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Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can bring freedom, connection, and growth in your marriage and friendships!!
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Are there things Christian couples shouldn’t do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passionate and God-honoring.
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My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Oral Sex episodes
Episode 147: DOs & DON'Ts of Sex Toys
Episode 148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys
gotquestions.org (anal article)
Episode 141: Talk Dirty To Me
Makin’ Sex Tapes: Anatomy Of Us
Episode 197: Mutual Masturbation
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Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers those questions- and more!
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Links from today’s episode:
6 Pillars Of Intimacy
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What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we’re sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and savor intimacy the way God designed! Get ready for practical ideas you’ll actually want to try.
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Mentionables: code KINGDOM for 10% off
Anatomy Of Us- Makin’ Sex Tapes
Intimately Us App
Evree: use the code KINGDOM for 10% off
Passionista
#LubeLife
Married Dance: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
FREEBIE: spice it up guide
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Pornography isn’t just a “men’s issue”- and it’s time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christian woman. We’re diving into the stats, the shame, and the silent struggle so many women face- especially in the church.
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Links from today's episode:
SheRecovery website
She Recovery Instagram
90 Days to Wholeness
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
No Stones by Marnie C. Ferree
Shame In Your Marriage (episode 231)
My Counselor Online use the link for $25 off!
Better Help
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Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show!
This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement.
2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines?
4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit?
5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy?
8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard?
12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer?
14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low?
17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life
19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try
24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive?
29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm?
32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it?
34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido?
37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do?
38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why?
41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories 🥰
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Links from today’s episode:
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off!
Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduled Sex episode (ep. 139)
Ah Yes! Lubricants: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
BeLoved Fertility: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package
Passionista book
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
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Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We’ll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom, and share practical ways to step into healing and grace in your marriage.
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Links from today’s episode:
Dwell Bible App
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!
Better Help
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Feeling like the only wife who wants sex more than her husband? You’re not broken - and you’re not alone. In this episode, the KS team dives deep into the heart of the higher drive wife: the identity struggles, the church silence, and the ache of rejection. We’re breaking the silence, offering real tools, and reminding you that your desire is not shameful - it’s sacred.
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Links from today’s episode:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Responsive vs Spontaneous (episode 177)
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Big thank you to Evree for sponsoring today's episode! Use the code KINGDOM10 to get it for 10% off!
Want to keep things smooth in the bedroom? 😉 In this episode of the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast, we’re diving into the world of lubrication—both the natural kind and the many options available to enhance intimacy! From the science behind your body’s built-in moisture to the best lubes for different situations (yes, even in the shower! 🚿🔥), we’re covering it all. Whether you’re looking for more comfort, more fun, or just curious about the weirdest flavored lubes out there (pizza-flavored, anyone? 🍕😳), this episode is packed with info you don’t want to miss! Tune in now!
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Links from today’s episode:
Evree: KINGDOM10 for an exclusive listener-only discount!!
🇨🇦 Yes! Lube
Coconu: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off!
Nixit: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off!
Jess Seitz: Use the code KS5 to get 5% off!
Tiera’s Website (BeLoved Fertility) Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package
Condom Episode
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Wanting to take your intimate life to the next level? Or curious as to what else you and your spouse could do to add some extra spice and fun into the bedroom?
In this episode, we will break down several things you can do in your sex life whether you find yourself in the beginner, intermediate, or advanced stage of intimacy! Tune in now!
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Links from today’s episode:
Episode 221: Fundamentals Of Healthy Sexuality
Awaken Love
31 Nights of Intimacy
Dwell app
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Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Date Night Bundle
Intimacy Without Intercourse
Sex Dice
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We love recording Q&A's and you seem to love listening to them! If you have a question, email it to us at [email protected] and we’ll aim to answer it in our next Q&A!
Links from today’s episode:
Betrayal Trauma (Episode 206)
“My Husband Was Addicted To Porn” (Episode 96)
“The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me” (Episode 97)
Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It? (Episode 218)
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
Talk Dirty To Me (Episode 141)
Sexual Confidence (Episode 225)
Let’s Talk About Sexting, Baby! (Episode 142)
The Female Cycle & Pleasure (Episode 138)
Clinical Psychologist Answers YOUR Questions! With Dr. Josh Kruse (Episode 135)
Post Sex Clean Up… How?? (Episode 123)
Ultimate Newlywed Guide
Pain Free Intimacy: Use the code KS5 to get 5% off!
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You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now!
Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online (You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!)
Unite & Ignite membership
KS Shop
180: Pregnancy and Postpartum Q&A
She Comes First
Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! (Oralicious was mentioned in this episode)
Covenant Spice
Passionista
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What does being a sexually confident Christian look like? And HOW do you become one?? Tune in now to hear the KS team chat about it!
Links from today’s episode:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
KS Shop
Intimately Us app
Heated Mattress Pad
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In a bit of a sexual slump? Not sure how to navigate it? We've all been there. Tune in as the KS team gives some practical tips for getting out of the slump and into the hump!
Links from today’s episode:
30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook
30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook
Better Help
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Tune in to hear the KS team tackle some big questions around selflessness- questions like: What does selflessness actually look like in the bedroom? How do I bring up the need for more selflessness without offending my spouse? and I’m already exhausted—how can I be selfless when I have nothing left to give?
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Keeping Score Episode
Intimacy with Small Kids episode
Resetting Your Mindset episode
Awaken Love book
Intimately Us App
The Flirtation Experiment book
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How do God and sex mesh?! How can incorporating the Lord into EVERY area of our life actually make any difference? Tune in as Tiera and Alana chat about how God didn't design sex on accident and give you practical tips that will change your intimate life!
Links from today’s episode:
That Sounds Fun Network Website
Awaken Love
30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook
30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook
KS Shop
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Is your sex life moving forward or backwards? Maybe it's time to go back to the basics! Tune in as the KS team shares some VERY exciting news at the beginning of this episode and tackles the fundamentals of a healthy sex life.
Shout out to our incredible Patron's for choosing today's episode!
Links from today’s episode:
That Sounds Fun Network Website
My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you sign up using our link!)
Episode 189 with Josh Spurlock (Founder of My Counselor Online)
Episode 192 with Josh Spurlock
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
KS Shop
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It's time to get back to the basics as the KS team dives into The Sex Fundamentals! We'll be covering so many great topics- the taboo ones, the curious ones, and the ones no one will talk about. Join us as we cover things like sexual confidence, how the topic of God and sex mesh, getting out of slumps, and more! Welcome to the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
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Curious how Kingdom Sexuality began? What about their stories brought the team together? And what does the future hold? Listen to the end to hear some exciting news!
Links from today’s episode:
Blog post about KS boundaries
KS Shop
Starting Life Together Guide
Unite & Ignite
Episode 206 with Dr. Dave Currie
Kyle’s Sextimony
My Husband Was Addicted To Porn part 1
The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me part 2
That Sounds Fun Network Website
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Don't miss our first Q&A of the New Year! It started out as a "throwback" Q&A with Kyle and Alana then Tiera joined in part-way through! The team answers questions like "How do I serve my husband when my desire is low?" and "How often should couples be having sex each week?"- you won't want to miss it!
Links from today’s episode:
Interview with Josh Spurlock
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Better Help Counseling
Engagement Guide
Wedding Night Guide
Newlywed Guide
Starting Life Together Bundle
Awaken Love Book
180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A!
Question Time Stamps:
2:20- What are your thoughts on “adult-only” resorts?
3:55- How often should you have sex in marriage?
5:25- How to keep the spark alive when engaged and long distance?
6:18- A good first episode to introduce my spouse to the podcast?
7:50- How to get over my nerves initiating with my spouse?
9:50- What advice would you give newlyweds 6 months into marriage?
13:00- How to serve my husband when my desire is low?
18:00- About to get married and don’t know much about sex- any tips?
21:00- Is it okay to want to have sex where the risk of getting caught is very high? (In public)
22:58- How to reignite the intimate life post-baby?
26:12- How much time do you spend on KS each week?
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