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Navigating the Dating scene in your 40s & 50s can seem daunting. You may be re-entering the dating world after a divorce or a long break, looking for love for the first time or even hoping to reignite the spark in a long-term relationship. Bec and Vern offer some advice to those hoping to make the best of it and be ready for the adventure of new love.
We are also running a Speed Dating night in Bendigo, please check the event on FB.
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Couples therapy isn't just for struggling relationships! Even happy couples can benefit from working with a therapist. Therapists can help couples; Communicate better, feel safe and heard, understand each other better, resolve conflicts, face life's challenges together and be better listeners.
Bec and Vern explore the most Googled questions about Couples and Therapy in this episode, using insights from their own work mentoring couples.
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Society often sends mixed signals about what emotions are "acceptable" for men. We might be told it's okay to feel angry, but discouraged from expressing it outwardly. We're encouraged to be vulnerable, yet pressured to be tough. It's no wonder navigating mental health can be so complicated!
Therapy can help Men navigate the emotional terrain of relationships and family life, manage anxiety and anger, as well as improve their physical and mental health.
In this episode, Bec asks Vern all the Googled questions about Men and Therapy and they discuss why they believe that talking and processing your emotions is good for you.
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Bec and Vern chat about the assumptions that come up in relationships. We discuss how couples tend to assume that they know how their partner communicates and understands them and these assumptions can lead to miscommunications and disagreements. How do overcome assumptions? How can we not make an ass out of 'u' and me?
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Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In this episode, the final one of the series, we discuss how to create more Passion in our relationships. As well as bringing more affection into our daily lives together, we examine the value of communication and asking questions of your partner as well as carving out time together.
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Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. We discuss how to use vulnerability, roleplay, making noises and talking dirty to bring more pleasure into our intimate space.
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Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. Our 5th episode in this series is on Presence and we discuss how we can use our senses, breath and techniques such as edging to be bring more awareness in our intimate space.
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Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In this episode Intimacy 104 – Patience, we delve into how slowing things down and taking more time with our partner can improve intimacy in life and in the bedroom.
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Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In our third part of this series, we discuss the importance of Process and how when we deal with our emotions and heal past experiences and trauma, we are better able to be more intimate with our partner.
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Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In Intimacy 102, we discuss Pornography and how it can damage our intimate connection, distract us from properly relating and desensitize us from our physical bodies.
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Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. The first in this series regards Pressure and how we must prioritize the relationship despite the pressures of life. By focusing on our partner and our connection we can find support to deal with the daily pressures.
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Bec and Vern discuss more Tricky Questions from social media including; what to do if your partner doesn’t want to go deeper in the relationship, what to say if they still have pictures of the ex on their phone, and how do you broach the subject of a marijuana habit. We also explore why your partner contacts their ex when they have been drinking and why husbands might not be as worried as you want them to be.
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In this episode of Tricky Questions, Bec and Vern discuss how to convince your partner to be more kinky, middle aged virgins who live with their parents, being an independent adult, Snowflake Mountain and what do you do if your new partner doesn't like your kids.
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In our continuing exploration of books related to Intimacy, Bec and Vern interview Thomas Jordan Ph.D., a New York City psychologist/psychoanalyst, who has been studying and treating unhealthy love lives for more than 30 years. He also founded the Love Life Learning Centre website to better support couples. Through studying the psychological ability to form and sustain healthy love relationships as well as treating the ways people unwittingly repeat the love life disappointments they have learned from their past unhealthy relationship experiences, he has written a fascinating book - 'Learn to Love’. In this book he explains what we learn about love relationships, how they interfere with our current lives and describes his formula of stopping the cycle of repeating unhealthy experiences. Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Lifehttps://lovelifelearningcenter.com/
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In this episode, Bec and Vern interview Laura Doyle about the 6 Intimacy Skills that she outlines in her book, ’The Empowered Wife’. We have a fun and lively chat about the importance of Self-care, Respect, Relinquishing control, being able to Receive, as well as Gratitude and Vulnerability. Laura is the founder of the international relationship coach training school Laura Doyle Connect, the Creator of The Ridiculously Happy Wife program, host of The Empowered Wife Podcast and a New York Times Best Selling author. You can find out more about her work here- https://lauradoyle.org/
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Bec and Vern discuss tricky social media questions about fears and fetishes, introverts and intimacy. They explore how to ask for what you want and the importance of not taking our partners, friends and family for granted. We also find out why Bec does not liked to be tickled.
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Bec and Vern discuss and answer a diverse range of tricky social media questions. This includes; do age differences matter, why should you schedule date nights, attachment theory and sabotaging relationships, if once a cheater is always a cheater, and how to respond when your partner says your friend is more beautiful than you.
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Bec and Vern continue to answer those tricky social media questions about faking orgasms, hangry dates, sexual meals and how old is too old to date.
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This episode was recorded live at a Rekindling Relationships Podcast in a Park event in Bendigo. Bec and Vern are joined by local sexologist Linda Kirkman and a live audience for a fun evening of random questions, useful information and strange prizes. Listen to find out how to get over an ex, why kissing is good for you, how many different types of orgasms there are, and why does Linda have a bag of 3D printed clitorises?
We hope you enjoy this episode and please send us any of your own questions to www.facebook.com/becandvern
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Bec and Vern answer those tricky social media questions about racist mothers, low sex drives and selfies.
Hi everyone, we are starting 2022 with a new format. We really hope you like it.
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