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  • GET HIM OBSESSED - GEMINI

    GET HIM OBSESSED - GEMINI

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This May, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Gemini man obsessed with YOU.

    Get ready to uncover:

    đŸ”„ The secrets behind his charm and dual nature—and how to make them work in your favor.

    đŸ”„ Proven tips to spark his curiosity and keep him endlessly intrigued by you.

    đŸ”„ What excites him most in a relationship (and what will make him lose interest).

    đŸ”„ The telltale signs he’s getting bored—and how to pull him back in.

    đŸ”„ How to win him back if he’s already moved on to the next big thing.

    Whether you’re drawn to his wit and energy, already dating him, or trying to rekindle the flame, this episode will teach you how to keep a Gemini man obsessed with you.

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  • Surviving Friendship Breakups with Unbothered Podcast

    Surviving Friendship Breakups with Unbothered Podcast

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Ever lost four teeth and exposed your tampon string on a first date? Chloe has. But guess what hurts even more? Friendship breakups. Today, joined by Alexa & Chloe from the Unbothered Podcast, we’re getting real about the friends who ghosted us, the emotional vampires, moving on without closure, and the painful truth that sometimes friendships end because someone stopped pretending.

    At what point do you stop performing for someone who’s not even clapping? Tune in for some unhinged, hilarious, and surprisingly healing conversations—together we'll laugh, cringe, and feel a little less alone.

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  • He Thinks It's Love. It's Strategy.

    He Thinks It's Love. It's Strategy.

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Wanna get spoiled and stay in charge?

    This week, I’m breaking down how to play the game like a princess with a PhD in power. You’ll learn how to make him think he’s leading—while you’re actually driving the damn car.

    Tap for the cheat code to his ego.

    The secret sauce? Tune in. I’m not giving it all away here, babe.

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  • Is Your Toxic Relationship Making You Sick?

    Is Your Toxic Relationship Making You Sick?

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Listen bestie, you know that tight feeling in your chest, the unexplained fatigue, the random headaches and sleepless nights? That’s your body screaming: this relationship is toxic!! RUN. (We're talking, romantic, platonic, or family—no one gets a free pass.)

    Today, Violetta reveals the science-backed truth about how emotional stress from toxic relationships physically destroys your health—think cortisol chaos, immune system crashes, and gut meltdowns. If you have ADHD, trauma, or an anxious attachment style, congrats—you’re 10x more sensitive to this damage.

    Tune in for:

    The chilling Bluebeard story about ignoring your gut instincts (never again, babe!).A powerful checklist to instantly spot red flags.Clear, science-backed insights into exactly what's happening in your body.A no-BS, 3-step call to action to reclaim your life ASAP.

    Because here's the deal:

    You can’t heal in the same environment that made you sick.

    So today, we're choosing YOU.

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  • The Anxious Avoidant TRAP

    The Anxious Avoidant TRAP

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Ever wonder why YOU are SO addicted to people who pull away? Today, you’ll finally find out.

    If the harder you chase, the faster they run — you might be trapped in the anxious-avoidant cycle: where one partner craves closeness, and the other panics when things get too real. In this BBC episode, Violet breaks down why this dynamic feels like home but leaves you emotionally starved.

    Inspired by the book Attached, we dive into real stories, psych-backed insights, and how to finally break free.

    Bonus: Don’t miss the quiz at the end—It’ll help you decode your partner’s attachment style fast. Jump to minute 37:00 if you’re done guessing and ready to know who you’re really dealing with.

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  • How to Detach from a Love Bomber

    How to Detach from a Love Bomber

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Think he was your soulmate? wrong. He was just a love bomber with good Wi-Fi.

    This isn’t another “just let go” episode. This is your official detachment plan with a twist—designed for the girl who’s done performing for emotionally unstable men who ghost after six weeks of calling you “the one.”

    In this short, savage 5 step guide, I’m breaking down how to detox from the fantasy, regulate your nervous system, and finally stop romanticizing the inconsistency of A LOVEBOMBER. Because love bombing isn’t love—it’s manipulation with good marketing.

    You’re not crazy. You’re just waking up.

    It’s time to stop making chaos feel like home.

    And no, babe, he doesn’t get access to this version of you anymore.

    So save this episode, share it with your friends, and leave a 5 star review when you're done.

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  • Doing the Most for the Bare Minimum

    Doing the Most for the Bare Minimum

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Second week of the month? You know what that means—it’s time for Dear Violet - where you call, text, or email me your BURNING questions and I give you the best advice that you need to hear.

    From pooping in front of him (WHY) to co-signing car loans in the talking stage—On today's episode, I’m breaking down the dumbest sh*t we’ve all done for men who didn’t deserve it. Plus: navigating ex drama, toxic friends, and how to actually move on from heartbreak when therapy, shrooms, and silent retreats aren’t cutting it.

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  • Give Me 21 Days and I’ll Change Your Life

    Give Me 21 Days and I’ll Change Your Life

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    If you’re tired of feeling stuck, this is your wake-up call.

    In 21 days, you can reset your mind, body, and soul—and completely shift the trajectory of your life. No fluff. No waiting. Just the mindset, the energy, and the exact steps to become her. This is the sign you've been looking for!! Your future self is begging you to press play :)

    P.S. Make sure to tune in to the 3 call to action steps at the end.

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  • When People Reveal Themselves—Let Them

    When People Reveal Themselves—Let Them

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Buckle up besties, because we’re removing the love goggles, dry-heaving over mixed signals, and finally realizing your soulmate is not the guy who ghosted you after “accidentally” falling into another woman’s vagina. Oopsies.

    In today’s spicy little episode, ’m diving into the chapter that should be tattooed on every situationship survivor's forehead: Let Them Show You Who They Are from Mel Robbins’ book The Let Them Theory. This episode is for anyone confused, delusional, freshly dumped, or just in need of a no-bullsh*t reminder that love shouldn’t feel like a cryptic puzzle from a 2009 Tumblr post. If they wanted to, they would—and if they didn’t, they won’t. Period.

    Subscribe now before I show up at your house and start reading this chapter out loud in a Russian accent until you cry and heal!!! AHHHHHHHH LOVE YOU <3

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  • The Confessions of a Bachelorette with Kaitlyn Bristowe

    The Confessions of a Bachelorette with Kaitlyn Bristowe

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Hi besties!!! This week, Almost Adulting gets extra raw (and maybe a little gross) as Violet sits down with Bachelor royalty,Kaitlyn Bristowe, for a no-holds-barred conversation full of TMI, laughter, and brutal honesty. In this episode, we cover:

    We Listen and We Don’t Judge â€“ Icebreaker confessions, including bathroom mishaps, weird habits, and the things nobody admits to.Living Alone vs. Relationship Life â€“ The best and worst parts of solo life and the unexpected struggles that make us miss having a man around.The Art of Oversharing â€“ Social media, internet hate, and why people love to pretend they’ve never done anything wrong.Toxic Hollywood Friendships and toxic Hollywood men with weird kinks Poop Kinks & Other Horrors â€“ Yes, we went there. Buckle up.

    Get ready for an episode that’s equal parts hilarious, shocking, and way too relatable. We listen, we don’t judge
 but we might gag.

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  • GET HIM OBSESSED - ARIES

    GET HIM OBSESSED - ARIES

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This March, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting an Aries man obsessed with YOU.

    Get ready to uncover:

    đŸ”„ The bold traits that make him irresistible—and how to use them to your advantage.

    đŸ”„ Proven strategies to grab his attention and keep him addicted to your energy.

    đŸ”„ What lights his fire in a relationship (and what will extinguish it).

    đŸ”„ Red flags that show he’s losing interest—and how to reignite the spark.

    đŸ”„ How to win him back if he’s pulled away or moved on.

    Whether you’re trying to attract an Aries, keep up with his fiery personality, or rekindle the passion, this episode is your ultimate guide to handling the zodiac’s boldest lover.

    Hit play now and make this March all about conquering the heart of an Aries! 

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  • Andrew Tate, Confidence Killers & Getting Out of the Friend Zone

    Andrew Tate, Confidence Killers & Getting Out of the Friend Zone

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Tiny Adults, it's that time of the month—our second-week Dear Violet episode! But first, a little story time. I just got back from a wild Vegas weekend at UFC, where I had an unexpected run-in with Andrew Tate. Yep, you heard that right. I’ll spill all the details before diving into today’s episode, where we tackle everything from confidence killers to trauma, self-love, and getting what you want.

    Here’s what we’re covering:

    The Power of Labels â€“ How to label someone to get exactly what you want.Grief & Healing â€“ Everyone processes grief differently. Here’s how to navigate it in a way that works for you.Trauma & Your Nervous System â€“ The difference between immobilization and movement during trauma—and how it determines your healing speed.Breaking Down Trauma Processing â€“ The three key steps: sensing, naming, and identifying.When You Feel Ugly & Unlovable â€“ My advice to someone struggling with self-worth.The 4 Confidence Killers â€“ What’s secretly holding you back from the life you want.Self-Affirmations I Swear By â€“ Plus, a sneak peek into my love-yourself speech.The Real Key to Self-Love â€“ It’s not what you think.Does He Like Me? â€“ How to go from the friend zone to something more.5 Easy Comebacks â€“ What to say when someone’s being rude (because we love a good mic drop).

    This episode is packed, so grab a drink, get comfy, and let’s get into it! Don't forget to subscribe, share with your friends, and leave me a 5 star review on the podcast app besties :)

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  • Bad at Skiing, Good at Making Out – My Aspen Chaos

    Bad at Skiing, Good at Making Out – My Aspen Chaos

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Pack your bags, Tiny Adults (is this nickname working for you?? Y/N?), because we’re heading to Aspen—where the altitude is high, the skiing is tragic, and the men? Well
 some of them are worth the trip. This episode is a rollercoaster of luxury, disaster, and unexpected life lessons. From scoring free designer fits to nearly dying on the slopes, this trip had everything. 

    Buckle up—you're in for a ride.

    ⏳ TIME STAMPS:

    [00:00:00] - [00:13:16] âž My favourite part of traveling, the perks of flying deaf, and why you should actually appreciate your loved ones.

    [00:15:04] âž That one time my boyfriend low-key hated me, my alleged passion for stealing, and how I learned altitude sickness (much like the female orgasm) isn't a myth. (Wait, wuttt?!)

    [00:25:58] âž Me vs. skiing: a brutal battle for survival. Plus, the lesson I should have learned—and what you should take away instead. (Cue the existential crisis.)

    [00:50:42] âž Brazilian men are hot, Bad makeout sessions, and why escaping Aspen is always a sh*t show.

    Click play for luxury, disaster, and life lessons you didn’t ask for but need!

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  • The LET THEM Theory Will Change Your Life

    The LET THEM Theory Will Change Your Life

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    BBC is BACK, baby! Welcome back to Benson Book Club—your monthly deep dive into books that actually hit. Every fourth week, we break down a chapter that changes the game and today, we’re cracking open The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins.

     â€œYour energy is better spent on what you can control: YOU.” â€“ Mel Robbins

    Translation? Stop trying to control people who don’t text back, don’t show up, or don’t give you what you want. LET THEM. And then? Watch your life get so much easier.

    This episode covers:

    Why chasing people is a waste of timeWhy You’re Exhausted Trying to Control People â€“ The #1 mistake we all make when we try to “fix” or “convince” others. (Spoiler: It never works.)How to Stop Taking Things Personally â€“ When someone ghosts, disrespects you, or doesn’t show up the way you want—here’s how to instantly stop giving a f*ck. The Freedom of LETTING THEM â€“ What happens when you stop chasing, stop forcing, and just let people do whatever they want? (Hint: Your life gets 100x easier.) Your Energy is YOURS—Take It Back â€“ You don’t need their approval. You don’t need closure. You need to focus on YOURSELF.The Magic of The LET THEM and Let Me Theory â€“ The second you apply this, you’ll start feeling lighter, happier, and completely unbothered.

    If you’re tired of overthinking, over-explaining, and over-giving—this episode is for YOU.

    Hit play, and let’s talk about it. đŸŽ§đŸ”„ #LetThem #AlmostAdulting #MelRobbins

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  • We Listen and We DO Judge (ft. Laura Clery)

    We Listen and We DO Judge (ft. Laura Clery)

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    🚹 Buckle up, tiny adults—this episode is PURE CHAOS. 🚹

    I’m joined by the one and only Laura Clery—host of Idiot podcast, author, comedian, and dear friend. Together, we’re spilling the most unhinged, hilarious, and WTF-worthy stories we’ve never dared to say out loud—until now. But you have to PROMISE not to judge. From moving in with a drug dealer she met once, to accidentally ruining a marriage, to getting away with illegal parking, meth (yes, really), and some other truly questionable life choices.

    Then, we get serious about life post-divorce, finding yourself again, and the reality of dating after everything falls apart.

    If you love a mix of absolute chaos and raw honesty, this episode is for you. Tap in NOW. đŸŽ§đŸ”„ #AlmostAdulting #LauraClery #NoRegrets (
okay, some regrets)

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  • GET HIM OBSESSED - PISCES

    GET HIM OBSESSED - PISCES

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This February, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Pisces man obsessed with YOU.

    Get ready to uncover:

    đŸ”„ The secrets behind his compassionate and mysterious nature—and how to use them to your advantage.

    đŸ”„ Foolproof ways to captivate his heart and keep him completely hooked.

    đŸ”„ What he craves in a partner (and what will make him drift away).

    đŸ”„ Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to turn things around.

    đŸ”„ The best strategies to win him back if you’ve lost his love.

    Whether you’re crushing on a Pisces, dating one, or trying to rekindle the magic, this episode is your ultimate roadmap to mastering the art of Pisces love.

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  • Why You’re Obsessed with the Wrong People

    Why You’re Obsessed with the Wrong People

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Welcome to Dear Violetta - our monthly series airing every second week of the month! where I answer your toughest questions with the unfiltered advice you need to hear.

    If you've ever questioned a friendship, obsessed over a ghoster, or felt like you fall too fast in love—then today's episode is for you.

    Topics Covered:

    Ending a toxic friendship & signs your friendship is toxicShould you give a guy who ghosted you a second chance?The fastest way to get someone to do what you want (in work, love, & life)First date mistakes: The #1 thing ruining your chances before the relationship even starts"Why are all the men I date cheaters?” (Hint: It’s deeper than you think)Getting attached too fast: The difference between love & emotional attachmentThe real reason we get swept away SO easily

    🎧 Listen now for the tough love you didn’t ask for—but NEED.

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  • How to Stop Being a F*cking Failure

    How to Stop Being a F*cking Failure

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    What if I told you happiness isn’t the goal—and most people don’t actually want it? đŸ€Ż

    That’s why WE secretly keep self-sabotaging. That’s why we stay stuck. But here’s the truth: As corny as it may sound, rock bottom isn’t the end. It’s the launchpad.

    In this episode, we get real about:

    Part 1 -

    đŸ’„ How hitting rock bottom can be your biggest flex (if you know how to use it)

    đŸ’„ The real reason you keep self-sabotaging (and how to stop)

    đŸ’„ Why pain is actually part of your success story

    Part 2 - (24:35:15)

    đŸ’„ 3 pillars of happiness that actually work (because 'just be positive' is BS)

    đŸ’„ How we begin to unknowingly self sabotage 

    đŸ’„ The 12 psychological ways your brain is holding you back from happiness

    đŸ’„The secret to living a happy life

    If you’ve been feeling lost, stuck, or like you’re failing at life—this episode is for you. It’s time to stop playing small and start turning your setbacks into your comeback era. 🔗 Listen now & start your glow-up.

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  • Are You F*cked Up or Just Traumatized?

    Are You F*cked Up or Just Traumatized?

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Welcome back Tiny Adults! This month's BBC – Benson Book Club episode is all about trauma, your brain, and why you can’t just ‘get over it--because Your Body Keeps The Score ;)

    We’re covering:

    🧠 How trauma rewires your brain & nervous system

    🚹 Fight, flight, freeze, or dissociation—what’s your response?

    ⚖ Why some people heal and others stay stuck in the past

    ⚠ The part of trauma where therapy can actually make things worse

    TIMELINE:

    🔑 First 20 min: Brain basics—survival mode & stress responses.

    đŸ”„ Midway: How the brain detects danger & why triggers feel automatic.

    ⚡ 30 min mark (my favourite part!): A deep dive into trigger responses.

    Trauma isn’t just in your mind—your body keeps score. So, is your brain still in survival mode, or is it finally learning to feel safe? Download this episode and listen now to start your healing journey today.

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  • GET HIM OBSESSED - AQUARIUS

    GET HIM OBSESSED - AQUARIUS

    · Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

    Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This January, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting an Aquarius man obsessed with YOU.

    Get ready to uncover:

    đŸ”„ The key traits that make Aquarius tick—and how to use them to your advantage.

    đŸ”„ Foolproof ways to grab his attention and keep him coming back for more.

    đŸ”„ What he secretly loves (and what will send him running).

    đŸ”„ Warning signs he’s pulling away—and how to flip the script fast.

    đŸ”„ The art of winning him back if things fall apart.

    Whether you’re crushing on an Aquarius, dating one, or trying to reignite the spark, this episode has everything you need to turn his world upside down. Don’t just play the game—master it.

    Hit play now and make this January all about owning the Aquarian heart.

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