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Maintaining peace is hard on a week when the world feels a bit less stable during election week. Here are three tips for maintaining peace as you learn to focus on the here and on what you can do to take your peace back. Listen to this mini-episode here! Watch on YouTube here! https://youtu.be/cYNPrvfP9I0
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When we stop talking, we stop connecting, and this is a week in the world when we realize that kind and deep conversations are more essential than ever. Yet when we’re exhausted and weary of the distancing that can come with conflict, it’s difficult to know where to start. Today we're grateful for popular Marriage365 experts and authors Casey and Meygan Caston, who have the #1 Marriage App sharing with us about how we can hold safe and deep conversations regularly with joy. Here they walk us through both ways to have the more intense deep conversations as well as the light and fun conversational points for connecting us on day-to-day and date night levels.
Find Casey and Meygan's new book with ALL the bonuses here! https://marriage365books.com/?_ga=2.6639410.1260727658.1730669908-1506493948.1729697592 or get it on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Connecting-Questions-Couples-Caston-Meygan/dp/1732435804
Learn more about their work at large! https://marriage365.com/
Watch on YouTube here! https://youtu.be/B6UkJCr2wAI
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The term mental load is a hot-button issue right now in relationships, and for good reason. Many individuals, often women, but sometimes men too, find themselves in a never-ending but invisible stage-manager-like role for the family. They are behind-the-scenes, organizing everything and everyone and burnout hits hard. Tune in to this E + M mini episode today to find out more about how you can reduce mental load and find more joy in your life together again.
Watch on YouTube here! https://youtu.be/B6UkJCr2wAI
Want to share your mystery story ending to our Creative Writing Mystery contest? Enter the contest to win a free game by exercising your creative writing this spooky season. Submitting your story ending using the prompt at the beginning of today's pod! Share it with us at [email protected] or [email protected]
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Many times we want to work everything out relationally with our partner, but often the work must start within by finding your beliefs, emotions, and story. Today we have the rich expertise of husband, father, photographer, and marriage and family therapist Blake Roberts, MMFT, Enneagram 9 to help us through to trauma to regulation. Join us for an important talk with action steps for you regarding how you can find your stride, and learn more about Blake and his 9-2 story as well right here, too!
Watch on YouTube here! https://youtu.be/eTheRuiHC4c
Find Blake on his website to find his practice, writing, and upcoming podcast: https://www.blakerobertscounseling.com/ and write to him at [email protected]
Find Blake on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blake.the.counselor/?hl=en
Want to be a 2025 guest on the E + M Pod? Make your pitch by writing to us at [email protected]
Make sure you enjoy the discount on a Supper Sleuths Mystery Dinner Game, which Christa wrote, this Spooky Season! Use code www.SupperSleuths.com and use code "Halloween2024"
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When you're feeling misaligned as a couple, relationship desire is lower and you feel so misunderstood. Today not only do you get to walk through the various ways couples can become misaligned, but most importantly Christa guides you back to alignment together right here! You'll find out ways every type comes to find themselves misaligned as well as get step-by-step processes for finding the ways you join best once again or for the very first time. Listen to this E + M Mini episode here!
Watch on YouTube here! https://youtu.be/7JxglOMRbQA
Want to be a 2025 guest on the E + M Pod? Make your pitch by writing to us at [email protected]
Make sure you enjoy the discount on a Supper Sleuths Mystery Dinner Game, which Christa wrote, this Spooky Season! Use code www.SupperSleuths.com and use code "Halloween2024"
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Authenticity is deeply important for a thriving marriage, yet authenticity without intentional growth can bring out the very worst of humanity. Listen to this foundational E + M episode to learn several ways to thrive in authenticity and as a result, bring your marriage to new levels of acceptance, love, and grace, even if you've had an avoidant or anxious attachment in the past, and been afraid to be real. We cover stories, tangible ways to grow in authenticity, and most of all, how you can grow closer.
Watch on YouTube here! https://youtu.be/i9J5SMl6o5g
Want to be a 2025 guest on the E + M Pod? Make your pitch by writing to us at [email protected]
Make sure you enjoy the discount on a Supper Sleuths Mystery Dinner Game, which Christa wrote, this Spooky Season! Use code www.SupperSleuths.com and use code "Halloween2024"
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In our series, we’ve been connecting on how desire is built, but in this deeper dive episode, we talk about what prevents desire and how it is lost and recovered. We talk about the shadows we carry that carry us farther apart from another and how to return home to desire for one another as well.
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Although it's true that often the partners in a relationship have differing desires, it's also true that we must find ways back to harmony after conflict. Today we get to talk to Enneagram expert Kristi Rowles (Enneagram University), cp6, about how to work through conflict with scaling, balancing of instincts, and so much more. We also learn more about the counterphobic 6 space and Kristi's open cart anf sale for Enneagram University!
Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Hv3IVHVVxAM
The Enneagram University: https://www.theenneagramuniversity.com/?ref=6c4c6f
Find Kristi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyitskristirowles/
Join Enneagram University here: https://www.theenneagramuniversity.com/?6c4c6f
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Growing up in spaces of faith, many if not most of us have inadvertently picked up on several toxic fallacies as we consider both how to espouse a mature Christian faith and yet also strive for a thriving sex life together in marriage. Many of those beliefs have even been taught from the pulpit, even the ones stirring us to become sexual objects. Yet both biblical truth and research portray for us that guilting or shaming one another in the bedroom instead draws a wider gap of true intimacy. Dr. Camden Morgante, Pys.D., is here to help you walk through this seeming disparity with the clarity you need, as she brings in both healthy biblically-based and research-based tips on how to replace unhealthy projections of faith and sexuality with biblically sound truths and ethics. If you want a deeper, healthier, and more intimate sex life in your marriage, you don't want to miss this healing episode or Dr. Camden's brand new book (and pre-order bonuses) for anything!
Get Dr. Camden's pre-order bonuses: https://drcamden.com/preorder/
Get Dr. Camden's book: https://a.co/d/hOVzo4o
Dr. Camden's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcamden/?hl=en and Facebook accounts here: https://www.facebook.com/DrCamden/
Dr. Camden's website: https://drcamden.com/
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We don't always know what to do when storms hit us, whether bad weather hits us internally or externally (such as the current hurricane season), but here on today's mini pod, Christa gives everyone the much-needed reminder of doing what we can do (and even should do) when choices are otherwise limited. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ix3o_O_CAcc
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Even if you're lined up with meaningful work you enjoy, if you're burning the wick at both ends in any way, your central nervous system doesn't know how to respond and your body may be experiencing trauma. If you're feeling weary on the journey of life or faith at all, make sure you take a deep breath with us and shift back into health as we invite the esteemed author and professor Dr. Chuck DeGroat on the podcast today to address helping you to find safety with yourself and with God as we share healthy rhythms for you and your marriage and family as well.
Show Notes:
Chuck is a follower of Jesus, a husband to Sara for 30 years, and father to two amazing daughters. He served as Professor of Counseling and Christian Spirituality and Executive Director of the Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program at Western Theological Seminary Holland MI and is also a faculty member for the Soul Care Institute.
Chuck is also a licensed therapist, a spiritual director, author of five books, and retreat leader/speaker. As a therapist, he's specialized in issues of abuse and trauma, pastoral (and leadership) health, and navigating issues of doubt and dark nights on the faith journey. He also trains clergy in issues of abuse and trauma, conduct pastor and planter assessments, facilitates church consultations and investigations of abuse among pastors and within congregations.
You can learn more about my books at the link below and his newest book is available for pre-order now. It’s called Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself and to God When You’re Weary, Wounded, and Wandering.
Visit the website. www.ChuckDeGroat.com
Get Chuck's book + his Pre-order bonuses today (one day before launch!)! https://www.chuckdegroat.net/preorder-new-book
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In your marriages, sometimes you may feel like the only purpose you have is just to get by. Today’s episode offers tips for each and every type to not just survive, but to thrive with self-care, connection, but also specific purpose so they can live out their beautiful God-given dreams together and individually as well. Tune in here for just the mini-dose of inspiration you need this E + M mid-week!! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bociq4n1tSY
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Often you can’t quite put your finger on what’s wrong in your marriage but you know you’re floating in opposite directions, drifting apart, and headed into a danger zone. This episode with marriage and leadership coach Lance Howard, Enneagram 9 (9-6 pairing) is full of great insights and tips so you can find more about your God-given gifts and goals individually and together. This is an episode for anyone who is struggling to find their values, live them out, or speak them out.
More about Lantz:
Lantz Howard has spent over 20 years in coaching, leadership development, therapist and pastoral roles. Lantz’s approach to developing executive leaders integrates the maximization of hope, gaining an outside perspective, devising practical strategies, and implementing measured discipline. This is all done with warm accountability aimed at achieving the leaders desired outcomes. At any given time he is coaching a handful of high capacity faith driven leaders. Lantz has coached thousands of hours and is a trusted advisor for business owners, CEO’s, and senior pastors across the country. Lantz host a weekly podcast titled “Whole Hearted Leader” and has authored a coaching workbook titled “Jump Start: 46 Quick Wins for the modern man to be fully alive from the bedroom to the boardroom” and is working to publish his first book on how to create a passionate marriage and killer business without losing your soul. When Lantz is not engaging in deep strategic conversations he is training for a Spartan race or planning an adventure with the family.
Listen to Lantz' podcast here! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/whole-hearted-leadership-with-lantz-howard/id1558551037
Visit Lantz' website! https://www.lantzhoward.com/
Visit Lantz on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lantzhoward/
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Conversations around furniture are frequent in couple's sessions. Where couples sleep, how they sit, where they eat - all of this carries meaning to every couple. In other words, the setting for the stories we tell matters. How does the way you set up your home matter to your marriage? There are many intimacies lost and found in the way we organize the furnishings in our home, vie for power, and distance, struggle, and lament can result. Listen to this essential E + M mini to get tips for crafting a home that is intimate and yet offers the autonomy and creative solutions you need. Tune in to this must-listen mini here!
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Today's must-listen podcast episode is a vital piece of the sex talk you never got - a conversation about sexual issues as they show up in almost every marriage as a result of shame and contempt born of most men's first encounters with sex because of the earliest introductions to sex via pornography and other counterfeit distortions with marriage therapist and author, Sam Jolman, Type 4 (4-4 pairing). Here we bring a respectful conversation geared toward the reminders of the God-given gift of wonder, awe, and innocence that you can truly bring into your marriage for a renewed sense of heartfelt love and mutual partnership. Sam also courageously brings forth an introduction to a necessary book that deals with these issues with kindness and courage with life-changing practical tips and insights. Sam's book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality," has been cited by John Eldredge (Wild at Heart) as "the most important book on sexuality you will ever read." Join us as we delve into our lives and the conversations we need to have about a healthy expression of sexuality, as well as the best ways to heal.
“At last. A kind, wise and poetic guide to the complex and beautiful issue of our sexuality and a path toward the wholeness every man longs for. I’m serious—this is the most important book on sexuality you will ever read.” -JOHN ELDREDGE BESTSELLING AUTHOR OF WILD AT HEART
Show Notes:
Find Sam Jolman's (foreword by John Eldridge) book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality" here: https://a.co/d/fFPhBAs
Find Sam Jolman's website here: https://www.samjolman.com/
Connect with Sam on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/samjolman/?hl=en
Find Sam's Substack here: https://www.samjolman.com/writing/
Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/lOqUgZYsnig
Email [email protected] with your Enneagram in Marriage book receipt for your digital copy of The Hidden Chapter (on Sex) in The Enneagram in Marriage
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In our quest to ensure our needs are met, it’s very common to start the work by getting self-care and then getting irritated with our spouse when they don’t know exactly how to meet our needs. Today’s mini-podcast helps you to get unstuck when you’re in process and trying to move through conflict in healthy ways and then find a disconnection ensues. Whatever you do, don’t withdraw away from the most important conflicts you need to have, instead listen to this mini episode for encouraging tips on how to get back to peace together right here!
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Trauma is so psychologically destructive largely because our brain is not able to create a coherent and empowering narrative out of what happened without support. Today on the podcast, writing teacher and coach Mara Eller, MA, Type 4 (4-7 pairing), gives us that support as she shows us how at the right time and with the right support, we can relive some of those stories in a supportive context where we are safe, and as well as move past these hurts with wisdom and integration. Mara also shares beautiful strategies for narrative writing from her class called, Unearthing Beauty that she shares about on the podcast as well today and invites you to join her there as well for an even deeper dive! Join us on the slow and careful yet empowering walk through the hardest peaks and valleys of your story with a shifting, empowering process today right here.
Mara Eller is a teacher, writer, editor, and coach with a passion for transforming pain into purpose through the power of story. Her signature writing program, Unearthing Beauty, teaches students a repeatable process for unearthing a fuller picture of who they are and claiming authorship over their lives, while also producing a polished personal essay. Grab a free exercise to find the heart of your story at maraeller.com/heartofyourstory.
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Today in this E + M special, we take the justice-fighting lens together as a community to bring awareness to the issue of sex trafficking and sexual exploitation in relationships and around the world. We have a leading world expert with us to talk about it today, Exodus Cry founder, filmmaker, and artist, Benjamin Nolot (Enneagram 4), who shares the mission and issues involved on all sides of sex trafficking and exploitation, from pornography to sex trafficking. Make sure you tune in as we break down understanding of cycles of disempowerment, why people get caught up in these cycles, and most of all, work together to bring awareness and abolish sex trafficking, porn use, and other disempowering and unhealthy ushame-and-power-based sexual practices and to protect our next generation from being exposed and exploited as well.
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Culturally, it's very hard for busy, overwhelmed individuals to take time to sit with and process emotions. Yet today's podcast guest, renowned trauma and StoryWork therapist Adam Young, (The Place We Find Ourselves podcast) Enneagram 8 (8-9 pairing), encourages us to do exactly that - sit in the hard and allow yourself time and attention to what's holding you back from thriving so you can heal together with support. This is a must-listen episode as we examine his journey on this, why many people ignore their own issues in favor of helping others with theirs, and what we must do to truly find health and healing from our past.
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Every couple desperately needs to know how to repair, yet few know the steps for doing so. Finding one another after a conflict is hard, since couples typically either self-protect by imploding while still hurt or by lashing out. Today Christa educates you on one-to-one tactics you can use to bring life back into the relationship. In today's E + M episode, individuals get the chance to get those tangible steps, both in general and type by type. Tune in to this must-listen episode and save it again for a time of conflict, too!
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