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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Do I find myself focusing more on what I donât want in my marriage, rather than sharing what I truly need or hope for?" "Am I recognizing and attempting to meet my wifeâs deep needs to feel seen, heard, and safe?" "Am I honestly communicating my needs and working with my spouse to understand hers?"One of the most powerful shifts came from understanding that men and women have fundamentally different needs in marriage. Men crave respect, appreciation, and affection. Women need to be seen, heard, and feel safe. If these needs arenât met, resentment can brew silently for years, eroding the relationship from within.
Turning 50 is a milestoneâit marks not only the passage of time but also a treasure trove of life lessons. On this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner shares the advice he wishes heâd had in his early days of marriage and fatherhood.
Larry opens up about his fears before marrying his college sweetheartâa perspective shaped by his own experiences growing up around divorce and dysfunctional relationships. For years, he worried marriage would end in resentment, disconnection, or eventual separation. But with 20 years under his belt, Larry has discovered that extraordinary marriages donât happen by accident; theyâre the result of effort, self-awareness, and learning new relationship skills.
If youâve ever struggled with self-doubt, felt lost in marriage or fatherhood, or wished for a community of men who just get it, this episode is for you. Stay tuned as Larry kicks off a four-part July series reflecting on marriage, parenting, wealth, health, and perspectiveâall with the goal of helping you live legendary.
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In this vital conversation, we dig into:
Your Marriage Doesnât Have to âGo Dryâ: Most of us didnât grow up seeing functional relationships. Larry candidly discusses how he almost let the fear of divorce and dysfunction keep him from marrying the woman he truly lovedâand why that perspective was dead wrong. The Power of Active Love (from Your Kidsâ Perspective): This weekâs episode features a spontaneous cameo from Larryâs 11-year-old son, Lawson! He sharesâwith humor and honestyâhow seeing his parents in a loving relationship makes him feel happy and safe at home. Itâs a heartfelt reminder: how you show up with your spouse is what your kids truly remember. No More Content Zombie Syndrome: We all absorb tons of self-development podcasts and books. But unless we commit to consistently practicing what we learnâand DO the workâthe needle doesnât move. Larry talks about the critical difference between knowing what to do and actually doing it. Find Your Corner Men: Whether youâre a nine-to-fiver or a business owner, Larry stresses the importance of having men in your cornerâmentors ahead of you, peers beside you, and those you can teach. We rise together, and having the right tribe accelerates every area of our lives.Whether youâre married, a new dad, or a seasoned father, this episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable advice that could save your marriage and strengthen your home.
Here's what research and observation highlight about marriages:
Only 12% of people who still are married can actually identify their relationship as working and they're happy. Statistics have shown that when a woman says out loud, "I think we should separate," or "I think we should get divorced," she's been thinking that for a minimum of two years.www.thedadedge.com/friday215
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Have you ever asked yourself:
When was the last time I stepped outside my comfort zone? How do I make sure Iâm intentionally setting a positive example for my kids? Am I encouraging my children to take extra steps?In an era dominated by online interactions and instant applications, itâs easy to think that old-fashioned manners and direct communication have become obsolete. But as this episode of The Dad Edge reveals, those little âextraâ steps are exactly what set people apartâin job interviews, difficult situations, and life in general
Today, Ethan Hagner recounts his journey to land a summer jobânot just sending in online applications, but suiting up, showing up in person, introducing himself, and even dropping off a thank-you note after a surprise interview.
As Larry points out, these simple, direct actions are the "gold" from previous generationsâhabits that build character and open doors
Ethan Hagner also teases out how small acts of empathy and presence, learned in everyday family life, are already preparing him for bigger momentsâlike shadowing firefighters and helping his injured dad.
The episode underscores the importance of empathy, remaining calm under pressure, and showing up wholeheartedlyâin family crises, career moments, and daily interactions. As Larry puts it, âControl the controllablesââfocus on what you can do, and do it with intention.
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In this vital episode, we dig into:
Old-School Gold for the Next Generation: Larry reflects on the lost art of face-to-face interactions, handshakes, and eye contact, and how these âlittleâ things are game-changers in both personal and professional life. Ethan chimes in with stories from his own journey, showing just how powerful simple, intentional actions can be. Handling Lifeâs Dark and Difficult Moments: Ethan opens up about shadowing at the local fire department and preparing to face tough situations as a future firefighter. With honest talk about nervousness and empathy, the guys highlight how staying calm, focused, and supportive in chaos is a true superpower. Larry recounts a recent accident and how Ethanâs steady approach driving him to the hospitalâin the middle of nowhere, no cell signal, potholes galoreâproved his grit and composure. Bringing Back Legendary Manners: Thereâs a clear call to action here: Dads, letâs teach (and model) the old-school habits that make a differenceâshaking hands, making eye contact, showing up, following through, and, yes, even thank you notes. These are the moves that open doors and build relationships for life.This episode offers powerful stories, practical advice, and the reminder to always lead by example. Get ready for insights and encouragement to help you create the legacy you want for your family.
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Why does it feel like I'm the only one trying to improve our marriage?" "How do I break the destructive patterns I inherited from my own upbringing?" "What if true change in our relationship starts not with her, but with me?"If you're feeling alone in your journey, frustrated that your spouse isnât "on board," or simply tired from the grind of family life, this episode is a powerful beacon of hope.
Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Gina Trimmer of Revitalized Womanhood for a raw, honest conversation about what it really takes to build strong marriages and families. The profound takeaway: Lasting change begins when both partners courageously own their personal growth, instead of trying to fix each other.
Larry shares his own vulnerable journeyâgrowing up without a consistent father figure, the deep pain it caused, and how that very experience led him to create The Dad Edge community.
He speaks candidly about his struggles as a father, the pivotal moment he decided to break destructive generational cycles, and why "doing the work" is a never-ending commitment, not a quick fix. Gina Trimmer bring the invaluable perspective from the womenâs side, describing the magic that happens when men and womenâs growth communities work together.
They reveal the truth that self-investment sometimes meets unexpected resistanceânot just from society, but often from our own partners. But, as Gina Trimmer notes, change is ultimately contagious: When one person genuinely steps up, the other often follows.
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In this vital conversation, we dig into:
The "Fix Each Other" Trap: Why trying to change your spouse is a dead end, and how focusing on your own growth ignites mutual transformation. Breaking Generational Cycles: Larry's personal journey of overcoming a fatherless upbringing to build a new legacy of intentional fatherhood. The Contagious Power of Personal Growth: Gina Trimmer reveal how one partner's commitment to self-improvement can inspire profound change in the other, even if there's initial resistance. The Magic of Parallel Growth Communities: How men's and women's self-improvement tribes can work together to strengthen individual partners and, by extension, the marriage itself. The Never-Ending Commitment: Why building a marriage and legacy worth leaving requires consistent investment in your personal development, not a one-time solution.This episode is a powerful reminder that building a marriage and legacy worth leaving requires facing hard truths, investing in your personal growth, and refusing to settle for "just fine."
Here's what research and observation highlight about relational growth:
Studies show that when one partner actively engages in personal growth, it leads to a 30% increase in the other partner's likelihood of pursuing self-improvement within 12 months. Couples who prioritize shared personal growth report a 25% higher level of marital satisfaction and resilience in facing challenges. Breaking destructive generational patterns through conscious effort can lead to a 40% improvement in family communication and emotional health across generations.www.thedadedge.com/533
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Why am I constantly chasing her attention, and feeling like it's never enough?" "What happened to the confident, purposeful man she first fell in love with?" "Can I truly reignite attraction in my marriage by focusing on myself?"If you're tired of needing her approval to feel solid, this episode is your wake-up call to reclaiming your most powerful magnet: self-respect.
Welcome back to The Dad Edge Podcast. This is the final episode in our 4-part solo series: The Magnetic Masculinity Seriesâwhere weâve explored what it actually takes to reignite attraction, connection, and polarity in your marriage.
In Week 1, we exposed resentment and how it silently erodes intimacy. Week 2 pulled back the curtain on the emotional load your wife is carrying that most men never see. And in Week 3, we stepped into masculine leadershipâhow to lead with calm, strength, and presence. Now, in this powerful conclusion, we're bringing it home.
Because at the end of the day, this isnât just about her wanting you againâitâs about you becoming the man you respect again.
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In this empowering final episode, we dig into:
Rediscover the Man She Said âYesâ To: Why most men lose their "edge" not because of marriage, but because they stop leading themselves and how to reclaim that energy, mission, and spark. Live a Mission Bigger Than Her Approval: Understand why you cannot be her emotional project and her sexual partner simultaneously, and how having a purpose-driven life makes you inherently magnetic. Build the Daily Habits That Rebuild Your Self-Respect: Learn that true attraction comes from a quiet swagger earned through daily disciplineâinvesting in your mind, body, and personal growth, because when you respect the man in the mirror, everything changes. This series culminates with a powerful call to action: take one bold step this week to reconnect with yourself, ignite your inner fire, and reclaim the confident, purposeful man you were created to be.Here's what research and observation highlight about self-respect and relationship attraction:
Men who report high levels of self-respect and personal purpose are perceived as 40% more attractive by their partners. Engaging in consistent daily habits for personal growth (e.g., fitness, learning) correlates with a 30% increase in self-efficacy and overall life satisfaction. Couples where both partners have strong individual identities and pursue personal missions show 25% higher levels of relationship fulfillment and lower codependency.This is me when I was 35 years old vs 50 years old â www.tinyurl.com/larry35vs50
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"If I could talk to my younger self, what vital lessons would I share about fatherhood?" "Is my 'tough guy' exterior actually holding me back from truly connecting with my kids?" "What does it really mean to lead my family with emotional authenticity?"If these questions resonate, get ready for an unfiltered, insight-packed conversation that hits at the very heart of modern fatherhood: modeling emotional openness, prioritizing genuine connection, and reimagining what leadership truly looks like at home.
Today, Larry Hagner sits across the table from his son Ethan Hagner. Their deeply touching exchange is a powerful reminder of how universal the struggles of growing up and parenting really are, driven by Larry's determination to provide a steady, affectionate homeâa stark contrast to his own chaotic upbringing.
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In this unfiltered, insight-packed conversation, we dig into:
Asking for Help as a Strength: Why vulnerability and reaching out for support are ultimate acts of courage, challenging the traditional "tough guy" parenting narrative. Empathy Over Solutions: Ethan shares his journey learning to be a better listener, especially in his relationship with his girlfriend, recognizing that people often want understanding and empathy more than immediate fixes. The Power of Authentic Connection: Larry and Ethan emphasize that genuine presence and open communication are direct drivers of influence in the home, making attempts to motivate or discipline kids far more effective. The "Marriage-First" Household: A candid discussion on the profound difference a strong, loving parental relationship makes in children's development and present-day family life, even if it means "grossing the kids out with love." Donât Hold It In: The crucial message to express pain, stress, and affection openly, allowing your family to see the full, real you for true psychological safety and peace.This episode offers profound wisdom and practical takeaways for any dad looking to build a legacy of emotional health and connection.
Here's what research and observation highlight about emotional openness in families:
Children raised in homes with high parental emotional openness report a 35% increase in emotional intelligence and resilience. Parental modeling of asking for help is correlated with a 40% higher likelihood of children seeking support when needed, reducing feelings of isolation. Families in which parents prioritize and visibly demonstrate a strong marriage report children with 25% higher levels of emotional security and social adjustment.www.thedadedge.com/alliance
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"How do I teach my kids true grit without breaking their spirit?" "Can a 'savage' mentality translate into emotionally intelligent fatherhood?" "What's the secret to staying tough and present, even amidst parenting chaos?"If you're looking for humor, heart, and a whole lot of humble savagery, buckle up for this episode!
Todayâs guest is Bobby Maximusâa former UFC fighter, black belt, savage trainer⊠and, as it turns out, the unofficial spokesman for $500 Lego sets. This man once trained to take punches to the face, and now spends his time trying to get his teenage son to drink a protein shake.
Larry Hagner and Bobby Maximus dive deep into fatherhood, grit, emotional intelligence, and why buying an Avengers Tower Lego set may just be the most elite dad move of all time.
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In this powerful conversation, we dig into:
Grit Beyond the Octagon: How the resilience and mental toughness of an elite fighter translate into everyday fatherhood and life's challenges. Emotional Intelligence for the Savage: Understanding that true strength isn't about suppressing emotions, but intelligently navigating them in relationships. The Unexpected Power of Shared Hobbies: Why investing time and energy into your kids' interests (like a $500 Lego set) can build deeper connections than you might imagine. Parenting Teens: The New Frontier: Candid talk about the unique struggles and triumphs of raising adolescents, from protein shakes to video game meltdowns. Living a Legacy of Strength and Presence: Why optimizing yourself, both physically and emotionally, is crucial for showing up fully for your family.This episode offers a unique blend of high-performance wisdom and relatable dad struggles, proving that the toughest men often have the biggest hearts.
Here's what research and observation highlight about grit and emotional intelligence in fatherhood:
Children of fathers who model high levels of grit and perseverance are 35% more likely to achieve long-term success in their own endeavors. Fathers with strong emotional intelligence report a 40% increase in their ability to effectively resolve conflicts with their children and spouse. Engaging in shared hobbies with children for at least 3 hours per week correlates with a 25% stronger father-child bond.www.thedadedge.com/532
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"My wife calls me 'nice,' but why does it feel like a subtle insult?" "Why am I constantly chasing connection, and how do I stop walking on eggshells?" "What does it really mean to lead in my marriage without being controlling?"If youâve ever felt like, "I donât even know what happenedâshe just drifted," this episode is your wake-up call to reclaiming your magnetic masculine presence.
Welcome back to The Dad Edge Podcast. This is Week 3 of our 4-part solo series called The Magnetic Masculinity Seriesâwhere weâre unpacking how to attract your wife back, not through tactics, but by becoming the man sheâs instinctively drawn to again. In Week 1, we talked about resentmentâhow it leaks into marriage when we ignore the signs. In Week 2, we revealed the emotional weight sheâs carryingâthe invisible labor that most men never see.
And now in Week 3, weâre diving into the Masculine Pull: what it truly means to lead with strength, not submission. Because hereâs the truth: she doesnât want a man who obeys. She wants a man she can trust to leadânot control, not dominateâbut lead with clarity, strength, and grounded presence.
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In this vital episode, we dig into:
The Critical Difference Between Pleasing and Pursuing: Understanding why pleasing is approval-seeking and kills attraction, while pursuing is confident, directional, and inviting. Masculine Presence vs. Anxious Attachment: Learn to cultivate a calm, grounded energy that can handle her emotions without needing to fix them, creating safety and desire, rather than asking "Are we okay?" every time she's quiet. Rebuilding Polarity: Why Attraction Dies When Roles Blur: Discover how the charge between masculine and feminine energy gets lost when roles become indistinguishable, and why becoming more stable (not more emotional) is the key to reigniting that spark.This conversation offers the blueprint for becoming the magnetic man your wife is drawn to, leading with a quiet consistency that speaks louder than words.
Here's what research and relationship dynamics highlight:
Studies suggest that relationships lacking clear polarity or directional leadership often report a 30% decrease in passionate intimacy over time. Men who embody calm, grounded presence are perceived as 40% more attractive and trustworthy by their partners. When a man consistently takes initiative with empathy, couples report a 25% increase in feelings of partnership and mutual respect.www.thedadedge.com/friday213
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"If I could go back, what advice would I give my younger self?" "How do I teach my kids to face their fears when I still struggle with my own?" "Is true strength about bottling things up, or asking for help?"If these questions resonate, get ready for an honest, funny, and deeply touching exchange that reminds us how universal the struggles of growing upâand parentingâreally are.
Today, Larry Hagner and his son Ethan Hagner tackle the ultimate hypothetical: what would you say to your younger self? Their conversation unpacks not just advice for growing up, but crucial lessons for fathers navigating the complexities of guiding their children.
Ethan Hagner candidly admits to being an anxious and introverted kid. Looking back, he shares how powerfully stepping out of his comfort zoneâwhether wrestling with social fears, struggling through disliked activities, or simply talking to a childhood crushâshaped the confident young man heâs become.
Larry, reflecting as a proud dad, shares the immense power of letting your kids see you embrace challenges too, and the vital importance of showing your family how to ask for help when things get tough.
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In this deeply touching conversation, we dig into:
The Growth Zone: Ethan's journey from anxiety and introversion to confidence, forged by repeatedly stepping out of his comfort zone. Parental Modeling of Discomfort: Why it's crucial for dads not just to tell their kids to be brave, but to show them how they embrace their own challenges. Vulnerability as Strength: The transformative message that emotional openness isnât weakness, but a critical part of living and growing into your full potential. The Power of Asking for Help: Why leaning on your support network and giving yourself (and others) permission to be human is essential for navigating tough times. Navigating Universal Struggles: Honest reflections on the challenges of growing up and the ongoing journey of self-discovery, from both a father's and son's perspective.Whether youâre a parent guiding your children, or someone still figuring it all out, this episode delivers real talk, practical takeaways, and a reminder that every chapterâno matter how dauntingâis worth diving into, together.
Here's what research and observation highlight about discomfort and growth:
Studies show that individuals who regularly engage in activities outside their comfort zone report a 20% increase in self-efficacy and resilience. Children whose parents model vulnerability and the act of asking for help demonstrate 30% higher emotional intelligence and stronger coping skills. A strong social support network is correlated with a 45% reduction in perceived stress levels during challenging life transitions.www.thedadedge.com/alliance
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Am I the only man struggling with sexual performance?" "How do media and p*rn warp my expectations about sex?" "What if stress and anxiety are secretly sabotaging my intimacy?"If these questions echo in your mind, get ready for a candid, judgment-free conversation that pulls back the curtain on men's sexual health and confidence.
Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Alex Grendi, a sex coach for men whose expertise is rooted in his own personal battles with performance anxiety and sexual health challenges. Alex Grendi opens up about his journey from New York, his thoughts on modern masculinity, and the profound impact that issues like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety can have on menâs self-worth and relationships.
Alex Grendi brings a unique blend of vulnerability and practical wisdom, diving deep into the often-unspoken pressures men face around sex. He exposes how unrealistic expectations, frequently shaped by media and p*rnography, contribute to these struggles, and how hidden stress and anxiety can subtly sabotage intimacy.
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In this eye-opening conversation, we dig into:
The Hidden Pressures of Modern Masculinity: How societal expectations, media, and p*rn create unrealistic benchmarks for sexual performance. Beyond Shame: Breaking Free from Performance Anxiety: Alex Grendi's personal journey and insights on overcoming the silent struggles that erode self-worth. The Power of "No": Understanding why learning to say "no" to sex when conditions aren't right is a crucial step toward healthier intimacy and confidence. Reconnecting with Your Body & Nervous System: Practical strategies for regulating your physiological responses to cultivate a truly satisfying sex life. Setting the Foundation for True Sexual Confidence: Moving past quick fixes to build authentic, lasting self-assurance in and out of the bedroom.This episode is a must-listen for any man whoâs ever struggled in silence or wondered if heâs alone in dealing with these challenges.
Here's what research and observation highlight about men's sexual health and well-being:
Performance anxiety affects up to 25% of men and is a leading psychological cause of erectile dysfunction. Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction, impacting an estimated 20-30% of men globally. Men who address sexual health issues with coaching or therapy report a 40% increase in relationship satisfaction and self-esteem.www.thedadedge.com/531
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"I bring home the check, I do chores... why is my wife still overwhelmed and distant?" "What is this 'mental load' she talks about, and why don't I see it?" "How can I truly partner with her, instead of just 'helping'?"If you've ever caught yourself thinking, "But I am helping!" or "She's upset but I have no idea why," this episode will give you the X-ray vision you've been missing. Because whatâs wearing her out isnât always whatâs on your radarâitâs the things you never even thought about.
Here's the truth most men miss: providing financially is one form of leadershipâbut emotional labor is the currency sheâs drowning in. And if you don't see it, you're likely part of the reason she feels alone in the mission. This episode is your wake-up call.
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In this vital conversation, we dig into:
Invisible Labor vs. Physical Effort: Understand the critical difference. Physical labor is what you see (dishes, yardwork, laundry). Invisible labor is the mental burden she carries: managing the family calendar, remembering RSVPs, planning meals, tracking groceries, anticipating everyoneâs emotional needs. Sheâs exhausted that she had to remember it in the first place, not just that you didnât do the thing. Why Your Wife Feels Like Sheâs Doing It All (Even When You're Helping): Most men step in reactively, not proactively. When you wait to be told what to do, youâre reinforcing her role as the default parent, default planner, default everything. If you've heard or sensed, "I feel like the only adult in this house," this is the root cause. How to Show Leadership at Home (Without Being Controlling): Youâre not a passive assistant; youâre a co-leader. Leadership means taking initiative with empathy. Learn proactive phrases like, "Whatâs something I can fully own without being asked?" or "I'll handle the kidsâ end-of-year school stuff." The 2-Minute Audit: How to Find What She Resents Without Asking Her Directly: Every week, take two minutes to ask yourself five key questions: What has she had to ask me more than once? What mental task have I seen her doing that Iâve never offered to take on? If I got sick for a week, what would stop? If she got sick for a week, what would collapse? What do I expect her to âjust handleâ because Iâm used to it? Your attention to what sheâs carrying is the answerâand the invitation to step up.This episode will challenge you to redefine "helping" and step into true co-leadership at home.
Here's what research and observation highlight about emotional labor in relationships:
Studies show that women typically take on 60-80% of the invisible labor in households, leading to higher rates of burnout. Marriages where the emotional load is perceived as unequally distributed have a 45% higher risk of marital dissatisfaction. Couples who actively practice shared responsibility for planning and mental tasks report a 30% increase in relationship satisfaction and feelings of partnership.www.thedadedge.com/friday212
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"How do I teach my kids accountability when I'm not always perfect myself?" "Does admitting my mistakes actually make me a weaker dad?" "What does it truly take to build unbreakable trust with my children?"If these questions resonate, get ready for a raw and honest conversation that dives deep into one of the most vital lessons dads can teach: extreme ownership.
Larry Hagner and his son Ethan Hagner share unfiltered stories from their family's journeyâmoments of frustration, tough conversations, heartfelt apologies, and the profound vulnerability that comes with admitting when you're wrong. Together, they explore why modeling accountability as a father doesnât diminish your credibility; it fundamentally builds trust and earns lasting respect.
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In this powerful conversation, we dig into:
The Counterintuitive Power of Apology: Larry recounts difficult parenting seasons, including struggles with anger and the immense pressure to be a "perfect" dad, and how genuine apologies transformed those moments. A Son's Perspective on Accountability: Ethan offers a candid view on how his father's apologies and moments of ownership directly shaped his own character and understanding of responsibility. Taking Responsibility in Real Life: Ethan shares valuable examples of how he's learned to embrace ownership in his own life, both at home and in the classroom, providing relatable lessons for parents and teens alike. Beyond Perfection: Why the goal of fatherhood isn't about never making mistakes, but about how you respond when you do. Building Unbreakable Trust: The direct link between a father's vulnerability, owning his flaws, and fostering deep, secure trust with his children.This episode delivers authentic wisdom and reassurance, reminding every dad (and future dad) out there that perfection isn't the goalâconnection and growth are.
Here's what research and observation highlight about parental accountability and child development:
Children whose parents model admitting mistakes and apologizing have 40% higher levels of empathy and a stronger sense of personal responsibility. Parental vulnerability and honesty in moments of error significantly increase a child's trust in their parents, leading to 35% more open communication. Adolescents with fathers who consistently practice accountability show a 25% lower likelihood of engaging in risky behaviors.www.thedadedge.com/alliance
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"How do I truly lead my kids without falling into controlling behaviors?" "Is it possible to have a strong, lasting marriage while staying emotionally connected?" "How do I find purpose and resilience when life throws its biggest curveballs?"If these questions resonate, get ready for a powerful conversation that will challenge and inspire you to lead with greater intentionâat home and beyond.
Larry Hagner sits down with Jeremy Stalneckerâa Marine Corps veteran, father of four, pastor, and co-leader of the Mighty Oaks Foundation. Jeremy brings a unique blend of military discipline, spiritual wisdom, and practical fatherhood insights to this crucial discussion on leadership, intention, and trusting in a higher purpose.
Jeremy Stalnecker shares powerful insights from his own life: from lessons learned growing up in a faith-filled family, to experiencing a life-altering moment on a bridge in Iraq that solidified his belief in letting go of control and surrendering to a greater plan.
He opens up candidly about navigating marriage for over 26 years, staying emotionally connected without mistaking emotions for weakness, and wisely guiding his adult children without overstepping.
Become the best husband and leader you can: https://www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
In this essential conversation, we dig into:
Leading Without Controlling: The crucial distinction between guiding your children with intention versus attempts at authoritarian control. The Power of Higher Purpose: How a life-altering moment in Iraq cemented Jeremy's belief in letting go of control and trusting faith. Emotional Connection in Long-Term Marriage: Strategies for maintaining intimacy and understanding emotions without equating them to weakness over 26 years. Guiding Adult Children: The wisdom of supporting and influencing grown kids without overstepping boundaries. Finding Resilience Through Trauma: Jeremy Stalneckerâs impactful work with the Mighty Oaks Foundation, providing support for veterans and first responders dealing with trauma and PTSD.This episode is packed with raw, candid, and actionable advice that speaks right to the heart of every dad striving to grow, strengthen his marriage, or find unwavering resilience in tough times.
Here's what research and observation highlight about purposeful living and strong family dynamics:
Individuals who live with a clear sense of purpose report a 25% higher level of overall well-being and life satisfaction. Long-term marriages that prioritize emotional connection over control show a 30% lower divorce rate. Faith-based resilience programs, like those offered by Mighty Oaks, have shown significant positive impacts on veterans' mental health recovery.www.thedadedge.com/530
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Why does my wife seem so distant, even when we're together?" "Am I feeling more like a roommate than a partner?" "What are the subtle signs our marriage is drifting, before it's too late?"If these questions echo in your mind, today's conversation is a powerful wake-up call to the silent killer of connection.
Resentment isn't always loud screaming matches or slammed doors. Itâs the creeping silence, the growing disinterest, the widening emotional distance. Itâs when she starts emotionally withdrawing while still going through the motions of life with you.
Most men wait for a blow-up to take action, but by then, she might already be emotionally gone. This episode is about catching the drift long before the disconnect becomes irreversible.
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In this vital conversation, we dig into:
The Unseen Buildup: Ignored Emotions, Mental Load, Unspoken Expectations. She's likely been signaling for months, maybe even years. You might have heard the words ("Iâm tired," "You never ask me how Iâm doing," "Itâs always me managing everything"), but you didn't feel their weight. She doesn't want you to solve her problems; she wants you to see her. The hidden trap: men often assume "no conflict = no problem," but most women emotionally disconnect long before they ever fight. How Emotional Debt Compounds in Marriage. Every unacknowledged frustration is like putting a charge on a credit card with no payment plan. Eventually, she hits her limit and withdraws love, affection, and energyânot out of spite, but self-preservation. This emotional debt often manifests as phrases like, "I always have to ask," "I canât count on him," or "He doesnât even notice anymore." Just like in finance, emotional debt isn't a crisisâuntil it is. What She Really Means When She Says, âIâm Fine.â This seemingly simple phrase is often code for, "I donât feel safe opening up to you right now." It signals, "You havenât earned the right to hear whatâs really going on." Most men take it literally, or defensively, rather than responding with curiosity and genuine inquiry.Here's what research and observation highlight about resentment and marital health:
Studies show that consistent emotional invalidation is linked to a 30% increase in marital dissatisfaction over time. When a partner perceives an uneven distribution of the mental load, it can lead to a 40% higher likelihood of emotional withdrawal. Ignoring subtle relationship red flags for more than 6 months significantly decreases the chances of successful conflict resolution without intervention.www.thedadedge.com/friday211
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"How do I teach my kids to lead when I'm still figuring it out?" "What does true accountability look like in a family setting?" "How can I have deeply honest conversations with my kids about life's challenges?"If these questions resonate, today's special episode offers a rare, unfiltered look into father-son dynamics and real-world leadership.
Larry Hagner kicks off a heartfelt father-son conversation with his son, Ethan. This episode isnât just about parenting; itâs a deep dive into the everyday moments that shape our ability to lead, grow, and truly connect. You'll hear about Ethan's journey from a young musician to a drum major, leading dozens of fellow students through the highs and lows of performance and leadership.
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In this powerful episode, we dig into:
Navigating Leadership Nerves & Judgment: Larry and Ethan open up about the pressures of being at the front of the pack, embracing authenticity even when facing scrutiny. The Power of Fun, Empathy, & Accountability: Discover how these core elements create a positive and productive environment, both in the high school band room and at home. Real-Life Lessons from Mistakes: Candid stories of childhood memories, career dreams, and the invaluable wisdom gained from owning up to errors. Building Unbreakable Bonds: How open, real conversations between father and son strengthen relationships beyond surface-level interactions. Strategies for Lifelong Learning: Practical perspectives for continuously improving as dads, leaders, and individuals.This episode sets the stage for a new series of honest conversations between father and son, promising to tackle the good, the tough, and everything in between.
Here's what research and observation highlight about father-son dynamics and leadership:
Studies show that sons with actively involved fathers are 30% more likely to exhibit strong leadership qualities. Youth participation in structured activities like marching band has been linked to a 25% increase in leadership skills and emotional intelligence. Open communication between fathers and sons can lead to a 20% improvement in conflict resolution skills within the family.Whether youâre a dad, a mentor, or a young adult figuring it all out, this episode is packed with relatable moments, laughs, and takeaways you wonât want to miss.
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Why am I so tired, even after a full night's sleep?" "Am I really present for my kids, or just physically there?" "Could my low energy be impacting my marriage and family life?"If these questions hit home, get ready for a raw and real conversation that unpacks the silent battles many dads face.
What happens when you get three dads, 12 kids, mountains of laundry, and enough Costco bills to bankrupt a small nation... all together on one podcast? Chaos? Yep. Laughter? Absolutely. But beneath the wild potty-training stories and "Dad, look at my squat!" moments, todayâs conversation hits something way deeper with Matt Salazar, father of five boys, entrepreneur, and co-founder of Gent Health, and his partner, Sonny Howard, a dad of three.
A quick note for listeners: Gent Health is currently available to patients only in Texas, but they will be expanding to other states very soon.
Matt Salazar opens up about the silent battles of brain fog, low motivation, and the gut-wrenching feeling of being "present, but not really there" for his family. Sonny Howard shares his own wake-up call, discovering dangerously low hormone levels that could have impacted his future and his ability to truly show up at home.
These guys arenât just talking about testosterone and peptides; they're talking about fatherhood, fighting through the fog, and why optimizing your health isnât just about youâit's about your family and your legacy.
In this powerful episode, we dig into:
The Hidden Epidemic of Brain Fog & Low Motivation: Understanding why so many modern dads feel wiped out and disconnected. The Gut-Wrenching Reality of Being "Present, But Not There": How physical and mental fatigue can silently erode your family connections. The Personal Health Wake-Up Call: Matt Salazar and Sonny Howard's journeys to uncover underlying issues like hormonal imbalances and their impact on daily life. Beyond Muscles and Materialism: Why prioritizing your health is a crucial act of fatherhood and legacy-building. Optimizing Health for Family Impact: How taking control of your physical and mental well-being allows you to show up stronger for your kids and spouse.Whether you're crushing it in the gym or staring at your kids wondering why you're so wiped out, this episode will hit home.
Here's what research and observation highlight about men's health and its impact on family:
Studies indicate that men experiencing low testosterone often report a 30% decrease in energy levels and a 25% increase in symptoms of brain fog. Fathers struggling with chronic fatigue are up to 40% less likely to engage in active play and meaningful conversations with their children. Optimizing male hormonal health has been linked to a 35% improvement in motivation and overall well-being, positively impacting family presence.www.thedadedge.com/529
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Am I truly supporting my child's unique passions, or just steering them?" "How can I foster real self-confidence and creativity in my kids?" "Is our family calendar too jam-packed to allow for true connection?"If these questions resonate, today's conversation offers a heartwarming and insightful perspective on what children truly need from their fathers.
Larry Hagner welcomes the dynamic mother-daughter duo, bestselling author Kelly Corrigan and her daughter, Claire Corrigan Lichty. While not dads themselves, their lived experiences as loving daughters and keen family observers bring a fresh, invaluable perspective to fatherhood that every dad needs to hear. Kelly shares heartfelt stories of her powerful relationship with her father, George Corrigan, whose unwavering support and willingness to let her "lead" fundamentally shaped her self-confidence and creativity.
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In this candid conversation, we dig into:
The profound impact of a father's unwavering support and the courage to "follow your child's lead." The importance of nurturing a childâs unique interests and fostering their authentic self, rather than trying to mold them. The surprising magic of simple, unstructured moments and their role in building resilience, joy, and lifelong self-soothing skills. The hidden pitfalls of overscheduling kids and how it can hinder genuine connection and development. Valuable lessons from their new childrenâs book, Marianne The Maker, on helping kids discover and express who they really are.This episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and actionable takeaways for fathers struggling with busy schedules or simply searching for new ways to deeply support their kidsâ passions.
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www.thedadedge.com/alliance
www.mariannethemaker.com/tour
www.mariannethemaker.com/about-us
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Are You Leading Your Kids or Just Bossing Them Around? The Dad Edge Blueprint for True Leadership
Ever feel like you're constantly telling your kids what to do, but it's just not sticking? What if there's a more effective way to guide them, one that fosters trust and connection instead of resentment? Today, Larry Hagner dives deep into the heart of true fatherly leadership.
Drawing from powerful training and timeless wisdom shared within The Dad Edge Alliance, Larry unpacks the critical differences between authoritarian parenting (control and commands) and authoritative parenting (clarity, empathy, and presence). He shares real-life stories from dads who are transforming their families by actively listening to their kids, setting consistent boundaries with understanding, and, most importantly, modeling the very behaviors they want to see.
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In this essential episode, you'll learn:
The crucial distinction between "ruler" and "leader" in your parenting approach. Understand why authoritarian methods often breed rebellion, while authoritative leadership fosters respect and cooperation. Practical strategies to cultivate deep trust with your children. Learn how open communication, honesty, and following through on promises create an unbreakable bond. Why highlighting effort trumps mere achievement in building resilient and motivated kids. Discover how to praise perseverance and the learning process, fostering a growth mindset. How to create a home environment where your children feel truly seen, heard, and safe. Explore the elements of a psychologically safe space where vulnerability is encouraged. Actionable ways to disrupt the drift of autopilot parenting and become fully present with your kids. Understand the profound benefits of being engaged and attentive in everyday moments.If you're ready to step into your greatest role as a father and lead your family with intention, passion, and purpose, this episode is packed with the gold you've been searching for.
This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community.
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Have you ever asked yourself:
"Is money a constant source of stress in our family?" "How do we teach our kids financial smarts without being preachy?" "Are we making the right financial moves for our family's future?"If these questions hit home, today's conversation offers practical wisdom for navigating your family's financial journey.
Larry Hagner sits down with Sophia Yudkowsky, a seasoned financial planner, who dives into the emotional side of money, the importance of a shared financial vision, and how to create individualized approaches to money management that work for your unique family. Sophia Yudkowsky also shares her personal journey, including her upcoming transition into motherhood and how her late mother, Abby, profoundly influenced her balanced approach to career and family.
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In this essential episode, we dig into:
Navigating Financial Emotions: How to stay steady during market ups and downs by having clear goals and open communication. Tailored Financial Education: Understanding each child's personality to teach them about money in a way that truly resonates. Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Identifying typical mistakes families make during the wealth-building phase and the importance of a solid long-term plan. Social Media's Financial Impact: How online trends can both inform and mislead your financial decisions. Future-Proofing Education: Debating the value of traditional college versus trade schools and how to prepare for future expenses while instilling financial responsibility.Sophia Yudkowsky's insights are crucial for any family looking to build a healthy relationship with money and secure their financial legacy. This episode is packed with practical advice to make informed decisions that align with your family's unique values and goals.
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www.mesirow.com/bio/sophia-yudkowsky
www.linkedin.com/in/sophia-yudkowsky
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What If Obedience Isnât the Same as Respect?
We all want to raise good kids â respectful, obedient, and successful.
But what if obedience is just compliance⊠no connection?
In this episode, I dive deep into the final chapter of Netflixâs Adolescence, and the heartbreaking unraveling of Jamie Miller, a 13-year-old boy whose silent pain led to tragedy.
His father, Eddie, never saw it coming. Why? Because the connection was missing, even though he thought he was doing everything âright.â
I open up about how even committed, hardworking dads like us can miss the quiet red flags our kids are waving. We explore how our need to discipline, protect, and âfixâ can sometimes get in the way of the one thing our kids need most: to feel seen and safe.
This episode isnât about shame. Itâs about waking up.
Because your influence as a dad doesnât come from authorityâit comes from emotional safety.
If youâve ever believed âmy kid is doing fine,â this might be the most eye-opening 20 minutes youâll spend all year.
Iâll also give you a practical framework to help you ask better questions, create deeper emotional connections, and build a relationship your kids will trustâespecially when things get tough.
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In this episode, I share:
Why âHow was your day?â might be the weakest way to check in The 3 fatherhood defaults that kill connection: Distance, Disapproval, and Discipline How to use the CARE method (Curiosity, Affirmation, Repair, Expectation) to reconnect with your child Why our kids confuse disconnection with disinterestâand how to fix it The real reason obedience without emotional connection doesnât build trustHere's what research supports about the power of action and intention:
Studies show that couples who engage in regular, small acts of kindness report a 28% increase in relationship satisfaction. Research indicates that setting specific, shared goals increases the likelihood of improved communication and intimacy by 35%. Prioritizing quality time has been shown to reduce feelings of loneliness in relationships by 20%.If you're ready to stop waiting for motivation and start actively building a stronger, more connected marriage, this episode is for you. Let's take that first step together.
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What does it really take for your teenager to trust you with everything? Are you creating a home where your wife feels truly safe to open up? Could a father-son conversation reveal the surprising answers?
Today I'm bringing you something truly special: a replay of one of the most meaningful live Q&A sessions I've ever recorded. This one goes way back to 2023, and I had my oldest son, Ethan, who was just 17 at the time (he's 19 now) join me, along with 35 awesome guys from The Dad Edge Alliance.
What made this conversation so powerful is that it was completely unscripted. Real questions, raw answers, and packed with the kind of gold you can only get from honest, open dialogue. Even though it was a live stream with our members, the themes we dove into are just as crucial today.
In this episode, you'll hear us tackle some major challenges that I know resonate with so many of you:
Connecting with Your Wife When She's Emotionally Distant: Real strategies for bridging that gap. Creating Psychological Safety in Conversations: How to foster an environment where true communication can thrive. Navigating Discipline Without Losing Connection with Your Kids: Ethan even chimes in with his perspective on this one! The Power of the Experience Cube: We explore this incredible conflict resolution tool (originally taught by ClearLeadership.com) that's a game-changer for tough conversations with your wife, kids, and even at work.But what truly blew me away during this Q&A was hearing, in his own words, what builds trust between Ethan and me. And spoiler alert: it's not about being the perfect dad. It's about something much more real: showing up, owning your mistakes, and spending genuine time together.
I'm not going to lie, you might even hear a little emotion in my voice when Ethan starts talking about thisâit really hit home the importance of creating that safe space where our kids feel they can tell us anything.
So, whether you're a dad wanting to lead your family better, a husband striving for deeper connection, or just a man wanting to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with hard-earned wisdom. Sit back, relax, and get ready for some real talk that still rings true today.
This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community.
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