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Hi, Friend!
Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, itâs easy to tell our kids what they are doing wrong and point out their flaws. Are you thinking, âWhat? I never do that!â
Have you ever said, âYou never listen,â or âYou always take forever to do anythingâ? Or maybe you tell them, âWhy canât you just clean up like your brother?â.
Have you ever noticed that those one-liners donât actually work when it comes to motivating your kids? If youâre putting a globally generalized label on their actions, then thatâs soon what they start to believe about themselves.
In todayâs episode, we are talking about how to rephrase what we say in the heat of the moment when our kids are choosing not to listen or when our kids give up so easily. We need to rethink whether or not our words are lifting our kids up or putting them down, and we are exploring it all in episode 43!
I hope you find these tips to be successful for you and your littles!
Thanks for listening!
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Hi, Friend!
If you ever wish you didnât have to take your kids to the park because you dread leaving or you loathe bath time because you know itâs literally the worst time getting your kids out of the tub, then you will love this episode!
Yes, itâs normal for our kids to melt down, but how do we get through meltdowns with our toddlers? Is there a way to prevent meltdowns from happening?
Yes, it is possible! In todayâs episode, we are talking about 4 successful strategies to use during meltdowns so that you can move on to the next task with your child more easily. These strategies will help your child feel encouraged, be successful during undesirable tasks and transitions, and learn how to self-regulate his emotions.
I hope you find these tips to be successful for you and your littles!
Thanks for listening!
Michelle
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Hi, Mama-Friend,
Today, Iâm sharing my personal experience with anxiety. Iâve battled anxiety since I was a child, and it actually didnât hit me until I was an adult. Knowing what I know about how it impacted me as a child prompted me to share my experience.
We just donât always understand what our kids are going through. Itâs easy to tell them to brush it off. Itâs easy to tell them that everything will be okay âItâs just a boo-boo,â but when youâre battling anxiety and struggling with mental health issues, hearing that can make it even worse.
We may not even know the why behind our kidsâ anxieties, but itâs our job to create an environment of empathy for them, helping them understand that they arenât alone, and although someone may not be able to take away the pains or worries, someone will be there while they go through it.
If you take away anything from this episode, I pray that you understand that our kids sometimes have big feelings and emotions that we donât always understand; please be mindful of telling them that they are fine because they may not be.
Anxiety may be silent and hard to understand, and may even be scary for your kids. Be vigilant to signs that your little one might have anxiety about things, and be respectful of that; create a safe place for them to express their concerns, and find a way to support them and help them overcome those anxieties so they learn to become resilient.
Thanks for listening,
Michelle
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Hi, Mama-Friend
Have you ever wondered, is there a secret formula to helping your child learn naturally through everyday life, without forcing it? Can my child really play and learn at the same time?
I have great news! I have broken down a formula for success when it comes to helping your child make deep connections, boost language, and learn new skills naturallyâand it all starts with play-based learning!
This episode is filled with five easy ways to help your child learn naturally through everyday life, where they are leading the learning.
All you have to do is provide the resources to ignite their curiosity (which is a lot easier than you think)!
I hope you enjoy this episode and learn something new!
Michelle
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Hey there!
âIâm so frustrated!â â Does that line ever come out of your mouth?... While youâre yelling at your kids??
Odds are, there are many times that warrant a short fuse throughout your day, but is there a way to find patience when your kids are being frustrating, needing reminder after reminder!
Yes, our kids may frustrate us, and yes, we lose our patience, but is there anything WE can do to fix that, or are we expecting our kids to make those changesâŠand then getting let down when they are unsuccessful reaching those expectations?
What is truly the cause of our impatience? Is it our kids, or is it the expectation of the situation?
Sit back and relax as we unravel an answer to âHow do I become a more patient parent?!â
Thanks for listening!! I hope this episode shines a new light on your parenting!
If you love it, Iâd be so grateful if you would leave a review!
Be blessed, my friend!
Michelle
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Hi, Mama-Friend!
Have you ever wondered, âHow do I raise Godly children?â The answer is quite simple, but yet rather challenging at the same time.
We have to constantly ask ourselves, âAre my kids living more like God, or living more like me?! And how am I contributing to that?â
Am I teaching them to live like me, or am I teaching them to live like God? Oh, complex, right?! I want to say Iâm teaching them to live like God, but am I showing them how to live like God? And if Iâm not showing them how to live like God, where and how do I start?
We have to remember how important it is to teach our kids Godly expectations, but also model those Godly expectations, which is obviously so easy, right? Ha. Kidding.
But, seriously, sometimes it takes help, and thatâs a-okay.
We are talking about it all in episode 38! Iâd love for you to comment, what do you find easy or challenging about living up to Godly expectations? Do you find that some things are easier than others? Iâd love to knowâbe sure to share with us www.facebook.com/groups/generationonamission and comment on this post!
Thanks for listening!
Michelle
*Donât forget to join us starting Feb 21 in the Facebook group for a crossing the midline challenge! Every day (M-F), I will be sharing out an activity that you can do with your kids that also ties in some learning and brain boosting exercises, as well! I hope to see you there!
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Hi, Mama!
Did you know that helping your child build coordination and motor skills at an early age is actually EASIER (and more important) than you think?!
In todayâs episode, youâll learn a super quick, easy way to help your kids boost their coordination and motor skills every single day. Bonus, thereâs actually little to no prep involved for you, which is always a win!
Doing this one simple thing every day will help your child become a stronger reader and writer, as well, because it helps them learn how to more easily use BOTH sides of their brain at the same timeâwhich sounds all fancy-like!
I hope you learn a little somethinâ-somethinâ!
Be sure to join our Facebook group, where Iâll be sharing out learning activities to go along with this weekâs episode every day during the week of Feb. 21. Youâll see easy, no or little prep activities that you can do with your kids to help grow those brain muscles by using both sides of their brains! See you there!
Michelle
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Hi, Sweet Mama!
In todayâs episode, we are answering the question, âHow do I prepare my child for new life experiences,â like having a new sibling, starting school or moving homes, for example?
Itâs up to us, as their parents, to help them understand what new life changes will bring, and to help them learn to identify any emotions that might come along with these changes. Life changes may not always be easy for our little ones to handle, so we have to make sure we prepare them as adequately as we can!
This comes through helping them identify emotions, showing them visuals and talking through what might happen as these new life changes occur.
When we do this, our little ones know what to expect, and they are able to navigate through the life change with a better understanding, which will hopefully better prepare them for any uncertain emotions that they may experience.
Thanks for listening!
Michelle
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Hey Mama-Friend!
Quick Question: Is how we respond to our kids when they ask us something important?
Yes. Absolutely.
Sometimes, I think we forget that our kidsâ behaviors are actually happening because of how we handle situations, as adults, or even how we respond to our kids. We have a bigger impact on their behavior than we might think.
In this particular episode, we are diving into the response of saying, âI donât careâ to our kids when they ask us if they can do something. Now, we may not care, but is it really beneficial to respond with, âI donât careâ?
Hereâs something to think about. How many times have you responded with, âI donât care,â but then moments later, realize that you actually do care, and you are taking back what you said in the first place? Or maybe youâre yelling at your kids to stop what they are doing because they âtook advantage of youâ?
We have to get into the habit of putting effort into our responses, so that our kids are clear on our expectations. When they are clear on expectations, with little gray area, they are more likely to listen. Our kids need to know that we are invested in them, in their health and well-being, which is why we are diving into alternative ways to respond to your kids, rather than saying, âI donât care.â
How do you let your kids know that you donât mind them doing things, while still letting them know that there are boundaries in place? Iâd love to know!
Thanks for listening!
Michelle
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Hey, Mama-Friend!
I know how it is! My kids just got all the toys in the world for Christmas and they are still left wanting MORE! They are unsatisfied, yet again, but have you ever stopped to wonder why that is?
Our kids get so wrapped up in the things that they WANT and think will make them happy, that they lose focus on the things that they have right in front of them.
Iâd like to call it the sweater phenomenonâŠIâll explain. This is where we look in our closets that are FULL of clothes, yet we think we have NOTHING to wear. Itâs the same for our kids. They look in their toy boxes and think they have NOTHING to play with! Well, we canât very well be mad at them for saying that, when we say the same thing ourselves when it comes to never having enough clothes in the closet or food in the pantry!
How do I help my kids learn to appreciate the things they have? I think it all starts with creating an attitude of appreciation and gratitude OURSELVES before we can expect our kids to show any sort of appreciation for the things that they have, and itâs all about finding balance, mama-friend!
We have to constantly reflect: How am I modeling the fact that I appreciate the little things? Am I complaining about never having enough or even being unsatisfied when Iâm serving my family? What are my kids hearing ME say on a daily basis?
That all plays a role in creating an attitude of gratitude and an environment of appreciation, which is what we are diving into today!
Thanks for listening, and as always, if you love the episode, Iâd love for you to leave a review!
Michelle
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Happy Holidays, Mama-Friend!
Ah, that crazy time of year when we pull out Elf on the Shelf, thinking that we are going to use it to gently persuade our kids into being good because their every move is being watched; so, that leads me to the question, do I really need Elf on the Shelf to help my kids be âgoodâ? Does it REALLY work, or is it something I can stop doing with my kids?
We are answering those juicy questions, and, hold up! What?! I should stop asking my kids if theyâve been good this year. Is it okay to tell them that Santaâs watching and that he only delivers gifts to GOOD girls and boys? But my kids NEED to be good, otherwise Santa wonât comeâŠor, will he? Letâs talk about the message that sends to our kids.
Is there a different way to approach Santa? How can we talk about Santa without using him as something to take away if our kids arenât magically well behaved in the weeks leading up to Christmas?
We are talking about a mindset shift we can make as parents to help our kids understand that Santa (and Christmas) is more than just getting gifts when our kids are âgood.â Heâs about spreading kindness, and thatâs the message we should send to our kids.
Letâs suit up for this well-needed, and very timely episode, as the holidays are upon us, mama-friend!
**Disclaimer and very important message: Grab some headphones or disappear from your kids for this one, because little ears donât need to hear the secrets I disclose in this episode! đ
Thanks for listening!
Michelle
Be sure to join in the discussion at www.facebook.com/groups/generationonamission or send me an email at [email protected] ! Iâd love to hear your responses for the questions in this episode!
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Hey There, Mama-Friend!
Did you know that we all have an emotional bank account?! You might be like, Say What?! Yes, itâs true!
We all have emotional bank accounts, where we experience withdrawals and deposits, leaving our bank accounts full or empty. When we invest in our kidsâ emotional bank accounts, and take the time to deposit into them, our relationships strengthen. Thatâs why depositing into them is so important.
Think about how we feel when we know how much someone loves us, or how an act of kindness can make us feelâŠor even when someone takes the time to understand our point of view. We feel respected, we feel valued, we feel invested in.
Thatâs how our kids want to feel, as well, but, sometimes, when we slip into the habit of telling them, âDonât be afraid ofâŠ,â or, âJust try it, it wonât be that bad!â we arenât taking the time to invest in their emotional bank accounts. When we take the time to understand their perspective, and think about things from their points of view, thatâs when their opinions are heard and thatâs when deposits are being made into their emotional piggy banks.
The more we deposit into our kidsâ emotional bank accounts, the more our kids will still feel valued when a withdrawal, AKA a negative moment, happens.
So, letâs dive in and learn one way we can invest in our kidsâ emotional bank accounts, so they are left feeling valued and our relationships with them remain strong!
Be blessed, my friend!
Michelle
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Welcome to Part 2 of the âHowâ series, where we are talking about how to teach your kids to become little world changers by asking all the right questions to themâŠand to yourselves!
Parenting is not just about learning how to âget your kids to do what you tell them to do.â AH, yes, good little listeners are great and make life easy, youâre absolutely right, but itâs so important that we help foster our kidsâ independence by helping them think about how to do things for themselves.
We want to teach them how to problem solve, communicate kindly, use empathy, learn from their mistakes, be aware of their own emotions and learn solutions to work through those emotions so they can self-regulate effectively.
The most important thing to remember about teaching them these âHow-tosâ is that we (bold means itâs important!!) need to be reflecting on these questions ourselves, as parents. Itâs not enough to expect our kids to communicate effectively, have a handle on their emotions, or even show empathy if WE are not doing the same. Parenting is a constant reflection on how you can better yourself every day for your kids, and that is so important to remember.
Itâs not always easy, but itâs so worth it!
Hereâs to raising little independent world changers!
Thanks for listening!
Michelle
Real Quick: For some great hands-on Fall and Thanksgiving activities, check out www.generationonamission.com; your preschooler will have a hoot and a half with them!
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Hey There, Mama-Friend!
Have you ever thought about how much we jump in to save the day for our little ones? We want to be there for them! Itâs our motherly instinct!
Did you know that when we are so quick to jump in, it actually impedes their development when it comes to learning how to problem-solve and figure out how to work through their frustrations?
We need to be the generation of parents who teach our kids how to problem solve, identify their emotions and help them find solutions to cope with and work through their emotions. If we are constantly telling our kids what to say, how to think, and how to solve problems, then we arenât fostering their critical thinking skills or their ability to become independent thinkers.
If we want our kids to grow into the leaders they are designed to be, then we need to start giving them ownership in the way they think and solve problems, and this all starts by using one simple word, âhow.â
This episode is part one of two that will help answer the question of âHow do I guide my kids in becoming self-aware, empathetic, communicative, independent problem-solvers?!â⊠Thatâs really specific, ha! These next two episodes will help answer it all!
Thanks for listening!
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Hey, Hey, Mama!!
I hope youâre just as excited to dive into this episode as I am!
We all want whatâs best for our kids. We all desire and just yearn for our kids to stay on the right path and be the salt and light that this dark world needs. If youâre anything like me, than you want to teach your kids how to make an impact on this world. How do we accomplish such a BIG, audacious task?!
It was in the Target parking lot (naturally), where I decided that it was time for me to make a change in my parenting. Itâs not only what I want and hope for them to accomplish. Itâs about what I need to accomplish MYSELF as a world changer. It was the ultimate mindset change that I needed when I realized thereâs more to just wanting my kids to be their best selves. I canât just expect that from them without making some sort of change myself.
My kids canât be the change in the world that I want them to be if IâM not being the change that I want them to see. I canât help them reach their best potential if Iâm not reaching my full potential myself when it comes to serving others and being a world changer.
And that is the pivotal moment that I will be diving into in todayâs episode! Itâs going to be so good!
I hope it just leaves you blessed and inspired to go out there and be a change agent, and teach your kids to do the same!!
Iâd love to be inspired by you, as well! How do you all help your kids see their potential and lead them down a path of becoming world changers?! Please comment on this episode or give me a shout out on Instagram!
Alsoâbe sure to listen to the end for some uplifting words from my little one đ! Hopefully, it will make you chuckle and make your day!
Have a blessed week!
Michelle
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Hey There, Mama!
Today we are uncovering one thing you should do everyday to help strengthen your relationship with your kids!
When our relationships with our kids grows, we are able to reach our kids so much more proactively and positively when those negative moments pop up. Why is that? It's because they begin to trust you and know that you aren't out to just make them make them miserable by all the limits you set and expectations you enforce.
When you build trust, they know that you care about them! They know you want to get to know them and that you love them, which is so important in our relationships with our kids!
Have a Blessed Week!
Michelle
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Gosh, Mama, times can be tough can't they?
Let's be honest. Sometimes it's HARD to find joy in parenting, especially when our circumstances are changing and our kids aren't behaving the way we want them to.
I'll be the first to admit that even I have trouble finding joy in my parenting at times... especially during tough seasons. It's so easy to focus on the negative, that we miss the positive moments coming from our parenting.
I just want to leave you with a word of encouragement. I see you. I'm with you. I AM you, and I need encouragement just like you, Mama.
If you're in a tough spot right now, reach out to me. Let's work through it together; I'm happy to be there for you if you need it.
Many blessings to you!
Michelle
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Happy Day, Mama-Friend!
Have you ever had those moments where you feel like you just keep repeating the same thing over and over again? Is your toddler ever constantly pushing the boundaries? Iâm right there with you, and I know it can be tough when they are toting the line!
You have expectations. Youâve taught them. Youâve modeled them, and your toddler is STILL not following them, so what are you missing?! First of all, itâs not you! Toddlers are expert explorers of limits and boundaries!
You just have to know how to effectively enforce those expectations! In todayâs episode, Iâm laying out the groundwork and the steps you need to take to effectively implement expectations, so that your toddler knows where the line is and knows youâre serious about where that line is drawn.
Letâs get our learn on!
Michelle
*I have a few freebies ready to rock and roll for you on my website www.generationonamission.com! Youâll get some of my best tips right at your fingertips!
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What's Up, Mama-Friend!
In today's episode, we are tackling something I know all of us moms are facing in the midst of toddlerhood and the preschool years (and beyond), and that is What do I do about those power struggles?! How on earth can I avoid them and STILL help my kid be successful?!
Well, sweet mama-friend, I have a solution for you! This is such a crucial element in parenting that I think a lot of us parents skip over because we are always in such a hurry to move on to the next thing that we simply forget to do it--but we shouldn't because it's so important.
We are talking about expectations...what they are, why they're important, and most importantly, how to implement them. I walk you through the three steps you need to take when it comes to implementing expectations so you and your little one avoid power struggles and arguments, but most importantly, set your little one up for success right from the get-go.
Let's get our learn on, Mama-Friend!
Michelle
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Hey Mama-Friend!
Are you still wondering why your toddler won't listen when you tell him to stop doing something or when you tell him to complete a task?
If that's you, this episode is perfect for you! We are going over to tactile, effective solutions to help get your toddler to listen the first time!
It will take some time and practice, but, if you make these two simple changes in your parenting, I know that your toddler will begin to listen the first time you ask him to do something (or stop doing something!)
Grab your headphones and let's get our learn on!
Michelle
Be sure to check out my new website www.generationonamission.com where you can get the latest parenting insights, freebies, video tips, activity ideas and more! I'd love to have you as a part of our mom-squad!
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