Episodes
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In this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics, I sit down with Jaqueline Michelle, a sensuality mentor and Shibari practitioner, to dive deep into true sensual embodiment and how we can overcome disconnection from our bodies. Jaqueline shares her powerful journey from childhood trauma to reclaiming her sensuality through practices like yoga, Tantra, and BDSM. We explore the importance of self-regulation, sovereignty, and intentionality in sensual practices, and how mindset work and embodiment can play a crucial role in healing trauma and enhancing intimacy. Jaqueline also delves into emotional layering and the need for authentic, non-performative sensuality.
In this episode you’ll hear:
00:06 Intro
06:50 The Journey to Sensual Embodiment
11:52 The Power of Mindset, Emotional Layering, and Conscious Kink
23:53 The Importance of Self-Regulation and Sovereignty
27:42 The Concept of Performance and How it Affects Individuals
32:44 The Power of Presence and Embodiment in Healing
38:11 Unlocking Deeper Connection Through Sensuality in Relationships
45:15 Work into Sensual Liberation and Empowerment
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Jaqueline Michelle is a Sensuality Mentor & Muse and a Sensual Shibari Practitioner. She specializes in empowering women to take up sensual and erotic space in their bodies and expression. She fuses together the philosophies of yoga, tantra, and kink so we may transmit somatic and subconscious programming so we can liberate ourselves from the inside out.
LINKS FROM THE SHOWhttps://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening
https://linktr.ee/jaquemich
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What does it take for women to feel safe during sex? In this episode, I explore how safety is shaped by our beliefs, past traumas, and cultural conditioning, emphasizing the crucial role of clear communication and mutual accountability. We dive into the complex layers of safety, consent, and the difficult issue of duty sex, where avoiding conflict can lead to unwanted sex and emotional distress, stressing the need for inner work and an understanding of cultural pressures in shaping our sexual dynamics.
In this episode you’ll hear:
00:00 Intro
02:41 Cultural Conditioning and Women's Sexual Needs
09:36 The Role of Communication and Responsibility
12:42 Coercion and Consent in Sexual Relationships
15:45 The Impact of Unwanted Sex on Emotional Well-being
23:30 The Importance of Emotional Curiosity and Responsiveness
29:05 Healing and Supporting the Process
LINKS FROM THE SHOWhttps://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening
https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays
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Dr. Katherine Lawson and I discuss the transformative power of psychedelics, dream work, and trauma healing. We explore integrating mystical experiences into daily life with structured support and the symbolic interpretation of dreams and visions for personal growth. We also explore the therapeutic potential of MDMA-assisted therapy for complex trauma and Dr. Lawson’s journey of empowerment through archetypes and embodied imagination, offering insights into the deep connections between mythology, spirituality, and healing.
In this episode you’ll hear:
00:06 Intro
10:00 Mysticism, dream work, and personal growth
20:56 Using imagination to cope with trauma and explore past lives
32:08 Dream analysis and its benefits for personal growth
37:02 Integrating psychedelic experiences into daily life through dreamwork and MDMA therapy
51:11 Healing trauma through therapy and archetypes.
1:00:24 Tapping into Embodied Imagination and Ancestral Wisdom
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Dr. Katherine Lawson is an Integrative Mental Health Specialist, a certified Embodied Imagination® practitioner, consultant, psycho-spiritual counselor, and an international speaker. She has an MA in counseling psychotherapy from the Pacifica Graduate Institute and her doctorate in Mind-Body Medicine, focusing on Integrative Mental Health. She has spent nearly two decades examining the intersections between healing, dreaming, mysticism, and psychedelics. As a BIPOC woman, cancer survivor, and survivor of childhood sexual trauma, she teaches and utilizes holistic therapies for PTSD and other types of unprocessed wounds, as well as sharing stories of healing. She is fascinated by the interactions between the brain, mind, body, and personality and the powerful ways in which societal and spiritual factors affect health and happiness. She is the author of Dreamwork for Growth and Healing - A Guided Dream Journal and the founder of Awake in the Dream School.
LINKS FROM THE SHOW
https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherine-lawson-ph-d-5b8020bhttps://www.instagram.com/awakeinthedreamschool/
https://www.awakeinthedream.co/
https://books.apple.com/us/book/dreamwork-for-growth-and-healing-a-guided-dream-journal/id1610640944https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening
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Writer and sexologist Suzannah Weiss joins me to explore sexual empowerment, gender dynamics, and spirituality. We discuss reclaiming personal agency, challenging societal norms, and advocating for self-determination. We delve into consent, boundaries, and the limitations of traditional gender roles in relationships, emphasizing the need for balanced approaches and open communication. We also discuss understanding the root of individual behaviors for deeper connection and personal growth.
In this episode you’ll hear:
00:05 Intro
08:13 Objectification vs. subjectification, views from a sexologist.
14:54 Societal pressure on men and women regarding sex and relationships.
24:13 Boundaries and Cultural Conditioning in Sexual Interactions
28:58 Pleasure, and consent in sexual experiences.
37:41 Gender roles, femininity, and individuality in spirituality and dating.
48:05 Reclaiming Agency and Challenging Gender Roles in Relationships
58:37 Embracing contradictions in sexuality and erotic expression.
THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTSuzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health as a resident sexologist for Biird and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University. You can reach Suzannah Weiss on her website.
LINKS FROM THE SHOW
https://suzannahweiss.com/book/https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening
Buy Suzannah's book "Subjectified" here:
https://a.co/d/6zNTC6O
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Writer and social justice consultant, Justice Rivera, joins me to tackle the complexities of psychedelic-assisted therapy for trauma survivors. We define and deconstruct sex work and its intersection with race, culture, and power. We explore the debates around decriminalization versus legalization. We also delve into 'chem sex' practices and the importance of consent in contexts combining drugs and kink.
In this episode you’ll hear:
00:08 Intro
06:45 Sex work, exploitation, and the potential of psychedelic-assisted therapy
15:08 Deconstructing Definitions and the Three C's Model
24:09 Censorship and the Hidden Costs of Online Regulation
31:12 The Potential Benefits of the Decriminalization of Psychedelics
43:22 Discussion on “Chem-sex”, Psychedelics, and Kink.
48:20 Harm Reduction, Consent, and Sexual Experiences.
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Justice Rivera is a writer and social justice consultant from San Juan, PR, specializing in harm reduction and healing justice. With a focus on challenging societal norms, Justice provides support to sex workers, trafficking survivors, and drug users. She is a Partner at Reframe Health and Justice, a harm reduction consulting company. Justice is also the co-author of "Body Autonomy: Decolonizing Sex Work and Drug Use" and enjoys traveling, cooking, and spending time with loved ones.
LINKS FROM THE SHOW
https://www.reframehealthandjustice.com/
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Psychotherapist Jonathan Robinson joins me to discuss using MDMA for relationships. We explore how MDMA can enhance intimacy when used safely for therapy. Jonathan shares insights from over 600 sessions helping couples communicate openly. We dive into his groundbreaking work treating relationship issues with psychedelics like MDMA, as well as training therapists in this approach. Explore the ethical considerations and safety protocols surrounding this therapeutic modality, and gain valuable knowledge on how psychedelics like MDMA can foster deeper self-awareness and strengthen the bonds of love.
In this episode:
00:27 Intro
03:21 MDMA-assisted therapy for trauma, anxiety, and depression
08:13 Using Zoom for therapy sessions, including MDMA and ketamine
19:40 MDMA use in therapy for couples, including its potential benefits and limitations.
21:25 Psychedelic use for couples therapy and emotional healing.
31:15 Navigating Therapy Challenges and Personal Experiences
40:10 Therapy Experiences, Training Insights, and Cautionary Tales
48:50 Self-Awareness and Accountability in Therapy
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Jonathan Robinson is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and professional speaker based in Nevada City, California. With over 35 years of experience, Jonathan explores methods for personal evolution toward a more caring, peaceful, and happy life. His work has been featured in USA TODAY, Newsweek, and the Los Angeles Times. He has appeared on national TV talk shows, including Oprah. Jonathan is the author of nine books, delivering informative presentations on personal development.
LINKS FROM THE SHOW
XTCasMedicine.com
MDMAcouplestraining.com
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Clinical pharmacologist, Stephanie Karzon Abrams joins me to share how ketamine can support our hormonal health. Stephanie walks us through the science + research behind why these compounds and psychedelics can help us towards finding balance when our hormones get out of whack. We dive into treating conditions such as PMDD, menopause symptoms, and the hormonal disturbances caused by autoimmune diseases.
In this episode:
[01:48] Intro
[02:28] Psychedelics' Dance with Hormones and Libido
[09:46] Psilocybin and its Potential for Women's Cycles
[14:39] Ketamine: A New Hope for Hormone Disorders
[29:15] Legal Plant Medicines for Intimacy and Connection
[36:36] Microdosing for Creativity, Mood, and Relationships
[41:45] Ibogaine Therapy's Promise for Traumatic Brain Injuries
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Stephanie is a clinical pharmacologist, community maker, and entrepreneur in the psychedelic space. Through her consultancy, Beyond the Bench, she provides comprehensive guidance and expert advice, offers open-access education, conducts research, and supports initiatives seeking to make a positive impact, in order to redefine the landscape of healthcare and support access to psychedelics and plant medicines.
LINKS
Article about TBI in relationships: https://www.beyondthebench.life/eleusinian-echoes/relationships-after-traumatic-brain-injury-tbi
Exhale: Femme Ketamine Retreat:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
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Psychedelics + ketamine therapies are powerful ways to support the opening of the mind. But is there a thing such as being TOO OPEN?
Nate Klemp, PhD, is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. He joins me to share how to live with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The impact of cancel culture on our cultural mindset and resilience The key differences between experiencing life with a closed vs. open mindset How digital distractions affect openness in relationships and intimacy Strategies for cultivating intentional relationships Nate’s personal journey towards embracing openness and writing his book, "Open" Understand the closed state by spending three days binging on screens and political outrage Fostering openness in romantic partnerships and understanding its significance Personality traits of openness and closeness according to the BIG FIVE inventory Scientific research of how personality traits can shift over time Insights from a skeptic's two-year journey in psychedelic-assisted therapy The varying experiences and effects of ketamine therapy Ketamine's antidepressant properties and its impact on neural plasticity Utilizing open awareness meditation for integrating psychedelic experiences Exploring the "80/80 marriage" concept for strengthening relationships Understanding the dynamics of the "sexual great depression" and vulnerability Patterns of trying to regulate our partner through sex Techniques for skillfully closing and upholding healthy boundariesTHE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS
Nate Klemp, PhD, is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. He is the author of the new book OPEN: Living With an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World. Nate is also the coauthor of the New York Times Editors’ Choice The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage and the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing. Nate cofounded the mindfulness training company Life Cross Training and holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University.
MORE LINKS
Exhale Femme Retreat:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
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Craving erotic stories and audio POV boyfriends who will tell you what a good girl you’ve been? Dipsea is a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content.
Co-founder of Dipsea, Gina Gutierrez joins me to share about their work.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The evolution of the erotic audio industry and Gina's journey of co-founding Dipsea
Popular themes within erotic fantasies
Establishing emotional bonds with characters
The creative process behind crafting erotic narratives and insights into production
The impact of unrealistic expectations perpetuated by erotic content on real-life relationships
Common “ick” factors that hinder reader engagement + building tension in storytelling
The real-life effects of erotic fantasy on dating, relationships, and sexuality
Embracing consent as a desirable element of sex
Assessing the ethicality of porn or audio erotica
Distinguishing Dipsea's storytelling approach amongst others in the industry
Exploring hedonism as a positive and empowering facet of women's sexual liberation
Envisioning the future of women's sexuality and the roles of platforms like Dipsea and AI technology
The influence of sexual expression amid the pandemic
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Meet Gina Gutierrez, an empathy-driven entrepreneur with her sights set on reimagining and prioritizing female pleasure. As the co-founder and Chief Creative Officer at Dipsea, a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content, she’s passionate about demonstrating why sexual wellness is essential, and how storytelling and imagination are powerful tools that can help women unlock liberating connections with their bodies. Armed with a psychology degree from Duke and a desire to break the stigma that fantasy should be stifled, she’s ready to help women everywhere tap into their sexual powers.
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Exhale Femme Retreat:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
Free 30 Day Trial to Dipsea
https://www.dipseastories.com/SEXLOVEYOGA -
Dr Ido Cohen is here with me today to talk about the power of integration, why people struggle with it, and what golden nuggets you can extract. So you can support yourself with actual lasting change.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The various expressions of eros energy and the role of sensuality
Integration: An ongoing process to create long term sustainable change
Psychedelic integration using archetypes and the collective unconscious
Why we project archetypal and shadow traits in relationships
The personal vs collective archetypal energies + indigenous learnings
Holding the tension of opposites within the psychedelic experience
The power of self regulation and holding your own container
Bypassing with psychedelics - Ensuring you’re available for real transformation
The grief that comes from positive change + transformation
Tantric perspective of processing grief on a somatic level
How archetypes evolve in unexpected ways
Neurotic suffering versus authentic suffering
Village model of learning, psychedelic journeys and storytelling
Facilitator abuse and misuse
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Dr. Ido Cohen, Psy.D – serves individuals, couples and groups in San Francisco. He received his Psy.D from the California Institute of integral studies and trained at the Jung Institute In San Francisco. He works with a diverse range of challenges childhood trauma, inner critic, relational issues, lack of fulfillment, psychospiritual growth as well as psychedelic integration and preparation sessions with individuals and groups. His doctoral study researched the integration process of Ayahuasca ceremonies, while applying Jungian psychology to better understand how to support individuals in their process of change and transformation.
He is the founder of “The Integration Circle” and facilitates workshops on the different dimensions of integration and the intersection of mental health, spiritual health and the entheogenic experience. Ido believes that the intersection of our psychological, emotional, somatic and spiritual dimensions can develop our relationships with our inner and outer worlds and create the changes we want to see in our life. Ido is passionate in supporting individuals to create long term, sustainable change leading to vibrant, authentic, expressive and love filled lives.
MORE LINKS
Vetting Your Practitioners: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide
Exhale Femme Retreat:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
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World renowned meditation teacher, Emily Fletcher joins me to explore how to create a life from the seat of pleasure + desire.
Emily is the podcast host of the Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? https://link.chtbl.com/whythis, the founder of Ziva, bestselling author, + alchemical teacher teaching her practice the Sacred Secret.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
Manifestation Rituals and the Complexities of Emotional Experience
Creating Safe Spaces for Authentic Expression and Emotional Alchemy
Balancing Masculine Energy and Nurturing Inner Growth
The Growth Edges that come with Publicly Owning your Pleasure
Integrating Sexuality into Branding: Understanding Audience Dynamics
Making Esoteric Concepts Accessible: Bridging the Gap to Mainstream Understanding
Effective Manifestation Practices and Overcoming Common Obstacles
Understanding the Influence of Consciousness on Manifestation
Exploring Pleasure Science: Nervous System Health and Well-being
Manifesting Through Orgasmic States of Consciousness
Navigating Skepticism and Misconceptions Surrounding Manifestation
Ancient Fertility Rituals
Confronting Judgment and Stigma: The Intersection of Spirituality and Experience
Exploring AI Influence and its Connection to Natural Networks
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Emily Fletcher is the founder of Ziva and host of the “Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?” podcast. She’s an international speaker whose superpower is making esoteric tools accessible to a mainstream audience, teaching over 50k people meditation and manifesting.
Emily has spent the past three years creating Sacred Secret, a new movement informed by ancient wisdom and modern science to help you get exactly what you want in life, all by harnessing Embodied Manifesting tools and Emotional Alchemy.
Free masterclass on the science of Ziva Meditation: https://zivameditation.com/podcast
Follow Ziva on Instagram: instagram.com/zivameditation
Follow Emily Fletcher on Instagram: instagram.com/emilystellafletcher
MORE LINKS
Emily Fletcher's Podcast:
https://link.chtbl.com/whythis
Femme Ketamine Retreat:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
Vetting Your Practitioners: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide
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Relationship & Intimacy Coach Starielle Hope joins me to explore relationships as their own arena for growth. We share practices that you as an individual or you and your beloved can do to recognize + take accountability for your patterns around love.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
Common mistakes people make in relationships + how to solve them
Reprogramming “the happy ever after” fantasy
Cultivating high-level relational skills to create soul-fulfilling connections
Taking self-responsibility for our own patterning and programming
Strategies to access your unconscious mind and create new belief systems
Using breath, sound, movement to regulate your nervous system and create healthy attachment patterns
Unconscious Power dynamics in a relationship -- How to identify them, how to resolve them
Reciprocity and dynamic polarity in committed relationship
Sex as a ceremony for transformation, healing + elevation of consciousness
Starielle’s personal journey of listening to her body to discern aligned relationships
Somatics/language of the physical body plus parts work to access the unconscious and bring into conscious awareness for behavioral shifts
Moving sexual energy through the body without penetration or sensation
How psychedelics can be helpful for couples -- especially for men not conditioned in this society to have a relationship with their emotions.
Navigating grief while in a relationship -- new or long term.
MORE LINKS
Femme Ketamine Retreat:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale
Vetting Your Practitioners: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide
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Starielle is a Relationship & Intimacy Coach who specializes in working with people who have been successful in their careers but have struggled to find that same level of success in their romantic and personal relationships. She guides them in clearing blocks to intimacy, revealing subconscious patterns that are keeping them from the sex & connections they want to experience, and develop the skills that will enable them to attract world-class partners. She also teaches Emotional Intelligence based Leadership to executive teams to help them work more efficiently and unlock maximum creative and productivity potential. She has a decade of experience studying somatic modalities, Internal Family Systems, sexuality, evolutionary psychology, communication techniques, masculine/feminine energy dynamics and tantra. She holistically teaches skills for deeper intimacy by addressing the emotional, physical, sexual, and spiritual planes to empower her clients to experience new depths of connection in their romantic relationships and broader communities.
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Named The Corporate Shaman by Forbes Magazine, Flor Bollini is regarded as one of the trailblazers in the plant medicine world.
Flor joins me to share her Shamanic perspective in the work of psychedelics + sexuality and how we can discern for our own selves what feels right for us.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The convergence of ancient cultures in relation to psychedelics and sexuality
Flor's personal journey highlighting the symbiotic relationship between sexuality and psychedelics
The significance of understanding your sexual energy as a vital life force for overall well-being
Exploring the shadow aspects of sex and psychedelics, and the consequences of suppressing sexual energy
Contrasting underground movements with the current Psychedelic Renaissance, empowering individuals to connect with the divine
The synergy between chemical compounds and the soul of entheogens
Clinical ketamine therapy infused with ritualistic elements
Advocating for safety and approaching complex compounds with reverence
Embracing the role of being your own shaman and embarking on your hero's journey
Integrating psychedelic experiences and recognizing the potency of microdosing
Empowering women in the realm of medicine and honoring the Tradition of Priestesses
Serving others while on the healing path
Developing the ability to discern between intuition and fear through accessible techniques to enhance intuition
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Flor Bollini. Pioneer, entrepreneur and medicine woman. Named The Corporate Shaman by Forbes Magazine, Flor is regarded as one of the trailblazers in the plant medicine world. With over a decade of experience pioneering her empathetic, feminine approach to serving and integrating psychoactive medicines, her methods have been adopted by the leaders in the space and have made Flor one of the most respected psycho-spiritual entrepreneurs in the world. Flor is the founder and CEO of NANA Health, first foundational platform for Psychedelic-Initiated Transformative Medicine. She’s also the co-founder of ReWire Therapeutics LTD, a UK biotechnology company that provides the first time released combination drug products in the psychedelic industry.
MORE LINKS:
Vetting your practitioners for psychedelics: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide
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In this episode with Courtney Watson, we talk about how psychedelics can be a powerful tool for personal exploration in identity, pleasure, + resilience.
She shares about her work with Queer BiPOC , as well as, practices + rituals to access inspiration from ancestral wisdom.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
Building resilience strategies amidst complex trauma
Navigating the repercussions of the pandemic and reclaiming a connection to pleasure
Courtney's impactful work with Queer BiPOC
How to create a sex-positive environment and educate children about pleasure
The significance of intersectionality in therapy, addressing unique challenges in sexual expression and healing
Empowering individuals to explore their sexual identities for greater self-acceptance
Broadening understanding about bisexuality and queerness beyond societal norms
The role of psychedelic therapy, particularly ketamine-assisted therapy, in sex therapy, with a focus on Queer + BIPOC
Unpacking the concept of energetic sex and embracing our fullest sexual selves through pleasure
Practices for connecting with ancestral guides and the wisdom they offer
Tapping into ancestral guidance to navigate sexuality and learn from familial patterns for healing and releasing shame.
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The dynamic founder of Doorway Therapeutic Services, Courtney, is not just a highly qualified therapist but a passionate advocate for those she serves. Her love for her work is deeply intertwined with her dedication to serving marginalized communities, particularly Black, Indigenous, People of Color, Queer Folx, trans/gnc/non-binary/2 spirit Folx, those exploring non-traditional relationships, and sex workers.
Courtney’s passion lies in her service to her community and has led her to transform her solo practice into a group practice of predominantly Queer, BIPOC and TGNC providers offering their therapeutic expertise as a beacon of understanding and guidance to the community. Her goal is not just to help but to champion the healing journey of her clients and the professional development of her employees.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, she utilizes her rich educational background to work in tandem with breadth of knowledge that her lived experience provides. Academically speaking, she has a B.S. in Psychology from Xavier University of Louisiana (an HBCU), an M.S. in Marriage and Family Therapy from UNLV, and an M.Ed. in Human Sexuality from Widener University and might finally be finishing her PhD studies in Human Sexuality this fall! Additionally she has trained with MAPS to provide MDMA Assisted Psychotherapy, CIIS to provide Psychedelic Assisted Therapy and Polaris Insight Center to provide Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. As these medicines are rescheduled by the FDA and available to the public, Doorways will offer psychedelic therapy in addition to the current Ketamine offering now.
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We are exploring my favorite topic + the focus on this show: Sex and Psychedelics.
Amy + April from Shameless Sex and I all play moderators as we muse on our personal explorations + discoveries in plant medicine + psychedelics.
Some of these stories are beautiful + sweet, and some of them represent the darker, harder lessons we had to identify. Each of them is profound and valuable. Hopefully this talk inspires you, and if you need more support, I’ve created a guide for you.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The movement towards decriminalizing psilocybin and a focus on harm reduction
Safety considerations when combining psychedelics with sexual healing
A redefinition of the complexities surrounding "sex" and exploring how psychedelics can aid in this discovery
The supportive role of psychedelics in experiencing self-love and surrender on a profound, embodied level
Dr. Cat's personal journey as a sex therapist, integrating psychedelics into her professional practice
Exploring the erotic nature of psychedelics + Dr. Cat’s model: Erosynthesis
Personal Ayahuasca experiences shared by Cat, April, and Amy, along with the valuable lessons learned
The destigmatization of the natural ebbs and flows of eroticism, particularly during times of grief
Holistic integration of psychedelic experiences + talk therapy
Guidance and suggestions for individuals curious about working with psychedelics
A comprehensive look at safety considerations and tips for selecting the right facilitator for your psychedelic journey
The importance of preparation, integration, and building trust with your chosen journey companions
Mental health considerations that should be addressed before delving into the world of psychedelics
Exploring the potential for transformative and deeply connected self-exploration during solo psychedelic experiences
The differences between feminine and masculine facilitators in the psychedelic realm
The crucial role of establishing and maintaining boundaries to facilitate a deeper surrender into emotional depths for profound healing.
MORE LINKS
Vetting Your Practitioners: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide
Retreat Waitlist:
https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/RetreatWaitlist
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Amy Baldwin is a sex educator and sex and relationship coach trained in both the Somatica and Hakomi Methods. Amy is also the lead educator for überlube, co-owner of a mother-daughter owned online pleasure boutique called Pure Pleasure Shop, and was voted Sexpert of the Year within the pleasure products industry.
April Lampert is co-owner and chief sales and partnerships officer of Hot Octopuss, an innovative and award-winning sex toy company. She was voted Woman of the Year in the pleasure products industry and has been educating people about sexual pleasure and sex toys at a global scale since 2008.
Together, Amy and April created the Shameless Sex podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy. Shameless Sex is known for its unabashed real talk about sexuality with a playful twist, and has been featured in mainstream media outlets such as Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Huffington Post, GQ, and Maxim, among other platforms.
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Mikaela de la Myco has been a leading voice in this space connecting plant medicine for fertility, motherhood, + womb health.
For new moms + moms-to-be who are curious about entheogens… This episode will be for you. We dive into how plant medicine can support women during their pregnancy journey, and the key considerations to be mindful of along the journey.
As a reminder, this is for informational purposes only. Please consult your healthcare provider before pursuing any of the products discussed. I do not believe psychedelics are for everyone, please do the preparation + work necessary to care for yourself.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
Microdosing Moms - How Entheogens Support Women Throughout Pregnancy
Consequences of the Birth Extraction Process in Western Practices
Entheogens Role within Postpartum and Mothers
Systemic Trauma and the Business of Birth: A Closer Look at Perpetuating Factors
Plant Medicine's Supportive Role in Pregnancy + Considerations for the Journey
The Mother's Role and Family Dynamics in the Psychedelic Space
Breastfeeding and Entheogens: Safety Considerations and Detection in Breast Milk
Clarifying Psilocybin Toxicity + Reproductive Risks
Ancestral Wisdom in MesoAmerican Traditions: Indigenous Rituals and Their Modern Relevance
Mushrooms for Hormone Balancing: Entheogens in Pregnancy Considerations
Mikaela's Personal Journey of a Mushroom Experience During the Third Trimester
Guidance on Responsible Psychedelic Exploration: Finding Trustworthy Guides and Leaders in the Field
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Mikaela de la Myco comes from a blended ancestry. Her peoples come from the hills of southern italy, the caribbean and the deserts and mountains of mexico.
In her everyday life, she is a mother, an entheogen educator, a womb care practitioner and acts as a community ceremony facilitator in occupied Kumeyaay & Luiseno territory, also known as San Diego, CA.
She passionately serves all people in ancestral healing ways with special focus in serving creatives, families, bleeding people, folks within the birthing continuum and people navigating conscious contraception.
Mikaela organizes quarterly ceremonies so people can journey through the dark amenta to uncover ancestral messages, rewrite trauma wounds and make meaning with mushroom and other earth medicines.
Her platform, Mama de la Myco is a creative space at the intersection of medicine woman, psychedelic mother and sacred hoe. Mikaela de la Myco has made the commitment to rematriate entheogens, do ma'at always and prove to the world that psychedelics are for families.
Her Survey for Mamas:
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdWK0FCuu0GfIrGYzWJkUzZHAhTVQDb_yn25qTiyBW73vC0Vw/viewform
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Sensual Awakening: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/sensual-awakening
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Today I’ve got Shawn Wells who is brilliant at mapping out how we can support our nervous systems, energy, brain, + cellular health from a supplement + biohackers perspective especially if we are journeying with psychedelics.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
Key principles or practices that are essential for a balanced and sustainable approach to biohacking
Common pitfalls encountered by individuals in their pursuit of biohacking for optimal health and energy, along with strategies to avoid them
How psychedelic journeys can confront individuals with their deepest fears and traumas, and the ways in which biohacking, mindset, and nutrition can aid in this exploration
Guidance for individuals struggling with suicidal thoughts, including how to seek support and explore alternative healing methods like psychedelics in a safe manner
Distinguishing between evidence-based supplements and potentially risky or unproven products in the quest for optimal health and energy
Research on how the combination of psychedelics and therapy is contributing to mental health support
The significance of conducting ceremonies in conjunction with therapy.
Understanding the neurological toxicity of MDMA and identifying supplements to support the nervous system
The importance of cultivating a healthy nervous system before embarking on a psychedelic journey
Recommended supplements for optimal health before, during, and after a psychedelic journey
Shawn's top-recommended supplement for enhancing neural plasticity
Exploring psychedelic supplement stacks
Echo dosing techniques to prolong neural plasticity and enhance integration
Addressing mitochondrial health as a means of healing trauma in the body
Supplements that support the use of stimulants and hallucinogens.
Holistic approaches to healing trauma
Understanding the interaction between 5HTP and MDMA and the risks of serotonin toxicity
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Shawn Wells, MPH, LDN, RD, CISSN, FISSN, stands at the forefront of nutritional biochemistry and supplement formulation, celebrated globally as "The World's Greatest Formulator." His expertise extends beyond crafting over 1000+ health products and holding more than 20+ groundbreaking patents; he is a pivotal thought leader in the realm of mental health and psychedelics, educating on the potential of psychopharmaceuticals worldwide.
Wells boasts a profound educational foundation with a Master's in Nutritional Biochemistry from UNC-Chapel Hill, complemented by a rich background in Business Administration and Exercise Science. As Biotrust Nutrition's former Chief Science Officer, he propelled the company to achieve a formidable $125MM in annual revenue, managing everything from R&D to regulatory affairs.
A seasoned entrepreneur, Wells has a hand in eight businesses and played a significant role in transactions exceeding $425 million, including the notable acquisition of Dymatize by Post Holdings. His business savvy, however, is matched by his commitment to mental wellness and the therapeutic potential of psychedelics, a topic on which he has become an authoritative voice. Recently, he's taken his message to the international stage, keynoting in Poland and Estonia for MindValley, emphasizing the importance of mental health and education in psychedelics.
With resources available through his Zone Halo Research and his personal website, Wells is an inexhaustible source of knowledge for those seeking to improve their well-being. His ongoing contributions to the discourse on mental health and the safe use of psychedelics for therapeutic purposes are recognized and respected worldwide.
Shawn's Free Before During and After Psychopharmacology Guide
https://shawnwells.com/beforeduringafterpsychopharmacology/
Connect to Shawn's ever growing community:
Website - https://shawnwells.com/
IG - https://www.instagram.com/shawnwells/
Sex Love Yoga Retreat Waitlist
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Co-founders of Ceremonia, a non profit psychedelic church, Austin Mao + Chuchu join me in this epic conversation. We explore the need for structure and discernment in finding the right guides for your journey.
We emphasize the importance of preparation and integration in these deep journeys, offering valuable insights into the path of healing and growth.
I really enjoyed dropping in with these two and I’m stoked to share our conversation with you.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The origins of Ceremonia, a non-profit psychedelic church
The legal formalities in hosting + participating in a psychedelic retreat
Behind the scenes of running a non-profit
The importance of preparation and integration in the context of psychedelic retreats
Balancing spiritual growth and bypassing during a psychedelic journey
The complexities of integrating psychedelic experiences and the likelihood to uncover unresolved emotional issues
Navigating the potential pitfalls of spiritual bypassing
How Chuchu and Austin’s partnership enhances the facilitation process and the overall experience
What signs to look for when vetting a facilitator or ceremony space
Advice for individuals who are considering participating in a psychedelic retreat for the first time, and what should they look for in a reputable and safe retreat center
And more!
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Vetting Your Practitioner: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide
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Austin Mao is an entrepreneur, author, poet, and keynote speaker on the intersection of science and spirituality, psychology and shamanism.
He is a co-founder of Ceremonia, a non-profit psychedelic church facilitating change makers and creators through what 96% of alumni share as the most profound experience of their lives. He has guided more than 400 founders including Fortune 500 executives, Silicon Valley Unicorn founders, and major blockchain leaders through their transformation towards living a life of inspired creativity, purpose, and peace.
Austin Mao shares a process of “Modern Enlightenment”–a path to Awaken, Heal, and Manifest–that is informed by the most advanced technologies of psychotherapy and neuroscience combined with ancient shamanistic wisdom and spiritual traditions. He shares a range of direct experience with some of the most prominent business leaders of the modern world, helping them harness their inner power to create greater impact through love and inspired creation.
Chuchu is a transformative guide in the realms of psychedelic integration and relationship coaching, has brought love, inner connection, and improved relationships to visionary leaders from TED, ETH, Trip.com, Alibaba, and more. With expertise in Plant Medicine/Psychedelics, IFS, Gestalt therapy, Tantra, Shamanism, and ancient spiritual wisdom, Chuchu co-founded Ceremonia—a non-profit psychedelic church in Colorado. Through Ceremonia's endurable transformational programs, they seamlessly integrate the most proven technologies of psychotherapy, neuroscience, and plant medicine, combined with ancient shamanistic wisdom. Chuchu is also a lover, artist, designer, and dancer who passionately creates beauty in spaces, experiences, and fashion. Having overcome numerous adversities, starting businesses from a young age, and embodying values of love, freedom, and service, Chuchu's mission is to empower individuals, helping them discover their inner power and ability to create. Chuchu's core values encompass love, freedom, and service, with a mission to embody these principles and scale their impactful work, with Ceremonia as a platform, Chuchu continues to scale their impactful work, transforming lives with the power of love, service, and remembrance.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/chuchuwithlove/ Website: www.ceremoniacircle.org
City: Denver, CO / Los Angeles, CA
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Today we dive into topics that are sensitive + complex in nature- discussing the black male brute archetype, how it came about + perpetuates across history and how it impacts sexual expression, tenderness, + platonic touch for men.
THIS episode depicts the impact to us + the culture at large when we don’t take the time to understand nuance.
Let’s change the cultural narrative by inspiring conversation. If you resonate with this episode be sure to share the podcast or leave me a review.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The contextual factors that influence the processing of trauma, including aspects like race, gender, location, and ability
The pervasive influence of systemic racism, gender expectations, and societal biases that hinder safe expression and emotional completeness
Aaron's personal journey, navigating the layers of his sexual story as a Black male in the United States
The exploration of our familial legacies, uncovering the unconscious narratives we inherit and continue to carry
The damaging impact of the "black brute" narrative on our sexuality and our experience of touch
How systemic oppression has limited access to touch for BIPOC individuals
The value of community as a resource to reconnect with our authentic selves
The absence of tenderness and platonic touch within the Black community
Common narratives that emerge in Aaron's work and the influence of homophobia
Tracing trauma through various mediums, including pornography and music, and the importance of vulnerability and embracing our full humanity in our erotic experiences
The construction of traditional masculinity and the factors that threaten this identity
Embodied consent practices in the context of tender touch, exploring what is often missed and nuanced
The supportive role of the kink community for those who have been chronically untouched
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AARON JOHNSON is a facilitator, public speaker, and touch specialist who practices closeness as a way to break down barriers between people. As co-founder of both Holistic Resistance and Grief to Action, Aaron takes the time to hold the stories of black people around homophobia, transphobia, internalized racism, and those that are Chronically UnderTouched. Because the purchasing, selling, lynching, and commoditization of the sexual energy of black bodies is a part of historical and present American culture, the long term impact of those trauma stories should be acknowledged and held as a map for our collective healing.
Stay Connected with Aaron:
https://www.holisticresistance.com/
https://www.grieftoaction.com/
https://www.instagram.com/holistic_resistance/
WANT MORE?
My 4-week course, ALCHEMY, is now open for enrollment. Sex Love Psychedelics: Alchemy is a four-week LIVE course, taking you through the experience of sex as psychedelic with teachings in tantra, embodiment, + BDSM. Join here. https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/alchemy
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Have different desires than your lover? Does this mean that you're not compatible? Does this mean you can’t have the sex life that we desire?
Worry not, my lovers. I really believe in the power of all of us having the sex life of our dreams. ....And I also understand how threatening it can feel when our partner doesn't have the same desires that we do… Tune into this ep to hear the strategies for negotiating for threesomes and sex fantasies.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL HEAR:
The dynamics that emerge when your partner's desires differ from yours The delicate art of negotiation to co-create meaningful experiences Navigating the nuances of negotiation in scenarios involving threesomes or moresomes The various internal aspects of ourselves, each with its own beliefs and feelings Collaborating on plans independently of your partner's expectations The vulnerability required to express your desires, boundaries, needs, and fantasies Strategies for fostering a satisfying sex life that resonates with both partners A deep dive into the Wheel of Consent, distinguishing between allowing and receiving The fear that can arise in relationships when conflicting desires or unconventional preferences emerge Dr. Cat's guide on the Yes, No, Maybe framework A tantalizing look into the upcoming course exploring Tantra and BDSM: Alchemy A discussion on the collective trauma surrounding women's sexuality being reduced to entertainment Introducing a "play lab" with your partner, setting aside 20-30 minutes to explore new experiences And much more!WANT MORE?
https://bettymartin.org/videos/ Alchemical ecstasy: Your complete guide to erotic negotiation: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/SexualNegotiation My 4-week course, ALCHEMY, is now open for enrollment. Sex Love Psychedelics: Alchemy is a four-week LIVE course, taking you through the experience of sex as psychedelic with teachings in tantra, embodiment, + BDSM. Join here. https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/alchemy - Show more
