Episodes
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We're doing something completely different this week, we're talking about our mess in full detail. Walk with us through this fun transition (we're not breaking up) and a ton of tangents, of course.
Thanks for listening!
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Happy Tuesday, Mess Hall! We're deep into listener's this question after giving you some insight into the adventure that Ify's car went on while we were in London.
We're hopping in these topics:
Email: Are ~equipment~ preferences okay?Email: How to stay close friends with people who just started dating?Thanks for the questions and thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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We thought it was Monday, so that's why you're getting it late this week! We don't even need to go to Reddit this episode, because so many listener questions came in! So listen in as we discuss getting back out on the dating scene, feeling like you can do more to support your partner, and what it might look like when you don't. Thanks to everyone who submitted a question!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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Another listener question!!! Thank you to anon and I hope we helped you out. We also spend another episode kicking it off with a long discussion about OUR deal. We still got some mess for y'all tho!
I'm (m22) pretty sure my friend (m22) and my mom (f51) hooked up. What should I do now?I (27F) had a threesome with a couple (29M and 29F) and we all loved it, what now?Yep! We talked so much we only had time for two questions!
Thanks for listening!
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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We're kicking this late episode off with a long talk about Magic: the Gathering and parenting! So, buckle up for that! Then we have our first listener question read anonymously! This is what else we tackle:
Every time my wife (43f) gets home after a few days away, leaving me (42m) to look after the kids, she has a go at me. Why?My 30M coworker 50F keeps commenting on my eating habits and saying I love food. How should I approach her to tell her to stop?My vegan partner (24m) doesnāt want me (24f) cooking pork/beef when heās home. What do i do?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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We're back with some more fun! I explain where I was and what I was up to, don't worry! Today we're hopping into these:
My (18F) Mom (50F) is suddenly obsessed with my hygiene because I "don't take long enough to pee." Help?!How do I (F27) handle a demanding friend (F27) who ignores boundaries?I 23F have a 22M boyfriend with a problematic fetish, any advice?My mother F 70 cheated on my dad M 72 years ago with a married man- now heās back in the picture?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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Siena East joins up as we stumble through more mania!
What do I (33f) say to my suddenly Conspiracy Theorist boyfriend (40m)My GF's (28F) parents think I (28M) peed the bed, but it was her squirt. What should I do?70M 60F been together for two months (Trigger warning Old People having sex ) advice needed??I (20F) am potentially getting a US green card and I do not know how to tell my bf (21M)?Socials: @sienaeast @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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Better late than never, right? We're coming in hot a day late with another great episode with our good friend Demi Adejuigbe who is coming in with some good advice and some illegal advice. We're jumping into these questions today!
I saw (f32) tinder bank charge on husbandās (m39) bank statement. Not sure what to believe?My (21f) boyfriend (20m) is somewhat friends with my ex-friend (23f) who is a homewrecker. Should I leave it alone?My (23F) boyfriend (24M) wants me to āstop having my period.ā Can I even recover from this?My (28F) husband (33M) has been babied by his mother all his life and now its ruining our marriage, what can I do?Socials:
Demis is at @electrolemon on IG and Twitter, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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On todays episode it gets wild and spicy as Ify has a bone to pick with some of these posters. Annoying people dealing with annoying people, potentially outing your husband because you snooped, and familial beef all go off in these week's episode!
Here's what we're getting into:
How do I (F23) shut down being friendly with a guy friend (M22) without insulting him?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtb0su/how_do_i_f23_shut_down_being_friendly_with_a_guy/
I (F29) found gay porn on my husbandās (M30) phone, I need advice on what to do now?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt9nir/i_f29_found_gay_porn_on_my_husbands_m30_phone_i/
What can I (27 F) do to get over a family grudge regarding my boyfriendās (29 M) family member?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt6o5h/what_can_i_27_f_do_to_get_over_a_family_grudge/
My [24F] boyfriend [25M] told me that snacking on mozzarella cheese balls might be a dealbreaker, what should I do?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtaegt/my_24f_boyfriend_25m_told_me_that_snacking_on/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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Just Ify and Emmy on this one and this feels like another classic! A 19 year old man wonders if he should be spending less time in Applebees and more time in some DMs, another person deep in a relationship finally decides to speak up about not wanting kids, and a freaky zaddy is leaving one poster feeling used! Listen in for our takes on these and what tangents we go one. Spoiler alert: we take a very long detour to talk about a time Naomi wanted to make a lava lamp instead of going ice skating.
I (19M) feel like my friends (20M, 22M, and 23M) are holding me back, are they?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl7ckj/i_19m_feel_like_my_friends_20m_22m_and_23m_are/
How do I, F30 start the conversation with my fiancƩ, M33 that I don't want kids knowing that he wants them?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl5uvy/how_do_i_f30_start_the_conversation_with_my/
How can I tell if a 51M I am dating (47F) is addicted to porn or sex? š
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl8eko/how_can_i_tell_if_a_51m_i_am_dating_47f_is/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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This week our friend BJ Colangelo dropped in to drop some banger takes. We really have some fun with this one. Stinky boyfriends, annoying parents, and weird viral hits. Here's what we jumped into:
I (31m) just found out my partner (29f) went viral for something in 2020 but she won't tell me why, should I try find out?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dh5aab/i_31m_just_found_out_my_partner_29f_went_viral/
Why am I (24F) so agrivated by my mom (54F)
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhhbd3/why_am_i_24f_so_agrivated_by_my_mom_54f/
Please tell me if I, 31f (pregnant), am over reacting to my boyfriends 33m, auntās texting behavior??
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhh3lg/please_tell_me_if_i_31f_pregnant_am_over_reacting/
My (F20) bf (M22) of 2 yearsā smell is becoming unbearableā¦ what do I do?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhgyvg/my_f20_bf_m22_of_2_years_smell_is_becoming/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
BJ is @bjcolangelo
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Jarvis Johnson joins us on today's episode to talk through girlfriends who don't want you looking at ANYONE, mouthy boyfriends, and anti-friend couple behavior. This week we're jumping into these threads:
My (19M) girlfriend (22F) made me walk out of the circus last night because of the female dancers; What should I do?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d8oc7p/my_19m_girlfriend_22f_made_me_walk_out_of_the/
My boyfriend 36M admitted he thinks my sister 27F is prettier than me 29F. How do I overcome his comment?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d8vyo3/my_boyfriend_36m_admitted_he_thinks_my_sister_27f/
My SO (M31) and I (F30) have no interest in being the "friend couple", how to help my friend understand?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d9fp9y/my_so_m31_and_i_f30_have_no_interest_in_being_the/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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The second end of that "mega-sode" we talked about on this week's Candy Dinner. Matt Apodcaca sits down to discuss his own high school lore, not lasting long enough, and hyperbole. Good discussions are had and we get deep! Here's what we're jumping into this week:
How long do I (28f) stay with my bf (29m) if he constantly cums quick and I never do?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5i1jd/how_long_do_i_28f_stay_with_my_bf_29m_if_he/
My 34F wife has been messaging her friends husband about having a 3 way sexual relationship with his wife. How should I approach this?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5nqg1/my_34f_wife_has_been_messaging_her_friends/
I (23M) Said my partner (20NB) "becomes some sort of demon" during an argument away recently had, now I feel terrible about it and just need advice, what can i do to make things right?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5spsc/i_23m_said_my_partner_20nb_becomes_some_sort_of/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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We have guests again!!! Emmy and Ify are joined by Alison Haslip as they sit down and discuss all the hits. Potentially weird fantasies, infidelity, and people buying drinks for your hot wife.
I (27F) am one of twins, and just discovered that my BF (31M) enjoys watching videos of twins on adult websites. What steps do I need to take here?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwdk4x/i_27f_am_one_of_twins_and_just_discovered_that_my/
Iām a 38M who recently divorced a 36F. During the divorce process, she had an affair with a married man in his 40s. My question is: should I inform said married manās wife about their affair, or should I just leave it and let karma take its course?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwzjxe/im_a_38m_who_recently_divorced_a_36f_during_the/
Men buy my (28m) wife (28f) drinks?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cxczc7/men_buy_my_28m_wife_28f_drinks/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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We are late, but are we?
Today we're jumping into:
My (24F) dad (62M) is currently going out with a girl younger than I am (23F). I have no idea how to deal with this situation - what can I do?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwfe1k/my_24f_dad_62m_is_currently_going_out_with_a_girl/
Caught my bf (31M) in a bizarre situation and I (27F) don't know if and how to talk about it?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwkdre/caught_my_bf_31m_in_a_bizarre_situation_and_i_27f/
How do I (M45) change the power dynamic with my wife (F45) after being married 20+ years?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cvokk9/how_do_i_m45_change_the_power_dynamic_with_my/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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More chaos from the subreddit this week! We take a second up top to discuss hard conversations and talking about relationship needs no matter the type of relationship you're in, then we got more sex questions, some gamer behavior, and a question that reminded me of that episode of Full House where she fell off that horse. (ISN'T IT IRONIC!? SHOUT OUT TO ALANIS!)
We're hopping in these threads:
My boyfriend (34M) and I (F30) have very different views on sex. It's starting to press on me and I want advice on how other couples naviguate with this?My (M23) incredibly sweet partner (NB22) has severe video game anger issues. What can I do to help them?My (20M) girlfriend (21F) lost her memory and turned into a whole different person and it's putting a bit of strain on my end of our relationship. How can I fix this?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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A sandwich of fun episodes and some good conversations. We have some discussion of back door activities, a roller coaster of a story, some issue dealing with depression and anxiety, and people ducking visits to down town. We got into it and really dove into our freaky selves.
We're hopping in these threads:
My (38M) wife (40F) gives me mixed signals when it comes to anal. What is the best way to approach it?My (32F) boyfriend (35M) of six years disappeared while I was out of town and I don't know what to do?My wife (29F) is killing our marriage and I'm (29M) at a total loss of what is left to do. Is there any hope?I've (F24) never met a man who wants to "eat me out." Current partner (M23) has some issues, how can we resolve this?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily
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This week we dive into our stuff a bunch, which kinda makes the "enough of our mess" part funny to say, but you better believe when we jump into the internet's mess it get's wild! Fist ball or life type beat, keeping up with the Jessica's, and male insecurity are all on display this week!
We're hopping in these threads:
My (37f) husband (36m), put martial arts training ahead of helping me get emergency medical treatment and I'm not sure how to react?My (28M) gf (26F) is having a mental breakdown because her friend is getting marriedIs this a sign of controlling & unhealthy insecurity? My 34m boyfriend of 5 months got upset & said Iām (34f) a bad person for having old magnum condoms in my personal toiletry drawer (from before him). He tells me Iām āflauntingā that I was with well endowed men before dating himSocials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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This week is a peek into madness because the subreddit was POPPIN'! Dead bedrooms, child choices, boyfriends that should be arrested, and cousin on cousin fighting!
Wife never wants to have sex. Tried everything but Im fed up with the answer of ādo things her wayā. When do my needs come first? 37m 33f. Married 7 yearshttps://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5hnr2/wife_never_wants_to_have_sex_tried_everything_but/Leave my(31M) GF(32F) because we can't agree on having children?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5ep9o/leave_my31m_gf32f_because_we_cant_agree_on_having/My boyfriend baby trapped me?25f 27mhttps://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5duhj/my_boyfriend_baby_trapped_me25f_27m/My childhood best friend (30F) ended up marrying the guy I fell in love with (30M). I don't want to be around either of them ever again, they are calling me immature, do you think I'm being unfair?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c4p3bq/my_childhood_best_friend_30f_ended_up_marrying/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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This week opens with a deep conversation about our actualy relationship and communication styles. Then we dive into this mess:
[UPDATE] I (31F) booked a trip with my two friends (31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that theyāve been dating for months. Now Iām expected to third wheel this trip and donāt know what to do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bylg7u/update_i_31f_booked_a_trip_with_my_two_friends/
I [29M] have been dating my GF [37F] for 4 years - why don't I feel like I want to marry her yet?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzf190/i_29m_have_been_dating_my_gf_37f_for_4_years_why/
My (25M) husband is excited for me (26F) to come and clean his parents house. Should I file for divorce after my husband told me he was excited for me to visit so I can clean for him?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzij5n/my_25m_husband_is_excited_for_his_26f_to_come_and/
Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG
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