Episodes
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After an unfathomable delay we’ve returned to the wings series.**send in your questions and comments for episode #200 bonanza**
—(1:27) Alexandra gaslighting us about why she gave up on the wing series—(12:25) 4-wings intro—(17:53) 9 vs 4 differences / 4’s off-putting emotional aggression —(23:17) The ambient emotional friction of 4 / frustrated reactivity as a self-protecting boundary—(29:05) 4w3’s formed self-identity vs 4w5’s formless god particle—(34:14) 4w5 being in the dark about itself—(38:33) 4w3 representing something beyond the map—(42:29) 4w3 refining personal subjective taste into a unique ‘thing’—(49:09) 4w3 vs 4w5 in interviews / the self-contained rejection offering of 4w5—(53:39) 4w3’s aloof sommelier identity —(58:37) 4w3 operatic stylization vs 4w5 bottomless mystery —(1:06:35) The decaying dark matter anti-style of 4w5 / https://www.instagram.com/the__ljilja/—(1:10:47) How we feel talking about our heart center type—(1:13:21) What 4w5s are like in the wild —(1:24:20) Luigi Luigi
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Continuing where we left off with John and Kristen of the Sinsomnia podcast on the archetypal feminine/masculine myths in Star Wars.**start sending in your questions and comments for episode #200**
—(1:27) Couples that look like siblings—(5:50) The different splits in masculine/feminine psyche—(8:06) Social shadow work to understand sexual instinct/individuation—(9:52) Seeing masculine/feminine as energies rather than compartmentalized roles—(13:53) Anger’s role in the sexual instinct—(16:38) The idea of integration, holding the tension—(18:15) Being able to stretch and expand creatively—(19:14) Mother projections, living in paradox—(24:33) A neutralizing force versus an activating force—(30:12) Libidinal energy being trapped in the mother—(31:56) Zooming out with Gurdjieff—(41:30) Attunement to the unconscious energies of the centers and instincts—(45:03) Understanding instinctual and neurotic fear—(49:37) The terror of police body cam footage in suburban America—(54:29) The aesthetic realm and its role in reality’s horror show —(56:58) Concretizing murder in the image of slaying the dragon—(1:03:37) Art pulling you out of knowing and certainty—(1:07:53) Moving towards your death, keeping things novel
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Special episode with John and Kristen of the Sinsomnia podcast on the archetypal feminine/masculine myths in Star Wars.**start sending in your questions and comments for episode #200**
— (1:27) Plugs— (5:53) Salome & Star Wars intro— (7:00) Conditions of existence, Masculine/Feminine, and the third force— (10:38) John sets the Star Wars stage— (12:53) A New Hope: Princess Leia Loses It All— (19:58) Empire Strikes Back: Introducing Eros— (23:05) Return of the Jedi: The Metal Bikini— (27:28) The power fantasy, fathers/sons, and male expectations— (32:00) Kristen zooms out with the Star Wars mythology— (34:52) A glimpse of the feminine journey— (39:04) Dualistic feminine energies & Leia’s psyche— (47:20) Where are the feminine stories?— (52:15) Jung’s ‘Answer to Job’: Why is God a dick?— (56:20) Salome’s story— (1:02:30) The Death Mother— (1:06:00) The journey of the three instincts, Anima/Animus— (1:17:00) Alien: the violence of being born— (1:25:00) Masculine pain & the parental complexes
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Josh and John’s 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons still don’t have John’s instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Diving into the shadow sex scandal putting equatorial guinea on the map.
— (1:27) New formats for the pod / send in questions for episode #200— (5:15) The African gov’t official sex tapes scandal— (12:51) He’s a smooth criminal 9— (27:09) Sexual blind conservatism in African culture— (36:26) Freakoffs is the douchiest DJ name / sexual narcissism — (40:15) Dispersed mass triangulation in 9s— (46:43) 3w2 DJ roast segment— (56:37) The delusions we create and uphold to avoid reality / attachment nostalgia — (1:11:17) Knowing the monster within— (1:15:55) Maladaptive self-subversion and sx instinct edge-seeking— (1:21:19) Big Hormone SP segment— (1:29:55) The orange man is 2-1 Social
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Josh and John’s 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons still don’t have John’s instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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— (1:27) The Big Hormone Self-Pres podcast— (3:37) Psychedelics as anti-depressants (correction: serotonin is a neurotransmitter not a hormone)— (11:26) COVID stories and launching the pod— (16:31) The great disillusionment — (19:51) Trump and elon dork— (21:52) Synflow vs contraflow in autonomy conflicts— (33:30) Getting back into the wing series / 3w2vs3w4
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Josh and John’s 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons still don’t have John’s instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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— (1:27) the john stream from the void— (5:22) consciousness experiencing itself and letting go— (8:45) complicated relationship to brotherhood— (18:10) a zone is always happening— (22:08) energy around male connection— (35:10) self-pres nerd out— (40:52) bhe guide to crashing out / menendez brothers parent killing— (45:55) zone stem updates and diddy freakoffs
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Josh and John’s 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons still don’t have John’s instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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what it do babyyy:https://www.enneagrammer.com/instinct-zones
— (1:27) We watched Bone Tomahawk— (5:06) Instinct Zone updates / Emeka’s 1-3 flame burnout— (10:09) The Play Zones and nailing down long term relationship— (15:23) Stackings within the stackings made a comeback / syn vs contra zone stems— (22:05) The weirdness of 3-1 fetish— (24:20) 3-2 containment and ‘health’— (28:23) What’s SX2-3 really about?— (36:31) Stacking vs Zone Stems— (43:28) Reptilian SP3-1
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Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons haven’t gotten John’s book on the instinctual drives: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Spilling more instinct zone insights:https://www.enneagrammer.com/instinct-zones
— (1:27) souuuunddd check— (4:18) Instinct Zone updates and DG’s SX2-3 game— (9:43) SX2 game vs SX1 froth— (14:44) SX3-2 and John’s meats sexual bias— (19:08) Emeka SX3-1 feeding the fetish— (23:12) John’s autonomy conflicts and the zones— (27:08) Renewing the spark in Zone 1
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The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandrahttps://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot
Find out what type of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons don’t have John’s book on the instinctual drives: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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New juice to wet your beaks. To follow along check out the intro blogs and videos here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/instinct-zones
— (3:29) What are the instinct zone stems?— (9:51) Why Alexandra feels like others are doing social wrong / SO2-1 the gossip flake— (13:48) The Social Zones— (16:54) DG’s social zone 1 provocations— (27:22) John’s SO2-3 A-list player influencer vs Emeka’s SO3-2 group container— (31:15) Alexandra’s SO2-1 sensitivity to social chemistry— (34:05) Emeka’s impractical SP1-2— (38:10) The Self-pres Zones— (41:26) DG and Alexandra’s SP3-2 cozey uniform — (54:45) Sexual zones / Jealousy and competition in Zone 2— (1:02:16) Big hormone consummation in SX Zone 3 / DG’s Zone 2 Himbo proclivities — (1:11:27) Your zone stem is the order you do the cycle in that instinct— (1:19:39) Sex drive and SX3-2
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John and Alexandra are teaching a sexual instinct zoom course via https://www.theenneagramschool.com/sexual-instinct-class
The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandrahttps://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot
Find out what type of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons don’t have John’s book on the instinctual drives: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Valeria, our akashic channel, is here to talk about channeling.To get your akashic reading with Valeria DM her on IG:https://www.instagram.com/valeriakechichian
— (7:55) Welcome Valeria— (12:34) What is channeling?— (17:22) Importance of channels being clean vessels / perceiving things with neutrality and no judgement— (32:59) The enneagram was channeled by Ichazo / the enneagram symbol is sacred geometery— (35:32) How does the openness of the recipient affect the channeling session?— (40:29) Groups and couples akashic readings— (50:55) What does channeling feel like? Paranormal experiences— (1:00:31) The energetic resonance of holy sites— (1:07:18) The rays of light— (1:19:35) Canceling contracts
Sign up for The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra July 14https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot
John and Alexandra are teaching a sexual instinct zoom course this summer starting 7/30 via https://www.theenneagramschool.com/sexual-instinct-class
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Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Full on mystical woo.To book your akashic reading with Valeria DM her on IG:https://www.instagram.com/valeriakechichian
— (3:29) What are the akashic records? and what’s a reading like?— (11:49) DG’s a russian doll earth man— (20:35) Alexandra’s a forest fairy warrior— (37:45) John’s a player of dark entities— (53:45) Emeka’s a grounding fusion of raw instinct— (1:08:54) Ikram’s a golden angel channeler
John and Alexandra are teaching a sexual instinct zoom course this summer starting 7/30 via theenneagramschool.com
Finally figure out what type of toxic you are with Enneagrammer. Watch recent typing videos on the Drake vs Kendrick beef, Baby Reindeer, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Got your head on a swivel.
— (1:27) How major the Bermuda Overlays are — (4:23) No Diddy and creepy 3w2s— (8:16) Why do people hate Teal Swan so much? / BHE Suicide Hotline— (16:46) DG’s metallurgy analogy for how a wing transforms a fix— (23:22) Are the attachment wings harder to see?— (25:47) What if 9w8 is the most common 9?— (29:36) Gut is king / 8 chaos vs 1 order— (43:52) Bermuda hiddenness and discovering their particular specificities — (52:32) The sensitivity of the human nervous system is the starting point— (55:01) Bermudas ‘going fuzzy’ is a wide cast net as a platform to show up in
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Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Psychedelic 7 frustration with Ikram.
— (4:00) The overwhelming depths of 7 disappointment and self-hatred / giving yourself what you didn’t get in childhood— (9:50) The psychic aural fixation of 7 — (13:35) Frustration as the engine to go out into the world / constant bust-boom cycle— (17:03) 7s walking a tight wire with lines to competency and reactive types on either side— (20:10) 7 is fighting for creative imagination / the addiction to movement— (25:25) 4 vs 7 frustration — (31:08) The unconditional positive self-regard of 7 has a shadow of deep self-hatred— (36:33) Releasing importance and savoring the moment takes the edge off endless disappointment / offering something at 5— (48:55) The imaginative aesthetic of 7 in the head center / scam harder— (56:12) Patience with slow movies— (1:01:54) 7s have to become the nipple
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Drake vs Kendrick beef, the 3w4 exodus, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
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Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Continuing our series on frustration and type 4.
— (2:23) 3w2 interpersonal availability / we’re reacting to 3w2 not bashing it— (9:17) Aesthetic preferences for 4 as an expression of hidden personal selfhood— (14:40) 4 staying in the realm where things can only be seen in the dark— (18:12) The role of 4 for the collective heart in giving voice to personal brokenness and hell— (21:48) Rejection types setting the scene before getting personal— (25:21) The vast differences of Bermuda overlays — (29:45) To lead with frustration risks pain and disappointment— (33:45) What shame really means / why people start thinking they’re a 4 / beauty and art in 4ness— (45:55) 3 upholding beauty more functionally than 4 can— (49:42) Imageyness of 4w3 vs 4w5— (54:58) 4w3 is the fussy aesthete— (1:03:10) The role of 2 in collective generosity
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the 3w4 exodus, Beksiński, Jojo Siwa, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
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Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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it’s the spice of life.
— (1:25) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center— (6:10) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality — (7:56) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center— (14:25) Frustration doesn’t give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having— (16:58) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships— (24:13) Everyone’s shitting on the thing they most want— (31:57) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion’— (39:27) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you’re not a person if you don’t hate something— (42:16) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone’s personhood— (52:57) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies— (55:13) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms— (1:00:50) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, 8w7 vs 8w9, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
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Alejohndra are back with tales of their Egypt trip.
— (1:25) John and Alexandra recap their retreat to Egypt— (9:05) What about the aliens? / the construction of the pyramids had to be an exercise in presence and intention — (16:23) The femininity of Egypt— (21:04) Egypt peaked early and then fell off hard— (31:06) Special John the mystical guide / the inner quality of the group— (37:50) The descent down into the deep chambers — (45:22) The acoustics of the pyramids— (52:55) A sacred culture that honors the divine and human animal nature— (58:48) Egypt activates something in you that values the sacred— (1:13:05) Hexad conversion therapy
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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In this episode of WILTBY Josh interviews Louis.
— (4:50) Josh processing his 2-wing and meeting Louis at the zone / the team love vs team truth confrontation— (11:45) 3w2 facilitating and orchestrating connection vs 3w4 distant excellence— (16:35) The philosophy of truth vs love in psychotherapy— (20:49) Carl Rogers unconditional positive regard— (29:30) What Josh finds annoying about 4 skepticism of love and connection— (33:39) Louis’ identification with predator swag — (42:24) 3w2 vs 3w4 in a team scenario / team vs self orientation — (48:31) How Josh realized he had a 2-wing / Louis’ social mode of separateness and why he became a therapist— (57:41) Differences in processing negativity and aesthetic frustration— (1:09:51) The 3w2 tenet of always having something to appreciate about anything — (1:24:08) The ideal ego fantasy for 3w2 vs 3w4
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Jennifer Lopez, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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We watched Poor things right before recording our impressions and thoughts. Call the nota4 hotline at (323) 696-0647.
— (2:40) Overview of Poor Things and its ode to the head center— (8:40) The surgeon is a 5— (13:22) 6 reactivity leveling the playing field with negativity— (16:30) hexad vs attachment response to suffering in the world— (23:45) The artifice of polite adulthood as a hindrance to growth— (30:52) The necessity of conveying complex ideas and orientation through symbol— (36:31) Bella developed so quickly because of her hunger for experiences like a child who views enjoyment as a necessity — (49:34) Social hexad vs attachment orientation with parents and formative attachment figures— (56:35) Bermuda adjacent hexad types seeming more hexad by pushing off attachment
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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They don’t want you to know.
— (3:10) Nines are everyone’s least favorite mud cattle— (6:38) Sixes are annoying cult maintainers— (11:13) Sevens are the slutty surprise suicide
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us fund new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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A must-watch for every 9 and 9-fixer. Watch Dogville and then come back to this.
— (8:42) Why we’re talking about Dogville / Plot overview— (19:53) The hope of attachment vs the leverage of rejection— (24:30) How things went from bad to worse— (30:04) The arrogance of 9— (37:32) Grace confronted by the Dogville principle— (47:14) Grace representing the unprotected innocence of the body center— (53:00) The 8 tenet of first protecting your self and life force— (1:03:39) Why Dogville is a must watch for 9s and 9-fixers
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Toni Morrison, Osho, and The 145 Bermuda Overlay and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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