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In this empowering episode, I dive deep into one of the most common â yet rarely talked about â emotions in ethical non-monogamy: jealousy. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, jealousy can pop up in unexpected ways. But here's the truth: it doesnât make you weak or âbadâ â it makes you human.
Youâll learn:
How to identify the root causes of jealousyThe difference between jealousy and insecuritySelf-reflection practices that actually workHow to communicate jealousy without shameMindset shifts for thriving in non-monogamyWhether you're in an open relationship, exploring polyamory, or part of the swinger lifestyle, this episode offers real talk, supportive tools, and an invitation to grow emotionally stronger â together.
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Who doesnât love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isnât afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / ENM community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzyâs journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzyâs passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.
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Mizzy Bender discusses the important questions to ask potential new play partners in the swinging lifestyle to avoid awkward or uncomfortable situations. She shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating the lifestyle as a newcomer, and provides a framework for vetting potential partners.
Key Topics
Mizzy's Journey in the Lifestyle
Questions to Ask Potential Play Partners
How long have you been in the lifestyle?Mizzy suggests newer couples (less than a year) may not be as aligned and experienced.This helps gauge their level of understanding and communication as a couple.Whose idea was it to get involved in the lifestyle?Mizzy wants to understand if both partners are equally enthusiastic or if one is just appeasing the other.What are your rules and boundaries?Mizzy prefers not to play with couples who have strict rules like "no kissing", as it doesn't align with her preferences.Discussing rules and boundaries upfront is crucial to avoid uncomfortable situations.What are you looking to get out of the lifestyle?Mizzy emphasizes the importance of both partners being clear on their motivations and desires.If a couple cannot articulate their goals, Missy may be hesitant to engage with them.Observing Body Language and Interactions
Mizzy closely observes how potential play partners interact with each other, both online and in-person.She looks for signs of alignment, comfort, and mutual enthusiasm, as opposed to one partner seeming disengaged or uncomfortable.Mizzy is willing to politely decline play opportunities if she senses any misalignment or discomfort from either party.Importance of Honesty and Transparency
Mizzy strongly believes in being open, honest, and transparent about one's needs, boundaries, and experiences in the lifestyle.She encourages others to do the same, as it helps build trust and ensures everyone is on the same page.Mizzy is not afraid to ask difficult questions or express her feelings, as she believes this is the best way to have fulfilling and drama-free play experiences.For more behind the scenes and closer interactions
Blog: www.mizzybender.com
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RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com
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Who doesnât love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isnât afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / ENM community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzyâs journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzyâs passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.
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When it comes to swinging, communication and consent are the foundationâbut health and safety are just as critical. In this vlog, we break down the realities of STDs in the swingers lifestyle world: the ownership, how to stay protected, and how to normalize honest conversations about testing and treatment. Letâs make sexual health part of the pleasure.
This episode breaks the silence and empowers you to take charge of your sexual health. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or new to the lifestyle, this is essential info.
For your free work sheet, visit my blogs www.mizzybender.com
For more behind the scenes and closer interactions
Blog: www.mizzybender.com
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Join SDC
RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com
Shop Mizzy's Boutique: www.MizzysBoutique.com
Who doesnât love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isnât afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / ENM community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzyâs journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzyâs passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.
