Episodes
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In this episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Dawn McIntyre for a powerful conversation about healing from a lifetime of betrayal and trauma. Dawn shares her personal story, from childhood abuse to experiencing profound betrayal in adult relationships. Through her journey, Dawn offers valuable insights into overcoming PTSD, navigating narcissistic relationships, and reclaiming personal power. This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of self-compassion, spiritual growth, and forgiveness in the healing process.
Key Points Discussed:
Childhood Betrayal: Dawn recounts the severe physical, emotional, and mental abuse she endured as a child, starting at age three. She explains how this early trauma shaped her ability to trust and set the stage for future betrayals.
Re-experiencing Trauma in Adulthood: Dawn opens up about a decade-long abusive relationship where she faced annihilation consciousness, a form of betrayal where someone consciously seeks to destroy you. This relationship mirrored her childhood trauma and deepened her PTSD.
The Impact of Narcissistic Relationships: Dawn discusses how she recognized the patterns of abuse and manipulation from a narcissistic partner and how this toxic dynamic escalated over time, leaving her emotionally, financially, and mentally vulnerable.
Spiritual and Emotional Healing: Dawn highlights her path to healing, which includes therapy (EMDR), spiritual growth, and embracing her gifts as a professional intuitive. She shares how understanding her connection to her soul and the universe was key to her recovery.
Empowerment and Self-Compassion: Don emphasizes the importance of self-forgiveness, setting boundaries, and reclaiming personal power after betrayal. She encourages listeners to see their healing journey as ongoing and to focus on self-love and compassion.
Notable Quotes:
"It’s not about what happens to us, but what we do with it."
"Healing is not a destination; it’s a journey."
"We’re born with power—our divine birthright is to prosper and experience love and joy."
Resources Mentioned:
Sophia Code Movement: A resource Dawn found helpful on her healing journey, offering free monthly offerings and support for those healing from PTSD.
Sovereign Soul Alliance: A community and movement for healing PTSD in its various forms.
Connect with Dawn:
Don McIntyre is a professional intuitive and empath who offers spiritual guidance and healing. You can reach her via email at [email protected]
Stay Connected with Us:
The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.
For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.
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In this episode, we dive into the world of quantum healing with our special guest, Riana Malia. Riana is a certified Quantum Time Release practitioner and master trauma coach who has dedicated her life to helping individuals break free from the emotional and mental chains of the past. Together, we explore the transformative power of Quantum Time Release and how it can help you release trauma, heal deeply, and step into your best life. Rihanna also shares her personal journey, overcoming challenges in her upbringing and marriage, to become a powerful healer. Get ready to discover a method of healing that is painless, peaceful, and deeply effective.
Key Topics:
Introduction to Riana Malia
Discussing Riana’s background and passion for quantum healing.
The foundation of her work in Quantum Time Release.
Riana’s Personal Journey
Growing up with a single mother and feeling the effects of abandonment from her father.
Overcoming financial struggles, early marriage, divorce, and the challenges of single motherhood.
The emotional patterns formed from childhood trauma and difficult relationships.
The Breakthrough Moment
Moving to California in pursuit of family and stability, only to be entangled in a legal nightmare involving her father.
Rebuilding her life and career after traumatic events and making a vow to break the generational cycle of broken promises.
Quantum Time Release & Healing
Explanation of Quantum Time Release and how it differs from traditional therapeutic methods.
How the technique taps into the unconscious mind to clear stored trauma without reliving past pain.
Releasing emotional weight and breaking lifelong negative patterns.
The Quantum Pattern Protocol
The three stages of Riana’s Quantum Pattern Protocol and how it facilitates deep healing and transformation.
Understanding the "dysfunction detox" and the process of removing limiting beliefs that keep individuals stuck.
The Power of Unconscious Healing
A deep dive into the science of unconscious memory storage and the cellular memory that holds onto trauma.
How Quantum Time Release clears these memories and brings lasting peace without the pain of reliving trauma.
Why Healing Doesn’t Have to Be Hard
Discussing why healing can be light, joyful, and transformative without dredging up painful memories.
Empowering individuals to believe that they can overcome trauma and start living their “hell yes” life.
Key Quotes:
"Healing doesn't have to be hard, it doesn't have to be heavy."
"The worst of it already happened. You owe it to yourself to live free and happy."
Takeaways:
Trauma doesn’t have to define your future. Quantum Time Release offers a way to heal deeply without reliving past pain.
Start your healing journey today by exploring Quantum Time Release and unlocking the path to your best life.
Resources & Links:
Learn More About Riana Malia: RianaMalia.com
Download Free Resources: RianaMalia.com/gifts
Connect with Rihanna on Social Media:
Instagram: @RianaMalia
Facebook: @RianaMalia
The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.
For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.
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Thanks for tuning in! If you’re ready to move beyond your betrayal story and create a new, empowered life, visit The PBT Institute to learn more about our programs and community. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast on your favorite platform. See you next time!
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Episode Summary: In this episode, we explore the concept of forgiveness, particularly in the context of betrayal, and how it can be a powerful tool for personal freedom and healing. Dr. Debi dives into the creation and success of the 21-Day Forgiveness Journey, an initiative by The PBT Institute, tied to National Forgiveness Day on September 1st. This journey encourages participants to reflect, release, and rebuild after experiences of betrayal or hurt. Dr. Debi shares insights, stories, and tools that have helped many people move from anger and resentment to freedom and peace.
Key Points:
The Meaning of Forgiveness:
Forgiveness is often misunderstood. It’s not about excusing the other person’s actions or reconciling with them. It’s about releasing the power that the pain has over you.
Forgiveness is for your own healing, not for the person who wronged you.
21-Day Forgiveness Journey:
This journey was designed as an experiment to see if people could go from anger and bitterness to forgiveness and freedom in just 21 days, leveraging intentional practice and group support.
Participants followed a structured process, featuring powerful stories of forgiveness (e.g., Holocaust survivors, Nelson Mandela, the Dalai Lama), daily affirmations, quotes, and experiential activities.
Three Key Steps in Forgiveness:
Review: Are you willing to revisit the experience of betrayal or hurt? Can you see it from a different perspective?
Release: Are you ready to let go of the emotional burden that this experience has caused you? The metaphor of carrying a 500-pound boulder illustrates the weight of holding onto pain.
Rebuild: Once you’ve forgiven, how can you rebuild yourself or your relationship with the person who hurt you? This is about creating a new version of yourself or renegotiating boundaries.
Creating Your Own Forgiveness Tracker:
The 21-Day Forgiveness Journey used a simple tracker with three columns: Review, Release, and Rebuild.
Participants focused on one particular experience or betrayal and documented their progress, choosing the day they were ready to review the experience, release it, and rebuild.
The Physical and Emotional Impact of Holding Onto Pain:
Holding onto anger and bitterness can impact your mental, emotional, and physical health.
Forgiveness can reduce the toll on your immune system, lower your stress, and improve your overall well-being.
Powerful Stories of Forgiveness:
Throughout the journey, participants were inspired by stories of people who had forgiven after horrific events, such as the loss of family during the Holocaust or genocides in Rwanda.
These stories helped participants see that if others could forgive after such intense pain, they too could release their own burdens.
Tips for Your Own Forgiveness Journey:
Choose one specific incident to focus on—start with something smaller to build momentum.
Engage with stories, quotes, books, and activities that help you reflect on the nature of forgiveness.
Track your progress and allow yourself to move at your own pace. There is no rush, and each step forward is a victory.
The Distinction Between Forgiveness and Reconciliation:
Forgiveness is about freeing yourself from the pain, while reconciliation involves rebuilding a relationship, which requires the other person’s participation and responsibility.
It's important to understand that you can forgive without reconciling if there is no remorse or apology from the other party.
The Power of Moving Forward:
Forgiveness opens up space for new possibilities in your life, whether it's improved health, new opportunities, or personal growth.
Once you release the burden of past pain, you make room for healing and transformation.
Resources Mentioned:
Stories of Nelson Mandela, the Dalai Lama, and Holocaust survivors as examples of profound forgiveness.
Books and resources recommended throughout the journey on the topic of forgiveness.
Final Thoughts: The 21-Day Forgiveness Journey is a transformative process that invites you to face, feel, and heal from past betrayals. Forgiveness isn’t easy, but it’s a gift you give yourself to live a life unburdened by pain and resentment. The host encourages listeners to embark on their own forgiveness journey, whether through a structured tracker or their own personal process, to find freedom and peace.
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The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.
For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.
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Guest:
Melissa Vogel Melissa is a fitness expert and podcast host who turned her traumatic childhood experiences into a powerful force for healing, personal growth, and helping others.
Overview:
In this episode, we sit down with Melissa Vogel to explore the impact of growing up in an environment of betrayal and how these early experiences shape us. We dive into the emotional journey of overcoming trauma and the steps Melissa took to reclaim her self-worth, break cycles, and build a life of strength—both mentally and physically.
Key Discussion Points:
Melissa’s Childhood Betrayal: Melissa shares her experiences growing up with parents who stayed together despite infidelity. She talks about the anxious and unstable environment this created, leading to feelings of unworthiness and "not being enough."
The Role of Anxiety & ADHD: Melissa reflects on how anxiety and ADHD played a part in her childhood, questioning whether one condition may have triggered the other.
Awareness and Childhood Coping: Melissa recounts how, as a child, she became aware of her father’s cheating and the emotional impact it had on her family. Her role as the caretaker for her siblings and her mother left her feeling unseen and neglected.
Anger and Realization: As a teenager, Melissa began to piece together the betrayal. This led to anger, particularly toward her father, and a deep sense of loss, as she realized how much the infidelity had affected her own self-worth.
Sibling Responses: Melissa discusses how her siblings dealt with the trauma differently—some turned to rebellion, while others sought attention in superficial ways. Melissa became a people-pleaser, but she eventually found her way to therapy, which helped her process her emotions and experiences.
Her Mom’s Role: Melissa also shares her frustration with her mother, who she viewed as weak for staying in the marriage and not protecting her children from the emotional fallout.
Breaking the Cycle: Melissa married a man who shared many of the emotional traits of her father, but she eventually recognized the patterns and sought therapy. Through this journey, she found her worth, focused on self-love, and broke the cycle of dysfunction for her own children.
The Link Between Physical and Emotional Strength: Melissa discusses how fitness became a crucial part of her healing process. She emphasizes the connection between physical health and emotional resilience, explaining that moving her body helped her mentally navigate the challenges of divorce and personal transformation.
Self-Worth and Boundaries: One of Melissa's key takeaways is the importance of self-worth. She encourages listeners to prioritize themselves, set boundaries, and never settle for bare minimums in relationships or life.
Key Quotes:
“You didn’t just cheat on mom; you cheated on me too.”
"Move your body. It doesn’t have to be about losing weight—it’s about getting your mind clear."
“We have this inner beast and goddess that deserves to be loved and nurtured. Keep working on yourself, even if it’s just a walk a day.”
Actionable Steps:
Start Moving: Melissa encourages listeners to start with something simple—like taking a walk. Moving your body helps shift your mental state and begins the process of healing.
Embrace Therapy: Therapy was pivotal for Melissa in understanding her experiences and developing healthier patterns. She encourages others to seek professional help if they're struggling to process trauma.
Prioritize Yourself: Learn to set boundaries and prioritize your own needs and self-worth. Self-love is key to breaking toxic cycles and building stronger relationships.
Where to Find Melissa Vogel:
Website: https://www.itsmelissavogel.com/
Social Media:
Instagram: @itsmelissavogel
Connect with Us:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review! You can also follow us on social media for updates and more insights.
The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.
For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.
For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.
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Episode Summary:
In this episode, we explore a deeply emotional and complex issue many people face after betrayal: protecting the betrayer. Despite experiencing deception, infidelity, or disloyalty, many still shield the betrayer from consequences. We'll dive into the three main reasons this happens and the impact it has on healing and recovery.
Key Topics Covered:
Introduction to Betrayal Protection:
Discusses the surprising phenomenon where the betrayed individual often protects the betrayer, sometimes even at their own expense.
Observations from research and real-life examples, including findings from members of The PBT Institute.
Reason 1: The Illusion of the Betrayer’s Image
The betrayer often has a well-loved and respected image within the family, community, or friend group.
Fear of shattering the positive illusion people have about the betrayer keeps the betrayed silent, even when suffering.
Reason 2: Fear of Confrontation
A common fear is the confrontation that may arise from exposing the truth.
Examples include potential backlash from family members who may not believe the revelation, preferring to defend the betrayer.
Scenario of a wife revealing an affair to her mother-in-law, highlighting the fear of confrontation and rejection.
Reason 3: Self-Doubt and Gaslighting
Betrayal shatters self-worth, leading the betrayed to question their value and role in the relationship.
The process of gaslighting can make them feel at fault, believing they weren’t enough in some way (not smart enough, pretty enough, etc.).
The psychological manipulation of the betrayed into thinking the betrayal was their fault and how this impacts their healing process.
Rebuilding After Betrayal:
Discusses the role of the betrayer in the healing process and the importance of honesty and accountability.
Explains how rebuilding a relationship can only begin when the betrayer takes full responsibility for their actions.
Personal Story Highlight:
A case study of a woman betrayed for over 30 years who sought help to “reframe” her mind to accept her husband's behavior—a situation that underscores the extreme consequences of betrayal and gaslighting.
Reflection and Call to Action:
Reflect on your own experiences and recognize which of the three reasons (illusion, fear of confrontation, or self-doubt) resonates most.
We’re here to offer support and guidance to those struggling in their recovery journey from betrayal.
Key Quotes:
“Why do we protect the betrayer? We do it at our own expense, often to protect their illusion.”
“Fear of confrontation is real, and it stops us from seeking the validation and support we need.”
“Gaslighting makes you question your worth and believe you were the cause of the betrayal.”
Resources Mentioned:
The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.
For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.
For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.
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Final Thought:
Protecting the betrayer can significantly impact your healing journey. It’s crucial to recognize if you're caught in this cycle and to reach out for the support you deserve. Healing starts with addressing the betrayal openly and refusing to take on the burden alone.
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In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of color, art, and healing with Heather Eck. Heather shares her unique journey from a career in Human Resources to becoming an artist who uses color and synesthesia to help people heal from emotional pain, including betrayal. Heather discusses how her sensitivity to color and auras evolved over time and how she now uses this gift to guide others in their healing journeys.
Key Points:
Introduction to Heather Eck:
Heather's background in art and human resources.
The moment she realized her sensitivity to color and auras could be a powerful tool for healing.
Understanding Synesthesia and Clairsentience:
Heather explains synesthesia, a condition where senses overlap, allowing her to "see" colors in music and emotions.
Discussion on clairsentience and how it plays a role in her work.
The Role of Color in Healing:
How color can reflect and influence emotions and energy.
The importance of paying attention to the colors you are drawn to and how they might reflect your emotional state.
Art as a Therapeutic Tool:
Heather talks about how creating art can be a powerful way to process and release emotions, especially after betrayal.
Practical advice for listeners on how to use art and color in their own healing journeys.
Auras and What They Reveal:
Heather shares insights into how she sees auras and what different colors can indicate about a person’s emotional and spiritual state.
Specific colors associated with betrayal and how they manifest in auras.
Practical Tips for Using Color in Daily Life:
Heather encourages listeners to experiment with color in their clothing and surroundings to uplift their mood and energy.
The significance of being mindful of the colors you are naturally drawn to.
Heather’s Personal Experience and Advice:
Personal stories about how color has impacted Heather’s life and the lives of those she works with.
Encouragement to embrace creativity in all forms as a path to healing.
Resources and Links:
Follow Heather Eck on Instagram: @HeatherEckArtist
Heather’s Website: HeatherEck.com
Free Resources and Color Discovery Session: HeatherEck.com/thankyou
The PBT Institute: https://thepbtinstitute.com
Takeaway: Heather’s insights on the power of color and art offer a unique perspective on healing from betrayal and emotional pain. By embracing creativity and paying attention to the colors in your life, you can unlock new avenues for personal growth and transformation.
Call to Action: If you're interested in exploring how color can support your healing journey, reach out to Heather for a personalized color discovery session and start experimenting with art in your daily life. -
In this powerful episode, Dr. Debi shares an insightful conversation with a Transform member from The PBT Institute. They discuss the common struggles many face after betrayal and the subtle ways these challenges can prevent healing. Through this discussion, Dr. Debi highlights the importance of not staying stuck in the pain of betrayal but using it as a catalyst for profound transformation.
Key Points:
The Subtlety of Stuckness: Betrayal can leave you feeling blindsided and disoriented, with life divided into "before" and "after." It's easy to get stuck in Stage three of healing—constantly reviewing what happened without moving forward.
Therapy Trauma: Well-meaning therapists can sometimes keep people stuck if they don't fully understand betrayal or The Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough. Couples counseling can also be challenging if the profound impact of betrayal isn't recognized.
The Danger of Repetition: Constantly revisiting the betrayal story without seeking growth can keep you trapped in negative emotions, symptoms of post-betrayal syndrome, and a stage three life.
Pattern Interrupts: To break free from repetitive thoughts and behaviors, Dr. Debi suggests using "pattern interrupts," similar to changing a physical habit like binge eating, to change the mental patterns that keep you stuck.
The Power of Transformation: Moving from Stage three to Stage four and beyond is about creating a new version of yourself—one that is intentionally crafted and no longer defined by the betrayal.
Tough Love and Growth: Dr. Debi offers support to those who are stuck, encouraging them to embrace the opportunity to grow and create a better story for themselves.
A Roadmap to Healing: The PBT Institute offers a proven roadmap and community support to help individuals move through the stages of healing and create a life beyond betrayal.
Takeaway: Betrayal can be one of the most painful experiences, but it also holds the potential for incredible growth and transformation. Don't waste your trauma by staying stuck in the pain. Use it to create something beautiful in the next chapters of your life.
Resources:
PBT Institute Institute: https://thepbtinstitute.com
Reclaim (for the betrayed): https://thepbtinstitute.com/reclaim/
Rebuild (for the betrayer): https://thepbtinstitute.com/rebuild-program/
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In this episode, Dr. Debi speaks with Dr. Sherry Price, a life coach and former pharmacist, about the intricate relationship between alcohol and self-betrayal. They explore how alcohol, often normalized in society, can become a habit that leads to self-loathing, broken promises, and a disconnect between one's morals and actions. Dr. Sherry shares her personal journey with alcohol, the impact it had on her life and relationships, and the steps she took to regain control and establish a healthier relationship with drinking. The conversation also touches on how to navigate social situations while reducing alcohol consumption and the importance of aligning actions with personal values.
Key Points:
Introduction to Dr. Sherry Price:
Dr. Debi introduces Dr. Sherry Price, highlighting their mutual connection and Sherry's expertise on the topic of alcohol and self-betrayal.
Normalizing Alcohol in Society:
Discussion on how alcohol is often viewed as a normal part of life, used to unwind and manage stress, and how this normalization can lead to problematic habits.
Sherry’s Personal Journey with Alcohol:
Sherry shares her story of overdrinking and the struggle to cut back, despite not fitting the typical “addict” label. She describes the rituals around drinking that became ingrained in her life and the challenges she faced in trying to reduce her intake.
The Turning Point:
A powerful moment with her daughter serves as a wake-up call for Sherry, prompting her to take more serious steps towards cutting back on alcohol.
Navigating Social Situations:
Strategies for handling social pressures to drink, including how to communicate changes in drinking habits to friends and family without feeling judged or isolated.
The Role of Coaching:
How finding a coach who understood her goals helped Sherry redefine her relationship with alcohol and navigate the complexities of reducing her consumption without quitting entirely.
Shifting Identity and Embracing Change:
The process of shifting one’s identity from someone who drinks regularly to someone who has a healthier relationship with alcohol, and the impact this has on social circles and personal self-esteem.
Outcomes of Change:
The positive outcomes of Sherry’s journey, including improved relationships, becoming a role model for her daughter, and feeling more aligned with her values.
Practical Tips for Listeners:
Dr. Sherry shares practical advice for those looking to cut back on alcohol or make other significant lifestyle changes, emphasizing the importance of honesty with oneself and seeking support.
Resources:
The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.
For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.
For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.
Dr. Sherry Price's Website: EpicYOU
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Focused on making better choices for lasting health improvements.
Dr. Debi and Dr. Sherry close with reflections on the importance of recognizing when we are numbing or avoiding and taking the necessary steps to align our actions with the life we want to create. Dr. Sherry’s journey is a powerful reminder that change, while challenging, can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast for more insightful conversations and follow Dr. Sherry Price for additional resources on health and well-being.
If you’re struggling with similar challenges, consider the questions shared in this episode as a starting point for your own journey toward self-awareness and change.
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In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of betrayal and trauma with Dr. Paula Rochelle. Dr. Rochelle shares her journey, including her experience working with traumatized children from orphanages and her personal story of surviving a plane crash. Together, we explore the impact of trauma on the brain and body, the process of healing, and the importance of forgiveness.
Key Points Discussed:
Introduction to Dr. Paula Rochelle
Background in neuroscience and naturopathy.
Experience working with traumatized children from third-world countries.
Personal Trauma: The Plane Crash
Dr. Rochelle's account of her plane crash and its aftermath.
Emotional and psychological impact of surviving such an event.
Understanding Trauma and Betrayal
Differences between betrayal trauma and other types of trauma.
Betrayal impacts the self, leading to feelings of rejection and abandonment.
The Brain's Response to Trauma
Role of the amygdala and hippocampus in trauma response.
The gut-brain connection and its significance in trauma.
Healing Strategies for Trauma
Importance of a holistic approach: gut health, hydration, and nutrition.
Use of neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine in healing.
Children and Trauma
Common symptoms in traumatized children: anger, sleep disturbances, and gut issues.
The slow process of healing and the importance of community support.
Hormonal Impact of Trauma
How trauma affects hormones, particularly cortisol and estrogen.
Strategies to balance hormones and support recovery.
Neurofeedback and Neuro Emotional Techniques
Explanation of neurofeedback and its role in regulating brain waves.
Benefits of neuro emotional techniques and cognitive behavioral therapies.
The Role of Forgiveness in Healing
The neuroscience of forgiveness and its importance in emotional recovery.
Different processes and tools to aid in forgiveness.
Practical Tips for Healing
The importance of sleep and its impact on trauma recovery.
Identifying and addressing root causes of symptoms, such as parasites.
Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Dr. Rochelle’s assurance that healing is possible and individual.
Encouragement to seek personalized paths to recovery and embrace willingness in the healing journey.
Resources and Links:Dr. Paula Rochelle’s Website: www.aysanahealthok.com
PBT Institute’s 21-Day Forgiveness Journey: https://thepbtinstitute.com/forgiveness/
National Forgiveness Day: https://www.nationaldaycalendar.com/national-day/national-forgiveness-day-september-1
Conclusion: Dr. Paula Rochelle provides invaluable insights into the emotional healing process from betrayal and trauma. Her holistic approach, combining physical, mental, and emotional strategies, offers a comprehensive path to recovery. Whether dealing with personal trauma or supporting others through their healing journey, this episode is filled with practical advice and encouragement. -
Introduction: In today's episode, we discuss the challenges and strategies for coping with reminders of betrayal, such as old pictures, and how to turn these painful triggers into opportunities for growth and healing.
Key Points:
Coping with Painful Reminders:
Addressing the pain caused by old pictures and other triggers that remind you of betrayal.
Strategies to reframe these memories and use them as measures of your progress in healing.
Community Insight:
Real-life example from a recent Q&A call where a community member asked about handling painful reminders.
Practical advice shared within the community and by our expert coaches.
Practical Suggestions:
Focus on the positive aspects of the memory, if any.
Use reminders as a way to track your healing progress.
Consider the experiences of others, such as how children might have enjoyed the moment.
Managing Triggers:
The importance of managing triggers like photos, music, TV shows, and movies.
Understanding that while triggers lose their power over time, it’s important not to overwhelm yourself.
Mindset vs. Choice:
The significant difference between mindset and choice in the healing process.
Empowering yourself by making deliberate choices to not let painful reminders ruin your day.
The concept of a "choice point" where you decide not to let the trigger control you.
Intentional Healing:
Avoid indulging in painful thoughts and making a deliberate choice to focus on your well-being.
Using choice as a tool to prevent giving power to negative experiences.
Self-Induced Life Crisis:
The concept of a self-induced life crisis as a pivotal moment where you decide to change your old ways.
Making decisions that lead to new and positive outcomes, even if the path is uncertain.
Support and Transformation:
The importance of having support through the healing process.
The role of The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and its programs, such as Reclaim and Rebuild, in helping individuals and couples heal and transform.
Conclusion: Betrayal is a painful experience, but by making deliberate choices and reframing your mindset, you can reclaim your power and move towards healing. The journey is challenging, but with the right support and strategies, you can transform your life.Resources Mentioned:
The PBT Institute
Reclaim Program
Rebuild Program
Join the Community: If you're ready to move through the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough, join our PBT community. We offer support from specialized coaches in areas such as reconciliation, rebuilding, separation, self-growth, mindset, somatic body-based healing, and grief.Contact and Further Information:
Visit thepbtinstitute.com for more details on our programs and to join our community.
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Episode Description: In this episode, we dive into Stage Four of the healing process—a favorite stage for many. Discover the transformative power that lies within this pivotal stage and how it can propel you beyond your past experiences to a future filled with strength and resilience. We'll discuss the hero's journey, the symbolism of bamboo, and provide scenarios to illustrate what Stage Four looks like in real life.
Key Points:
Introduction to Stage Four:
Reflecting on previous discussions about Stage Two (Shock Trauma D-Day) and Stage Three (Feeling Stuck).
Introduction to Stage Four as a transformative and empowering stage.
The Hero's Journey:
Overview of the hero's journey and its relevance to personal transformation.
Comparison of different stages in the hero's journey to the stages of healing.
Symbolism of Bamboo:
Explanation of why bamboo is a powerful symbol for Stage Four.
How bamboo represents the strength and resilience built over time.
Characteristics of Stage Four:
Importance of willingness to let go of past grievances.
Transition from being stuck in the past to looking forward to the future.
Emphasis on building a supportive network to sustain growth.
Real-Life Scenarios and Personas:
Eli: Committed to personal growth through new routines and reflections.
Samantha: Integrates healing practices into daily life with dedication.
Lewis: Actively pursues a better life through deliberate actions and community involvement.
Nia: Reclaims energy and tries new experiences, embracing life with enthusiasm.
Marcus: Explores new pathways and hobbies, driven by curiosity and a quest for fulfillment.
Transformative Power of Stage Four:
The shift from focusing on past betrayals to envisioning and creating a new future.
Encouragement to embrace new opportunities and interests.
The importance of self-love and self-encouragement during this stage.
Moving Forward:
Discussion on the necessity of a supportive environment to maintain progress.
The role of the PBT Institute in providing resources and community support.
Encouragement to leave behind what no longer serves your growth and embrace new possibilities.
Conclusion:
Recap of the transformative nature of Stage Four.
Encouragement to seek support and remain committed to personal growth.
Invitation to rate, review, and share the podcast with others.
Call to Action: If you’re enjoying the podcast, please rate and review it, and share it with someone who would appreciate it. For more support and resources, visit The PBT Institute.Links and Resources:
The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.
For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.
For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.
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Introduction to the Episode:
Dr. Debi introduces the topic: using math to aid in the healing process from betrayal. Dr. Debi acknowledges the challenge of healing and how unexpected tools, like math,
can be surprisingly helpful.Community Q&A Session:
Description of the community's coffee chat sessions where members can ask any questions.
Introduction to a specific member's struggle with being stuck in stage three of healing for 48 years.Applying Math to Understand Rumination:
Dr. Debi walks the member through calculating the impact of ruminating over 48 years. Step-by-step breakdown of the calculations:Converting 48 years to 17,520 days. Estimating two hours of rumination per day. Calculating the total time spent ruminating: 35,040 hours or 1,460 days. Converting days to years: approximately four years of her life spent ruminating.
The Power of Awareness:
The realization that four years were dedicated to unproductive rumination. Discussion on how this awareness can be a wake-up call to change.The Cost of Stagnation:
Reflection on what could have been achieved in those four years. Encouragement to consider the possibilities of personal growth, such as writing a book,
starting a business, or pursuing a new passion.Moving Forward:
Emphasis on the importance of moving from stage three to stage four and five of healing. The predictable nature of the healing journey when following the proven path.
Conclusion: Dr. Debi wraps up the episode by reiterating the importance of awareness and taking action.
Encouragement to seek support from The PBT Institute and its resources for those ready to move forward. -
In this episode, we dive into the significance of National Forgiveness Day, a holiday founded by the PBT Institute. Dr. Debi discusses the complexities and challenges of forgiveness, especially in the context of betrayal, and offers insights and strategies for moving towards forgiveness and healing.
Key Points Covered:Introduction to National Forgiveness Day:
National Forgiveness Day was founded by the PBT Institute.
The day emphasizes the importance and difficulty of forgiveness, both towards others and oneself.
The Challenge of Forgiveness:
Forgiveness can be particularly hard in situations of betrayal.
Common reasons for the difficulty include societal pressure and personal emotions such as anger and resentment.
Research Insights:
Studies show that forgiveness leads to better emotional well-being when one feels safe and valued.
Conversely, forgiveness can be detrimental when one does not feel safe or valued.
Rebuilding Trust:
Dr. Debi suggests replacing the concept of forgiveness with rebuilding trust in the early stages of healing.
Rebuilding trust when feeling safe and valued can lead to better outcomes.
The Path to Forgiveness:
Acceptance is a more accessible first step than forgiveness.
The emotional trajectory from sadness to anger, to pity, and finally to compassion.
Forgiveness should be approached only when one is truly ready to avoid backfiring.
Self-Forgiveness:
It's crucial to forgive oneself for being too hard during painful times.
Self-forgiveness should follow genuine remorse, regret, and restitution.
The Impact of Unforgiveness:
Holding onto grudges can occupy mental space and hinder personal growth.
Examples of situations requiring forgiveness: misdiagnoses, betrayal by colleagues, friends, or family members.
Health Benefits of Forgiveness:
Forgiveness can lead to significant physical and emotional healing.
Example: A participant in a forgiveness journey healed from a 70-year digestive issue after two weeks.
The 21-Day Forgiveness Journey:
The host describes a 21-day forgiveness journey that includes daily stories, lessons, and practical exercises.
Participants track their progress through a forgiveness tracker.
Success Stories:
Participants from the previous year experienced significant transformations and improved well-being. Many moved from initial resistance to forgiveness within the first week.
Dr. Debi invites listeners to join the 21-day forgiveness journey starting from National Forgiveness Day.
Different levels of involvement are available, including live sessions and replays.
Special features include fireside chats for personal interaction and guidance.Visit nationalforgivenessday.com to sign up for the 21-day forgiveness journey.
Choose a person or situation to forgive and join the journey to experience personal transformation and healing.Forgiveness is a powerful tool for personal growth and well-being.
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Stay tuned for our next episode, where we will explore the stages of healing from betrayal and more tips on building a resilient mindset.
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In this episode, I share insights from a recent VIP retreat where I worked with a small group of clients to help them transform their lives and move fully from stage three to stages four and five of healing from betrayal. The key theme that emerged was the importance of willingness. Here are the five crucial traits of willingness that can significantly impact your healing journey:
Willingness to Move Out of Your Comfort Zone:
Growth begins outside your comfort zone. Change won’t happen if you stay within familiar confines. Challenge yourself to embrace discomfort as a sign of progress.
Willingness to Venture into the Unknown:
Stepping into the unknown is necessary for true transformation. This means being open to new experiences and trusting the process, even when the outcome is uncertain.
Willingness to Think Bigger:
Expand your perspective and challenge your current limitations. Thinking bigger allows you to break free from restrictive beliefs and envision a more empowered future.
Willingness to Give Up Your Story:
Letting go of the painful narrative that defines your betrayal allows for the creation of a more empowering story. This shift is crucial for moving beyond being stuck in past hurt.
Willingness to Embrace Hard Now, Easy Later:
Short-term discomfort and hard work lead to long-term ease and fulfillment. Making drastic changes and addressing the root issues head-on is essential for lasting transformation.
Key Takeaways:
Comfort Zone: Life and change happen outside of your comfort zone. Embrace discomfort as a sign of growth.
Unknown: Being willing to venture into the unknown can lead to significant personal growth and new opportunities.
Bigger Thinking: Expand your mindset to achieve more than you initially believed possible.
New Story: Reframe your betrayal story into one of empowerment and transformation.
Hard Now, Easy Later: Embrace short-term challenges for long-term ease and success.
Reflection Questions:
Are you willing to move past your comfort zone?
Are you open to venturing into the unknown?
Can you challenge yourself to think bigger?
Are you ready to let go of your current story?
Will you embrace hard now for an easier later?
Action Steps:
Reflect on the areas where you may be stuck in your comfort zone.
Identify any fears you have about venturing into the unknown and challenge them.
Set a goal to expand your thinking beyond current limitations.
Write a new narrative for your betrayal experience that empowers you.
Commit to making the hard changes now for long-term benefits.
Join the Journey:
If you're interested in participating in a future VIP retreat or working within The PBT Institute, reach out and get on the list. Embrace these five traits of willingness to transform your healing journey.
Connect with Us:
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In this episode, we dive into one of the most transformative topics: turning pain into purpose. We explore how individuals can harness their pain and trauma to fuel personal growth, resilience, and transformation. The conversation touches on various aspects of betrayal and the journey from hurt to healing.
Key Topics Discussed:
The Resilience of the Human Spirit:
Observations on how thought leaders and individuals overcome trauma and crisis.
The empowering potential seen in people who turn their pain into purpose.
Personal Journey of Betrayal and Healing:
Dr. Debi shares a personal story of betrayal by close family members and the subsequent journey of healing.
The creation of a program based on The Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough and its success.
The PBT Institute:
Founding The PBT Institute to provide a space for healing based on research and proven methods.
Two certification programs offered by the institute:
Certified PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Coach or Practitioner.
Certified PBT Support Group Host.
The Role of Certified Coaches and Practitioners:
The importance of coaches and practitioners representing the work and maintaining authenticity.
Stories of transformation from devastation to strength among the certified coaches and practitioners.
Support Group Hosts:
The significance of support during times of betrayal and the reluctance to seek it due to shame and embarrassment.
The role of certified support group hosts in providing a safe space for healing.
The Power of Support and Community:
The detrimental effects of suffering in silence and the benefits of having supportive networks.
Writing the book "Trust Again" to provide guidance for those healing from betrayal.
Transformative Stories:
Sharing inspiring stories of individuals who turned their pain into purpose, including a story shared by Tony Robbins.
Personal anecdotes about breaking harmful patterns and creating positive changes intentionally.
Empowerment through Teaching and Sharing:
Encouragement to use personal experiences to teach and inspire others.
The concept of turning pain into purpose as a way to empower and bring fulfillment.
Invitation to Join the PBT Community:
Information on the PBT certifications and how they can help individuals turn their experiences into a purpose-driven mission.
Encouragement to take actionable steps towards transforming personal pain into a source of empowerment and support for others.
Turn YOUR Pain into Purpose:
If you have a desire to help others through their journey of betrayal and healing, consider becoming a certified PBT coach, practitioner, or support group host. Visit The PBT Institute website for more information on certifications and resources.
Links and Resources:
PBT Institute Certification Programs
Certified PBT Coach/Practitioner: https://thepbtinstitute.com/get-certified/
Certified PBT Support Group Host: https://thepbtinstitute.com/certified-support-group-host/
Trust Again Book:
Join the PBT Community: https://thepbtinstitute.com
Final Thoughts:
Embrace your experiences and turn them into a purpose-driven mission.
Do not let fear or self-doubt prevent you from helping others with the valuable lessons you've learned.
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In this episode, we delve into Stage Three of the Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough. If you're unsure which stage you're in, by the end of this episode, you'll have a clear understanding. We cover:
The feelings, personas, and experiences typical of Stage Three.
Why Stage Three is the most common stage where people get stuck.
The consequences of staying in Stage Three and how to move forward.
Key Points
Understanding Stage Three
Common Feelings and Experiences: Stage Three is characterized by small self-benefits like being right, blaming others, and getting sympathy without having to rebuild trust.
Negative Thought Patterns: The mind starts believing destructive thoughts, leading to deeper entrenchment in Stage Three.
Energy Attraction: Like energy attracts like energy, resulting in circumstances and relationships that confirm the negative state.
Personas in Stage Three
Alex: Struggles with unanswered questions and the fear of confronting raw emotions, leading to a loop of indecision.
Jordan: Uses distractions like TV, food, and alcohol to avoid the pain of betrayal.
Taylor: Experiences resignation, believing life will never get better and settling into a colorless routine.
Morgan: Feels profound exhaustion and lethargy, unable to muster the energy for significant change.
Symptoms and Consequences
Post Betrayal Syndrome: Symptoms appear in Stage Two and persist into Stage Three, where they are often medicated and suppressed rather than healed.
Therapy and Support Groups: Without true transformation, therapy and support groups can become places where individuals stay stuck by repeatedly rehashing their stories.
Numbing, Avoiding, Distracting: Common tactics to avoid dealing with raw emotions, leading to long-term habits that reinforce the Stage Three state.
Moving Beyond Stage Three
Recognizing the Trap: Understand that Stage Three is a trap, likened to quicksand, making it one of the hardest stages to leave.
Letting Go: To move to Stage Four, one must let go of the benefits and familiarities of Stage Three.
Transformation Begins in Stage Four: Real healing and transformation start in Stage Four, where new beginnings and true growth occur.
Practical Steps and Resources
The PBT Institute: Offers daily live classes, programs, masterclasses, and an incredibly supportive community to help you move through the Stages.
Books: "Trust Again" and "From Hardened to Healed" provide deeper insights and practical advice for those stuck in Stage Three.
Community Support: Engage with others who are also on the journey from betrayal to breakthrough, fostering mutual growth and support.
Conclusion
Stage Three is a challenging but surmountable part of the betrayal recovery process. By recognizing the signs, understanding the personas, and utilizing the right resources, you can move forward to Stage Four and beyond, achieving true transformation and healing.
Connect with Us
Website: The PBT Institute
Books: Trust Again | From Hardened to Healed
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Episode Summary:
In this episode, we address a common and challenging scenario faced by many who have experienced betrayal. How do you handle social situations where the topic of betrayal comes up, and you find yourself feeling uncomfortable, angry, or even embarrassed? We provide practical advice and strategies to help you navigate these moments with confidence and poise. This episode is inspired by a question from a PBT Institute member, and it's dedicated to helping you manage these difficult conversations and emotions.
Key Points:
Introduction:
Addressing a common and relatable question from a PBT Institute member about dealing with betrayal conversations in social settings.
Emotional Reactions:
Common feelings of discomfort, anger, embarrassment, and confusion in social situations where betrayal is discussed.
The internal conflict of wanting to contribute to the conversation versus the urge to withdraw.
Strategies for Managing the Conversation:
When They Don't Know:
Have a prepared, neutral statement ready to contribute to the conversation.
Excuse yourself politely to get a non-alcoholic drink or take a break if the conversation becomes too overwhelming.
When They Do Know:
Recognize the lack of empathy or consideration in others' comments.
Prepare a response or choose to walk away from the conversation.
Consider addressing the issue directly if you feel the person is worth educating about your sensitivity to the topic.
Rebuilding After Betrayal:
Addressing the judgment and criticism faced when choosing to rebuild a relationship after betrayal.
Understanding that rebuilding involves both partners transforming and not reverting to their old selves.
The importance of recognizing and demanding new levels of respect and behavior from a partner during the rebuilding process.
Handling Social Judgments:
Being prepared for others' fixed opinions and limited understanding of personal growth and change.
The importance of maintaining a focus on your own healing and the new dynamics in your relationship.
Evaluating Your Social Circle:
Assessing whether the conversations you are part of reflect your growth and new values.
Seeking out and surrounding yourself with people who support your journey and share similar goals of personal development and growth.
Final Thoughts:
Emphasizing the need for self-care, preparation, and proactive strategies in handling social situations involving betrayal.
Encouraging listeners to continuously seek environments and relationships that align with their personal growth and healing journey.
Quotes to Remember:
"Hard now, easy later. Easy now, hard later. Take your pick because it’s going to be one of those two."
"What you think of me is none of my business."
"Rebuilding is deliberate and intentional. It is all about redefining relationships based on new rules and respect."
Resources Mentioned:
PBT Institute for further support and resources.
Wayne Dyer and Neale Donald Walsch quotes for inspiration and perspective.
Call to Action:
If you are struggling with these social situations or need more support in your healing journey, consider joining the PBT Institute. Reach out for guidance, tools, and a community that understands and supports your path to healing and transformation.
Outro:
Thank you for tuning in. Remember, this work is for the brave and transformative. Equip yourself with the tools and support needed to navigate these challenging moments, and know that you are not alone. See you next time.
Links:
The PBT Institute: https://thepbtinstitute.com
For the betrayed-Reclaim: https://thepbtinstitute.com/reclaim/
For the betrayer-Rebuild: https://thepbtinstitute.com/rebuild-program/ -
Introduction:
The episode focuses on regrets, especially within the context of betrayal, and explores how to manage and prevent them.
Regret can be about any decision in life, not just betrayal.
Key Points:
Understanding Regret:
Regret often leads to two choices: avoiding it due to its magnitude or cleaning it up if possible.
Both betrayers and betrayed individuals experience regret, though in different forms.
Regrets in Betrayal:
Betrayers regret their actions and the harm caused to their loved ones.
Betrayed individuals may regret their responses, actions taken out of hurt, or their decision to stay.
General Regrets:
Common regrets include missed opportunities (e.g., job offers, travel, not having more children), not standing up for oneself or others, and sacrificing personal health for work.
Dealing with Current Regrets:
Identify the emotion or need behind the regret and find a healthy way to satisfy it now.
Address and clean up misunderstandings or hurtful actions by communicating and making amends.
Preventing Future Regrets – Regret Prevention Plan (RPP):
Projection: Think ahead about how your actions will affect others. If it’s likely to hurt someone, don’t do it.
Highest Self Check: Ask if the best version of yourself would take the action you're considering.
Future Reflection: Consider how you’ll feel about your actions years from now. Will you be proud or regretful?
Applying the RPP:
For betrayals, the betrayer needs to actively work on rebuilding trust and addressing their partner’s pain.
For the betrayed, reflect on what can be learned from the experience and how to act differently in the future.
Growth from Regret:
Use regret as a learning tool to develop wisdom and improve future decision-making.
Growth occurs when you step out of your comfort zone and address uncomfortable feelings.
Conclusion:
Regret can be a powerful catalyst for positive change if approached with a constructive mindset.
By applying the RPP, you can minimize future regrets and handle past regrets more effectively.
Tune in to the upcoming podcast episode for a deeper dive into the Regret Prevention Plan and more examples on managing regrets.
The PBT Institute: https://thepbtinstitute.com -
Episode Overview:
In this episode, we dive into the sensitive topic of abuse with Dr. Jennifer Gardella. Jennifer shares her personal journey through abusive relationships, highlighting the subtle and often overlooked signs of abuse. This episode serves as a guide to recognizing, understanding, and healing from abuse.
Key Points:
Jennifer’s Story:
Jennifer explains how abuse can start subtly, often with a belief system instilled from a young age that one is not worthy and must depend on others.
She shares her experience of unknowingly attaching herself to an abuser who initially seemed perfect, a process known as love bombing.
Understanding Love Bombing:
Love bombing involves excessive compliments, gifts, and attention early in the relationship, creating a trauma bond.
Examples include lavish gifts and expensive vacations within weeks of meeting.
The Cycle of Abuse:
Abusers slowly pull their victims deeper into the relationship, gaining control and manipulating them.
Jennifer discusses how her abuser encouraged her to move in with him and gradually isolated her from her own life and career.
Impact on Family:
Jennifer’s children played a significant role in her realization and escape from the abusive relationship.
Her children saw the abuse and were instrumental in encouraging her to leave.
The Role of COVID-19:
The pandemic acted as a catalyst for Jennifer to leave her abusive situation.
She shares how she and her daughters used the opportunity to move out and start anew.
Recognizing Domestic Violence:
Domestic violence is a systematic pattern of power and control, not just physical abuse.
It includes emotional, psychological, and financial manipulation.
Healing Journey:
Jennifer emphasizes the importance of doing the work to heal, including therapy, support groups, and programs.
She highlights the effectiveness of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) in her healing process.
Advice for Victims and Supporters:
For victims: It's okay to take time to leave; do safety planning.
For supporters: Be gentle and supportive, understanding the complexities of leaving an abusive relationship.
For everyone: Do the work to heal, and find a specialist or program that resonates with you.
Final Thoughts:
Jennifer encourages everyone to seek help and support, emphasizing that healing is a personal journey that can be done privately.
Learn More About Dr. Jennifer Gardella:
Visit her website: JenniferGardella.com (under construction but accessible).
Resources:
The PBT Institute: https://thepbtinstitute.com -
Episode Description: In this episode, we dive into the Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough, with a particular focus on Stage Two. Dr. Debi discusses the physical, mental, and emotional experiences at each stage and offers insights into how to navigate through them. Drawing from real-life personas, the episode aims to help listeners recognize their own experiences and feel less alone in their journey.
Key Points Covered:
Introduction to the Five Stages:
Overview of The Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough.
Explanation of how the stages impact individuals physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
The importance of moving through each stage to reach healing.
Focus on Stage Two - Shock and Disorientation:
Description of Stage Two as a state of being blindsided and feeling like your world has been turned upside down.
The psychological impact, described as a "psychological earthquake," where life is divided into before and after the betrayal.
Personas of Stage Two:
Julian (Shock and Disorientation): Frozen in time, grappling with the reality of betrayal.
Leila (Exhaustion): Struggling with extreme fatigue and feeling like every task is monumental.
Kevin (Overwhelmed): Overcome by emotions and the chaos of daily life.
Sue (Mental Turmoil): Experiencing brain fog and inability to think clearly.
Nathan (Restlessness and Insomnia): Unable to sleep, plagued by intrusive thoughts.
Jessica (Concentration Issues): Struggling with focus and cognitive clarity.
Diane (Battle on All Fronts): Dealing with physical, mental, and emotional distress simultaneously.
Jenna (Losing Ground): Feeling like life is unraveling and clinging to routines.
Mike (Survival in Question): Questioning survival and the future amidst piercing pain.
Carla (Doubt and Despair): Doubting the authenticity of past relationships and struggling with trust.
Impact of Betrayal on Physical and Mental Health:
Discussion on how chronic stress from betrayal affects the body, leading to issues like digestive problems and physical pain.
The role of cortisol in stress response and its long-term impact.
Moving Through Stage Two:
Importance of recognizing you're not alone or crazy in these feelings.
Encouragement to move from Stage Two to Stage Three (Survival Instincts Emerge) and beyond.
The promise of a healthier, stronger, and more confident version of oneself in Stages Four and Five.
Advice and Encouragement:
Personal anecdotes and stories from the host's experience and study participants.
Emphasis on the importance of not getting stuck in any stage, especially Stage Three.
Final words of hope and encouragement for listeners to keep moving forward in their healing journey.
Conclusion: The episode aims to provide comfort and validation to those going through betrayal, reassuring them that their feelings are normal and that there is a path to healing. Listeners are encouraged to seek help and continue progressing through the stages to reach a place of strength and confidence.Call to Action:
Listeners are invited to join the PBT Institute for support and guidance through the stages of betrayal.
Encouragement to take the Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz to understand the extent of their struggles.
Next Episode Teaser: Stay tuned for the next episode where we will discuss Stage Three and how survival instincts emerge after the initial shock of betrayal.
Resources:PBT Institute
Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz: https://thepbtinstitute.com/pbs-quiz/
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