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  • From my scrappy heart to your scrappy heart, here is a BONUS episode around how to navigate these fucked up waters we are all swimming in.

    As many of you know, I have been on a journey to find our next home and I have some thoughts.

    Who me? Thoughts?

    In this episode I am sharing some ideas of how we can begin the work to make our schools safer. I do not claim to understand this complex issue, I just know I have to do something and I have to start somewhere. I am sharing where I am starting and what I plan to do moving forward.

    I am covering the very shocking statement from my dad!! That threw me off!

    I talk about the dangers of bartering your pain and why your pain matters.

    But mostly that it is ALL an illusion and we cannot control a damn thing but we can choose love over worry.

    Don't forget to subscribe so you do not miss an episode of FLOW!

    I will be back next week to discuss my experience on The Real World Homecoming New Orleans.

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    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    I was on one for this episode, I still cannot believe I told you the deep eye gaze story. Maybe that is the key to having a good day, laughter and perspective.

    This episode is all about how to get off the hamster wheel of intrusive thoughts.

    I offer some FLOW ideas for the deep unknowing we experience and how stop the ride when you need to have a day off from your thoughts.

    I will be away from the podcast for a few weeks while I record the audio book for FLOW-Finding Love Over Worry.

    I will be back soon with a very big announcement!

    Keep FLOWing

    You can buy your copy here:

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    I don’t know if you noticed this or remember, but when the pandemic started and American politics were in a full effect and effecting us all on a deep level, something else was happening.

    Many of the light holders I know and the ones in the public eye, seemed to get quiet. Some of them were being chipped away at (political candy corn) and likely broke down and pulled away and some of them seemed to not have answers and got quieter and quieter.

    Then there were the non-public light holders, the man at the market who always had a smile and now he looked heavy and broken or my neighbor who always welcomed the kids over for cookies, had turned off her porch light. Either way, we lost some of the light posts or at least the illusion of them.

    But I realize that we didn’t really lose anything or anyone. We just had to look in the mirror. We had to remember that we are ALL the holders of the light. There are no gurus, no one is coming in on a white horse. It is us and it has been us, all along. We can choose to hold the light. We can choose to make decisions that are born from love and we can help to remind each other of our individual power.

    We are the legacy of light and we can shine it forward, one lemon bar at a time.

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    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    We interrupted each other, we were high on coffee, I had Covid and we decided to say NO to Chronic Outrage.

    Scotty joined me on this episode while we were stranded on the Canadian border. And by stranded, I mean staying in an Airbnb with a broken rooster and very cute decor. We are not complaining, we are discussing what seems to be a pandemic of chronic outrage and how we can navigate this new terrain.

    I could hear Scott breathing a lot in here, so if you have severe misophonia, you may keep the volume low. I am also guilty of drinking water into the microphone. This may create chronic outrage OR you may hear some helpful FLOW methods.

    Enjoy.
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    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    Before we get into the episode, guess what?
    THE BOOK IS AVAILABLE TO PRE-ORDER!!!

    Yes, I know!

    I guess those vision boards worked! Seriously though, I poured my heart and soul into the pages of FLOW. Every word was written with intention. There are fun surprises in the book, breadcrumbs just for you.

    FLOW is filled with reminders that magic is always around you and it can be accessed whenever you, Find Love Over Worry.

    This pre-order is for you. I will be sending you a signed book with a special “gift”. It is nothing fancy, just my way to say thank you for supporting me.

    Go to: www.flowbykelleywolf.com

    Click the pre-order button.

    USE CODE: FLOWPOD for 11 % off all orders.

    (You know how much I love the number 11)

    Buy 5 or more, we have a little something extra for you.

    Buy 11 or more, we have something extra for you and an additional gift.

    ~

    And now to the episode…

    Holidays are upon us. The year is ending. I hear a lot of people commenting on the “stress” and the intensity around us. If you don’t have a short fuse at the moment, this will still be valuable. We all need these gentle reminders.

    This episode is about “Holding the Love Line”.

    Ok…I know how hard this may feel right now.

    We are being pushed and tested. Or are we?

    I want to offer the gift of perspective and also remember that we cannot barter pain.

    Your experience is yours and it is all relative.

    That being said, in ALL situations we can choose love.

    We can also get mad as hell. We can say our peace. We can defend ourselves and all of it can come from love.

    The key is where and how you feel it. What are you trying to achieve? Is it manipulation or winning. Is your end goal to feel peace? Or is it rightness? Is it justice? Is it for healing?

    In all of these instances, LOVE is a choice.

    LOVE has powerful fight energy.

    WE are not levitating in the woods. Let me say it again, LOVE and sass can co-exist.

    Hate and Love cannot share a bed. That is a no fly zone.

    Boundaries on the other hand are rooted in love when presented with transparency and compassion. This episode has scripts you can follow to manage common holiday woes.

    I wish you all love.

    See you next year!!

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    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –

    Kelley is back in the hot seat and by hot seat, we mean, she is on fire in this episode.

    Kelley has come back to this solo episode with some powerful insights about the last year and what is ahead.

    Kelley gives much deserved praise to the men in her life and discusses her battle with screen addicted kids.

    She is excited to bring you insights on the screen addiction as she learns about this chapter of her life. We will walk in this new territory, together.

    Kelley shares how to “time travel” and why she feels so good right now.

    Please Enjoy this episode of FLOW and if you haven’t, please give us the gift of subscribing!!

    And if you are feeling extra generous, rate and review this podcast.

    FLOW on!
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    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    There are a handful of people I have met in my life that live wholly in integrity and April is one of them. To be honest, she used to intimidate me. Until I realized I was only intimidated because I had not yet seen my own light and I was standing with someone who knew theirs. April pulls no punches and lives from love. I trust her implicitly as an ally and a friend. I hope you enjoy this conversation that goes beyond business acumen. This is a conversation of FLOW. How do women with great power stay focused on the love of the tasks at hand, while never compromising quality. April walks the walk and I walk with her through this conversation. Boom. Enjoy.
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    ~
    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    This is one of my favorite episodes so far!

    The reason is simple, Jo’s approach to health and wellness is unique. I meant what I said in the episode, working with Jo changed things for me.

    She was able to give me doable shifts to my routine that eventually became a solid habit. That is powerful!

    Even if you have a great wellness routine, this episode is fun and informative. You are going to be happy you listened!

    I will picture you walking in the woods, while you listen!

    FLOW on!

    ~
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    ~
    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    Enjoy part two of my conversation with Libby.

    We both agreed we hit our stride in this section of the conversation.

    There are some great nuggets in here, you don’t want to miss this one!

    FLOW on!
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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    As promised, Libby returned for more conversation and insight. In this episode we are letting you in on some inside stories and some incredible wisdom.

    I call Libby the “Magic Maker” and you will know why after you listen to her incredible insight!

    Enjoy!!

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    Something magic happened the other day, I was having one of “those” days, the kids were home sick, the dog puked on the carpets, lots of deadlines and very little time. I decided to put my money where my mouth was and lean into the chaos. What happened was pure magic. I had a plan for this podcast until a better plan came to me. I asked Miller and Jackson to be the guests this week and they did not disappoint. We talked about what it is like to be a kid in these “covid-times”. We talked about being resilient and why that may be a load of crap. These boys were vulnerable, insightful and pretty darn funny. I may be biased but I learned a lot from these two boys, I hope you will as well.
    Get out your tissues for this one, there are a couple of doozies!
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    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com


  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    This year I decided to dip into the “Tweakment” pond. I wanted to do some minimal interventions for my skin and I found the most spectacular dermatologist in Vancouver, BC, Dr. Allison Sutton at West Dermatology.

    https://westdermatology.ca

    I have shared this journey on social media and your questions came flowing in!

    Dr. Sutton answers all of them in this beautiful FLOW episode.

    This topic is typically taboo. I have learned that many women get these non-surgical interventions and they never talk about them. I can understand the desire to keep this close to the vest but it is also doing us a disservice. I wanted to be transparent about this experience and take some of the stigma away. This is your choice. If you want to jump in the pond, that is a personal decision. It is a decision I am very happy I made. I hope this episode will illuminate some of your questions and alleviate some of your fears. And, wear sunscreen y’all!!

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    This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com

  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    Welcome back! Summer felt like a blip, didn’t it?

    I love being back with you and I am ready to roll in the deep.

    I am starting this season with a renewed sense of curiosity around “expertise”.

    Can we be an expert when it comes to our energy? YES!

    Does your energy define just about everything in your life? YES!

    I want to explore how we can become more masterful with our energy and be in FLOW more of the time.

    This episode is my typical rumination on how energy is the “secret sauce” to living a joyful life.

    If I can hack this bad boy then you are going to be my co-pilot!

    I am glad you are here, let's FLOW!

    ~

    For more information about FLOW, visit our website at:

    www.flowbykelleywolf.com

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Fear –
    Hey!! How has your summer been? I cannot believe we are going back to school already. I’m noticing a lot of tension swirling and I wanted to offer a little FLOW love.

    Even if you are feeling easy breezy, this will still give you some gentle reminders to keep yourself in a FLOWy space!

    In this BONUS episode, I will cover a few tips and tricks to bring you back to a loving state of mind.

    We will be back on October 4 with our weekly FLOW. Until then, make sure you subscribe so you don’t miss a moment.
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    www.flowbykelleywolf.com
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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    I am getting ready to take a few (plus a few) weeks off and I am ready for some FUN! In this
    episode, I am offering you many ideas of how to have fun this summer no matter what your
    circumstances. We don’t need big trips and big plans to get back to having fun. I don t know
    about you, but I have forgotten how to have fun and it’s time to get that back on my books.

    I will offer you prompts and strategies to get your brain focused on your self care and having
    some fun. And wait until the end for a great recipe for a summer party! Enjoy!!

    Thank you for your support this season and I am thrilled to bring you exciting content for Season 3! I have a bunch of rabbits in my hat to keep you FLOWing.

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    This is the most nervous I have been to record the podcast so far.

    This conversation has lived in my mind for a long time. I’ve always avoided the conversation because it felt too big. This time, I could no longer avoid something I have been seeing.

    Lucy wrote a note to me last night that was the exact message I needed to bring you my thoughts on this topic.

    The topic is our division. I have felt and seen an unprecedented level of division, especially in the US. I wanted to believe the division was in the past but I was hyper aware of the level of ‘otherness’ that has seemed to be the pervasive energy in our world today.

    It would make sense that the pandemic and germ fear would create a sense of ‘otherness’ but I believe there is another force at work that is hoping to capitalize on our division.

    2020 was wrought with tension for obvious reasons. My concern is what is to come when politics begins to kick back into gear. In about a year, I believe the political wheels will begin to turn and the goal will be to draw deeper lines in the sand.

    We have a moment here to start our rebellion against this division and I believe we can shift the energy by treating each other with kindness TODAY! Our small acts of kindness and our small acts of humanity can keep us from a very dangerous divide.

    This may feel like a lot, it feels like a lot to me, but this has weighed on my heart for quite a while.

    The end of the podcast is optimistic. We can change this if we wake up and start caring for each other again. We are born from love and that is our true default.

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    We took last week off to finish up my world tour of visiting friends and family. What an incredible month!

    This week is a very important episode for two reasons:

    Teen Mental Health Making Friends in Mid-Life

    I was lucky to talk with my dear friend Sarah Burke. Sarah is what I can a ‘friendship master’. She has taught me so much about making new friends in my 40’s and keeping friends through challenges.

    We also take a deep dive into teen mental health and the toll of last year for teens. Sarah’s daughter experienced severe anxiety and depression through the challenges of last year and Sarah opens up about what she did to help her daughter.

    This was an important and entertaining conversation.

    I hope you enjoy!

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    In this episode I tell you the web of lies I created to accomplish the best surprise of my life! I also talk to you about why it’s important to honor your own pain. Often, we diminish our pain because it’s not “as bad” as someone else’s. In this episode we talk about finding FLOW through pain.

    Subscribe, rate and review this podcast!

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    Danny called me from his cabin in Vermont with a tin roof. I hope the pitter patter of rain in the background will not distract you from this powerful conversation. Danny and I delve deep into the experience of coming out on national television and becoming the “gay brad pit” of the 2000’s. Danny said he became the poster boy for an “everyday gay man” but he was not prepared to lead that charge at only 21. Danny suffered severe Post Traumatic Stress and depression for many years. In 2011 he was diagnosed with HIV and was thrust back in the spotlight to lead the charge again for a group of people often misunderstood. Danny is a force of nature. His is a single dad of an adopted daughter. He continues to advocate for many people who often do not a voice. He is passionate and magnetic. Please enjoy this episode with Danny Roberts.

    Follow Danny on Instagram

    Book Reference:
    Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker

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  • FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry –
    Have you been feeling, “Meh” lately? Well apparently you are not alone. An article in the New
    York Times, titled “There Is A Name For The Blah You Are Feeling, It’s Called Languishing” by
    Adam Grant, explains this collective phenomena.

    Grant explains, “The antidote to languishing is FLOW”.

    And guess what, that is my expertise!

    In this episode, I offer a masterclass on how to push through that languishing feeling and get
    back to your FLOW.

    You may need your pen again because I am offering some ideas to start your process today!

    The key is to get our frequency back. We have all turned down the dial and we may have
    forgotten our special magic!

    Subscribe, rate and review this podcast!

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