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Youâve been on a date or two with someone and things are going pretty well. Then suddenly they ask you, âWanna come over to my place and watch a movie tonight?â
Is it too soon? What if you like this person but you feel itâs moving a little too fast? In todayâs video, I share 5 things you need to know before you âNetflix and chillâ if you want more than just a casual hookup.
âșâș Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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We may not realise it, but many of us subconsciously hide from real love because it forces us to be honest and show who we really are. And when we get threatened, we either go cold, hide, or lash out with passive aggression.
If you've struggled with emotional unavailability or always choosing the wrong people, this might be why...
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My brother and I sit down to talk about why I wrote my new book "Love Life", how dating has changed in the last 10 years, choosing the right person, and how to break toxic cycles in relationships.
âșâș Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4
PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More!
Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . .
â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com -
Friends...it's finally happening :)
âșâș Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4
PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More!
Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . .
â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com -
Iâve been asked this question several times a week for the last 10+ years. You may feel SO ready to share your life with someone . . . only to have had dates that fizzled out or incompatible relationships . . . or perhaps youâve remained single with no such person on the horizon. It can even begin to feel like thatâs the way it will always be.
If youâre working through feelings of longing, loneliness, or sadnessâor just want to feel more excited about datingâin todayâs new episode, I share 3 tools that will help you effectively manage those difficult emotions, and give you real hope for the future.
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On dating apps, first impressions matter.
And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, itâs often the next step thatâs the hardest . . .
That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?!
You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and youâll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think:
Would a simple âheyâ or âgreat photoâ show a lack of imagination?
Iâd like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . .
Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by.
So how can we make an impression on people who havenât yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?
In todayâs episode, Iâm going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
We are often told to "trust our instincts" in love and relationships. But sometimes our first reaction can be unhealthy, impulsive, or come from bad patterns we have learned that cause us to self-sabotage.
In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to question your instincts and make the right decision when you have an emotional reaction or become anxious in dating.
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
Matt and Audrey had the pleasure this week of sitting down with Mark Groves, author of the new book "Liberated Love" and host of the Mark Groves podcast.
In this episode, we discuss anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles in love, how to overcome co-dependency, getting back together after a break up, and the crucial importance of TRUE honesty and facing reality in having fulfilling relationships.
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âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
You know those moments where you look back and think, âI wish Iâd known then what I know nowâ? Well, in todayâs new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s to save yourself extra time (and heartache)!
If youâve ever found yourself giving more than the other person in your relationship, felt heartbroken that someone doesnât like you back, or chased the wrong person, you canât miss this!
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
Have you ever felt jealous about your exâs previous partners? In the age of social media, itâs easier than ever to see our partnerâs history and compare ourselves to our exâs history.
In this episode, we talk about the problem of this âretroactive jealousyâ, how it affects us psychologically, and how to let go of it.
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only comes after you achieve a certain goal.
Matt and Audrey sit down to explain why none of those are true. You can actually feel confident right now - and it starts with changing what part of your life you focus on.
âșâș Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Order Your Copy of Love Life Before April 23 to Enter the Love Life Giveaway. Learn More At. . . â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person.
âșâș Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4
PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More!
Pre-Order Your Copy of Love Life Before April 23 to Enter the Love Life Giveaway.
Learn More At. . .
â http://www.LoveLifeBook.comâșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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A bad dateâwhere we know we wonât see the person againâcan be frustrating since it wastes our time. But whatâs even MORE frustrating? An amazing date with someone who just disappears after seeing us only once or twice.
It leaves us wondering: âWhat happened?? I thought we had real chemistry!â
In this episode, I explain exactly why someone pulls away after a first date⊠(and how you can tell the difference between someone whoâs a keeper vs. someone whoâs just telling you what you want to hear.)
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.
These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someoneâs interest and a situation just fizzling out.
Once youâre aware of them, theyâre extremely easy to spot . . . so you wonât inadvertently end up â8-Milingâ yourself. (Trust me, itâll make sense when you hear the episode.)
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
Ever felt like you're scared of expressing your honest feelings when dating or in a relationship?
It can often feel scary to put ourselves on the line. Or to open up. Or to even admit to ourselves that we want to find love.
In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down to talk about why we act aloof in dating, fear of rejection, how we put up barriers that stop us truly connecting, and how to be honest about what we really want in love.
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com âșâș Join a Community of People Learning to Transform Their Impact with People, Their Happiness in Life and Their Love for Themselves. Subscribe to my Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at. . . â http://www.The3Relationships.com -
Long-distance relationships are a tough gig.
You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you donât always know when youâll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends.
Long-distance relationships are tough, but there are warning signs that can help tell you if itâs likely to work long-term. In fact, thereâs one thing someone can SAY to you that basically guarantees a long-distance relationship wonât last, and I share it in this episode.
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș Join a Community of People Learning to Transform Their Impact with People, Their Happiness in Life and Their Love for Themselves.
Subscribe to my Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at. . .
â http://www.The3Relationships.com -
Dating fatigue is real.
Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship.
But since science isnât quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating processâthe part you need in order to FIND that relationshipâdoesnât burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff?
In todayâs video, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. Youâll learn how to:
âą Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them.
âą Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity.
âą Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship youâre actually in.
Youâll want to bookmark this video and rewatch it before any date.
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . â The Love Life Reset REPLAY -
Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding!
In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to discuss what makes the perfect wedding, how to budget for a big event, and how to create the greatest memories with as little stress as possible.
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âșâș Connect with Lynden Lane @lyndenlane
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
Thank You to Our Wedding Vendors!
Design & Production: @lyndenlane
Photography: @sarahfalugo.co
Video: @giuliocantarella_wedding
Florals: @keithjlaverty
Paper Goods: @cecilespaperco
Venue: @dimoradellebalze
Rentals: @theark_ & @theonicollection
Stylist: @nextlevelwardrobe
Hair Stylist: @tonipellegrinoartandscience
Dress: @pronovias
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People ask me a lot, âHow did you meet your wife?â
Well, it wasnât just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did.
I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this episode could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you ever having to swipe right!
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș Ready to Get Off The Sidelines and Back Into Dating?
Catch the Replay of The Love Life Reset at. . .
â http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com -
If youâve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those âuh-ohâ moments.
Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something thatâs important to you. Or appeared to take something you did for granted.
It might not be terrible behavior, but you know itâs behavior you donât want to be a pattern for the rest of your relationship.
So how do you handle the conversation without letting your emotions get the better of you? I.e. without reacting in a way that would hurt rather than help the relationship...
In this weekâs episode, Iâm going to give 3 steps of exactly how to handle this difficult conversation, so that you can handle it in a productive way when it happens.
This is how you make them want to be a better person for you...
âșâș Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
âșâș Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . â The Love Life Reset REPLAY - Mostrar más