Episodes
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Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son, Diggory Waite, chat about the groundbreaking work of William Masters and Virginia Johnson, the pioneers of human sexuality research. They discuss how their unconventional experiments—often involving themselves—shaped modern understanding of sexual behaviour.
Then, Cate and Diggory answer listener questions, tackling topics like non-hormonal contraception options that minimise discomfort, and whether fluctuating "hard-soft" erections are something to worry about.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
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Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite respond to listener questions including how to make long distance relationships work and why one might always pee when they play with their clitoris.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
-Our email: [email protected]
-Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell, along with her son Diggory Waite, responds to a listener questioning whether he and his wife are 'too old' for sex, and to another listener seeking advice on how to masturbate without relying on pornographic videos, erotic literature, or audio content.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
-Our email: [email protected]
-Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions like how do I get a girlfriend not in clubs, pubs or bars, why one's clit might be sore and if it's okay to not be into casual sex...
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
-Our email: [email protected]
-Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions including how to help one's boyfriend who wants to try having sex with men and how to remove power dynamics from sex...
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
-Our email: [email protected]
-Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite discuss reports that sexual content in top films has dropped since the 2000s, outline the context surrounding the world at the moment and attempt to answer why this, as a recent study claims, means young people are having less sex?
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite take listeners questions including:
Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker? Why does it hurt when I use my dildo? And how to control ejaculation, increase duration, and mind control?Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk all things baby voice - why do we do it to babies? Why do we do it with partners and why is it so cringey to witness? They also take questions from listeners about suggestions for books on different relationship types and how to deal with softer erections?
Check out Ms Rachel's TikTok here - https://www.tiktok.com/@msrachelforlittles?lang=en
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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*TRIGGER WARNING* This podcast contains discussion about suicide and sexual assault.
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss new guidance from the UK Government for schools in England, advising teachers not to give sex education to children under 9 and to not teach students about gender identity.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Resources:
File on 4 - Sex education: Too much too young? - https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001lqnk
The Genderbread Person - https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2018/10/the-genderbread-person-v4/
Understanding the Complexities of Gender: Sam Killermann at TEDxUofIChicago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRcPXtqdKjE&t=523s&ab_channel=TEDxTalks
Good Morning Britain & Restrictions on Gender and Identity Being Taught in Schools - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6dAmlzAyeI&ab_channel=GoodMorningBritain
Sexual Assault Support Links:
· Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999
· Safeline 0808 800 5005
· Support for Survivors
· Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496
Suicide Support Links
https://listeningplace.org.uk/
https://www.samaritans.org/
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/behaviours/help-for-suicidal-thoughts/
LGBTQ+ Support Links
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/lgbtqia-mental-health/useful-contacts/
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Diggory Waite puts the lyrics of Dua Lipa's song 'Anything for Love' to his mother, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell. Together, they discuss commitment issues, generational differences in dating and what you can do if you're struggling to find love.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
-Our email: [email protected]
-Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer listener questions around squirting, not being able to orgasm from intercourse as a woman and why some straight men are attracted to trans-women with penises.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
Resources referenced:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8035091/
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to support services below.
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite go through some follow-ups, sent in from listeners who've had their questions answered. These include questions around giving sexual feedback to partners you're ending it with, what to say to your parents if they're unhappy with you becoming sexually active at 16, why women "love big cocks but not too big" and which courses you can do to become a sex therapist/sexologist in the UK.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
- Cate's Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/catecampbellrelationshiptalk (but please direct all hate to @diggorywaite on Instagram, TikTok or X)
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
Resources:
The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists List of Professional Qualification Courses
Sexual Assault Support Links:
· Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999
· Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911
· Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302
· Safeline 0808 800 5005
· Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818
· Support for Survivors
· We Are Survivors
· Women’s Support Project
· Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
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*TRIGGER WARNING* FGM is discussed in this episode. You can find support below:
NHS National FGM Support Clinics – https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/
The Dahlia Project – https://www.dahliaproject.org/access-our-services/
In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer more of your questions including if shift work can affect your sex life, how to find the clitoris and whether not being able to get an erection whilst giving a sperm donation means you've got a low sex drive.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this breakups special, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer your questions on breakups and processing them.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite catch up about Cate's holiday, shagging penguins and the mile-high club. Then, they answer your questions about IVF, endometriosis, what it means when you don't like someone, parents butting in on your sex life and how to give your partner polite feedback.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
-Our email: [email protected]
-DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on the contraceptive pill, ghosting, the reason you're turned on by master/slave kinks, how to get better at sex and whether it is okay to fantasise about your favourite characters in a sexy way???
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer more listener questions like what are the 'optimal' sex positions for people with a small penis, how to destigmatise people with a small penis, how to navigate budding new relationships, all or nothing libidos, chastity cages, chastity belts and Robin Hood...
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listeners questions around how to get comfortable with sex, performance anxiety, response pressure and religious guilt.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory take a serious look at 'Mommy Issues' and answer other questions from their listeners including 'Should I use a tampon to stop c*m running down my leg?', 'Am I not bisexual?' and 'What should I do if my partner has genital herpes?'
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on all things anal sex addressing how to do it safely, how to prepare properly, whether you can do it spontaneously and if you can get... pregnant?
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
- Our email: [email protected]
- DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.
All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.
The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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