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"Our romantic relationships affect who we are and the places that we go or where we don't go." -Krystl Fabella, founder of Filipina on The Rise, a podcast that spotlights successful Filipinas in different industries.
Krystl Fabella is a woman on a mission to create a lasting impact. Join us as she candidly shares her personal journey, starting with her transformative experience of breaking free from a toxic relationship. Throughout our conversation, Krystl unveils the all-too-familiar cycle many women encounter.
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01:14 Dating as a recruitment process
07:36 The story of Filipina on The Rise
19:59 Best tip on personal relationships
21:26 Family dynamics
27:53 What was she like in her younger years
32:42 The cycle of toxic relationships
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After Honey broke up with her long-term boyfriend of eight years, she was ready to give up on love. Here come's Toto, her now husband. This episode is all about their love story and how he made her believe in love again. In this episode, we talk about:
Finding love again Being set-up Timing and laying out your cards Navigating long distance relationships MarriageWhat's the best and worst love advice you've gotten?
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On women taming men: “We're so astonished by a lion. And the author (John Eldredge, Wild At Heart) was connecting men to lions…the wild lion. A girl would be attracted to a lion. But once she gets the lion, she would tame it and the lion would lose its ferocity. It's what attracted her to him.”
JPaul Hernandez is a podcaster and author focused on the self-development of men.
In this episode, we talk to him about:
Why we love ‘bad boy projects’ His love story Dealing with abuse, vices, and cheating Collectivism in Filipino families Birth order theory and its effect on relationships Micro-habits for healthier relationships.Follow him: https://www.instagram.com/jpaulhernandez/
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"Dating is like applying for a job. And yourself is your cv. Do you want to submit a boring resume?" - Angely Dub
Angely is a self-made entrepreneur. And she is on an adventure to enjoy her single life! She is also a fellow podcaster with her show, Life in Progress.
This episode is our year-ender special, where we give no BS advice to face your dating life. Our favorite tips: invest in yourself and have a good checklist.
We covered topics like:
How to deal with nosy people
Positive dating mindsets
A good checklist for a partner
Share this episode with other single friends who want to enjoy dating this 2023.
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Article: If You Can’t Find a Spouse Who Supports Your Career, Stay Single
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In this epiosode, we dive into manifesting love by loving ourselves. Self-love, soulmates, law of attraction, manifestation are all words we’ve heard before. But the big question is, how do we make these words work for us? Our guest tonight is Sanaiyah Gurnamal, founder and host of the podcast Project Loving Myself. Spotify Philippines #1 Trending and top 50 podcasts.
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"When we say something, I feel like we actually mean it, unless it's like a fight, then we can be a bit passive aggressive." -Luis Degu on how men communicate
Join us as we recap season one, the season that we believe made us actually smarter in love. In this episode, we cover:
• A caller's problem on how to communicate with her partner of almost 10 years
• Sending mixed signals
• Decoding what men and women say
• Practical tips on communication
• Communicating non-negotiables
• Ultimatums
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Welcome to the first every episode of Thirsty and Thirty. Join us as we recap season one, the season that we believe made us actually smarter in love.
In this episode, we cover:
How to date virtually
How to turn an online relationship to a real world relationship
We also answer some fun questions from our live viewers!
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Lissy Puno, a relationship expert, told us, "86% of couples that are subjected to infidelity can recover." There is hope. We know infidelity is such a timely and evergreen topic. So, we interview her about her best-selling book, Affairs Don't Just Happen.
In this episode, we cover:
The reasons men and women cheat How to prevent infidelity How to stay attracted to one person for a long timeThis is a deep dive on all things infidelity! Share this episode with a friend or partner who needs to hear this conversation.
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Let's talk about easing your love and dating anxieties. In part one of this conversation, we talk about when to say, "I love you" for the first time and advice you would give your perpetually heartbroken bestie. You need to this very special episode with Inka!
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"If you are jealous, maybe, you do need to express some sort of boundaries to them." -Rex De Guzman
Meet Rex De Guzman, a Filipino chef based in the UK. He is an entrepreneur of Turo Turo, a food business that promotes Filipino cuisine.
As we dig deeper after part 1, we talk about:
Jealousy Cheating How some men compartmentalize sex Right time, right place, right person Readiness for a relationshipTell us, what is the most common dating problem you are dealing with?
Guest Quotes:
"If you're too rigid, it's not considerate of the other person's feelings."
"Some guys don't wanna get rejected. So they'll say things to get what they want, whether it is just to get you in bed or to, you know, build a relationship."
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"For me, have trust and then if the trust is broken, of course it's damaging." -Rex De Guzman
Meet Rex De Guzman, a Filipino chef based in the UK. He is an entrepreneur of Turo Turo, a food business that promotes Filipino cuisine.
As we get to know his dating history, we talk about:
Cooking as a language of love How to support someone with a busy schedule Compatibility and practicality Cryptic communicationGuest Quotes:
"[Cooking] It is a home skill that everyone wants in a a partner."
"For me, have trust and then if the trust is broken, of course it's damaging."
"Boundaries are good, but I think it comes in waves."
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“If he doesn't know what he wants, he won't commit." -Vince Velasco
Meet Vince Velasco, a multifaceted man. He is a host, trainer, geek and sports enthusiast. We start with a little ice breaker but then we dig deeper.
We talk about:
Ultimatums Relationship timelines Characteristics to look for before committing CertaintyPart 1
Guest Quotes:
"When we're in our thirties, we feel like we're wasting our time after a certain point there. So, give the ultimatum. Yes, it works. But only after a certain number of experiences and certain number of time." "You don't necessarily know what your priorities are and you also don't know where you wanna be five or ten years from now, and that's gonna damage the person you're in a relationship with it, because what happens if your priorities change throughout time?"What's your takeaway from this episode? Let us know by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at [email protected].
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“The chase is still fun. The thrill is still fun. Because if you do end up with that girl, you don't want to end up from zero to hundred, kaagad." -Vince Velasco
Meet Vince Velasco, a multifaceted man. He is a host, trainer, geek and sports enthusiast. We start with a little ice breaker but then we dig deeper. We talk about:
His dating history
Experience as a teacher
Determining a relationship
Timelines
What attracts men to women: Clarity, Confidence and Communication
Listening to intuition
Mixed signals
Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at [email protected]. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.
Thirsty & Thirty resources:
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment by Steve Harvey (We reference this briefly!) -
"If you're immature, please don't get married yet." - Justin Quirino
Meet Justin Quirino, a high school heartthrob and Candy Cutie in our teen years. He is also a successful podcaster and host today. He is our first guest in Mind of Man. And we thought we would tease him about the good old high school days. But this smooth talker turned out to be a deep talker. Instead, Ciari and I are schooled that men can get vulnerable and that there’s more to learn.
In part 2, we talk about:
Praying for a good partner What makes someone relationship worthy or marriage material The 50 questions to ask before getting married How not to romanticize marriage and put the good kind of work Advice he got from church on keeping a marriage alive The innate impulse of men to provideLet us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at [email protected]. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.
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50 questions to ask before marriage Wild at Heart Revised and Updated: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul by John Eldredge The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller Matthew McConaughey's Best Actor Speech -
Meet Justin Quirino, a high school heartthrob and Candy Cutie in our teen years. He is also a successful podcaster and host today.
He is our first guest in Mind of Man. And we thought we would tease him about the good old high school days. But this smooth talker turned out to be a deep talker. Instead, Ciari and I are schooled that men can get vulnerable and that there’s more to learn.
We talked about:
How our childhood impacts our dating life
How we first interact with the opposite sex
How to deal with attention
If you should stroke your partner's ego
How to deal with heartbreak
Justin's Origin Story
Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at [email protected].
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Part 2 will come out this Saturday.
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Our IG live was so good with Coach Vee that we decided to publish it as a bonus episode. Here are some common questions we get:
1:00 How do you deal with a perverted text after the first date?
4:32 How can you tell if they like you back?
6:20 Do you believe dating is a numbers game?
9:00 What if you want them to be more proactive on planning dates?
12:45 How do you sustain an LDR?
17:18 Should one go out with a foreigner in the Philippines that may leave soon?
19:46 How do you stop someone from interviewing you for a job position as a future boyfriend or husband?
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One of the Thirsty and Thirty cohosts is embarking on a dating journey. Listen in as Bea tells us the lowdown on her 52 date challenge.
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Meet Jesse. This is her very first blind date! She meets both Franco and Franz because one guy ghosted us. Tune in for the kilig and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club
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Meet Franz and Sofia. Two singles ready to date again. This is their FIRST ever blind date. Tune in for the banter and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club
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Meet Franco and Marga. Two singles ready to date again. This is their FIRST ever blind date.
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