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A Christmas Carol, the classic story by Charles Dickens, has been made into several movies and told in countless ways for generations. However, is it possible that this holiday story of Ebeneezer Scrooge and the ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Yet to Come might have meaning to your own life story?
In this special Christmas episode Dr. Carol talks with best-selling author and columnist Bob Welch about stinginess, innocence, grief, joy, transformation, and other contemporary and meaningful lessons about how to live - and how not to live - not only at Christmas but throughout the year.
See more from Bob Welch on his website, Facebook, or Instagram
Bob Welch's book 52 Little Lessons from A Christmas Carol: Inspirational Reflections for the Advent Season
Bob Welch's other "52 Little Lessons" books from It's A Wonderful Life, and Les Miserables
In your year-end charitable giving, prayerfully consider a gift to ARISE: A Place of Transformation
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Christians have the best answer to the epidemic of loneliness in our culture. As articulated by the US Surgeon General, being disconnected has life-damaging consequences. But too many in the body of Christ are neither experiencing nor offering the kind of friendship Christians are uniquely equipped to provide.
Dr. Carol's guest on this episode is author and podcaster Rebecca McLaughlin who has a PhD in literature from Cambridge University and a theology degree from Oak Hill Theological College in London. She contends that friendship love is not optional for followers of Jesus. She explains why this love is, in New Testament terms, more critical than marriage or romantic love. And she talks about what this can practically look like for you.
Connect with Rebecca McLaughlin on her website, X (Twitter), or Instagram
Find Rebecca's book No Greater Love: A Biblical Vision for Friendship
Check out Dr. Carol's article How to Find Your People When You Need Help
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There's a guaranteed and often overlooked method to elevate your mood, energize your spirit, and bring you a wave of meaning and joy, and that is - wait for it - generosity! And Giving Tuesday is a strong reminder of just how powerful giving can be.
In this Giving Tuesday special, Dr. Carol is joined by John Curtis, professor and senior development specialist, to talk about transformational giving. This is not about organizations asking for money. Instead, this is about the power of generosity to change you!
If you're a church or nonprofit leader, you'll want to check out Mission Increase and their powerful principles of transformational giving.
On Giving Tuesday and in your year-end charitable giving, prayerfully consider an investment in ARISE: A Place of Transformation
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Love sex or hate it, and regardless of your relationship status, you have a sexual story. You might be proud of part of your sexual story. But you may also struggle with shame and guilt about parts of your story. And whether you’re married or unmarried, your sexual story greatly impacts your ability to experience real intimacy with others and with God.
In this talk Dr. Carol gave at the SHE Recovery Summit, she uses personal stories, theological perspectives, and clinical research in sexuality and neuroscience, to address how the unhealed parts of your sexual story prevent the intimacy you need, the process of developing the capacity for healthy intimacy, and what nurturing healthy intimacy–with others and with God, and whether married or single–looks like.
The SHE Recovery Summit included over 40 speakers sharing their expertise, perspectives, and personal stories in helping women and teen girls address their issues around sexuality. You can purchase a pass to watch all the Summit recordings here. And use the promo code DRCAROL to get 10% off.
And check out Dr. Carol's book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good And Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships, or all the other associated resources.
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"Is there anything too hard for the Lord?" The Bible asks that question, and answers it with a clear "No, nothing is impossible with God!" But does that apply to a truly destructive marriage? If your relationship is deeply troubled, you may be asking, "Is there any hope?"
Shayne and Sheila Pitcock would say YES, there is hope! They join Dr. Carol on this episode to share their story. There are buzzwords here; domestic violence, abuse, separation. Healing requires both partners to allow God to do His work, but you'll hear how God can redeem anything when they do so. And now Shayne and Sheila are helping other troubled couples find the same kind of healing.
Check out Shayne and Sheila Pitcock's ministry on their website, or on Facebook.
Check out our online course from Dr. Carol Ministries: Fully Alive Marriage
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Knowing information, even information about God, is important. But so many Christians find information woefully inadequate to fully address the realities of their lives. Our souls long for something more - something of beauty, connection, even love.
In this unique and beautiful conversation Dr. Carol talks with Quina Aragon, author, editor, and spoken word artist, about the love of God - not in the sense of information, but from story - our story, the Bible's story, and God's story. And you'll especially enjoy the poetic reading near the end of this episode.
Connect with Quina Aragon on her website, or on Facebook, Instagram, or YouTube.
Find Quina's book Love Has a Story: 100 Meditations on the Enduring Love of GodWould love to have you join us at our Change(d) Conference 2024: Lasting Transformation Around Intimacy, Sexuality, and Relationships. Learn more and register here.
Check out Dr. Carol's article Genesis to Revelation: The Greatest Love Story Ever
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The US Surgeon General has highlighted the epidemic of loneliness in our culture, and the very negative health implications. Just being around people is helpful but inadequate to satisfy the deep longing for connection God built into every human heart.
In this practical episode Dr. Carol talks with Becky Harling, speaker, podcaster, Bible teacher, and author, about the deeper connections our hearts truly need, and what you can do to proactively nurture those connections. Though it may feel challenging, every one of us can take the initiative to find your people, and you'll be healthier and happier for it.
Connect with Becky Harling on her website, Facebook, X (Twitter), or Instagram
Find Becky's latest book Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely WorldWould love to have you join us at our Change(d) Conference 2024: Lasting Transformation Around Intimacy, Sexuality, and Relationships. Learn more and register here.
Check out Dr. Carol's article How to Find Your People
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The wounds we all experience in life - internally as well as externally - can leave you with permanent scars. As a result you may feel disqualified from experiencing true goodness, from being able to fulfill what you most deeply desire, or from being as useful to God's kingdom as you wish.
Dr. Michelle Bengston, speaker, author, and board-certified clinical neuropsychologist, has experienced lots of scars and helped countless others face their own scars. She talks with Dr. Carol on this episode about how our scars - physical and emotional - serve as the very preparation for what God wants to do both in and through you. Your scars are sacred.
Connect with Dr. Bengston on her website, Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram.
Find Dr. Michelle Bengston's books:
- The Hem of His Garment: Reaching Out to God When Pain Overwhelms
- Sacred Scars: Resting in God's Promise That Your Past Is Not Wasted
Check out my book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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Dr. Carol receives lots of questions about relationships, menopause and married sex, marital rape, struggle with pornography, and more. In today's episode she answers some listener submitted questions on a range of subjects. You won't want to miss this!
Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Navigating Midlife online course
- Article Having the Sex Talk With Your Spouse
- eBook Dr. Carol's Guide to Sex and Menopause
- Article Why You Are Not Entitled to Sex
- Article Where to Start if Your Marriage Lacks Intimacy
- Free download A Prescription for Sexual Healing – God's Way
- Article Why Doesn't God Deliver Me From This Addiction
- Article How God Deals With Repeat Sinners
- Resource Page Relationships Help
- Article The Most Powerful Prayer I Ever Prayed
Check out my book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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Many followers of Jesus might wish God would "zap" them out of their addiction to porn, alcohol, or whatever else. Are they uniquely flawed when they still struggle with their unwanted behavior patterns? Doesn't being "a new creation in Christ" mean things should be resolved?
Troy and Melissa Haas are licensed counselors and lead the HopeQuest family of ministries. They join Dr. Carol on this episode to talk about their own story of painful addiction and betrayal trauma, and about how they are now helping so many individuals and families find not just sobriety but lasting and whole recovery.
Find out more about HopeQuest on their website, Facebook, X(Twitter), or Instagram.
Check out Dr. Carol's article Why Doesn't God Deliver Me From This Addiction?
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Even as followers of Jesus, stuff happens to us. And more than that, stuff happens within us as a result. Your personal dashboard may start showing yellow lights or even flashing red lights, indicating things are not well. It's time to pay attention.
In this very personal and practical episode, experienced counselor, author, pastor, and professor Chuck DeGroat rejoins Dr. Carol to talk about how to address those warning lights, find healing for what's going on inside, and reconnect with oneself, others, and God.
Connect with Chuck DeGroat on his website, Facebook, X (Twitter), or Instagram.
Find Chuck's book Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself—and to God—When You're Wounded, Weary, and Wandering
Check out my previous conversation with Chuck DeGroat - How to Deal With a Narcissist
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The divorce rate for blended families is 70%. But there's another surprising statistic; well over 99% of couples who do this one specific activity stay together - blended or not.
Dr. Carol talks with Scott and Vanessa Martindale of Blended Kingdom Families in this very encouraging episode. Scott shares the one activity that guarantees an over 99% success rate for you staying together! We talk about the unique challenges blended families face, but even more about the doable ways of building oneness even when your marriage is blended.
Check out the organization Scott and Vanessa Martindale lead, Blended Kingdom Families, or also on Facebook, Instagram, or YouTube.
Check out the Martindale's book Blended and Redeemed: The Go-To Field Guide for the Modern Stepfamily
Consider attending the Blended Family Conference coming October 5 - in person or virtually
Explore the resources on Dr. Carol Ministries Relationships page
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What kind of change is possible - or not possible, especially when it comes to LGBTQ issues? And how does change happen? There are no one-size-fits-all answers. But as the Changed movement is demonstrating, there are more stories of lasting change than many realize.
Dr. Carol's guest on this episode is Ken Williams, co-founder of the Changed Movement. He shares his story of following Jesus away from a gay identity to what he describes as a true masculine identity and intimacy with God – and also being happily married to his wife. And Ken and Dr. Carol dive deep into what change means, and how it happens.
Connect with Ken Williams on his website, the Changed Movement, Navigating LGBTQ, or on Facebook
Find Ken's book The Journey Out: How I Followed Jesus Away from Gay
Check out my book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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At some point in life, you'll likely to face a time when everything seems to be falling apart. A job loss, health or financial crisis, end of a marriage, death of a close loved one, or other catastrophe that can leave you feeling overwhelmed, confused, and unsure whether or how you can go on living.
Dr. Carol's guest on this episode, author, Bible teacher, and minister Dawn Mann Sanders brings her own personal experience and a deep exploration of God's creative process to this encouraging conversation. You'll learn how to partner with God in overcoming adversity and recreating a new life of goodness and meaning after everything seems lost.
Connect with Dawn Mann Sanders on her website, Facebook, X (Twitter), or Instagram
Find Dawn's book When Your World Ends: God's Creative Process for Rebuilding a Life
If you have recently experienced the death of a loved one, you will appreciate Dr. Carol's free 30-day email devotional series The Christian's Journey Through Grief, or her book by the same name.
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Statistics show that divorce rates are at their highest between five and eight years of marriage. That's when the disillusionment sets in. Even if your marriage is not destructively toxic, what happened to the "happily ever after" that you thought you were embarking on? And what can you do about it?
Dr. Carol's guest on this episode, Chelsea Damon, thought marriage would make her happy - until it didn't. But since she and her husband have learned these important keys, she says her marriage is now consistently more happy than ever. Find out what she has coached thousands of couples to walk through in making their marriage enduringly happy.
Connect with Chelsea Damon on her website, Facebook, X (Twitter), or Instagram
Find Chelsea's book I Thought This Would Make Me Happy: How to Fight Less, Forgive Faster, and Cultivate Joy in Your Marriage
My book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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The Bible doesn't talk specifically about dating. But that doesn't mean it has nothing to say on the subject. Dating as a Christian can seem confusing, and hard. There are questions not only about sexuality and sexual behavior, but about how to know if this is "the one," what makes a relationship healthy, and preparing for not just a wedding but a marriage.
Tovares and Safa Gray talk with Dr. Carol in this authentic and fun conversation about Godly Dating 101 - their ministry to young Christians helping them navigate all the challenging questions and experiences they are faced with in developing a healthy relationship God's way.
Connect with Tovares and Safa Gray on their website, YouTube channel, Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram.
Find their book Godly Dating 101: Discover the Truth About Relationships in a World That Constantly Lies
Get your free download from Dr. Carol Your Prescription for Sexual Healing – God's Way
My book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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The rapid increase in LGBTQ+ issues in our culture leaves many Christian parents struggling with how to navigate these realities with their children in ways that are both loving and aligned to their Christian faith.
Dr. Carol's guest on today's episode is Ellen Radcliff. She was raised in a Christian home and also wrestles with same-sex attraction. As a faithful Christian wife and mother who holds to a Biblical sexual ethic, she now works with other parents and families navigating these challenging waters. From both her own experience and her theological training she can help you maintain connection both with God and with your children.
Connect with Ellen Radcliff on her website, Facebook, or Instagram.
Find Ellen's book Love Covers Over: A Guide for Christian Parents Raising Kids in an LGBTQ+ World
Get your free download from Dr. Carol Your Prescription for Sexual Healing – God's Way
My book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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Christian women, young and old, often struggle with a disconnect between what their intellect may know is "right" about sexuality, God, and relationships, and what their own experience has been. Pornography or other ungodly sexual behaviors only add to their sexual shame and feeling of being stuck.
On this episode Dr. Carol talks with Dr. Joy Skarka, director of discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, about the journey God invites every woman into of discovering the full love of God, how to grow into freedom from sexual shame regardless of your story, and the experience of true intimacy as God originally intended.
Connect with Joy Skarka on her website, Facebook, X, or Instagram.
Find Joy's book Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy
Get your free download from Dr. Carol: Your Prescription for Sexual Healing – God's Way
My book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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We all get wounded. What do you do with your wounds? As humans we naturally hide the parts of us we deem least presentable. And that very hiding is what prevents the deep healing and transformation Jesus longs to bring.
In this moving and personal episode, author, pastor, and ministry director Russell Joyce talks with Dr. Carol about how Jesus finds us in our wounds. His own shame and physical pain he's lived with as a result of being born with Goldenhar syndrome becomes that metaphor for how God meets us most transformatively in the very places we find most challenging.
Connect with Russell Joyce on his website, Instagram, or YouTube.
Find Russell's book His Face Like Mine: Finding God’s Love in Our Wounds
Get your free download Your Prescription for Sexual Healing – God's Way
My book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
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Our culture seems obsessed with sex. Then why do so many men seem to experience sexual desire as a place of brokenness, shame, struggle, and confusion? Dr. Carol's guest on this episode asserts that men are oversexualized yet sexually undernourished, and that many men need more talk, not less, about sexuality.
Experienced therapist and author Sam Jolman joins Dr. Carol to talk about masculine sexuality as God designed it to be, how evil has hijacked and distorted this critical part of a man's soul, and what the journey to sexual wholeness, wonder, freedom, and even innocence is all about.
Connect with Sam Jolman on his website, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or YouTube.
Find Sam's book The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality
My book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships
And get the Audiobook of Sexpectations at 60% off through August 9th.
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