope After Divorce: Reese and Sharon's StoryNew Course: 40 Days of Healing for Wives*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the theme of temptation, especially regarding male sexuality and the internal conflicts it sparks. Through a role-playing exercise, we illustrate the dialogue between the mind, body, and spirit during moments of temptation.
We highlight the struggle between seeking pleasure and maintaining spiritual discipline. Stephen emphasizes the importance of standing firm and seeking peace, while I underscore the role of the Holy Spirit and community support in overcoming temptation. This episode offers valuable insights and practical tools for managing desires and fostering a healthier relationship with yourself.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Exploration of temptation, particularly in the context of male sexuality.Internal conflict between the mind, body, and spirit during moments of temptation.Role-playing exercise to illustrate the dialogue among different parts of the self.The cyclical nature of temptation and the struggle for self-control.The concept of the "wounded boy" representing emotional pain and longing for comfort.The importance of spiritual discipline and self-control in managing desires.The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding individuals through temptation.The significance of community and connection in overcoming isolation during struggles.Encouragement to engage in self-reflection and recognize inner conflicts.A call to action for individuals to pursue a healthier relationship with their desires and spiritual journey.More Resources:
Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenSexual Integrity Webinar for MenDealing with Temptation Podcast BundleRelated Podcasts:
Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual AddictionWhat to Do in the Moment of TemptationUnderstanding Body, Soul, and Spirit----------
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2024 YEAR-END FINANCIAL NEED: $118,000
This ministry continues to reach men and women worldwide through the generous and faithful partnerships of listeners like you. Would you prayerfully consider partnering with us to meet our year-end financial need?
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In this episode, our guest is Ben Locke, author of "In Our Suffering Lord Be Near: Prayers of Hope for the Hurting." Ben shares his amazing journey from being a dedicated soccer player to facing severe injuries, abuse, and emotional trauma. These experiences led him to a deep exploration of suffering, mental health, and faith.
We discuss the importance of processing emotions, the transformative power of prayer, and the role of therapy in healing. Ben’s story is a testament to finding hope and connection through shared human experiences and Christian faith. Join us for an inspiring conversation on resilience and recovery.
Ben’s book can be found on Amazon or wherever books are sold. If you want to receive Ben’s weekly prayer devotional, visit EvensongJournal.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Personal journey through suffering, injury, and traumaExperiences as a soccer player and the impact of injuriesChallenges related to mental health and emotional strugglesThe role of prayer in coping with sufferingImportance of processing emotions and seeking therapyConnection between suffering and shared human experiencesRole of faith and relationship with God through strugglesThe transformative power of prayer and honest communication with GodThe significance of community and support in dealing with sufferingHope and healing as outcomes of confronting and sharing strugglesMore Resources:
Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for menFind a GroupA Sacred Sorrow* by Michael CardRelated Podcasts:
Let's PrayRecovery Discovery 019: PrayerThe Immanuel Approach in Recovery*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, I'm thrilled to welcome Dr. Linda Seiler, a remarkable advocate for addressing LGBTQ struggles through a Christian worldview. We dive into her personal journey, where she shares her experiences with gender identity confusion and her transformation after coming to faith in Christ.
Dr. Seiler discusses her book, "Transformation: A Former Transgender's Response to LGBTQ," highlighting her struggles, the power of Christ, and the importance of compassion and truth when addressing such complex and personal struggles. Our conversation emphasizes a clear gospel approach to sexual brokenness, offering hope and understanding for those navigating similar challenges. There is good news in the gospel – Jesus really does transform us!
For more information about Linda and her ministry, visit RestoryMinistries.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Dr. Linda Siler's personal journey with gender identity and sexuality.The impact of her conversion to Christianity on her identity and struggles.Discussion of her book "Transformation: A Former Transgender's Response to LGBTQ."The concept of being "born again" and its implications for identity in Christ.Misconceptions surrounding LGBTQ identities and the potential for change.The five streams of church responses to LGBTQ issues: condemnation, affirmation, accommodation, mortification, and transformation.The importance of compassion and understanding in addressing sexual brokenness.The role of the gospel in transforming lives and identities.Encouragement for individuals to engage with and support those struggling with their sexuality.Resources for further exploration of LGBTQ issues within a faith context.More Resources:
TRANS-formation: A Former Transgender Responds to LGBTQ* by Dr. Linda SeilerLindaSeiler.com Quick GuidesRelated Podcasts:
Exposing the Gender Lie (with Brandon Showalter)Navigating Identity & Sexuality - A Compassionate Approach for ParentsAm I Gay? (with Garry Ingraham)*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the complexities of personal growth, focusing on how childhood experiences shape adult behavior. We discuss insights from the "Gateway to Freedom" workshop, emphasizing the importance of recognizing our own choices while understanding the influences of our upbringing.
I admire Stephen’s work on DoctorMarriage.org and how he offers practical tools and tips for men wanting to live a full life of integrity. In our conversation, we explore themes of belonging, identity, and the emotional struggles many face. We highlight the coexistence of sadness and hope, encouraging listeners to embrace self-discovery and seek support for healing and transformation.
To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Personal responsibility and its complexitiesImpact of childhood experiences on adult behaviorDistinction between personal choices and external influencesInsights from the "Gateway to Freedom" workshopEmotional struggles related to belonging and identityThe pain of rejection and its lasting effectsThe relationship between sadness and hopeCoping mechanisms developed in childhood and their consequencesThe journey of self-discovery and healingImportance of seeking support and community for personal growthMore Resources:
Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for menSad, but Hopeful post on DoctorMarriage.orgGrace-Based Recovery Online GroupsRelated Podcasts:
Why Men Need to Practice SadnessWhole Man Recovery Pt 3: EmotionalNavigating Grief, Fear, and Transformation----------
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In this episode, we chat with the amazing Elizabeth Woning about her incredible journey of faith and sexuality. Elizabeth, once an openly lesbian woman who attended seminary, shares her experiences reconciling her sexuality with her faith in God.
We delve into her transformative encounters with God, the challenges of navigating faith within the LGBTQ+ community, and the importance of self-acceptance in light of the gospel. Elizabeth's story highlights the power of experiencing God's love and the ongoing journey of understanding one's true identity. Her insights offer hope and guidance for anyone grappling with similar issues. Join us for this earnest and enlightening conversation!
For more information about Elizabeth and her movement, visit ChangedMovement.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Exploration of the intersection between faith and sexuality.Personal journey of an openly lesbian woman in a religious context.Experiences in seminary and the LGBTQ+ community.The impact of transformative encounters with God.Reevaluation of beliefs regarding identity and self-acceptance.The role of God's love in shaping personal identity.Challenges faced by individuals with life-dominating issues related to sexuality.Importance of relational understanding of God versus a philosophical approach.Strategies for creating safe environments for discussions about identity.Encouragement for individuals to seek a deeper communion with God.More Resources:
Changed Book: #OnceGayStoriesNavigating LGBTQ video courseChanged StoriesRelated Podcasts:
From Broken Home to Broken Sexuality to Wholeness in ChristAm I Gay? (with Garry Ingraham)What is Sexual Discipleship?----------
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In this episode, I chat with Phil and Priscilla Fretwell about their incredible journey of healing and redemption from sexual brokenness in their marriage. They are the founders of Savage Marriage Ministries and help other couples overcome their past and fight for their future.
In our conversation, Phil opens up about his long-term struggle with pornography and the devastating impact it had on their relationship. Priscilla shares her raw emotions of betrayal and anger, and how she found the strength to forgive. Together, they highlight the importance of honesty, vulnerability, and seeking help. Their story is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest times, transformation and healing are possible through faith and open communication.
To learn more about Phil and Priscilla and their ministry, visit SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Personal struggles with pornography and its impact on marriageThe journey of confession and the importance of transparencyEmotional wounds and their influence on behaviorThe role of accountability and seeking help in recoveryThe process of healing from betrayal and angerThe significance of communication in rebuilding trustThe impact of struggles on family dynamics and relationshipsThe transformative power of vulnerability and honestyThe development of a new ministry to support others facing similar challengesEncouragement for others to pursue healing and restoration in their relationshipsMore Resources:
Savage Marriage* by Phil and Priscilla FretwellSavage Marriage PodcastGateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for menWives Care Online GroupsRelated Podcasts:
The Journey to Stay (with Steve & Lisa Goldberg)Out of the Dust: One Couple's Story of Radical Redemption4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, I welcome Sam Jolman, a therapist, author, and father, to discuss his book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality." Sam shares his journey into counseling, emphasizing the importance of meaningful conversations about sexuality.
We explore the impact of shame and purity culture, and the distinction between normal arousal and lust. Sam highlights the need for competent counseling and open dialogue to foster a healthier understanding of men's sexual formation. This episode is a heartfelt call to reclaim the beauty and complexity of human sexuality as God designed it.
To learn more about Sam and the book, visit SamJolman.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Importance of open conversations about sexualityPersonal experiences and backstory of the speaker as a therapist and fatherThe role of competent counseling in addressing sexual issuesImpact of shame and purity culture on men's understanding of sexualityDistinction between normal arousal and lustConcept of the "wow response" to beauty and attractionNature of sexuality as a means for emotional and relational connectionInfluence of generational patterns of shame on sexual educationGuidance for parents on discussing sexuality with childrenEncouragement for ongoing dialogue about sexuality rather than a single conversationMore Resources:
The Sex Talk You Never Got* by Sam JolmanGateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for menOur Bodies Tell God's Story* by Christopher WestRelated Podcasts:
Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused CultureGod's Design for Emotional Growth and SexualityWhat is Sexual Discipleship?*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, I welcome back Lyschel Burket, an expert in helping women heal from betrayal trauma, especially in marriages affected by infidelity. Lyschel shares her personal journey and emphasizes the importance of community, safety, and communication in the healing process.
We discuss the unique emotional challenges women face after betrayal and the critical role of support and understanding from both partners and their community. Lyschel also highlights the spiritual aspect of healing, stressing how Christ provides hope and safety during suffering and grief. It’s a heartfelt conversation aimed at offering solace and guidance to those traveling this difficult path.
To learn more about Lyschel and her resources for wives, visit HopeRedefined.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Healing journey of women experiencing betrayal trauma, particularly in marriages.Importance of community support and connection during the healing process.Emotional challenges faced by women after discovering betrayal.Need for safety and stabilization as foundational aspects of healing.Communication between partners to rebuild trust and understanding.Unique experiences of betrayal and the necessity for empathy from partners.Role of the betraying partner in supporting the healing process.Impact of trauma on the grieving process and emotional responses.Self-care practices and accountability for betrayed partners.Spiritual aspect of healing and finding hope through faith.More Resources:
Hope for Wives Podcast40 Days of Healing for Wives online courseHope Redefined Online CommunityRelated Podcasts:
Sexual Betrayal and Spiritual BattleThe Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingForgiveness and Grief in Betrayal Trauma Healing----------
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In this episode, we invite back Dr. Jennifer Degler, a clinical psychologist and marriage expert, to talk about making sex pleasurable and fun again, especially for couples dealing with betrayal or brokenness.
Dr. Degler shares her insights on the importance of pleasure within God's design for sex and offers practical steps for re-engaging with intimacy after betrayal. We discuss the necessity of communication, mindfulness, and sensory exploration to rebuild trust and enjoyment in sexual relationships. Jennifer’s tips and insightful anecdotes provide a refreshing perspective on rekindling passion and connection in marriage.
To learn more about Dr. Degler and her resources, visit JenniferDegler.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Importance of pleasure in sexual relationships within a Christian context.Challenges couples face in reconnecting after betrayal or brokenness.Practical steps for re-engaging with intimacy and pleasure.Role of communication in rebuilding trust and intimacy.Mindfulness techniques to enhance sensory experiences during intimacy.Non-sexual physical affection as a foundation for intimacy.Engaging the five senses to deepen connection and pleasure.Strategies for managing intrusive thoughts during intimate moments.Incorporating spirituality and prayer into the healing process.Encouragement for couples to persevere in their journey toward intimacy and fulfillment.More Resources:
CWIVESFree resources for building healthy marriagesFind a CounselorRelated Podcasts:
What Men Need to Know About Female SexualityUnderstanding Your Flipped Out BrainThe Journey to Stay----------
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In this episode, I’m so excited to chat with Gigi Hopkins, our Wives Care Director, and Andrea Stunz, our Marketing Manager and Wives Care Aftercare Coordinator, about our new online resource, "40 Days of Healing for Wives." This course is crafted to support women dealing with the pain of betrayal in their marriages, especially sexual betrayal.
We dive into the course's development, its structure, and the importance of pacing and journaling. Gigi and Andrea share heartfelt insights on fostering healing, the power of community support, and how faith plays a crucial role in the healing journey for wives.
To learn more and enroll in the course, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Development of the "40 Days of Healing for Wives" courseImportance of healing for wives dealing with betrayal, especially sexual betrayalStructure and key elements of the course, including pacing and journalingRole of community support in the healing processEmotional regulation and handling triggers during healingIncorporation of faith in the healing journeyPersonal growth and transformation through painGoals and aspirations for participants in the courseEncouragement and hope for women navigating betrayalResources and support available for participants beyond the courseMore Resources:
Free Basics Webinar for WivesWives Care GroupsPersonal Consultation for WivesRelated Podcasts:
Self-Care and Rest for Wives Healing from Betrayal TraumaThe Need for Boundaries After BetrayalLiminal Space: Helping Wives Transition from Betrayal to Hope----------
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In this episode, we dive into the emotional struggles men face, especially those recovering from addiction. We explore the concept of "Mr. Unemotional," describing men who find it hard to express their feelings due to past experiences or societal pressures.
Stephen Cervantes and I discuss the importance of emotional growth alongside behavioral recovery. We share insights on how men can better understand and articulate their emotions, emphasizing the need for openness and support from partners and friends. The episode highlights the journey toward emotional maturity, encouraging men to embrace change for deeper, more fulfilling relationships.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Emotional health and its significance in addiction recovery for men.The concept of "Mr. Unemotional" and its implications for men's emotional development.The disconnect between behavioral recovery and emotional growth.The impact of childhood emotional training on adult emotional expression.The importance of recognizing and acknowledging one's emotional state.Tools and strategies for improving emotional awareness, such as the "feelings wheel."The role of openness and willingness to learn in emotional growth.Challenges in navigating emotional conversations and the tendency to shut down.The need for comfort and connection in relationships, particularly during emotional expressions.The journey toward emotional maturity and the potential for personal and relational transformation.More Resources:
Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive40 Days of Training for Your SoulEmotional Training for Men Webinar SeriesRelated Podcasts:
Men's Emotional Self-Awareness TestBreaking Down Barriers: The Art of Active ListeningA 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth----------
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In this episode, I have back on the program our delightful friend and colleague Dr. Joy Skarka to talk about her new book, "Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy," co-authored with Dr. Juli Slattery. Joy shares her personal journey and the mission of Authentic Intimacy, a ministry dedicated to helping individuals reclaim God's design for sexuality.
We discuss the unique challenges women face with pornography, the importance of understanding God's unconditional love, and the journey toward sexual integrity – which emphasizes the power of truth, engaging community, and sharing one's story to overcome shame and find lifelong healing.
For more info about Joy, the book, and the ministry, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Discussion of the book "Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy."Exploration of the challenges women face regarding pornography.The role of the Authentic Intimacy ministry in addressing issues of sexuality and intimacy.Personal stories of healing from shame, addiction, and abuse.The importance of understanding God's love and sexual integrity.The concept of sexual integrity and its integration with spiritual identity.The journey of healing as a continuous process rather than a destination.The impact of shame and identity on women's struggles with pornography.Practical tools for combating lies and embracing truth through scripture.Encouragement to share personal stories as a means of healing and breaking free from shame.More Resources:
Her Freedom Journey* by Dr. Joy Skarka and Dr. Juli SlatteryHer Freedom Journey online book studySheRecovery.comRelated Podcasts:
Freedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and AbuseNew Research on Why Women View PornGod's Grace for Women Struggling with Porn and Sexual Shame*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, I chat with three amazing leaders from Prodigals International: Steve Dulaney, president of Prodigals, Sam Louie, a licensed mental health counselor, and Fausto Estrada, one of their group leaders. Steve shares how Prodigals International began as a faith-based support group for men struggling with sexual addiction and intimacy disorders, emphasizing the importance of community and accountability. Sam opens up about his journey from addiction to recovery, influenced by his background as an Asian immigrant. He highlights how group therapy and supportive mentors transformed his life. Fausto shares his recovery story and how it has culminated in him now leading a Spanish language support group for Prodigals.
Together, we explore the power of faith, personal stories, and cultural context in overcoming addiction and fostering recovery. I trust this conversation will inspire you in your own journey of pursuing greater integrity.
To learn more about Prodigals International, please visit ProdigalsInternational.org.
Topics Covered in Episode:
Background and mission of Prodigals InternationalPrograms aimed at helping men with sexual addiction and intimacy disordersPersonal stories of recovery from addictionCultural influences on addiction and recovery experiencesThe role of community and accountability in overcoming addictionThe importance of mentorship in the recovery processChallenges faced during the journey of recoveryThe impact of faith in the healing processDevelopment of resources for Spanish-speaking individuals in recoveryThe significance of sharing personal stories to inspire hope in othersMore Resources:
Passport to Shame* by Sam LouieProdigals in Espanol (Spanish language group for men)Online Homecoming GroupRelated Podcasts:
About Recovery and Asian Culture ShameOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True IdentityHelping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally Fit*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, I chat with Mike Novotny, pastor, speaker, and author of "Taboo: Topics Christians Should Be Talking About But Don't." We dive into sensitive subjects like anxiety, depression, addiction, and especially sexuality within the Christian community.
Mike shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography addiction and stresses the importance of open discussions in the church. We explore God's design for sex, emphasizing that understanding and obeying biblical truths can lead to healing and transformation. Mike encourages listeners to seek grace, find trustworthy confidants, and take steps toward wholeness in Christ.
To learn more about Mike, his book, and other gospel resources, visit TimeofGrace.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Discussion of taboo topics within the Christian communityPersonal experiences with anxiety, depression, and addictionThe importance of open conversations about sexualityOvercoming struggles with pornography and the role of confessionUnderstanding God's design for sex and its significanceThe necessity of obedience to biblical truths for transformationThe impact of societal views on sexual intimacy within marriageThe metaphor of sex as a fire, emphasizing boundaries and self-controlThe role of grace in addressing sexual sin and personal strugglesEncouragement to seek support and build connections within the communityMore Resources:
Taboo: Topics Christians Should Be Talking About But Don't*Help for MenHelp for FamiliesRelated Podcasts:
Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol TanksleyMasturbation, Emotional Health, and Abundant LivingGod's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, I welcome Sarah Siegand to the program, co-founder of Parents Who Fight and an expert in helping parents navigate technology's impact on children. We dive into the importance of modeling healthy tech habits, delaying access to devices, and educating parents about online safety. Sarah shares her personal journey, emphasizing the need for intentionality in family tech use.
We discuss the five phases of tech training:
ModelingDelayingProtectingMonitoringReleasingSarah provides practical tips and insights, aiming to empower parents to create a safe and balanced digital environment for their kids. It's a thoughtful conversation filled with valuable advice for modern parenting.
To learn more about Sarah and the resources she offers, visit ParentsWhoFight.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Challenges parents face regarding technology's impact on childrenImportance of modeling healthy technology habitsDelaying access to devices and social media for childrenEducating parents about online safety and potential dangersThe role of intentionality in family engagement with technologyFramework for tech training for parents: modeling, delaying, protecting, monitoring, and releasingStrategies for creating a safe digital environment at homeThe significance of open communication and trust between parents and childrenBalancing protection with the need for children to learn responsibilityResources and support available for parents navigating technology issuesMore Resources:
PWF Tech ToolsFree Webinar for Parents: Critical ConversationsCreating a Tech-Healthy Family* by Andrea DavisRelated Podcasts:
Better Screen Time for You and Your FamilyBrain Defense Digital Safety for KidsKeeping Kids Safe in a Digital World*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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In this episode, Joel Warneking shares his profound journey through addiction and recovery. Joel is the director of 423 Communities, a ministry that is radically committed to helping others overcome all forms of unhealthy sexuality, restoring healthy sexuality and intimacy with others through, confessional, recovery communities.
Joel opens up about his own history of pornography addiction and the isolating shame that came with it. He highlights how group work was crucial in his healing process, emphasizing the importance of community, grace, and accountability. We explore the essentials of a supportive group environment, the balance between grace and structure, and the need for action in recovery. Joel’s story and insights remind us that recovery thrives in the context of supportive relationships.
To learn more about Joel and his ministry’s resources, visit 423Communities.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Importance of group work in recovery from addictionPersonal experiences with addiction, particularly pornographyImpact of isolation and shame on individuals in recoveryRole of community and grace in the healing processEssentials of creating a supportive group environmentBalancing grace and accountability in recoveryDynamics of group therapy and mutual supportUnderstanding recovery as a journey beyond mere sobrietyConcept of "paying it forward" in recoveryBroader applicability of recovery principles for personal growth and transformationMore Resources:
Join a 423 Communities groupGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenGrace-Based Transformation*Related Podcasts:
How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission? A 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional GrowthMen Helping Men Grow and Mature*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
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