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  • In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delivers a powerful message on embracing failure as a catalyst for growth. Drawing from personal experiences, he outlines six actionable strategies to learn from setbacks, including avoiding complacency, focusing on controllables, and forgiving oneself. Michler emphasizes resilience and personal responsibility, urging listeners to let go of past mistakes and build a better future. His candid, motivational approach inspires men to confront challenges head-on and transform adversity into opportunity.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:00 - Introduction: The Inevitability of Failure
    02:53 - Six Strategies to Learn from Failure
    05:13 - Complacency Kills
    07:33 - Externalities Are Rarely the Problem
    11:47 - Build New, Let Go of the Old
    15:16 - Do Not Grow Bitter or Label
    19:27 - Forgive Yourself
    27:04 - Focus on the Controllables
    28:52 - Closing: Transform Challenges into Growth

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  • In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson tackle tough, real-world questions from men facing divorce, personal setbacks, and disconnection at home. They dive into how optics impact execution, how to master emotional resilience through stress, and why ego can sabotage your growth.

    From powerful mindset shifts to tactical advice for navigating separation and fatherhood, this episode is packed with hard truths and uplifting insights. Whether you’re healing, leading, or rebuilding—this one hits home.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:00 – Technical Troubles and Weekend Recap
    05:45 – Viewer Questions Begin
    06:02 – What to Do When Divorce Hits
    10:07 – Reconnecting Without Shared Interests
    15:09 – Rebuilding After a Breakup
    21:45 – Divorce Logistics and Legal Readiness
    27:59 – How to Apologize to Your Kids
    32:23 – Blessings Hidden in Disappointment
    44:58 – Would You Want Your Son to Live Your Life?
    52:07 – Hierarchical Decision-Making
    52:34 – Optics vs. Execution Debate
    59:00 – The Brain’s Argument With Itself
    01:02:24 – Optics as a Sign of Respect
    01:04:50 – Final Thoughts and Hope Through Hard Times

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  • It can be challenging to be faithful towards your goals and objectives in the seemingly endless supply of trials and adversity. Whether you’re dealing with a crippling financial situation, devastating divorce, or something like my guest today, Hal Elrod, dealt with, a life-threatening cancer diagnosis.

    In spite of all that, and more, you have responsibilities to take care of and duties to fulfill. So, how do you do it? Today, Hal and I talk about being realistic in your pursuits by balancing the line between probable and possible, what is a true miracle and how to create more of them in your life, the powerful connection between mind and body (and, how to use it), and using affirmations in a way that works.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 — Reconnecting After Nearly a Decade
    00:45 — Hal’s Cancer Diagnosis and Immediate Challenges
    03:35 — Fear of Death vs. Fear for Family
    06:14 — The Miracle Equation: Unwavering Faith and Extraordinary Effort
    08:17 — Preparing for Death While Fighting to Live
    13:08 — The Role of Affirmations in Healing
    14:20 — Beating Cancer: Mindset vs. Reality
    18:35 — The Mind-Body Connection and Healing Miracles
    21:28 — Dr. Bernie Siegel’s Insights on Cancer Survival
    23:20 — Choosing Hope Over Despair
    24:51 — Fear of Failure and Others' Opinions
    27:11 — Defining and Creating "Miracles"
    30:09 — Faith Without Works Is Dead
    31:25 — The Origin of the Miracle Equation
    36:44 — The Sales Miracle: A $20,000 Breakthrough
    39:42 — When Other People Influence Your Outcomes
    41:29 — Overcoming Major Setbacks with the "Until" Mindset
    44:53 — Adjusting Goals Without Losing Faith
    45:51 — Michael Jordan and Unwavering Faith in Action
    48:13 — Is It Faith or Delusion?
    51:08 — What's Next After The Miracle Morning?
    55:09 — Hal’s Next Project: Mastering Action and Inner Peace
    57:38 — Where to Find Hal Elrod’s Work

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  • Ryan Michler shares seven essential mindsets for effective money management in this episode of Friday Field Notes. Aimed at men striving to protect, provide, and preside, Michler emphasizes money as a tool and metric of value, urging listeners to overcome emotional pitfalls and societal misconceptions. He outlines a strategic approach—fortify, neutralize, attack—and stresses the importance of professional support. With practical wisdom, Michler empowers men to master their finances and fulfill their potential. Tune in to rethink money and elevate your financial game.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:00 - Episode Introduction
    00:37 - Money as a Metric of Value
    02:57 - The Duty to Earn
    07:45 - Money as a Tool
    10:09 - Eliminating Emotions
    15:00 - No Room for Amateurs
    19:45 - Fortify, Neutralize, Attack
    27:03 - Knowing Your Role

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  • Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this week's Ask Me Anything, exploring the pursuit of pleasure versus the pleasure of pursuit, the cultural shift of young men toward the right, and the power of solitude. They tackle listener questions on imposter syndrome, fatherhood, divorce, dating, financial decisions, and personal growth. With humor and insight, they debunk overhyped headlines, like the "astronaut" space crew, and share actionable advice for living purposefully.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:00 - Opening Banter and Headlines
    01:25 - The Pleasure of Pursuit
    06:30 - Space Crew Rant
    13:06 - Imposter Syndrome in Job Interviews
    20:42 - Lessons from Kids
    24:06 - Patience as a Father
    28:40 - Why Women Leave Relationships
    37:43 - Dating After Divorce
    44:36 - Making Financial Decisions
    48:08 - Lessons from Hard Times
    53:59 - Young Men Moving Right Politically
    59:26 - Call to Action

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  • It’s no secret that most men want to find love in life and someone they can partner with throughout life. But the reality is that far-fewer men are doing the work required than ever before. And, for those who are actively looking for love, many of them are floundering when it comes to approaching women and building interest that could potentially lead to a long-term relationship.

    David Meessen is a man who has made it his life’s work to help men understand why they struggle and why society, at large, seems to be continually stacking the deck against the type of relationships the men listening to this podcast are looking for. Today we talk about why men seem to be so intimidated in approaching women, the skills (and, they are learnable skills) you can develop to have a more successful dating life, why “Progressive Desensitization” is such a valuable option in love and in life, the alarming statistics around romantic relationships and young men’s increasing aversion to them, and how radical honestly (not overly-agreeableness) is what creates attraction.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 – Opening & Dating Stats Alarming for Men
    01:34 – The Harsh Reality of Dating Apps
    03:09 – How Dating Apps Work Against Most Men
    04:27 – Learning to Play the Dating Game
    05:26 – Sacrificing Values for Connection
    06:37 – Approach Anxiety and Desensitization
    08:51 – Start Small: Building Momentum Through Socializing
    10:01 – Rejection is Often Kind – and Necessary
    11:23 – Don’t Pedestalize Her – Have Options
    12:46 – We Live in a Friendly or Hostile Universe
    14:16 – Oversharing as a Powerful Connection Tool
    15:21 – Men Struggle to Share Their Strengths
    16:29 – Assume the Burden of the Conversation
    17:51 – Bitterness Towards Women & Scarcity Mindset
    19:58 – Reality is Better Than Fear-Based Fantasies
    22:13 – You Crave the Experience, Not the Person
    23:31 – Compatibility vs. Chemistry
    25:16 – Communication is a Learnable Skill
    26:29 – Influence vs. Manipulation
    30:54 – Authenticity in Style & Presence
    32:34 – Confidence is Just as Authentic as Humility
    33:10 – Radical Honesty and Sharing Values Early
    35:42 – Relationships Built on Aligned Values
    37:27 – Disagreement is Attractive
    39:33 – Common Mistakes in Online & Real-Life Dating
    41:39 – Learn Humor to Boost Social Skills
    43:03 – Don’t Skip the Ask – Get the Contact
    44:59 – Women Get Approached Less Than You Think
    46:11 – How to Approach in the Gym the Right Way
    47:52 – Meeting Quality Men Matters Too
    49:03 – Why Intelligent Men Struggle with Connection
    52:15 – Expression Freedom & Compatibility
    53:22 – Choose to See the Best in Each Other
    54:26 – Final Thoughts & Where to Find David

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  • In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of self-betrayal, defining it as failing to act on known responsibilities or instincts. He discusses its consequences, including anxiety, poor relationships, and unfulfilled potential, and identifies emotional signs like frustration and impatience. Ryan provides actionable steps to overcome self-betrayal, such as listing neglected tasks, taking immediate action, and journaling emotions.

    Encouraging listeners to align actions with their values, he offers resources at orderofman.com. Tune in to learn how to bridge the integrity gap and live a more fulfilled life.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 - Introduction to Self-Betrayal

    02:55 - Sources of Intuition and Emotion

    05:19 - Consequences of Self-Betrayal

    07:44 - Recognizing Self-Betrayal Symptoms

    12:30 - External vs. Internal Factors

    19:25 - Actionable Steps to Overcome Self-Betrayal

    26:05 - Journaling and Reflecting

    28:30 - Additional Resources and Closing

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  • Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, trust, and balance. From auditing life’s decisions to rebuilding trust with kids, they dive into coachability, journaling, and managing overwork.

    Ryan shares insights from his Texas hunting trip and mentions The Men's Forge event (May 1-4). Expect raw reflections on letting go, choosing yourself, and earning trust, with practical advice for intentional living.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:00 - Episode Introduction
    00:20 - Morning Routine Struggles
    03:41 - Auditing Life’s Decisions
    15:45 - One Principle for Your Son
    20:42 - Prioritizing Self vs. Promises
    25:33 - Books That Shape You
    37:18 - Why Start Journaling
    42:06 - Signs of Overworking
    47:36 - Rebuilding Trust with Kids
    55:03 - Texas Hunting Trip Recap
    59:14 - The Men's Forge Event Promo

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  • It’s hard to believe that in the year 2025, child sex trafficking is as prolific as it is today. How is that with all the laws, legislation, and awareness that we’re still dealing with the torment of sexual exploitation with our sons and daughters?

    My guest today, Nate Lewis, has made it his life’s work to combat and overcoming the epidemic that is plaguing every corner of society. And, not only that, he is a huge proponent of finding your own mission and pouring all in on that – whatever it may be. Today, Nate and I talk about the driving factors behind child exploitation, why YOU should address the societal injustices you see in society today, the power of coachability and gritty-ness in your pursuit of your dreams, and why and how to protect yourself, society, and children from the nastiness and perversion of modern culture.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00:00 - Introduction
    00:00:20 - Welcoming Nate Lewis
    00:00:36 - The Reality of Child Trafficking
    00:01:46 - Protecting Boys and Girls
    00:02:49 - Impact of Pornography
    00:08:40 - Operation Underground Railroad
    00:09:38 - Nate’s Background in Film
    00:10:35 - First Deployment Experience
    00:13:37 - Stories of Resilience
    00:15:59 - Family and Mission Balance
    00:18:31 - The Innocent Logo Origin
    00:24:32 - Purpose Through Adversity
    00:31:23 - Advice for Pursuing Purpose
    00:37:44 - Work Ethic and Grit
    00:43:14 - Community Involvement Strategies
    00:50:46 - Law Enforcement Priorities
    00:57:11 - Confronting Ignorance
    01:04:13 - How to Support The Innocent
    01:12:08 - Closing Thoughts

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  • In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler draws inspiration from Theodore Roosevelt’s iconic speech to explore resilience and masculinity. Michler challenges men to rise above criticism, embrace adversity, and take action despite life’s inevitable setbacks. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, he outlines steps to build confidence, act decisively, and critique oneself constructively without losing identity.

    Ryan emphasizes that true manhood shines in moments of struggle, urging listeners to live boldly as the "man in the arena." Tune in for an inspiring call to courage and purposeful action.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:10.082 - Introduction to Man in the Arena
    02:02.508 - Reading the Man in the Arena Excerpt
    04:28.674 - Preparing for Life’s Battles
    06:51.744 - Stop Seeking Approval
    11:10.03 - The Confidence Continuum
    13:30.466 - Do What You Can
    17:50.552 - Action as the Antidote
    20:14.158 - Critique Without Self-Destruction
    22:13.102 - Take More Action
    26:42.7 - Closing and Battle Ready Program

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  • In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos tackle your burning questions with raw, actionable insights. From investing $10K wisely to navigating trivial work tasks, coaching U13 soccer teams, and guiding high-performing teens, they cover it all. Plus, hear candid advice on silencing self-criticism and handling toxic colleagues.

    Packed with life lessons on leadership, choice, and growth, this episode delivers real talk for real challenges. Tune in for wisdom that cuts through the noise—perfect for anyone ready to level up in work, family, and beyond.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:03 - Intro Banter
    03:02 - Investing $10K Smartly
    10:26 - Escaping the Trivial Whirlwind
    24:18 - Leading a U13 Soccer Team
    36:41 - Guiding Teenage Sons
    46:21 - Overcoming Self-Criticism
    58:30 - Dealing with Toxic Colleagues
    01:12:53 - Closing Thoughts

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  • We are all well-aware, at this point, that there is a very clear and deliberate assault against the concepts of manliness and masculinity. In fact, men are falling behind on some of the most crucial metrics you can image for a healthy society: depression rates, suicide, higher education, income potential, incarceration, substance abuse, committed relationships, workforce participation, and the list goes on and on.

    My guest today, after an incredibly successful start in Hollywood as Mike Seaver on Growing Pains, Kirk Cameron, has made it his life’s mission to reclaim masculinity, not only in his home but to become a champion of manliness for all men who are working to unpack what it means to be a man.

    Today, we talk about the biggest threats to masculinity, how we can lead well within the walls of our home, how righteousness and truth are the foundation of manliness, how to reclaim our power, work with our women, and lead the next generation who will eventually lead us.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    (00:12) Introduction
    (00:12) Reclaiming Masculinity
    (03:50) Defining True Masculinity Today
    (11:18) Embracing Authentic Masculinity Today
    (21:23) Building Emotional Security in Relationships
    (29:28) Redefining Masculinity for Today's World
    (41:57) Legacy of Courage and Parenthood
    (54:20) The Power of Moral Compass
    (01:05:12) Igniting Imagination
    (01:10:34) Discovering True Masculinity Today

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  • In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores what it means to be a comprehensive man, introducing a framework of head, heart, and hands—logic, empathy, and action. Reflecting on his own tendencies and biases, Ryan challenges listeners to identify their strengths and weaknesses across these dimensions.

    Through personal anecdotes, including a friend’s loss and a poignant Iron Council call, he emphasizes the need for balance to lead effectively in family, business, and community. Ryan invites feedback as he refines this model, urging men to round out their approach to become who they’re meant to be.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:30 - Introducing the Comprehensive Man 02:54 - Head, Heart, and Hands Framework 05:13 - Strengths and Weaknesses of Each Type 07:22 - Adapting to the Moment 09:33 - Pros and Cons of Each Dimension 11:58 - Reflecting for Growth 14:27 - Leading with Purpose 16:28 - Call to Action

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  • In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a viral morning routine video before tackling listener questions. From the power of comparison and faith in men’s ministries to essentialism in daily tasks and building friendships, they offer practical insights. Ryan shares his half-marathon experience, while Kipp celebrates his son’s jujitsu win. Expect raw, actionable advice on choosing battles, seeking guidance, and property investment, all laced with humor and real talk. Tune in for inspiration and strategies to level up your life.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:04 - Intro and Morning Struggles 01:10 - Headline: Viral Morning Routine 01:19 - Kipp’s Son’s Jujitsu Triumph 03:17 - Ryan’s Half-Marathon Journey 09:34 - Comparison: Thief or Tool? 13:02 - Faith and Men’s Ministry 22:39 - Mastering Essentialism 32:28 - Asking for Guidance Right 46:26 - Property in Apple Valley 49:00 - Choosing Your Battles 54:29 - Forging Male Friendships 58:36 - Wrap-Up and Upcoming Guests

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  • My guest today, Scott Payne, spent more than two decades working with some of the most notorious biker gangs, illegal drug operations, and neo-Nazis. And, it would be hard to even imagine some of the things he’s seen and experienced in his decades-long career as an FBI Special Agent.

    Today, Scott and I talk about what it takes to be a successful undercover agent, the lines that get blurred when working with some of the most dangerous criminals in the world, how to keep your cool under pressure (including the time a notorious biker gang stripped him in a basement to search him for the wire he was wearing at the time), and how a man transitions back into his ordinary life after one of the most dangerous jobs he could do.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:52 - Undercover Beginnings 02:25 - First Drug Buy 04:37 - Dark Humor Coping 06:32 - No Honor Among Thieves 15:06 - Infiltrating Neo-Nazis 26:07 - Blurring the Lines 35:31 - Illegal Activity Question 41:08 - Drug Protection Deal 47:59 - Basement Strip Search 01:00:55 - Wife’s Prayer 01:08:34 - Missing the Field 01:12:51 - Book Announcement

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  • In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the provocative idea of "making yourself a more dangerous man." Far from advocating volatility, Michler redefines danger as effectiveness—knowing your goals, communicating with precision, and embodying conviction. Through personal anecdotes and actionable insights, he challenges men to reject wishy-washiness, embrace deliberate presentation, and overcome imposter syndrome by simply doing the work.

    With a blend of tough love and humility, Michler inspires listeners to step boldly into their potential. Tune in for a raw, motivating call to action, and discover how to join the Iron Council at orderofman.com/ironcouncil.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:24 - Introduction: Defining a Dangerous Man 02:45 - Knowing Your Target 05:09 - Clarity Through Journaling 07:09 - Mastering Communication 11:03 - Looking the Part 15:42 - Judging by Appearance 17:47 - Being the Part 21:01 - Stepping Into the Unknown 23:27 - Building Humble Conviction 28:57 - The X Factor Equation 31:20 - Closing: Join the Iron Council

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  • In this AMA episode, Shawn and Kipp tackle thought-provoking questions from listeners on personal growth, leadership, and mindset. They discuss teaching kids about success without overwhelming pressure, the role of humor in strong leadership, and the power of service.

    They also address workplace challenges, helping introverts engage, and balancing social life with family responsibilities. Tune in for deep insights, practical advice, and candid conversations on becoming a better leader, father, and man.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Catch-up
    02:08 – Teaching Kids About Personal Growth and Fulfillment
    18:16 – The Role of Humor in Leadership and Family Life
    23:51 – Voluntary Sacrifice and Service for the Greater Good
    31:35 – Handling Workplace Conflict and Leadership Challenges
    40:02 – Encouraging an Introvert to Engage with a Group
    46:49 – Rebuilding a Social Circle While Managing Family Life
    50:54 – Iron Council & Men’s Forge Event Promotion
    52:22 – Closing Thoughts & How to Connect

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  • We’re all somewhat familiar with our three-letter agencies but rarely, if ever, do we consider what some of the most intelligent people on the planet can teach us about communication, influence, and deception.
    But my guest is keenly aware of all three and how to implement powerful strategies to build trust, develop credibility, and get people to do what you want. His name is Jeffrey Sanow and he spent years as a Senior Intelligence Office with the CIA. Today, we talk about what the CIA looks for in its officers and assets, how to empower people to fail the right way, removing barriers to communication, the balance between compliance and rebelliousness, and the hard and soft skills of getting people to follow you.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 – The Importance of Communication Skills
    02:00 – Why We Struggle with Listening
    05:20 – The “Reloader” Problem in Conversations
    09:15 – How to Interrupt Effectively in a Conversation
    12:30 – The Role of Ego in Active Listening
    18:00 – Lessons from CIA Training on Communication
    21:40 – What It’s Like to Be a CIA Operations Officer
    27:45 – Leadership Lessons from Intelligence Work
    32:30 – Why Writing Skills Are Critical in Any Career
    39:00 – Encouraging Innovation and Thinking Outside the Box
    44:20 – How Intelligence Officers Recruit Spies
    50:10 – The Psychology Behind Why People Share Secrets
    56:30 – Applying CIA-Level Awareness to Everyday Life
    1:00:45 – Jeffrey’s Book and Global Experiences

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  • In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the vital role brotherhood plays in men’s lives. Drawing from personal struggles like divorce and alcohol abuse, he highlights five key benefits—belonging, usefulness, insight, support, and accountability—and warns of the isolation plaguing modern men.

    Ryan emphasizes how authentic male connections combat loneliness and foster growth, sharing candid stories and practical wisdom. He also introduces the Iron Council, his brotherhood initiative, inviting listeners to join. This discussion inspires men to build meaningful bonds and reclaim purpose.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:07 - Introduction to Brotherhood 02:34 - The Cost of Isolation 07:27 - Benefit 1: Belonging 12:23 - Benefit 2: Usefulness 18:16 - Benefit 3: Insight 21:38 - Benefit 4: Support 27:42 - Benefit 5: Accountability 36:58 - Invitation to Iron Council 39:56 - Closing Call to Action

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  • In this episode of the Ask Me Anything series, Ryan and Kipp discuss the importance of consistency, overcoming personal struggles, and maintaining balance in life. They answer viewer questions on topics such as handling grief, setting boundaries with family, staying disciplined during busy seasons, and dealing with an unruly dog. They also share insights on how small, consistent actions lead to lasting change. Whether you’re looking for practical advice or motivation, this episode has something for you.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

    00:00 – Introduction 02:45 – Reflecting on 10 years of Order of Man 09:25 – How to rest and enjoy without feeling guilty 19:32 – Dealing with grief and overcoming divorce 32:31 – Strategies to stay focused during busy seasons 42:24 – What books Ryan and Kipp are reading right now 55:35 – Talking to kids about drugs and addiction 60:11 – Setting boundaries with parents 01:07:54 – How to break tough news about a pet to a child

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