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  • How has your gender impacted your sense of belonging? — with Malik

    On this episode of the inbetweenish, we focus on an inbetweenish aspect that has seldom come up in previous episodes: gender identity. Malik is a bicultural transgender man who spent his formative years between America and Egypt. With Malik we cover his first identity crisis, discovering the spectrum of LGBTQ+, manoeuvring his gender identity within himself and also with his family, and complicated feelings towards the places you come from. This conversation was truly eye-opening for me in many ways, from how differently Malik felt in Egypt as a man vs a women, to how unifying religion can be and bring families together, and so much more.

    In honor of Pride Month, in June, I thought it was the perfect time to publish this episode. I ask that you please listen with kindness and an open mind.


    Episode mentions

    Malik’s WebsiteMalik on Spotify: MMKNMalik’s Art on InstagramGlee — TV Series (2009-2015)



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  • How do you connect with your different cultures?

    In this episode, I’m speaking with Fiona Livingstone, who balances her Dutch-Scottish heritage with her English upbringing. Fiona candidly shares her journey of navigating her cultural identity and the challenges she experienced along the way. She opens up about her childhood home, her desire to assimilate, and how her perspective evolved over time. From feeling silently judged to missing out on learning Dutch, Fiona reveals how she coped and how nostalgia played a significant role in her life. Interestingly, she created a list of all the things she loves about her different cultures, which helped her form a unique and authentic sense of being. This episode offers a touching and insightful glimpse into Fiona's life and how her magazine, FOYER, was born from her own struggles with her identity.

    Fiona Livingston is the founder and editor of FOYER magazine, an annual print arts, culture and heritage magazine from the point of view of second-generation, mixed-heritage and third-culture kid individuals.

    Episode mentions

    FOYER MagazineCulture Stew PodcastRobert Burns — Auld Lang SyneRobert Burns — Tam o’ ShanterKatherine May — Wintering



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  • Can we talk about taboos?

    In this second episode with Amuna Wagner we explore taboos and the importance of processing them and addressing them. She also shares her views on the nuance and difference between religion and faith. This is particularly interesting to listen to given her life experience with a family that touches the three Abrahamic religions. Lastly, we also focus on her experience of growing up as an interracial child and touch upon her documentary Schwarz, capturing conversations around the black German experience.


    In the last episode, Amuna reflected on her crisis of purpose as she walked us down her fascinating family history: from the Holocaust, to refugee camps, and eventually to rebuilding of life as a marginalized community. Make sure you tune into episode 1!


    Episode mentions

    If you're interested in watching her documentary, Schwarz, reach out to Amuna directly through her Instagram or her website Kandaka, the blogArticle in Kandaka: Motherhood as SisterhoodArticle in Kandaka: Archiving the Women Who Made Me PossibleThe Zine: High Priestess in Low Tides



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  • How has your family's past influenced your identity?

    In this first episode, Amuna Wagner reflects on her crisis of purpose and wonders out loud if she has a responsibility towards her identity. She walks us down her family history from her grandparents to her parents, from the Holocaust, to escapes, to refugee camps, and eventually to rebuilding of life as a marginalized community. Amuna’s background touches the three Abrahamic religions - Christianity, Judaism, and Islam - which adds another layer of complexity to her multicultural identity.

    In the next episode, we will explore Amuna’s cultural influences, her experience as an interracial child, and her queerness. You don’t want to miss this thoughtful episode where we will discuss taboos and distinguish between religion and faith. Coming out April 2nd!

    Episode mentions

    Amuna’s website Kandaka, the blogArticle in Kandaka: Motherhood as SisterhoodArticle in Kandaka: Archiving the Women Who Made Me PossibleThe Zine: High Priestess in Low Tides



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  • What if you don’t fit the stereotype?

    In this episode, Sadia Azmat, a published author, podcast host and a stand-up comedian, brings a unique perspective to the discussion on cultural identity. Sadia is born in Britain to Indian parents and she is also a practicing Muslim, however, she does not quite fit the perception people tend to have of her. She shares her journey with embracing her hijab and how it became complicated due to media narratives and misconceptions surrounding it. Sadia also touches on her experiences dealing with cultural expectations, relationships, and finding peace within herself.

    Episode mentions

    Sex Bomb — memoir by Sadia AzmatNo Country for Young Woman — BBC Sounds podcast co-hosted by Sadia AzmatFind out more about Sadia Azmat through her website



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  • Part 3 of the ‘on Palestine’ series:

    Have you ever asked a Palestinian how they see a way forward? Or what is different about this generation of Palestinians? In this episode we dive into all that through the voices of our three Palestinian guests: Zeena, Faissal, and Nour.

    On Palestine is a three-part-series on the inbetweenish pod that focuses on the Palestinian identity, the struggle for liberation, and a way forward. Palestinians have often been misrepresented by the media, so in this mini-series you will be hearing from 3 Palestinians that come from different backgrounds:

    → Zeena, Palestinian diaspora who was raised in the Arab world
    → Faissal, Palestinian diaspora who was raised in the Western world
    → Nour, Palestinian who was born and raised in Palestine

    Discover Palestine through it’s voices:

    Article: Jewish settlers stole my house. It’s not my fault they’re Jewish — Mohammed El-KurdArticle: The Right to Speak for Ourselves — Mohammed El-KurdArticle: Reflections on the 75th Anniversary of a Nakba That Never Ended — Mohammed El-KurdBook: The Hundred Years' War on Palestine: A History of Settler Colonialism and Resistance, 1917–2017 — Rashid KhalidiA list of reliable resources covering the on-going genocide in Gaza, Palestine: Gazan, Palestinian, Jewish & Israeli voices — compiled by Zeena and Beatriz

    Music for the On Palestine series comes from traditional Palestinian folkloric music found in this compilation here.

    Disclaimer: The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed belong to the respective guests of the show and do not represent the views, thoughts, and opinions of the inbetweenish pod and team.



    We'll be back soon with Season 2 of the inbetweenish pod. Stay tuned!



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  • Part 2 of the ‘on Palestine’ series:

    The Palestinian struggle for liberation is portrayed widely differently depending on who you ask, but have you ever asked Palestinians how they see and understand their own struggle for liberation?

    On Palestine is a three-part-series on the inbetweenish pod that focuses on the Palestinian identity, the struggle for liberation, and a way forward. Palestinians have often been misrepresented by the media, so in this mini-series you will be hearing from 3 Palestinians that come from different backgrounds:

    → Zeena, Palestinian diaspora who was raised in the Arab world
    → Faissal, Palestinian diaspora who was raised in the Western world
    → Nour, Palestinian who was born and raised in Palestine

    Discover Palestine through it’s authors, artists, and poets:

    Books by: Ghassan Kanafani — Palestinian poet and authorArticle on: Ghassan Kanafani — Palestinian poet and authorCartoons by: Naji al-Ali — an archive of his workArticle on: Naji al-Ali — assassination investigationArticle on: Mohamed al-Durrah — a moment in history


    Music for the On Palestine series comes from traditional Palestinian folkloric music found in this compilation here.


    Join us next Tuesday for Part 3 of the On Palestine series, this time we will be covering: a way forward, with vulnerability and honesty.

    Disclaimer: The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed belong to the respective guests of the show and do not represent the views, thoughts, and opinions of the inbetweenish pod.

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  • Part 1 of the ‘on Palestine’ series:

    In your lifetime and exposure, how have you understood Palestinian culture and it’s people?

    On Palestine is a three-part series on the inbetweenish pod that focuses on the Palestinian identity, the struggle for liberation, and a way forward. Palestinians have often been misrepresented by the media, so in this series you will be hearing from 3 Palestinians that come from different backgrounds:

    → Zeena, Palestinian diaspora who was raised in the Arab world
    → Faissal, Palestinian diaspora who was raised in the Western world
    → Nour, Palestinian who was born and raised in Palestine

    Discover Palestine through it's art and recommendations shared by On Palestine guests:

    Book: The Secret Life of Saeed: The Pessoptimist — Emile HabibiMovie: The Time that Remains — directed by Elia SuleimanMovie: It Must Be Heaven — directed by Elia SuleimanShort Film: The Present — directed by Farah Nabulsi

    Music for the On Palestine series comes from traditional Palestinian folkloric music found in this compilation here.


    Join us next Tuesday for Part 2 of the On Palestine series, this time we will be covering the struggle for liberation.

    Disclaimer: The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed belong to the respective guests of the show and do not represent the views, thoughts, and opinions of the inbetweenish pod.

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  • In this season's first minisode, we’re getting personal as I’m sharing a valuable lesson from Vovó (grandma in portuguese). Navigating a complex and ever-evolving identity can be confusing, to say the least, but today we breakdown why it’s normal. Confusion about your identity is a common human experience. We dive into how many identities we have accumulated and gathered through our lifetime. This is universal; you don’t have to be inbetweenish to be confused about who you are, but it definitely adds another layer of complexity. I hope this resonates, and I hope you can relate. And most of all, I hope you realize, you are not alone. We're all on our own journey of self-discovery.

    Episode mentions

    Find out more about Finding Home Within by Wiebke from Chameleon CoachingTrailer of Stutz Netflix documentary on Mental Health

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  • The inbetweenish is back for Season 2: First episode launches Tuesday, October 3rd.

    Get ready to embark on a captivating journey exploring the fundamental concepts of roots, home, and belonging all while embracing the beauty of being different. This season we travel through the bridges we’ve built across cultures — understanding the decisions that shaped us, remembering the homes we had to leave behind, and celebrating the immense power in the freedom to choose your own future.

    Join us every other Tuesday for different shades of stories of belonging. I hope you hear echoes of your story reflected back at you. So grab your headphones and let's dive into that inbetweenish life!

    Thank you to everyone who made this season possible: guests, collaborators, friends and my partner in life. I appreciate all of you! x

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  • We're wrapping up an incredible season of inbetweenish pod! From vulnerability to raw reflections, these stories of belonging have been quite the journey. In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of the season, sharing highlights, learnings, and even some embarrassing bloopers. Oh and guess what? Season 2 is on its way! So, stay tuned for more heart to hearts, explorations of identity, belonging, and culture.

    Thank you for following along and thank you for being a part of the inbetweenish family! Please help spread the word, leave a review, and sign up for the QUEST newsletter to stay connected.

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  • Refugee, asylum seeker, internally displaced person, migrant, immigration—the news is abuzz with some of these terms. But do you truly grasp the differences between them?

    Join Baharak Bashmani and me as we fearlessly delve into this complex topic, breaking it down into simple terms. With Baharak's unique perspective as a former refugee, having experienced the entire journey from displacement to resettlement, and her work with the UNHCR assisting fellow refugees, she offers valuable insights.

    In this thought-provoking episode, we explore:

    Defining the terms, debunking misconceptions, and addressing stigmasUncovering the reasons why people flee and where they goNavigating the process from displacement to resettlement

    Our motto: No question is taboo, all questions are welcome.

    Episode Mentions

    UNHCR Hope Away From Home — This year’s theme for World Refugee Day (June 20) is Hope Away From Home Give — Support the creation of scholarships for young refugees by donating to our Aiming Higher campaign.Create — Join UNHCR’s global art contest, which will launch on 20 June, and get a chance to design shirts that will raise funds for refugees.Learn — 5 ways you can support refugeesWelcome — things you can do to make refugees feel welcomeEducation — The 1951 Refugee Convention: Legal document that define the term 'refugee' and outlines their rights and the international standards of treatment for their protection.Education — Universal Declaration of Humans Right — foundational document that establishes a set of 30 fundamental rights and freedoms that apply to all individuals around the world, regardless of their nationality, race, religion, or gender.Hope Away From Home — article by Baharak Bashmani, found in Rooted in BWorld Refugee Day — article by Baharak Bashmani, found in Rooted in BRooted in B — Baharak’s blog where she explores notions of home, layers of identity and belonging🌳 Notions of Home — inbetweenish episode with Baharak where we explore her personal life journeyMo — Netflix series written by Mohammed Amer and Ramy Youssef Illustrating the life of a Palestinian family as they navigate the convoluted US immigration system

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  • What happens when you're inbetweenish? It's both a curse and a blessing as there are many internal and external battles that you face when you have multiple belongings. In this episode we try to unpack some of the common experiences— the good and the bad that comes with being inbetweenish.

    PS. Bob the cat makes an appearance 🐈

    💭 reflections on: what is culture
    Tune into this minisode to understand the many complex layers of culture using the iceberg analogy. This goes in depth into explaining and providing examples for the many visible and invisible layers of culture.

    💭 reflections on: Third Culture Kids and Cross-Cultural Kids explained
    Listen to this minisode, especially if you’re not familiar with the terms TCK and CCK. It sheds light on the many different ways someone can exist, experience, and belong across different cultures.

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  • How do you understand time? Is it linear? Do things progress with time? Or do they regress?

    Axel’s Two-Part Interview

    Episode 6, Season 1:
    🎹 it is not with bones and skin, it’s all with feeling — with Axel [Part I]Episode 7, Season 1:
    🎹 a man is synonymous with describing a soldier — with Axel [Part 2]

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  • We talk a lot about culture around here, so I thought it was about time we actually break it down — what is culture? On some level, we all know what it is, but it helps to understand the nuances of the word and for this explanation I’m going with the iceberg analogy to illustrate the visible and invisible layers of culture.

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  • Have you ever asked yourself what ‘home’ means to you?
    And did you ever stop to wonder how the words we use matter?

    From a young age, Baharak Bashmani, has had to navigate many worlds, each time moving for different reasons: from fleeing her 'home' country, to being resettled by the UNHCR, and later moving by choice. Every move comes with its own trials and tribulations, but ultimately her determination carries her through. As she makes her way through 7 countries, she reflects on her experiences and asks: What is 'home'? And where are my roots? Tune in for an honest conversation as Baharak reveals her notions of 'home', the nuances between fitting in and belonging, and as she reflects on her roots and nomadic lifestyle.

    Episode Mentions

    Rooted in B — Baharak’s blog where she writes about her experience as a nomad, and reflects on home, identity, and belongingArticle Baharak wrote for the UNHCR on #WhatHomeMeans
    ”She feeds me, listens to my journeys and makes me feel right at home.”Zan, Zendegi, Azadi (Woman, Life, Freedom)
    Rooted in B Article written by Baharak about the current situation in IranUNHCR — The United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees
    The UN Refugee Agency that resettled Baharak and her family to Finland.
    If you want to learn more about what is being done for refugees and how to help, find out more on their websiteThe Body Keeps the Score — Dr. Bessel van der Kolk
    The go-to book for deconstructing trauma, understanding what it means, and it's affects on both children and adults. Told from a psychologist's perspective.

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  • Have you ever stopped to wonder what rituals you practice from your inherited faith? Are they religious rituals? Or are they cultural rituals?

    Episode 9, Season 1 with Aakshi Singha
    🌶️ the diversity that brings us together — with Aakshi

    More about: Aakshi Singha
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  • What is the strongest tie you have to your home country?
    How does your schooling inform your own identity?

    On this episode, I chat with Aakshi Sinha about her upbringing, growing up all over India, and then going away for college at Minerva University. Aakshi bravely shares stories from her boarding school days, from complicated hierarchal relationships, to coping mechanisms through music and community building. Together we explore subjects of mental health, seeking therapy, discovering one’s sexual identity and the importance of representation. One topic we keep circling back to is Partition and Independence, and Aakshi asks a very important question: how much of history is actually felt in the present?

    Episode Mentions

    On Children by Khalil GibranThe Prophet by Khalil Gibran1947 Partition Archive — a non-profit, non-governmental organization dedicated to archiving the people's history of PartitionGaysi — safe zone and platform exploring the intersection between being Desi and queer

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  • In this minisode we’re going back to the origin story of in-betweenish, explaining why and how it came to be. It all started with a few simple questions about a decade ago:

    Where is home?
    What is a home?

    This lead me on a journey to discover the term Third Culture Kid (TCK). Researchers John and Ruth Useem, an American sociologist and anthropologist couple, first coined the term Third Culture Kids when they were living abroad in India with their family. According to Dr. Ruth Useem, being a Third Culture Kid explained “Children who accompany their parents into another culture [usually for a parent’s career choice.]” Sometimes the term Adult Third Culture Kid, ATCK, is used to describe adults who had a TCK upbringing.

    Simple formula used to understand Third Culture Kids:
    A [parents’ culture] + B [host country/countries culture(s)] = C [your own third culture]

    Years later, when doing research for the inception of the in-betweenish pod, I came across the more inclusive term Cross-Cultural Kids (CCK). This new model was researched and developed by Ruth E. Van Reken and encompasses more diverse experiences of people who exist across different cultures for any reason. In her research, Van Reken outlines 7 Cross-Cultural Kid categories and they are:

    Bi-racial/ bi-cultural childrenChildren of ImmigrantsChildren of RefugeesChildren of Minorities
    (Privileged or Marginalized)International AdoptionsTraditional Third Culture Kids
    (Foreign Service Kids, Corporate Brats, Missionary Kids, Military Brats)Domestic Third Culture Kids

    If you recognize yourself in this CCK upbringing and you want to share your story, reach out to me directly. I’d love to hear from you! You can reach me through our website or send me a message through our Instagram.

    ✏️ TCK and CCK Resources: Learn More Here

    Mo — Netflix series developed by Mohammed Amer and Ramy Youssef
    The life of a Palestinian family as they navigate the convoluted US immigration systemCross Cultural Kids
    Research developed by Ruth E. Van RekenThird Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds
    Book by David C. Pollock and Ruth E. Van Reken Arrivals, Departures and the Adventures In-Between
    Book by Christopher O'Shaughnessy Letters Never Sent: A Global Nomad’s Journey from Hurt to Healing
    Book by Ruth E. Van Reken The Danger of a Single Story
    Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie | TED

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  • Identity Crisis is a term that gets thrown around quite a bit nowadays. In this minisode, I attempt to understand, from a psychological perspective, what an identity crisis really is. In doing so, we also explore what identity is comprised of: experiences, relationships, beliefs, values and memories. Information shared in this minisode is based on the work and theories of Erik Erikson and James Marcia.

    PS. Read along this article if you want to understand how identity develops!
    Erik Erikson’s 8 Stages of Psychosocial Development

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