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Tired of all the hate you've been getting on social media? Afraid to post because you don't want to piss anyone off? We hope today's episode is a swift kick in the ass for you to share your truth and realize that your truth isn't everyone's.
Emily Duncan is a content-creator turned business owner. Starting her “influencer journey” at 18 back in 2014, she was one of the earlier content creators in the health + fitness space. She now owns and operates the holistic health and fitness coaching company, FENIX ATHLETICA, hosts the EMBody Radio podcast, and offers branding + personal development mentorship to creative entrepreneurs looking to create truly authentic and magnetic businesses. Her core mission is to show women what’s possible for them when they truly believe and go all in on themselves.
You can find her on Instagram at Instagram.com/em_dunc , her coaching company at www.fenixathletica.com , and listen to EMBody Radio on your favorite podcast platform.Time Stamps:
(1:55) Who Is Emily Duncan?
(4:25) Handling Online Criticism
(13:00) Emily’s Evolution
(15:15) Breast Implant Illness and The Fallout
(20:20) Connection and Raccoons
(24:25) Dealing With Hate The First Time
(31:18) Your Truth Isn’t Everyone’s Truth
(44:44) Protecting Your Mental Health
(49:50) Focusing On Building Relationships
(59:00) Where To Find Emily
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I've made some great decisions financially and made some decisions that backfired and would be considered a failure. What I've learned is the absolute worst decision you can make… is none at all.
Many people avoid making decisions based on fear of failure where ironically that's the only way you can fail. If a financial decision doesn't go your way, you learn much like with any other decision. Money makes it weird for people though because it can be so tied to their ego.
In this episode, I'm going to explain the 3 ways indecision costs you dearly, how decisions lead to momentum, how to automate your money strategy, and more!
Time Stamps:
(0:20) Poor Financial Decision Story
(3:40) Why People Avoid Making Decisions
(7:10) Being Forced To Save For Retirement
(8:48) 3 Ways Indecision Costs You Dearly
(10:50) Decisions Lead to Momentum
(16:45) Automate Your Money Strategy
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If you own your own business or have aspirations to in the near future, I want to level with you when it comes to the reality of what it's really like. It's not what the influencers on social media would have you believe.
It's brutal.
It's also the best decision I ever made for myself. I want to share the good, bad, and ugly when it comes to running your own business and what you should really expect.
Time Stamps:
(1:00) Understanding Expectations of Entrepreneurship
(2:12) Online Training Since 2012
(4:54) The Best Parts of Working For Yourself
(9:08) Forced Growth
(14:06) The Endless Possibilities
(16:08) High Responsibility and High Stress
(20:03) Making Difficult Decisions
(25:40) You Have To Scale
(31:16) Be Honest With Yourself
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This may be one of the hardest conversations you'll have with your parents but it will save a lot of frustration, waiting, and headache when the time actually comes. Today's episode is all around the legal side of end of life planning and how assets transfer over. I want to share the reality of what this looks like and I want to share what actions I took so I can properly grieve when the time comes and I'm not also worried about this side of it.
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(0:18) Hard Conversations With Parents
(2:17) The Story
(5:30) Talking About Death and Planning
(7:05) Meeting With End of Life Lawyer
(10:33) What Is Probate?
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Difference Between Transfer on Death Deed & Living Trust
What Is Probate?
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I don't know how I've got 110 episodes without talking about sex but we're fixing that today! Alex Baynesworth is back on the show for a 3rd time and we are talking all things sex and intimacy. We'll get into some lesser known topics around pleasure and desire types, how Alex helps women who have never had an orgasm, why toys are your teammates, and more!
Time Stamps:
(0:38) Alex Is Back and We’re Talking Sex
(7:04) Talking About Sex With Friends
(10:22) For Those Who Don’t Know About My Dad
(16:45) Misconceptions Around Female Pleasure and Desire Types
(27:37) Intentional Intimacy
(31:05) Juggling Everything in Life and Wanting Sex
(37:38) Heterosexual vs Homosexual Space and Desire
(40:02) Helping Women Who Have Never Had An Orgasm
(44:58) Speaking Up For Things You Enjoy
(53:00) Toys Are Your Teammates
(58:35) Where To Start
(1:01:30) Marvin Gaye Playing
(1:03:42) Where To Find Alex
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Instagram - @nobayne_nogayne
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A quick story and lesson on today's show on something unfortunate that happened in my coaching business with a former client and the lesson we can all learn from it. I'll be sharing how to go about gaining inspiration from other coaches and creators but ultimately how to create your own path, be your own daddy, and not copy other coaches and why that can land you in hot water.
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(0:20) Sharing A Story With You
(1:38) We Help A Lot Of Coaches
(6:00) Copyright Laws
(9:08) No Response From Her
(9:33) Moral Of The Story
(13:00) Inspiration vs Copying
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A business owner's biggest expense is the tax bill and I don't know about you but I'd rather not pay more than I need to. Whether you are a business owner or self-employed, today's episode is going to save you some money. We're going to cover the 3 ways that your business could be overpaying in taxes and these reasons are anywhere from how the company is structured tax wise to failing to pay quarterly taxes to not be strategic when it comes to using business credit cards.
Time Stamps:
(0:25) Be Your Own Daddy Sessions
(2:30) Business Owners and Taxes
(4:16) Diving Deeper Than Write-offs
(5:54) Filing As An S-Corp
(12:50) Paying Quarterly Taxes
(14:00) Work With An Accountant
(18:05) Strategic With Business Cards
(25:05) Changing My Mind On Credit Cards
(26:43) Recap
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Fun fact about me: I love halloween. It's probably my favorite holiday and I love everything associated with it so today's episode will be halloween themed while keeping to our overall theme of women's empowerment. We'll be diving into the story of the Salem Witch Trials that took place in 1692 in Salem, Massachusetts. I'll share exactly what happened, what doctors and scientists think really happened then with our modern understanding now, and what we can learn from it moving forward.
Time Stamps:
(0:16) Halloween Season
(1:15) The Salem Witch Trials
(2:45) Setting The Stage
(6:07) What Sparked The Salem Witch Trials
(17:30) Paris Was Forced To Leave Salem
(18:25) Poison Exposure
(21:28) Facts vs Fiction
(23:50) Fear Driven Narrative
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I wanted to record a longer deep dive episode into a topic that we've covered a few times but only scratched the surface on. Honestly, this could be a 5 hour podcast if we dove down every alley around lab testing and hormones but I want to give you the most important information so you can be informed to make empowered choices. We'll discuss everything from all the different types of tests to why it's important and how to be an advocate for your own health when speaking to your doctor or primary care individual.
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(0:25) Deep Dive on Hormones and Testing
(2:13) What Are Hormone Labs?
(9:15) Lab Testing In Your State
(11:20) Your Wellbeing Is Enough For Testing
(15:45) Mental Health, Testing, and Gut Health
(17:35) Types of Testing
(24:10) Recommended Fasting Protocols
(29:45) GI Map Testing
(31:40) Normal vs Optimal Results
(39:45) Results Based On Testing
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Free Resources:
How To Get Hormone Labs Privately
Private Blood Panel
GI Map
DUTCH Test
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How much do you know about what's really going on with the gender pay gap? While I've touched on this subject before in a previous episode, I wanted to deep dive into today's episode and unveil the 8 reasons why the gender pay gap exists. There's much more than meets the eye that goes beyond annual salary as we'll discuss the motherhood penalty, the glass cliff and glass elevator, childcare, and more!
(0:13) Alycia The Pirate
(2:15) The Gender Pay Gap
(4:08) What Is The Gender Pay Gap?
(8:35) 8 Reasons For The Gender Pay Gap
(11:40) Motherhood Penalty
(16:15) My Sister As An Example
(19:38) The Authority Gap
(21:32) The Glass Ceiling
(23:00) The Glass Cliff
(25:35) The Glass Elevator
(27:55) Potential Solutions
(33:54) Providing Better Childcare
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My eye is back on its bullshit if you've been watching my stories and I had to get another surgery that hopefully will permanently allow my retina to reattach but it's a long recovery road ahead. Only being able to see out of one eye at the beginning was rough and it got me to thinking about today's topic. I want to talk about the concept of glimmers in your life and recognizing these small moments of joy in life and how this can be a powerful resilience tool for your life.
Time Stamps:
(0:17) An Eye Update
(4:20) Feeling Like You Can’t Catch A Break
(5:35) What Is A Glimmer?
(8:45) Examples of Glimmers
(14:10) They Aren’t Hard To Find and Experiencing It More
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Whitney Shanahan is a national pro choice advocate and former Democratic Congressional candidate in California. However Whitney grew up conservative Christian in the Bible Belt. She left the Republican Party and her conservative upbringing after Trump won the presidency.
While pregnant with her son in 2019 Whitney was questioned about what she had done to cause possible pregnancy complications - while seeking help in the ER. Because at that time, the red state she was living in was working to pass a 6 week abortion ban. Whitney went home from the ER shaken and scared - she researched and found that hundreds of women had been arrested and detained for their pregnancies and miscarriages.
Whitney immediately became an activist. Whitney has led hundreds of pro-choice rallies across the country, launched a petition to defend abortion rights with over 270,000 signatures, and built an engaged community of over 500,000 followers on TikTok, and 40,000 on instagram- including pro choice celebrities like Rosie O’Donnell.
In 2024 Whitney ran for US Congress in California and plans to run again.
In this episode, we discuss Whitney's story, common misconceptions around late term abortions, what women need to know about no fault divorces, and so much more!
Time Stamps:
(0:40) Whitney’s Bio
(4:20) Becoming a Congressional Candidate
(14:03) Abortion and Access
(19:10) Common Misconceptions Around Late Term Abortion
(23:35) A State Issue vs Federal Issue
(31:55) No Fault Divorce
(35:10) What Is A No Fault Divorce?
(39:05) Changes and Evolution
(48:15) How To Get Involved
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Connect with Whitney Shanahan:
@prochoicewithheart
Receive access to reproductive healthcare in any state: aidaccess.com
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If you want a top tier badass example of someone who walks the walk when it comes to crushing it professionally but also being an example of someone authentic going through their challenges openly, look no further than today's guest.
Kayla Diamond started her professional development as an Athletic Trainer turned Strength & Conditioning Coach. As she enjoyed working in a more high performance environment, she quickly found her passion was to help MORE athletes so she began to make the transition to online coaching where Evolve Health & Performance was born.
Kayla has also experienced health challenges while managing a company in one of the fastest growing industries today. Through extensive work, she is healing her gut health and hormones and through that work, the Gut & Hormone Mastery for Coaches was born.
In this episode, we discuss some of her health struggles, why she took her laptop to the gym and worked between sets, her advice to coaches, and more!
Time Stamps:
(1:22) Kayla’s Background
(2:40) Interning Through EliteFTS
(4:55) Women Crushing The Online Coaching Space
(6:00) Kayla Starting Her Own Business
(11:10) Taking The Laptop To The Gym Stage
(20:10) Elimination Diet, Gut Health, and Improving Physique
(23:45) Coaches Need Coaches Too
(30:40) Being Balanced and Seasons
(37:30) Evolve’s Current Goals and GHMC
(44:00) Advice To Coaches
(47:40) Where To Find Kayla
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Follow Kayla on Instagram:
@evolve_hp
@_kayladiamond
@gh.mastery
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Coming in hot today with a spitfire style episode all around how to ignite your inner drive. We won't always be excited to go do what we need to do but we need to do it nevertheless. What will help is remembering why and really drilling down to your core why. I'll explain everything inside today's episode!
Time Stamps:
(0:18) Spit Fire Style Episode
(0:46) Shoutout to Our Winner Jessica
(1:10) Igniting Your Inner Drive
(3:00) We’re Not Always Excited
(5:05) Why Do You Want To Make More Money?
(7:30) Education vs Implementation
(10:50) Stop Looking At The Whole Staircase
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Online coaches and entrepreneurs love their craft but rarely enjoy what comes along with it: the financial side. From bookkeeping to long term wealth strategies, it's typically a brand new domain for business owners. My guest today is an expert in this field and knows the health and fitness space incredibly well!
Amanda Hanquist, also known as The Fit Financial, has been a financial professional for over 16 years and enjoys educating entrepreneurs in finance.
As a young business owner who once struggled with the complexities of business finance from lack of knowing what to do, she now understand the challenges faced by high-achieving individuals in managing their money effectively to grow their long term wealth.
Her journey from initial challenges in business finance to now mastering the financial principles has fueled her mission to empower fellow entrepreneurs with the essential tools for financial success. She is committed to bringing clarity to the complexity of money management in business.
In this episode, we talk about the biggest mistakes with finances, the financial order of operations, online vs brick and mortar businesses, and more!
Time Stamps:
(0:28) When Amanda And I Met
(5:04) Getting Into Entrepreneurship and Finance
(12:00) Selling A Business
(14:00) Online vs Brick and Mortar
(16:04) Biggest Mistakes With Finances
(20:40) Gross Profit Margin
(24:33) Marketing Spend
(33:04) Financial Order of Operations
(47:25) Recapping The Financial Order of Operations
(51:10) Where To Find Amanda
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I can't believe we've hit 100 episodes of the Be Your Own Daddy Podcast! Whether this is your first episode, you've been a ride or die since Day 1, or somewhere in between, I want to thank you for listening and supporting me. In honor of Episode 100, I'm going to share 5 ways to make some extra cash FAST because I've talked a lot about long term investments in previous episodes. Links are below if you want to check them out and I have a special surprise at the end of the episode you won't want to miss.
Time Stamps:
(0:28) 100th Episode!
(2:52) 5 Ways To Make Cash Fast
(3:28) Eye Update
(5:55) Why This Is Important
(7:20) #1: Online Surveys and Research Studies
(10:38) #2: Donating Plasma
(12:54) #3: Selling or Flipping Items
(14:45) #4: Gig Economy Jobs
(17:58) #5: Renting Out Assets
(20:31) Recapping
(21:25) College Story
(23:14) Surprise Giveaway
(25:39) Please Share!
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Resources Mentioned In The Episode:
Swagbucks
Rover
Turo
Find Plasma Center Near You
Facebook Marketplace
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Emily Rose is a full-time wife and mom of 3 in western CO. When she's not writing about holistic health and motherhood, educating other stay-at-home-moms on the importance of financial literacy and preparedness, and training her working line German Shepherd, she's running the non-profit organization she founded with her husband that assists women in crisis.
We dive deep into a lot of topics including the reality of love bombing, financial principles for women, financial abuse red flags, and much more!
Time Stamps:
(3:25) Emily’s Background
(14:00) Financial Abuse Red Flags
(33:30) Love Bombing and It’s Reality
(37:35) My Story and My First Few Podcast Episodes
(45:50) Leaving Like A Thief In The Night
(52:10) Financial Principles
(57:30) Cash Assistance For Women in Crisis
(1:03:00) Final Thoughts
(1:10:25) Where To Find Emily
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Connect With Emily Rose
Instagram: @mama_wilder
Nonprofit: www.themamawilderfoundation.org
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Hilary Heninger is the founder of Smart Girls Divorce Strategy, a Divorce Coach and Educator, teaching women how to go from overwhelmed to advocate in the divorce process. Through her online courses, the smart girls community and 1:1 coaching sessions, she specializes in supporting women through separation, divorce and the process of rebuilding.
After navigating her own high conflict divorce, the legal system, lawyers, mediators, arbitrators and private negotiation, she learned quickly that there was not enough support through the process or in educating women on everything they needed to know to be their own best advocate. You can find the expertise and support, but don't outsource your advocacy.
In this episode, we discuss why 70% of women file for divorce, MLM's and their predatory recruitment, the Trad Wife Movement, and more!
Time Stamps:
(0:25) The Polarizing Topic of Divorce
(2:15) Hilary’s Bio
(6:20) Helping Other’s With Divorce
(23:50) Joint vs Individual Bank Accounts
(30:40) Why 70% Of Women File For Divorce
(39:45) Returning To The Workforce and Childcare
(53:00) MLM’s and Predatory Recruitment
(1:02:00) Trad Wife Movement
(1:15:30) Marriage Is Beautiful
(1:19:05) Choosing Your Lawyer
(1:22:50) Men: Do The Work
(1:27:25) Where To Find Hilary
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Connect With Hilary Heninger
Instagram: @smartgirlsdivorcestrategy
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I was so excited when I found today's guest and I won't spoil how but I knew immediately that we'd be friends and had to have her on the show!
Dr. Hanisha Patel is a Naturopathic Fertility Specialist and Founder of Mahan Health. She has an incredibly unique program called It Takes Two: The Ultimate Fertility Program that focuses on female and male fertility support.
In this episode, we talk all things fertility, IVF, male fertility, progesterone, and much more!
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(0:41) Fertility
(3:45) Specializing in Fertility and Dr. Patel’s Health Journey
(12:50) Have To Get Worse To Get Treatment
(14:00) Understanding Fertility
(23:30) Struggles to IVF
(30:00) Sperm Quality and Sperm Count
(37:30) IVF and Perimenopause
(45:40) Ideal Progesterone Levels
(50:50) Stress and Fertility
(58:05) Advice For First Steps
(1:01:05) Where To Find Dr. Hanisha
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Connect With Dr. Hanisha Patel
Instagram: @holistichanisha
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If you've been following me on my stories recently, you know it's been a whirlwind to say the least. If you haven't, I want to get you up to speed and share a really powerful life lesson from going through what I have the past week or so. After Gunner hit me in the eye while we were playing in the home gym, the aftermath had me seeing black floaters and I eventually tore my retina and all of this happened while I was in England celebrating my 37th birthday. I won't spoil anymore of the story here and I appreciate everyone who reached out to me the past week!
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(0:18) It’s Been An Interesting Few Weeks
(1:08) Starting On July 11th
(2:09) Slowing Building An At Home Gym
(3:40) Tearing My Retina
(8:45) The Festival Was Super Dope
(9:42) Progressively Getting Worse
(18:00) Decisions To Make
(24:30) 15 Minutes Is So Short Now
(26:00) Lessons From This Story
(29:15) Emotional Thoughts Going Through My Head
(31:20) Your Health Is The Most Important Thing
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