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Welcome to Episode 100 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with psychologist Dr. Todd Bowman as we explore bipolar mood disorder.
Dr. Bowman is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He is an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. He also is an evaluating psychologist for assessing seminary applicants for seminaries.
Our conversation takes us into the following:
* The difference between a personality disorder and a mood disorder.
* How mood disorders are related to depressive disorders.
* How lifestyle changes (eating, sleeping, exercise…) can be as effective as antidepressants.
* What an emotional hangover is.
* How mood disorders have a strong underpinning of genetic predisposition.
* Diagnosable features of bipolar mood disorder.
* How some people with exhausted dopamine circuits have been misdiagnosed as bipolar.
* How to engage people who present with bipolar mood disorder.
* How bipolar mood disorder is often leveraged for inappropriately excusing behavior.
* How free will is about initial choices in a deep process, not just the powerless moments of an overwhelmed system.
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Welcome to Episode 99 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with psychologist Dr. Todd Bowman as we continue to catch up and talk about an uptick in client issues.
Dr. Bowman is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He is an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. He also is an evaluating psychologist for assessing seminary applicants for seminaries.
Our conversation takes us into the following:
* The difference between a personality disorder and a mood disorder.
* Whether personality disorders are biological/genetic or spawned from interpersonal wounds.
* What Borderline Personality Disorder is and many of the features it presents.
* How childhood traumatic experiences in our stories generate personality disorders.
* How the greatest influence to forming our personalities are probably interpersonal negligence and trauma, rather than genetics.
* What happens in the womb in prenatal formations of a baby’s brain.
* Patrick’s childhood story of growing up with a mom with diagnosable Borderline Personality Disorder.
* How difficult it is for people with personality disorders to have capacity for self-reflection and self-awareness.
* How we will begin to feel something is “off” in our own bodies when interacting with people with personality disorders.
* Why self-differentiation and boundaries are key to staying engaged with people with personality disorders.
* Therapies that a person with Borderline Personality Disorder can do to move to health and flourishing.
* How to functionally lead people who show markers of Borderline Personality Disorder.
Recommended book: Stop Walking on Eggshells – Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder (Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger)
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Welcome to Episode 98 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with psychologist Dr. Todd Bowman as we catch up and talk about an uptick in client issues.
Dr. Bowman is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He is an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. He also is an evaluating psychologist for assessing seminary applicants for seminaries.
Our conversation takes us into the following:
* How the pandemic has created increased disruptions of flow.
* What we can do to turn off the negativity and disruptions.
* The importance of being curious rather than judgmental.
* The impact of pandemic, political, and racial unrest issues.
* Common issues that are showing up in marriage, parenting, and overall well-being.
* Cognitive/rational issues that are increasing.
* Affective/emotional issues that are increasing.
* Biological/physical issues that are increasing.
* What is happening to our kids, families, and churches from experiences during the pandemic.
* The culture’s avoidance of naming things “trauma”.
* How grief, anxiety, and anger has taken a toll on life.
* Dopamine experiences of pleasure and pain in opponent process theory.
* Post orgasmic experiences in marriages where sex is not bonding.
* How interpersonal bonding helps resolve dopamine drops.
* Common solutions and treatments given to clients for management.
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Welcome to Episode 97 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode Patrick is continuing with one of the most important factors for successful leaders, self-differentiation. The past 5 episodes have focused on these concepts, starting with episode 92 (The Leader’s Kryptonite: Emotional Fusion Versus Differentiation) giving the context for the series. If you have wondered why you can’t seem to get the ‘wins’ you work so hard for, even after training with conferences, consultants, books, podcasts, and mentors, this episode series is for you!
Today’s episode takes us into the following:
* How anxiety drives the good, the bad, and the ugly in every relationship and system.
* A Biblical perspective of anxiety as a driver of both functional and dysfunctional behavior.
* Review of self-differentiation and giving context to leadership challenges.
* How to stay steady after you stand up and how to hold onto who you really are, even with intense reactivity from the group or system.
* How holding onto yourself involves four basic activities.
* The importance of prioritizing growth over perfection and flawlessness.
* The power of loving yourself with radical acceptance, even though others are judging you.
* How to avoid a conflict of wills through vulnerability of showing up, without needing to change anyone else.
* Using breathing and physical techniques to calm the nervous system.
* Practicing reframing painful moments through awareness and story exercises.
* Zooming out and externalizing to be able to give reactive relationships the compassion you desire.
* The purpose and power of boundaries, giving consequences to be your best self, not to control others.
* Learning to evaluate past painful moments by engaging a crash site analysis.
* The practice of healthy, appropriate grieving when losses happen, to prepare our hearts for the next time we encounter intense reactivity.
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Welcome to Episode 96 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode Patrick is continuing with one of the most important factors for successful leaders, self-differentiation. The past 4 episodes have focused on these concepts, starting with episode 92 (The Leader’s Kryptonite: Emotional Fusion Versus Differentiation) giving the context for the series. If you have wondered why you can’t seem to get the ‘wins’ you work so hard for, even after training with conferences, consultants, books, podcasts, and mentors, this episode series is for you!
Today’s episode takes us into the following:
* Review of self-differentiation and giving context to leadership challenges.
* Identifying overt/conscious and covert/unconscious anxieties in teammates and organizations.
* A short review of the 3 components to mature in self-definition or identity: A-R-T.
* How standing up and showing up really is having both individuation and connection.
* The rewards of standing up with who we really are versus the costs of not standing up with who we really are.
* The fears that keep us stuck in hiddenness.
* Standing up with assertiveness versus aggressiveness.
* Scripture references for standing up with individuation and connection.
* Exploration of how to stand up when it is uncomfortable.
* What courage is and how to engage it.
* How to prepare for an interaction that requires you to stand up.
* How skills are to help manage our own anxieties, not control the other’s.
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Welcome to Episode 95 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode Patrick is continuing with one of the most important factors for successful leaders, self-differentiation. The past 3 episodes have focused on these concepts, starting with episode 92 (The Leader’s Kryptonite: Emotional Fusion Versus Differentiation) giving the context for the series. If you have wondered why you can’t seem to get the ‘wins’ you work so hard for, even after training with conferences, consultants, books, podcasts, and mentors, this episode series is for you!
Episode 95 takes us into the following:
* Review of self-differentiation and giving context to leadership challenges.
* Continued exploration of the 3 components to mature in self-definition or identity: A-R-T.
* Review of awareness and responsibility (AR of ART) as the first two components of self-definition or identity.
* Revealing the third component of self-definition or identity: truth.
* How truth is about honoring your own values, perspectives, opinions, convictions, interpretations, beliefs, desires, and goals.
* How identity is the ability to know and commit to what you believe is true, not being closed to opposing ideas, or being inflexible.
* How identity is about the right to define yourself, define your own thoughts and beliefs, and to clarify what it means to be yourself.
* How identity empowers you to know what you think is important, what is valuable, and what you believe to be moral and true.
* How you come to know what is true: objectivity versus subjectivity.
* Exploration of free moral agency as God’s gift to choose what you believe is true.
* How emotions and feelings are beneficial gifts to serve your awareness, but how they are unreliable sources to anchor you in truth.
* The benefit of Scripture as an authoritative source for truth.
* How Biblical identity is not your unwilling acceptance of God’s forced enmeshment, but your willing acceptance in pursuit of truth.
* Biblical texts to reinforce ideas and benefits of truth around emotional states.
* Exercises to build your truth-muscles and instincts.
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Welcome to Episode #94 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode Patrick is continuing with one of the most important factors for successful leaders: differentiation. Self-differentiation is a human flourishing code cracker. If you have wondered why you can’t seem to get the ‘wins’ you work so hard for, even after training with conferences, consultants, books, podcasts, and mentors, this episode is for you!
This episode takes us into the following:
* Review of Dr. Murray Bowen’s Systems Theory.
* Sharing of quotes from Pastor Steve Cuss’s work about Systems Theory from his book, Managing Leadership Anxiety: Yours and Theirs.
* Discussion regarding the distinctions between enmeshment/fusion, detachment/distance and self-differentiation.
* Continued exploration of the 5 components to mature in self-differentiation: A-R-T-S-Y.
* Exploration of the ART (awareness, responsibility, and truth) of self-definition and emotional identity.
* Biblical texts to reinforce ideas of intentional responsibility around emotional states.
* How self-awareness is a critical component of identity, but without responsibility it makes a person entitled, self-absorbed, and toxic.
* How God is looking for growth and maturity, rather than flawlessness and perfectionism.
* How self-definition comes from within, not by being adaptive to other’s desires, emotions, and projections.
* Examination of pro-depressive circuits and empowerment (dopamine) circuits from Dr. Andrew Huberman’s work, a neuroscientist from Stanford University.
* Great exercises to build the responsibility muscles and instincts.
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Welcome to Episode #93 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode Patrick is continuing with one of the most important factors for successful leaders, differentiation. Self-differentiation is a human flourishing code cracker. If you have wondered why you can’t seem to get the ‘wins’ you work so hard for, even after training with conferences, consultants, books, podcasts, and mentors, this episode is for you!
This episode takes us into the following:
* We review Dr. Murray Bowen’s Family Systems Theory applied to restoring families.
* We share how Edwin Friedman’s famous book, A Failure of Nerve, takes Family Systems Theory and applies it to organizations, leaders, and organizational flourishing.
* We show the Biblical foundations of identity and self-differentiation.
* We begin looking at 5 components to mature in self-differentiation: A-R-T-S-Y.
* We see how our identity is matured by awareness, responsibility, and transparent truth.
* We learn how our identity was originally formed through interpersonal neurobiological interactions with our family of origin.
* We look at how to grow in self-awareness.
* We discuss the 3 R’s of practicing awareness: 1) Recalling grievance memories, 2) Reflecting on event feelings, and 3) Recognizing associated narratives and meanings.
* We present the “Feelings Wheel” as a tool to discover various feeling states.
* We walk through how an event turns into an emotional experience, then a looping narrative script, then an emotional meaning around our self.
* We see how disputing false interpretations gives new meaning and relieves anxiety.
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Welcome to Episode #92 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode Patrick shares one of the most important factors for successful leaders: differentiation. Self-differentiation is a leadership code cracker. If you have wondered why you can’t seem to get the ‘wins’ you work so hard for, even after training with conferences, consultants, books, podcasts, and mentors, this episode is for you!
This episode takes us into the following:
* The underlying reason why leaders feel stressed, burned out, and ready to quit.
* Dr. Murray Bowen’s Family Systems Theory.
* Defining self-differentiation from Family Systems Theory and applying it to everyday scenarios.
* How relational systems often drive us and pressure us to conform.
* What leading experts say about the power of differentiation from marriage, parenting, medical, addiction recovery, and pastoral leadership perspectives.
* Patrick’s story of suffering as a leader and what the clarifying insights have meant to his own leadership.
* Questions that help us reflect and determine our maturity in self-differentiation.
* How the more mature we are at self-differentiation the less anxiety we lead with.
* How anxiety in relational/leadership systems leads to weakened trust and weakened team connections.
* Biblical references around self-differentiation.
* Contrasting enmeshment/fusion to self-differentiation.
* Setting the stage for upcoming episodes dealing with maturing and developing skills for healthier, less anxious differentiation.
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Welcome to Episode #91 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with pastor, corporate coach, and student development entrepreneur Tom Toney, as we talk through his revolutionary vision to impact children as next generation leaders.
Tom is a Lead Pastor and a Leadership/Organizational Development Trainer. He is the founder of Current Family, a non-profit dedicated to empowering students and families with resources for personal growth and development. He is the creator of KUEST Student Leadership Development Systems, which over the past 20+ years has been used by organizations, schools around the nation, and churches to empower young students in growing their character, self-expectation, and leadership. Tom is a coach to corporate, non-profit, and educational leaders helping them develop strategies for success through the CAB University Leadership and Team Development, a model he created. He is an author, speaker, and DISC certified leadership coach. Today one of his core passions is to train influencers, teachers, and parents to empower children in public schools, homeschools, and church kid ministries.
Our conversation takes us into the following:
* Tom’s story of faith.
* Why he has a core passion to reach, mentor, and develop children into leaders.
* How KUEST is a revolutionary organization that transforms children into leaders.
* The five primary values that are key to developing children.
* How the KUEST program and principles have been invited into public schools and impacted children through the power of personal story.
* What therapeutic processes are being offered to teachers for understanding a kid’s attachment injury.
* Helping children in class to be multidimensional humans by understanding they are carrying relational injuries from home.
* How academics are the number one priority for schools, but for children, survival is first, belonging is second, and academics are third.
* How our present academic systems promote distress denial and hiding emotional pains behind intellect and knowledge.
* What KUEST is doing to develop church Children’s Pastors to fill churches around the world through online training.
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KUEST WEBSITE (Student Ministry Related): https://www.kuest.org
TOM TONEY WEBSITE (Corporate Related): https://www.tomtoney.com
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Welcome to Episode #90 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with theologian, pastor, seminary president, Dr. Terry Wardle, as we talk through how leadership dysfunction is a symptom of emotional disruption.
Dr. Wardle has served as a Church Planter, Seminary President, Professor, Author, and International Speaker. Today he directs the Institute of Formational Counseling, Healing Care Ministries, and Healing Care Ministries International. During his own season of deep brokenness while leading a great Christian organization, Dr. Wardle met Christ as he never had before. Dr. Wardle leverages this transformational encounter to see similar transformations in thousands of leaders worldwide.
Our conversation takes us into the following:
Terry’s faith story from meteoric rise in ministry to sitting in an inpatient psychiatric institution.
How his spiritual giftings hid all the pain of an unresolved past.
Amazing successes to immediate deep depression and agoraphobia (irrational fear and panic of being in crowds).
How professional competencies do not indicate a person’s health.
At 5 years of age Terry watched his grandfather die less than three feet away from him. The next year he woke up next to his grandmother who had died in her sleep.
Anger and achievement give the illusion it can still the storm of fear.
Neurobiologically when we are wounded, we are wounded episodically; therefore we must be healed episodically.
Why simply reading or memorizing Scripture often fails to change us.
Sometimes we use “spiritual pain killers” in hopes of escaping the pain.
How dysfunctional behavior is a symptom of emotional disruption.
What is true is conceptual. What is real is episodic. How these differences give huge insights.
Shame is the basic sense that I don’t measure up.
An effective ministry demands we have an authentic life.
Identity is not about competency but having a clear self-definition.
Identity is not what makes you unique. Identity is the foundation on which uniqueness rests.
Workaholism in ministry is not a matter of theology; it’s a matter of pathology.
It’s not achievement that changes a life; it’s awakening that changes a life.
Dysfunctional patterns come from loss, lies, and wounds.
How to know you have grieved losses appropriately and sufficiently.
The language of emotion is uncensored. The language of cognition is sterilized and guarded.
The importance of lamenting and imprecatory Psalms for healing and transformation.
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TERRY WARDLE WEBSITE: www.healingcare.orgEMAIL: [email protected]
PODCAST - SLINGSTONES: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/slingstones-podcast/id1165272071
IG: https://www.instagram.com/terrywardle_healingcare/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/TerryWardleHCM
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Welcome to Episode #89 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s episode is a message by Patrick from a series called Activation.
Jesus and the first century leaders spoke often of the transformational power of Activation. What does that mean? When a person simply takes wholistic action upon God’s Word and promises with trust, emotion, and expectancy, a supernatural reaction takes place that leaves the person changed. For many Christians there is a wait and see relationship with God’s promises. But when we choose, rearrange our lives, surrender our hearts and souls, and act upon God’s Word, it will take us from a dead, theoretic religion into a vibrant, energized relationship. The Activation series will help you grasp the vast differences between just reading the Bible as an academic book versus implementing the nuances as a world-changing child of God.
This episode takes us into the following:
* The Bible was never intended to be an empty caricature of God.
* The Word of God is filled with God’s nature, substance, wisdom, and power.
* The Word of God is to change every sphere of life.
* God intends that His Word will bring radical transformation in a human life.
* God never speaks of humans becoming flawless but rather maturing in transformation.
* Surrender refers to activations of faith in God’s Word.
* Emotional regulation and satisfaction towards happiness has to do with the state of your heart.
* Pride is lacking tenderness in surrender to God’s thoughts, ways, and standards.
* When obedience costs you something it is experienced by God as worship.
* The stages of surrender: watching, considering, repenting, reorganizing.
* If you don’t like your life, check your surrender.
* Patrick’s story of a lifetime of surrender experiences.
* Inner newness of life doesn’t happen in memorizing a new Scripture; it happens in surrenders given in each stage of life.
* Great faith to speak to mountains requires a growth-pattern of great surrender even in the smallest areas of life.
* Identifying the fears that prevent you from surrendering to all of God’s ways.
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Welcome to Episode #88 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with theologian, philosopher, and apologist Dr. Stan Wallace.
Dr. Wallace is the President and CEO of Global Scholars, an organization that equips Christian professors to serve Christ in secular universities worldwide. He has nearly 200 articles published in professional and ministry journals on engaging the mind and culture. He is co-host of the Thinking Christianly podcast with philosopher and theologian J.P. Moreland, a must listen for everyone desiring to have a “thinking” faith. He is also host of the College Faith podcast which explores the intersection of Christian conviction and higher education.
Our conversation takes us into the following:
* Stan’s story of faith in Christ from New Age to atheism to a meaningful faith in Christ.
* Reflecting on spiritual mentorship and interactions with philosophers Dr. Dallas Willard and Dr. J.P. Moreland.
* Stan’s passion and calling to scholars and professors in secular universities.
* Navigating the secular culture and hot topics while holding faith and evangelism.
* What Global Scholars is and how Stan leads the organization.
* The special podcasts Stan hosts: College Faith and Thinking Christianly.
* Stan’s amazing reflections of a famous open debate he hosted between Christian Dr. William Lane Craig and atheist Antony Flew.
* Clarifying and defining the soul, heart, spirit, and mind, both theologically and philosophically.
* How understanding the soul impacts the way we feel, connect, and experience life.
* How to appropriately metabolize theological and philosophical ideas that Aristotle and Plato propagated.
* The important differences between the mind and the brain.
* How the different parts of the brain and their functions interact with the immaterial soul.
* Where the new birth (salvation) takes place within the soul.
* A definition and understanding of what it means to become like Christ in our soul’s capacities.
* What the heart is, and how it is the energy source for healthy and unhealthy behavior.
* How religious presuppositions can hinder transformation and the process of sanctification.
* What therapy does in wholistic soulish alignment to help a person live out transformation.
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STAN WALLACE WEBSITE: https://www.stanwallace.orgGLOBAL SCHOLARS WEBSITE: https://www.global-scholars.org
COLLEGE FAITH WEBSITE AND PODCAST: https://www.collegefaith.net
THINKING CHRISTIANLY WEBSITE AND PODCAST: https://www.thinkingchristianly.org
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Welcome to Episode #87 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Pastor Chris Hodges of Church of the Highlands in Birmingham, Alabama. We talk through Chris’ two episodes of depression and how he came out of his caves.
Pastor Chris Hodges is the founding and senior pastor of Church of the Highlands. Since it began in 2001, it has grown to have 20 satellite campuses across the state of Alabama, with over 60,000 members. Pastor Chris has a deep passion for developing leaders and planting life-giving churches. He co-founded Association of Related Churches (ARC) in 2001, which has launched hundreds of churches across the United States. He also founded Grow, specializing in training and resourcing pastors and churches to help them break barriers and reach their growth potential. Pastor Chris is also the founder and Chancellor of Highlands College, a ministry training school that trains and launches students into full-time ministry careers.
Pastor Chris speaks at conferences worldwide and is a New York Times Bestselling Author, the latest being our topic today, Out of the Cave: Stepping into the Light When Depression Darkens What You See. He is married to Tammy, and together they have five children.
Our podcast conversation takes us into the following:
* Why Pastor Chris wrote Out of the Cave.
* His battle with two significant episodes of depression.
* Why pastors often struggle with anxiety and depression.
* The necessity of regularly honoring the sabbath.
* What the story of Elijah tells us about recovery.
* The importance of resting and eating when emotions are extreme.
* How a God encounter can change our perspective.
* Addressing the stories we tell ourselves.
* A life-giving vision is key to hotwire us out of emotional distress.
* What Viktor Frankl learned in Lego therapy to help Holocaust victims.
* The importance of a circle of friends to hold you in times of struggle.
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WEBSITE: https://www.churchofthehighlands.com/
FB CHURCH: https://www.facebook.com/highlands
IG: @pastorchrishodges
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Welcome to Episode #86 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with leadership and organizational development coach Philip Engle, as we talk through how to develop your organization and those you lead.
Philip is a senior coach for FOCUS 412, an organization that partners with churches to help them grow both numerically and in health. He has been actively leading in the church for the last 13 years, including being as a campus pastor at Elevation Church in Charlotte, North Carolina, and roles at Passion City Church in Atlanta, Georgia. In Philip’s time at Elevation, he met and led with Phil Klein, a Harvard Business School graduate and C-Suite Executive at Time Warner and AT&T. When Phil launched FOCUS 412, Philip was immediately made a senior coach.
Our podcast conversation takes us into the following:
* Philip’s story of faith and career moves that led him to FOCUS 412.
* What he learned from leading at Elevation and Passion City.
* The power of creating team and organizational culture.
* Holding teammates “accountable for” is about loving them well in their pursuit of growth.
* Emotional anxieties that prevent leaders from speaking accountability into teammates.
* The differences between being goal oriented and relationship oriented.
* How leading with an open hand generates loyalty.
* The difference between content leaders and relational leaders.
* How great leaders must grow in both competency and emotional wholeness.
* How culture must have specific organizational “sounds”.
* How leadership principles are the same for both organizations and families.
* How clarity brings organizational and team security, and a lack of clarity brings anxiety.
* The importance of fighting for organizational simplicity, as we are always tempted towards complexity.
* Why church leadership structures and systems are Biblical Christianity, rather than secular corporate ideologies.
* How corporate principles go off rails when the organization’s relationships are not led with healthy, emotional intelligence.
* How leadership pipelines work and why they are so important for future growth.
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Welcome to Episode #85 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with psychologist Dr. Todd Bowman and therapist Rick Presley as we talk through how to deal with difficult people.
Dr. Bowman is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University, an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary, an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College, and an evaluating psychologist for assessing seminary applicants for seminaries.
Rick Presley is a licensed marriage and family therapist. His expertise and certifications include being a sexual addiction professional, EMDR provider, and partner betrayal clinician. He is an experienced treatment provider in grief, loss, and trauma recovery.
Our conversation takes us into the following:
* The “difficult people characteristics” that therapists and pastors experience.
* How our bodies signal us of other people’s personality disorders.
* How to handle people taking advantage of our empathy.
* The difference between a person that presents as a “jerk” and one with a personality disorder.
* The importance of not weaponizing against others by transposing disorder-labels on them.
* The power of self-awareness and self-reflection.
* What narcissistic personality disorder is and how it is different from narcissistic tendencies.
* How to work with someone who is on the narcissistic continuum.
* How borderline personality disorders show up and ways to handle them.
* When we question whether we also present personality fractures or disorders.
* The reality of living in a modern culture that is bifurcated in extremes.
* The necessity of differentiation and boundaries.
* The complexity of multiple relationships, such as being someone’s pastor, boss, and counselor.
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Welcome to Episode #84 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Juli Slattery.
Dr. Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker, and the president/co-founder of Authentic Intimacy. She earned her college degree at Wheaton College, an MA in psychology from Biola University, and an MS and a Doctorate degree in Clinical Psychology from Florida Institute of Technology. Dr. Slattery served at Focus on the Family writing, teaching, and co-hosting the Focus on the Family Broadcast. She left Focus on the Family to start Authentic Intimacy, a ministry devoted to reclaiming God’s design for sexuality. Dr. Slattery launched SexualDiscipleship.com, a platform designed to help Christian leaders navigate sexual issues and questions with gospel-centered truth. She is the author of ten books and host of the weekly podcast “Java with Juli.” Juli and her husband Mike are the parents of 3 sons; they live in Akron, Ohio.
Our conversation takes us to…
* How Juli came to faith in Christ.
* Why she became a clinical psychologist.
* Her heart to redeem God’s design for sexuality.
* Managing conversations around gender, sexuality, pronouns, orientations, and identities.
* What the purpose of sex actually is.
* How when we get the purpose of sex wrong, we get so many other things wrong as well.
* How sex and sexuality reveal deeper things within our hearts and souls.
* The importance of remaining sex positive while pursuing sexual integrity.
* What sin is and the broader understanding of sin in the context of sexuality.
* Whether LGBTQ+ a “sin” matter, and how to best approach the topic in relationships.
* How to navigate marriages with sexual incongruence.
* Where to find help if there is sexual conflict in marriage.
If you have questions you would like addressed in a future episode, topics you would enjoy hearing, or just want to give us feedback, we would love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected].
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Welcome to Episode #83 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with John Grunewald.
John and his wife Michelle are the founders of Grunewald Ministries, a global missions organization that establishes Bible colleges (280 campuses), trains church planters, grows next generation leaders, and translates Bible teaching books (34 language zones). John has served as church planter, senior pastor, Bible college founder, and pastor to pastors.
Today we talk about how John went from atheist/agnostic to faith in Christ to a global missionary and leader of leaders. Our conversation takes us to:
* How John came to faith in Christ.
* What simple conversations from people sharing their faith can do.
* His struggle with public speaking having an introverted personality.
* John’s first pastoral assignment.
* The difference between a calling and an assignment.
* His story of moving to Germany to start a Bible college.
* The power of relationships in building towards an assignment.
* The importance of emotional health in leading ministries and in all spheres of life.
* Why delegation is so important.
* How leadership is more than dispensing content, it is relational investments towards development.
* Renaming an “organizational chart” to a “discipleship chart.”
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Welcome to Episode #82 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode I will be going solo, sharing a personal point of celebration, the vision of Red Ink Revival, and most of all, how you can engage the value proposition we offer.
Today I share the following:
* How Red Ink Revival exists to create a leadership revival through the heart, soul, and brain of Christian leaders.
* What Red, Ink, and Revival means to us.
* How Red Ink Revival is targeting pastors, church staff, marketplace leaders, and church attenders.
* The transition of my role from senior pastor to full time Red Ink Revival therapeutic coach and CEO.
* The background of Red Ink Revival and why it is my passion.
* Statistics of Pastors in depression, workaholism, addictions, and more.
* The Red Ink Revival Story Model.
* Attachment injury and development.
* Core beliefs and unconscious identity markers.
* Body and emotion management, or affect regulation.
* The Red Ink Platform of pastor roundtables, monthly zooms, weekly process groups, and one-on-one coaching.
* The development of Red Ink University.
* Prophetic words related to Red Ink Revival’s future.
* Opportunities for free 30-minute consultations for pastors and paid church staff.
If you have questions you would like addressed in a future episode, topics you would enjoy hearing, or just want to give us feedback, we would love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected].
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Welcome to Episode #81 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Drew Boa. Drew is the Founder & Head Coach of Husband Material, a therapeutic ministry helping Christian men achieve freedom from porn and heal all kinds of sexual brokenness. Drew has a Master's in Christian Formation from Wheaton College, is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (through the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals), and is author of the book Redeemed Sexuality.
Today we talk about Husband Material: Becoming Sexually Healthy and Happy. Our conversation takes us into the following:
* Drew’s faith story and how he became a recovery coach.
* The most common sexual struggles he witnesses in his clients.
* The typical mapping of why people struggle with sexual drivers.
* Why the “purity culture” gets it wrong.
* How sexual health begins with addressing our attachment wounds.
* The differences between behavior management and healing the root causes.
* How our “fetishes” and preferences reveal our deeper longings for connection.
* The commonalities in working with pre-teens and teens in unwanted sexual drivers.
* What parents can do to parent pre-teens and teens through this cultural flooding.
* How “spiritual bypass” creates more difficulties.
* The better way of measuring freedom from pornography and other unwanted behaviors.
* What pastors and church leaders can do to help men address their sexual issues.
If you have questions you would like addressed in a future episode, topics you would enjoy hearing, or just want to give us feedback, we would love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected].
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