Episodes

  • This episode is the beginning of what is to become Gender Identity Weekly - my existing Dingbat Diaries idea, but engaging other contributors to Gender Identity Today. I may someday break this out into a separate podcast, but I will publish them here as well until the change occurs.

    REFERENCES:
    CDC Statistics: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/suicide-data-statistics.html
    The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2023/
    Williams Institute - LGBTQ: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/suicide-coming-out-press-release/
    Williams Institute - Transgender: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/suicidality-transgender-adults/
    Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

  • On the program today:
    - Why I missed the Dingbat Diaries video for last week
    - A response to an article that explained my absence last week in which I was called female
    - Do I really buy into the rhetoric that genetics is gender?

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    REFERENCES:
    Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com
    Series of articles I wrote:
    "All Except for My Parts": https://genderidentitytoday.com/all-except-for-my-parts/
    "To Bear Responsibility is Transgender": https://genderidentitytoday.com/to-bear-responsibility-is-transgender/
    "Writing My Transgender Life": https://genderidentitytoday.com/writing-my-transgender-life/
    Transgender suicide statistics: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/suicidality-transgender-adults/

    (00:00) - Agenda(00:41) - Introduction(01:34) - What Happened Last Week?(04:52) - Dealing with My Genetics(06:52) - Being Blonde in 1980s SoCal(08:50) - The Genetics of Being Interblonde(09:46) - Should We Regulate Non-Blondes Who Identity as Blonde?(10:36) - The Abstraction of Sex(12:20) - The Concept of Gender(14:24) - Modern Technology and Gender(15:17) - I Own that I Am a Woman(16:10) - Does Genetics Define Gender?(16:24) - Finding My Purpose Again(18:42) - Show Closing
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  • On the program today, I talk about these fabulous topics:
    - I launched the new web site I've talked about for a month
    - I had a short video get many views - and many hate comments
    - I want to talk about role-playing...probably not what you're thinking

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    REFERENCES:
    Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com
    Instagram video with 13K views: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cv8kE1uJIkQ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
    Gender-affirming care statistics: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-the-science-on-gender-affirming-care-for-transgender-kids-really-shows/
    Transcurrent Explorers Discord Server: https://www.amethysta.io/transcurrent-explorers/
    Sly Flourish article: https://slyflourish.com/playing_dnd_can_save_your_life.html
    Rollo May: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rollo_May

    (00:00) - Intro(01:09) - New Web Site Launched!(03:15) - Gender Theory as a Practice(04:30) - Gender Studies vs. Gender Theory(06:12) - Come Prove Me Wrong!(07:25) - Instagram Video Goes Fungal(08:18) - Gender-Affirming Care Works!(08:58) - Drinking the Haterade...and Spitting It Out(11:03) - It Looks like Hate; It Feels like Love(13:02) - Role-Playing Games and Identity(14:39) - Sly Flourish Blog Post(15:48) - D&D Is a Dressing Room(17:26) - Dressing Up in a Role Explores Identity(19:20) - Getting Together with Friends Is Great! Until It's Not.(20:03) - Show Closing
  • Hi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 10th, 2023, which features Kevin Dorman of Prismatic Speech Services:
    - What is gender-affirming voice?
    - How do we develop gender and gender identity?
    - How is gender perceived out there in the world today?

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    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings
    Prismatic Speech Services: https://prismaticspeech.com/
    Transgender Voice article: https://medium.com/the-identity-current/sound-off-using-my-transgender-voice-46402382d48
    Home Free - "Man of Constant Sorrow": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ew_bfFvros

    (00:00) - Show Introduction(01:10) - Introducing Kevin(03:31) - About Kevin and Prismatic Speech Services(05:07) - About Voice in Communication(06:51) - Ami's Voice Journey(09:17) - Voice Play(09:51) - Why Gender-Affirming Voice?(13:50) - Voice is for Everybody(17:10) - Developing Gender(17:54) - External Aspects of Gender(20:09) - Negotiating with Society(24:12) - Why Are Pronouns Important?(28:39) - Ze / Zey in the 1980s(31:48) - The Power of Being Named Correctly(34:48) - Can Cisgender People Talk about Gender?(38:30) - Microaggression in Gender Relations(40:37) - A Tale of Real Aggression(45:00) - Can We All Understand Each Other?(48:00) - Show Closing
  • Hi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 4th, 2023:
    - What in the world makes "Barbie" such a controversial movie?
    - A new friend of mine helped open my eyes to greater issues of mental health around youth developing identity
    - A couple conversations that reminded me how gender and gender identity is understood today

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    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings
    "Barbie": https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbie_(film)
    Naomi Alderman "The Power": https://littlemountainpublishing.biz/the-power-by-naomi-alderman
    "Transgender Meh": https://medium.com/the-identity-current/transgender-meh-finishing-before-i-was-done-b989f53db019
    Superbands.me: https://www.superbands.me/
    Prismatic Speech Services: https://prismaticspeech.com/
    Speech413: https://www.speech413.com/
    "Sound Off: Using My Transgender Voice ": https://medium.com/the-identity-current/sound-off-using-my-transgender-voice-46402382d48

    (00:00) - Agenda(01:21) - Living in Mower Lightning Land(01:43) - Barbie - A Conservative Dream(03:05) - The Barbie Feminist Manifesto(04:42) - Barbie Has the Power(06:14) - The Barbie Dystopia(08:49) - The Real Meaning of Barbie(10:20) - Superbands.me(13:33) - How You Can Help(14:19) - Music and Gender Identity Are Similar(16:41) - Conversations about Gender-Affirming Voice(18:15) - Kevin from Prismatic(18:56) - Alison from Speech413(19:42) - What Kevin and Alison Seem to Say about Gender(22:22) - Examples of Developing Gender(23:16) - Alison's Gender Development (24:04) - Jason's Gender Development(24:58) - Jason's Kick in the Nuts(25:32) - The Common Thread of Gender Development
  • Hi, Kittycats! Today on The Dingbat Diaries, I discuss:
    - Medium's new Partner Plan for August 2023
    - How I finally found shapewear that suits my budget and my butt
    - Aliens in Congress, which is why transgender people should be left alone

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    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings
    Buster Benson's MPP changes article: https://blog.medium.com/new-partner-program-incentives-focus-on-high-quality-human-writing-7335f8557f6e
    Robin Wilding's article about the Boost: https://medium.com/new-writers-welcome/mediums-boost-is-killing-writers-4c741c6b61f4
    Orchard Corsets: https://www.orchardcorset.com/
    Angel Curves: https://www.angelcurves.com/
    Maidenform Waist Trainer: https://www.maidenform.com/waistnipper.html
    "Gender as Mediator:" https://medium.com/the-identity-current/gender-as-mediator-between-the-origin-of-identity-and-social-environment-5a6f390b1bd6
    "Making Transgender Normal:" https://medium.com/the-identity-current/the-quest-to-make-transgender-normal-e38a61569f9
    UFO Congressional Investigation: https://www.sfgate.com/politics/article/calif-politician-questions-alien-whistleblower-18262296.php

    (00:00) - Show Agenda(00:36) - Introduction(01:35) - The Medium Partner Program(06:46) - Follower Engagement(09:40) - The Boost(13:00) - Transgender Shapewear(15:35) - Corsets(17:34) - The Great Corset Untying Brigade(18:18) - Waist Trainers(20:49) - Generic Shapewear(22:31) - Aliens Are like Transgender People(25:37) - The Response to Humans Compared to Animals(28:13) - The Response to Alien Technology(29:56) - Is There Nothing Weird in San Francisco?(31:08) - Show Closing
  • Hi, Kittycats! Today on the Dingbat Weekly, I talk about my newest article detailing my gender theory, "Gender as Mediator," but also how I ended up getting to the point of writing the article. I finish up with a scathing indictment (not really) of Christian thoughts around gender.

    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings
    "Gender as Mediator:" https://medium.com/the-identity-current/gender-as-mediator-between-the-origin-of-identity-and-social-environment-5a6f390b1bd6
    Walter Rhein's "Medical Industry:" https://aninjusticemag.com/why-wont-the-american-medical-industry-research-alternative-treatments-707ded0c1a8

  • This is the first in a series of discussions I have with myself about what I thought about in the past week.

    Today I talk about:
    - Where publishing to Medium has gone, including discussion with @robin_wilding
    - A new publication web site I'm considering
    - How I think in abstractions and what that means

    Robin Wilding on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@robin_wilding
    Robin Wilding on Medium: https://medium.com/@robin_wilding
    A.J. Cralle on Medium: https://medium.com/@ajcwrites5
    My Website: https://amethysta.io
    My Substack: https://amethystadings.substack.com/