Episodes
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What if the real reason you’re stuck isn’t lack of talent, hustle, or even ambition but an unactivated prey drive inside you?
Coach Micheal Burt, Wall Street Journal bestselling author, top performance coach, and creator of The Greatness Factory joins Harder Than Life to break down how to awaken your primal drive, reignite your purpose, and dominate every arena you step into.
Your success depends on one thing: the ability to activate your prey drive and keep it burning.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
π₯ What "prey drive" is and why most people never activate it
π₯ 5 powerful triggers to flip your internal switch
π₯ Why energy is a currency and how high performers protect it
π₯ How to move from motivation to relentless activation
π₯ The brutal truth about success, failure, and why second place is just the first loser
This isn’t about hype. It’s a BATTLE PLAN for anyone serious about chasing bigger dreams, playing bigger games, and refusing to settle for average.
π¬ What’s one area of your life where you need to FLIP THE SWITCH right now? Drop it in the comments!
π Subscribe NOW if you're ready to activate your greatness and start living life Harder Than Life!
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You’re not choosing love… you’re abandoning yourself.
In this raw and vulnerable episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel lays it all on the table—from personal heartbreak to powerful healing. This isn't just about relationships, it's about the silent, self-sacrificing patterns we fall into chasing love, approval, or peace... while betraying ourselves in the process.
If you’ve ever felt like you were too much, not enough, or stuck choosing between your truth and someone else’s comfort, this one’s for you.
Inside this episode:
β The childhood belief that love must be earned and how it sabotages your self-worth
β 5 powerful actions to stop self-abandonment and build radical self-respect
β Why protecting your peace is not selfish. It’s sacred
β How to reverse engineer your relationships and cut out hidden chaos
β A 7-day challenge to reconnect with yourself and never shrink again
π₯ Choosing peace might mean losing people. But if your peace costs you your identity, that’s too high a price.
π― CHALLENGE: What’s one boundary you’re setting this week to honor your peace? Drop a comment or DM @kelly.siegel71
π’ Know someone who keeps giving to everyone but themselves? Share this episode and remind them: choosing YOU isn’t selfish. It’s survival.
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What if real leadership isn't about being impressive but being impactful? π€―
Jordan Montgomery, USA Today bestselling author, performance coach, and speaker trusted by top CEOs and elite athletes, joins Harder Than Life to drop one of the most vulnerable, powerful, and heart-centered conversations we’ve ever had.
From losing everything at 27 to rebuilding with faith, family, and fierce intentionality, Jordan proves that your lowest moment can become your greatest calling.
You don’t lose when you FAIL. You lose when you don’t LEARN.
In This Episode, We Cover:
π₯ Why true leadership starts at home
π₯ The real cost of chasing praise over purpose
π₯ How to encourage with authenticity and depth
π₯ Rewiring shame into power and failure into fuel
π₯ Creating impact that outlives your title
This episode is filled with wisdom, raw honesty, and transformational truth. If you’re ready to lead with heart and build a legacy rooted in character, tune in.
π¬ What’s the biggest leadership lesson you’ve learned from failure? Drop it in the comments—your story might inspire someone else.
π Hit that SUBSCRIBE button for weekly episodes that help you lead harder, live bolder, and love deeper.
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Is your business costing you the relationships that matter most?
In this brutally honest episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel opens up about the personal price of success—how his business nearly cost him his marriage, his friends, and precious time with his daughter. This is a wake-up call for every high achiever who’s ever said, “I’m doing this for them,” while never being fully present with them.
Inside this episode:
β Why “hustle mode” quietly destroys your relationships
β The mindset trap that makes work feel more urgent than family
β Real talk about guilt, neglect, and the myth of “making it up later”
β 5 practical strategies to reconnect and protect your relationships
β A powerful challenge that could change the course of your personal life
If your relationships are suffering, success isn’t success—it’s survival.
It’s time to build a life that wins in every area, not just the business.
CHALLENGE: Identify one relationship you’ve been neglecting. Schedule time. Be fully present. No excuses. Then DM @kelly.siegel71 and tell him how it went.
Know someone who's always working but missing what really matters? Share this with them—today.
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#HarderThanLife #KellySiegel #RelationshipsMatter #WorkLifeBalance #EntrepreneurLife #MindsetShift #LegacyBuilding #FamilyFirst #SelfImprovement #Leadership
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What if the REAL reason you're not leveling up isn’t lack of motivation but a BROKEN strategy?
Scott D. Clary, entrepreneur, investor, and host of the Success Story Podcast, joins Harder Than Life to drop a masterclass in mindset, entrepreneurship, and playing the long game. From battling imposter syndrome to building an empire by reverse-engineering success, Scott pulls back the curtain on what it really takes to win in business and in life.
β‘ Success isn’t magic. It’s the result of relentless focus, measurable progress, and doing the hard things consistently.
In this episode, we cover:
π₯ How to defeat imposter syndrome by remembering your wins
π₯ Why most people fail—and how to actually stay in the game
π₯ The truth about pivoting, quitting, and knowing the difference
π₯ Why mindset and movement are your biggest productivity hacks
π₯ How to reverse-engineer your dream life step-by-step
This is NOT your average business talk. It’s a brutally honest breakdown of what separates those who wish from those who win.
π¬ What’s ONE action you’re taking today to reverse-engineer your next level? Drop it in the comments!
π Subscribe NOW for real, unfiltered conversations with high performers who are building a life Harder Than Life.
#ScottDClary #SuccessStoryPodcast #HarderThanLife #EntrepreneurMindset #ImposterSyndrome #ReverseEngineerSuccess #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #HighPerformanceHabits #MindsetMatters
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You’re Grinding. You’re Hustling. But You’re Still STUCK.
If you’re doing everything and still not seeing your business grow, YOU’RE the bottleneck.
In this raw and real episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel pulls back the curtain on what’s holding so many entrepreneurs back: ego, chaos, and trying to do it all alone. If you want to scale, you need to build a business that runs without you. Period.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
β Why your hustle is actually hurting your business
β The critical systems every leader MUST have in place
β How to delegate the right way (without micromanaging or losing control)
β Kelly’s powerful “1-3-1” strategy to stop putting out fires and start building leaders
β The mindset shift that turns a solo act into a scalable machine
If you don’t create structure, you’ll create stress. And if you’re not growing, you’re dying.
π― CHALLENGE: What’s one task you’re still holding onto that someone else should own? Drop it in the comments—and commit to letting it go THIS WEEK.
π’ Tag a fellow entrepreneur who’s stuck in the grind and needs to hear this message.
π Like, Comment, and Subscribe for weekly episodes that help you lead smarter, scale faster, and live harder than life.
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Are you living your true purpose? β οΈ John Mulligan (Johnny Utah) didn't just change careers; he changed his entire life. From the high-stakes world of undercover narcotics to the raw passion of hunting and outdoor media with his show Primal Divide, his story will challenge you.In this episode, we go deep into John's journey, trading the dangers of the Cincinnati streets for the challenges and rewards of the wilderness.Prepare for a conversation about facing your demons, finding strength in nature, and the relentless pursuit of discipline and perseverance.In this episode, we explore:π¨ Cop to Creator: John Mulligan's switch from undercover work to building a life in outdoor media.π¨ Hunting with Heart: The ethics of hunting, respect for animals, and the role of conservation.π¨ Wilderness & Grit: How the outdoors demands and builds mental and physical toughness.π¨ Nature's Power: Finding peace, purpose, and challenge in the natural world.π¨ Chasing Your Call: The inspiration to pursue your passions and live adventurously.π¬ What was the most impactful lesson you took away from John's story? Share your thoughts in the comments below!π Subscribe to the Harder Than Life Podcast for more inspiring stories and powerful conversations that will help you live your best life.#HarderThanLife #KellySiegel #JohnMulligan #JohnnyUtah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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If YOU don’t respect yourself, NO ONE else will.
For too long, I let people take advantage of me, cross my boundaries, and dictate my worth.
But here’s the truth: The way people treat you is a REFLECTION of what you ALLOW.
In this episode of Harder Than Life, I’m breaking down exactly what it takes to stop being a doormat, take back your power, and command the respect you deserve—in business, relationships, and life.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
β The painful lessons that forced me to stand up for myself
β How fear of confrontation is keeping you stuck
β The game-changing mindset shift that makes self-respect effortless
β Why setting boundaries actually makes people respect you MORE
β Simple, no-BS strategies to stop people-pleasing and start owning your worth
π CHALLENGE: What’s ONE boundary you need to reinforce in your life? Drop it in the comments below—I want to hear how you’re stepping into your power!
π’ Know someone who needs this message? Send this episode their way.
π LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more unfiltered wisdom on success, self-worth, and resilience.
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What if the biggest thing standing between you and success isn’t a lack of talent, time, or resources… but the lies you tell yourself? π€―
Jon Acuff, New York Times bestselling author and one of the world’s top mindset and goal-setting experts, is here to show you how to reprogram your brain for unstoppable success. If you’re tired of self-doubt, second-guessing, and feeling stuck, you’re in for one heck of a ride.
Your thoughts are either working FOR you or AGAINST you. It’s time to take control.
In this episode, we cover:
π₯ The hidden danger of overthinking and how to stop it
π₯ How to rewire your brain for confidence & action
π₯ The biggest mistake people make when setting goals
π₯ Why motivation isn’t the problem (and what actually is)
π₯ How to take back control of your life starting TODAY
This isn’t just theory. Jon breaks down real, proven strategies that will help you transform the way you think, so you can finally create the results you want.
π¬ What’s ONE thought you’re CHOOSING to change today? Drop it in the comments!
π Subscribe NOW if you’re ready to stop holding yourself back and start creating the life you KNOW you’re meant for!
#HarderThanLife #KellySiegel #MindsetShift #SuccessMindset #JonAcuff #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #GoalSetting #OvercomingFear #StopOverthinking #MentalStrength #ConfidenceBoost #LifeTransformation #SelfBelief #Motivation #HighPerformance #SuccessTips #EntrepreneurMindset #LevelUp #MindsetMatters
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Grinding 24/7 won’t make you successful—it’ll break you.
Our culture glorifies hustle, but at what cost? Burnout, broken relationships, and declining health aren’t badges of honor. If you’re running on empty, it’s time for a wake-up call.
In this episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel exposes the REAL price of an unbalanced life—and how to reclaim your time, energy, and success before it’s too late.
You’ll learn:
π₯The physical and mental toll of overworking (this might shock you)
π₯ How stress silently destroys your relationships and success
π₯ The hidden signs that your work-life balance is way off
π₯ 3 power moves to take back control of your health and happiness
π₯ Why balance isn’t a luxury but it’s the key to long-term success
π CHALLENGE: Identify ONE area of imbalance in your life and set a non-negotiable boundary to protect your health this week. Drop it in the comments below!
π’ Know someone stuck in the grind? Share this episode with them. It might just change their life.
π LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more real talk on success, resilience, and balance.
#HarderThanLife #KellySiegel #WorkLifeBalance #SuccessMindset #Burnout #Productivity #SelfCare #Leadership
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In this raw and powerful episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel sits down with former special operations warrior turned mindset coach and author, Yohance Boulden. From storming buildings in Afghanistan to confronting suicidal thoughts at home, Yohance opens up about the battles that don’t make the news—the mental ones.
Together, they unpack what it means to be a whole man: vulnerable, grounded, and emotionally resilient. Yohance shares how journaling, gratitude, and sitting in fear have become tools of survival and growth, and why his mantra is to "earn your regrets."
If you're ready to redefine masculinity, confront your fears, and find healing through presence, connection, and faith—this is the episode you can’t miss.
Key Takeaways:
Why watching sunrises became a daily life-saving ritual
How physical fitness builds mental resilience
The power of getting small when life feels overwhelming
The importance of safety, surrender, and spiritual awakening
How journaling can help you know yourself and process pain
Fatherhood lessons that shaped his leadership
What it really means to be a “whole man”
How friendships with emotional depth are the real flex
Drop a comment: What’s your biggest fear—and how are you facing it?
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Want to Transform Your Life? START TAKING ACTION TODAY!
Most people talk about success, but only a few actually go out and get it. In this episode, Kelly Siegel breaks down the #1 key to success—taking deliberate, consistent, and unrelenting action every single day. Stop waiting for motivation, stop overthinking, and start doing.
Key Topics in This Episode:
Why small daily actions compound into massive success
The fear of success and how it holds you back
Why accountability is non-negotiable for achieving goals
How Kelly built his success—one step at a time
The power of progress over perfection
YOUR CHALLENGE: Take ONE action today that moves you forward. Tag Kelly on social media and share your progress.
What’s ONE action you’re committing to today? Drop a comment below.
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What if your greatest struggle became your superpower?
In this raw and eye-opening episode of Harder Than Life, host Kelly Siegel sits down with Nick Pollard—a world-renowned coach, speaker, and expert on people-pleasing, codependency, and addiction. With over 50 million views across social media, Nick’s no-BS approach is helping people set boundaries, break toxic cycles, and reclaim their power.
Nick's journey is unlike anything you've heard before—from surviving childhood trauma and addiction to building the People Displeaser Movement. His story proves that rock bottom is just the beginning if you choose to rise.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
β Why people-pleasing and addiction go hand in hand
β The shocking turning point that changed Nick’s life forever
β How to set real, unshakable boundaries without guilt
β The Game of No—a simple yet powerful way to take back control
β Why saying NO is the ultimate self-care
This conversation is packed with hard-hitting truths, humor, and powerful takeaways to help you stop playing small and start living authentically.
#HarderThanLife #PeoplePleasing #NickPollard #SelfGrowth #AddictionRecovery #SettingBoundaries
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Today we're going after an enemy that's been living rent-free in your head for way too long: your inner critic. That voice that whispers you're not enough is a LIAR.
In this no-nonsense episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel exposes:
β How your inner critic keeps you stuck in fear and self-doubt
β The real damage negative self-talk does to your confidence and success
β 5 battle-tested strategies to shut down self-sabotage for good
β Why naming your inner critic weakens its grip on you
β The mindset shift that will help you stop playing small and start living BIG
That voice in your head doesn’t define you, your ACTIONS do. It’s time to rewrite the script.
π₯ CHALLENGE: Name your inner critic and drop it in the comments! What’s one action you’ll take today to shut it down?
π’ If this episode fired you up, share it with someone who needs to hear it.
π Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more on resilience, leadership, and personal growth!
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Can your face reveal the truth about your personality, decision-making style, and even your success in life? Brian Galke, master of facial feature analysis and founder of Subtle Skills, joins Harder Than Life to break down how reading faces can transform your ability to communicate, connect, and close deals.
From decoding eyebrow shapes to understanding micro-expressions, Brian shares how facial features give away more than we think. Whether you’re in sales, leadership, or just want to improve your relationships, this episode will give you practical tools to read people like a pro.
Key Takeaways:
How facial features shape communication and decision-making
What your eyebrows, lips, and chin reveal about you
The secret to instantly building rapport with anyone
How AI and technology are changing the way we analyze faces
Why understanding body language makes you a better leader
Don’t miss this game-changing conversation! Watch now and start using these skills today.
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Think kindness is just about being nice? Think again. This ONE trait can transform your career, relationships, and even your health. π
In this powerful solo episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel breaks down:
β How kindness is actually a power move in leadership and business
β The surprising health benefits of practicing kindness daily
β Why leading with generosity, respect, and empathy attracts success
β The 3 Compliment Rule—a simple practice that will change your life
β How to handle negative people without losing your cool
Kindness isn’t weakness. It’s a superpower. And in today’s world, it’s more valuable than ever.
π₯ CHALLENGE: Drop one intentional act of kindness in the comments that you’ll do today!
π’ If this episode inspired you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.
π Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more episodes on self-improvement, leadership, and resilience.
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In a world that tells us to go harder, push more, and never stop grinding—what if the secret to true success is actually slowing down? π€―
Amberly Lago is BACK on Harder Than Life, and this time, we're diving deep into her latest book, Joy Through the Journey. From surviving a horrific motorcycle accident and enduring 34 surgeries to overcoming addiction and rebuilding her life, Amberly is living proof that resilience and joy can coexist.
In this powerful conversation, we break down:
π₯ How burnout sneaks up on high achievers (and how to stop it)
π₯ The importance of self-care—and why it’s NOT selfish
π₯ How gratitude, movement, and mindset create a life you don’t need to escape from
π₯ The hidden cost of the "hustle culture" and how to redefine success
This episode is packed with raw truths, inspiring stories, and actionable steps to help you live a more joyful, purpose-driven life.
π¬ What’s one small change you can make TODAY to create more joy in your life? Drop it in the comments!
π Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE for more powerful conversations about self-love, resilience, and success!
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What if the key to happiness, success, and resilience was something you could practice every day? In this powerful solo episode of Harder Than Life, host Kelly Siegel dives deep into the life-changing power of gratitude.
For years, Kelly thought gratitude was just fluff—until he saw how it rewired his mindset, relationships, and business. Now, he’s sharing the practical tools and daily habits that transformed his life so you can start using them today.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
β How gratitude rewires your brain for happiness and success
β Why negative energy repels opportunity (and how to shift your mindset)
β The morning ritual that sets the tone for your day
β How gratitude helps you overcome stress, adversity, and self-doubt
β Why forgiveness is a key part of the gratitude journey
Plus, Kelly shares real, raw moments from his life—including his struggles with anxiety, overcoming past trauma, and finding peace in the middle of the grind.
Join the gratitude movement! Drop a comment and share one thing you’re grateful for today.
π Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with someone who needs it!
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What if the key to success, happiness, and true fulfillment was simpler than you ever imagined? In this powerful episode of Harder Than Life, host Kelly Siegel sits down with the legendary Jon Gordon—bestselling author of The Energy Bus, The Carpenter, and The One Truth—to uncover the secrets to overcoming negativity, finding your purpose, and living a life of impact.
Jon shares life-changing insights on faith, leadership, and healing, revealing why most of us feel disconnected and how we can realign with our true power. He dives into the spiritual and psychological forces that shape our mindset, how to battle self-doubt, and why gratitude is the ultimate game-changer.
Key Takeaways:
The secret behind The One Truth and how it can transform your mindset
Why negativity is a lie and how to break free from limiting beliefs
The power of gratitude walks and how they shift your energy
How faith and surrender lead to clarity, strength, and success
Lessons from top athletes and business leaders on positive leadership
If you’re ready to step into your full potential and stop letting fear hold you back, this episode is for you.
#JonGordon #HarderThanLife #SuccessMindset #Faith #Positivity #Leadership #PersonalGrowth
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Welcome back to Harder Than Life with Kelly Siegel. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the one thing that separates those who rise up from those who stay stuck—mindset.
We all talk about staying positive, but the real test is when life gets difficult. Whether you’re dealing with business setbacks, relationship struggles, or just feeling stuck, this episode is packed with real, practical strategies to keep your mindset strong when challenges arise.
What You’ll Learn:
How to stop letting negativity control your life
The number one mindset shift that will change how you handle adversity
Why controlling your inputs is the key to success
Simple daily habits to build resilience and mental strength
How to cut toxic energy and surround yourself with winners
Most people will hear this and do nothing—but you’re not most people. You’re part of Harder Than Life Nation, and I want you to win.
#HarderThanLife #KellySiegel #Mindset #Success #Resilience #SelfImprovement #StayStrong
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