Episodes
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LaShaude and Dorianna James explore how the gospel strengthens marriages by fostering heaven on earth, emphasizing forgiveness and rejecting perfection. They advocate for modeling relationships after Jesus' love, promoting forgiveness and deeper spiritual connections.
04:16 - Understanding the Gospel's Impact: Experiencing Heaven on Earth
06:35 - The Power of Gospel Understanding: Creating Paradise in Marriage
08:57 - Reflecting God's Love: How Forgiveness Transforms Relationships
11:37 - Role of Forgiveness: Overcoming Resentment in Marriage
14:49 - Gospel's Solution: Addressing Selfishness, Fear, and Laziness
18:00 - The Gospel as a Role Model: Influencing Marital Dynamics
21:41 - Conclusion & Engagement: Resources for Enhanced Marital Bonds
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In this episode, you'll discover tips to reignite passion and overcome obstacles, unraveling the secrets behind nurturing an enduring connection.
Timestamps:
08:38 - Surpass Apathy, Nurture Love
09:31 - Realize Your Marriage Dream Board
10:31 - Break Free from Ignorance's Grip
11:57 - Craft a Vision for Remarkable Relationships
13:18 - Discover True Relationship Wealth
14:17 - Seek Wisdom in Marriage Models
15:41 - Elevate Your Marriage: Extraordinary!
17:01 - Expand Imagination for Relationship Blessings
18:00 - Journey Beyond Familiar Relationship Paths
19:21 - Reimagine God's Plan for Your Marriage
20:17 - Embrace a Boundless Vision for Love
21:41 - Unfold God's Plan for Your Relationship
23:36 - Unveil Miracles in Your Marriage
24:27 - Redefine Relationship Boundaries
25:50 - Open Doors to Divine Relationship Growth -
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This episode delves into the profound essence of intimacy, guiding listeners through the transformative power of vulnerability in relationships. It offers insights on shedding masks and embracing authenticity, fostering stronger connections. The discussions touch on the importance of genuine community, encouraging listeners to create safe spaces for emotional expression and growth. It navigates the complexities of intimacy, spanning beyond physicality to encompass emotional, financial, and spiritual aspects. With tangible examples and relatable anecdotes, it equips individuals with tools to cultivate openness, trust, and grace in their relationships. Ultimately, this episode serves as a roadmap for fostering deeper connections and experiencing the richness of genuine intimacy in all facets of life.
Below are some detailed timestamps. Feel free to HOP in wherever! <3
00:00 - Introduction, Setting the Stage
00:26 - Encouragement to Download, Introduction of Hosts
00:54 - Reflection on Podcast Evolution and Material Sharing
01:24 - Reflecting on the Last Episode's Depth
01:50 - Banter on Parenting and Topic Introduction: Fear of Intimacy
02:19 - Exploring Fear of Intimacy in Relationships
03:18 - Concealing True Selves, Withholding in Relationships
04:13 - Importance of Being Fully Known for Full Love
05:11 - Gospel's Role in Allowing Openness in Relationships
06:08 - Encouraging Intimacy with God's People and Spouse
07:03 - Experience of Love Within Community and Marriage
07:31 - Impact of Vulnerability in Strengthening Relationships
07:56 - Battling Enemy's Lies through Openness and Community
08:54 - Strengthening Against Enemy's Attacks Through Support
09:50 - Importance of Genuine Christian Community
10:19 - Experiencing God's Grace Through Community
10:47 - Actively Participating in a Godly Community
11:16 - Fighting for Authenticity in Relationships
11:44 - Shedding Secrecy to Embrace Vulnerability
12:11 - Overcoming Past Family Dynamics for Intimacy
12:39 - Consistently Pushing for Emotional Openness
13:03 - Creating Safe Spaces for Vulnerability
13:27 - Cultivating a Safe Place for Emotional Expression
13:56 - Integrity and Wholeness Through Openness
14:26 - Addressing the Tiring Facade of Secrecy
14:44 - Biblical Perspective on Wholeness and Intimacy
15:11 - Analogies of Wearing Fig Leaves in Relationships
15:35 - Encouragement to Drop the Mask, Embrace Fullness
16:03 - Establishing a Groundwork for Intimacy
16:33 - Ensuring Forgiveness and Grace in Relationships
17:00 - Initiating Tough Conversations for Intimacy
17:30 - Encouraging Full Disclosure and Support
17:59 - Cultivating an Environment of Forgiveness
18:23 - Embracing Imperfections and Growth Together
18:51 - Transition to Defining Intimacy
19:19 - Into-Me-See: Defining True Intimacy
19:41 - Intimacy Beyond Physical Connection
20:08 - Sharing Vulnerabilities, Insecurities, and Stories
20:35 - Intimacy in Financial and Emotional Sharing
21:05 - Aim for Progress, Not Perfection
21:34 - Building a Relationship Rooted in Trust
22:02 - Encouraging Openness in Marriage
22:26 - Preparation for Uncomfortable Conversations
22:55 - Embracing Fullness in Relationships
23:22 - Dive into Intimacy's Core Meaning
23:51 - Beyond Transactional Relationships
24:20 - Fighting for Emotional Transparency
24:49 - Acknowledging Challenges in Vulnerability
25:19 - Various Forms of Intimacy to Explore
25:49 - Conclusion & Encouragement for Intimacy -
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[02:17] Some Scripture
[02:58] Don't Be A Fool
[03:55] Report vs Rapport
[04:20] Destination vs Journey
[05:19] What Happened To Them & In Them
[08:27] The Train VS The Rollercoaster
[10:00] Questions For Reflection & Action Steps For Application
[11:00] Our Best Conversations Have This
[12:20] Intimacy In Conversations
[13:05] I'm Too Tired To Talk At Night
[13:55] Be A Man (or Woman) Of The Second Shift
[14:55] Do You Give Your Best To Everyone But Your Spouse?
[18:30] Dorianna Makes It Wierd -
Discover the beauty of marriage through the lens of faith! In this episode, we'll explore how shared beliefs and prioritizing each other are strengthened by faith. Uncover invaluable tips on building a resilient, loving bond, navigating challenges, and experiencing the profound impact of including God in your marriage.
05:09 - How to Understand the Impact of Selfishness on Oneness
07:58 - How to Prioritize Your Spouse's Spiritual Growth
10:20 - How to Trust God's Work in Your Spouse's Life
12:04 - How to Develop Spiritual Rhythms Together
16:22 - Conclusion: How to Focus on Overcoming Selfishness & Personal Growth
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What does forgiveness, grace, & ACCOUNTABILITY look like when your spouse cheats?
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In this episode you'll learn:
How EVERYONE needs boundaries with people of the opposite sex.
The goal is not celibacy or just not cheating. The real goal is...
How community keeps your relationships safe.
...and so much more!
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How God can use one spouse to save the most toxic failing marriages in the world!
You're trying to...
invite your spouse into marriage counseling and they will not go
invite your spouse to read the books that you're reading and they won't do it
better your marriage and your relationship but you are in a relationship with the spouses completely unwilling to take steps forward
BUT it feels like...
you're just beating your head against the wall
you're destined to fail because you feel like it takes two to tango but your spouse is not moving whatsoever
you feel like a fool because your spouse is making you look bad in front of your friends and your friends are telling you you should quit
you want to treat your spouse the way that they treat you
Scripture:
And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth" (John 1:14).
Or do you despise the riches of his kindness, restraint, and patience, not recognizing that God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance? (Romans 2:4)
We love him, because he first loved us. (1 John 4:19)
but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans 5:8) -
This is an episode that we recorded for the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle back in 2020, but it's still 🔥. Enjoy!
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In this episode, you will learn …
1. Physically cheating on your wife or husband is not an isolated event.
2. I loved my wife even though I cheated? What? How???
3. God used this terrible event to lead me to Him.
4. It gets better. It gets better than ever.
Never Forget... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.
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Become a MASTER of Intimacy, Communication, and Prayer With This Simple Tool
[01:45] Shut Up And Listen!
[04:05] Learn The O2 Prayer
[05:00] How To Ask Good Follow-up Questions
[09:30] What is Discipleship?
[12:25] Do You Know Your Spouse's Obstacles and Opportunities?
[13:30] Getting To Know Your Host -
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[02:17] Some Scripture
[02:58] Don't Be A Fool
[03:55] Report vs Rapport
[04:20] Destination vs Journey
[05:19] What Happened To Them & In Them
[08:27] The Train VS The Rollercoaster
[10:00] Questions For Reflection & Action Steps For Application
[11:00] Our Best Conversations Have This
[12:20] Intimacy In Conversations
[13:05] I'm Too Tired To Talk At Night
[13:55] Be A Man (or Woman) Of The Second Shift
[14:55] Do You Give Your Best To Everyone But Your Spouse?
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[04:12] S.A.F.E. Budgets and Family Calendar -
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[02:00] What is "Christian community"?
[04:55] The Power Of Accountability
[06:00] Scripture On Christian Community
[08:20] I Want God In My Marriage
[09:20] God Works Through His People
[11:05] The Gifts Of God In Our Marriage
[19:15] You Need Intimacy In Your Small Group -
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What you'll learn:
[04:24] The Time Out Rule
[06:40] Using The Time Out Rule Correctly
[09:40] Intention Beats Accuracy
[13:57] God is Still There When You're Not "Productive"
[17:30] My Worth Is Set By God
[19:12] Humans' First Day At Work
[21:42] We Fight Against Our Limits
[24:53] You're Trying to Control Your Spouse
[27:42] A Podcast/Book Is Not Your Savior -
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You want:
✔ to make more time for intimacy
✔ increase the motivation for you and your spouse
✔send and receive CLEAR signals with your spouse
But it feels like:
-you're disconnected from your spouse
-you can't seem to be in the mood at the same time
In this episode, you'll quickly learn how to make room for play and foreplay. -
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