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  • Well it’s that time of year…. Take care of yourselves. We love you.


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  • Step into the colorful world of queer flagging on this episode of By the Bi. Angela and Bradford explore the intricate and historical art of flagging, a coded language of colors and patterns used within the LGBTQ+ community to express identity, desires, and boundaries. Originating in the underground scenes of the 1970s, flagging has evolved from the traditional hanky codes to include contemporary twists like accessories and digital emojis.


    This episode delves into how flagging serves not just as personal expression but as a vital form of silent dialogue that fosters community and understanding. Whether it’s a bandana, a piece of jewelry, or a chosen emoji, each element holds a story and a signal. Join us as we unravel these vibrant signals, learning how to read and respect the nuanced languages of flagging that continue to shape connections and culture within the queer community.


    Tune in and discover the layers of meaning wrapped in the simple elegance of colors with By the Bi. Whether you’re familiar with flagging or just curious about its symbols, this discussion promises to enlighten and inspire deeper appreciation for this unique form of communication.


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  • Join Angela and Bradford for a very special live episode of By the Bi, broadcasting directly from the sun-soaked and sensational Xcape to the Tropics 2024! Dive into the heart of this exotic getaway as our hosts share their experiences, interviews, and unexpected adventures from one of the hottest lifestyle events of the year.


    From vibrant theme nights like Pop Culture and Dirty Disney to intimate conversations with fellow attendees, this episode offers a firsthand look at the thrilling atmosphere and dynamic interactions that define Xcape to the Tropics. Whether it’s poolside chats, late-night parties, or candid moments of connection, Angela and Bradford capture the essence of this unique tropical escape.


    Tune in for this lively and engaging episode that brings the spirit of Xcape to the Tropics right to your ears. Don’t miss out on the laughter, revelations, and unforgettable stories shared live by your favorite duo. Subscribe now to By the Bi for more live episodes and vibrant discussions from the world’s most exciting lifestyle events.


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  • This week on By the Bi, strap in for a hot and steamy recount as Bradford shares his tantalizing tales from Renos Relaxing, a popular gay sauna in Zurich. Join Angela and Bradford as they delve into a series of sexy adventures that unfold behind the sauna’s discreet doors.


    From flirtatious encounters to unexpected connections, Bradford reveals the exhilarating experiences and playful escapades that highlighted his visit. Whether you’re intrigued by the allure of a gay sauna or just in the mood for some spicy stories, this episode promises to deliver heat, humor, and a few surprises.


    Tune in to By the Bi for an episode packed with sizzling narratives that are sure to entertain and titillate. Don’t forget to subscribe for more of Angela and Bradford’s exhilarating discussions and personal journeys through the world of adult adventures.


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  • This week on By the Bi, join Angela and special guest Spanky as they delve into the vibrant and often misunderstood world of being a single lady in the lifestyle community. From navigating social dynamics to embracing personal empowerment, this episode offers a candid look at the challenges and triumphs faced by single women in a scene often dominated by couples.


    Spanky and Angela share their personal experiences, insights, and tips for thriving as a single lady in the lifestyle. They’ll discuss everything from attending events solo, managing expectations, to fostering safe and enjoyable connections. Whether you’re a seasoned solo participant or curious about stepping into the lifestyle independently, this episode is packed with valuable advice, heartwarming stories, and empowering discussions.


    Tune in to By the Bi for an enlightening conversation that celebrates independence, community, and the unique perspectives of single women in the lifestyle. Don’t miss this blend of personal anecdotes and expert guidance designed to inspire and inform. Subscribe now for more discussions that dive deep into the diverse experiences of the lifestyle community.


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  • Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit a hot favorite on By the Bi—packing for a sexy vacation! This episode isn’t just about what to bring; it’s a full-on preparation guide for the upcoming Xcape to the Tropics 2024, featuring tantalizing new themes like Pop Culture and Dirty Dizney.


    Dive into the essentials of sexy vacation packing, ensuring you’re not only ready but perfectly attired for each themed night. Whether it’s channeling your inner superhero or giving a Dizney character a naughty twist, we’ll help you pack to impress and express. Plus, discover our top tips for maximizing suitcase space while keeping your outfits on point.


    Tune in for a playful yet practical episode that combines essential packing advice with creative theme night ideas. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more insights on traveling, lifestyle themes, and thriving in the vibrant world of exotic getaways!


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  • Dive deep into the world of non-monogamy with Angela and Bradford in this enlightening episode of By the Bi as they tackle common urban myths about open relationships, kink, and sex. From the misconception that open relationships lack love, to the idea that they’re just about sex, this episode aims to dismantle the stereotypes and reveal the true complexities and richness of open relational dynamics..


    Tune in to By the Bi for a candid discussion that promises to challenge assumptions, broaden perspectives, and deepen understanding of how diverse relationships can thrive in today’s world.


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  • Step behind the velvet rope with Angela and Spanky in this titillating episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating night at The Erotic Ball. Known for its daring displays and uninhibited atmosphere, The Erotic Ball serves as the perfect backdrop for exploring themes of freedom, fantasy, and the art of erotic expression. Join our hosts as they share their personal experiences, from the eye-opening outfits to the captivating performances, and the deeper conversations sparked by the night’s festivities.


    Tune in and let By the Bi take you on a journey into the heart of the erotic—where the only thing more revealing than the attire is the conversations.


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  • Dive into the fluid journey of sexual identity with Angela and Bradford in this profound episode of By the Bi. We explore how sexual identity can transform from childhood through old age, influenced by personal experiences, societal changes, and shifting cultural norms. Join us as we discuss our stages of sexual identity development, the impact of life events like relationships, and the challenges and discoveries that come with each phase of life. We’ll also share personal stories and insights.


    Whether you’re curious about your own evolving identity or seeking to understand the experiences of others, this episode offers a compassionate and comprehensive look at the lifelong journey of sexual self-discovery. Tune in to By the Bi for a conversation that embraces the ever-changing nature of who we are.


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  • This week, By the Bi takes a deep dive into the cutting-edge world of sextech, starting with an exclusive interview with the creator of the innovative FirmTech cock ring, Doctor Elliot Justin. Discover the science and inspiration behind this revolutionary device designed to enhance pleasure and performance.


    Angela and Bradford explore the broader landscape of sextech, examining how technology is transforming intimate experiences. From wearables to app-controlled devices, learn how these advancements are making waves in the bedroom and beyond. We’ll discuss the benefits, challenges, and future potential of sextech, providing insights into how technology is not just changing our daily lives but also enhancing our most personal moments.


    Join us on By the Bi for an enlightening conversation about the intersection of technology and sexuality. Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes that delve into the fascinating, tech-driven side of human intimacy!


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  • This week on By the Bi, join Angela and Bradford as they channel their inner MST3K to poke fun at their past selves while unraveling the often overlooked costs of the swinging lifestyle. Swinging isn’t just a social endeavor; it can also be a costly one. From exclusive club memberships to the travel and attire that accompany the glamorous events, the expenses can quickly mount.


    In this lighthearted episode, we’ll guide you through navigating the swinging scene, whether you’re splurging or on a budget. Learn how to identify cost-effective swinging parties, choose the right clubs without overspending, and uncover savvy tips for minimizing travel and accommodation costs. Plus, we’re dishing out creative and economical ways to dazzle at any event without breaking the bank on outfits.


    Tune in for laughs and learning with By the Bi, and discover how to keep your swinging lifestyle both thrilling and thrifty. Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes that blend humor with practical advice!


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  • Ho ho ho—it’s Christmas in July on this week’s episode of By the Bi! Join Angela and Bradford as they bring the holiday cheer to the heat of summer with a visit to Between Friends for their Christmas in July Party. This isn’t your typical holiday gathering; instead of snowflakes and sleigh bells, think sexy lingerie and Santa hats!


    Dive into the fun as they dig deep into Santa’s sack, uncovering what’s on everyone’s wishlist. From naughty to nice, the wishes revealed will surprise, delight, and maybe even blush! It’s a merry exploration of desires and dreams, all wrapped up in a summery Christmas bow.


    Tune in for a jolly good time with By the Bi and discover what everyone really wants this Christmas in July. Don’t forget to subscribe for more whimsical, warm-weather holiday adventures with Angela and Bradford!


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  • This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the transformative world of therapy, counseling, and coaching with an expert from Orange Counselling and Coaching. Discover the profound impact these practices can have on personal growth, relationship dynamics, and overall well-being.


    Join us as we explore different therapeutic approaches and coaching methods that help folks navigate challenges and reach their fullest potential. Dan from Orange Counseling and Coaching shares insights into how professional guidance can support emotional health, enhance communication, and foster deeper connections in various types of relationships.


    Whether you’re curious about starting your own therapeutic journey or looking to deepen your understanding of these vital resources, this episode offers valuable perspectives and actionable advice.


    Tune in to By the Bi for an enlightening conversation about mental health and personal development. Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes that empower you to live a more fulfilled and balanced life.


    Orange Counselling and Coaching https://www.ocandc.com.au/


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  • This week we dive into coming out & religion with an interview with the creative team behind Hillsong Boy.


    Hillsong Boy chronicles the weird and wonderful experiences of ex-Hillsonger, Scott Parker. During his twenty years with the megachurch he experienced the dizzying heights of Christian celebrity, and the lonely lows of being cast aside, all whilst keeping a desperate secret. Scott is queer, and there’s no such thing as a Queer Hillsong Boy. Original music, autobiography, multimedia, and a leap of faith all collide in this playful revelation of coming out and getting out of one of the most talked about church movements of the 21st Century. A Hillsong boy through and through, Scott has stories to tell, so pull up a pew and join us for a queer holy communion.


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  • Coming out can be one of the most pivotal moments in someone’s life. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford delve into the emotional spectrum of coming out experiences. Do you “turtle,” retreating into your shell to protect yourself, or do you “volcano,” erupting with a bold declaration of identity? Both approaches are valid and deserve space and understanding.


    In this episode, we explore the different ways people embrace their truth, from the quietly courageous to the loudly proud. We’ll share some of our stories, offer advice, and provide insights into how each approach impacts personal well-being and relationships. Whether you’re considering coming out or seeking to support someone who is, this discussion aims to affirm and inspire, offering a compassionate look at the journeys of self-acceptance and public acknowledgment.


    Tune in to By the Bi for a heartfelt exploration of pride, protection, and the personal narratives that shape our coming out stories. Subscribe now for more thoughtful conversations on sexuality, identity, and the power of living authentically.



    The Trevor Project, www.thetrevorproject.org

    PFLAG, pflag.org

    LGBT Life Center, lgbtlifecenter.org

    Naz & Matt Foundation, www.nazandmattfoundation.org

    Human Rights Campaign, www.hrc.org

    ACON, www.acon.org.au

    QLife, qlife.org.au

    Twenty10, twenty10.org.au


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  • Join Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman in a deeply personal episode of By the Bi, as they reflect on their seven-year journey in a polyamorous relationship. This week, they open up about the evolving dynamics, challenges, and triumphs of their shared love and commitment. Does the proverbial seven-year itch apply in the poly world? They tackle this question head-on, sharing insights and experiences that might just change the way you think about long-term relationships in non-monogamous settings.


    From memorable milestones to the everyday adjustments that keep their connection strong, the trio discusses where they’ve been and where they’re heading. This candid conversation sheds light on the realities of sustaining a polyamorous relationship over the years, offering listeners a rare glimpse into the joys and complexities of loving multiply.


    Tune in to By the Bi for an honest look at polyamory through the lens of a lasting partnership. Don’t forget to subscribe for more explorations into love, life, and the paths less traveled.


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  • Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap.


    This electrifying game will reveal just how much they know about sex, kink, and everything in between. Angela guides the game with her usual flair, providing laughter, suspense, and a few educational tidbits along the way. Will Bradford and The Gentleman survive the shocks and awe of Angela’s devious quiz?


    Tune in to By the Bi for this zappy, zany episode and find out who will scream for the right reasons! Subscribe now for more unconventional fun and games with Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman.


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  • Step into the world of decadence and drama on this week’s episode of By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and their special guest, The Gentleman, recount the thrills of the recent Velvet kink party and the Rocky Horror Pendulum Party. Dive into the seductive details of these extravagant events, where costumes, role-play, and the spirit of adventure create a playground for the senses.


    From the lush allure of Velvet to the wild, time-warping fun of the Rocky Horror-themed night, we explore the highlights, the unexpected moments, and the sensational experiences that only such unique gatherings can offer. The Gentleman adds his own spicy anecdotes and insights, making this discussion a must-listen for anyone fascinated by the playful and profound aspects of kink and community.


    Join us for an episode filled with laughter, revelations, and a few saucy secrets. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more episodes that delve into the vibrant, sometimes hidden world of alternative lifestyles and celebrations.


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  • This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed conversation.


    Join us as we discuss the importance of education in STI management. We’ll also share personal stories of the social and emotional aspects of an STI diagnosis, offering insights on coping with stigma and maintaining a healthy sexual life.


    Tune into By the Bi for this enlightening discussion and remember to subscribe for more episodes that challenge misconceptions and celebrate the diversity of human sexuality.


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  • This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the exhilarating world of the classic swingers’ double header weekend, sharing their steamy tales from back-to-back nights at the swingers club, Our Secret Spot. From the electric atmosphere of Friday’s Newbie night to the heightened anticipation and wild abandon of Saturday’s 10th Birthday Party, they’ll give you an all-access pass to the thrills, spills, and intimate connections that define such an adventurous weekend.


    But the escapades don’t end there! Bradford takes us on a detour to recount a spicy Grindr hookup while traveling, offering a candid glimpse into the dynamics of casual connections and the surprises they can bring..


    Tune in to Episode #402 for an unmissable journey into the heart of swinging and beyond. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for your biweekly dose of stories that celebrate sexual freedom and exploration. Join us as we embrace the wild, the wonderful, and everything in between!


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