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In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava recap their unforgettable holiday bowling event. From Pinky becoming part of a couch (Ă la Half-Baked) to Ava offering herself as tribute (Ă la The Hunger Games); weâre sharing all the highlights (and strikes) from the night.
We also take a look back at our journey over the past year, reflecting on the incredible moments, lessons learned, and growth weâve experienced. Plus, weâre sharing a sneak peek at whatâs to come for the podcast and our adventures in non-monogamy.
A heartfelt thank you to everyone who has supported us along the wayâyouâve made this journey so much more special. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a toast to the future!
Listen now and join the conversation!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
More Than Two | Eve Rickert & Andrea Zanin
Exxxotica Expo
Naughty N'awlins
Three Shades Of Grey (Episode 6)
Splash Takeovers
Life Of Spice
UpsideDown Creations | Instagram
We Gotta Thing Podcast
Normalizing Non-Monogamy
Hump Day Quickies [sic] Confessions
Splash Mocha
Southwest Love Fest
Eroticon 2026
SOCIALS:
Anthony's Instagram
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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Get ready for laughs, gasps, and maybe a few âOhhhhhsâ in this month's episode of Pinky and Avaâs Pajama Party! Ava drops a bombshell that sheâs been holding onto for way too longâlike, years-longâand itâs all about orgasms (yes, those orgasms).
We dive deep into Avaâs revelation, unpacking the hilarity, the honesty, and the sheer audacity of keeping a secret this big. Did Pinky see it coming? (Spoiler alert: absolutely not.)
Join us as we talk about the Big O, the small lies we tell ourselves, and why Avaâs secret is the ultimate plot twist. Itâs a juicy mix of real talk, belly laughs, and a reminder that even in non-monogamy, thereâs always something new to learnâŠor confess.
Warning: Listening may cause spontaneous giggling and side-eyeing your partner.
Tune in nowâbecause the truth has never been this orgasmically funny!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Psychology Today | "The Case of the Female Orgasm," Revisited
Mama Gena | Website
SOCIALS:
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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In this episode of Anthony, Pinky, & Ava dive into the concept of polysaturationâthe moment when managing multiple partners in non-monogamy becomes overwhelming. While love and connection are infinite; time, energy, and emotional capacity are not.
Join us as we break down three concerns surrounding polysaturation:
1. Time Management
2. Emotional Burnout
3. Relationship Quality vs. QuantityThrough personal anecdotes, practical tips, and heartfelt advice, we explore how to recognize the signs of polysaturation, the benefits of setting limits, and strategies to maintain healthy, fulfilling connections.
If youâve ever felt like your calendar is bursting or your emotional bandwidth is maxed out, this episode is for you. Learn how to navigate the delicate balance of love, time, and energy in your non-monogamous journey.
Tune in now and take a step toward a more intentional love life!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
More Than Two | Franklin Veaux
Open Deeply | Kate Loree
Splash Takeovers | The Premier Couples Event
SOCIALS:
Anthony's Instagram
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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In this episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party, the tables are turned as Ava steps boldly into the spotlight. Sheâs on the prowl, and her latest adventure leads her to an unexpected discovery: someone who speaks Pinky!
What does it mean to "speak Pinky"? Ava reveals how she navigated this surprising connection and what made her sit up and take notice. Meanwhile, Pinky offers her perspective on this unique dynamic and how it feels to be understood in such a personal way.
Join us for laughter, revelations, and a story thatâs sure to entertain. This episode is full of heart, humor, and the unexpected. Donât miss it!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Feeld | A dating app for the curious
Splash Takeovers
Naughty N'awlins
Haulover Beach
Mama Gena
Normalizing Non-Monogamy
Mel Robbins | 9 Small Things....
Victoria's Secret | Beauty
Daisy | Marc Jacobs
SOCIALS:
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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Slumber party, anyone? In this episode, weâre diving into one of the more complex aspects of non-monogamous relationships; sleepovers!!!
Spending the night can bring up a range of emotions, from excitement to anxiety, and weâre here to explore it all. Weâll look at how sleepovers impact feelings like jealousy, security, and connection, along with the unique pros and cons they bring.
While they can deepen bonds with other partners, they also come with challenges like balancing time, handling communication, and respecting boundaries.
Weâll share personal stories and insights on how weâve navigated the highs and lows, offering a real look into the realities and rewards of non-monogamous sleepovers.
From swapping PJs to navigating morning routines with new faces, weâve got all the playful, awkward, and heartwarming stories covered. Tune in to see how we keep it fun (and drama-free!)
Grab your snacks and listen now!!!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Hitachi Magic Wand | Website
"Intimacy Is About Truth..." quote | Taylor Jenkins Reid
"Intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is 'you're safe with me'- that's intimacy."
Taylor Jenkins Reid, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
"It Is Not Sex..."quote | Marge Piercy
"It is not sex that gives the pleaure, but the lover"
Marge Piercy, Gone To Soldiers
SOCIALS:
Anthony's Instagram
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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Love, freedom, and maybe just a dash of âdid we call it or what?â are all on the table in this juicy episode!
After leaving the non-monogamous world to pursue love in a monogamous relationship, PD/Nirvana Lover is backâand letâs just say, Ava and Pinky couldnât be happier!
This shared partner of theirs isnât just making a return to the lifestyle; heâs back where he belongs, rekindling connections and rediscovering the magic of non-monogamy.
What was it about monogamy that lured him away, and what did he miss about the lifestyle?
How does it feel to be welcomed back by two excited partners who arenât shy about letting him know heâs been missed?
Pinky and Ava; with help from Anthony ask the tough (and tempting!) questions as they dive into Nirvana Loverâs journey.
Expect laughs, insights, and a bit of heat in this playful and heartfelt reunion.
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Normalizing Non-Monogamy | Emma and Fin
Splash Takeovers
Exxxotica Expo | Website
Life Of Spice | Website
SOCIALS:
Anthony's Instagram
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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In this episode, Pinky and Ava dive into the Netflix series Nobody Wants This, a romantic comedy that follows the unlikely connection between an atheist sex podcaster and a Jewish rabbi. From quirky mishaps to heartfelt moments, the show navigates the challenges and joys of balancing differences in lifestyle, belief, and love.
Join Pinky and Ava as they break down how they relate to the charactersâ struggles, surprises, and laughter-filled moments. They share their own experiences that resonate with the seriesâ themes and explore how it captures the complexities of modern relationships, offering a fun yet thoughtful look at love beyond traditional boundaries.
Stick around til' the very end for a sultry poetry reading by Pinky of Ev'yan Whitney's I Am A "Too Much" Woman.
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Netflix | Nobody Wants This
Armchair Expert Podcast
Ev'yan Whitney | I Am A "Too Much" Woman
SOCIALS:
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
Ev'yan Whitney's Instagram
TikTok
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Join us for this exciting episode as Anthony and Pinky recap their first time attending a Splash Takeovers event in Florida to celebrate another anniversary of Pinky's "21st birthday". This was no ordinary getawayâSplash Takeovers hosts premier couples only, clothing-optional, lifestyle events where participants from the swinging and kink communities come together for unforgettable experiences. Unfortunately, Ava couldn't join in on the adventures. However, Anthony and Pinky were able to enlist the participation of some fascinating guests who were front and center at the event: âą The Accidental Swingers âą Swinky Life âą Sentinel Bear Each of them shares their unique take on the lifestyle, their experiences at Splash, and what this vibrant community means to them. From the wild energy of the hotel takeover to the deeper connections made throughout the weekend, youâll hear all about what makes Splash Takeovers a must-attend event for anyone in the lifestyle. Whether youâre curious about what really goes down at these events, or youâre a seasoned participant looking for the inside scoop, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises along the way. Tune in for open, honest, and thrilling conversation! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Splash Takeovers | Website Accidental Swingers | Website SwinkyLife | Website Sentinel Bear | Instagram Beth Darling | Website Haulover Beach | Website PODCASTS: The Accidental Swingers Podcast The Bare Effect Podcast Come With Us Podcast SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram The Accidental Swingers / Myrina's Instagram Tristan's Instagram Crimson Dragonfly's Instagram Phoenix Phyre's Instagram The Bare Effect Podcast / Mercy JustFly's Instagram
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Picture this: a Christmas party, but instead of unwrapping gifts, Avaâs unwrappingâŠwell, you get it. But this wasnât just any party; it was an empowering space where women ruled, respect was paramount, and despite a few creepers; she felt safe.
In this episode, Pinky gets Ava to share her wild introduction to the swinging scene, where "multitasking" took on a whole new meaning for her!
Ava shares the salacious details of her crash course into the lifestyle; where she found herself at the deep endâdiving headfirst into the lifestyle and learning that sometimes its all about saying âfuck itâ and embracing the moment.
Join the ladies for this rollercoaster of an episode thatâll leave you thinking: maybe the holiday spirit isnât the only thing thatâs contagious!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of setting and navigating Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules (BAR) in non-monogamous relationships. With insights drawn from real-life experiences and expert advice, we explore how these tools help foster trust, respect, and growth in any relationship dynamic. Join us for this candid and enlightening conversation on how to set, respect, and evolve the boundaries, agreements, and rules that work for your unique relationship style. Whether youâre new to non-monogamy or looking to refine your existing framework, this episode has something for everyone. Tune in and letâs set the BAR! LINKS: Three Shade Of Grey | Website Sex WIth Emily | Instagram More Than Two | Website Polysecure | Jessica Fern (Website) Make Love Not Porn | Website SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok
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Pinky is still on the prowl in this exciting follow-up to the original âPinky on the Prowlâ episode.
Join Pinky and Ava as they dive deeper into their journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and sexual liberation.
Inspired by the powerful writings found in the New York Times Bestseller "Pussy, a Reclamation" by Regena Thomashauer (Mama Gena); the ladies explore the importance of embracing the word âPussyâ as a term of empowerment rather than a derogatory label. They also discuss why "faking it" when it comes to orgasmsâis a disservice to both yourself and your partner.
This episode is about reclaiming your power, being unapologetically yourself, and celebrating the beauty and strength of your sexuality.
Grab a seat as these goddesses continue their journey of exploration and embrace the full power of âPussyâ!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Mama Gena's | Regina Thomashauer's Website
SOCIALS:
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
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In this episode, we dive into the intricacies of balancing non-monogamous relationships with two other F words; friends and family. How do you handle those moments when explanations fall flat or are lost in translation?
Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they explore the hilarious, heartwarming, and sometimes harrowing moments that arise when you talk to monogamous people about non-monogamy.
Plus, they also discuss the importance of setting healthy boundaries, opening up to those closest to you, and embracing the reality of living authentically.
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In this episode Pinky & Ava tackle the controversial topic of unsolicited D!*k pics. Exploring why these uninvited snapshots are a major pet peeve and turn-off for them as well as others. While they love the human form, seeing it in an unsolicited and explicit manner can be off-putting.
Join the ladies as they delve into the importance of depth and meaningful connection in the world of nonmonogamy; highlighting the significance of showing who you truly are beyond just physical attributes. Also, emphasizing the inherent consent and boundary issues that arise when sending these spicy pics. Lastly, they touch on the undue pressure some feel to reciprocate and how to navigate these situations with grace and respect.
Tune in for a candid conversation about maintaining respect and connection in the digital age of nonmonogamy.
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
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In this episode, we dive into the vibrant and thrilling world of Naughty N'awlins 2024, the annual non-monogamous, sex-positive conference held in the heart of New Orleans. Join us as we recount our experiences, share highlights from the event, and discuss the various workshops, parties, and meetups that made this yearâs conference unforgettable.
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Naughty Events | Producers & Hosts of Naughty N'awlins
Amanda-The Kink Consultant | Disney Character Kinks
BizBonobos | The Business With Benefits Network
Dragonfly | Pure Orgasmic Love
The Safe Space | Boise Shibari Studio
Cafe Beignet
Red Fish Grill
Paddlewheeler Creole Queen
PODCASTS:
4OURPLAY Podcast | Bella & Jase
Hump Day Quickies | Swinger Confessions
The Pineapple Express Podcast
The Sinsational Unicorn Podcast
The Swing Nation Podcast
SOCIALS:
Anthony's Instagram
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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The Instigator returns, and this time Pinky & Ava couldnât let Hot Mama escape without an invite to the wildest Pajama Party yet.
Get ready as Hot Mama spills the tea on her most salacious experiences, from jaw-dropping party tricks to marathon sessions that defy all limits. No walls or boundaries are off-limits in this episode!
This episode is a no-holds-barred exploration of freedom, passion, and the limitless possibilities within non-monogamous relationships. If you're ready to challenge norms and dive into the deep end of desire, this is the episode for you. Free your mind, and the rest will follow!
**Episode Highlights:**
- **Free Your Mind:** Breaking free from oppressive upbringings and embracing true freedom.
- **Beyond Duty:** Hot Mama shares how she found more meaningful relationships by breaking away from societal expectations.
- **Discoveries & Revelations:** Hot Mama opens up about discovering bisexuality, exploring interracial relationships, and diving into BDSM.
- **Scandalous Set-Up:** The story behind the texturized headboards and the ruined floorsâparty tricks gone wild!
- **Endurance Unleashed:** Tales of marathon sessions that will leave you breathless.
- **Poetic Passion:** Hear about the poetic moments that intertwine with Hot Mamaâs erotic adventures.
- **Eye Contact:** The intriguing dynamics of looking into your partner's eyes during intimate moments.
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Hot Mama's Guide To Vetting Single Men
SOCIALS:
Anthony's Instagram
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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Do you know someone who gets the party started, but looks so innocent?
Anthony, Pinky, and Ava take a road trip to visit "The original Instigator", other than Pinky. Join the 3SOG crew as they sit down with Hot Mama; the woman that unintentionally, or intentionally (you be the judge) helped put the pieces together that led to this podcast.
We break Hot Mama's podcast cherry as she shares her journey in non-monogamy including her time as an event hostess/"gatekeeper"; vetting single men, such as Anthony, for parties.
Buckle up and enjoy!!!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Anthony's Instagram
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
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We're taking the show on the road to "The Big Easy"!!!
Anthony, Pinky, & Ava are heading to Naughty N'awlins 2024 hosted by Naughty Events. Naughty Events is one of the leading lifestyle event planners in the country. With over 40, Hotel & Resort Takeovers, Bob & Tess (the producers) know what their customers want... and they deliver.
The crew discuss their initial introduction to this annual event, which is in its 26th year; and what/who they're looking forward to: Educational classes, Parties, Playrooms, etc...
Take a listen and look for Anthony, Pinky, & Ava on Bourbon Street!!!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Naughty N'awlins 2024
Dragonfly-Pure Orgasmic Love
Dr. Stephanie-Evolve Your Intimacy
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How does a goddess navigate the world of non-monogamy? Lookout, Pinky is on the prowl!!
Join Pinky and Ava as they discuss the challenges of finding suitable suitors; aka "Professionals". From speaking the same language so desires are known, to surviving the gauntlet of online dating; the ladies share their experiences and advice.
Buckle up as they get down and dirty!!!
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Feeld | A Dating App For The Curious
SOCIALS:
Pinky's Instagram (& Poems)
Ava's Instagram
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What's your kink? Interested in BDSM? Is there something that gets your rocks off that isn't "normal"? You'd be surprised to know you're probably not the only one.
Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they discuss their adventures in kink and BDSM. They discuss their dyanamics and roles, various play styles, and provide some resources for those that might want to visit the "dark" side.
LINKS
Three Shades Of Grey / Website
Dr. Emily Morse / Sex With Emily (Yes! No! Maybe?)
FetLife / The Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community
KinkFest / Portland Leather Alliance
Normalizing Non-Monogamy / Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging
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Pinky & Ava invite Anthony and PD (aka Nirvana Lover) to the Pajama Party.
The ladies get to share opinions/views about their relationships. Slide on in and enjoy the conversation.
LINKS:
Three Shades Of Grey | Website
Ăberlube | Feeling Is Everything
SOCIALS:
Pinky's Instagram
Ava's Instagram
TikTok
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