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Do you ever find yourself walking on eggshells in the dating and world because of sensitivity to rejection? You may be hurting your chances for finding your match and causing your own cock-blocks in sex.
Dr. Hernando Chaves, sex therapist, gives us the dirty details on men's sexual concerns, how they may be contributing to their own dating and sex woes, and how this is impacting relationships. We get real about the topic of porn, what research says about it, and how you can incorporate it in your life and relationships with LESS SHAME.
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Mindfulness for Dickfulness. What are causing men's sexual concerns and how do we get it back...up? Authenticity. Why it's important and how to become the real YOU. Dating woes and rejection sensitivity. How you are preventing yourself from finding your match. Learn how to start the conversation about sex with your partner, so you learn how to be a good lover and get exactly what you need without the guess-work.THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY EXPERTDr. Hernando Chaves is a licensed marriage and family therapist, professor of psychology and human sexuality, and sex educator. Dr. Chaves’ sex therapy practice specializes in erotic minorities. He has written and consulted for 14 instructional sex education media projects, was cohost for Penthouse magazine's “Sex Academy” instructional series with Dr. Ava Cadell, and script writer/consultant for BaDoinkVR virtual reality sex therapy instructional video. Dr. Chaves is a sex columnist for Sexpert.com, AskMen.com and a contributing author to the International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality.
Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a bachelor of arts degree in psychology from University of California Santa Barbara, a master of arts degree in marital and family therapy from University of San Diego, and a doctorate in human sexuality degree from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist, professor of psychology and human sexuality, and sex educator. Dr. Chaves’ sex therapy practice specializes in erotic minorities
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This week, I'm so excited that Matie Fricker and Hunter Riley from Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center are here. We talk about community sex education, sex toy testing fatigue, and how they make their sex store welcoming and empowering.
Matie goes deep into toxic toys and what happened when they gave customers a choice between toxic and non-toxic toys. Plus, their testers have to fill out an 8-page survey about each and every product the store carries.
We also dive into bad sex toy design, the ONE product that Matie has been searching for for 10 years and has not found a decent one, orgasm stuckness and toy loyalty and why that can inhibit pleasure, and my frustration with sex classes... why do blowjob classes consistently sell out at stores across the country but not cunnilingus classes? Yeah. Let's name it.
Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. Resources mentioned in this episodeHunter's blog post all about the drama at UNM's sex week
That Travel & Leisure article on hotel sex that I mentioned in the intro.
About Matie FrickerMatie Fricker is a smut peddling sweetheart with a deep love for the odd and tender. She owns Albuquerque’s best sex shop, Self Serve Toys. Self Serve is a shiny bubble of love and safety for those seeking pleasure and joy in their lives. One of her proudest accomplishments was causing Rush Limbaugh to say “female orgasm” on-air multiple times.
Matie has been awarded the 2008 Tough Cookie Award from the National Association for Women Business Owners, Best Sexy Shop in ABQ’s Alibi Weekly Newspaper for 9 years and Albuquerque Pride’s Outstanding Retail Store Award.
About Hunter RileyHunter Riley is the manager of operations and outreach at Self Serve, a sex educator, speaker and social media maven. She helps young adults find their voice and comfort level around conversations about sex and sexuality. After earning degrees in psychology, Spanish and journalism, she moved on to teaching classes in English and Spanish about pleasure, sex toys, communication, safer sex, consent, oral sex, kink, non-monogamy, birth control and more! She has authored several sex columns for newspapers and online media outlets in New Mexico including the Daily Lobo, the Santa Fe Reporter and Albuquerque Free Press. She has partnered with organizations like Planned Parenthood, the University of New Mexico, UNM Hospital, Enlace Comunitario, Santa Fe Care Center and more. Anyone interested in hiring Hunter or learning more about the services she provides can contact Hunter via email: [email protected] for more information.
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