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Happy feast day of St. Thomas the apostle known as Doubting Thomas. Have you struggled with skepticism or the true presence of Christ in the Eucharist? (2:03) The Bible teaches we are all pilgrims. What does this mean? (18:58) Support for “gay marriage” has dropped (39:23)
Resources mentioned :From a homily on the Gospels by Saint Gregory the Great, Pope on Thomas the Doubting Apostle
https://olmercy.com/2018/04/06/doubting-thomas-the-faith-strengthener/
Fr. Tim Episodes
https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&s=Grumbach
Support for “gay marriage” has dropped
https://catholicvote.org/poll-republican-gay-marriage-support-down-dem-and-independent-support-also-falling/
More people are ex-gay than gay
https://relevantradio.com/2024/06/no-gay-gene-more-people-are-formerly-gay-than-gay/
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Are you afraid of commitment? It’s a common struggle, affecting both men and women today. Whether it’s a hesitant date or a marriage that feels stuck, commitment fears can sneak in and create roadblocks.
Meet Joe Sikorra
In this episode of "Trending with Timmerie," you'll hear from Joe Sikorra, a licensed marriage and family therapist and the author of "The Whole World Is Going Crazy But You Don't Have To." Joe’s wisdom is both profound and practical, blending faith and psychology to help navigate today’s chaotic world.
Here's a link to the whole episode!
Understanding Fear of Commitment
Joe kicked off by explaining why commitment is so vital. It’s the bedrock of our relationships, key to happiness, and crucial for finding meaning. Yet, so many of us are shackled by fear. Let’s dive into why this happens:
Childhood Trauma: Did you grow up in a turbulent home? Experiences of neglect, abuse, or witnessing divorce can plant deep fears of trust and stability.
Self-Sabotage: Do you find yourself making excuses to avoid deepening relationships? This might be a sign of underlying fears.
Cultural Pressures: Today’s social media culture can make us feel like we need to be perfect, further fueling our fears.
Recognizing the Signs
Red Flags to Watch For:
Anxiety: Do you feel a sense of dread about getting close to someone?
Avoidance: Do you often cancel plans or avoid making them in the first place?
Self-Sabotage: Do you engage in behaviors that push people away, even if you don’t mean to?
Take a moment to ask yourself:
Do I feel nervous about getting closer to my partner or friends?
Do I often avoid deep conversations or commitments?
Can I trace these feelings back to something in my past?
Healing and Moving Forward
Therapy and Faith:
Therapy: Talking to a professional can help you understand and heal from past traumas.
Prayer and Faith: Building a deeper relationship with God can provide a sense of safety and trust.
Steps You Can Take:
Reflect on Your Past: Consider how your childhood experiences might be affecting you now.
Seek Help: Therapy can offer tools and insights to overcome fears.
Nurture Your Faith: Engage in prayer and spiritual practices to build trust in God’s love.
There’s Always Hope
Joe’s message is clear: No matter your past, healing is possible. By understanding the roots of your commitment fears and actively working to overcome them, you can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Remember, with faith and effort, you can break free from the chains of fear and embrace the joy of committed love.
Take a deep breath, and know that with understanding, therapy, and faith, you can overcome your fears and build the loving, committed relationships you deserve.
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Should a woman take the pill for acne? Dr. Marguerite Duane from Facts About Fertility joins Trending with Timmerie (2:12) How do we find access to real reproductive healthcare for women? (22:16) How to be a pro-life advocate for women. (37:12) How do you encourage your daughter to be modest at Church? (43:08) Plan a getaway this summer – how to plan a staycation (46:13)
Resources mentioned :FACTS About Fertility
https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/
Find a cycle tracking coach
https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/facts-physician-clinician-educator-directory/
Learn more about the pill and the impact of contraception
https://relevantradio.com/2024/03/loud-budgeting-ditching-the-pill/
https://relevantradio.com/2024/05/medical-data-on-birth-control-chemical-abortion/
Period Repair Manual
https://amzn.to/4eMi6jG
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Dr. Ingrid Skop, a seasoned obstetrician and pro-life advocate, shared her experiences with the heartbreaking aftermath of abortions. Dr. Skop, who has delivered over 5,000 babies, offers a unique and compassionate perspective on the real-life consequences faced by women.
The Heartbreaking Aftermath of Abortion With a heavy heart, Dr. Skop reveals the severe complications women endure after abortions, especially with the rise of chemical abortions. She describes how women come to her in desperate need, suffering from heavy bleeding, infections, and requiring emergency surgery. It's not just statistics for her; it's about real women in pain, women who are often left alone to deal with the physical and emotional wreckage.
The Dark Side of Underreporting Dr. Skop uncovers a shocking truth: the FDA admits that 1 in 25 women will need emergency care after taking abortion drugs. But many of these cases are misdiagnosed as miscarriages due to the shame surrounding abortion. Dr. Skop speaks about the women who suffer in silence, feeling abandoned and betrayed by a system that promised them "safe and easy" solutions.
The Dangers of Mail-Order Abortions With genuine concern, Dr. Skop tells you about the alarming trend of mail-order abortion drugs. These medications, sent across state lines leave women to fend for themselves. She shares heartbreaking stories of women making multiple emergency room visits, bleeding and in pain, before they receive the care they need. This lack of oversight is truly a profound human tragedy.
The Truth Behind the Numbers Dr. Skop criticizes the abortion industry's manipulation of data. She talks about how pro-abortion studies often fail to track complications accurately, leaving many women's suffering unrecorded. The pro-life research she and her colleagues conduct is frequently censored, stifling the truth about the real dangers of abortion. It's a battle for transparency and honesty that she is determined to fight.
A Call for Real Compassion Reflecting on her decades in the field, Dr. Skop makes it clear that that abortion has been a devastating failure for women's health. She talks about the long-term consequences: the medical complications, the mental health issues, and the societal problems like fatherless children. With deep compassion, she calls for a reevaluation of this "failed experiment" and advocates for comprehensive support for women facing unplanned pregnancies. She believes in a world where both the mother and the child are cherished and supported.
Abortion is a path that leads to profound suffering and regret. Dr. Skop's heartfelt plea is to protect and cherish both the mother and the child, providing real support and hope for those facing unexpected pregnancies.
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Summer travel boom! 1 in 4 Americans are going into debt for a Summer vacation. Going into debt or meaningful alternatives with financial coaches Jonathan and Amanda Texierra from Wallet Win. (0:25) How do you vacation on a budget? (21:36) 1 reason why we need a vacation so badly. (36:24)
Resources mentioned :https://walletwin.com/
Episode on how to live off 1 income and be a stay at home mom
https://relevantradio.com/2024/04/parents-on-a-budget/
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SCOTUS decision on emergency medical care and abortion. What happened and what’s at stake? (0:48) Presidential debate on abortion. (25:16) Raising pro-life kids. (32:15) Too busy? Why do parents ignore the experts telling them screen time is harmful for children? Simple ways to cutback screen time (38:35)
Resources mentioned :“I’ve never needed to perform an abortion to save a woman’s life”
https://relevantradio.com/2024/05/do-doctors-need-abortion-to-save-a-womans-life/
7 in 10 abortions are coerced or unwanted
https://lozierinstitute.org/hidden-epidemic-nearly-70-of-abortions-are-coerced-unwanted-or-inconsistent-with-womens-preferences/
Do women die from abortion?
https://relevantradio.com/2023/12/do-women-die-from-abortion/
Window to the womb
https://www.windowtothewomb.app/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ezn-9q2SYM&t=30s
Supreme Court ‘punts’ Idaho emergency room abortion case back to lower court
https://www.liveaction.org/news/supreme-court-punts-emergency-room-abortion-case/
Studies on Multitasking & Screen Use
https://westerntoday.wwu.edu/features/would-talking-on-your-cell-phone-cause-you-to-have-missed-this-clown-one-professor-thinks
https://www.cbs58.com/news/late-night-screen-time-puts-teens-sleep-and-mental-health-at-risk
https://www.kidsnews.com.au/health/two-hours-of-screen-time-hurts-kids-health/news-story/2bb82c6ee646af88a91ac426dd615727
Protect your family from the overuse of technology
https://screenstrong.org/
Episodes with Melanie Hempe from ScreenStrong.com on Trending
https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&s=melanie+hempe
Gabb Phone and Watch – limited talk and text for teens. Smartphone solutions.
https://gabb.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc_shopping&gclid=CjwKCAjw8-OhBhB5EiwADyoY1Qa_9v0UMYJH1nCDjEfoci2G1Uc-zfoqmZ1GMzW6os9ygYRfyDDFuRoC3UcQAvD_BwE
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Fear of commitment – therapist Joe Sikorroa LMFT explains how the past leads to difficulty to commit. (1:43) A therapist responds to questions: How do you find common ground in parenting when you “know best”? I’m recently married and can’t get over my past boyfriend. How do you distance yourself from unhealthy in-laws? (25:11) What do you do when your wife wants a divorce and you don't? (41:37) How to read your Bible and pray with it. (45:58)
Resources mentioned :https://joesikorra.com/
Spiritual Communion Prayer by St. Alphonsus Liguori
My Jesus,
I believe that You are present in the Most Holy Sacrament.
I love You above all things,
and I desire to receive You into my soul.
Since I cannot at this moment receive You sacramentally,
come at least spiritually into my heart.
I embrace You as if You were already there
and unite myself wholly to You.
Never permit me to be separated from You.Amen
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Ever felt like you just need some "me time? What do you usually do?
Here's a question - has "me time" gone too far?
The Self-Care Hype: A Personal Take
Timmerie recounts a conversation with a longtime friend who worked in pregnancy resource centers. This friend shared stories of a mom juggling full-time parenting, PTA duties, and church volunteering, all while desperately seeking "me time." On the flip side, another friend, a mother of four, laughed at the idea of "me time," reminiscing about simply taking a deep breath amidst the chaos.
Jim’s Perspective: From Common Sense to Crazy
Jim O'Day joins the conversation with a candid take on how self-care has morphed into a narcissistic craze. He shares a frustrating story of an older woman caught up in the self-care movement, spending money she didn't have on extravagant retreats. Jim emphasizes that true self-care should be about maintaining balance through simple, everyday actions—like a peaceful walk or a good night's sleep—not expensive getaways.
The Personal Toll of Extreme Self-Care
There can be dangers of over-prioritizing self-care. This obsession can lead to family breakdowns, with some women going from being supermoms to walking away from their families. Jim calls for a return to the kind of common-sense care our grandmothers knew: small acts that nourish without isolating.
Healthy Marriages Need Healthy Individuals
Jim shares his experience working with couples. He stresses the importance of both partners getting healthy individually for their relationship to thrive. He advises against trying to fix each other, suggesting instead to focus on self-improvement and personal growth. His personal phrase? "You fix you, he fixes him."
The Value of Trusted Friends
Both Timmerie and Jim stress the importance of having a support system. Jim shares how he turns to trusted friends when he's struggling, making sure to focus on his own feelings rather than criticizing his spouse. This approach fosters healthier processing of marital challenges and keeps the focus on personal growth.
Balancing Self-Care with Common Sense
Balance and moderation are key. Timmerie and Jim encourage you to find joy in simple pleasures and maintain healthy routines without giving in to the pressures of social media's extravagant standards.
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Dr. Ingrid Skop is a pro-life obstetrician who cares for women when an abortion goes wrong. She explains the lack of medical standards in abortion businesses. (1:30) 7 in 10 abortions – women did not want and were coerced into. (25:40) How fear has been weaponized to promote abortion. (36:38) Gen Z and millennials would rather be jobless than unhappy at work. What do they really want and need? (42:10)
Resources mentioned:
More episodes with Dr. Ingrid Skop
https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&s=skop
“I’ve never needed to perform an abortion to save a woman’s life”
https://relevantradio.com/2024/05/do-doctors-need-abortion-to-save-a-womans-life/
Do women die from abortion?
https://relevantradio.com/2023/12/do-women-die-from-abortion/
Induced Abortion and the Increased Risk of Maternal Mortality - Dr. Skop Published by the National Library of Medicine
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7350112/
Dr. Ingrid Skop’s research at the Lozier Institute
https://lozierinstitute.org/team-member/ingrid-skop-m-d-facog/
Support After Abortion
https://supportafterabortion.com/
7 in 10 abortions are coerced or unwanted
https://lozierinstitute.org/hidden-epidemic-nearly-70-of-abortions-are-coerced-unwanted-or-inconsistent-with-womens-preferences/
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You need to hear this eye-opening episode of Trending with Timmerie where she talked to Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse from the Ruth Institute. The topic? A new bill in Massachusetts that could allow women to sell their babies before they're even born. Let's dive into the details together.
Parental "Equality" or Ethical Nightmare?
Dr. Morse explained that this bill, under the guise of promoting parental equality, would let women make contracts to sell their unborn children. If the contract is signed while the woman is still pregnant, it’s considered a surrogacy arrangement. But if done after birth, it's classified as illegal baby selling. This loophole is deeply troubling.
Surrogacy: The Slippery Slope
We already know surrogacy in the U.S. is lightly regulated, especially in places like Southern California. This bill would take things further, turning pregnancy into a potential commercial transaction. Imagine unborn children being treated as commodities—this goes against everything we believe about the sanctity of life.
The Ethical Quagmire
Dr. Morse highlighted the disturbing contradiction in the fertility industry: on one hand, people desperately want a baby and see embryos as precious; on the other, any "excess" embryos are often discarded as medical waste. This bill only intensifies the commodification of children, making them mere objects to be bought and sold.
The Rise of Infertility and Its Implications
With infertility rates climbing, it’s predicted that by 2050, most people will need medical help to conceive. This has made surrogacy and IVF more common, often glamorized on social media. But behind the scenes, this trend reduces children to status symbols, akin to luxury items like designer handbags or cars.
Redefining Parenthood: A Dangerous Precedent
This bill also changes what it means to be a parent. Instead of recognizing the natural, biological bond, it shifts parenthood to something defined by the state through contracts. This could lead to more government control over family life, moving us away from recognizing the natural, God-given relationships between parents and children.
Call to Action
We need to stand up against this bill and protect the sanctity of life. Every child is a unique and unrepeatable gift from God, not a commodity to be bought and sold. If you live in Massachusetts or know someone who does, spread the word and urge your policymakers to reject this dangerous legislation.
Remember: Every child is a unique and unrepeatable gift from God. Let's protect that sacred gift.
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Therapist Michael Gasparro on, what Catholic virtues are important for parents and adults in family life. (5:00) Do you struggle with same sex attraction? A Catholic devotion that helps. (26:00) Can a gay person really be chaste? (40:00) Why Gen Z & Millennials would rather be unemployed than unhappy at work. (43:30)
Resources mentioned:
Michael’s Website
https://www.catholictherapists.com/michael-gasparro-ma-lmft-lpcc -
Birth control at Ralphs? (1:09) 2 years after Roe v Wade was overturned – lives that have been saved. (19:32) Miracles! (37:07) Is your phone your bedtime friend? (43:04)
Resources mentioned :
Birth control over the counter
https://relevantradio.com/2024/03/loud-budgeting-ditching-the-pill/
Birth control studies:
Opill product label warnings
https://www.accessdata.fda.gov/drugsatfda_docs/label/2017/017031s035s036lbl.pdf
2023 UK Study: Fitzpatrick D, Pirie K, Reeves G, Green J, Beral V (2023) Combined and progestogen-only hormonal contraceptives and breast cancer risk: A UK nested case–control study and meta-analysis. https://journals.plos.org/plosmedicine/article?id=10.1371/journal.pmed.1004188
Study Linking Birth Control to Depression and anxiety
research, published in JAMA Psychiatry:
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2552796
2015 study Hormonal contraceptive use and risk of glioma
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4386952/#:~:text=WHAT%20THIS%20STUDY%20ADDS,term%20users%20of%20hormonal%20contraceptives
2016 study The Influence of Hormonal Factors on the Risk of Developing Cervical Cancer and Pre-Cancer
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26808155/
Study 10% of women who conceive in Opill/ progesterone only pill have Ectopic Pregnancies
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK539860/
Layla Khlan had a blood clot in her brain from birth control and died
https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/girl-16-dies-after-taking-birth-control-pill-ease-painful-periods
Birth control makes women sad JAMA study
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2552796
Tik Tok Stories about coming off the pill
https://www.tiktok.com/@katesnooks/video/7274529764055010593?embed_source=71929435%2C121374463%2C121404359%2C121351166%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&refer=embed&referer_url=www.eviemagazine.com%2Fpost%2Fyoung-women-are-turning-against-the-pill-here-is-why&referer_video_id=7274529764055010593
Hair loss: https://www.tiktok.com/@chan.sessions?referer_url=www.eviemagazine.com%2Fpost%2Fyoung-women-are-turning-against-the-pill-here-is-why&refer=embed&embed_source=71929435%2C121374463%2C121404359%2C121351166%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%3Bnull%3Bembed_name&referer_video_id=7093254780230962478
Birth control makes women sad JAMA study
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2552796
Hailey Bieber had a stroke from birth control
https://relevantradio.com/2022/05/why-did-hailey-bieber-have-a-stroke/
Vox Vitae’s website
https://www.voxvitae.org/
Dr. Caldwell’s episodes about IVF and fertility help
https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&s=susan+caldwell
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Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse from the Ruth Institute joins Trending with Timmerie discussing: Children’s rights and the intentional severing of the relationship between parent and child. (:25) Massachusetts bill would allow women to sell their babies prior to birth. (23:55) What is phubbing? How to stop doing it. (44:50)
Resources mentioned:
Ruth Institute Website
https://ruthinstitute.org/
Listen to more episodes with Dr. Morse
https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&s=roback+morse
Catholic Ministry to Adult Children of Divorce or Separation
https://www.lifegivingwounds.org/
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How well can you respond or make your case for life? Can you respond to questions about the medical impact of abortion, STDs, post abortion syndrome? Test your po-life responses. How would you talk to a woman in crisis? How do you share about the medical impact of abortion. Enjoy this q and a, multiple choice, true or false pop quiz.
Resources mentioned :
Support after abortion – healing
https://supportafterabortion.com/
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School refusal – children refusing to go to school. What’s happening and what do you do? (0:46) How do you combat loneliness in motherhood? (26:43) Christina, formerly an engineer turned full-time mom, answers – are you “contributing to society” when you’re a stay at home mom? (38:57)
Resources mentioned :Kolbe Academy
https://www.kolbe.org/relevant
The Children refusing to go to school: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSdhuqj04vQ
Episode: Can women be stay at home moms?
https://relevantradio.com/2024/05/can-women-be-stay-at-home-moms/
Making Resilient Children
https://relevantradio.com/2022/11/making-resilient-children/
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Why are “strong” Catholic marriages falling apart & what do you need to do? (1:55) Self-care phenomena — is it good or bad? (24:11) Lia Thomas won’t go to the Olympics. (40:28) Celtics coach Joe Mazulla. (44:59)
Resources mentioned :
Empowered Wife Bookhttps://benbellabooks.com/shop/the-empowered-wife/
Overcome porn
https://integrityrestored.com/
Healing from betrayal trauma
https://www.bloomforcatholicwomen.com/p/home
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Trending with Timmerie is back with a hot topic: There's no such thing as a gay gene!
Science to the Rescue: Back in 2019, a big-deal study in the journal Science put the nail in the coffin on the gay gene myth. Yep, 20 researchers came together and said, "Nope, you can't be born gay." They found out that genetics don't control who you're attracted to. It's all about your environment – family, friends, upbringing – those are the real game-changers.
Timmerie's Friends: Timmerie shared stories about two of her childhood friends who came out as gay later in life. It was heartbreaking for her to witness this. She saw their identities shift and felt it was more about losing touch with themselves and their natural attractions rather than being born that way.
Nature vs. Nurture: The study showed that environmental factors have double the impact on sexual orientation compared to genetics. So, it's not nature – it's nurture! Everything from your diet to your neighborhood shapes who you are.
What the Church Says: The Catholic Church has always believed that we're free to make our own choices. The idea of a gay gene goes against this belief. We're made to love freely, using our intellect and free will.
Change is Possible: People can and do change. Many who once identified as gay now live heterosexual lives, showing that transformation is real. Faith and love play a huge part in this journey.
Surprising Stats: Did you know more people in the U.S. and UK identify as "formerly gay" than currently gay? Crazy, right? This shows that a lot of people are finding new paths that align more with their faith and natural law.
The Takeaway: Timmerie wants us to remember that our environment and our choices shape us. We have the freedom to change and grow, especially with the support of our faith. Let's embrace the truth about human freedom and God's plan for love and sexuality.
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Happy Hour on Trending with Timmerie. Guest Fr. Robert Spitzer, President of the Magis Center, talks about what the highest form of happiness is and how to maintain it (3:09). He covers the dark night of the soul and how to keep praying. (18:06) Will polyamory make me and my marriage happy? (40:30)
Resources mentioned :
Fr. Robert Spitzer’s websites
https://magiscenter.com/
https://www.crediblecatholic.com/
Fr. Robert Spitzer’s book Finding True Happiness
https://www.amazon.com/Finding-True-Happiness-Transcendence-Book-Transcendence/dp/158617956X
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Medical Dr. Susan Caldwell helps women have babies who were told they’re infertile or who experienced miscarriage. What’s wrong with IVF? Every single republican senator ignorantly signed a pro-IVF statement. What’s the impact of IVF on women, babies, and the relationship? (5:34) Stories of women who had children after battling infertility (27:00) Fertility questions. (38:06)
Resources mentioned :
Dr. Caldwell’s IVF story: https://omny.fm/shows/trending-with-timmerie-catholic-principles-applied/her-ivf-story
Listen for more episodes with Dr. Susan Caldwell on fertility and women's health
https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&s=susan+caldwell
Fertility care NaPro
https://fertilitycare.org/find-a-mc
NaPro Telemedicine
https://naturalwomanhood.org/find-a-doctor/telehealth/
Period Repair Manual
https://www.larabriden.com/period-repair-manual/
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Fatherhood – risk, reality, and God given roles. (3:26) How do you prioritize children vs pressing urgent needs? (25:08) SCOTUS decision on chemical abortion mifepristone – what happened and hope to come. (33:17) You can’t be born gay. There’s no gay gene – science decided this years ago. This is why more people in the US and UK identify as formerly gay than gay. (42:34)
Resources mentioned :12 Rules for manliness Book
https://sophiainstitute.com/product/12-rules-for-manliness/
Bear’s Website
https://www.schoolofmanliness.com/
Healing from Pornography
https://integrityrestored.com/
SCOTUS ruling on chemical abortion
https://www.liveaction.org/news/supreme-court-doctors-fda-abortion-pill-safety/
Healing after abortion
https://supportafterabortion.com/
No one is born gay. There is no gay gene
https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.aat7693
More people are formerly gay than gay in the US & UK
https://ruthinstitute.org/press-releases/celebrate-ex-gay-visibility-day/
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