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As I sit here, days away from an epic milestone of being married for 20 years, I have to pinch myself. I am the luckiest girl in the world to be married to Chris Brooker. After being married for 20 years, people ask me all the time how we "make it work" or "what's your secret" and I usually just give the same response: respect, laughter and a lot prayer. We love each other very much but as we've learned over our 20+ year relationship, love alone isn't enough.
Chris and Heather Brooker at Rancho Bernardo Inn.
You have to add respect to that. Ultimately, as cheesy as it sounds, Chris is my best friend. He knows how I feel about everything, and then how I REALLY feel about everything. He knows my heart, good and bad and all the mistakes I've made, and loves me anyway. And lest you think I'm putting him on a pedestal, he'll be the first to tell you I also know how he REALLY feels about everything, good and bad. We are symbiotic about our goals, and values.
All of that being said, we don't agree on everything. We have lively debates, get annoyed with each other, and frustrated just like everyone else. But the one thing that remains, is our respect. You wouldn't treat your best friend with disrespect so why would you do that with your spouse? We also are humble enough to know when we need to apologize. I have no problem telling Chris I'm sorry if I've hurt his feelings and he feels the same way.
Chris and Heather Brooker at Rancho Bernardo Inn.
We are as in love as we were 20 years ago, but it's a deeper, more mature love. And I can't wait to honor our commitment to each other on a beach in Maui. We're planning an intimate vow renewal on the beach and I will probably cry like a baby. But to be fair, so will Chris. Channing is going to be our flower girl and she is so excited!
Make sure you follow along on my Instagram and TikTok to see all of the adventures we have planned. We are staying at the newly renovated Westin Maui Resort and Spa and I can't wait to show you all around this beautiful property.
We also breakdown the 2021 Oscar nominees and why we think ratings are declining. Tell us if you agree!
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I was so excited to talk to Lacy Camp and her daughter Darby Camp about their acting careers! This mother daughter duo are teaming with talent. So much so, they are both starring in the new UPTV movie "When We Last Spoke." Darby plays a younger version of the character her mom plays named Juliet.
"When We Last Spoke" airs April 4 on UPTV.
"When We Last Spoke" is set in 1967. Two rambunctious sisters are abandoned and raised by doting grandparents and one wacky great-grandmother in the fictional southern town of Fireside. Humor, heartbreak and triumph are served with whipped cream and lots of local nuts in this heartwarming tale of family, friendship and forgiveness.
Lacy has been on a ton of projects like "Vice Principals," "Outcast" and "Red Band Society." She tells me her daughter showed a natural talent for acting at a young age. And at 13, she's got a resume most adults would dream of. She starred as Reese Witherspoon's daughter in "Big Little Lies" when she was just 9. And you'll recognize her from "The Christmas Chronicles" movies and the upcoming "Clifford the Big Red Dog" movie where she plays Emily Elizabeth. I loved hearing how supportive Lacy is of Darby's career and how well they work together.
Lacy and Darby Camp
It was also interesting to hear the perspective of working actors that doesn't live in NYC or Los Angeles. The Camps live in North Carolina where they enjoy a quiet, non-Hollywood life (and I imagine it's also much cheaper!) We talked about how they navigate auditions, and working on set. It was very inspiring to hear that it is possible to be successful in this business without living in the two most expensive cities.
Take a minute to listen to their story and don't forget to watch them in "When We Last Spoke" April 4th on UPTV!
"When We Last Spoke" was filmed on location in Toccoa, Georgia. The movie was adapted from the book written by Executive Producer, Marci Henna. It was directed by Joanne Hock ("The Ultimate Legacy," "Purple Dreams") and produced by Rick Eldridge ("The Ultimate Gift," "Bobby Jones: Stroke of Genius") and Fred Miller ("For All Mankind," "Angles Sing").
The film stars Corbin Bernsen ("Major League," "L.A. Law"), Melissa Gilbert ("Little House on the Prairie"), Chandler Head ("The Glass Castle," "Fosse/Verdon"), Darby Camp, ("Big Little Lies," "The Christmas Chronicles") and Academy Award winner, Cloris Leachman ("The Last Picture Show," "Young Frankenstein"). -
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You know I love a good documentary! Two new documentaries have the Internet buzzing this week and we need to talk about them. The first is "Fake Famous," a documentary from former New York Times and Vanity Fair reporter Nick Bilton. It follows three people who claim to want to be famous, at any cost and explores how easy it is to create fame on platforms like Instagram.
Courtesy: FX/The New York Post
The second documentary called "Framing Britney Spears" was trending all weekend on Twitter. The doc was produced by The New York Post and is available on FX via Hulu. It aims to delve into the mystery surrounding pop star Britney Spears and why she has been under a conservatorship overseen by her father for the past 12 years. She's basically dropped out of the spotlight in the last few years, except for the occasional erratic social media post of her dancing. And fans who are concerned for her well-being have started the #FreeBritney movement in an effort to get her out from under her father's conservatorship.
Chris joins me this week to talk about what these documentaries got right, and what they got wrong. And in the case of "Fake Famous" there is a lot of things they got right when it comes to people buying followers, likes and bot comments. But the film also never gets the perspective of anyone working on social media at Instagram or any other social platform. The movie mostly focuses on Instagram and how easy it is to fake your following. In fact, the main star of the film ends up getting signed by a big agency and books acting work based off of her fake following. But it also never offers a resolution to this obvious flaw in the social media system. Where is the oversight? Who is making sure these fake influencers are held accountable and why are brands so willing to give them money and product just for a post on the gram?
Courtesy: HBO
I have been called an influencer myself and have first hand knowledge of what it looks like to be "famous" on the internet. I've always hated the term "influencer" but it's now an industry standard term so I gotta roll with it. I don't feel like I have the ability to influence anyone to do something they don't want to do. But I am a content creator and I love sharing about my life online, which I hope resonates with people. I see the good side, and dark side of "influencing" and it doesn't seem like it's going anywhere anytime soon.
As for "Framing Britney Spears" there's a ton to dissect in this one. Britney rose to fame when she was very young. Then had several very public heartbreaks, and public meltdowns before her father took control of her finances and well-being. This film explores the years leading up to that, and what has happened since. Most notable, her recent request to regain control of her finances was denied with little to no explanation.
Chris and I decided to try something new this week! We recorded the show live on the Clubhouse app where listeners could interact and join in the conversation with us. It was really fun! My friend and Bravo TV star Meghan Conroy-Resich joined us as a moderator and jumped right into the conversation. If you haven't heard of the Clubhouse app yet it's the hottest new app where people are trying to make their mark. It's audio only and listeners can request to join whatever conversation is going on and ask questions or speak their mind. I've really been enjoying it so make sure you follow me and engage with us on future episodes! -
Listen, we've all got a lot on our plates these days. Between the pandemic, the insurrection, and a crumbling economy, who really has time to worry about the Golden Globe or the SAG Awards noms? Well, Hollywood does! Every year without fail, the stars drag out their botoxed butts to get their accolades and this year will be no exception.
Heather Brooker on the red carpet for the 2020 SAG Awards.
But this year will look difference because the nominations will be virtual as will most of the awards shows. The Academy Awards still haven't confirmed whether they are having an in-person event but they have until April to decide. So for now, I'll be covering the celebrations from my couch. Which should be a celebration in itself! I dread major awards shows. As a multimedia journalist, I do everything on my own. I shoot, write, edit and produce my own content for work so being able to work from home makes my job exponentially easier.
Heather Brooker on the red carpet for the 2020 Academy Awards.
And although I do love getting that awesome shot in front of the Oscars sign, I spend the next 5 hours standing shoulder to shoulder with press from around the world all vying for a soundbite from whatever stars will stop and talk to us. Most of them don't, to be honest. Either their publicists tell them to only talk to the big outlets, or they just don't want to stop. But I stand there without fail, calling their names in the hopes they will come over and give me a quick interview that will be outdated as soon as their category is awarded.
It's exhausting and somewhat humiliating to be a press member on the red carpet, especially if you're with a small outlet. Don't get me wrong, KNBC isn't small but it's an affiliate. And when I say bigger outlets I mean "Access Hollywood," "Entertainment Tonight" and "Extra." Those are big national outlets who only cover entertainment instead of covering 59 minutes of hard news, than 1 minute of entertainment which is what we do. I totally get why they prioritize the way they do but it still makes my job more challenging than it should be.
Heather Brooker on the red carpet for the 2020 Golden Globes.
Now after all that, do you even care about who gets nominated? My guess is most people don't. We have so many things to give our attention to right now that involve life and death situations for millions of Americans. And honestly, maybe these awards shows will be a welcome distraction for everyone who has been stuck at home watching hours of film and television. But regardless, I will be covering this with my usual joy and excitement because as much of a grind as it is on the red carpet, I do still love show business. I love the pomp and circumstance and the idea that someday even a lowly reporter/actor like myself could be up on that stage accepting an award. And yes, I'll probably try some botox just so I fit in.
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Want to know what to watch in 2021? We have some tips! Listen, 2020 was a doozy of a year to say the least. And just when we thought 2021 could save us all, a bunch of nuts stormed our Capitol and people died. If that's how this year is going so far, I don't have a lot of hope for the rest of the year. So I invited Chris Brooker to chat with me about politics, the pandemic and what we can look forward to in 2021. Like what to watch on TV!
Chris and Heather Brooker at Lake Arrowhead Resort and Spa.
Chris is my favorite guest for many reasons, but mostly because he's my husband. We love talking about movies and TV almost as much as we love watching them. We talk about what happened this week in Washington as well as what we think will play out over the next few weeks in politics and with the pandemic. But we're also looking to the entertainment world to help us escape from the stressful situation our country is in.
"Wonder Woman 1984" streams on HBO Max.
Did you watch "Wonder Woman 1984?" We both agree that this movie had way too much plot and not enough character development. They had so many plates spinning in this movie that it didn't leave much time for Wonder Woman to develop a true rivalry between one of her biggest opponents, Cheetah. The movie was bloated and honestly didn't make a lot of sense in some places. But we were still glad to see Wonder Woman back on screen and after the year we had, it was a welcome end to 2020.
"The Mandalorian" streams on Disney+.
Another welcome end that we, along with most other nerds, loved. "The Mandalorian" ended season 2 with a bang. Chris says the return of Luke Skywalker was the kind of fan service that fans love, rather than the fan service that feels like pandering. What's the difference? I think it depends on whether or not they like the players involved. People seem to really love Jon Favreau and Dave Filoni so at this point they can do no wrong in the eyes of "Star Wars" fans.
Cole Hauser plays Rip Wheeler on "Yellowstone," streaming now on Peacock.
Have you seen "Yellowstone?" Apparently I'm late to the party on this one. It's a great show and I've been binge-watching in this week. At first I thought it was just another western drama. But it's more like a mafia version of a western. Think "The Godfather" meets "Succession" but set on a ranch in Montana and you'd have "Yellowstone." It's violent, graphic and utterly entertaining. I told my best friend Amy that I finally started watching it and the first thing she said was, "How hot is Rip?" Very. Very hot. Definitely worth adding this show to your binge list if you need something new.
And of course Chris and I talk about our pet names for each other and why we should start a new podcast from our couch where we do nothing but talk about movies and TV shows. Stay tuned to see if we ever get up off the couch to actually make that happen.
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I am embarrassed to admit that I am one of those weirdos that has never seen "High School Musical." That is until I saw the most amazing woman on TikTok just slaaayyying her dance moves. I did the completely normal thing and Googled her and found out that KayCee Stroh played Martha Cox in all of the "High School Musical" movies. So I watched the movies and now feel completely qualified to comment on this pop culture phenomenon that millions of other people have known about for decades.
I'm old, people. Cut me some slack!
KayCee Stroh as Martha Cox in 'High School Musical'
I had the best time talking to KayCee about her unique audition for HSM and the inspiring thing choreographer Kenny Ortega said to her that stays with her to this day. We talked about what's it like to be plus size woman in Hollywood, and the crazy things people have said to her about her weight. Seriously, what IS wrong with people? KayCee also talks about her life long love of dance and if her little girls, Zetta and Lettie caught the dance bug.
HOLLYWOOD - MAY 13: (L-R) Actors Kaycee Stroh, Monique Coleman, Ashley Tisdale, Vanessa Anne Hudgens, Zac Efron and Lucas Grabeel attend the after party for the DVD launch of "High School Musical" on May 13, 2006 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Stephen Shugerman/Getty Images)
KayCee currently lives in Utah with her husband and 2 girls and after our conversation I was really wishing she lived in LA. I know we would have impromptu dance parties with our girls and sneak out for coffee dates on the regular. For now, I'll just continue to be her biggest fan on TikTok (we are both addicted) and look forward to her next visit to LA.
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I have a slight obsession with the Salton Sea area. There's something so fascinating to me about this area that was once the playground for the rich and famous and is now in ruins. Through a series of ecological disasters and land mismanagement, this part of the Coachella Valley is desolate, and facing another ecological crisis. The Salton Sea is drying up and the toxic dust that's left behind will leave a devastating impact on the surrounding communities, even reaching as far as Los Angeles and San Diego.
Channing and I visited the Salton Sea in July 2020
This impending disaster and the history of the area is explored in a new documentary called "Miracle in the Desert: The Rise and Fall of the Salton Sea." I spoke with writer/director Greg Bassinian who tells me why he wanted to tell this story and raise awareness for what's happening in this community. And before you write it off as a Southern California problem, the documentary explains how the impact is as far reaching as the federal government.
"Miracle in the Desert: The Rise and Fall of the Salton Sea" documentary is available now.
You can read more about it on NBCLA and I highly encourage you to watch this film. It's a heartbreaking look at time gone by, and peek into a very costly ecological disaster that's looming over the state of California. The film is available to watch on Amazon Prime Video, iTunes, and YouTube. Go to miracleinthedesert.com for more information and a list of places you can watch. -
Chris Brooker is back and we're diving into our favorite topics: TV, and our kid! With so much content to watch lately it can be overwhelming to choose something you like. We have some recommendations like "The Boys" on Amazon Prime Video, "Teenage Bounty Hunters" on Netflix, and Cobra Kai on Netflix just to name a few.
We are also opening up about what's like to start distance learning. Chan has been back in school for about 2 weeks and it's as sad as we thought it would be. She sits in front of her computer for 6 hours a day bouncing from Zoom meetings to independent study. She has almost no interaction with the other kids in class. This has been so hard to watch because Chan is such a social kid. She misses her friends so much and they aren't even in her class this year. She's in a new class with none of the friends she made in Kinder or 1st grade and no way to socialize to make new friends.
I realize we aren't the only people in this position. Millions of parents around the U.S. are juggling work and school at home, trying to figure out how to keep their kids safe and maintain their education. All I know is that I would rather have her setback a few months in school than sick, or worse, dead. It helps to put things in perspective and Chris and I dive into why it's important to us to keep her at home for now instead of in the classroom.
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I've been working in the media for more than 20 years. Even though that pretty much reveals how old I really am, it's something I'm very proud to tell people. I'm a journalist who started out as a reporter in the small market of St. Joseph, MO. I was a "one-man-band" meaning, I carried all of my own equipment, shot and edited my own video and wrote all my own stories. Cut to 20 years later, and as the first ever digital entertainment reporter at NBC Los Angeles, not much has changed. I still do all of those things, but now I have the added element of posting all my stories on social media. It's a lot of work but I really love it!
Becky Brooks shares that same passion for media. She is the executive director of the The Alliance for Women in Media, including journalism, digital, film and television. She says their mission is to connect, recognize and inspire women across the media industry. They do that through annual events, an interview series, the AWM Foundation, and the annual Gracie Awards, named after Gracie Allen, a media pioneer who embodied the character of the awards.
BEVERLY HILLS, CALIFORNIA - MAY 21, 2019: AWMF Board Members at the 44th Annual Gracies Awards, hosted by The Alliance for Women in Media Foundation on May 21, 2019 at the Four Seasons Beverly Wilshire Hotel in Beverly Hills, California.
The Gracies, as they've become known, recognize exemplary programming created by women, for women and about women in all facets of media and entertainment. They also acknowledge the individuals who have made inspirational contributions to the industry.
There's something so beautiful about women supporting women especially in this field. Media, film and television can be competitive and it's wonderful to see an organization who's goal is to encourage and lift up other women. If you'd like more information about The Alliance for Women in Media visit their website, allwomeninmedia.org. Please enjoy this interview with Becky Brooks and don't forget to leave a review! -
It's been a hot minute since our family took a true road trip. Quick trips to Palm Springs and Laguna Beach don't really count. I'm talking about packing up the pets, stocking up on road snacks and mapping out destinations. That's what we decided to do to get our safe, social distance road trip in for the summer. We decided not to go with an RV like a lot of families are doing for a few reasons. One, both times we tried to rent an RV it fell through. And also, we were planning to travel some narrow and winding highways and didn't feel comfortable doing that in our first RV driving experience.
Sunny Cove Beach in Santa Cruz.I have always wanted to visit central California. I sounds so dreamy and I imagine the photo opportunities would be off the charts (always thinking about my Instagram). So we started in Santa Cruz which was about a 5 hour drive from LA. We drove through a ton of farmland and had lunch in Gilroy, the garlic capitol of the world. Then headed north to Santa Cruz. I have to say, we weren't super impressed with Santa Cruz. I thought it would be more of a beach community but it was really run down in the areas we visited. Maybe there was a more picturesque part but we didn't see that.
The Mystery Spot in Santa Cruz.Our first stop was The Mystery Spot! This kitschy destination has been on our radar for a while and we finally made it. Here's how the website describes it:
"The Mystery Spot is a gravitational anomaly located in the redwood forests just outside of Santa Cruz, California. It is a circular area of effect around 150 feet or 46 meters in diameter. Within the Mystery Spot you will be stunned as your perceptions of the laws of physics and gravity are questioned. But don't take our word for it, come and decide for yourself!"
Wear a mask if you go The Mystery Spot while coronavirus is on the loose!We had no idea what was happening inside but I took a fun video and got great pictures while we were there. Channing was fascinated and thought the whole thing was really cool. Definitely worth a stop if you're in the area especially because it's only $8!
Santa Cruz Boardwalk, July 2020.We went to the Boardwalk but almost everything was closed because of the coronavirus. We stayed at a cute hotel near the beach called Ocean Echo Inn and Beach Cottages. We got the "suite" because it was the biggest space but it definitely wasn't roomy. It was quaint and had a great front porch area with faux grass.
Sunny Cove Beach in Santa CruzIt was also a short walk to Sunny Cove Beach which we thought was lovely. But at night a lot of sketchy characters were starting to fill up the cove so we left as the sun was setting. Overall not a bad place to stay and pretty far removed from the more public beaches.
Lover's Park in Monterey Bay.We headed out the next morning and drove through Monterey Bay, Carmel-by-the-Sea and headed south on highway 1 towards Big Sur. We were in the clouds or a thick fog bank for most of the drive but it was still very pretty. And cool! I couldn't believe how cold the weather was for early July. But I think that's because we are used to sweating our pants off in SoCal from about May to October.
Ribs platter at Big Sur Smokehouse.We had an excellent lunch at Big Sur Smokehouse right off the highway. It was pricey but some of the best barbecue we've had in a long time. So, worth it.
Pfeiffer beach in Big Sur.After lunch we went looking for Pfeiffer Beach, a hidden beach off the highway that's only accessible via a one lane road. You have to veer to the side as much as possible in order to let other drivers pass. And if the small parking lot at the end of the road fills up, you're out of luck. You can go down the road if there is nowhere to park. We got lucky because 2 cars were pulling out as we were going in.
Purple sand on Pfeiffer Beach in Big Sur.If you don't know about Pfeiffer Beach, this is the beach with purple sand and keyhole rocks that look amazing at sunset. -
I have always been fascinated with television. I consume hours and hours of it each week and have since I was a kid. I was an 80s baby raised by a single mom who worked full time so the TV was my babysitter a lot of the time. And since I was little I have dreamed of being on TV, making people laugh and being a part of their family week after week. And while television has changed a lot since the 80s, my dream hasn't. The feeling I get when I watch a great show hasn't changed either.
When I first moved to LA I immersed myself in improv and comedy at the Groundlings. I thought the best way to get my own show was to just be funny and work with great people and eventually I would get cast. Hindsight is always 20/20 but I wish I could tell myself to become a producer and develop my own show. That's where I want to be! Now that I know more about the TV development process I understand just how little control and power actors have, unless you are also a producer.
Brenda Milinkovic is the Director of Development and Programming at NBC Universal.
I'm so thrilled to have Brenda Brkusic Milinkovic on the show this week to help demystify television development and shed some light on how a show gets made. Brenda is the Director of Programming and Development at NBC Universal. She works on "The Kelly Clarkson Show" and "Access Hollywood" to name a few and has several projects in development that she can't reveal just yet. She previously spent 13 years at PBS SoCal where she was responsible for directing the development, production, national distribution and marketing of programs on PBS. You might be familiar with her PBS shows like "Variety Studios: Actors on Actors" where actors interview each other.
Brenda Brkusic Milinkovic is photographed during Governors Portraits on Thursday, Feb. 15, 2018, in North Hollywood, Calif. (Photo by Phil McCarten/Invision for the Television Academy/AP Images)
Brenda has won 10 Emmy Awards, and has had 15 Emmy nominations. She currently serves on the Daytime Emmy Awards Committee and previously served as LA Area Governor on the Board of Governors for the Television Academy as well as Co-Chair of the Governors Ball for the Primetime Emmys and Co-Chair of the LA Area Emmys. To say she is a proactive member of the television community would be an understatement. She is entrenched in the development and creation of ideas for TV. So of course, I had to ask her what she thinks about the rise in popularity of streaming content over the last decade. We talked about how traditional broadcast is learning to pivot to keep viewers tuned in while streaming platforms surge.
I've always been curious about how producers get in rooms with development executives and if the traditional method of going through an agent, pitching and signing a deal is still the norm. I love what Brenda has to say about this in terms of finding new talent and ideas. She recently discovered someone on YouTube and liked them so much, she started developing a show with them. How amazing! This is why I tell people to never stop creating because you never know who is watching.
Brenda Milinkovic is the Director of Development and Programming at NBC Universal.
We also talk about the demands of working for a major network like NBC and juggling family life. She is a mom of two and, like most of the country, has been working from home since the stay home orders were put in place. She says despite the industry shut down, they are still constantly working on developing new ideas and content for programs. This was such an inspiring conversation and really gives us a glimpse into how television gets made, and what someone looking to get into development or develop their own show can do to get a leg up. The next time you're watching a great show on NBC, you'l have a better sense of the people behind the scenes who took a nugget of an idea and followed it through until it landed in your living room. -
Lia Dias is the newest cast member of Bravo TV's "Married to Medicine Los Angeles." She joins the show in season 2 and hints that the drama is worth tuning in for. She is a friend of Dr. Imani's and prides herself on the notoriety of being a business entrepreneur and a girl boss rather than embracing the lifestyle of being a typical doctor's wife. Her husband is a psychiatrist and colleague of Dr. Imani's.
Lia Dias is a new cast member on season 2 of "Married to Medicine Los Angeles."
We talked about how she juggles owning a chain of beauty supply stores called The Girl Cave LA as well as her three kids, Kaylin, Colin and Kayla. She tells me that she didn't have any concerns about letting cameras into her home to film her family because Bravo made sure all of the kids were taken care of. She explains that it was a priority for them to make sure the kids were comfortable in each scene and took breaks when necessary.
"Married to Medicine Los Angeles" airs Sundays 9/8c on Bravo TV.
She also talks about how each cast member on the show is very different, despite having so much in common. Turns out, Bravo is really good at casting different types of personalities who can bring us good drama on TV! And "Married to Medicine Los Angeles" is no exception. In this episode he gives us a closer look at what fans can expect to see on season 2 so don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Then you you can watch Lia build her business, and make new friends (or frenemies!) on "Married to Medicine Los Angeles" Sundays 9/8c on Bravo.
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Jessica Butler is the co-creator of the hit Nick at Nite series, "Instant Mom." She and her husband writer/producer Warren Bell created the show based on her experiences as a stepmother. She says she felt there was nothing on TV that represented how families can co-parent together. She also wanted to dispel the trope of the wicked stepmother, which does more harm to families than people realize.
RaiseMagazine.com focuses on telling stories of non-traditional families.
Butler is a stepmother of two sons, and an adoptive mom to one son and wanted to see her stories and other non-traditional stories represented online. So she launched Raise Magazine, a lifestyle site for modern mothers, featuring stories of stepparenting, adoption, foster care, surrogacy, and non-traditional families.
Warren Bell and Jessica Butler co-created "Instant Mom" on Nick at Nite based on their family.
Butler says she creates content for fellow stepmoms who are navigating a new marriage, instant motherhood, and co-parenting all at once, as well as for women who are stepdaughters themselves. A recent poll from Pew Research Center revealed that 44% of women in America -- nearly half -- have a step relationship. While most stepparenting sites cater solely to stepmoms, Raise covers single motherhood as well, providing a community for moms who are navigating co-parenting from the other side, along with challenges like dating as a parent.
Jessica Butler and her son Levon.
As an adoptive mother in an open adoption, she offers her perspective to hopeful and current adoptive moms, as well as birth moms and adoptees, through conversations on open and closed adoptions, interracial and kinship adoptions, and the day-to-day challenges of raising an adopted child. Raise also profiles former foster youth and current foster parents on their experiences with the system.
The Raise site is currently building a team of experts in the fields of adoption, foster care, health and wellness, pediatrics, and assisted reproductive technology to serve as consultants to its growing community of modern families. She says she hopes Raise becomes a community for families who feel like they don't fit into the traditional family mold. In fact, does anyone still fit into that mold? There are so many different types of families in the world now but we don't see those stories on TV or in film.
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If you read the title of this post then you're probably thinking, wait, Heather has an empire? I might be exaggerating a bit. But this podcast did help me build a business, expand my network, and discover a new career path. This is my 200th episode of Motherhood in Hollywood and I'm celebrating! And of course my guest is Chris Brooker. We're taking a brief look back at the incredible guests who took the time to share their story with me on my little show and what has changed in my life in the almost five years since MIH launched.
My first Motherhood in Hollywood in July 2015
I have to say a huge thank you to my first few guests, Jen Hasty and Amy Crofoot. These two mamas were my only mom friends at the time and graciously agreed to come to my house and let me pick their brains about being a mom in Hollywood. When I started MIH there were no parenting-centric entertainment podcast. There was a lot of comedy podcasts, entertainment podcasts, and parenting podcast but none that combined what it means to be a working parent in showbiz.
Cut to five years later and every A, B, C and D level celeb has their own podcast on parenting. Clearly I started a trend! And clearly I have stayed humble. I had no idea what doors this podcast would open for me and truly, I don't take a second of it for granted. Before starting this show I never knew what a mommy blogger was. I never knew there was a world of "events" that people went to and got free product in exchange for posting about it on social media or talking about it on their podcast. I was so immersed in the actor hustle that this side of life was completely foreign to me.
Heather and Chan on the redCARpet at the Skirball Cultural Center in 2015.
The first event was I invited to was the Red Carpet Safety event. My friend Jill Simonian, aka The Fab Mom, asked her friend Saraah Samandi if I could tag along with my two year old. It was a blistering hot day in early September and a ton of moms and celebrities were packed into the Skirball Center looking at the latest baby products. And when I left, they handed me a huge bag of baby swag. For what? Just for going to a party and mingling with celebs? I was sold! I started researching blogging, designed my own website, focused on growing my social media and set out to see if I could get more free stuff!
Soon I started making connections at the events I went to and met other moms with similar interest. We shared ideas about how to grow, and reach our goals. I quickly realized that my goals started to change. I didn't want just a bag of swag, I wanted to make money and start a business. I researched podcast ads, sponsored Instagram posts, media kits and marketing tools. I hired a publicist to help me get my name out to various online publications and to be a guest other podcasts. I spent more money than I made. But in the end, it paid off. I started getting celebrity guests, and influencers for my podcast. Top producers and writers wanted to be on my show! Call me The Jeffersons cause I was movin' on up!
Then I started being referred to as an "influencer." This is not a title I've ever been comfortable with because it implies I somehow have influence over people. I'm just a wacky actor. Who would listen to me? But that's the term the industry still uses to this day when I work with brands or host events or speak on panels. So I just accept that's what I'm called and don't let it go to my head. I know it's a ridiculous term and there are ridiculous influencers in the space, but that term doesn't define who I am. Recently I had some people in my life try to tear me down and belittle my business and career because they don't fully understand or support what I do. Or maybe, they just let their own insecurities get the best of them. The broke my heart in the cruelest way and tried to make me feel bad for what I've accomplished. Don't ever let anyone steal your joy! If anyone wants to buy me a drink sometime I'll gladly te... -
My guest this week is no stranger to the red carpet. Ashlan Gorse Cousteau was a red carpet reporter for "Entertainment Tonight" and E! Network before leaving it all behind to pursue her passion for conservation and story telling. If her last name sounds familiar it's because she's married to Philippe Cousteau, grandson of famous explorer and conservationist Jacques Cousteau. Together they have formed a passionate partnership around using the power of entertainment to raise awareness of conservation issues.
Species renderings from 'Drop in the Ocean'
Ashlan and her husband Philippe are producers and narrators of a new Virtual Reality ocean exploration experience "Drop in the Ocean" that premiered at Tribeca Immersive in 2019.
Ashlan Gorse Cousteau and her husband Philippe Cousteau hosting "Caribbean Pirate Treasure" on Travel Channel.
Recently, she was also the co-star of Travel Channel’s award-winning series, "Caribbean Pirate Treasure" for three seasons. Her documentary, "Nuclear Sharks", for Discovery Channel’s Shark Week 2016 premiered as the #1 rated show across all cable programming.
She also traveled to Antarctica to be a headlining speaker at Ted xScottBase. She has served as host for the United Nations Convention on Biological Diversity and was selected by former Vice-President Al Gore to be the opening anchor for 24Hours of Reality. She is a voice for environmental issues on Capitol Hill through events, and briefings and serves on the National Council of WWF, and the advisory boards of Ocean Unite and the Environmental Media Association.
And she also a new mom to her "Baby Fish" who is already being groomed for world travel. She and her husband hope to take their daughter with them when they go on adventures around the world, truly incorporating motherhood into her world. If you'd like to see where she's headed next, when the current health crisis is over, follower her on Instagram. I have no doubt you will also see her pop up on red carpets again, sharing her own stories rather than interviewing other people about theirs. -
The entire entertainment industry has come to a grinding halt. There are a few movies and TV shows that were wrapped before the coronavirus pandemic hit that are still rolling out with PR, but for the most part there's nothing new happening. Yet. But you can bet when it does, I'll be ready. I've been spending some of my spare time doing self-tapes, general auditions and reading books about acting.
I'm also soaking up any tidbits of information casting directors are sharing right now like my guest this week, Lindsey Weissmueller. We recorded this interview before the shut down but the helpful information will last far beyond what's going on right now. My hope is that this is helpful to you and gets your mind working toward how you can jump back into acting once things get going again.
I first met Lindsey when I auditioned for "Adam Ruins Everything." It was a small part but that didn't matter. Lindsey took the time to chat with me, get to know me, and let me play a little bit with my role. What a dream! As actors we are often called into rooms where we have just a few lines to deliver. I've been in and out of some rooms in less than 20 seconds. It's so disheartening, especially when you rehearse, get all dressed up, get a sitter, drive across town, and risk a parking ticket just to be seen for 20 seconds. It really means a lot when casting directors take the time to get to know you and let you try your role a few different ways.
Lindsey is a mom of 2 boys and has a little girl on the way. She talks about how she juggles the demands of casting with motherhood and how it's changed her perspective on her career.
I say that knowing they can't always do that. Casting directors are under tremendous deadlines and pressure with the producers to get roles cast, that may film the next day or even that same day. It's a very fast paced business and you have to be ready no matter what happens when you walk in that door. I hope you find comfort in this interview with Lindsey and it inspires you to stay on top of your craft so you'll be ready for whatever comes your way when this mess is over. Make sure you follow Lindsey on Instagram to see her beautiful family and the occasional post about the industry! -
I've been living and working side-by-side with my husband Chris for over 3 weeks now. At first we were worried about how it would all work out. But I feel like I blinked and it was April. Chris is joining me on the podcast this week to talk about how our lives, all lives, are forever changed because of the coronavirus pandemic.
This is what our current situation looks like as we life and work side-by-side during the coronavirus pandemic.
We are both very fortunate to have our jobs but we know that could change any moment. One swift swing from either of our employers and we could be jobless. For now we try to keep a routine, a schedule of some kind, each day. That gives us some sense of normalcy, and normalcy for Channing.
Her birthday was on Sunday and we celebrated in the best way we could without having an actual party. I started the day by pranking her with a confetti drop on her head when she woke up. She was so surprised and it really set the tone for the day of fun I had planned. We did a scavenger hunt for her gifts too. That got us outside and running around which was a lot of fun. Our amazing friends also drove from all over LA to drive by our house and honk and wave to her. She was jumping for joy when she saw her best friends from school. That was the first time we'd seen them in a month because before the corona lockdown, Chan was actually on 10 day spring break.
In addition to that, generous friends mailed cards and sent her videos so it seemed like the world knew and was celebrating her birthday. I am often surprised and blown away by the capacity for kindness in humans and I'm so grateful to everyone who helped make her day great.
As for Chris and I, we are trying to remain patient and respectful of each other in this new world we live in. We make sure connect about his work calls and mine to make sure someone is watching Chan. We also try to remind each other to take walks and regular breaks. Just getting up and moving around can be a great mood lifter. We also try to make sure the other one has some time alone during the day. It's important to get a few minutes to yourself to relax and stay grounded during this time. Our anniversary is coming up in a few weeks and while it won't look exactly like we planned, we will do our best to make it special.
I'd love to hear how others are working and living with their spouses. What are you doing to stay sane and stay married? -
The number one question in my DM's and inbox over the last month has been, how did you get invited to the Disney Creators Celebration? The short answer is, luck. The long answer might give you some insights on how you can get the attention of the Disney powers that be to hopefully secure a spot in this invite only conference.
First, what is the Disney Creators Conference? It's a week-long celebration for creators that begins with 3 days at Walt Disney World, and ends on a 3 day Disney Cruise. This event used to be known as the Land and Sea Disney Social Media Moms Conference (DSMMC) and was made up of mom bloggers who are passionate about all things Disney. About a hundred moms were invited from all over the U.S. to have unique experiences and get a behind the scenes look at some of the Disney operations. It seems like organizers have tweaked the formula for the event and opened it up to non-mom influencers and creators which is a great idea. There are so many Disney bloggers and influencers who aren't parents that could benefit from this type of insights. Dad bloggers too!
There was about a hundred creators on this trip and their families so you can imagine this was a lot of people to organize. And unlike DSMMC, there wasn't one common thread that made you say, Oh this is why they got invited! There were influencers with really big accounts, YouTubers, bloggers, TikTokers, and even people with very small accounts. Some people create beautifully curated pictures and videos, while others shoot mediocre, unfiltered pictures on their iPhone. The only thing I can tell you is why I think I was invited, although I may never know for sure because Disney guards this secret tightly.
How I think I got on the list for the Disney Creators Conference:
I create consistent, family friendly content.
I use Disney hashtags when appropriate.
I tag Disney accounts in my posts when appropriate.
I go to Disneyland events and Disney related events in SoCal when I can.
I post other non-Disney content but with the same level of quality. (Not just Disney content)
I like and comment on other Disney influencers posts.
I don't trash Disney online, even when I don't get invited to things.
This may be the secret formula or it may just be, as I said, luck. I'll never know because again, they keep their decision making process a secret. My guess is if you keep creating good content, network with other Disney influencers, comment on their posts, and keep growing your account then you will be on their radar. I don't know if they will keep doing this event every year or every two years but my hope is that it's every year. I've been lucky to be invited a few times and I don't take it for granted.
What do we do at the Disney Creators Conference?
First, it's not a free event. There is a conference fee. We also pay for our airfare and some meals at the theme park. So it's not an entirely hosted event either. Disney sets up the itinerary and ours included a conference day with speakers, dessert party at Epcot, breakfast at Pandora, dessert party on Batuu, private screening of "Onward", behind the scenes experiences on the Disney Dream, a private welcome and farewell party on the Disney Dream, and passes to rent bikes or tubes on Castaway Cay. They also arrange for transportation to and from the airport or Disney Parks if you need it.
I'll be sharing more highlights from this trip over the next few weeks on my podcast as well as here. If there's any part of this trip you'd like to know more about just ask! I'm happy to answer any questions. -
I'm embarrassed to admit it, but I've never watched "The Bachelor." Or "The Bachelorette." Well, I've watched enough of it to know it's not really my jam. But its cultural significance and popularity can't be ignored. There are dozens of podcasts, fan sites, and more dedicated to all things Bachelor nation and it's one of the highest rated shows on television.
DeAnna Stagliano (Pappas) was on season 4 of "The Bachelorette"
So when I found out my friend DeAnna Stagliano (Pappas) was not only a contestant on "The Bachelor", but also an actual Bachelorette I was shook. I had no idea this sweet woman I'd gotten to know over cocktails at the country club was on this show I have a fair amount of disdain for.
Before you judge me for judging this show, let me tell you where I'm coming from. I'm an actress, and for years I was under the impression that all these reality shows were taking away TV airtime that could go to scripted shows, and therefore, create jobs for actors like me. I assumed that these types of shows (ala "Jersey Shore") were made for people who have no taste in quality programming. Very snobby I know!
But now I realize that reality TV has a very special and important role in television. It fills a voyueristic need that people have to see how the other half lives. I've also let go of a lot of my resentment toward reality TV because of the plethora of streaming services that offer scripted shows. I'm grown up guys!
And mostly I've learned to embrace reality TV because I've met so many wonderful people like DeAnna who are a part of the reality show family. I know you'll love hearing her story as much as I did!
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You have no doubt seen Melanie Paxson on your TV hundreds if not thousands of times over the last two decades. Most of you will recognize her right away as the "Glad Girl". She captured our hearts and made us want to use better food storage and trash bags when she starred in several commercials for Gladware. My favorite commercial she starred in was for Red Robin. Seriously, their burgers are bomb!
In addition to being a prolific commercial actress, Melanie has a lengthy list of TV credits as well. She starred in "Cupid," "Happy Family," and all three "Descendants" movies. And I also have a favorite show she's been in: "Notes From the Underbelly." That's where I got my final SAG voucher to join the union. I was not only a fan of that show, but it some small way, it helped get my professional acting career started.
So as you can imagine I was thrilled Melanie agreed to come on my show. We immediately jumped into how much we love being moms. As in-demand as she is, she is prioritizing her children and focusing on family. She has a 9-year-old son and a recently welcomed a baby girl as well. We talked about why there was a nine year gap between kids and how fleeting fertility can be.
She has an incredibly fertility story to tell, but she isn't quite ready to share that yet. Melanie hopes to write it down and share it when she feels ready. For now we talk about the struggles of prioritizing family in an industry that feels so demanding. It feels as if you take a moment off, opportunities will pass you by. But in reality, there will always be opportunity to work, audition and create.
We also give ourselves permission to spend time with our kids. I love taking Chan to piano class, soccer practice and picking her up after school. It's the one part of my day that has the least amount of pressure and stress and brings me immense joy.
Actress Melanie Paxon poses on arrival for the US Premiere of the film 'Saving Mr. Banks' at the Walt Disney Studios in Burbank, California, on December 9, 2013. The film has a limited opening on December 13 and will open nationwide on December 20. AFP PHOTO / Frederic J. Brown (Photo credit should read FREDERIC J. BROWN/AFP via Getty Images)
And I think you will find immense joy when you listen to this episode! Make sure you subscribe and leave a review to keep up with my show. And don't forget to follow Melanie on Instagram. She's starring in a new Amazon Prime Video show called "Dealbreakers" and you won't want to miss it. - Mostrar más
