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How do you know if someoneâs really over their ex?
Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also havenât 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: âIs this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?â
This is a really important topic in todayâs video, and my answer to this probably isnât what youâd expect.
Give it a watch to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential.
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Are you stuck in a cycle of tolerating disrespect or avoiding tough conversations?
In this episode of Love Life, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why so many of us stay in challenging relationshipsâwhether romantic, familial, or platonicâfor far too long, and how to reclaim your power by setting boundaries and addressing the issues. Youâll learn how to stop obsessing over someone elseâs actions and start focusing on why youâre allowing it, plus practical tools for having those difficult conversations youâve been avoiding.
đŻ Topics include:
Why we ignore our needs in the early stages of relationships.
How to have tough conversations about what matters to you.
The power of teaching others how to treat youâand when to walk away.
Why people-pleasing tendencies can leave you feeling invisible in your own relationships.
How to break free from unhealthy dynamics and create space for mutual respect.
If youâve ever struggled to stand up for yourself or felt stuck in a one-sided dynamic, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to take action.
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How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone youâre into, it can feel like walking a tightropeâyou want to show interest, but not come off as too eager.
In this weekâs episode, I share five subtle-yet-powerful flirting techniques that create attraction . . . without the fear of looking desperate or risking rejection. (Plus, I reveal a playful way my wife flirted with me early on that left a lasting impressionâand itâs something you can easily try yourself.)
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We all know we wonât connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just donât seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum.
Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, thereâs a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And itâs the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . .
If youâd like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, donât miss this weekâs brand-new video.
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Are you walking away too fastâor staying when you shouldnât?
In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in dating in an interview with Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu). Youâll learn how to spot real red flags vs. amber lights, when to pause instead of panic, and how the right relationship can help you heal.
đŻ Topics include:
The difference between a red flag and an âamber lightâ đŠ
How fear and past hurt can make us overreact or shut down đŹ
The danger of going into dating like an "assessor" rather than a present and open human being.
Why empathy without boundaries can be dangerousâand how to balance compassion with standards.
How relationships can be healing if you show up the right way đ
Whether youâve been burned in the past or just want to date with more emotional intelligence, this oneâs for you.
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If youâve ever found yourself saying, âIâm so done with dating,â this video is for you. Dating burnout is real, and itâs easy to see the process of finding love as a chore.
But what if there was a way to make dating fun again?
Thatâs right. Going out, dating, finding a meaningful connectionâthis can be a rewarding part of your life, regardless of whether youâre looking for a committed relationship. So if you need a refresh for your brain right now, here are 7 powerful mindsets that will make dating feel easier.
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Breakups are incredibly hard.
And a split can be even more excruciating when your partner moves on while youâre still healing.
It can leave you with all kinds of painful questions like:
âWhy wasnât I good enough?â
âWhat does that person have that I donât have?â
âHave I lost the love of my life to someone else?â
Itâs one of the worst types of pain there is. And if we donât learn the right lessons from our breakup, it can create baggage in the form of insecurities and an unwillingness to open up to someone new. (Risking your chance to find real, lasting love.)
But closure can come faster than you expect with a simple shift in the way you choose to think about your ex, and yourself. Iâm sharing this powerful shift with you today.
If thereâs anything I want you to take from this video, itâs that while what youâre going through is hard, itâs also an opportunity. A chance to let go of someone who couldnât see your value, so that you can make space for a man who can.
If someone doesnât choose you, they cannot be right for you. Period. Thereâs someone better on the other side of all this. I promise.
Todayâs video was inspired by a brave male audience member who was devastated when his girlfriend of 5 years moved on only four months after their breakup. Not only will you learn something from the response I give him, but you'll also get insight into how men process pain. Spoiler alert⊠we ainât that different.
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In this episode of the Love Life Podcast, Matthew, Audrey, Stephen, and producer David dive deep into one of the most common struggles in dating: flirting.
So many people feel stuck when it comes to creating chemistry, worrying they'll come off as desperate, awkward, or get rejected. This episode breaks down how to define âflirtingâ rather than just talking, and gives some simple-but-powerful ways to do it in early attraction.
đŻ Topics include:
Why people often lose their flirtatious spark when they like someone too much
The 4 most common flirting fears (based on poll results)
The difference between platonic, desire, and love language
How to flirt without being overly sexual or awkward
What âpeople-pleasingâ energy looks like and how it kills seduction
Practical examples of flirtatious compliments that actually work
The secret ingredient: Tension, contrast, and slowing down
Plus, we have our regular segment âSteveâs Sleevesâ with a fun game of Love Life Crew vs Matthew AI!
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If finding love feels harder than ever in 2025, itâs not just you.
In todayâs episode, I explore the cultural shifts and challenges that are fueling the ârelationship recession.â Drawing inspiration from the Netflix series Adolescence, weâll dive into the disillusionment many men are facing, the frustrations women are experiencing, and the hidden dynamics making connection feel so elusive.
From surprising stats to the subtle mindsets that sabotage us before love even begins, this video connects the dots. If youâve ever wondered why someone amazing vanished after two datesâor why you might be pulling away yourselfâthis will explain whatâs really going on and how to rise above it to create meaningful relationships. Let me know what you think!
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Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away?
It feels awful.
You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special.
Iâve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in todayâs new video, Iâll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you).
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In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the âbox theoryââthe idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time?
We break down the psychology behind first impressions in dating, whether it's possible to shift from casual to committed, and what really makes someone decide weâre ârelationship materialâ.
Topics Covered:What is the â3 Box Theoryâ of dating
Can someone change the box theyâre inâor are they stuck?
Signs youâre being kept in the âcasualâ box and how to respond
Why first impressions arenât always final in attraction
Emotional connection vs. chemistry: how to tell the difference
Dating consistency, standards, and sexual boundaries
How to communicate your relationship intentions without fear
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Why do so many people struggle with the idea of commitmentâeven when they want love? What fears do you have to confront? And what does it really take to feel ready? In this conversation, I interview newly-married bestselling author and entrepreneur Lewis Howes about managing the âstormsâ of life, avoiding the self-doubt trap, and what it means to give your heart fully to a relationship.
But we donât stop there. We also get into moneyâwhy itâs so emotionally charged, and how unhealed financial wounds can quietly sabotage your dating life. Thereâs a lot of raw honesty in this conversation, and I hope it meets you where you are.
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Weâve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry weâll lose all our âpower,â but if we show too little, they may not even realize weâre interested.
In todayâs Rewind episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person.
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In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest challenges people face in dating â from rejection and insecurity to feeling like the odds are stacked against you.
Whether you feel stuck due to age, lack of experience, body image, or financial worries, this episode is packed with reframes, real-life listener questions, and practical mindset shifts to help you get out of your own way and start moving forward with confidence.
PLUS: A special interview with Lewis Howes on handling overwhelm, emotional regulation, and why taking imperfect action is the key to growth in both life and love.
âš Main topics covered:
How to reframe limiting stories that are holding you back in dating
Dating with insecurities around age, experience, weight, or finances
Listener questions answered with real advice for building confidence
How to stop pre-rejecting yourself and âtake yes for an answerâ
Lewis Howes on emotional regulation, handling pressure, and showing up without perfection
Fun âInstant Reframeâ segment to turn common dating obstacles into positives
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You may have an idea of your perfect partnerâthe person who feels like the missing piece youâve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, âThis is itâthe search is over!â
But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In this episode, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship and what really makes someone âThe One,â so that you never obsess over the wrong person again.
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Weâve been told from a very young age to âplay it coolâ . . .
But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to âplay it coolâ to keep someone interested, that often means weâre feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected.
Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other personâs needs so we donât come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . .
In todayâs Rewind episode, youâll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesnât diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs.
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In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey have a candid conversation about whether dating your "type" is actually helping or hurting your chances of finding love.
Topics include:
Are you stuck dating your "type"?
How being overly attached to your type can blind you to better matches
The difference between chemistry, compatibility, and long-term happiness
Why your âtypeâ might be based on old patterns or insecurities
The modern fear of commitment:
How people get stuck in relationship âTV showsâ (endless flings) instead of committing to the âmovieâ (deep relationships)
Practical signs you or someone else is afraid of committing
The dating app âHobby Dilemmaâ:
How people feel pressured to showcase impressive hobbies
Why not everyone fits the âhobby highlight reelâ and why thatâs okay
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Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isnât quite rightâbut you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? Weâve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this yearâs Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards.
If youâve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like youâre in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch todayâs episode. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disasterâand how to spot them before itâs too late.
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Have you ever dated someone whoâs so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH theyâre not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? Itâs like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out.
When youâre in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerlessâholding on to someone whoâs not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Donât miss todayâs brand-new video!
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Welcome to the new re-branded Love Life Podcast, where Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen bring you fresh relationship insights, answer your questions, and throw in a silly game or two every week!
In this inaugural episode, we're flipping the script on dating talkâeveryone loves to discuss red flags, but today, we're diving into green flags: the subtle but crucial signs that someone is truly relationship material.
Topics Covered in This Episode: Why society is obsessed with red flags and how to shift focus to green flags The #1 trait that predicts long-term relationship success The power of celebrating each other's successes in a relationship Why curiosity and learning about your partner is a game-changer How to recognize real green flags vs. performative charm What to do if youâre only attracted to red flag energy Plus: We introduce Green Flag Dilemmas, a fun game that may or may not return đĄ Listener Challenge:
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