When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319 – We're Having Gay Sex – Podcast

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Rachel Karp Went to EVERY Lesbian Bar in America | WHGS Ep. 326
1 jun· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is going out tonight, listener! Rachel Karp is a writer, producer, and lesbian bar expert who has been documenting the history of sapphic nightlife in America, but today she’s in the sapphic space of Ashley’s apartment — and we’re doin’ BODY SHOTS! We discuss lesbian history through the lens of queer bars, the characters and stories found in them, age-gap relationships, and kissing your wife for the first time at a queer sex party. Ashley realizes she can get head. Lizzy ponders queer vs. gay.

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Dodie Writes Gay Anthems While Being Straight | WHGS Ep. 325
25 maj· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit single, “She,” that took over Lesbian TikTok. We discuss writing queer anthems before knowing you’re queer, the odd ways you explore bisexuality before coming out, internalized homophobia, breakups, and being just like Zooey Deschanel — AKA, hot. Ashley needs sex for career accomplishments. Lizzy gets in quickies between childcare.

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I Made a Listener Trans (and Other Stories) | WHGS Ep. 324
18 maj· We're Having Gay Sex
Get the full versions of all these highlights, PLUS uncut episodes, live streams, live show tickets, and MORE at https://www.patreon.com/WHGS.

Ashley has just wrapped up her 2026 tour in Europe (thanks to everyone who came out to a show), so to give her a week to recover, we have decided to release a bunch of highlights from our exclusive PATREON ONLY bonus series — You’re Having Gay Sex. We react to CRAZY sex stories submitted by YOU, our listeners, and in-between, we banter about a variety of topics too strange to put on the main episodes. Enjoy this free sample of the WHGS PATREON!!!

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What is “Topping/Bottoming” for Lesbians? (w/ Award-Winning Writer Carmen Machado) | WHGS Ep. 323
11 maj· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today she’s in the apartment to put her genius towards solving age-old queer conundrums! We discuss topping vs. bottoming as a lesbian, what that actually entails, how it manifests in practice, and the Renaissance Faire. Ashley and Jen accidentally ask a man for a threeway. Lizzy experiences cinematic heartbreak.

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Interviewing My Girlfriend’s Little Gay Brother (Brad Davis) | WHGS Ep. 322
4 maj· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for the FIRST TIME… WHGS producer and man-behind-the-camera Alex Vrahas fills in as co-host. It’s a BOYS EP as we discuss romantic flings while abroad, anticipation in sex, coming out, being a very straight-passing gay, and what it’s like to be in the shadow of your super hot sister. Ashley recounts her first time meeting the Davis family. Alex got groped at Pride.

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NOAHFINNCE Had a Fivesome With Each Letter of LGBTQ | WHGS Ep. 321
27 apr· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is the most inclusive, listener! NOAHFINNCE is a transgender pop-punk musician and YouTuber that’s been rocking the internet since 2015 with his incredible songs, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED! We discuss having a fivesome with every single person represented in “LGBTQ,” sexual dynamics when you have autism, horny fans, disabilities, and starting your career as a “My Chemical Romance” fan account. Ashley loves being the rebound. Artificial intelligence decides Lizzy is non-binary.

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What is the Female Gaze? (w/ Halie Torris) | WHGS Ep. 320
20 apr· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is depicting women correctly, listener! Halie Torris is an oil painter and visual artist whose incredibly detailed work you’ve seen go viral on TikTok/IG, but today she’s in the apartment to paint YOU like one of her French girls! We discuss the female gaze, how to define it, capturing it in your work, the artistic process in the modern attention economy, and having your gay little heart get broken over the vast and infinite sea — It doesn’t get more gay than that. Ashley is combating the manosphere. Lizzy’s sex gets a little bit too wet.

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When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319
13 apr· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today she’s in the apartment to take a tour through your BODY. In addition, we have the incredible comedian Emily Wilson filling in as co-host! We discuss queer identity, when one can claim that they’re gay, the power of music, and how queerness is, like, totally a dope space. Ashley found romance through Chelsea Cutler. Emily has a crush on Ashley.

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Trying Lesbian Sex Parties at Burning Man w/ Andrea Allan | WHGS Ep. 318
6 apr· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is going all in, listener! Andrea Allan is an unfathomably funny podcaster, comedian, and co-host of “Respectfully” alongside Lizzy Cassidy, but today she’s in the apartment to “respectfully” pipe you down! We discuss exploring your bisexuality in the Burning Man orgy tent, the dynamics of using a strap on, embracing the chaos of coming out, and getting diseases from butt-munching. Ashley needs sex therapy. Lizzy gets strapped down (poorly).

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Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317
30 mar· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment to taste the sexual rainbow! We discuss bisexuality, polyamory, dating a man and a woman at the SAME time, coming out late in life, and encountering genital piercings so crazy that it stops sex. Ashley combats gay shame. Lizzy only dates long distance.

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Interviewing Eileen Myles — Legendary Lesbian Poet & “F-Boy” | WHGS Ep. 316
23 mar· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is POETIC, listener! Eileen Myles (they/them) is a celebrated poet, novelist, and journalist best known for “Chelsea Girls” and poems that queers everywhere tattoo onto their arms, but today they’re in the apartment to SEDUCE! We break format this episode to interview Eileen and learn about their career, history, and legendary love life. In-between, we discuss art, coming out, New York in the 70s, and how camp is the best place to have queer sex. Oh - and Ashley might even read one of her original poems… and BOY is it embarrassing.

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Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315
16 mar· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly. Lizzy prefers gay men.

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Jenny Zigrino: Queer History Can Be Found EVERYWHERE | WHGS Ep. 314
9 mar· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is historic, listener! Jenny Zigrino (Conan, JFL, Don’t Tell) is a hilarious stand up comedian, writer, and performer that breaks boundaries, but today she’s in the apartment to thrust DEEP… into history. We discuss queer history in Colonial America, attraction to masculinity regardless of gender, drag, burlesque, and how bisexuals are pretty dang cool. Ashley has sex on a timer. Lizzy queens out with a taxi driver.

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Kylie Vincent Almost Died — And She STILL Pulls Like Crazy | WHGS Ep. 313
2 mar· We're Having Gay Sex
If you have the funds, Donate to Kylie’s GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass (TW \\ SA; skip 42:44 - 49:33 to avoid)This episode is SICK, listener! Kylie Vincent is a stand up comedian, writer, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she’s phoning into the apartment fresh out of the hospital. Kylie got a freaking BRAIN LESION, so we take some time to check in on how she’s doing alongside Ashley’s girlfriend, Jen Davis. We discuss her trials and tribulations in the hospital, the American healthcare system, disabilities, Multiple Sclerosis, and how in spite of it all — Kylie’s STILL banging baddies. Ashley is grateful for Jen. Jen is poisoning her face with makeup.FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENTGoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass Show & Tour Dates: https://beacons.ai/kylievincent Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/discover/kylie-vincent FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavisTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/VAc3EXEMLxQ ______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:FACTOR: Get 50% OFF your 1st box + free breakfast with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off HERS: Visit https://www.forhers.com/gay to get personalized, affordable treatmentLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Chrissy Chlapecka’s Tips To Try Femme Topping (C.C.T.T.T.F.T.) | WHGS Ep. 312
23 feb· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is a POWER BOTTOM, listener! Chrissy Chlapecka is an enchanting musician, content creator, and activist that’s about to kick off a nation-wide tour, but today she’s returning to the apartment for some verse activity as an out-and-proud LESBIAN! We discuss topping as a high-femme lesbian, methods to approach that with your butch GF, overcoming comphet, and the best queer scenes across the US. Ashley power bottoms for the first time. Lizzy gets spat on.

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Roz Hernandez Encounters An Unprecedented Ick | WHGS Ep. 311
16 feb· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is HORRIFIC, listener! Roz Hernandez is a mind-blowing stand up comedian, podcaster, actor, and paranormal export that has been sending people to the afterlife with laughter, but today she’s in the apartment to investigate the most GHASTLY ick she has ever encountered on a date! We discuss purposely being given the ick by people you’re trying to date, only dating queer people, identity, labels, and cruises. People try to make Ashley trans. Lizzy hooks up with a semi-famous celebrity.

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Kate Sisk Has Become an OF Connoisseur | WHGS Ep. 310
9 feb· We're Having Gay Sex
Go watch Kate’s NEW stand up special RIGHT NOW: http://Of.tv/lmaof130 or https://bio.site/KateSisk. Kate Sisk is a beloved comedian, writer, and the former co-host / “cancel coach” of WHGS! But today, he’s BACK in the apartment to make a movie…and it’s RATED X! We discuss watching queer adult content, bizarre videos, seeing your friends in said videos, & suckin’ self. Oh yeah, and the set may or may not completely fall apart. Ashley got too high. Lizzy’s queer vices get exposed.

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I Hooked Up With Alayna Joy (Basically) | WHGS Ep. 309
2 feb· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast, Chosen Family. However today she’s coming into the WHGS apartment, because Ashley banged her doppelganger?! In-between the details of this epic story, we discuss getting married after coming out 6 years ago, compulsory heterosexuality, discovering bisexuality on YouTube, and melatonin. Enjoy!

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Sarah Keyworth Enrolled in a Dominatrix School | WHGS Ep. 308
26 jan· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is trying new things, listener! Sarah Keyworth (they/them) is an award-winning stand up comedian & podcaster that’s been taking the UK by storm, but today they're in the apartment from across the pond to teach us naughty students a lesson! We discuss your friends taking dominatrix lessons in their 30s, coping with bad times, biking, gaming, and how 3D printing is a massive turn off. Ashley beefs with a homophobic troll while gaming. Bre can’t pee.

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Carson Olshansky A/B Tested The Best Finger For Bangin’ | WHGS Ep. 307
19 jan· We're Having Gay Sex
This episode is running experiments, listener! Carson Olshansky (they/them) is a fantastic stand-up comedian, writer, and creator that you’ve seen blowing up your social media feeds, but today they’re in the apartment to fingerblast you so accurately you’ll scream “Eureka!” We discuss a/b testing the best finger for bangin’, finding sexual compatibility, dating mascs with a complicated identity, and having LEGITIMATE trauma from Jimmy Buffet’s “Margaritaville.” Ashley gets boob-honked HARD. Lizzy’s anniversary is nearly ruined.

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