Episodes
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Do you lack dating experience? Maybe you are more of a relationship person or maybe you never really just “dated” and have a desire to be in a relationship but your fear of rejection is holding you back? In Episode 376 of The Charisma Quotient, “How To Date Without Fear: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches a woman LIVE about how to date without fear. Sarah is an amazing woman, who opens up about her lack of dating experience due to bullying and turbulent college experiences. These encounters left her grappling with self-identity and confidence issues well into her adulthood, paralyzing in fear to date. Today, Sarah is determined to increase her self worth, learn how to embrace her femininity and bolster her emotional intelligence.
In this episode, Kimmy starts by giving top road blocks that psychologically prevent people from dating. Kimmy and Sarah then explore the internal challenges of overcoming negative past experiences and fears of rejection. They candidly discuss how childhood bullying and the absence of male friendships shaped Sarah's guarded demeanor and her struggle to express personal needs. This conversation is rich with actionable strategies for embracing feminine energy, such as experimenting with social settings without the pressure of dating. Kimmy offers the intriguing practice of a "dating mission statement," which focuses away from finding a partner to fostering social confidence and building dating and flirting skills.
Feel inspired to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and confidence-building? Book a free call with Kimmy today: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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In a world of constantly ever-changing technology and social rules, it can be challenging to know when and how to approach women. And for women, it can be difficult to know where to go to find men. In Episode 375 of The Charisma Quotient, “Uncovering Dating Truths: Social Dynamics, Attraction, and Confidence with Michael Sartain,” Kimmy sits down with Michael Sartain. Known for his distinguished career as a retired US military officer and a prominent figure in high-status networking, Michael offers a trove of insights grounded in evolutionary psychology and firsthand social strategy.
In this episode, Kimmy and Michael unpack the evolution of social dynamics in this modern dating era. They scrutinize the impact of social media and address the skewed gender ratios in social venues. Together, they explore the critical influence of social status, leadership, and authenticity in cultivating attraction, while also addressing the fear and polarization that plagues today's dating scene. Listen in to hear tips on how to enhance your attractiveness online, the difference between narcissism and confidence and the biggest mistakes men make when trying to create attraction.
If you struggle to put yourself out there with confidence, Join Kimmy’s Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event December 11. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching, direct feedback from the opposite sex and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. There are only a few spots left for this VIP-ONLY experience. Go to this link to register:
https://www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Remember a time when finding a date was as easy as asking the girl next door? When people would pick up a rotary phone to call each other up? In the modern world of dating, there are numerous challenges that come up with new choices we didn’t have before. In Episode 374 of The Charisma Quotient, “Navigating Modern World To Find Love: Interview with Allison Raskin,” Kimmy chats with Allison – a New York Times bestselling author, mental health advocate, and comedian who knows a thing or two about navigating modern love. From her beginnings as a TV comedy writer to creating profound content centered on relationships and mental health, Allison's journey is as dynamic as the insights she shares. Her book, "I Do, I Think," tackles the nuances of modern marriage for Gen Z, millennials and beyond.
In this episode, Kimmy and Allison engage in a powerful conversation about redefining traditional notions of marriage and partnership. They explore questions such as: What role does communication have in navigating shared and separate interests? And, in a world proliferated by dating apps and social media, how does one find genuine compatibility without succumbing to dating fatigue? You’ll hear the importance of self-care and maintaining individuality within partnerships and why older and younger generations have differing views on marriage and partnerships. These two explore how to reframe divorce as a learning experience and ways to overcome dating fatigue.
If you are having a hard time navigating the modern dating world join Kimmy’s Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event this December to brush up on your dating and flirting skills. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. Don’t miss your chance to be part of this VIP-ONLY experience.
https://www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Dating after a loss can feel daunting. You feel like you’ve already found the one and now you’ve lost that part of yourself. Plus the dating scene has completely changed. In Episode 373 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating After Loss: Finding Love In The Golden Years with Kym Douglas,” Kimmy sits down with the multi-talented Kym Douglas, a vibrant television host, author, comedian, and lifestyle expert. Known for her infectious humor and resilience, Kym opens up about her empowering journey through personal loss and her path to finding love again.
In this episode, Kimmy and Kym delve deep into the common fears and misconceptions surrounding dating later in life, especially after the loss of a partner. They candidly discuss Kym’s fear of not being "pretty enough," grappling with rejection, and overcoming perfectionism—all hurdles faced by many re-entering the romantic world. Listen in to hear Kimmy uncover some surprising breakthroughs for Kym as she learns how her relationship with her mother, perfectionism and fear are all affecting her dating life now. Hear how Kimmy coaches Kym in the end to start putting herself out there to flirt and empowering her to start meeting other singles on her own.
If you are struggling to put yourself out there and find love and fun after loss, join Kimmy’s Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event this December. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. Don’t miss your chance to be part of this VIP-ONLY experience.
https://www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Are you watching Joan’s journey on The Golden Bachelorette and feeling inspired to get back out there? In Episode 372 of The Charisma Quotient, “Surprising Lessons Learned from The Golden Bachelorette,” Kimmy does a deep dive into the transformative world of dating after 40, offering wisdom and warmth to empower you on your journey.
In this episode, Kimmy unravels the secrets to reigniting confidence and injecting a sense of playfulness into dating at any age. She walks through the major takeaways she’s found from watching Joan and the men on The Golden Bachelorette. So many of the men walk away feeling reinvigorated with hope after meeting Joan and forming a brotherhood with the other men on the show. Kimmy explains why having that form of community can be a huge game changer when it comes to getting back out there. Through heartfelt stories and practical advice, Kimmy illustrates key tips to date with confidence in the golden years. You’ll hear valuable lessons from "The Golden Bachelorette," including the surprise value of vulnerability and emotional connection, the power of "data dating" and how intentional, strategic dating can revolutionize your love life and why overcoming fears and reframing your mindset about dating is essential.
If you are dating in the second act and you have no idea where to go, what to do or how to be..book a private call with Kimmy to help you map out a dating plan to get you motivated to get out there here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Dating later in life? Dating after 40 feels different than it did in your 20s. In Episode 371 of The Charisma Quotient, “Top 5 Mistakes When Dating Over 40”, Kimmy lays out all of the top blunders people make when they start dating later.
In this episode, Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life. She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. Kimmy tackles the unique challenges and abundant opportunities that accompany dating and socializing in life's "second act," offering invaluable insights into the mindset shifts needed to fully embrace this chapter of life. You’ll hear the secrets to bringing playfulness back into your dating life and why it's the key to creating genuine connections. Kimmy explains why old-fashioned dating rules no longer apply and how to embrace proactive, modern dating approaches. She also uncovers how to rediscover the joy of flirting. This episode is packed with practical strategies that will encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and nurture your dating confidence.
If you have challenges putting yourself out there and relate to any of these mistakes, then sign up for a free personal strategy call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Is your overthinking sabotaging your dating life? In Episode 370 of The Charisma Quotient, “From Overthinking to Engaging: Coaching With Kimmy”, Kimmy does a live coaching session with Patrick - a man who’s ready to get back out there but his overthinking is stopping him from finding success.
In this episode, Kimmy engages Patrick in a thought-provoking conversation, spotlighting the importance of expressing feelings over thoughts in social interactions. She gives him strategies to overcome the paralysis of overthinking—whether it's letting go of expectations, embracing the playful side early in interactions, or redefining rejection as a growth experience. Patrick candidly reflects on his upbringing and the influence it has on his present-day relationships.
Patrick's story of missing a romantic connection on a flight due to hesitation shows the consequences of overanalyzing opportunities. They also discuss his insight into balancing traditional masculinity with modern relationship dynamics, offering a fresh perspective on emotional authenticity.
Sign up for Kimmy’s brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates on Wednesday October 30 at 4pm PST/7pm EST. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast!
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Ever wondered why falling in love for a man feels different than falling in love for a woman? In Episode 369 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How Men and Women Date Differently: Interview with John Gray”, Kimmy interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. He is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.
In this episode, Kimmy and John delve into the paradoxes and gender dynamics that can either make or break a relationship. Discover why reconciling the balances of giving and receiving love is crucial and how women can inspire long-lasting effort from their partners without resorting to demands. They dissect key stages of relationship development, offering insights on maintaining romance and intimacy over time.
John shares a story of an early date where a single compliment on a sunset led to a deeper connection, emphasizing the power of positive reinforcement. And you’ll hear Kimmy's reflections on modern femininity and proactive flirting, which can radically shift your approach to love.
If you are having a hard time finding the right man or woman for you, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you take the next step to find love here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Are you a dating overthinker? Maybe you’re an amazing student - you’ve read every book, listened to every podcast, and heard all of the dating advice. But when you go on a date, you’re stuck in your head and can’t even make a move. In Episode 368 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How To Get Out Of Your Head and Stop Overthinking”, Kimmy will teach you to get out of your head to stay present and date successfully.
In this episode, Kimmy will teach you how to get out of your head with easy, practical tips that you can start doing today. She shares an inspiring story of a male client who conquered his tendency towards "theory dating" and embraced action over introspection, ultimately finding success in the dating world. Kimmy also shares a personal anecdote about a pivotal moment in her own life, where letting go of overanalysis opened the doors to unexpected opportunities and deeper connections.
If you are stuck in your head and need help being more present to create opportunities, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you take baby steps towards building that confidence to find the right love for you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Are you struggling to break free from past relationship patterns and yearning for personal growth? In Episode 367 of The Charisma Quotient, “: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy does a live coaching call with Diane “Overcoming Negative Patterns and Dating Without Fear - a resilient 69-year-old woman, navigating the journey of self-discovery after a lifetime of troubled relationships. Diane's compelling tale starts with meeting her former partners through mutual connections, leading to painful, controlling relationships and a journey about reclaiming her independence and self-worth.
In this episode, Kimmy coaches Diane as she opens up about her transformative move to a new city, where she built a new life, social circle, and unearthed a newfound sense of independence. Diane bravely shares her struggles with self-esteem, communication, and her resolve to approach dating with a fresh perspective, sparking an inspiring dialogue with Kimmy about embracing self-love first. Discover Diane’s powerful realization about the influence of her upbringing on her communication skills and relationship choices, and how she aspires to break free from old patterns. Kimmy talks through practical tips to get out of the cycle of bad relationships and how to move back into dating in a healthy way. You’ll hear secrets to boosting your self-esteem, flirting and intentional dating in order to take control of your dating life.
If fear is getting in the way of putting yourself out there, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you get past fear and take baby steps towards building that confidence to find the right love for you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Ask about her next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Ever wondered how the health of your smile could be the key to unlocking your confidence and transforming your love life? In Episode 366 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of a Healthy Smile and Attitude: Interview with Dr. Rad” Kimmy dives into this unexpected yet fascinating topic with the incredibly knowledgeable and charismatic Dr. Rad. He is an international speaker on sleep apnea, snoring, low level laser therapy, marketing, medical billing and men's mental health. He is a practicing dentist of 22 years. He has a passion for speaking that includes personal development and strategies that help anyone manifest the life of their dreams.
In this episode, Kimmy and Dr. Rad discuss the often-overlooked impact of oral hygiene on your overall attractiveness and confidence. Learn how a bright, healthy smile can dramatically improve your dating life and first impressions. They also delve into the often-undetected issue of sleep apnea and its wide-ranging effects on mood, energy levels, and relationship dynamics. Listen in to hear the role of sleep in your emotional and physical well-being and the importance of self-acceptance and how it can reduce judgment towards others. Dr. Rad shares practical advice on improving your oral health, from essential hygiene practices to critical dental interventions. Prepare to be inspired by stories and real-life transformations highlighting the powerful, sometimes life-changing role of good health habits.
And if your health and wellbeing is affecting your dating life and stopping you from putting yourself out there, then hop on a personal call with Kimmy to help you come up with some strategies to get you unstuck. Just book that here now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Ask about her next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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What do you think of when you hear the word flirting? Does the very word fill you with fear? Flirting doesn’t have to be so scary. It can actually be playful and fun. In Episode 365 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of Playfulness: Where Are They Now with Sandra” Kimmy brings on Sandra, an accomplished professional who battled with the nuances of modern dating for over a decade. Sandra came to Kimmy seeking a transformative approach to her dating life, struggling to connect emotionally despite her natural social skills and professional success. But after working with Kimmy, she met a great guy!
In this episode, Kimmy and Sandra discuss the pivotal moments and strategies that led Sandra to rethink her approach to flirting and dating to meeting a great guy she is currently dating! From Sandra's initial fear of sending the wrong signals through flirting to adopting a playful, natural style in her interactions, the conversation unveils how breaking away from a business-like demeanor allowed Sandra to form authentic connections and landing her man IRL. You’ll hear how to overcome the fear of sending the wrong signals, practical tips on balancing analytical thinking with emotional feeling to enrich your social interactions and how to rethink flirtation as natural playfulness. Sandra shares her experiences working with Kimmy, including the paradigm-shifting advice to embrace her femininity and slow down during interactions, which counterintuitively sped up her ability to form deep emotional bonds.
If you are having a hard time meeting potential dates in the wild and putting yourself out there, Kimmy’s next interactive co-ed workshop is coming up, Unleashing Your Sexy Confidence where you will learn the art of attraction and chemistry and owning your femininity and masculinity. Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast!
And if you really want to take action and take it one step further, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Ever wish you could sprinkle a little bit of magic and manifest the man or woman of your dreams? In Episode 364 of The Charisma Quotient, “Designing Your Dream Partner: Interview with Saul Blinkoff” Kimmy Seltzer sits down with award-winning director, producer, and motivational speaker, Saul Blinkoff. Saul is a Hollywood producer who works for many high-profile clients including Disney, Dreamworks, Netflix, and more. He is an empowering Life Coach and Podcast Host of the motivational podcast LIFE of AWESOME!
In this episode, Kimmy and Saul delve into the universal themes of responsibility, greatness, and purposeful living as exemplified by Simba's journey in "The Lion King." They explore how creating the best version of you is the key to designing the love life you want. Saul shares why he believes that living with purpose trumps chasing happiness and talks about aligning your relationships with your life goals. You’ll hear how aligning your life goals with your relationships can lead to a more supportive and growth-oriented partnership and why finding a deeper sense of purpose will lead you to a more fulfilling life than simply chasing fleeting happiness. The importance of loving yourself before you expect others to love you is really highlighted in this episode and filled with inspiration and actionable insights!
If you are tired of not attracting the right people in your life, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Are you feeling stuck after a long-term relationship? Does going back in the dating game make you feel guarded and nervous? In Episode 363 of The Charisma Quotient, “Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Pearl” Kimmy’s client Pearl talks about the huge growth she’s had in her confidence and dating life since attending a virtual workshop with Kimmy.
In this episode, Kimmy and Pearl discuss the challenges of expressing feelings after a shut-down marriage, overcoming anxiety, and the transformative power of setting boundaries and self-advocacy. They also explore the importance of personal growth in changing one's perspective on relationships, as well as finding joy in the dating process. Through coaching and inner work, Pearl redefined her dating experience and found a deep, emotional connection she never thought possible.
And if you’re ready to start your journey to love, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Are you ready to turn up the heat and reclaim your sexy after 40? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! But that doesn’t mean that it can’t be fun. In Episode 362 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes” Kimmy dives into the most common mistakes she sees her clients making and how you can avoid them.
In this episode, Kimmy discusses key insights on why dating after 40 is different, the importance of updating your mindset, managing realistic expectations, and dispelling old-fashioned dating rules. She also dives into the impact of lacking flirtation and playfulness, and how it can hinder your dating journey. Kimmy shares engaging anecdotes and success stories from her coaching experience, proving that with the right approach, finding love and happiness after 40 is absolutely within reach. And, she shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date.
And if you’re ready to get back out there, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Do you have dating anxiety? You like the idea of a relationship but putting yourself out there to meet someone feels risky and causes a lot of fear. In Episode 361 of The Charisma Quotient, “Taking Risks When Dating: Where Are They Now with Paul” Kimmy’s client Paul shares how he went from struggling with confidence and emotional connections to finding the love of his life by simply opening himself up and putting himself out there.
In this episode, Kimmy and Paul engage in an insightful conversation, discussing the skills he gained during his coaching and style sessions with Kimmy. They explore the empowering nature of taking risks and being vulnerable, highlighting Paul's funny story of how he learned to meet women at Whole Foods. You’ll hear the importance of facing fears and taking steps to overcome them, Paul’s transformation from fear of rejection to vulnerability and confidence and how to move past low self-confidence and surface-level conversations. The episode ends with the heartwarming story of how his confidence grew by talking to everybody and building a social network which led to meeting the love of his life.
If you have a hard time putting yourself out there and taking risks, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com
And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Are you tired of the endless swiping and superficial interactions on dating apps? Do you long for the days where you could meet someone in person? In Episode 360 of The Charisma Quotient, “Ditch The Dating Apps And Meet IRL,” Kimmy delves into the world of real-life connections and the lost art of flirting in person. She shares riveting anecdotes of individuals transitioning from disillusionment with digital dating to finding love through sincere real-life encounters and gives tangible tips on how you can too.
In this episode, Kimmy shares success stories of going out with clients who believed the days of meeting people in real life were over and transforming them into flirtatious, charismatic daters who aren’t afraid to approach people. She talks about the power of initiating conversations and not being afraid to put yourself out there. Kimmy outlines simple actions you can take to meet people IRL. You’ll hear about the significance of saying "hi" and sharing intimate details to foster meaningful connections, steps to maintain open body language and position yourself for potential interactions and tips on where to meet people. Kimmy shares how to address the concerns and anxieties about re-entering the dating world after a long absence
If you are feeling lost on how to meet people in the wild, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com
And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Does dating often leave you feeling detached? In today’s world where social media and online dating are everywhere, it can feel impossible to have an authentic dating experience, especially in real life. In Episode 359 of The Charisma Quotient, “Stop Detached Dating: Interview with Steve Sims,” Kimmy sits down with the incredibly witty and insightful Steve Sims, a master in the art of building genuine relationships. Steve has a fascinating journey from a nightclub doorman to the founder of the world's first experiential concierge firm including a private dinner party at the feet of Michelangelo’s David where Andrea Bocelli serenaded guests.
In this episode, Kimmy and Steve unravel the secrets to navigating the modern dating landscape, from shifting mindsets to embracing rejection as a learning process. They discuss how even as an introvert, you can find connection and get something out of even your bad dates. From embracing rejection as a catalyst for growth to being fully present and giving in to social interactions, they shed light on why dating with intention and a positive mindset leads to more success.
If you want help overcoming fears and challenges of meeting people in the wild in person, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com
And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Do you date from a place of fear? Maybe your past trauma is informing the way you go about not only dating but how you live your life. Meet Kim, an amazing woman who overcame her fears of dating and financial struggles after attending a dating retreat with Kimmy. In Episode 358 of The Charisma Quotient, “Face Your Dating Fears: Where Are They Now with Kim,” Kim shares how finding happiness from the outside - in gave her permission to attract a new man in her life.
In this episode, Kimmy dives into Kim’s transformation from being the woman who couldn’t even watch herself in a video and was hiding from the world to the woman who loves herself and is willing to take risks and bold action. Kim shares her personal story of how going through a divorce had done damage to her self-esteem leading her to be intense and fearful. After attending Kimmy’s dating retreat and working with her, she was able to identify the fears she had that she wasn’t even aware of. The retreat launched her into her new self - a woman who is confident and goes out and does what she loves. And her confidence has now led her to find love!
If you’re ready to face your dating fears and want to attend a dating retreat like Kim did, inquire by going to askkimmy.com to set up a call. Or if you want a free private coaching session to discover other ways Kimmy can help you conquer your fears and become a dating magnet, book a call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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Ever wondered what kind of dater you are? Maybe you tend to be stuck in the friendzone or maybe you attract unavailable partners. What if you knew that there are common challenges people have when dating and specific ways you can overcome them to attract who you want? In Episode 357 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What is Your Dating Archetype?,” Kimmy goes over her five dating archetypes which will let you know where you fit in the dating world.
In this episode, Kimmy breaks down each of her dating archetypes and lets you know where you might fall. By figuring out your dating archetype, you’ll be able to learn how to work through your dating patterns to get a different result. It’s not about being pigeonholed - finding your archetype is about pushing through past traumas that are holding you back from finding success in your dating life. You’ll hear Kimmy reveal the signs and characteristics of being in the friend zone, how past trauma influences dating behaviors and how learning your dating archetype can get you to break patterns of toxic dating.
If you want to know what kind of dater you are and how to improve your results take the Dating Archetype Quiz here https://form.jotform.com/231376592380157
Ready to embark on a transformative journey to redefine your dating approach? Set up a free breakthrough call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
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