Episodes
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Energy Coach and Erotic Pole Dancer Allison Finely joins me to talk about the power of your own erotic dance!
I’m excited to say she will be teaching in my upcoming salon: Better Sex in 60 Days!!!
This is my signature program to help you get into your body, enhance your desire, and deepen your everyday and erotic relationship with your partner.
Would dancing like a stripper make for better sex?
Well, yes! BUT the answer why may surprise you.
Allison is not only a magnetic erotic dancer but teaches embodiment in such a creative, accessible way so you can feel more empowered in your erotic, sensual SELF and spirit.
In today's interview, we talk about sexual healing through pole and erotic dance, common misconceptions about the dance form, and the
most surprising changes & benefits she has seen in her client and herself (in the bedroom and way beyond)
OH and where she buys her favorite shoes and sexy pieces. ;)
PLUS, learn some easy, sexy AF moves right now! Click here to watch our YouTube video where she teaches her top 5 moves!
Follow Allison on IG HERE.
Make sure to like and subscribe to my Youtube channel to see lots of fun content to help support you and YOUR PLEASURE.
(If you want to join Better Sex in 60 days, it’s $1000k -- a total steal for all the content, guest instructors, and weekly private coaching you’ll get on your way to enhancing YOUR delicious sex life - send me an email as we begin 10/17/22).
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Desire can feel impossibly tricky, especially when that sparky, electric, grab-you-by-the-pants kinda D E S I R E disappears from a relationship.
Here are three ways to increase your hot WANTING when sex feels like a chore.
If you are interested in 1:1 coaching or joining my next group salon Better Sex in 60 Days we begin 10/10/22. Dm here, on IG @mrslydiafeldman, or email [email protected]
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What the heck do I mean by "courtesan"??
Ummm err, prostitute? Escort? Street urchin turned harlot turned glorified Woman of the night?
Like, it's a good thing?
Oh yes my friend, we are reclaiming not only this brilliant word & class of elite women from the gutter,
But also embodying what it means for YOU in this modern age.
Be brazen
Be opulent
Be adored & reverered
Be outrageous powerful
& break all the rules.
We are now starting
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The Elemental Courtesan
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July 5.
6 weeks
Group & 1:1
Dm for your gilded link!
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Get good with the discomfort of seeing your badass hotness reflected back at you from your camera.
Don't let this be complicated, take your phone, find a big window, and let the video roll and screenshot away after.
In this episode, we talk about what makes for a fantastic, unique, and LIT selfie (and guess what, it ISN'T a perfect body or lighting).
With over 20+ years of experience as a professional photographer, coupled with her work as a Life Coach, Davina Fear gives some real practical tips on how to get out of your head and into your body for the best selfies possible!Follow this woman! (here on IG, and FB)
Take her Selfie Siren Series (if you're listening in May/June;)!
ALSO, here's a little taste of my very own Selfie Siren Session from our work together in The Lusty Creative!
Oh oh OH! And if you want to see the eye candy of my Zoom Room (aka WATCH us live instead of listen on the podcast, CLICK HERE).
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Join us today as I talk with Ayurvedic Yogi Life Coach Dana Skoglund as she talks about the embodied practice of SELF - MASSAGE! Self-communion of slow sensual touch can feel surprisingly vulnerable & intimate and has vast effects on health, skin, lymph detoxification, and sexual connection. The best part is also the busy-ness of my brain doesn't have to be responsible for destressing the body. Your hands... Slippery with oil and love potion essential oil scents, Slow, deep, rhythmic & circular strokes, Between fascia, bones & muscles... And then light and silky glide of fingertips... Pleasure, relaxation and MAGIC will work their way through your body. Literally, loving self-touch releases a love-inducing hormone cocktail in our brains so we ARE more open, connected & resilient. So! Wanna try? Here's the practice in a nutshell (and follow @danaskoglund for more wisdom!!!) ** You can also do this with none of the below -- just your hands RIGHT NOW is enough! You'll need an oil base (🥑🥥, sesame or almond) Essential oil (optional) - Most important is that you LOVE it! 👉🏼 for The Love Potion blend try any combo of: Jasmine (⬆️desire & ⬇️nerves) Neroli (⬆️arousal) Sandalwood (⬆️testosterone& drive) Patchouli (⬆️libido & ED) Ylang Ylang (⬆️ libido & endocrine system) Clary Sage (⬆️fertility) Blk Pepper (⬆️ circulation) Bergamot (⬇️ stress) 🤲🏽Combine some oil with the desired any combo of scents in a small glass jar or bowl. 🧘🏻♀️ Sit or stand on an old towel. ❤️Use long deep strokes towards the heart, starting with outer limbs working in, 💞Using long strokes on bones & circles on joints. ⏰ Let it feel GOOD & soak in for 10min, crown to feet. (Could meditate and play with partner massage here;) 🚿 Rinse in a hot shower! Curious to give it a try? Leave a comment and let me know! PS. Follow Dana here: https://www.instagram.com/danaskoglund/ PPS. Here's the link to my sexy playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/44eSs3TkOYQVDs2diMVbhe?si=e3e398fbc0de41ae5
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Being a successful creative (that loves their work) isn't all sparkles and sunshine.
It requires both delicate & hefty attunement to your energy & intuition.
❤️🔥Enter the Creatrix Cycle.❤️🔥
First, we need to understand what phase of the creative process you tend to get stuck in.
And then we need to know whether LUST or LOVE is required.
There are the 6 stages of the Creatrix Cycle we will explore in this month's pleasure salon, The Lusty Creative.
Enchantment
Conception
Incubation
Birthing
Afterglow &
Integration
Each phase leans on lust or love.
Where do you get stuck?
Do you see your hot, turned-on ideas all the way through to cha-ching results?
Do you feel yourself up-leveling and growing as a creator?
The Lusty Creative begins on Monday 4/18/22!
This group is unlike anything I've seen anywhere & allows you to fully activate & channel your BODY as part of your creation process...
But remember:
Creative energy IS sexual energy & allllll of it supports YOUR own life force.
(Bc if your creative process is draining, limp or heavy-- YOU MUST DEMAND AN UPGRADE!)
Let your creative lusty life get racier, splashier, bolder and a fuckton more SUCCESSFUL.
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Lust?
Sounds risky, sinful... animalistic.
I know, I grew up drinking that Koolaid too.
💞But, before you're bound with the "eternal flames of love" you begin with lust.
💥It's the fire starter kit,
complete with kindling, lighter fuel and a blow torch.
Before there is trust, there is the unstable wanting & adrenaline.
Before there is intimacy, there is longing to know more.
And when that all-encompassing love & friendship seem to smother the flames...
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Ya NEED SOME LUST infusions.
When you de-shame and OWN your lust,
LUST is as life-giving and supportive as LOVE.
WE ALL NEED BOTH flame and ember.
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Want to stoke your lusty fire without fear of wildfire?
I have an awesome process I've developed to help my clients.
We map your simple pleasures, lusty desires and intimate needs...
and then create it, one step at a time.
Your hot lust and epic love are NON-NEGOTIABLES.
Dm for a consult for 1:1.WANT IN ON THE LUSTY CREATIVE!?
CLICK HERE!
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Fantasies hold SO SO SO much insight and potentiality for us... they contain wisdom, access to our deeper desires, and truest selves. Ya know, the heroine that has ALL the power, presence, and gets exactly what she wants.
Here's the INVITATION:
Curate your erotic imagination & start exploring all those dreamy fantasies you've kept tucked away.
Write your favorite fantasies down.
Send them to me.
I will read the best ones on this Podcast and celebrate YOUR amazing imagination and smutty erotic brilliance.Deadline is March 1st, 2022. :)
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First check out my tattoo here on IG: @mrslydiafeldman = so rad!
AND what I realized through this intense experience is that your voice is meant to enhance your life,
Temper the perpetual pain & expand the immense pleasure!
So what about s3x? Ummm whatcher saying is banshee scream and moan more? 🤔
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🚨 1. There is no RIGHT way or decibel to have s3x or pleasure (so fuck off lyd 😂).
🚨2. YESSSS make a fuckton more noise! More sounds, bigger range, more vibration texture & expression!
Moan, growl, trill, throaty whisper, hum, roar, squeel, guttural laugh, buzz & yell.
Talk dirty.
Speak sweet nothings.
But get your brain to shut up.
Why???
😯 it gets you into the moment and in your body for pleasure (or tempered pain;)
😮 it circulates tension & orgasmic energy (try breathing deeply before orgasm and pulling that energy up to your throat with some sound!)
It will prolong and deepen pleasure.
😛 it can connect you more with your desires and help signal to your partner what you like and want.
🤩 it will help integrate the pleasure of the moment- literally your brain and body will take in & remember more pleasure signals!
Don't hold so much back.
No one really cares & when in doubt grab a pillow and let loose. -
If You Can't Seduce Yourself... NO ONE Can.
The Art of Self Seduction is starting 2.7.22 and I have gotten lots of questions and curiosities regarding this program!
Could this one-month pleasure salon be right for you??
YES if you want to:
❤️ understand and TRUST yourself to be in charge of your desire and turn on.
❤️stop WAITING for arousal (that barely comes).
❤️ know HOW to get turned on (and why you're turned off).
❤️TRUST yourself to say what you want (and how you want it).
❤️here are some deets!
We start next week!
Doors open for pre-partying next week & officially begin 2/7!
4 weeks
Small group
✨pleasure mapping
✨fantasy exploration
✨boudoir selfie workshop🤳🏼
✨solo tantra
✨erotic movement
✨4 group coaching calls
✨ 1:1 coaching for those who sign up by 1/31!
✨plus seductive bonuses!
$500
(Seriously, this is a stupid good deal).
so grab the link below (or dm me) to get in there!!
IT'S GONNA BE SOOOO FUN!!! 🔥
https://lydia-feldman-coaching.mailchimpsites.com/store/products/ac97e9c8-fa84-4545-8109-87a747c1816b?mc_cid=3f713a83ca&mc_eid=d59aa69748 -
So often we don't even allow ourselves to imagine, fantasize and WANT what we deeply want... because it feels emotionally risky.
But maybe that's a sign that you're tapped into something that actually really fucking matters to you (and this WILL require some growing pains or change).
In this episode, I talk about exploring desire and fantasy (including any ole goal you have) in a way that FEELS GOOD.
Being honest with your true wants.
Letting them scare you.
Deciding what you want to create in REAL life.
Then the delicate, messy work of allowing negative emotions as you tinker with your fantasy creation.
Let your Pleasurescape guide you and evolve your life.
XX ALSO, if you're interested in my February small coaching salon: The Art of Self Seduction, click here! -
This conversation all about boozy sex and sexy booze and snoozy boozy bluesy sex is perfect for the new year. Y'all doin Dry January??
Well in this podcast, I talk with Jennie Juechter, an Activatrix of Aliveness life coach who helps women check their over-drinking and eating habits.
We talk about WHY we want to drink, social anxiety, radical self-ownership, and ultimately the relationship between alcohol and sexual pleasure.
If you're curious about how to curate a SEXY AF and INTENTIONAL lapdance-in-my-mouth kind of relationship with drinking (that doesn't leave you sloppy or zonked by 9pm)... LISTEN UP!!
Plus Jennie is hella funny.
Check out Jennie on IG (and Follow like a mofo!) Here's a link to our collab interview we did last fall on her MILF's Droppin the Mic series:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CWBgmoKJaZb/
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2022 doesn't have to be about willing yourself off bread or cranking out brutally consistent IG posts.
Your resolutions don't have to feel dry, repentant, desperate, or *gasp* HARD AS HELL!
In fact, it's possible your planning for next year (or next week) can feel delightful, salacious & opulent.
So let's start with some basics for pleasurescaping:
YES you can have pleasure goals
YES the reason you have ANY goal is for the expected pleasure gained from it.
YES creating said salacious pleasure CAN BE FUN & surprising (even while hella challenging).
YES you deserve EVERYTHING you desire (and more).
YES you CAN create it (faster than you think).
🤔😍🤩💋In this episode I talk about the masculine and feminine pillars to creating A PLEASURESCAPE:
1. Imagination
2. Planning
3. Embodiment
4. Creation
5. Amplification
Want to design a sinfully delicious 2022?
Meet me in my Zoom Parlor
THIS Thursday 12/30 @ 12pm PT.
(register free here)
Or message me at [email protected] for a 1:1 consultation.We'll map it out, feeeeeel it and start the courageous work of creating epic pleasure.
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Time to check your imagination!!
Does it actually bring more pleasure and connection into your body and life?
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I'm joined by my lovely and turned-on client Cassandra Anderson as we talk about her journey that started with TON of DIS-trust of her body and desire as broken and subpar.
Now she uses her embodiment practice as a means to ALWAYS check in with her body for what she wants.... and trusts her ability to create it.
Listen on if you want some super practical, easy ways to create a FULL BODY YES to pleasure and intimacy.
ALSO, if getting out of your head and into your body sounds undeniably delicious AND you are ready to take your pleasure to the next level, reach out!
The Embodied Woman group coaching program has just begun (11/15) and there are also spaces in my 1:1 calendar.
YOUR PLEASURE IS BEYOND WORTH IT.XO
Lydia
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When I talk about embodiment, I'm not just talking about feeling sexy and relaxed.
I'm talking about befriending and channeling your BIGNESS.Your frustration and fury, sorrow and untapped desire... your uncanny power & truest self.
In this episode, Tosca Necoechea and I talk about her work and practice of Krav Maga self-defense and her women's fight club in Oakland, Ca.
We talk about combat training as a practical tool for women and more importantly, WHY physicalizing our unsavory emotions in a healthy way is radically therapeutic.
As Tosca puts it, "it's more than just defending yourself; it's about the personal transformation that can occur when you enter your body and befriend the emotions you've been advised to suppress." #MICDROP
Interested in more ways to EMBODY your bigness and get out of your head?
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We usually think we need to DO something in order to feel better.
Fix something, change someone, make more money, solve a problem...etc.
I want to offer that no emotion is "bad"... in fact, we want to be able to feel it, understand WHY we're feeling it, and then let it go (FULLY).
With a little drama as possible.
Here's my process which is SO SO helpful in simply letting myself feel shitty before thought work or blatant numbing out or springing into reaction mode.
If you want more support in learning how to embody your FULL range of self so you can access deeper pleasure and connection, JOIN my new small group coaching program The Embodied Woman.
It's short and sweet, 4 weeks and we'll dive into it ALL: Mindset, Breathwork, Erotic Movement, Intuitive Tapping, and your Orgasmic YES.$500
Starting November 15th, 2021
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I have a sparkling, amazingly intimate offering just for YOU, woman!!
I have just released my self-pleasure Pussy Activation series, and it is sooo 🔥🔥!
These 15min guided masturbation audios are designed to connect you deeper to your pleasure and orgasm (of course!)
But even better, they start the conversation with your body, desire and deep KNOWING --
Aka your powerfully LIT inner voice and intuition.
Your breath
Your heart
Your pussy power💥
Trusting your body and your own orgasmic energy is the foundation of being a turned on woman.
How do I connect to my body?
My orgasm?
My "pussy wisdom" ??
How do I enhance my orgasm to include my WHOLE body & trust my pleasure?
The answer is between your legs 😉
And of course, getting on my early release Pussy Activation list!
It's free this month and then goes on sale via my website!
Get your free audio pack Now by submitting your info 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼
https://lydiafeldmancoaching.com/contact/
Otherwise, If you're catching this episode after November 1, 2021, Just head over to my website to purchase your Activation Pack~ www.lydiafeldmancoaching.com -
POLE CURIOUS?
Join us for a fun conversation about the power of POLE and Erotic Movement.
Today I’m interviewing Jen Pearce and Kerry Anne Aldridge, founders of Sisters In Motion, an S Factor dance and erotic embodiment studio for women in San Francisco.
If you’re getting stuck in your head and want to explore embodiment and erotic expansion… Listen UP!
Also, find more of their work and class schedule here:
https://www.sistersinmotionsf.com/
If you’re listening to this upon release of the podcast, join their free class Saturday, 10/9 at 12pm PT with the promo code “foundation.”
Also, check out their variety of classes including a new 8-week Foundations Course for a deep dive into erotic embodiment starting this month.
FINALLY,
If you haven't seen the Netflix Documentary Strip Down & Rise Up, it's all about S-Factor and the power of sensual movement for women! IT'S SO GOOD! - Show more
