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What if anxiety wasn’t the enemy—but the invitation?In this episode, I sit down with my good friend Humble The Poet, and we have a real, raw conversation about one of the most common challenges we all face—anxiety. But we don’t treat it like a monster hiding in the closet. Instead, we explore it for what it really is: a signal, not a sentence.
Humble brings a refreshing, honest lens to what it means to feel anxious in today’s world. He says anxiety isn’t about danger—it’s about uncertainty.
It’s not that something’s wrong with you. It’s that you’ve been conditioned to believe you can’t handle life’s hard moments. But guess what? You can. “Anxiety is when your intelligence grows faster than your courage,” he says. That line hit me. We’re overthinking ourselves into paralysis, while our bodies are screaming for action, for movement, for breath.
We also dig into how society—especially social media—is tricking us into thinking we’re not enough. That we’re missing out. That our value is tied to our achievements. But your worth? It’s not on the other side of likes, lists, or trophies. And when Humble said, “The people that matter most don’t care about your achievements,” I thought of my mom, my kids, and how true that really is.
You’re not broken. You don’t need to avoid hard things. In fact, you get stronger by facing them—again and again. The goal isn’t to be fearless. The goal is to shorten the time between when fear shows up and when you respond with clarity and grace. That’s equanimity. That’s emotional fitness. That’s the real edge.
Key Takeaways:• Why anxiety is not the enemy—it's the alarm pointing to unaddressed challenges.• The difference between reacting and responding—and how to close that gap.• How social media fuels our anxiety and why stepping away might be the best move.• The myth of being “too needy” and the truth about our need for community.• How envy reveals what you truly value—and what to do with that insight.• Why your worth isn’t tied to your most recent achievement.This episode isn’t just for those battling anxiety—it’s for anyone who’s ever questioned their worth, struggled with overthinking, or felt alone. You’re not. And this conversation will remind you of that.
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What if the missing piece to success isn’t what you’re doing—but what you’re experiencing?
In this Mashup episode, I share something that changed my life forever—and it’s not talked about nearly enough. I walk you through the real reason so many people never reach their dreams: they’ve never touched them. I’m not talking about vague visualization. I mean putting yourself in the room, the environment, the experience—physically and mentally—so often that your belief catches up to your ambition. I share my early days of scraping together money to stay one night at the Ritz-Carlton, why proximity is power, and how simply walking around dream neighborhoods shifted everything in my identity.
I break down the difference between dreaming and believing, and why your mind will not let you live a life it doesn't think you belong in. This episode is about practical steps—things you can do this week, no matter your budget—to physically or mentally "touch" the life you want, over and over again. Because the more familiar it becomes, the more inevitable it feels.
I also take on one of the biggest lies being sold to young people today: that there’s no rush. I share why that’s garbage advice, how urgency changed my trajectory in my 20s, and how young people—and their parents—can position themselves for serious growth. I lay out the mindset and practices I used to grow my confidence, leadership, and sense of self-worth when I had nothing but a dream and a car that barely made it to the valet.
Finally, I tackle the real danger of haters—but not in the way you think. Most people aren't losing to their critics. They're losing to the time, energy, and emotion wasted trying to get approval. I teach you how to separate feedback from hate, concern from sabotage, and how to know whose voice actually matters.
Key Takeaways:
- Why touching your dream—even for one day—can rewire your belief system
- How to use environmental triggers to think and plan bigger
- The difference between real suffering and false emotional suffering
- A practical framework to build confidence by keeping promises to yourself
- How to discern between haters, critics, and concerned voices—and what to do with each
- The truth about age and ambition—and why starting now is always the best time
- Why vision and leadership are the core to igniting anyone’s dream, including your own
This one’s personal. I walk you step by step through how I went from dreaming about oceanfront homes to waking up to the sound of waves. I’ve lived this. I know what it feels like to be on the outside of your dreams, and I know how to break through. This episode is your manual. It’s time to stop waiting. It’s time to start touching the life you’ve always wanted.
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What if your life had an expiration date printed on it—and you just couldn’t see it?
This episode is a wake-up call. Not about chasing more, but about making what we already have count. I introduce a concept that’s reshaping how I live: Quality Time Remaining. It’s not about how long we live—it’s about how we spend the precious moments we have left. I've been on this group text with some close friends—successful, driven guys—and we’ve started sending each other snapshots of real-life moments that matter. The ones that count. And I realized, I haven’t sent one yet. That hit me.
We grind so hard for the future that we forget to live today. The trouble is, we think we have time. We plan, we postpone, we sacrifice the now for the someday—and sometimes, that someday never comes. I’ve had health scares, lost people I love, and seen too many “somedays” stolen by surprise. That’s why this message matters. It's not about slowing down—it’s about becoming intentional with the time that really counts.
You’ll hear me share stories—some personal, some painful, all real. This isn’t a theory or a mindset hack. It’s a shift in perspective that could literally change how you live. If you’re waiting for the right time to make memories, it’s already here. Start your shorter list. Not your bucket list—the little moments that matter now. Whether it's a walk, a conversation, a game with your kid… they’re priceless.
The takeaway is simple: your life isn’t just measured in years. It’s measured in memories. The people around you deserve more than just your time—they deserve the best of you, fully present. So do you. And if you’re the kind of person who’s been grinding, achieving, and waiting for later… it’s time to wake up. Later might not come. The milk of your life tastes better now than it ever will. Savor it.
Key Takeaways:
How to reframe your life around Quality Time Remaining
Why being busy can rob you of what truly matters
The difference between intentional living and life drifting
How to start your own “shorter list” of moments that matter
Why presence, not productivity, is what creates lasting memories
You have more time today than you might tomorrow—spend it like it matters. Because it does.
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Is Your Team Truly Committed—Or Just Chasing Goals?
What separates teams that succeed from those that just survive? It’s not talent. It’s not resources. It’s commitment. This week, I sit down with my great friend Jon Gordon, and we got real about what it takes to build a team that doesn't just perform, but thrives under pressure. Jon’s new book, The Seven Commitments of a Great Team, is more than theory—it’s the roadmap every leader, entrepreneur, and family builder needs.
We talked about why goals aren’t enough. Everybody’s got goals. But not everybody is committed. Jon broke it down beautifully—commitment is about action. It’s about the daily disciplines that align with your vision. Want to make a million dollars this year? That won’t happen without commitments to how you show up, how you serve, and how you lead your team. “Commitment is going to cost you something,” Jon said. “You have to ask yourself—what are you willing to give, and what are you willing to give up?”
One of the biggest takeaways? The power of connection and love on a team. That might sound soft, but it’s not. Love is what makes great teams fight for each other. It’s what transforms a locker room, a boardroom, or a household. “You’ll never have commitment without connection,” Jon said—and he’s right. If your team’s not committed to each other, they won’t be committed to the mission. And when adversity hits, that’s when the cracks show.
We also touched on something every leader needs to hear: emotional fatigue. Carrying the weight of your business, your team, your family—it gets heavy. If you lose your why, you lose your fire. “The crime isn’t that the passion ran out—it’s that you stayed around after it did,” Jon shared. That line stopped me in my tracks. Leaders, you’ve got to reignite your mission or risk slowly fading out.
Key Takeaways:
The difference between having goals and living with commitment
Why devotion—not discipline—creates lasting change
How prayer and purposeful rituals can unlock creative breakthroughs
The role of connection and love in high-performance teams
How to lead through adversity without losing your energy or edge
This one hit home for me on a personal level, and I know it will for you too. Go grab The Seven Commitments of a Great Team. It's a game-changer.
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Want to Be the First Millionaire in Your Family? Start Here.
In this episode, I’m bringing you a MASHUP of voices you need to hear if you want to stop living paycheck to paycheck and finally take control of your financial future. This is straight talk — no fluff, no gimmicks, just real conversations about the habits and decisions that actually lead to wealth. I’m joined by Vivian Tu, Billy Gene, Candy Valentino, and Marc Lore, and every one of them brings something real to the table.
Vivian Tu breaks down her “STRIP” framework — not what you think — which stands for Savings, Total Debt, Retirement, Investing, and Plan. It's practical, it's relatable, and it's something every young person should be taught in school. I jump in to challenge her on the idea of tax deferral and 401(k)s, because too many of you are deferring money into accounts without fully understanding what that means down the road. And I want you to think about whether taxes are really going to be lower when you retire.
Marc Lore takes us behind the scenes on raising capital — not just the logistics, but the mindset. He explains why equity often beats debt and how control doesn't have to mean owning 100%. And Candy? She drops some of the best financial parenting advice I've heard — teaching kids through action, not just words. “Caught, not taught,” as she says. Billy Gene brings the heat, reminding us all that trying to figure it out alone is a massive mistake. And his breakdown of how solving bigger problems leads to bigger income? That’s a formula you can take straight to the bank.
This isn’t about having a million-dollar idea. It’s about building million-dollar habits — starting with what you drive, how you spend, and what you save. I’ve been broke. I’ve had cars repossessed and my power shut off. And I’ve also built real wealth — not just to have nice things, but to have peace, freedom, and control. That’s what I want for you.
Key Takeaways:
- Vivian Tu’s STRIP method for financial health — and why investing isn’t just opening an account.
- Why trying to look rich is the fastest way to stay broke.
- How Marc Lore thinks about equity vs. debt — and what it really means to keep control.
- Billy Gene’s one piece of advice that could save you years of wasted effort.
- How to teach kids financial discipline by modeling it, not preaching it.
- Why the lie that “you’ve got time” is crushing the next generation’s potential.
If you’ve been wondering where to start, or how to restart, this is it. Build the habits now. Save the money. Ask the right questions. Get the help you need. I’ve made the mistakes, so you don’t have to. This episode is your wake-up call — and your invitation to stop living like you're broke and start living like someone building wealth. Let’s go.
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What are you holding on to that just doesn’t fit anymore?
In this episode, I take you inside a real moment from my life—a full-on spring cleaning of my closet that turned into something way bigger. As I started tossing out old clothes, I realized I’ve been hanging on to things that no longer serve me—beliefs, habits, even dreams that don’t fit who I am today. This episode isn’t just about getting rid of stuff; it’s about clearing space in your life so you can breathe, grow, and step into your next season with clarity and intention.
We’re talking about more than just clothes. I challenge you to look at your relationships, your routines, even your regrets. Some of these things have just been “in your closet” so long, you forgot to ask if they still fit. Maybe they did once, maybe they helped you survive or succeed—but they’re not meant to come with you now. And on the flip side, there might be something beautiful you’ve forgotten that still fits just right. You just couldn’t see it through the clutter.
This is your invitation to get ruthless, get honest, and start fresh. I’ll walk you through how to audit your life—what to keep, what to toss, and what might just need a little tailoring. I even share a personal revelation I had about something I’ve carried for decades—“hurry”—and why I’ve finally decided to let it go.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just disconnected, this might be the message you’ve been waiting for. Your next level is waiting—it just needs room.
Key Takeaways:
How to identify what in your life no longer fits—relationships, beliefs, habits, even goals
Why holding on to old emotions and regrets robs you of your peace
A simple framework: Keep, toss, or tailor—what belongs in your next season?
The surprising power of physical decluttering to reveal internal clutter
Ed’s personal realization about letting go of “hurry” to embrace peace and presence
You deserve a life where everything in your closet fits, flatters, or feels like you. If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive. Period. End of story.
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What if living to 180 isn't about Hacks, but about Healing?
In this conversation, I sit down with my friend Dave Asprey, the godfather of biohacking, to uncover what might be the most important conversation we've ever had on this show. And I don’t say that lightly. You know Dave for pushing the envelope on longevity, nutrition, and performance—but what we got into here, this is the stuff that actually sets you free.
We talk about how every single one of us is born with the capacity for intuition—a gut knowing that transcends logic—and how most of us have let our ego, emotional baggage, and mental chatter completely drown it out. Dave breaks down the five F’s that drive human behavior: Fear, Food, Fertility, Friendship, and Forgiveness—and how forgiveness, more than anything else, gives you energy, peace, and power. “Forgiveness is simply becoming non-reactive to something that was still causing you pain,” Dave says. That line hit me hard.
We also dig into the practical side—because if there’s no strategy, I’m not interested. Dave shares how to train your intuition like a muscle, what happens to your body when you forgive, and why practices like meditation, breathwork, and even brief, intentional exposure to pain (what he calls BICEP) can radically change how you show up in your life. This isn't woo-woo stuff—it’s actionable and measurable, and he’s got the brainwave data to back it up.
Dave’s new book, Heavily Meditated, might be his most important one yet. Not because it’s flashy, but because it gives you the tools to clear the blocks—emotional, mental, even generational—that are stealing your energy and keeping you from your purpose. If you’re biohacking your body but ignoring your spirit, you’re leaving the most important gains on the table.
Key Takeaways:
Why forgiveness isn't a feeling—it's a performance enhancer
How to recognize and build your intuitive muscle
The biology behind “female intuition” (you’ll want to hear this)
How meditation actually rewires your nervous system
Why exposing yourself to pain builds motivation and emotional resilience
What to do when your heart rate variability just won’t budge
A surprising connection between altered states and intimacy
Let me tell you something: it's not just about living longer—it's about living better. With more joy, more clarity, and more freedom. That’s what we’re after.
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What if you’re just ONE decision away from the life you were meant to live?
In this special Mashup episode, I bring you the truth about how small shifts—made consistently—can completely transform your trajectory. I’ve pulled together some of the most impactful moments from conversations with James Clear, Tony Robbins, and Ben Newman. We’re not talking about hype. We’re talking about real habits, real standards, and the relentless pursuit of greatness. These are the people I trust, the ones I learn from, and today, we’re sharing that with YOU.
I open this episode by breaking down the invisible separator between the winners and everyone else. It’s not luck. It’s not some secret hack. It’s showing up every day—especially when you don’t feel like it. James Clear then jumps in with the science behind the 1% rule and how your identity changes when you commit to small wins. Tony Robbins takes it even further with the emotional conditioning that locks transformation into your body and your mind. And Ben Newman? He makes it clear why your standards, your rituals, and your energy determine your ceiling—or break through it.
This conversation isn’t about gimmicks. It’s about hunger. It’s about desperation. It’s about focus. And it’s about the truth that every one of us is far closer to greatness than we believe. Maybe you've been pacing yourself because you think it’s going to take 10 years. But what if it’s actually one decision away?
Here’s the truth: your life doesn’t change when everything goes right. It changes when you commit to the small things, repeatedly, relentlessly—on the hard days, in the quiet moments, when no one’s watching. Because the person who lays one brick a day—while others only lay bricks when they feel like it—wins in the end.
What You'll Learn:
- Why the 1% rule can radically reshape your identity (James Clear)
- How to create unstoppable emotional momentum (Tony Robbins)
- The real reason most people never change, and how to break free
- How hunger and desperation are the fuel to high performance (Ben Newman)
- The truth about balance, success, and why one area of your life impacts all the others
- What it means to go from possibility thinker to possibility achiever
You're closer than you think. You weren’t made to be average. You were made to do something GREAT. Today’s the day you stop pacing, and start sprinting—with belief, with focus, and with the decision that it starts NOW.
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What if the worst thing ever said to you wasn’t just a memory—but a scar that shaped who you are?
In this episode, I’m opening up about a tough truth that most of us are either living with—or have dished out ourselves: anger and emotional volatility. Whether you're on the receiving end of it or you're the one dishing it out, today’s message is a wake-up call. I’m not just sharing concepts—I’m pulling straight from my own story, from childhood scars to leadership missteps, and how I finally learned that the strongest people don’t intimidate—they protect. You deserve relationships, workplaces, and a life where you feel safe to be your full self.
We’re not tiptoeing around the issue. We’re calling it out. If someone in your life makes you feel small, anxious, or afraid to speak freely—you’ve got to draw the line. Because you’re not just allowing it…you’re teaching them it’s okay. And that’s not love. That’s not leadership. That’s not life. I’m also giving you the tools—real, practical habits—that have helped me move from a reactive man to a regulated one.
And if you're the one struggling with anger, here's your moment. I’m not judging you—I've been you. I know what it means to erupt, to regret, to hurt the people you love most. But you can flip the switch. You can become the kind of person your family, your team, and your future self can count on. No more band-aids over bullet wounds. It’s time to make real change.
Key Takeaways:
How to recognize emotional abuse disguised as “passion” or “leadership”
The difference between a strong man and a scared one hiding behind anger
Why the contrast of “high highs” in toxic relationships can deceive you
Concrete steps to regulate anger before it destroys your identity and others
How your emotional patterns directly impact your kids and future generations
The one trait every safe, authentic, high-performing relationship has
You were born to do something great. And that starts with living a life where you're safe to be you. It's not just about love—it's about respect, belief, and emotional safety. Let’s stop normalizing anger, and start creating environments that heal.
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What if anxiety isn’t just a condition—what if it’s your culture?
This week, I sit down with Dr. Martha Beck, and we get real about something that most of us don’t even realize we’re living with every day: anxiety. Not just the clinical kind—but the kind that’s been baked into our lives from childhood, from trauma, from a society that rewards burnout and worships productivity. I brought Martha on because I’ve been doing this work on myself. I’ve been noticing how I’ve lived in a near-constant state of stress, and the truth is, a lot of you are probably wired the same way.
Martha breaks down how anxiety forms, how it’s normalized in our environment, and why it thrives in our left brain—the part obsessed with control and fear. She explains how we mistake anxiety for productivity, and how our bodies carry the toll of it for decades. But here's what blew me away: she shows us how the antidote isn’t force, but curiosity. That if you can activate that right side of the brain, the part that tracks instead of panics, the part that seeks instead of flees, you can start living from peace—and still be successful.
We walked through her Perfect Day visualization technique, talked about accessing creativity through calm, and why kindness—especially toward yourself—is the true starting line for transformation. Not the kind of kindness that coddles you, but the kind that treats your anxious self like a scared horse: steady, soothing, safe. And you’ll hear what happened when I applied these tools myself. I’ve been sharper, more productive, and less exhausted. That’s real.
This episode isn’t just theory—it’s a playbook. I want you to be able to say, “I am meant to live in peace.” And believe it. Because it’s not either peace or productivity—you can have both. You were never meant to grind your way to worth. You were built for joy, creativity, and ease. Let’s start giving ourselves permission to return to that.
Key Takeaways:
How anxiety becomes “normal” through trauma and culture
The difference between fear and anxiety—and why it matters
Why choosing peace doesn’t mean sacrificing success
Tools like the “Perfect Day” and “Sanity Quilt” to reconnect with purpose
The role of curiosity in calming anxiety and boosting creativity
How to talk to yourself like a frightened horse—and why it works
This one’s going to stick with you. Share it with someone who needs peace today. Max out.
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Are you prepared for the world that’s already changing faster than we can explain it?
In this mashup, I’m bringing together the brightest minds at the intersection of technology, ethics, and the human experience to tackle one question: What will AI do to our future—and who gets to decide? This is more than a conversation. It’s a wake-up call. I sit down with Mo Gawdat, Sal Khan, Steven Kotler, Chris Hansen, and Frank Caliendo to break down what’s really happening—and what we need to do about it.
Mo Gawdat doesn’t hold back. He told me, “I am not afraid of the machines. I am afraid of the humans that are directing the machines.” We got into the real issue behind AI: not just whether it can be ethical, but whose ethics it will be taught to follow. Sal Khan shared a bold vision of a future where learning is radically redefined—but warned about the “economic dislocation” already happening to workers who resist using AI. I pushed back where it counted, especially on the value of work—not just to make money, but as a form of human expression.
Steven Kotler painted the bigger picture. According to him, we’re about to experience a century of innovation—in just ten years. Flying cars, CRISPR breakthroughs, and AI writing code for other AIs? It’s already here. And yet, Chris Hansen reminded us that predators and bad actors don’t need a whole new world to exploit people—they just need a new tool. AI is now one of those tools. And yes, we even got some humor and heart from Frank Caliendo, who reminded me how much energy and truth matter—on stage, and in life.
I want you to hear this: the gap between fear and opportunity is education. This episode is that education. We’re not telling you what to believe—we’re showing you what’s real, what’s coming, and what to do about it.
Key Takeaways:
- Mo Gawdat: “Ethics isn’t the issue—who programs the ethics is.” AI reflects our values, and that’s the risk.
- Sal Khan: Jobs aren’t disappearing—people who don’t use AI are being replaced by those who do.
- Steven Kotler: “What it means to be human is going to change.” We’re in a convergence of tech that will disrupt everything.
- Chris Hansen: AI can empower predators faster than we can protect against them—awareness must evolve.
- Frank Caliendo: Real connection still matters. Even in an AI world, energy and authenticity win.
This episode isn’t just a discussion. It’s a line in the sand. The future’s already arriving—what role will you play in shaping it?
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In this episode, I'm calling you out and lifting you up. We’re tackling one of the biggest challenges that silently destroys relationships, careers, and your own peace of mind—emotional immaturity. I’m sharing real talk about how anger, resentment, and emotional triggers keep you locked in a race to the bottom—and why true strength is found in staying composed, kind, and centered no matter what chaos comes your way.
You’ll hear the hard truths I’ve had to learn myself, including why it's not just about the other person’s behavior but about how you choose to respond. I’ll walk you through how to recognize when you’re being pulled into someone else's emotional home of fear, anger, or anxiety—and how to stay firmly planted in your own home of peace, joy, and faith.
We get into why true emotional maturity isn’t about winning arguments or proving your point—it's about refusing to let anyone else control your emotions. And I’ll give you the questions you need to ask yourself to check if your reactions are pulling you closer to your highest self—or dragging you further away.
Don't spend another second living in somebody else’s emotional chaos. Your minutes are precious. Your peace is non-negotiable.
Key Takeaways:
Why racing to the bottom in anger or frustration only makes you the loser
How to stay emotionally mature when others around you lose control
The truth about emotional homes—and why you have to guard yours fiercely
How to confront toxic patterns with calm strength instead of retaliation
Questions to evaluate whether your reactions bring you closer to your goals and your faith
You are not here to live in chaos. You are here to live in peace, in power, and in purpose. Don’t race to the bottom with people who are hurting—race to the top and stay there. Share this with someone you know who needs it, and remember: the most intelligent version of you is calm, composed, and in complete control.
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What If You Built a Business That Could Outlive You?
I sit down today with Dave Whorton, and let me tell you—this conversation is one of the most important ones you’ll hear if you’re serious about building something meaningful. We’re living in a time where entrepreneurship looks more like a sprint to an exit than a commitment to lasting impact. Dave’s new book, Another Way: Building Companies That Last and Last and Last, challenges that broken model and reminds us: success isn't just about cashing out—it's about building something worth keeping.
We break down what it really takes to create an "evergreen" company—one that’s not built to flip, but built to matter. Dave shares the 7 P’s that every sustainable business needs: Purpose, Perseverance, People First, Profits, Privately Held, Pace Growth, and Pragmatic Innovation. He hits home the idea that growth doesn’t mean chaos—done right, it compounds over time and actually gets easier, more joyful, and more impactful. You’re not racing to the exit—you’re building a legacy.
One of the biggest mind shifts we talk about: you don’t have to sell your business for it to be valuable. You don't need $100M in funding to be "legit." Some of the strongest companies—Amazon, Microsoft, Apple—started with almost no venture capital compared to today’s standards. Real strength comes from a strong foundation, scrappy innovation, and a relentless commitment to people and purpose over hype.
I walk away from this conversation fired up because this is real entrepreneurship. It’s the quiet work of building families, communities, and lives that stand the test of time. It’s not just about business. It's about living a life you’re proud of—and leaving something behind that’s bigger than you.
Key Takeaways:
Why building for the long term beats building for a quick exit every time.
The 7 P’s every lasting company needs—and how to use them.
How purpose-driven leadership creates stronger, happier teams.
Why debt and excessive venture capital can destroy your company’s soul.
The hidden financial power of compounding growth over decades.
How to attract and retain talent without giving up your equity.
You don’t have to follow the crowd. You can build something timeless.
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Are You Really Growing — or Just Staying Busy?
The truth is, most people aren’t actually growing. They’re just repeating the same day over and over again, calling it progress.
In this mashup episode, I brought together some of the most driven, focused, and self-aware people I know — Tony Robbins, Rob Dyrdek, Steve Weatherford, Brendon Burchard, Tom Bilyeu, and Christina Pazsitzky — to get brutally honest about what it really takes to grow every single day. And let me tell you, it’s not just doing more. It’s doing what matters most, consistently, with heart and with intention.
I start the episode by challenging the idea that achievement alone brings fulfillment. I’ve done the grind. I’ve chased the goals. But if you're not working on your identity — that internal thermostat — you’ll keep cooling your life back down to the same old temperature. That’s the truth. You’ll hit a new level, then fall back into old habits if you don’t reset who you believe you are. That’s why I talk about blissful dissatisfaction — the art of being grateful for what you have while staying hungry for more.
You’ll hear Tony Robbins talk about the difference between reading affirmations and conditioning your state through incantations. He shares the story of literally running 13.5 miles, fueled by sheer belief and a burning desire to never go back to the pain. Then Brendon Burchard breaks down the science of high performance, the exact habits and mindsets that separate the top 5% from the rest — things like deliberate energy, efforts of impact, and the power of tracking your intentions daily.
Rob Dyrdek opens up about systematizing his life around his family — not the other way around — and shares wild stories of pushing past fear, including a moment he thought he might not survive. Steve Weatherford talks about chasing greatness while secretly hating himself, and what it took to finally look in the mirror and love the man staring back. Christina brings it all home with her story of forgiveness and healing after a traumatic past, and Tom Bilyeu shares how failing publicly became the best teacher of his life.
Key Takeaways:
- Why you keep “cooling down” after momentum, and how to permanently raise your life’s thermostat.
- Tony Robbins on rewiring your state through incantations and immersive change.
- Brendon Burchard on the real habits that separate top performers — and how to apply them daily.
- Rob Dyrdek’s radical approach to building life around priorities, not just productivity.
- Steve Weatherford on loving yourself before any achievement can matter.
- Christina Pazsitzky’s moving story of choosing meaning over pain.
- Tom Bilyeu’s wake-up call: talent isn’t enough — it’s earned through obsession and relentless reps.
This isn’t about hype. It’s not about chasing empty success. This is about building a life you're proud of — every single day. The guests in this episode didn’t just share ideas — they shared the raw, unfiltered truth about what it costs to grow for real. And now it’s your turn. No more waiting. No more playing small. Let's go — your future is waiting.
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Is Virtual Communication Costing You Influence?
Let’s be honest—no one ever taught us how to communicate in a virtual world. We all just sort of fell into Zoom calls, emails, DMs, and voice notes, hoping for the best. But in this episode, I finally sit down with someone who gets it—Andrew Brodsky. He’s not only a Harvard-trained expert from the University of Texas, but he’s also the first person who’s broken down how to actually win in virtual communication. And trust me, after this conversation, you're going to look at how you communicate online totally differently.
We talk about the unspoken messages behind your emails, the body language you think you're sending on Zoom, and how charisma—real, compelling presence—can still be felt even when you're not in the same room. Andrew lays out a game-changing framework called PING (Perspective-taking, Initiative, Nonverbal, Goals) that helps you understand not just how to communicate better—but why the method matters just as much as the message.
This one hit me personally. I’ve made my career speaking, influencing, and connecting—but I’ll be the first to admit, I’ve been terrible at texting and emailing. I’ve lost influence in moments simply because I chose the wrong channel or misunderstood the tone. And I bet you’ve done the same. That’s why this episode is so critical. You’re going to walk away with a whole new toolkit for handling everything from business conversations to personal relationships—all through the lens of better, more thoughtful communication.
So whether you lead a team, pitch clients, or just want stronger relationships—what you learn here can immediately shift how people perceive you and how effective you are. And if you're wondering what’s next with AI, or how to manage Zoom fatigue, we unpack all of it. Bottom line: if you want to succeed in this virtual world, you need to be more intentional about how you're showing up—digitally.
Key Takeaways:
Why email often comes across colder than intended—and what to do instead
How to build charisma and trust in virtual meetings
When to use voice notes, video, or text—and why each choice matters
The 4-part PING framework to level up your online communication
Strategies to reduce Zoom fatigue and make meetings more productive
Why over-crafting your messages might actually hurt your credibility
How to ask others about their communication preferences to build stronger connections
Go grab Andrew’s book PING: The Secrets of Successful Virtual Communication—because this conversation was just the start. Let's all level up and max out how we communicate in today’s world.
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Are You Joyful… or Just Functioning?
Most people don’t realize it—but there's a silent struggle happening behind the smiles and the schedules. Today, I sit down with Dr. Judith Joseph, a Columbia-trained psychiatrist and author of High Functioning: Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your Joy. We tackle something that I think is affecting more people than anyone talks about… high functioning depression. It's not in the "DSM"—but it’s very real. And if you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still feel empty inside, you need to hear this.
We talked about a condition called anhedonia—this sneaky, silent twin of depression that robs you of joy without making you collapse. It’s the part of depression that doesn’t get seen or treated because you’re still performing, still producing, still achieving. Dr. Judith broke down how traumas, even the little ones, can rewire the way we experience joy. And more importantly, she gave a way out. You don’t have to crash to get help. You don’t have to be broken to deserve healing.
This episode isn’t just about naming the problem. It’s about owning your emotional truth, slowing down, and reclaiming the simple human experiences that actually fill you. Whether you’re a high achiever constantly “doing” or someone who feels like joy is always out of reach, this one’s for you. Judith’s “5 V’s” framework gives you real tools you can use every day—like planning your joy, validating your feelings, and choosing presence over performance.
And let me tell you what stood out most. Joy is contagious! It spreads. To your kids, your spouse, your team. The more we access joy, the more we model it for those around us. This conversation hit home for me—and I think it will for you too.
Key Takeaways:
Why anhedonia is the overlooked symptom stealing your joy.
The difference between happiness (an idea) and joy (an experience).
The “5 V’s” system to help reclaim joy: Validation, Venting, Values, Vitals, Vision.
How trauma—big or small—can lead to high functioning depression.
Tools to help yourself or someone you love who’s silently struggling.
The impact of hormonal changes on mental health, especially for women.
A method to ground yourself daily and reduce anxiety: the 5-4-3-2-1 technique.
Let’s not wait for the crash to start healing. You deserve joy. You just forgot how to feel it.
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Who's REALLY Driving Your Life?
This story will make you rethink everything about control, identity, and the life you're building.
This mashup episode is personal. It starts with me sharing a terrifying experience I had with my daughter Bella during a cab ride in Boston — a ride where we were completely out of control, at the mercy of someone else. That moment hit me hard because it wasn’t just about a crazy driver — it was a real metaphor for how many of us are living. I’m talking to you today about the reality that far too many people are sitting in the backseat of their own lives, letting fear, old stories, emotions, or even other people take the wheel.
Then, I bring in a conversation with my dear friend Tony Robbins, and we talk about what it takes to truly take back control of your life. Tony reminds us that fear is physical, and courage isn’t the absence of fear — it’s doing it anyway. He breaks down how managing your emotional state and reconnecting to a compelling future changes everything. And I share what it means to build confidence by building a reputation with yourself — keeping the promises you make, even the small ones, especially the small ones.
We cover the false beliefs that are holding you back — the lies that say you are your possessions, your accomplishments, what others say about you, or how you look. No, you are none of that. You are who you decide to be. I walk through the most common "cab drivers" people hand the wheel to: fear, emotions, childhood trauma, lack of belief — even imaginary opinions. But here's the truth: you and God are the only ones who should be in the driver's seat.
The episode ends with real, practical steps — how to change your identity by adjusting the internal thermostat that sets the temperature for every result in your life. I break down how to use associations, immersion, and 30-day sprints to reset your beliefs. And I challenge you to do one thing: write a new story. One where you’re finally in control.
Key Takeaways:
- A wild Boston cab ride becomes the perfect metaphor for losing — and reclaiming — control of your life.
- Why fear, emotions, and other people are the most common hidden “drivers” of your behavior.
- Tony Robbins on managing your emotional state, building a compelling future, and shifting your physical state to beat fear.
- How to build unshakable self-confidence by keeping promises to yourself.
- The flawed beliefs that rob us of self-worth and the identity shift that changes everything.
- The internal “thermostat” metaphor — and how to raise your standards in life, faith, business, and relationships.
This isn’t just a motivational talk — it’s a wake-up call. If you’re ready to stop being a passenger in your life and finally grab the wheel, this one’s for you. Let’s step up, together.
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What if you started living like life was rigged in your favor?
That’s the question I want you to wrestle with today. Because the lens you look through is shaping everything — your decisions, your joy, your results. In this Solo episode, I’m walking you through the truth that most people miss: Your life isn't defined by what happens to you — it's defined by how you see it. Your filter, your expectations, and your energy are creating your reality, whether you know it or not.
We talk a lot about faith, hustle, and discipline — but today, I want you to start scanning your life for favor, not fear. I share the four life lenses that are quietly running your perspective — from living through history and memory to seeing life through dreams and imagination. I’ve lived on both sides of this. I’ve filtered for pain, for setbacks, for loneliness. But when I changed the lens — when I started walking through life expecting good things to happen — things began to shift.
You’ll hear me share some of the most personal insights I’ve ever dropped on this show, from how confidence bends reality, to the way your energy becomes a magnet for the people and opportunities in your life. This isn’t just about mindset. It’s about becoming the person who runs toward pressure, who trains like an underdog, and lives with the heart of a champion. You’ve already come farther than you give yourself credit for. Now it’s time to move like someone who’s meant to win.
And here’s the truth — you don’t need to fit in. You’re not one of the crowd. You were made to be different. You were born to stand out. So stop waiting to be seen. See yourself. Don’t underestimate your own power another day. This episode is a reminder of who you really are and what you’re really capable of.
Key Takeaways:
Your expectations shape your reality more than your circumstances.
There are four lenses that shape how you experience life — most of us operate unconsciously.
Confidence can actually bend reality — but so can self-doubt.
Energy is magnetic — you draw in what you put out.
The life you want begins when you stop underestimating yourself and start believing that great things are meant for you.
Focus equals expansion: what you’re looking for is what you’ll find.
Train like an underdog, but think like you’re world class.
You don’t need to be understood — you need to be relentless about your purpose.
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Are You Climbing the Right Mountain?
What if the life you’re chasing isn’t the life you actually want?
In this conversation, I sat down with Sahil Bloom—someone who’s not only full of wisdom well beyond his years but has the guts to question everything we’ve been told about success. You’ll hear how Sahil traded the “dream” job, the big checks, and the societal applause for a life that actually meant something to him. He’s not just talking theory—he lived this. And together, we unpack what it means to redefine wealth in a way that includes all the parts of your life that truly matter.
This episode is packed with real talk about time, health, relationships, mental clarity, and yes—money. Sahil breaks down his Five Types of Wealth and gets brutally honest about why chasing only one can cost you everything else. I loved what he said: “Sometimes the things you pray for become the things you complain about, if you’re not paying attention.” That hit me hard—and I know it will hit you too.
We also talk about how to actually make changes in your life. Not the fluffy stuff. Real, actionable tools—like how to schedule energy-giving activities, reframe your relationship with money, and audit your time to reflect your true values. We get into how to stay consistent with new habits, even when life is chaotic, using Sahil’s ABC system that anyone can implement today.
Look, this is one of those conversations that might just shift the direction of your life. Don’t listen passively. Evaluate where you are. Take the action. Because if you’re climbing the wrong mountain fast, you’re still going the wrong way.
Key Takeaways:
Why financial wealth is only one part of the equation—and how to identify the other four.
The concept of “anything above zero compounds” and how it reshapes consistency.
Why time is your most valuable currency—and how to design more of it.
The dimmer switch model for life balance (and why the on/off switch ruins your future).
The Think Day ritual: how one hour of reflection can realign your life’s direction.
Let this be your pause. Let this be your moment to check in. Because maybe, just maybe—you’re already living out your prayers.
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Are you showing up as your real self… or just who you think you should be?
In this Mashup episode, I get raw with Thais Gibson, John Kim, Christina Pazsitzky, and Dr. Marisa G. Franco as we peel back the curtain on something that shapes every relationship you’ve ever had: your attachment style. And let me tell you, this isn’t just a theory—it’s the rulebook you’ve been unknowingly using your whole life to give and receive love. For years, I believed I was great at loving others but struggled to feel love myself—and for the first time, I understood why.
Thais Gibson lays the groundwork for understanding the four core attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, Dismissive Avoidant, and Fearful Avoidant. She breaks down how childhood experiences shape our subconscious patterns and shows us how we can rewire them to build healthier relationships—with others and ourselves. I shared with Thais how my upbringing with an alcoholic parent shaped my own attachment behaviors—and she nailed it. That pattern of giving love but not receiving it? Classic fearful avoidant.
John Kim takes it even further. We talked about the difference between your pseudo self and your solid self—and how most of us live outside-in, searching for validation, instead of from within. I told him about the moment I realized I didn’t really know myself. Not liking yourself doesn’t start with hate—it starts with never taking time to meet you.
Christina Pazsitzky brings incredible vulnerability and grit to the conversation. She opens up about growing up between a mentally ill mother and an alcoholic father, and how comedy became her survival tool. Her story is a testament to the resilience built through suffering—and why boundaries, self-awareness, and healing are the keys to reclaiming your power.
Dr. Marisa Franco ties it all together, explaining how our attachment style doesn't just affect romance, but friendships and business too. If you’ve ever asked why people pull away or why connection feels out of reach—this is the truth you’ve been waiting for.
Key takeaways from this episode:
- What the four attachment styles are and how they shape your relationships
- How your childhood patterns show up in your adult life
- The difference between your “pseudo self” and “solid self”
- Why so many high performers struggle to feel love even if they give it freely
- Practical steps to reprogram core fears and shift to secure attachment
- Why self-awareness is the foundation for deeper connection—with others and yourself
- How unresolved attachment wounds sabotage your growth if left unchecked
If you’re ready to stop living from patterns and start choosing your life, this episode is your wake-up call. The transformation doesn’t come from changing your partner, your job, or your situation—it starts with getting honest about you.
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