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In the final episode of the Be Transformed series, Heather Gilion returns to share powerful insights about a season many of us struggle with — the season of waiting. While no one enjoys waiting, it’s often in this space that our greatest transformations take place. Heather unpacks the idea that waiting is not wasted time, but a time where God is working behind the scenes for our good. Tune in as she offers a comforting reminder and a collection of promises to hold onto, giving us the strength to wait as long as it takes, knowing that something greater is being prepared for us.
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In every season, especially the challenging ones, God is at work, shaping and strengthening us in ways we may not yet see. In today’s episode, Into the Fire, I am joined by special guest Heather Gilion. Fresh from sharing her impactful message at our Happiest Lives Weekend in Missouri, Heather brings her heartfelt insights on walking with God through life’s toughest moments.
Heather is a gifted speaker, the author of Dancing On My Ashes, and a talented artist behind Story Designs. Sidenote: If you love surrounding your home with reminders of God’s word, you won’t want to miss checking out her beautiful artwork.
In this episode, Heather’s story serves as a powerful reminder that we’re never alone in the “fire.” Even in trials, God’s presence refines us, drawing us closer to Him. I hope this conversation leaves you feeling encouraged and confident, knowing that His constant presence holds you every step of the way.
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This podcast features empowering stories from women who have undergone significant personal growth through the Happiest Lives Academy. Participants Dawn Valentino, Michelle Revelle, and Betsy Yost share their experiences as they embarked on five transformations in 5 months. The discussion highlights overcoming mental blocks, healing from past relationships, and enhancing personal connections as graduates recount their journeys of maturity, confidence, and closer relationships with God.
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This week, we’re talking about transformation—becoming the woman God says you already are. We’ll look at what holds you back, the steps you can take to change, and what you need to do to grow. Join us as we learn what it means to become.
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In this final episode of How To Get Unstuck, I’ll show you how to keep moving forward with unwavering determination, even when you feel at your lowest. By tapping into Christ's strength, you can run your race with a clear purpose rather than relying solely on your energy. Learn to lean into your struggles and discover the power and joy of surrendering to God’s goodness and sovereignty. Together, we’ll explore how you can turn your challenges into steps toward victory.
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This is part 4 of the series How To Get Unstuck. A distress signal is an urgent appeal for help. When used for ships, we call it an SOS. When we move into our personal pain, cry for help, and trust the Lord is with us, we move from suffering to surrender. This SOS is the place between where you are and where you want to be-- the Sea of Suffering turned Sea of Surrender (SOS). In today's episode, I show you what to do with your emotions, including six habits to cultivate in your emotional life.
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Welcome to part 3 of the series How To Get Unstuck. In today’s discussion, we’ll explore renewing our minds, a practice rooted in biblical principles and essential for spiritual and emotional growth. We’ll examine the narratives we tell ourselves—like “my husband is a jerk”—and how thoughts like this keep us spinning a web of frustration and disappointment. Through practical examples, we’ll learn how to shift our perspective, break free from limiting beliefs, and align our thoughts with truth to be the woman God says we already are.
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This is episode 2 of the series How to Get Unstuck. In it, we explore why we often feel stuck and how our minds can trap us in repetitive cycles of worry or overwhelm. When we don’t know how to approach a problem, we either obsess over it or let it grow bigger in our minds. Today, Jill introduces a tool that will help you step back, organize your thoughts, and understand the problem so you can focus on what to do next. Constraining the problem allows you to break free from the cycle and start making real progress. Tune in to learn how to approach challenges with clarity and take action and change your life.
If you are ready to become the woman God says you already are, you have to join me in Clarity+Courage, my cost-effective coaching group for Christian women. Learn more and enroll at www.myhappyvault.com/clarityandcourage
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In this new series, Jill will share a straightforward process she uses whenever she feels stuck. Whether you’re dealing with overwhelm, indecision, or feeling lost, this method will help you gain clarity and take the next step forward. Tune in to discover practical tools you can use today to break free from what’s holding you back and start moving forward with purpose.
If you are ready to become the woman God says you already are, you have to join me in Clarity+Courage, my cost-effective coaching group for Christian women. Learn more and enroll at www.myhappyvault.com/clarityandcourage
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The hardest hurdle to communication is that visceral reaction when your body becomes emotionally flooded and you can't access all the smart things you know. The final episode of our Defensiveness series focuses on staying calm and connected during challenging conversations. Discover relaxation techniques, emotional regulation skills, and mindset strategies to improve relationships and escape attack-defend mode.
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This is part 3 of the series on Defensiveness. Owning your actions is about stopping your efforts to control the other person and taking ownership of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. When we shift our energy from what we can't control to what we can, we can start making some headway in our conversations.
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Today, we’re continuing our series on Defensiveness. Last week, Jill shared a personal story about becoming defensive with her family and promised to return with insights gained after interviewing her family about it. In this episode, she shares what she learned from those conversations.
Our focus today is on assuming the best when you feel defensive. The alternative is to assume the worst, which hinders meaningful conversations and connections. We will discuss how approaching situations with a grace-filled mindset can transform relationships and promote understanding.
If you are ready to become the woman God says you already are, you have to join me in Clarity+Courage, my cost-effective coaching group for Christian women.
Learn more and enroll at www.myhappyvault.com/clarityandcourage
Questions? Email Jill directly at [email protected]If you are ready to become the woman God says you already are, you have to join me in Clarity+Courage, my cost-effective coaching group for Christian women. Learn more and enroll at www.myhappyvault.com/clarityandcourage
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Today, we begin a new series on defensiveness, one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse identified by John Gottman. In this episode, we explore what defensiveness is, why we experience it, and how it affects our interactions. Jill shares a personal story about feeling defensive during a family vacation and how it impacted her relationships. She introduces practical steps to manage defensiveness using the Heart Scan Coaching method.
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This episode wraps up the 5 part series on Urges. To enter the rest of God we must go into the future where our victory is complete and we have arrived at our destination. When it seems we are circling over the sea of suffering, we must persevere in believing and pressing on despite unwanted emotions and demanding urges that promise short term relief. We can experience the joy and rest of God today as we partner with God in a battle that has already been won.
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Today, in Part 4 of our URGES series, we tackle the destructive cycle of shame.
• Shame Uncovered: Understand shame and how it differs from guilt.
• Lisa’s Story: Learn how Lisa overcame shame around answering unhealthy coping mechanisms /urges in her marriage.
• Practical Steps: Discover strategies to move past shame, reframe thoughts, and embrace God’s kindness when you are stuck in a cycle of obeying unwanted urges.
• Biblical Insights: Reflect on scriptures that help us overcome shame and embrace our identity in Christ.
Join me as we explore how to transform guilt into positive change and step into the grace and freedom God offers.
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This is part 3 of the series Urges. We all experience urges, and nothing is wrong with you because you feel tempted to do things that don't honor your greatest values. The good news is that God is faithful, and He promises that the urge won't last forever and that he will provide a way out.
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This is part 2 of the series Urges. Urges are strong desires, almost a compulsion. Answering them may bring relief and even pleasure, but in the long game, answering urges that don't align with our goals and values creates greater suffering. Often times we will go unconscious and act like urges are happening to us, and yet we have the power to choose how we will respond. In this episode, I outline ways to respond to an urge and encourage listeners to choose a response that honors what is most important to them.
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This is part one of the series Urges. An urge is a pressing desire, almost a compulsion, manifesting in all life areas of living, including relationships, health habits, and work goals. Urges feel uncomfortable, even painful when we don't answer them. However, when we obey unwanted urges, we experience prolonged and acute suffering. In this episode, I introduce and normalize the concept of urges including their purpose in our lives.
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This is part 4 of the series Cultivating a Fiery & Fresh Relationship With Jesus. Today, I discuss the crucial role of the church, referring to the body of all believers as well as local congregations. We. Look at the reasons you may be discouraged from attending church and why regular fellowship is still important. I share with you about my involvement with the Christian community, reminding you that God has given us community not only to benefit us ,but so that we can be a blessing to others.
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