Episodes
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Lately, one question has been on a lot of people's minds. How can they support this man when they know the horrible things he has said and done? So we've brought back Eleni to talk about the people who stand by abusers, why they do it, how it makes us feel, and what to do about it.
Eleni's Links
Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense
Eleni's AMAZING book!
https://calendly.com/no-narcsense-healing
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
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F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
Rat Girls Links
Rat Girls Podcast
Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok
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On this week's very special HALLOWEEN episode, we're swapping truly haunting tales from our past in the traditional spooky story style! Due to the somewhat silly nature of our storytelling, all of these stories are extremely trauma-lite but are sure to spook you (at least a little).
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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Spotting a manipulative "Nice Guy" in the early days isn't easy, but it's not impossible. We've brought back covert abuse expert Eleni Sagredos to talk about some of the red flags to look out for with a covert "nice guy" narcissist. And yes... we do talk about the "Jonah Hill" manipulation tactic.
Eleni's Links
Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense
Eleni's AMAZING book!
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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This week is an extra long episode, but what would you expect when Kate and Regan are breaking down this season of Love is Blind?!? And might we just say... this season may be the worst yet. The damage isn't being done by blatant assholes. It's being done by "nice", "feminist", "god-loving" gentlemen". Grab a drink, grab a snack, and buckle up because we're taking you through this season and all it's jaw dropping twists and turns.
Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".
When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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This week Regan's joined by the amazing Jamila aka Tiktok's Bright Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".
When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
JAMILA'S LINKS
Tiktok MAIN
Tiktok #2
Jamila's Arbitrator Video
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We're back baby! On this week's episode, we're appealing Reddit's verdict on whether or not a mom who was disappointed in her 40th birthday is the asshole. We've got the facts, the anecdotal evidence, and all the opinions. In the end, you get to be the judge!
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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Recently a woman online did the unthinkable... she asked men on Tiktok "Why are you all seemingly resistant to evolving the definition of manhood you simultaneously hate to live by?"
Of course, many men had many things to say. But one man in particular caught our attention. He presents himself as a "nice guy", a "reasonable guy", and seemingly a "guy who gets it". But when you break down his argument you see... what he really is... is WRONG.
Kate and Regan are dissecting this "nice guy" argument to hopefully help you all be able to defend yourselves against similar men with similar tactics and talking points. Buckle up because it's a doozy and quite honestly a RANT.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Regan is going out of town so this week we did an extra-long episode. Instead of cutting it into two episodes, we left it as is and will be skipping posting next week. Then back to our regular schedule.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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We're back with Part 2 of our discussion about the "nice guys" that did us dirtier than we remembered. And this week we're talking about two stories that we unpacked recently - meaning our conversation is a little more raw than normal.
Oh and ... Fun Fact - Regan has some horrible virus this week so apologies for the scary intro.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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Have you ever had the unfortunate displeasure of realizing that the "Nice Guy" from your past was even worse than you remember? This week Kate and Regan are taking a journey down memory lane to unpack the "nice guy" situations that they now realized they were seeing through rose-colored glasses.
In part one, we talk about the guy who stalked Regan for 2 years in college and the school's administration that excused, ignored, and frankly facilitated his abuse. And yes, we are bringing receipts.
EPISODES MENTIONED:
"Nice Guys", Mean Girls, Stalkers, OH MY! (Date: March 25, 2023)
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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We're back with Eleni to finish off our conversation on narcissism. Picking up right where we left off, we're talking about the discard, hoovering, reverse hoovering, and our final thoughts on the narcissism cycle and red flags.
Oh and lucky for you... the audio is better!
Eleni's Links
Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense
Eleni's AMAZING book!
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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We talk a lot about Narcissism on this podcast, but this week we're taking it back to basics. So I've brought back my favorite "Nice Guy" Narcissist expert Eleni Sagredos. We're breaking down the basics, sharing stories, and giving you some red flags to look out for.
And shocker... we had a lot to say so this will be a two part episode.
Eleni's Links
Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense
Eleni's AMAZING book!
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
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For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love?
It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an inspirational tale of a woman who stood by her man for the Lord. This is about HER strength (not HIS transgressions). And believe me, transgressions is PLURAL.
And not only does this couple think they are the picture of true love, they think they are qualified to be both relationship and faith coaches for other couples. Listen to the episode and let me know if you think they're qualified.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)
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When it comes to Trad Wives, we can all agree that they're looking to take us back to olden times. Little did they know, the Times would be the one to deliver the biggest blow to the facade they attempt to project. And by Times, we mean the New York Times.
On today's episode we are talking about Ballerina Farms and more specifically Hannah Neeleman. And while it may be hard to find sympathy for someone pushing this lifestyle, in this episode we break down how this life may not be all that it seems... and not at all what Hannah had in mind. I wonder whose idea it was....
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)
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Buckle up friends, this one is the dooziest of doozies. Our guest today is Lisa aka Tiktok's _Stronger_than_before. She's a relationship coach who specializes in abusive relationships... and the perfect co-host to talk about an extremely popular "nice guy" Tiktok therapist that has some truly terrible takes.
Oh you want an example? How about him making MULTIPLE videos about how people pleasers can be just as toxic as narcissists. And that's not even the half of it...
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)
LISA'S LINKS
https://strongerthanbefore.ca/
Lisa's Tiktok
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Did anyone have tightening jar lids on their manipulation bingo card? Us either. But this week we're talking about a man who tightened jar lids right into a divorce. At first this story seems silly, but as we dig deeper into the details we realized it was never about the lids and always about control.
And we wan't to hear from you! What do you think of this Jar Lid Debacle? And what's the simple thing your toxic ex did to drive you "crazy"?
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)
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Buckle up friends because this is one of the craziest stories yet. We're talking about the absolutely insane story of Brooke Schofield, Clinton Kane, and one of the most unhinged PR strategies of all time - using a woman you traumatized for Tiktok clout to market your new song. And that's not even the craziest part...
This episode has everything... mentions of handsome squidward, 14 part Tiktok tell alls, one fake accents, multiple fake deaths, and so much for.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)
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Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE.
If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the real pain women suffer when they realized the "friend" they thought they had was just a man manipulating them to get in their pants.
So... we're going to talk about it.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)
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Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites.
Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY where just when you think it can't get any worse, it does.
If you want to listen to the full episode and see our lovely faces at the same time, watch this episode on the The F the Nice Guy Youtube page!
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
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Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned.
We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you'll have to hear to believe.
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
CHERI'S BOOK
Baby Bear In The Chair
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