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“The number one factor or force that contributes to influence is time by quite a large margin. Whoever spends the most time with your child is going to have the most influence.” – Israel Wayne.
Israel and Brook Wayne are both homeschool graduates and homeschooling parents. They have eleven children ranging in age from 24 to 3. They are the founders of Family Renewal and co-writers of Pitchin' a Fit: Overcoming Angry and Stressed-Out Parenting.
During this episode, Israel and Brook share invaluable insights on influencing your child's life, managing parental anger, and instilling a biblical worldview. Israel provides practical tips on reclaiming time and managing media, while Brook offers heartwarming strategies to replace parental anger with positive reinforcement.
Key Themes:
Building influence through time: Israel kicks off the conversation by highlighting the importance of being the primary influence in your child's life. Time spent together is paramount. The data revealing that the average mother spends only an hour a day with her children—and fathers, a mere 29 minutes—serves as a wake-up call. Israel passionately advocates reclaiming time from other influences, like school and media, to foster stronger parental bonds.
Positive affirmation vs. anger: Brook shares personal stories about the pitfalls of using anger as a tool for parenting. Through her journey, she learns that anger does not produce the righteousness of God. Instead, she emphasizes the power of love, gentleness, and positive affirmation to guide kids towards godliness.
Managing media and screen time: With technology being a double-edged sword, Israel focuses on teaching children to be producers rather than passive consumers of media. Technology should be used to add value and contribute positively to the world, not just as a source of amusement.
Cultivating a biblical worldview: A robust biblical worldview is likened to wearing clear, scripture-tinted glasses. Israel emphasizes the need for parents to be proactive in shaping their children's perspectives through daily interactions and teaching based on God's Word.
“For the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” – Brook Wayne.
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Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode, Lori and Lee Ann tackle some of the most challenging questions kids might ask. From the reality of God to navigating conversations about sex and deciphering the Bible's authenticity, Lori and Lee Ann provide practical advice, valuable insights, and rich resources to help parents nurture a solid Christian foundation in their children.
Episode Highlights:
Handling Kids’ Doubts About God's Existence: Your child comes home questioning, “Is God real?” Lori and Lee Ann offer invaluable advice in addressing this with both younger and older children. They discuss how to explain the nature of God—His spiritual essence, the historical reality of Jesus, and using examples like the wind and gravity to convey the evidence of God’s presence.
Teaching the Importance of Sexual Purity: What do you say when your teenager asserts, “Sex between two people who love each other is okay”? Lori and Lee Ann address this hot-button issue by discussing God’s design for relationships, the spiritual significance of sex within marriage, and the importance of grace and redemption. They reflect on lessons from the purity movement and how to convey God’s high view of marriage without alienating your kids.
Combating Perceptions of the Bible as a Fairy Tale: How do you react if your child labels the Bible a fairy tale? Both ladies tackle this question by emphasizing the importance of apologetics, historical validity, and the unique nature of the Bible. They point to resources such as Answers in Genesis and the work of historians. They explore ways to engage your child in meaningful dialogue, reinforcing the Bible’s authenticity and relevance.
Key Takeaways:
Engage in open, honest conversations with your children. Ask questions to understand their doubts and guide them thoughtfully.
Equip yourself and your kids with resources to defend and deepen your faith. Books like Raising Kids to Follow Christ by Lee Ann Mancini offer practical applications for everyday parenting.
Recognize and address the pressures from society while providing a foundation of grace and truth in your family discussions.
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"Your actions may speak louder than words—let your love for Jesus be the loudest message your children hear." – Rhonda Stoppe.
Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!
During this episode, all three ladies dive into the concept of the parenting toolbox, sharing invaluable tools and cherished experiences that can strengthen your journey as a Christian parent.
Key Takeaways:
Rhonda’s toolbox- love God with all your being: Rhonda shares how the cornerstone of her parenting toolbox is to love God with every fiber of one's being. She reflects on how her personal journey to deepen her love for Christ—through daily scripture reading and fervent prayer—became the most impactful way to draw her children and grandchildren closer to Jesus. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of a genuine, fervent faith.
Michelle’s toolbox- authenticity and sincere faith: Michelle shares heartfelt narratives about her experiences as a grandma and step-grandma. She emphasizes that the greatest tool in any Christian parent's arsenal is authenticity. She recounts instances where her authentic faith spoke louder than words, teaching her grandchildren the essence of true Christian living. Her reflections on 2nd Timothy 1 highlight the enduring influence of a sincere, unmasked faith.
Oreo cookie and yes-no sandwich communication: Michelle unveils the Oreo cookie communication technique—an ingenious way to couch constructive criticism between layers of positive reinforcement. Meanwhile, Lee Ann introduces the yes-no sandwich, a method designed to assure children’s desires are acknowledged, even if they can't be immediately fulfilled. Both techniques aim to foster a nurturing and positive family environment.
Living simply and loving deeply: Rhonda captivates listeners with the story of her transition from a city dweller to life on a debt-free ranch. She describes the rustic charm and the significant sacrifices made to follow her husband's dream. This story exemplifies faith in God's provision and highlights the profound message of living simply and prioritizing what truly matters.
As the episode wraps up, the recurring theme is clear: raising strong Christian kids is about embodying Christ’s love, living out an authentic faith, and employing practical tools to nurture your children's spiritual growth. The discussion is saturated with encouragement and grace, offering hope and practical wisdom to every parent striving to lead their children on the path of righteousness.
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As an education freedom advocate, Sam’s mission is to help parents and their children emancipate from our modern school system. A successful Hollywood film actress, writer, and producer, Sam stepped back from her own career to immerse herself in the home education of her three young children for over a decade. Recognizing the brokenness of our institutional system led Sam to understand there is much more to education than academics. As a prolific author, podcast, radio host, international public speaker, and home education mentor, Sam is dedicated to teaching families how to educate differently.
During this episode, Sam shares invaluable advice for those considering homeschooling, exploring everything from making a flexible plan to understanding that children learn at their own pace. Comparing homeschooling to potty training, Sam reassures parents that they won't "break" their children by providing a customized education. Sam and Lee Ann dig deep into the evolution of homeschooling, critique the traditional school system's focus on creating dependency, and highlight home education's economic and social benefits.
Key Takeaways:
Public school myths: Sam argues that public schools are intentionally designed to control and standardize education rather than promote individual thought.
Real-life success: Many high-profile, successful individuals—often dropouts—testify to the pitfalls of traditional schooling.
Financial realities: Homeschooling can be cost-effective, and resources are more accessible now than ever.
Encouragement for future homeschoolers:
Dive into homeschooling with thorough exploration and keep an open mind.
Even if you opt for public schooling, get involved in school boards to positively influence the educational system.
So, you want to homeschool but are unsure where to start? -->
Connect with the Homeschooling Community: Engage with parents already on the homeschooling journey to gain valuable perspectives and support.
Flexible Planning: Create a structured plan for homeschooling, but remain adaptable if certain methods don’t work for your child's unique learning pace.
Overcoming Fears: Embrace the idea that children learn at their own speed, likened beautifully to the different timelines seen in potty training. Never fear you will "break" your child by following a paced, relaxed approach.
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How do you think having a mentor can impact your journey as a parent?
Candace is a dedicated follower of Jesus Christ, wife, and mother of three adult children. She is also a visionary women’s ministry leader, disciple maker, and experienced Bible study teacher with a strong understanding of women’s needs. In 2021, she founded MomQ, a Christian Mom Community based in Austin, TX. Their mission is to equip moms with biblical wisdom to build strong families and raise children of character.
During this episode, Candace discusses her amazing organization, MomQ, and how it can support moms all over the world.
Highlights of the episode:
Uncover the essence of this community-driven group that focuses on authentic conversations, biblical wisdom, and holistic support for moms. Learn about their unique approach encapsulated by the "Q" – which stands for quotient, enhancing moms’ spiritual and practical knowledge.
Support for the whole mom: Understand how MomQ differentiates itself by focusing on not just parenting but also supporting marriages, personal well-being, and self-care. Listen to Candice discuss why grounding a mom's identity in Christ is crucial for enriching every aspect of her life.
Real talk on relevant issues: From dealing with mom guilt and easing anxieties to understanding the purpose of parenting through Deuteronomy 6:4-7, Candice and Lee Ann delve into pressing challenges with a biblical lens. Get insights on mental health, resolving conflicts, and why God allows suffering.
Encouraging overwhelmed moms: Candice shares heartfelt advice for those swamped by life's demands. She points to powerful scriptures like Isaiah 43:1- 3 for comfort and emphasizes the importance of community, urging moms to join supportive groups and seek trusted mentors.
Exciting developments: Discover MomQ's fresh venture into video-based curriculum launching this fall, designed to support churches and broader Christian communities.
Lee Ann and Candice weave together personal experiences, biblical principles, and practical advice to fortify your parenting journey and deepen your faith. Tune in now to hear the full conversation, and don't miss Candice's encouraging words on prioritizing what matters in your family life!
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If you're a parent or mentor who's guiding young hearts towards Christ, you do not want to miss this episode! J. Warner Wallace is a Dateline featured Cold-Case Detective, Author, Speaker, Senior Fellow at the Colson Center for Christian Worldview, and Adjunct Professor of Apologetics at Talbot School of Theology (Biola University), Gateway Seminary and Southern Evangelical Seminary.During this episode, J. Warner discusses his groundbreaking new book, The Truth in True Crime. J. Warner’s unparalleled experience in true crime offers a unique perspective on human nature and the universal quest for the truth.Key Takeaways: Discovering the Hidden Truths: J. delves into how our children are often exposed to a culture that dismisses Christianity as outdated or even harmful. Learn how to equip your kids with the knowledge and resilience they need to stand firm in their faith amid an increasingly critical society. Unearthing Life Lessons from True Crime: He explores the compelling connection between his experiences as a detective and the fundamental principles of Christianity. His book Person of Interest talks about why Jesus still matters when the world rejects the Bible and includes 15 crime stories that show why Christianity describes us as humans the way we really are. Understanding the Importance of Marriage: Addressing a pivotal yet controversial topic, J. reveals the data-backed benefits of traditional marriage and its crucial role in human flourishing. This segment is particularly valuable for parents guiding teens and young adults toward making wise, intentional choices about their future spouses. Balancing Truth and Grace: One of the most challenging aspects of Christian parenting is teaching children to balance the fullness of truth and grace. He provides a powerful framework for fostering an environment where both justice and mercy thrive, echoing the perfect love of God. Engaging the Youth: J.’s book isn't just for parents; it's a must-read for teens and young adults too. With true crime emerging as a highly engaging genre, it's the perfect gateway to deeper conversations about theology, morality, and Christian living.🎧 Tune in to get a unique blend of true crime intrigue, practical life lessons, and Christian apologetics that will surely resonate with you and your teens.J. Warner’s Website & Facebook.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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Looking for a fresh, grounded approach to Christian parenting amidst the chaos of modern life?
Brenda L. Yoder is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, school counselor, speaker, and author of Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. She’s also authored Fledge: Launching Your Kids Without Losing Your Mind, Balance, Busyness & Not Doing It All, and has been featured in The Washington Post, Guideposts, and Chicken Soup for the Soul books. She hosts the Life Beyond the Picket Fence podcast and co-hosts the Midlife Mom Podcast and Midlife Mom Facebook Community. Brenda specializes in faith, life, and family beyond the storybook image.
During this episode, Brenda discusses her latest book, Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. Brenda, who has experience from life on a simple Amish farm to in-depth mental health counseling, sheds light on how to lead a purpose-driven, family-centered life in today's fast-paced world. Together, Brenda and Lee Ann discuss how the simplicity and resilience found in traditional, hands-on experiences can benefit family life in our overcomplicated, tech-heavy society.
Key Takeaways:
Life skills rediscovered: Brenda identifies essential life skills, such as problem-solving, prudence, and self-control, which are crucial for raising resilient and faith-grounded children.
Common-sense approach: Through relatable anecdotes and practical wisdom, she explores how common sense, backed by both neuroscience and biblical principles, can guide parents in nurturing their kids effectively.
Building values: With compelling arguments, Brenda underlines the importance of teaching values like interdependence and responsibility, showing how even simple family chores can have a lasting impact.
Mental health insights: For parents struggling with anxiety and overburden, she draws from her counseling expertise, providing doable strategies to regain peace and focus on what truly matters.
Practical and scriptural ties: Each chapter in Brenda's book ties practical advice to scriptural foundations, offering a holistic and faith-affirming perspective that's bound to inspire Christian parents.
Ready to turn your chaotic routine into a meaningful, peaceful, and faith-filled family experience? Learn how to uncomplicate your parenting journey and instill confidence, resilience, and faith in both you and your children!
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“When we detach value from certain behavior and attach it to what Christ says is the most valuable, then we're not sending our kids back into that comparison trap.” – Lee Nienhuis
Lee Nienhuis is an author, speaker, and Bible teacher. She co-hosts the Martha & Mary Show and the You Can Tell the Children podcast with Bible2School. Lee’s books Brave Moms, Brave Kids and Countercultural Parenting are a clarion call for parents looking to raise wholehearted Christ followers. Lee and her husband, Mike, have four kids and live in West Michigan.
During this episode, Lee Nienhuis discusses her newest book, which she co-authored with Shannon Hopkin, Comparison Girl for Teens, and how it can help teens navigate the complex world of teenage comparison and peer pressure. Lee shares practical tips and steps parents can take to foster an environment of support, affirmation, and biblical values, steering their daughters away from the pitfalls of comparison.
Key Takeaways:
Focus on having regular and meaningful conversations with your teenagers. This can help build a trusting relationship where they feel comfortable discussing their struggles and triumphs.
Model positive behavior and be mindful of your own comparisons and criticisms, especially in front of your children. Avoid self-deprecating comments about your appearance or abilities.
Instead of comparing your teenagers to others, highlight and encourage their unique strengths and talents. Praise their efforts and the qualities that make them special.
Emphasize biblical values by helping your children understand their worth through the lens of their faith. Use biblical statements of value and worth that emphasize God's love and purpose for them, independent of societal metrics.
If you realize you’ve made unfair comparisons or set unrealistic expectations, sit down with your child and apologize. This models humility and the importance of seeking forgiveness.
Be proactive in managing your teenager's time on social media. Encourage offline activities that build self-worth and community.
Teach your teens that success isn’t solely about academic achievements or career milestones but about being in the center of God’s will and being faithful, kind, and loving individuals.
Invest in helpful resources like the Comparison Girl for Teens. These tools can provide structured guidance and topics for family discussions that foster spiritual growth.
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“So, the argument I make is let's try to be ambassadors of the kingdom of God around issues of sexuality and gender. And so, ambassadorship should be characterized by these 3 c's: it’s conviction, it's civility, and it's compassion.” – Dr. Mark Yarhouse.
Mark Yarhouse, Psy.D., is the Dr. Arthur P. and Mrs. Jean May Rech Chair in Psychology at Wheaton College. Dr. Yarhouse has spent several years promoting dialogue between people who view the topic of sexual identity differently.
During this episode, Dr. Yarhouse dives into the complex and often misunderstood topic of gender dysphoria and how parents can navigate these conversations with their children. He emphasizes the importance of the "3 C's"—conviction, civility, and compassion—when addressing issues of gender and sexuality from a Christian perspective. Additionally, he discusses the valuable resources available through the Gender Identity Institute at Wheaton College, aimed at supporting families dealing with these challenges.
Key Takeaways:
Importance of addressing misinformation about gender identity.
The 3 C's: conviction, civility, and compassion.
Culture warrior and cultural capitulation models.
Ambassadorship as an alternative model.
The importance of respectful dialogue with those holding different views.
Equating approach towards gender dysphoria with approaches to other beliefs (e.g., atheism, alcoholism).
Difference between chapter-and-verse Christians and those who follow broad themes from scripture.
Parental support strategies for kids suffering from gender dysphoria:
Reducing fear and anxiety.
Developing a Christian understanding of sexuality and gender.
Seeking professional help if needed.
Resources and services provided by the Gender Identity Institute of Wheaton College.
The importance of having open conversations about gender from a young age.
Potential causes of gender dysphoria and the most popular theory: intersex condition of the brain.
Validation of the experiences of individuals with gender dysphoria.
Differentiating between genuine gender dysphoria and cultural trends.
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What do you think of the idea of starting a prayer with "amen"? How do you think it might change the way you approach prayer?
Beth Guckenberger and her husband, Todd, live with their family in Cincinnati, Ohio, where they serve as Co-Executive Directors of Back2Back Ministries. After graduating from Indiana University, the Guckenbergers moved to Monterrey, Mexico, where they lived for 15 years. Between biological, foster, and adopted children, they have raised eleven children. Beth is the author of eleven books, including adult and children’s titles. She travels and speaks regularly at conferences, youth gatherings, and church services about reckless faith. Her style is based on storytelling, and she draws from her vast field experience as a missionary, Bible teacher, and parent for illustrations of biblical concepts.
During this episode, Beth explores the transformative power of starting prayers with "Amen" and delves into heartfelt stories and biblical insights from her latest books, Start with Amen and The Heart Who Wanted to Be Whole. She shares personal anecdotes and valuable lessons on parenting, spirituality, and equipping children with tools to face life's challenges.
🎙️ Key Points:
The importance of addressing the root causes of a child's behavior rather than merely focusing on their actions.
Negative behaviors are often rooted in deeper self-image issues and lies believed by the child. An exercise of focusing on truths from the Bible to positively influence a child's belief system.
The concept of the "Christian F-word" - The word"Fine" challenges parents to foster deeper conversations and connections with their children.
The inspiration behind her beautifully illustrated children's book, designed to teach kids about spiritual warfare and the power of God's truth - the book is a resource for parents seeking to introduce their children to complex spiritual concepts in a relatable way.
Encouragement to parents, reminding them that the journey of raising Christian kids is long but filled with opportunities to reinforce core values and spiritual truths.
✨ What You’ll Takeaway:
The transformative power of beginning your prayers with "Amen."
Strategies to connect with your children on a deeper level and address behavioral issues at their core.
How to introduce your children to the concept of spiritual warfare in a loving and non-scary way.
The importance of instilling biblical truths in everyday conversations.
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Why should you homeschool?
Monica Swanson is a popular blogger (monicaswanson.com), host of the Monica Swanson Podcast (formerly the Boy Mom podcast), and author of Boy Mom, Raising Amazing, and her newest book, Becoming Homeschoolers.
During this episode, Monica shares her experiences raising her four sons in Hawaii and delves into the joys and challenges of homeschooling. She discusses the reasons why families should consider homeschooling, dispels common misconceptions, and provides valuable insights into creating a strong family dynamic through homeschooling.
Key Takeaways:
Reasons for homeschooling:
Relationships with kids.
Academic performance.
Customized education.
Enhanced sleep quality for children.
Avoidance of school-related negative aspects like violence and bullying.
Protection from cultural influences and worldviews.
Addressing common reasons for not homeschooling:
Resources available for working parents.
Obtaining help and support for homeschooling and creative ways to balance work and homeschooling.
Considering alternative options during times of personal or family crisis.
Downfalls of transitioning to homeschooling at the secondary level and not at the beginning:
Changes in the current educational landscape
Introduction of anti-biblical concepts in elementary schools
Challenges of transitioning children to homeschooling after they are influenced by public school dynamics.
The importance of establishing the homeschooling rhythm from a young age.
Takeaways from her book Becoming Homeschoolers:
Providing a comprehensive guidebook for families.
Offering encouragement and inspiration.
Emphasizing the life-changing experience of homeschooling.
Mentioning the value of education beyond academics.
Encouraging parents to give their children an education and a family life they will appreciate in the future.
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“We can't just stop at transforming the mind. We can't just have our kids act like Christians. They might say the right thing. They may know what to say to make mom and dad happy, but we want that heart transformation.” – Lauren Gaines.
Lauren Gaines is a wife, mother, author, and teacher. She is the creator of Inspired Motherhood, a thriving online community equipping parents to raise up the next generation with boldness. Lauren has a unique parenting approach, as she’s a busy mom of three children and holds a master’s degree in school psychology. Her newest book, Unshakable Kids: Three Keys to Raising Spiritually Strong and Emotionally Healthy Children, equips parents to raise strong kids even in a broken world. When Lauren isn't writing, you can find her enjoying the outdoors with her family, experimenting with her camera, or putting on a variety show with her kids.
During this episode, Lauren shares her insights on parenting and discusses the importance of an authoritative approach to raising resilient and unwavering children. She dives into the key areas of mind, heart, and identity, offering practical tips for nurturing strong Christian kids in today's challenging world.
Key Takeaways:
Rising anxiety in adults and children, including those in the church, and Lauren's personal experience with anxiety and its impact on her children.
Recognizing overwhelming feelings in parents and children and seeking to address anxious behaviors.
The importance of addressing the mind, heart, and identity in raising strong Christian kids.
Using the cognitive triangle to identify feelings, thoughts, and actions.
Ensuring a transformation of the heart, not just actions or behaviors.
Teaching children their identity in Christ and building self-esteem from a biblical perspective.
Bringing God into everyday life to develop a personal relationship with Him.
"I'll be happy when" mindset and its impact on happiness.
The importance of savoring moments to experience gratitude and living in the present.
Reflecting on the importance of slowing down and appreciating the little things in life.
The definition of authoritative parenting as warm, sensitive, and balanced.
Balancing love, discipline, and autonomy for children as they grow.
The drawbacks of wanting to be too much of a friend to kids than a parent.
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“The last thing is scripture and prayer. It's a practice, more than a technique. It's a demonstration of being obedient to stay connected to God.” - Rhonda Stoppe.
Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!
During this episode of Digging Deeper, all three ladies share insightful advice and practical tips on managing stress, maintaining composure, and navigating the aftermath of lashing out in anger. From understanding the impact of emotions on both parents and kids to embracing grace and seeking forgiveness, they offer valuable guidance for parents seeking to create a peaceful and loving environment for their families.
Key Takeaways:
Impact of parental stress on children's behavior.
Understanding the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses in stress.
Effects of parental lack of regulation on children and practical ways for parents to regulate themselves and their children.
Importance of deep breathing and bilateral stimulation tapping.
Incorporating prayer and scripture to cope with stress.
Lessons from the behavior of Christ in stressful situations.
Importance of mindful awareness to understand anxiety triggers and being able to identify and address personal triggers and fears.
The danger of allowing stress to manifest as anger.
Understanding and addressing personal idols affecting stress responses.
Modeling healthy stress responses to teach children productive coping skills.
Intentional alignment with Christ's perspective.
Making amends without making excuses for outbursts.
Seeking forgiveness from children and setting an example of humility.
"Make amends, don't make excuses. So, the best question you can ask is, 'Tell me how I hurt you when I responded that way.'" - Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.
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“Investigation is critical for our kids to understand and not to be afraid of it.” – Lori Wildenberg.
Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode of MOMents, both ladies dive into the complex theme of deconstruction and how it relates to teenagers and their faith. They explore the signs parents can look out for, the stages of questioning, and how to support and guide teenagers through these challenging times.
Both ladies also emphasize the necessity of fostering open dialogue with teenagers and encouraging critical thinking while remaining rooted in biblical truths. Offering solace and reassurance, Lori and Lee Ann emphasize the power of prayer and the role of the community in providing steadfast support during times of spiritual turmoil.
Key Takeaways:
Understanding deconstruction versus investigation.
Investigating and questioning the faith and the importance of not being afraid of investigation.
Transition from investigation to dissecting biblical truths.
Emphasizing the importance of prayer.
Addressing signs and symptoms of deconstruction.
Recognizing the importance of understanding autonomy in teenagers.
Establishing a family mission statement and rules for disobedience.
Identifying social and personal factors contributing to doubt.
Addressing the impact of personal wounding on faith, understanding grief, and responding to deep emotional loss.
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Hannah Pierrou is a long-time photographer, designer, and artist. She started the shop and publishing company Treehouse Storytellers as a way to bring wholesome and biblical resources to parents and their children. She is passionate about spreading the Gospel and helping fellow parents train up their kids with a biblical worldview. Hannah and her husband and three kids live in the Colorado foothills on a small hobby farm. She is also the host of the new and growing Treehouse Storyteller podcast.
During this episode, Hannah delves into the inspiration behind her new book, Miss understood, as listeners will be drawn into her heartfelt account of receiving a divine calling to write the story and its uplifting message about God's promises. Through her beautifully illustrated book, Hannah aims to bring hope and restoration to the next generation by rediscovering the true significance of the rainbow in a biblical context. Hannah also touches on topics such as parenting in a "sideways" culture, equipping parents with solutions, and instilling biblical foundations in children's lives.
Here are some key takeaways and tips from this episode:
Focus on biblical principles: Encourage kids to understand and live by the foundational truths of the Bible, instilling them with a sense of purpose and faith.
Embrace Hope and Restoration: Through stories and illustrations, convey the hope and restoration found in God's love, emphasizing redemption and forgiveness. This can be done through engaging books, art, and everyday conversations.
Compassionate Communication: Teach kids to embrace compassionate and empathetic communication, reaching out with the love of Jesus to people from all walks of life.
Cultivate a God-Centered Home Environment: Create a nurturing home environment where biblical values are not only taught but practiced, encouraging kids to seek God's promises in their daily lives.
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Teenagers have a huge influence on each other. Let's equip them to be disciples for Christ!
During this episode, Lee Ann reflects on her own teenage years and the influence that friends had on her decision-making. She shares insights on how to raise teenagers to be the best disciples for Christ and equip them to share His message with others.
She also elaborates on five key points to help parents and guardians guide their teens in becoming counter-culture warriors and strong Christian ambassadors:
Cultivating a home environment rooted in faith: Lee Ann stresses the importance of fostering a heavenly atmosphere within the home through prayer, worship, and engagement with Christian materials.
Emphasizing honor and serving others: Encouraging teens to honor their parents and others, thus learning the value of serving God and honoring those in authority.
Choosing friends wisely and extending unconditional love: Assisting teens in making wise choices in friendships and demonstrating unconditional love, even towards those who may be challenging to love.
Initiating conversations about God: Helping teens engage in meaningful conversations about faith and providing them with resources to navigate discussions with their peers.
Role-playing and preparation: Supporting teens by role-playing scenarios they may encounter and preparing them to address challenging situations with love and wisdom.
In a world where the secular culture often challenges Christian values, it's crucial for us to equip and support our teens in becoming counter-culture warriors, sharing God's love and truth with their peers.
The article mentioned: “10 Social Issues and Problems That Trouble Today’s Teens” by Charissa Chamorro with CSW.
“How often do you pray at home, study the word of God, listen to worship music, prepare to serve others, read Christian materials, or watch Christian movies? Do you have a family mission statement or a disciplinary contract? Do you, as a family, discuss how you will serve others and the community? Is your family active in church? All of that is so, so important!” – Lee Ann Mancini.
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“We wanted to encourage girls that they're designed to have good friendships. And the source of that is God.” – Blythe Daniel.
Blythe Daniel is the co-author of Mended, and I Love You, Mom!, which she wrote with her mother, Dr. Helen McIntosh. She worked for Harper Collins Christian Publishing in marketing and publicity and now enjoys her work as a literary agent.
Calyn Daniel, one of Blythe's daughters, is a middle schooler who loves spending time with her friends and family, including her older sister, Maris, and twin brother, William, who is also an author. Calyn believes girls need to know who they are in Christ, how to navigate friend groups—especially when they change—and how to not lose sight of who God has made them to be.
Together, they wrote the book Let’s Be Friends: A Tween Devotional on Finding and Keeping Strong Friendships, which offers tween girls helpful advice on how to find and maintain beneficial friendships with faith at the forefront.
During this episode, Blythe and Calyn share their insights on why they decided to write this book and how this book can serve as a guide for girls who may feel lost in their friendships with friends, family, and even God. Developing meaningful friendships is a vital skill for tween girls, shaping their emotional and spiritual growth and empowering them to positively impact others with their unique talents. This book guides girls in distinguishing between healthy and harmful friendships, navigating conflicts, staying authentic, and exploring other essential aspects of friendship. Each section features heartfelt wisdom on friendship and includes carefully chosen Scripture verses, words of encouragement, and reflective questions with ample space for personal responses.
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“Listening to God speak to us through his holy spirit will help us to have a robust prayer life, where we learn how to be in conversation with the Lord.” – Lee Ann Mancini
Do you ever find yourself repeating the same prayers, feeling like your prayer life has become more of a routine than a sacred privilege? How can we, along with our children, engage in genuine and meaningful conversations with God that fill us with joy, keeping us connected to the Almighty, the great I Am?
During this episode, Lee Ann discusses the significance of prayer in our lives and the lives of our children. She shares her personal reflections on the depth and meaning of prayer, acknowledging the challenges and the desire for a more profound connection with God. Lee Ann also explores the ways in which parents can engage in genuine and meaningful conversations with God and how they can guide their children to experience a rich and impactful prayer life.
Key Takeaways:
Realizing the significance of genuine and meaningful conversations with God.
Recognizing the routine nature of prayer and the desire for a deeper connection with God.
Exploring different ways and times to pray and highlighting the need for consistent and frequent prayer.
Introducing the concept of praying in different personalities for a deeper connection with God.
Referencing biblical instruction on how to pray.
Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging God's holiness and aligning with heavenly principles in prayer.
PRAY - Praise, repent, ask, and yield.
Encouraging the use of simple and varied prayers, including praise and gratitude.
Utilizing the Psalms as guidance for prayers, showcasing a wide range of human emotions in communication with God.
Encouraging support and intercessory prayers for others to foster a robust prayer life.
Resources mentioned: Praying through Every Emotion, by Linda Evans Shepherd & Praying Personalities, by Janet McHenry.
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“Most people's biggest problem with homeschooling is they don't really believe that they're good parents. And that's why the subtitle became How Amazing Parents Become Excellent Home Educators because you are an amazing parent because you are the parent that God created specifically for that child whether by birth or by choice. God put that child in your family. " – Leslie Nunnery.
Leslie Nunnery is a prominent figure in the Christian homeschooling community. As the co-founder of Teach Them Diligently, she has dedicated herself to providing resources and experiences to strengthen Christian homeschooling families.
Leslie is also an accomplished author, with several books on parenting and homeschooling to her name, including Teach Them Diligently: Raising Children of Promise and Heart School: How Amazing Parents Become Excellent Home Educators. In addition to her writing, she is a sought-after speaker and the host of the Teach Them Diligently podcast, where she shares her expertise and passion for educating and equipping parents to realize their call and execute it well.
During this episode, Leslie shares her unique perspective on homeschooling and parenting. She discusses how her new book differs from other homeschooling books and how it can benefit all parents, regardless of their approach to education.
Key Takeaways:
Common misconceptions about homeschooling:
Fear of not being "enough" as a parent and educator.
Shifting the focus to understanding the primary mission of homeschooling.
The mission is to disciple and shepherd the hearts of children.
Homeschooling is a tool to complement the mission of discipleship.
How Heart School can be used as a tool to help see the alignment between the educational outlet used and the family's call.
Emphasis on being amazing parents to become excellent home educators.
Addressing parental doubts and instilling confidence in the parenting role.
“Teach Them Diligently is here to really help reorient families to see their main mission is to disciple and shepherd the hearts of their children, bring them to Jesus, and then homeschooling actually becomes a fabulous compliment for that.” – Leslie Nunnery.
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Why should you be taking a parenting class?
During this episode, host Lee Ann Mancini dives into the importance of parenting classes and the profound impact of raising children in the Christian faith. She discusses the essential role parents play as spiritual leaders in their children's lives and emphasizes the significance of equipping ourselves to be the very best for our children, instilling in them a deep love for God and his word.
Addressing the importance of continuous learning and growth, Lee Ann encourages listeners to view parenting as a calling, blessing, and honor. She emphasizes the impact that proper parenting can have on shaping children's future faith and, ultimately, the preservation of Christianity. Lee Ann also acknowledges the challenges of raising children in today's world and offers a compelling argument for the necessity of equipping oneself through parenting classes.
Key Takeaways:
How parenting classes can help you increase your knowledge in becoming better at the craft of parenting.
The importance of educating ourselves to become the best spiritual leaders for our children.
Being chosen by God to raise children in His image.
Imparting values through actions and words and showing commitment to living out and sharing faith.
Preparing children for their divine purpose.
Instilling unwavering love for God and His Word and equipping them to stand firm in their faith.
The need for planning and training to raise spiritual champions.
Being proactive in training children against spiritual warfare.
Necessity for good planning and diligent implementation.
Making disciples as instructed in Matthew 28:19-20.
“To prepare them for the Lord's divine purpose for their lives, we must instill in our children a deep, unwavering love for God and His word.” – Lee Ann Mancini.
Order Lee Ann’s parenting guide book here – Raising Kids to Follow Christ: Instilling a Lifelong Trust in God.
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