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  • E356 | Advice for When You've Hit a Low Point and Don't Want to Spiral

    E356 | Advice for When You've Hit a Low Point and Don't Want to Spiral

    · The Art Of Coaching

    There’s nowhere lonelier in the world than rock bottom.

    It’s a place where overwhelm, anxiety, and uncertainty feel relentless, and the total weight of your burden makes moving forward seem impossible. Staying down is a choice, but it’s one that you really can’t afford to make.

    Before you pick yourself up, you need to know exactly where you are. When you recognize where the demons holding you down come from, you can see the path you need to take to fight back and regain control.

    It’s not about hacks, quick fixes, or the perfect framework. It’s about facing the hard truth head-on, with squared shoulders, and taking action, even when the easy choice is to stay down.

    In this episode we cover:

    The three most common responses to overwhelm and a “salty” alternativeHow to categorize our stressors so we can divide and conquerSelf discrepancy theory and making peace with our whole selvesInvesting in yourself and the pitfalls of “playing tight”

    To get the most out of this episode, and every episode in our library, download our free bonus reflection question sheets. They’re designed to help you think deeper, organize your thoughts, apply what you’ve learned, and TAKE ACTION.

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    Fill your stockings with a signed copy of Conscious Coaching. It’s a great gift for friends, family, or even your entire staff. Bulk orders are available, and each book will be personally signed!

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    THE APPRENTICESHIP – We’re heading to the Northeast March 22-23 for our ONLY stop in the Northeast next year! Join us at King Strength & Performance in Livingston, NJ, for a hands-on, 2-day workshop designed to transform how you lead, communicate, and connect. Whether you’re looking to develop leadership skills, improve your ability to sell, navigate tough conversations, or gain a deeper understanding of strategic communication and power dynamics, this course is for you.

    No fluff—just real practice, coaching, and feedback. You’ll leave with actionable tools, including a communication evaluation framework to handle any conversation with confidence.

    Discounts are available for first responders, students, and groups, plus early bird pricing is LIVE NOW until February 22, 2025. Email [email protected] for more information and reserve your spot today!

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  • E355 | Mind Games: How the Content You Consume is Controlling You

    E355 | Mind Games: How the Content You Consume is Controlling You

    · The Art Of Coaching

    This is not a “social media is bad” episode.

    That conversation has been talked to death. The truth is, very few things are inherently good or bad—it’s all in how you use them. But today’s episode is about how they use you. If “they” were writing this, they’d correct me and say, it’s how we allow them to use us.

    What makes the algorithm so effective at manipulating our sense of self worth and exploiting our deepest insecurities? Why do we fall into cycles of comparison, inadequacy, and pleasure seeking that keep us hooked? More importantly, how can we recognize these traps and reclaim control before they erode our self identity and damage our relationships?

    This episode is raw and unfiltered, straight from the heart and brutally honest. Brett speaks uncomfortable truths, using current cultural trends to challenge how we think and act.

    In this episode, Brett unpacks:

    Self-completion theory and why the “never enough” voice always catches our earHow to audit the “feed” that’s fueling your thoughtsEngaging with content intentionally and seeing things from the other sideLiving the life you’re called to without falling for the pain avoidance lie

    There’s so much more covered in this episode than we could ever fit into this description! To get the most out of this episode, and every episode in our library, download our free bonus reflection question sheets. They’re designed to help you think deeper, apply what you’ve learned, and TAKE ACTION.

    OUR HOLIDAY/BLACK FRIDAY SALE IS STILL ON! Visit artofcoaching.com/blackfriday to take advantage of these limited-time deals:

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    These are the largest discounts we offer all year. Treat yourself—or someone else this holiday season—to the gift of more meaningful connections, deeper personal growth, and becoming a more effective leader..

    THE COALITION - We’re all busy, but we still strive to grow. How do you truly measure progress? It can be a tough pill to swallow, but it’s worth remembering: intentions mean nothing without action. If you need help distinguishing between what’s urgent and what truly matters in your brand or business, then this group is for you! Think of it as your personal board of advisors—no BS, just a clear framework to help you start taking action. It's virtual, so it fits easily into your schedule, and includes a retreat to a fun location! If you're tired of the excuses and ready to act on your dreams of more, fill out this form, or reach out to us at [email protected] and our team will be in touch about getting you in our next round.

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    Wall Street Journal Article: Lazy Girl Jobs

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  • E354 | Am I Lazy Or Just Mentally Drained?

    E354 | Am I Lazy Or Just Mentally Drained?

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Lazy.

    It's one of the most shameful things you can be. And it's largely a title or accusation we make of ourselves. Why do we so frequently feel utterly drained, craving time to unwind and escape reality?

    Is there a way to not just reclaim that time, but to structure our days more intentionally to prevent fatigue from building and spiraling into a never-ending cycle? What can we do to finally experience relief and regain control?

    In today’s episode, Brett provides a framework to identify the warning signs, uncover the deeper issues at play, and ensure these feelings don’t erode your self-worth.

    In this episode, we explore:

    Psychological insights explaining why we feel so depletedHow to prioritize and structure your week to optimize work and restMini retreats, transition rituals, and other tools to mentally reset during the dayStrategies for filling your cup and consistently showing up for YOURSELF

    Today’s episode comes from a listener request! If you have a topic or question, submit it at artofcoaching.com/question. For deeper discussions and practical advice on this topic and more, join our private community—where you can connect directly with Brett, our Facilitators, and other like-minded individuals.

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  • E353 | What to Do If You Feel Like You're Stagnating

    E353 | What to Do If You Feel Like You're Stagnating

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Have you ever felt stuck or stagnant?

    That restless feeling like you’re spinning your wheels, going nowhere fast, yet knowing deep down that you need to break free.

    Stagnation isn’t just about a lack of progress; it’s a state of mind that can creep into any part of your life—your career, your relationships, or even your personal growth. But the good news? Feeling stuck is a signal, not a sentence.

    If you’re hard on yourself, hold high expectations, and tend to overthink, this episode is for you. Brett shares tips and strategies to help you break free from your own head and get back on track.

    Listen in for insights on these topics and more:

    How to create and leverage your own “minimum viable day”Making friends with the monster and how to embrace our strugglesThe power of failure simulationsWhy using an “I Got This Done” list may be more helpful than your “To Do” list

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    THE APPRENTICESHIP – We’re heading to the Northeast March 22-23 for our ONLY stop in the region next year! Join us at King Strength & Performance in Livingston, NJ, for a hands-on, 2-day workshop designed to transform how you lead, communicate, and connect. Whether you’re looking to develop leadership skills, improve your ability to sell, navigate tough conversations, or gain a deeper understanding of strategic communication and power dynamics, this course is for you.

    No fluff—just real practice, coaching, and feedback. You’ll leave with actionable tools, including a communication evaluation framework to handle any conversation with confidence.

    Discounts are available for first responders, students, and groups, plus early bird pricing is LIVE NOW until February 22, 2025. Email [email protected] for more information and reserve your spot today!

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    Referenced Resource:

    Chaos Checklist

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  • E352 | Q&A: How to Manage a Talented But Difficult Individual

    E352 | Q&A: How to Manage a Talented But Difficult Individual

    · The Art Of Coaching

    When they’re your best player or most productive employee, but ALSO the biggest thorn in your side.

    We’ve all been there and had to deal with the type. What do you do?

    This episode transcends the specific context of coaching a high school athlete to tackle a broader, universal challenge faced by leaders, managers, and professionals everywhere. Whether you’re navigating a workplace dynamic, coaching a team, or leading a group, this discussion will equip you with strategies to help difficult individuals recognize their behavior, foster deeper connections, and ultimately drive meaningful improvement.

    Brett dives into actionable insights to help you set boundaries, uncover root issues, and avoid falling into the trap of enabling destructive patterns.

    In this episode, we explore:

    The importance of setting realistic expectationsHow to systematically funnel multiple issues to uncover the core problemThe real reason behind narcissistic and emotionally immature behaviorFacing conflict head-on and the danger of shielding people from consequences

    Today’s episode comes from a listener request! If you have a topic or question, submit it at artofcoaching.com/question. For deeper discussions and practical advice, join our private community—free from social media distractions—where you can connect with facilitators and like-minded individuals. Questions? Email us at [email protected].

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    THE COALITION – Busy but eager to grow? Progress requires action, not just intentions. This group is your personal board of advisors—offering a no-nonsense framework to help you focus on what truly matters. It’s virtual, fits into your schedule, and includes an exciting retreat! Ready to act on your dreams? Fill out this form, or email us at [email protected] and our team will be in touch about getting you in our next round.

    THE APPRENTICESHIP - We’re heading to the northeast March 22-23! Join us at King Strength & Performance in Livingston, NJ for a hands-on, 2-day workshop to sharpen your communication, leadership, and relationship-building skills. No fluff—just real practice, coaching, and feedback. You’ll leave with a communication evaluation tool and other resources to tackle any conversation. Sign up TODAY, we’ll see you there!

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  • E351 | Kyle Holland: The Accountability Gap & Facing Uncomfortable Growth

    E351 | Kyle Holland: The Accountability Gap & Facing Uncomfortable Growth

    · The Art Of Coaching

    The knot in your stomach. That flush of unease when you know you’ve fallen short of your own standards.

    The only way to truly adapt and evolve is through real vulnerability—not the gentle, polished kind from TED talks, but the raw honesty that forces you to confront hard truths about yourself.

    This isn’t about stepping out of your comfort zone in a clichĂ©d way; it’s about embracing the discomfort and going to war until you’re fully transformed.

    Today’s guest, Kyle Holland, knows a thing or two about facing challenges head-on. As an Exercise Physiologist with U.S. Customs and Border Protection, he’s worked in some of the most demanding environments and spent 10 years with the 160th SOAR(A), a Special Operations Unit in the Army. Kyle has also trained professional athletes and MMA fighters at Mike Boyle Strength and Conditioning and worked with both the University of Iowa and Louisville’s football programs. A devoted husband and father of three, Kyle brings a grounded perspective to every topic he tackles.

    In this episode, Brett and Kyle dive into real talk on topics including:

    Taking accountability for your actions when you’re in the wrongHow to turn your setbacks into springboards for grow with grace Strategies to avoid being cut by the double-edged sword of strengths and weaknessesWhy politics gets us so riled up *Brett reveals a major life change and how he’s choosing to respond

    We want to thank Kyle for joining us! Follow him on X at @CoachK_Holland and on Instagram @coachkyleholland. You can also find him across the AOC universe—at our live events and online in our digital community.

    AOC WORLDWIDE - If you’d like to host one of our Live Events in the United States or ABROAD, we’d love to bring AOC directly to you. This includes Speaker School, Brand Builder, and our new Writer’s Workshop. We’re hitting the road and would love to partner with you to create an amazing experience for you, your team, and your community. Reach out to us at [email protected] and our team will work on the logistics.

    THE APPRENTICESHIP - We’re coming back to the northeast March 22nd-23rd! Join us and our friends from King Strength & Performance in Livingston, NJ for our highly interactive 2-day workshop for those looking to improve their ability to communicate, lead, and build strong relationships. This isn’t a “rah-rah,” motivational, death by powerpoint seminar. Instead, you’ll experience the practice, coaching, and feedback you need to truly grow. And better yet, you’ll get to take home a quantifiable communication evaluation tool, as well as several other tools to help you strategically approach any conversation. Sign up TODAY. We’ll see you there!

    THE COALITION - We’re all busy, but we still strive to grow. How do you truly measure progress? It can be a tough pill to swallow, but it’s worth remembering: intentions mean nothing without action. If you need help distinguishing between what’s urgent and what truly matters in your brand or business, then this group is for you! Think of it as your personal board of advisors—no BS, just a clear framework to help you start taking action. It's virtual, so it fits easily into your schedule, and includes a retreat to a fun location! If you're tired of the excuses and ready to act on your dreams of more, fill out this form, or reach out to us at [email protected] and our team will be in touch about getting you in our next round..

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    Referenced Resource:

    Book: Crystalizing Public Opinion by Edward Bernays

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  • E350 | The End of Year Goal Audit You Need

    E350 | The End of Year Goal Audit You Need

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Audit. It’s one of the most unsettling words in the English dictionary, carrying a connotation of fear and unease that makes people shy away from even the slightest hint of it

    But, like most intimidating things, an audit becomes far less daunting once you look at it more closely. One definition of an audit is simply “a systematic review or assessment of something.” Think of it as a straightforward check-in—a moment to take stock of where you stand and where you want to go.

    At the end of the day, an audit is really about something we talk about time and time again: accountability. It’s a chance to be honest with ourselves about what’s working, what’s not, and how we can move forward with intention.

    In today’s episode, Brett guides you through practical steps to reflect, recalibrate, and get back on track before the year wraps up. If you wait until January it will be too late. Topics we’ll dive into include:

    Assessing your goals and determining when to pivotHow to measure growth and allow yourself grace when it’s lackingIdentifying your needle movers and deciding if it’s time to double down Letting go of the things and people who no longer serve youConstructing an immediate action plan to get started NOW

    If you find this episode helpful, check out our most updated FREE Self – Reflection Guide or browse through any of our other free resources!

    We’ve also created an amazing virtual course called Blindspot designed to help you tackle the barriers keeping you from achieving your personal and professional goals.

    Consider joining our Mighty Networks Digital Community, where you’ll gain access to information, discussion, and a group of professionals (including the AoC Team) who are serious about their development and will help you confront the biggest obstacles keeping you from achieving your goals. For only $19.99/ month (free cancellation at any time) you can take your communication, leadership, and relationship skills to the next level.

    If you’d like to host one of our Live Events in the United States or ABROAD, we’d love to bring AOC directly to you. This includes Speaker School, Brand Builder, and our new Writer’s Workshop. We’re hitting the road and would love to partner with you to create an amazing experience for you, your team, and your community. Reach out to us at [email protected] and our team will work on the logistics.

    New to our content? Start with the foundational text that inspired it all—grab a copy of Conscious Coaching today! If you’d like to purchase a signed copy, proceeds will go to supporting the Leukemia & Lymphoma Foundation and the Alzheimer’s Association. Your support of our small business means the world to us, and we’re incredibly grateful to have the chance to personally thank you for being part of our community!

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  • E349 | Overcoming the

    E349 | Overcoming the "I've Tried Everything" Mindset

    · The Art Of Coaching

    “I’M DONE.”

    It’s one of the most frustrating feelings in the world. You’ve tried everything to fix things but just can’t get through to someone. You keep hitting the wall over and over.

    But what if there’s a way to revisit the problem, to approach it from a different angle, and open their minds (and ours) to new possibilities?

    In this compact episode, Brett gets straight to the point of navigating these messy situations, helping you zoom out to see the situation for what it truly is, and recognize when it's time to look in the mirror—ultimately leading to a resolution when it feels like all hope is lost.

    Key subjects covered:

    Diagnosing the REAL issue: the most crucial first step to solving any problemHow to see into your blindspots through someone else’s perspetiveTwo types of errors, their differences, and how to avoid bothThe “Triple A Approach” to ensure YOU aren’t the problemUnderstanding the role our ego plays in the root cause of our discontent

    One of our missions as a company is to be a beacon for people facing challenges like those we discussed in today’s episode—whether you want to become a better leader or navigate the scary realities of entrepreneurship. Our 1:1 mentoring program was built to fill that gap and provide you with a clear path to progress.

    Let us know how we can help. Reach out at [email protected].

    The Apprenticeship - Join us for a live Leadership Training Workshop that will make you more socially agile. When we say “leadership training,” we’re not talking about clichĂ© trust exercises or bland motivational speeches. This workshop dives into the essential skills that people often wish they'd learned earlier—how to manage tough conversations, navigate power dynamics, negotiate effectively, and drive meaningful change.

    If you're tired of people-problems, want to grow as a leader, or aspire to step into a leadership role, this event is for you! Join us on March 22-23, 2025, in Livingston, NJ, and take your leadership abilities to the next level.

    Check out our full 2025 live event schedule to find the date and location that work best for you!

    New to our content? Start with the foundational text that inspired it all—grab a copy of Conscious Coaching today! If you’d like to purchase a signed copy, proceeds will go to supporting the Leukemia & Lymphoma Foundation and the Alzheimer’s Association. Your support of our small, family-run business means the world to us, and we’re incredibly grateful to have the chance to personally thank you for being part of our community!

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  • E348 | Tex McQuilkin: Strategies for Dealing with Poor Coaching and Feedback in Sport

    E348 | Tex McQuilkin: Strategies for Dealing with Poor Coaching and Feedback in Sport

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Empty Coaching. Words and phrases that lack teeth.

    “Good job! You’re getting there! I like that.”

    “We’ve got to get better. C’mon, step it up. That’s not what I’m looking for.”

    We’ve all been guilty of letting these clichĂ©s fly out of our mouths at one point or another. But do they actually help inspire change or simply fill the silence? In today’s episode, we cut through these hollow lines and explore how we, as leaders and coaches, can move beyond surface-level feedback to foster both immediate performance improvements and long-term growth..

    Brett and our guest, Tex McQuilkin, get to the heart of what makes feedback impactful—what to say, when to say it, and how to become the kind of leader the world truly needs. Tex, a national-level presenter, coach, and content creator, brings his expertise as a certified strength and conditioning specialist and holds a Master’s in health behavior change. He’s led seminars in 16 countries, working with everyone from professional athletes to Navy SEALs.

    Today’s show is a very fun and honest conversation between two friends and colleagues on a range of topics including:

    Augmented feedback: the different types and how to make each one impactfulThe #1 tactic any coach or leader can use to improve IMMEDIATELYShame as a motivator and our ability to harness negative emotionsHow treating our thoughts as “tourists” can help us defeat our negativity biasAnd *BONUS*: What Michael Myers can teach us about coaching

    We want to thank Tex for joining us! Follow him on Instagram @mcquilkin, check out his new podcast, Captains & Coaches, and catch him across the Art Of Coaching universe—whether at our live events, in our mastermind group The Coalition, or online in our digital community.

    The Apprenticeship - Become more socially agile with our live Leadership Training Workshop. When we say “leadership training,” we are not referring to cheesy corny trust-falls, motivational speak, or anything of the sorts. We are talking about the things that people say they wish they would have known earlier in their career and life - how to navigate difficult people and conversations, power dynamics, negotiations, and implement change.

    If you deal with people-problems at all, if you’re in a leadership position or want to be in a leadership role, if you want LESS DRAMA - you need to get to this event! Check out our entire 2025 live event schedule for the best date and location for you!

    New to our content? Start with the foundational text that inspired it all—grab a copy of Conscious Coaching today! If you’d like to purchase a signed copy, proceeds will go to supporting the Leukemia & Lymphoma Foundation and the Alzheimer’s Association. Your support of our small, family-run business means the world to us, and we’re incredibly grateful to have the chance to personally thank you for being part of our community!

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  • E347 | Dr. Emma Hite: Managing Motherhood, Expectations and Life Transitions

    E347 | Dr. Emma Hite: Managing Motherhood, Expectations and Life Transitions

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Our lives are not the movies.

    When sudden, unpredictable events like family hardships or natural disasters strike, it can feel like we’re living in one. But more often, the changes in our stories are subtle.

    The turmoil is internal, and we’re left to wrestle with our challenges quietly, on our own.

    Today’s guest is no stranger to this real-life push and pull. She knows what it’s like to juggle the expectations of motherhood, navigate life transitions, and manage the chaos that comes with it all. Dr. Emma Laird, PT, DPT, OCS is a board-certified physical therapist at Pro Kinetix in Oakland, California, specializing in orthopedic care. She earned her Doctorate in Physical Therapy from MGH Institute of Health Professions and is a certified Orthopedic Clinical Specialist. Emma brings a holistic approach to helping her clients return to their favorite activities while promoting lifelong movement health. A Bay Area native, Emma is passionate about sports and strength training, values she learned early on from her active upbringing. When she's not working, she enjoys spending time with her fiancĂ©, their dog, exploring local breweries, and staying active outdoors.

    Today’s show is a real-world conversation on topics such as:

    Maintaining a healthy connection with your partner during a season of changeThe myth of our “best self” and how optimal is fluidManaging internal and external pressures on your career during family changes Redefining success and recalibrating your goals to align with your new life pathThe power of showing up consistently as your authentic, imperfect self

    We want to thank Emma for joining us! If you’re in the Oakland, CA area and need help recovering from an injury, visit her and her team at Pro Kinetix. You can also find her in our Art Of Coaching universe facilitating one of our live events and online in our digital community.

    The Apprenticeship - Bottom line, this is for anyone who coaches, mentors, or helps others in any capacity. It’s for leaders who aren’t just talking about personal growth but are ready for a different type of challenge. Our live leadership training workshop goes beyond the usual clichĂ©s. No cheesy trust falls or empty motivational speeches. We dive into the real skills you wish you’d learned earlier in life: navigating tough conversations, handling difficult people, managing power dynamics, and driving real change.

    If you deal with people-problems at all, are in a leadership position, or want to step into one—and if you're ready to turn personal growth from lip service into real commitment, THIS EVENT IS FOR YOU! Check out our entire 2025 live event schedule for the best date and location for you!

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  • E346 | The Cost of Silence and Not Putting Yourself Out There

    E346 | The Cost of Silence and Not Putting Yourself Out There

    · The Art Of Coaching

    We’ve all heard the motivational phrase, “Failure isn’t an option.” It sounds inspiring, but is it really true?

    Failure, in reality, is an option—often chosen in the form of inaction, silence, or the unwillingness to engage. How many times have you held back an idea, avoided speaking up, or let a moment pass because of the fear of judgment? Playing it safe is extremely tragic.

    In today’s episode, we’re diving into the cost of silence and the hidden price we pay by not putting ourselves out there. What’s really stopping us from stepping forward? And what can we do to shift from apprehension to action?

    In this tough love episode, Brett takes the gloves off and gets real about:

    The evolutionary roots behind our fear of rejectionHow our ego is the true source behind our hesitation to engageCriticism, its inevitability, and how to turn it into dataHarnessing pride as a shield to protect against self-devaluationNavigating the fear of success versus the fear of failure

    Referenced Episodes:

    E259 | Understanding and Overcoming Perfectionism

    E105 | Overcoming Imposter Phenomenon

    Recommended Resources:

    Imposter Phenomenon Manual: If you struggle with imposter phenomenon, we created a free manual that many people have found to be super-helpful. It’s become one of our most downloaded resources, check it out!

    Podcast Reflections: Did you know that we create worksheets to help you apply the lessons for each episode? To receive full access to all the reflections from previous and future episodes, click here.

    Mighty Networks Digital Community: If you’d like to test your ideas with Brett and our Facilitators, while connecting with like-minded individuals, consider joining our private digital community! For just $19.99/month (with free cancellation anytime), you’ll enhance your communication, leadership, and relationship skills. Don’t miss out—join us today!

    If you’d like to become more confident in front of a group and learn how to deliver a more potent message, Speaker School is the perfect event for you! Whether you’re someone who needs to overcome the debilitating effect of social anxiety, or you’re a well-practiced TED presenter, this is the perfect place to get some heads-down time to focus and improve, no matter where you are in your journey. This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, filled with people who want you to succeed and who will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to improve. Join us in Phoenix, AZ on October 12-13th! THIS IS OUR LAST CALL. SECURE YOUR SPOT BEFORE IT CLOSES!

    Today’s episode is sponsored by our lifelong partner Momentous. You need to pay attention to what you put in your body. For safety and performance, it’s crucial to follow three key principles: stick to what works, choose products that are rigorously tested, and rely on those rooted in science. Momentus products are NSF Certified for Sport, meaning they meet the highest quality control standards—the same required of athletes competing in the Olympics. We particularly love their whey protein, creatine, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on anything found on their website. Don’t compromise when it comes to your supplements. Stick to the basics, choose what’s been tested, and trust what’s proven.

  • E345 | In Case You Missed It E202: Why Facts and Logic Don't Change Our Minds

    E345 | In Case You Missed It E202: Why Facts and Logic Don't Change Our Minds

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Why would someone hold on to a false or inaccurate belief even when you’ve laid out all the facts and logic in front of them? You couldn’t have been more clear in presenting your argument!

    Your reasoning is solid, but maybe it’s not the absence of evidence that’s preventing them from changing their perspective—it might be the way the information was delivered...

    Today’s show is one of our keystone episodes, unlocking why constructive communication often fails to get off the ground. Brett is joined by Ali Kershner in-studio for a deep dive into the tactics that will help you get your point across more effectively and give you the best chance to change someone’s behavior.

    Grab a pen and download the reflection questions because this episode is hands-on and loaded with tactical information and strategies you can implement at work, home and anywhere you deal with people.

    You'll learn:

    How to identify the areas you’re stubborn in and need to changeThe different types of persuasion and the impact of eachHow time can impact a person's decision making Gaining perspective through role playingThe tactics and strategies behind our popular online courses and in person events that you can use to relate to the drive of the individual you are trying to convince

    IF YOU’VE BEEN WAITING, THE TIME IS NOW - If you know you aren’t as good as you could be when speaking to an audience, it’s time to step up and make a change. Speaker School is the ideal place to get better in front of people, regardless of the situation. This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, filled with people who want you to succeed and who will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to improve. Join us in Phoenix, AZ on October 12-13th!. THIS IS OUR LAST CALL, SECURE YOUR SPOT BEFORE IT CLOSES!

    THE COALITION - We’re all busy, but we still strive to grow. How do you truly measure progress? It can be a tough pill to swallow, but it’s worth remembering: intentions mean nothing without action. If you need help distinguishing between what’s urgent and what truly matters in your brand or business, then THE COALITION is for you. Think of it as your personal board of advisors—no BS, just a clear framework to help you start taking action. It's virtual, so it fits easily into your schedule, and includes a retreat to a fun location! If you're tired of the excuses and ready to act on your dreams of more, fill out this form, or reach out to us at [email protected] and our team will be in touch.

  • E344 | Tips for

    E344 | Tips for "Balancing" Work and Family Life

    · The Art Of Coaching

    It’s the holy grail of mental health and wellness for many people. Almost all of us, at one point or another, have chased the elusive 'work-life balance,' hoping to find the perfect harmony between our careers and personal lives.

    But is 'balance' really the right word? Perhaps it’s a misnomer that oversimplifies the complexity of juggling work and family.

    Today’s topic arose from a conversation between Brett and several of our facilitators about the push and pull that occurs between career and family. It’s a concept we all struggle with in some capacity, and in this episode, we’ll share insights from that discussion along with practical strategies for managing the demands of work and family.

    Tune in as we get real on a this common struggle, as we explore:

    The misnomer of “balance” and how to define it for yourselfHow guilt influences decisions in your professional lifeRealigning your goals to reflect what truly mattersHow to recognize if the obstacle in your was is YOU - and what to do about it

    Put Us On Blast: We want to hear your thoughts! Let us know by reaching out to us on social media or shooting us an email at [email protected]. We want to add more value to our audience above everything else. We love feedback and want to know how we can help YOU.

    Mighty Networks Digital Community: Want to join conversations like the one we had today and interact directly with Brett and our Facilitators? Join our digital community and connect with like-minded people dedicated to personal growth. For just $19.99/month (with free cancellation anytime), you’ll elevate your communication, leadership, and relationship skills. Don’t miss out— Join us today!

    Subscribe & Support: If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe to the Art of Coaching Podcast on your favorite platform. Share it with a friend, and leave us a review—it helps the show grow!

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    SPEAKER SCHOOL IS ALMOST HERE - Is there a message stuck in your head that you know needs to get out into the world? Maybe you’d just like to get better in front of your coworkers at weekly staff meetings. Either way, Speaker School is the ideal place to get better in front of people, regardless of the situation. This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, filled with people who want you to succeed and who will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to improve. Join us in Phoenix, AZ on October 12-13th!. THIS IS OUR LAST CALL, SECURE YOUR SPOT BEFORE IT CLOSES!

    Recommended Resource:

    Take our Drives Quiz!

  • E343 | The Power of Indirect Influence: Strategies for Convincing Stubborn People

    E343 | The Power of Indirect Influence: Strategies for Convincing Stubborn People

    · The Art Of Coaching

    “They just won’t listen. No matter how clearly I explain it, they refuse to see my side of things. It’s like talking to a brick wall."

    Have you ever felt like this, like you're hitting a dead end with someone who just won’t budge? Influencing people is an art, one that often requires more than just logic and facts, especially in today’s world where information has been turned into a kind of religion willing to anoint whoever can wield it more skillfully.

    In today’s episode, we’ll revisit several past topics and connect the dots to reveal an alternative way to move the ball forward. Oftentimes, if we try to bull our way straight ahead, we’re met with the most resistance. In reality, an indirect route can be like finding a perfect gap in the defense—avoiding tackles and making the smoothest run toward the end zone.

    Topics Discussed:

    The necessity of understanding power dynamics and influence tacticsHow penetrating someone’s ring of influence can help your causeCoalition building and the true strength in numbers when voices alignInvoking reciprocity and how deep-seated trust begins with giving

    I GET IT, NOW HOW DO I GET THIS TO WORK FOR ME? - Communication is something none of us will ever perfect, but how do you expect to get better if you don’t hold yourself accountable and do something to get better at it? We’d love for you to join us at one of our Apprenticeship workshops, where you’ll not only gain the knowledge and understanding you need to navigate the messy realities of relationships and leadership, but more importantly, you’ll get hands on experience working through your specific situation and gain the perspective of the AOC team and other individuals looking to improve themselves. We just solidified two new dates for 2025! We’ll kick off the year on the East Coast in March and keep the ball rolling back in Phoenix in June. Keep an eye on our Live Event Schedule here, and if you have any questions, schedule a free discovery call. We also offer 1-On-1 Mentoring if you prefer a more personalized approach. Either way, THIS IS WHAT WE DO and we want to help! Reach out to us at [email protected] and a member of our team will be in touch.

    SPEAKER SCHOOL IS ALMOST HERE - Is there a message stuck in your head that you know needs to get out into the world? Maybe you’d just like to get better in front of your coworkers at weekly staff meetings. Either way, Speaker School is the ideal place to get better in front of people, regardless of the situation. This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, filled with people who want you to succeed and who will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to improve. Join us in Phoenix, AZ on October 12-13th!. THIS IS OUR LAST CALL, SECURE YOUR SPOT BEFORE IT CLOSES!

    Referenced Episodes:

    E202 | Why Facts And Logic Don't Change Our Minds - If you’re unfamiliar with influence tactics or need a refresher give this a listen!

    E240 | The 4 Styles Of Communication - At a baseline level you should understand the different components of communication.

    E178 | Kindra Hall: Choose Your Story, Change Your Life - Storytelling is the oldest form of communication. Learn to harness it for good.

    E152 | Michael Tucker: How Storytelling And Self-Awareness Shape Who We Become - Another phenomenal episode on storytelling if you want to deep dive on the subject.

    E85 | Why Won't They Listen To Me? Reasons Your Message Isn't Getting Across - If you’ve ever asked yourself this question in frustration, you’ll find answers here.

    We are so proud to be sponsored today by our longtime partner Momentous. Whether you’re a corporate executive who wants to feel better, a member of the military who needs to perform in the most extreme environments, or somewhere in between, Momentous has something FOR YOU! We particularly love their unflavored whey protein, magnesium, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on your first order and any subscription you sign up for. Control the controllables and take charge of your health.

  • E342 | Unpacking the Controversy of Nike's Latest Ad

    E342 | Unpacking the Controversy of Nike's Latest Ad

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Am I a bad person? Nike’s latest ad asks this question, and the internet erupted in response. But is the real issue the ad, or what it reveals about our relationship with competition and ambition?

    In this episode, Brett Bartholomew delves into the controversy surrounding Nike's recent ad, featuring Willem Dafoe’s voice and a striking depiction of athletes at their most intense. While some argue the ad promotes toxic values in sports, Brett explores the nuance behind it, offering his insights as a coach, parent, and former athlete. He dissects why the ad has sparked such strong reactions and what it says about our society’s discomfort with the more competitive, driven side of human nature.

    Topics Discussed:

    The controversy surrounding the Nike ad and Willem Dafoe's voiceover.The depiction of athletes and the "dark side" of competition.The difference between respecting opponents and being hyper-competitive.The role of parents in shaping their children’s behavior.How societal issues, such as mental health and polarized reactions, influence public perception of media.Brett’s personal experiences with athletes and how they balance intensity with ethics.

    Resources Mentioned:

    Take our Drives Quiz!Nike Ad featuring Willem DafoeCarl Jung’s concept of the "shadow" in psychologyStephen King’s “Legion of Decency” reference

    Join the Discussion: We want to hear your thoughts! Did the Nike ad strike a chord with you? Do you agree with Brett's take? Let us know by reaching out to us on social media or leaving a comment on our website.

    Subscribe & Support: If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe to the Art of Coaching Podcast on your favorite platform. Share it with a friend, and leave us a review—it helps the show grow!

    Follow Us:

    Website: ArtofCoaching.com

    Instagram: @coach_brettb

    Twitter: @coach_brettb

    Speaker School - Warren Buffet has said that Public Speaking is the “single greatest skill to boost your career and self worth, and is an asset that will last for 50 to 60 years.” It also happens to be most people’s biggest fear, which Buffet said if unaddressed “will also last you 50 to 60 years.” At Speaker School we help those who need to slay their inner imposter, who would just like to get better at running staff meetings at work, to those who would like to get paid to deliver keynotes. We’re holding one more Speaker School before the end of the year in Phoenix, AZ October 12-13. Take advantage of our EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT AND SAVE UP TO $200! Hurry though, the deal expires September 11th! Click here to reserve your spot. This is one of our most popular live events and fills up fast. We limit the number of participants to make sure you get the practice and feedback you deserve. See you there!

  • E341 | 3 Things You Can Do Right Now to Improve Your Relationship with Your Spouse or Partner

    E341 | 3 Things You Can Do Right Now to Improve Your Relationship with Your Spouse or Partner

    · The Art Of Coaching

    We’ve all been there. Our significant other is struggling and we ask “how can I help?”

    While this is well-intentioned, is there anything we can do proactively to meet these challenges head on, before things completely unravel? Conversely, how can we express our own needs and clearly address what’s really bothering us, so we’re both on the same page?

    If you’ve been in this situation—and let’s face it, we all have—then you’ve come to the right place. Today’s episode is packed with practical advice and exercises that you can start doing TODAY with your spouse or partner right away to enhance your relationship.

    In this show, we’re diving into a no-nonsense, actionable discussion on:

    “Hot zones” and how to tell your partner you’re in oneDefining your role as a helper vs. focusing on specific actionsThe importance of clearly defining your relationship essentialsHow to lean on your core values and beliefs when you need a win

    YOU AREN’T TOO LATE! - This episode is a sneak peek into our 30 Day Relationship Challenge that just kicked off. Bottom line, no one has a perfect relationship, no matter what it looks like on the surface. Growth begins with acknowledging that we can be better and progress happens when you roll up your sleeves and take action. Whether you’re single, married, or would just like to communicate better with your kids, we can help enrich the relationships that mean the most to you. What could be more valuable than that? No travel is required, you can work through this on the couch with your significant other (glass of wine optional) at your own pace. Visit artofcoaching.com/relationship, we’re in the thick of it - JOIN US!

    SPEAKER SCHOOL - Is there a message stuck in your head that you know needs to get out into the world? Maybe you’d just like to get better in front of your coworkers at the weekly staff meeting. Either way, Speaker School is the ideal place to get better in front of people, regardless of the situation! This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, filled with people who want you to succeed and who will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to improve. Join us in Phoenix, AZ on October 12-13th!. We keep the number of participants small, so make sure to secure your spot today!

    WE ADMIT, WE’RE ALL OVER THE PLACE
 We recently received feedback from a loyal customer who mentioned they’d love to return to an event but were confused by our constant stream of new offerings. We want to assure you that our mission remains the same. However, we’ve evolved in response to your requests and suggestions to better meet your needs. If you’d like to see what we’re up to and how we can support you, check out the links below. Feel free to email us at [email protected] with any questions or for more information on discounts, payment plans, and more.

    Quick Links On Where You Can Find Us

    Live Events - Nothing replaces an immersive, in-person experience!

    Digital Courses - Lifetime access you can work through at YOUR own pace on YOUR schedule.

    1-On-1 Mentoring - Personalized coaching tailored to your needs.

    30 Day Relationship Challenge - A virtual guide to improving relationships, at our lowest price point!

    Related Episodes:

    E339 | Overcoming Challenges in Relationships

    E330 | Unmet Needs In Relationships: How to Express What You Really Want

    We are so proud to be sponsored today by our longtime partner Momentous. You need to pay attention to what you put in your body. For safety and performance, it’s crucial to follow three key principles: stick to what works, choose products that are rigorously tested, and rely on those rooted in science. Momentus products are NSF Certified for Sport, meaning they meet the highest quality control standards—the same required of athletes competing in the Olympics. We particularly love their whey protein, creatine, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on anything found on their website. Who knows, their products might give you the power to “throw a football over them mountains.” Hut hut hike!

  • E340 | Framework Bandwagons and the Illusion of Competence

    E340 | Framework Bandwagons and the Illusion of Competence

    · The Art Of Coaching

    “Before tackling this problem, let me figure out how to make this simple. It’s really not that complicated
”

    Have you ever taken this approach when dealing with a difficult issue with your family, friends, staff, or coworkers? While this tactic might work in some situations, most complex problems require solutions that reductive thinking simply can’t provide.

    Library and bookstore shelves are brimming with management and leadership books packed with "how-to" lists, buckets, quadrants, and countless linear methods that promise to solve problems easily and efficiently, and take your people and business to the next level. From simplifying decision-making to categorizing leadership styles, these books often present a structured, step-by-step approach that appeals to those looking for quick fixes and plug and play templates.

    Whether it’s procrastination, avoidance, or just the allure of a quick fix, it’s time to roll up our sleeves and confront why we keep dipping into this well of oversimplified solutions—because, as Mike Tyson said, everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face. And when the real challenges hit, those tidy answers rarely stand up to the blow.

    In today’s podcast, we’re taking the gloves off and having a frank conversation about:

    Framework hopping, what it is and why people do itWhy exposure alone NEVER equates to real skill or competenceThe long term effects of over relying on simple fixes to solve complex problemsHow leaning into the thing you’re avoiding is the best path forward

    As always, we love your feedback! Happy, sad, mad, indifferent (which isn’t very helpful, if you want to get better at giving feedback check out this episode) send it all to [email protected].

    *LAST CALL* 30-Day Relationship Challenge - Relationships shape our lives. From our families to the workplace, our happiness is directly tied to the people who mean the most to us . This Fall we’re launching a resource that hits EXTREMELY close to home. It will be completely virtual.New content will be dropped each week and you’ll be invited to join our virtual happy hours with our team so we can navigate life’s challenges together. We’ll also be leveraging the knowledge of a licensed expert in family and relationship therapy. Visit artofcoaching.com/relationship-challenge/ it starts in 1 WEEK, SIGN UP TODAY!

    Who Are We & What Do We Do - Whether this is your first time tuning into the podcast or your hundredth, we’re thrilled to have you here. At Art of Coaching, we specialize in leadership development—the real-world, hard stuff you won’t find in books. We’re not here for those seeking generic solutions or cookie-cutter checklists for changing workplace culture or relationships. Instead, we offer highly practical resources and courses designed to help you navigate power dynamics and people—even when the person standing in your way is the one in the mirror. Have questions or want to know more about our discounts or payment plans? Email us at [email protected].

    Quick Links To Learn More About Our Services

    Live Events - Nothing replaces an immersive, in-person experience!

    Digital Courses - Lifetime access you can work through at YOUR own pace on YOUR schedule.

    1-On-1 Mentoring - Personalized coaching tailored to your needs.

    Today’s episode is sponsored by our lifelong partner Momentous. You need to pay attention to what you put in your body. For safety and performance, it’s crucial to follow three key principles: stick to what works, choose products that are rigorously tested, and rely on those rooted in science. Momentus products are NSF Certified for Sport, meaning they meet the highest quality control standards—the same required of athletes competing in the Olympics. We particularly love their whey protein, creatine, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on anything found on their website. Don’t compromise when it comes to your supplements. Stick to the basics, choose what’s been tested, and trust what’s proven.

  • E339 | Scott & Jaime Livingston: Overcoming Challenges in Relationships

    E339 | Scott & Jaime Livingston: Overcoming Challenges in Relationships

    · The Art Of Coaching

    The quality of our relationships is the #1 determining factor in our overall happiness and well-being. Yet, how often do we hear real people having honest conversations about the challenges, complexities, and joys of solving the puzzle of truly connecting with those who are closest to us?

    This week, Scott and Jaime Livingston join us for a candid conversation about the messy realities of relationships. Whether you come from a harmonious family with a white picket fence or one marked by tension and turmoil, there’s something in this episode for you.

    Scott is an Athletic Therapist, Master Performance Coach and Neuro Reconditioning Professional. He has 35+ years of practice in the human performance industry working in every conceivable performance environment. He is also the host of the groundbreaking life journey podcast, Leave Your Mark found on all streaming services.

    Jaime is also an Athletic Therapist and Master Performance Coach and has been working in the field of human performance for twenty-five years. Jaime has trained and re-built athletes at every level including professional athletes, Olympic athletes, and college athletes, as well as highly motivated recreational athletes.

    Together Jaime and Scott co-founded the practice of Neuro Reconditioning which they teach and share throughout the world while co-parenting their amazing daughter Gretchen.

    During our conversation we discuss:

    The danger of molding yourself to fit someone else’s expectationsWhy expressing your needs clearly is so importantHow to ensure you and your partner are growing together, NOT apartWhat the path to true reconciliation looks like when things go awry

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    Speaker School - Warren Buffet has said that Public Speaking is the “single greatest skill to boost your career and self worth, and is an asset that will last for 50 to 60 years.” It also happens to be most people’s biggest fear, which Buffet said if unaddressed “will also last you 50 to 60 years.” At Speaker School we help those who need to slay their inner imposter, who would just like to get better at running staff meetings at work, to those who would like to get paid to deliver keynotes. We’re holding one more Speaker School before the end of the year in Phoenix, AZ October 12-13. Take advantage of our EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT AND SAVE UP TO $200! Hurry though, the deal expires August 31st! Click here to reserve your spot. This is one of our most popular live events and fills up fast. We limit the number of participants to make sure you get the practice and feedback you deserve. See you there!

    30-Day Relationship Challenge - Relationships shape our lives. From our families to the workplace, our happiness is directly tied to the people who mean the most to us . This Fall we’re launching a resource that hits EXTREMELY close to home. It will be completely virtual.New content will be dropped each week and you’ll be invited to join our virtual happy hours with our team so we can navigate life’s challenges together. We’ll also be leveraging the knowledge of a licensed expert in family and relationship therapy. Visit artofcoaching.com/relationship-challenge/ it starts in two weeks, sign up today!

    Referenced Episodes:

    E128 | ScottLivingston: How To Bring More Value To Others

    E142 | Nate Hoffmeister: Dealing With Divorce: A Leader’s Guide

  • E338 | Taylor Evernden: Business Owner By Day, Jungle Explorer By Night

    E338 | Taylor Evernden: Business Owner By Day, Jungle Explorer By Night

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Have you ever thought, "I'd love to do that, but I just don't have the money," or do you have interests or passions outside of your professional life that you've suppressed in order to advance your career?

    Maybe you've pushed aside personal goals, believing the myth that true success requires unwavering focus on your career alone.

    It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that anything outside of work is a distraction. But what if those very experiences—those that broaden our perspective, teach us new skills, and enrich our lives—could actually enhance your career as well?

    This week's guest refuses to be confined to one distinct category. Taylor Evernden is the owner and director of ORKA Performance in Calgary, AB, Canada. Previously, he served as the Head of Sport Science and Strength & Conditioning for the Calgary Foothills Soccer Club, where he oversaw the athletic development of U12-18 teams, as well as the W League and USL PDL. In addition to his extensive experience in athletic performance, Taylor has a keen interest in ACL rehabilitation and general return-to-sport rehab.

    In this episode we venture deep into the jungle to explore:

    The myth that we need to specialize to excelHow waiting for the 'right time' can lead to missed opportunitiesOur alternative selves and determining how much to reveal to othersUsing vulnerability to enhance your effectiveness as a leader

    LAST CHANCE to Save Big on Our Summer Sale!

    Don't miss out on 30% off all our online courses and bundles with the code: SUMMER30. Whether you're a strength coach looking to network and navigate the nuances of your career, or someone interested in psychology and building trust, these courses can help. If you're thinking of venturing out on your own and testing the waters of entrepreneurship, we’ve got templates to help you get off the ground. Trusted by units in the US Military, Firefighters, the Boys and Girls Club of America, Professional Sports Teams, and Universities, our courses are available now at the largest discount of the year. These on-demand, masterclass-style videos allow you to learn at your own pace, with lifetime access included. Visit artofcoaching.com/sale - Act now before the sale ends!

    MENTORING is included in Our Summer Sale!

    If you have questions about staff development, leadership, running a business, or becoming a speaker, our online mentoring program is here to help. We offer an executive coaching program where our team can connect with you anywhere in the world via Zoom. It’s 100% private and protected by NDAs, allowing us to dive as deep into your challenges as you want to go. Every leader needs a coach! Visit artofcoaching.com/mentoring and let our team push you further.

    30-Day Relationship Challenge - Relationships shape our lives. From our families to the workplace, our happiness is directly tied to the people who mean the most to us . This Fall we’re launching a resource that hits EXTREMELY close to home. It will be completely virtual.New content will be dropped each week and you’ll be invited to join our virtual happy hours with our team so we can navigate life’s challenges together. We’ll also be leveraging the knowledge of a licensed expert in family and relationship therapy. Email us at [email protected], and tell us you’d love more details on the 30 day challenge and we’ll send you more info.

    Today’s episode is sponsored by our lifelong partner Momentous. You need to pay attention to what you put in your body. For safety and performance, it’s crucial to follow three key principles: stick to what works, choose products that are rigorously tested, and rely on those rooted in science. Momentus products are NSF Certified for Sport, meaning they meet the highest quality control standards—the same required of athletes competing in the Olympics. We particularly love their whey protein, creatine, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on anything found on their website. Don’t compromise when it comes to your supplements. Stick to the basics, choose what’s been tested, and trust what’s proven.

  • E337 | Tips for How to Be a Better Mentor

    E337 | Tips for How to Be a Better Mentor

    · The Art Of Coaching

    Do you think mentorship is a straightforward, progressive process? Think again.

    We envision that ideal student-teacher relationship or the picturesque blacksmith-apprentice image, but in reality, things just don't work that way. People are complex and being an effective mentor requires a playbook that goes far beyond a cookie-cutter list of ideal traits.

    In this episode we're turning back the clock and rediscovering the hard truths of what it takes to be a great mentor. We examine:

    Setting someone up for success vs. hand-holdingReciprocity and the NEED for collaborationChallenging comfort zones through accountabilityHow to say the hard stuff and promote self-reliance

    Mentoring - One of our missions as a company was to be a beacon for people who need help becoming a better leader, building more meaningful relationships, and navigating the scary realities of entrepreneurship. Our 1:1 mentoring program was built to fill that gap and give you a clear path to progress. Schedule a free discovery call with our team, or email us at [email protected].

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