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Finding peace after divorce begins with understanding that itâs okay to feel what you feel. Healing takes time and thereâs no need to rush it. The important thing is to start where you are then move forward one small step at a time.
In this episode with Dr. Oyebukola Oyederin, I sit down with a fellow high-achieving Christian woman to talk about the emotional weight of divorce, faith, and the myths about marriage and divorce many of us were taught in church.Together, we unpack what it means to be a âgood womanâ and how Godâs grace meets us even when life doesnât go as planned.
Song of the week: Your Latter Will Be Greater by Martha Munizzi
Topics Covered:
(00:00:24) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:02:11) Introducing our special guest, Dr. Oyebukola Oyediran
(00:06:21) The pressure to be Proverbs 31 woman
(00:09:39) âShe added to themâ
(00:12:35) God wonât bless what He didnât ordain
(00:15:01) Advertisement: Higher Ground Financial Services
(00:22:49) Misguided teachings about marriage
(00:29:19) The idea of âsingle againâ ministry
(00:36:28) Beauty from ashes
(00:38:32) Your latter will be greater
(00:39:39) Make room for peace
(00:41:59) Connect with Dr. Oyebukola
(00:42:59) Cuisine & Conversations (In-person event)
Key Takeaways:
"Divorce is toughâit's not the easy way out. It's something no one wants. Itâs especially hard for high-achieving women who are also Christians."
Podcast Season Sponsor
Our Season 2 sponsor is Higher Ground Financial Services. Monique Castillo, Founding Owner, is a Financial Advisor with experience in investment portfolio management and health, life, disability and long-term care insurance. To book a complimentary consultation TODAY, go to www.highergroundfs.com. *Securities offered through Cetera Advisor Networks, LLC, member FINRA/SIPC. Advisory Services offered through Cetera Investment Advisers, LLC. Registered address: 1900 Market St. 8th Floor Philadelphia, PA 19103.
Cuisine & Conversations (In-person event)
Join us for our FIRST in-person event on Saturday 6/7/25 at 6:30 pm in the DMV! To learn more about this intimate event and receive an email invitation to purchase your ticket, go to https://bit.ly/joinYNC.
About Our Guest
Dr. Oyebukola Oyediran is a compassionate pediatrician, dedicated Sunday school teacher, beloved auntie, cherished daughter, and kindred spirit. Her nurturing heart shines through in every role she plays, bringing both wisdom and warmth to the lives she touches.
Connect with Dr. Oyebukola Oyediran:
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About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
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Email: [email protected]
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Divorce can leave you feeling like youâre standing in the middle of a tornado, holding pieces of your life that no longer fit together. Itâs emotional, overwhelming, and, for many, financially disorienting. Amid the heartbreak and the hard conversations, one critical area often gets pushed aside: the money.
In this episode with Catherine Calandra, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, we unpack the financial side of divorce. Catherine shares what a CDFA does, when to consult one, and why this support can be critical BEFORE you meet with an attorney.
Song of the week: For the Love of Money by The O'Jays
Topics Covered:
(00:00:21) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:10) Advertisement: A Weekend for Me
(00:03:17) Introducing our special guest, Catherine Calandra
(00:04:09) What is a CDFA?
(00:15:01) Advertisement: Higher Ground Financial Services
(00:16:40) How is marriage a financial agreement?
(00:22:49) Key documents to gather before divorce
(00:26:56) Be brave
(00:28:34) Connect with Catherine Calandra
(00:29:34) Cuisine & Conversations (In-person event)
Key Takeaways:
"I canât think of a more loving thing to do than to protect your future together."
Podcast Season Sponsor
Our Season 2 sponsor is Higher Ground Financial Services. Monique Castillo, Founding Owner, is a Financial Advisor with experience in investment portfolio management and health, life, disability and long-term care insurance. To book a complimentary consultation TODAY, go to www.highergroundfs.com. *Securities offered through Cetera Advisor Networks, LLC, member FINRA/SIPC. Advisory Services offered through Cetera Investment Advisers, LLC. Registered address: 1900 Market St. 8th Floor Philadelphia, PA 19103.
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If you're navigating a life transition and are ready to step into your nEXt chapter with clarity and confidence, it's time for A Weekend For MeâDr. Sheritaâs signature retreat October 2â5 in Grand Cayman, designed for busy women to indulge in radical self-care, reconnect with their dreams, and map out a future they love. Get $250 off with code AWFMNEXTCHAP. Register now â bit.ly/AWFM-YNC
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Join us for our FIRST in-person event on Saturday 6/7/25 at 6:30 pm in the DMV! To learn more about this intimate event and receive an email invitation to purchase your ticket, go to https://bit.ly/joinYNC.
About Our Guest
Catherine Calandra is a financial advisor who helps women navigate life transitions like divorce, widowhood, and inheritance with strategic financial planning. She offers guidance on divorce settlements, investments, and long-term security.
Connect with Catherine Calandra:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinecalandra/
About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]
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In this episode with Patrick Weaver we discuss how to break free from the chains of emotional abuse and how Christianity is often misused to justify staying in toxic relationships. This conversation offers hope for those seeking freedom from harmful beliefs and the path to healthy, loving relationships.
Song of the week: Break Every Chain By Tasha Cobbs Leonard
Topics Covered:
(00:01:10) Advertisement: A Weekend for Me
(00:04:00) Introducing our special guest, Mr. Patrick Weaver
(00:12:20) Religion vs. Godâs truth
(00:15:02) Advertisement: Higher Ground Financial Services
(00:16:15) God never asks us to accept abuse
(00:19:07) Understanding Malachi 2:16 in context
(00:36:00) God's will in marriage
(00:55:03) The life that shaped Patrick Weaver
(01:01:22) Connect with Patrick Weaver
(01:03:44) Cuisine & Conversations (In-person event)
Key Takeaways:
"I do not undo what you didn't do before you said I do."
Podcast Season Sponsor
Our Season 2 sponsor is Higher Ground Financial Services. Monique Castillo, Founding Owner, is a Financial Advisor with experience in investment portfolio management and health, life, disability and long-term care insurance. To book a complimentary consultation TODAY, go to www.highergroundfs.com. *Securities offered through Cetera Advisor Networks, LLC, member FINRA/SIPC. Advisory Services offered through Cetera Investment Advisers, LLC. Registered address: 1900 Market St. 8th Floor Philadelphia, PA 19103.
Podcast Sponsor
If you're navigating a life transition and are ready to step into your nEXt chapter with clarity and confidence, it's time for A Weekend For MeâDr. Sheritaâs signature retreat October 2â5 in Grand Cayman, designed for busy women to indulge in radical self-care, reconnect with their dreams, and map out a future they love. Get $250 off with code AWFMNEXTCHAP. Register now â bit.ly/AWFM-YNC
Cuisine & Conversations (In-person event)
Join us for our FIRST in-person event on Saturday 6/7/25 at 6:30 pm in the DMV! To learn more about this intimate event and receive an email invitation to purchase your ticket, go to https://bit.ly/joinYNC.
About Our Guest
Patrick Weaver is a global faith leader, author, and renowned mindset mentor dedicated to helping people from all walks of life harness the power of faith to conquer in life and create fulfilling relationships.
Connect with Mr. Patrick:
Web: https://www.patrickweaver.org/patrick-weaver/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/patrickweaverministries/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/patrickweaverministries/
About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: hello@yournextchapter
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Life is full of unexpected turns, and sometimes those turns lead us down paths we never imagined. They may shake us, but they donât have to break us. Instead, they can refine us, reshape us, and remind us of our strength. The path forward might look different than we originally planned, but that doesnât mean itâs any less beautiful.
In this episode, Iâm celebrating an unexpected milestoneâwhat would have been my 30th wedding anniversary. While many might find it unusual to acknowledge this date after divorce, for me itâs a moment of reflection, gratitude, and growth. As I close out Season 1 of Your nEXt Chapter with this special 20th episode, Iâm sharing the 5 lessons Iâve learned from my marriage and divorceâwisdom that I know will resonate with many of you navigating your own transitions. Join me as I reflect on the past, honor the present, and step boldly into the future.
Song of the week: Anniversary by Tony! Toni! Toné!
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:22) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
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(00:02:42) Do you know what day it is?
(00:04:20) Anniversary by Tony
(00:06:27) My marriage story
(00:11:07) Lesson #1: Trust your gut
(00:13:44) Lesson #2:When people show you who they are, believe them
(00:15:37) It's not your job to fix anybody
(00:18:14) Lesson #3: God has a permissive will
(00:20:42) Safe in spite of
(00:22:09) Lesson #4: Do not romanticize reality
(00:24:39) Lesson #5: Let go
(00:26:37) Words of gratitude
(00:29:44) Proverbs 31 woman
(00:32:02) Episode wrap-up
Key Takeaways:
"When people show you who they are, believe them."
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Season 1 Finale Party!
Join Dr. Nicole LIVE Monday 3/17/25 at 7pm on Instagram to celebrate our first season!
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Friendship is one of the most precious gifts in life. A true friend is someone who stands by you in every season, whether you are happy, sad, winning, or losing. Real friendship is not about being the same but about understanding and appreciating each otherâs differences.
In this episode, Iâm joined by my best friend of over 40 years, Tonya, for a heartfelt and hilarious conversation about the power of true friendship. We talk about showing up for friends, speaking the truth with love, and navigating life with people who truly have your back. Tune in for laughter, lessons, wise advice, and a celebration of lifelong friendship!
Song of the week: Best Friend by Brandy
Topics Covered:
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(00:02:19) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:45) Best Friend
(00:02:14) Meet my best friend, Tonya
(00:04:42) Different yet alike
(00:06:54) A natural at giving advice
(00:11:07) Choose growth over guilt
(00:12:47) Break free from âWhat Wasâ
(00:15:38) What is the end game?
(00:23:34) âIf I had been thereâ
(00:27:24) Relationship scenarios and real advice
(00:31:35) How do you know when you're ready to date after divorce?
(00:37:00) Forgiveness
Key Takeaways:
"We talk about forgiving others, but many of us donât realize we're angry at ourselves. You have to forgive yourself for the decisions you aren't happy with."
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Cuisine & Conversations (In-person event)
Join us for our FIRST in-person event on Saturday 6/7/25 at 6:30 pm in the DMV! To learn more about this intimate event and receive an informational email, go to https://bit.ly/joinYNC.
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About Our Guest
Tonya has been Dr. Nicoleâs best friend for over 40 years, a steady source of love, laughter, and wisdom. From their teenage bowling league days to lifeâs biggest challenges, sheâs been by Dr. Nicoleâs side. As the godmother to her children and a trusted confidante, Tonya is known for her sharp humor and no-nonsense advice. Known as the "Dear Abby" of their circle, sheâs the one Dr. Nicole turns to for guidance. Having walked her own path through divorce, Tonya offers honest, heartfelt advice with a balance of tough love and deep care.
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
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Letting go of a marriage that was meant to last forever is a deeply painful process. Itâs not just about losing a personâitâs about grieving the life you once imagined.
Healing doesnât happen by accident; itâs a choice. And sometimes, that choice means releasing everything you thought you needed. The real work isnât just about mending the pastâitâs about trusting that something greater is waiting on the other side.
In this episode with my friend and Soror, Latrice Rogers, we explore what it truly means to live life with joy and intention after divorce. We talk about the power of surrender, the importance of being present, and the daily habits that keep her rooted in joy. If youâre in a season of transition, this conversation will inspire you to reclaim your happiness and start living life like itâs golden.
Song of the week: Golden by Jill Scott
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:16) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:35) Golden
(00:02:17) Who is Latrice Rogers?
(00:09:29) Setting an intention
(00:10:27) How to stay rooted in joy
(00:12:26) The power of self-talk
(00:14:13) Setting boundaries without guilt
(00:20:50) Evolution of Hummingbird
(00:25:54) Why patience and surrender matter
(00:28:06) Reexamine your life
(00:30:55) Stepping out of the box
(00:35:05) Connect with Latrice Rogers
Key Takeaways:
"Being silent does not equate to being peaceful."
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About Our Guest
Latrice D. Rogers is a writer, educator, and mother who embraces life with intention. As the author of Evolution of Hummingbird, her storytelling inspires, heals, and connects. With a nationally recognized impact in education, she continues to lead and uplift. Since her divorce, she has redefined her path with courage and adventure.
Connect with Latrice:
Book/Website: https://www.latricedrogers.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ladaro
Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/groups/281811456911609/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/latrice-d-rogers-05b2942a/
About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]
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Rebuilding after loss isnât about fixing what was brokenâitâs about creating something new, something rooted in wisdom, resilience, and the unshakable truth that even in our hardest moments, we are still capable of joy.
In this episode with Dr. Sharon, we explore redefining beliefs, reclaiming self-worth, and finding freedom in lifeâs transitions. We discuss divorce, especially in Christian circles, and unlearning the idea that love is earned through perfection. Dr. Sharon shares how she reclaimed her identity, prioritized authentic relationships, embraced wisdom and stepped into her next chapter with confidence. If youâve ever felt exhausted by the weight of always being strong, this conversation will remind you that you deserve care, too.
Song of the week: Strength Courage & Wisdom by India.Arie
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:23) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:25) Strength, Courage, and Wisdom
(00:02:22) Who is Dr. Sharon Moore?
(00:03:32) How Dr. Sharon helped me heal
(00:07:15) Are you a strong friend?
(00:10:55) Over-Awareness blocks confidence
(00:15:54) Rethinking the âGold Standardâ of life
(00:19:37) Love canât thrive under unrealistic standards
(00:22:15) Misaligned hope
(00:30:33) The power of showing up for others
(00:32:57) How past experiences shape wisdom
(00:35:26) Dr. Sharonâs wisest decision
(00:37:30) Mindfulness
Key Takeaways:
"When you're always in a position of being watchful, you're not actually able to be mindful."
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About Our Guest
Dr. Sharon Kelley Moore is a psychiatrist with over 30 years of experience in mental health. A graduate of Howard University College of Medicine, she has worked in community and forensic psychiatry, veteran care, and trauma research. Outside of medicine, sheâs a proud mom of three and a talented singer, writer, and photographer.
About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]
Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future, and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Love, marriage, and divorce are complex journeys that shape not only our lives but also our understanding of relationships. The experiences we go through, especially those witnessed in our formative years, leave an indelible mark on how we approach our own connections with others.
In this episode, I sit down with my three sistersâAdrienne, Deneen, and Sudriaâfor a heartfelt, multi-generational conversation about love, marriage, and the lasting impact of our parentsâ divorce. Each of us brings a unique perspective shaped by our own experiences, from childhood beliefs about relationships to navigating our own marriages and divorces. We explore how our upbringing influenced our views on love, the vows we made to ourselves, and the lessons weâve learned along the way. Tune in as we reflect on the complexities of love, healing, and the power of sisterhood.
Song of the week: We Are Family by Sister Sledge
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:15) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:04) Advertisement: This episode is sponsored by Motivational MD Publishing. Dr. Jasmine Zapata helps resilient women turn their life stories into impactful legacy books. Visit ImReadyToLaunch.com to get started!
(00:02:35) We are family
(00:03:30) Sisters: Sudria, Deneen, and Adrienne?
(00:06:07) How did your childhood shape your views on love and marriage?
(00:12:29) The ideal of marriage and tradition
(00:23:47) Is it okay for kids to see relationship conflicts?
(00:27:20) Donât drag kids into disagreements
(00:40:43) Time alone doesnât heal
(00:44:08) Thereâs healing after divorce
(00:46:20) Boldness, Resilience, Confidence
(00:48:37) Thank you for listening!
Key Takeaways:
"I made a vow to myself that I didn't want to ever go through a divorce. Unfortunately, that happened."
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Motivational MD Publishing. Do you want to write a book but donât know where to start? Dr. Jasmine Zapata helps resilient, high-achieving women transform their life stories into impactful legacy books. Go to www.imreadytolaunch.com for a FREE resource and to register for the next master class. Be sure to tell Dr. Jasmine that you heard about her on the podcast.
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Sudria: https://www.instagram.com/sue_a.sponte/
Deneen: https://www.instagram.com/dmr0723/
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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: hello@yournextchapter
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Many of us have been taught that marriage is sacred and divorce is something to be avoided at all costs. But when the desire to honor God and follow biblical teachings clashes with the reality of unfaithfulness, it creates a painful conflict.
The truth is, choosing healing and peace over staying in a toxic marriage is not a failure; it's an act of courage. Sometimes God calls us to move forward, even when the world tells us to stay.
In this episode with Reverend James, she shares her journey through a challenging marriage and divorce. She talks about the emotional and spiritual struggles she faced, the impact of infidelity, and how her faith helped her find the strength to leave. Tune in to hear her story of overcoming betrayal, finding healing, and rediscovering her purpose through faith.
Song of the week: Pieces of Me by Ledisi
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:01:24) Advertisement: This episode is sponsored by Motivational MD Publishing. Dr. Jasmine Zapata helps resilient women turn their life stories into impactful legacy books. Visit ImReadyToLaunch.com to get started!
(00:02:37) Who is Reverend Beulah James?
(00:03:33) Pieces of Me
(00:06:00) Register for our FREE Galentineâs Day event
(00:08:33) âStay married for at least 25 years.â
(00:10:30) The crossroads of faith and divorce
(00:20:55) How Rev. Beulahâs marriage shaped her ministry
(00:37:32) Connect with Reverend Beulah James
Key Takeaways:
"Premarital counseling should be required before you marry somebody."
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Motivational MD Publishing. Do you want to write a book but donât know where to start? Dr. Jasmine Zapata helps resilient, high-achieving women transform their life stories into impactful legacy books. Go to www.imreadytolaunch.com for a FREE resource and to register for the next master class. Be sure to tell Dr. Jasmine that you heard about her on the podcast.
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About Rev. Beulah James
Reverend Beulah James is a retired pastor in the African Methodist Episcopal Church, a certified clinical chaplain, and a Master of Divinity graduate from Princeton Theological Seminary.
Connect with Rev. Beulah
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beulah.l.james
About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Website: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]
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The Superwoman Complex is a popular but dangerous identity, one that many of us know too wellâwhere you take on everything. Itâs not glamorous to wear the superwoman cape, but we often believe that it makes us strong, resilient, and unstoppable. Weâre celebrated for doing it all, for being the backbone of our families and communities. But the truth? That same resilience can break you down if you donât stop and listen to what your body and mind are trying to say.
In this episode with Dr. C. Nicole Swiner, weâre breaking down the âSuperwoman Complexâ and how it affects our health and happiness. From the pressure to do it all to carrying emotional baggage, we talk about what it really takes to let go and prioritize self-care. Together, we explore the importance of setting boundaries, finding balance, and creating a healthier, more joyful way of living.
Song of the week: Bag Lady by Erykah Badu
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:31) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:44) Bag Lady (Pack Light)
(00:02:51) Who is Dr. C. Nicole Swiner?
(00:04:07) What is the superwoman complex?
(00:13:01) Overachievement addiction
(00:16:07) Focus on self-care
(00:20:27) How the superwoman complex affects relationship dynamics
(00:22:48) Setting the boundaries ahead of time
(00:24:30) How men can help women shed the superwoman cape
(00:29:37) Focus on freedom
(00:32:46) How to Avoid the Superwoman Complex: 12 Ways to Balance Mind, Body & Spirit
(00:34:52) Connect with Dr. C. Nicole SwinerKey Takeaways:
"A lot of my superwoman tendencies are rooted in achievement.
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Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About C. Nicole Swiner, MD (âDoc Swinerâ)
Dr. C. Nicole Swiner is a family physician, best-selling author, and wellness advocate. Known as the Superwoman Complex expert, she founded the #nosuperwoman movement to promote self-care and well-being. She empowers authors through Swiner Publishing Co. and offers wellness solutions at Serenity Hydration & Wellness.Connect with Doc Swiner:
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/docswiner
IG: www.instagram.com/realdocswiner
Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Avoid-Superwoman-Complex-Balance/dp/0986370207About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
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We often stay in unhealthy situations because the familiar feels safe. But sometimes, we need the courage to walk away for our healing. We all crave familiarity, but that same comfort can keep us stuck in places we no longer belong. Change is hard, but itâs where the better life begins.
In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Toyin opens up about her journey of overcoming the stigma of divorce and discovering her strength through faith, family, and unwavering support. We explore the power of recognizing when it's time to let go, embracing healing, and surrounding yourself with the right people. Tune in for an empowering conversation filled with wisdom and hope on how to heal, grow, and thrive after divorce.
Song of the week: Just Fine by Mary J. Blige
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:16) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:35) Just Fine
(00:03:00) Who is Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor
(00:05:09) Familiarity: How did Dr. Toyin find the courage to walk away?
(00:10:05) The stigma of divorce
(00:18:06) What's the biggest lesson your divorce taught you?
(00:23:18) Put the children first
(00:29:00) How to thrive after divorce
(00:37:23) A decade after
(00:40:54) Growth
(00:43:16) Better not bitter
(00:44:00) Connect with Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor
(00:46:08) Join our community!Key Takeaways:
"Just because you miss something does not mean you want it back."
"Regardless of who pulls the plug, divorce is not easy."
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Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor
Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor is a senior medical director, Infectious Diseases physician, and HIV advocate with over 20 years of experience. She has led initiatives to improve care for people with HIV and Hepatitis, contributed to Illinois' plan to end the HIV epidemic, and mentors women in medicine and those facing career transitions.Connect with Dr. Toyin:
Web: https://www.tfalandchi.com/; https://www.thedecadeafter.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/doctortfal/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tfalandchi.fabfive
Book: https://www.amazon.com/Decade-After-Surviving-Thriving-Divorce/dp/1974133362About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
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In life, it's easy to become attached to things, relationships, or outcomes that we hold dear. While desiring success, love, or stability isn't wrong, it's important to remember these are gifts from God, not sources of fulfillment. When placed above Him, they can become idols, distracting us from the peace and purpose only God provides.
In this episode of Your nEXt Chapter, I explore the concept of idolatry and how things like marriage can sometimes take priority over our relationship with God. I share how my own marriage became an idol and discuss how idols can show up in different forms, from relationships to achievements. Tune in to learn how shifting our focus back to God can restore balance and realign our priorities.
Song of the week: He Wants It All by Forever Jones
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:25) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:02:57) He Wants It All
(00:04:19) The definition of idol
(00:08:09) When my marriage became my idol
(00:10:25) Stuck in dead marriage
(00:13:35) How God carefully prepared me
(00:17:44) Idolatry is sneaky
(00:20:39) Obsession because of fear
(00:22:38) Who and what are the idols in your life?
(00:25:46) Re-examine your life
(00:27:05) 3 questions to ask if your relationship has become your idol
(00:30:29) Being unequally yoked
(00:34:18) How God uses it all for good
(00:37:00) God is first
(00:39:08) Join our community!Key Takeaways:
"Idolatry is something that I believe goes way beyond a spiritual doctrine or a religious denomination."
"Obsession with achieving a certain outcome, even a holy one, eventually becomes an idol."
"To have an attachment to a person or a thing or an outcome that supersedes your faith in your trust in God, that is idolatry."
"God is using every single thing that I went through for His good, for His kingdom, and for my good, and for your good."
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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Website: https://yournextchapter.co/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future, and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Emotional abuse often creeps into relationships unnoticed, leaving individuals trapped in toxic dynamics that are hard to identify and even harder to escape.
In this episode with Tiffany Denny, we explore the insidious nature of emotional abuse and how it can deeply affect individuals, especially in relationships that start out loving but slowly become toxic. Tune in for a candid discussion on emotional abuse and the cycle of manipulation and learn how it affects so many, regardless of their background or status.
Song of the week: Whatâs Going On by Marvin Gaye
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:20) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:55) Circles
(00:02:15) Who is Tiffany Denny?
(00:05:00) How The Relationship Recovery was born
(00:06:55) Boiling the frog
(00:10:42) What are the key signs of emotional abuse?
(00:12:30) Various faces of gaslighting
(00:16:59) The cycle of emotional abuse
(00:20:00) What is a trauma bond?
(00:22:16) Why do high-achieving women attract emotional abusers?
(00:26:00) Start your book of truths
(00:28:00) Find your community and heal
(00:29:18) Courage
(00:30:46) Relationship Recovery Circle
(00:32:44) Connect with Tiffany Denny
(00:33:29) Share this episodeKey Takeaways:
"Gaslighting to me is the most insidious. It's a tactic where the abuser makes you question your reality. They make you feel crazy."
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About Tiffany Denny
Tiffany Denny is the Co-Founder of The Relationship Recovery, a bestselling author, and podcast host dedicated to helping others heal from toxic relationships. With over 15 years of experience as a coach and speaker, she empowers individuals to reconnect with themselves and reclaim their power. Tiffanyâs work combines personal experience, professional expertise, and a deep belief that everyone deserves safe, loving relationships.Connect with Tiffany Denny:
Web: https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/therelationshiprecovery/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanycdenny/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffany-denny-a38866282/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/@therelationshiprecovery
Podcast: https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/podcastAbout Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
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Divorce is a traumatic experience that shakes our beliefs about ourselves, our relationships, and our future. But with empathy, we begin to heal and rebuild, moving forward not as victims, but as empowered individuals who can redefine our lives.
In this episode with Dr. Alauna, we dive into the powerful impact of trauma, especially in the context of divorce. Dr. Alauna shares how trauma shapes our emotions, thoughts, and relationships. We explore how our brain processes emotions and the role of empathy in healing. Join us as we explore how to heal ourselves and how to create healthier relationships.
Song of the week: Whatâs Going On by Marvin Gaye
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:20) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:55) Whatâs going on?
(00:02:30) Trauma Psychiatrist: Who is Dr. Alauna?
(00:03:57) Dr. Alaunaâs definition of trauma
(00:05:37) The invisible weight of trauma
(00:11:38) Divorce is traumatizing
(00:15:35) Why we struggle with marriage
(00:23:57) Forgiveness: Healing for yourself
(00:28:23) Rethinking relationships
(00:30:49) Forgive yourself
(00:34:57) Connect with Dr. Alauna, Trauma PsychiatristKey Takeaways:
âTrauma is any event that causes you to negatively shift the way you think about yourself, the world, and other people.â
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Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Alauna Curry
Dr. Alauna is a Trauma Psychiatrist, Speaker, Author, and Empathy Expert dedicated to an empathy-based approach to healing. She emphasizes that traumaâwhether from physical abuse, sexual trauma, climate disasters, or emotional invalidationâaffects the brain in similar ways. Her mission is to de-stigmatize trauma and empower individuals to self-regulate their emotions.Connect with Dr. Alauna Curry:
Web: https://www.dralauna.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/dralauna/
IG https://www.instagram.com/dralauna/
Podcast: https://www.mindingyouramygdala.com/About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
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In this episode with my dear friend and Soror, Dr. Rhonique, we open up about the transformative journey of healing after divorce. Dr. Rhonique courageously shares her experience of enduring emotional and psychological abuse during her marriage and the difficult decision to leave for her well-being and the well-being of her children. Tune in as we explore the power of vulnerability, resilience, and faith in reclaiming strength and purpose after divorce.
Song of the week: You Will Win by Jekalyn Carr
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:16) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:08) Advertisement:This is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Join her Recalibrate Retreat on Jan 11, 2025. Visit SoulLoveCoach.com for details!
(00:06:03) Surviving a loveless marriage
(00:10:01) The plan to leave a toxic marriage
(00:13:48) Trusting God through the desert
(00:16:41) Vulnerability in Divorce
(00:32:20) One word for your next chapter: Faith
(00:33:30) Plan. Pray, Protect your peace
(00:34:57) Connect with Dr. Rhonique ShieldsKey Takeaways:
âI knew that God would not leave me, no matter what I was going through. He has a purpose for my life.â
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Melissa is a licensed therapist, life coach and ordained minister who specializes in blending the spiritual with the psychological in her transformative work with women. Contact Melissa via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.soullovecoach.com. Make sure to mention the podcast to receive special pricing in the month of January.Join our Community
Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Rhonique Shields
Rhonique Shields, MD, is a distinguished board-certified pediatrician, accomplished healthcare executive, and proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated. Dr. Shields balances her professional achievements with her role as a dedicated mother of three and an enthusiastic lover of life.Connect with Dr. Rhonique Shields:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/drflorho/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhonique-shields-md-mha-faap-884b6b67/About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
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The road through divorce was not easy and was filled with moments of pain and uncertainty. But in my daughtersâ eyes, I saw strength, wisdom, and the courage to keep moving forward.
In this episode with my daughters, Diara and Danielle, we explore the impact of divorce and the lessons weâve learned about love, marriage, and family. Together, we reflect on the challenges weâve faced, the personal growth we've experienced, and how our perspectives on relationships have evolved since the ending of my marriage to their father.
Song of the week: In My Daughter's Eyes by Martina McBride
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:38) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:02:08) In my daughter's eyes
(00:04:53) Unhealthy patterns in marriage
(00:09:17) Lack of love in society
(00:12:18) Infatuation vs. Devotion
(00:20:32) Processing changes after marriage
(00:22:58) Learning to trust again
(00:24:15) Healing through music
(00:28:30) Parent and childâs emotions matter
(00:34:41) Rest
(00:33:36) ReturnKey Takeaways:
"There's a big difference between loving someone, being in love with someone, and being devoted to loving that person forever."
"It is very important to rest because nothing will get done if your cup is empty."
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Melissa is a licensed therapist, life coach and ordained minister who specializes in blending the spiritual with the psychological in her transformative work with women. Contact Melissa via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.soullovecoach.com. Make sure to mention the podcast to receive special pricing in the month of January.Join our Community
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellle.symone/About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Website: https://yournextchapter.co/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.coEmail: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future, and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Your time is coming!
Itâs easy to get caught up in the heaviness of lifeâs transitions, but Iâve learned that sometimes we must create space to celebrate what lies ahead. This journey hasnât been easy. But thereâs power in embracing every season of your life.
In this episode with my friends and Sorors, Dr. Maiysha and Dr. Terri, we celebrate the beauty of new beginnings. We talk about the significance of my "Freedom Party"âa celebration not of divorce, but of stepping boldly into a new season of life. We discuss the importance of intentionality, faith, and welcoming new beginnings, while honoring our community.
Song of the week: Itâs My Time by Kelly Price
Key Takeaways:
âWe faced different struggles, but I often borrowed your faith, your faith became my faith when I was in uncertain times.â
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Melissa is a licensed therapist, life coach and ordained minister who specializes in blending the spiritual with the psychological in her transformative work with women. Contact Melissa via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.soullovecoach.com. Make sure to mention the podcast to receive special pricing in the month of January.Join our Community
Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Terri L. Major-Kincade
Dr. Terri L. Major-Kincade is a board-certified Pediatrician and Neonatologist, author, and acclaimed speaker. She specializes in neonatal palliative care, health disparities, and perinatal hospice.Connect with Dr. Terri!
FB: https://www.facebook.com/DrTerriMD/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/doctorterrimdAbout Dr. Maiysha Clairborne
Dr. Maiysha Clairborne is a Family Medicine Physician, consultant, TEDx speaker, author, and founder of The Mind Re-Mapping Company. She specializes in helping organizations create inclusive, psychologically safe workplaces through trauma-informed training and leadership development.Connect with Dr. Maiysha:
Website: https://mindremappingacademy.com/
IG: www.instagram.com/DrMaiyshaAbout Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole!
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
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Love is often presented as the answer to all challenges, but I've come to understand that it isn't always enough to sustain a relationship when the foundations aren't built on mutual respect, understanding, and healthy boundaries. Itâs easy to give love, but true loveâhealthy, reciprocal loveârequires more than just good intentions.
In this solo episode, I share my journey from early crushes to a 28-year marriage and the lessons Iâve learned about love, commitment, and what it truly means to give and receive love. I reflect on the complexities of love and relationships, particularly those that span decades and experience both beauty and pain. Take a moment to listen, reflect, and perhaps even question what you believe about love. Letâs unpack this together.
Song of the week: What's Love Got to Do With It by Tina Turner
Key Takeaways:
"I thought I could love my ex into doing the right thing and becoming a better person but you can't love someone's brokenness away."
"You can't allow your love for the other person to overshadow your love for yourself."
"Love is one thing to write on cards, another to say, but a whole different thing to show."
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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co Email: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Forgiveness is often misunderstood as a way of excusing or condoning the wrongs done to us, but in reality, it is about reclaiming our own peace. In this episode with the Forgiveness Coach, Brenda Reiss, we explore the power of forgiveness in oneâs healing journey and how holding onto anger, resentment, or past hurts can weigh us down and consume us.
Song of the week: Pick Up Your Feelings by Jazmine Sullivan
Key Takeaways:
âSelf-forgiveness frees us from self-imposed guilt, shame, and regret.â
âWhen we choose to let go of blame, there is peace, healing, and the freedom to live a more fulfilled life.â
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by TfalandChi Coaching and Consulting, LLC. Founder, Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor, is a career transitions and wellness coach who specializes in empowering women to excel as their true, authentic selves. Contact Dr. Toyin via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.tfalandchi.com. Make sure you tell her Dr. Nicole sent you!Join our Community
Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Brenda Reiss
Brenda Reiss, the Forgiveness Coach, is passionate about guiding women through the transformative power of self-forgiveness. Her personal journey of reclaiming her life through self-compassion and breaking free from victimhood fuels her mission to help others do the same. Brenda believes that by exploring what holds us back and embracing the possibility of change, we can step into the lives we are meant to live. With deep humility and honor, she supports women on their own paths to healing, offering the tools and guidance needed to forgive themselves and create lasting transformation.
Connect with The Forgiveness Coach
Web: https://brendareisscoaching.com
IG: www.instagram.com/brendareisscoaching
FB: www.facebook.com/Brenda.Reiss.Coach
Podcast: https://bit.ly/4gh7QjjAbout Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a âdivine disruptionâ can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole!
Web: https://yournextchapter.co
IG: www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB: https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Life is filled with challenges, and sometimes we can't face them alone. We all need someone to lean on, especially when things get tough. Friendship is about showing up for each other in the most vulnerable moments, offering support, and being a steady presence when everything else feels uncertain.
In this episode with my good friend and Soror, Dr. Suleika Michel, we will explore the importance of friendship and the deep connections that help us through challenging times. Together, we'll reflect on our decades-long friendship, share how Suleika supported me during my divorce journey, and explore what it truly means to be a good friend.
Song of the week: Count on Me by Whitney Houston and CeCe Winans (Waiting to Exhale Soundtrack)
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:15) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:03) Advertisement: This episode is sponsored by TfalandChi Coaching and Consulting, LLC. Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor empowers women through career transitions and wellness. Reach her at [email protected] and visit www.tfalandchi.com.
(00:03:00) Who is Dr. Suleika Michel?
(00:04:20) Count on me
(00:12:18) How can I be a supportive friend?
(00:16:06) Building a strong prayer life
(00:25:53) Moment of laughter
(00:31:03) Nicoleâs Next Chapter
(00:35:43) Take the next step
(00:37:20) Connect with Dr. Suleika MichelKey Takeaways:
"Quality in friendship is much more important than quantity."
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by TfalandChi Coaching and Consulting, LLC. Founder, Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor, is a career transitions and wellness coach who specializes in empowering women to excel as their true, authentic selves. Contact Dr. Toyin via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.tfalandchi.com. Make sure you tell her Dr. Nicole sent you!
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Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Suleika Michel
Dr. Suleika Just-Buddy Michel, a board-certified OB/GYN with 20 years of experience, is dedicated to educating females about their bodies. As the first African-American partner in her practice, she advocates for minimally invasive surgery and is a skilled DaVinci robotic surgeon.Connect with Dr. Suleika
Web: https://www.drsuleikamichel.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/drsuleikamichel/FB: https://www.facebook.com/DrSuleikaMichel/Book: https://www.amazon.com/WiseTeenz-Faith-Based-Health-Education-Girls/dp/1644840413About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial âstrong friendâ, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to cre - Show more
