Episodios
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āBE AWESOMEā
A couple of years ago that šquote was being said everywhere
Posters were being made
It was a thing
It was trendy to have stuff that SAID: be awesome.
What does it even mean to BE AWESOME?
Letās make a list:
Know who you are
Show up big
Do hard things
Be on fire
Create epic stuff
Be willing to do scary ideas
Not back down
Stay positive
Have courage
Donāt listen to haters
Keep going
All of these are good.
Inspiring.
What about:
šLoving yourself even when you donāt want to get out of bed in the morning
šLetting yourself take a nap
šNoticing your body and listening to it
šSaying no
šGoing to bed when you want to stay up late
šTuring off your phone
šLetting yourself be sad or mad or glad or frustrated and feeling into it on purpose
šCelebrating yourself
šGiving yourself a pat in the back
šHaving a one person dance party when you hit that goal: big or small
šTaking a walk
šSaying yes to you
šSlowing down
Often, when we think of being awesome
Itās the big showy positive in-your-face types of things we consider
But
The truth is
The big showy things arenāt what make you awesome
Iām fact, YOU ARE ALREADY AWESOME.
YOU AND ME, we arrived on this planet with this tattooed on our soul:
AWESOME
Being awesome isnāt up for debate or discussion
We already are
We may not believe it
Nothing has gone wrong if you donāt believe in your own awesomeness
I didnāt believe in mine
I wanted other people to tell me about my awesomeness
I looked for it in projects and accomplishments
All of us do
Until we stop
Until we start seeing the ways weāve hurt ourselves
And we start putting salve on those wounds
Beginning to love our already existing awesomeness
Accepting our awesomeness
Even when we do things we donāt like
Itās in how we treat our selves on the way to those big showy things that make us see and love and allow our awesomeness.
Saying I love you to yourself even when you do things you wish you hadnāt
Celebrating yourself when it seems too small
Seeing your fire for its ability to both burn AND warm
Loving yourself for all of it
Seeing your desire for quiet and aloneness AND being visionary
Not judging yourself for any of it
Seeing your emotionally messy self AND your ability to hold someoneās pain so carefully
Be willing to love both parts of you.
Seeing you desire for structure, order, control AND your ability to make things simple for others
Embracing both without shaming yourself
Seeing your all-over-the-place-thinking-and-talking AND your bubbly engaging fun self
Giving both parts a grateful hug.
This is where your awesomeness lies.
In all of it.
Stop judging you
BE YOU:
AWESOME
What are two contrasting things about you?
Ready to embrace ALL of YOU? Click here to get started.
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WARRIOR WOMEN TIP:
TAKE YOURSELF ON A DATE
I spent the day at the:
Mint Art Museum
Walking around all by myself, looking at all the exhibits is my favoriteā¦
No one to rush me or wonder why Iām taking so long.
My favorite is getting to witness the way a piece was created or the life long work of an artist.
Both types of exhibits remind me:
NOTHING HAS GONE WRONG
Even ifā¦
ā¢It seems like figuring something out is taking too long
ā¢Life feels frustratingly like a hamster wheel
ā¢My business or a project or a relationship is taking to long to see the results I want
Seeing what artists take a life time to createā¦
Tweak things and try again
Then try again
Put their work out there
Take more risks
Break some rules
Travel across the world to work with mentors
Seek out people they admire and donāt give up until theyāve learned what they want to learn
Break some more rules
Sit next to artists who inspire them and do exactly what they do
Travel back across the country
Keep trying
And trying
Tweaking
Believing in their dream
Breaking their own brain rules.
Seeing these types of exhibits reminds me to zoom out on my life
EVERYTHING is going exactly the way itās supposed toā¦
Or else it would all be happening differently.
What date would you take yourself on?
Dates Iāve taken myself on:
ā¢A random photography exhibit in a random city
ā¢Explored a town
I had never been to
ā¢Went to the movies in the middle of the day
ā¢Shopped at thrift and vintage stores
ā¢Spent hours walking through a photography exhibit featuring women National Geographic photographers
ā¢Got ice cream
ā¢Took a walk in a new place
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You donāt have to do anything the way everyone else does.
I KNOW this may sound obvious
Itās more HIDDEN than you might think, though.
STORY TIME: š
Just recently, I was talking to one of my coaches about doing one hour consults.
When I seemed like I didnāt really like doing them she askedā¦
Why do you do them?
I said:
Because itās the way itās done in the industry.
WHAT?!?
Here I am theā¦
āBreak The Rulesā
āLive Unapologeticallyā
āBe A Warrior Womanā
āMarch To The Beat Of Your Most Alive Selfā
Coachā¦
And Iām doing something I donāt really love because everyone else is doing it!!!
What the heck???
See what I mean by HIDDEN?
It happens without you realizing.
Youāre conforming in little ways that you totally donāt mean to.
No more.
The buck stops here!!
Hereās the deal.
No more consults.
If you know. You know.
If youāre ready to work with me, letās do it.
Itās $5k for six months.
We meet weekly and blow our own minds with explosions of awesomeness.
You do the work of magic and miracles between our calls.
Itās expansive and my favorite!
If you have questions, letās chat. Click the link in the show notes.
If youāre done living by rules you donāt want to live by but youāre not even sure which ones they areā¦
Iām the coach for you.
We will figure that jazz out and get you living a more freaking fantastic YOU.
No more 60 min pre-consults.
WHEN YOU KNOW. YOU KNOW.
Letās go. š„š„š„
Click this link to talk about working together.
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I got to be on Lydia Feldmanās podcast talking about: The Power of Taking Selfies! If you do not know Lydia, once you listen to this podcast episode, you are going to want to follow her and be her bestie. Sheās effervescent, vibrant, straight talking, real, fierce, and fearless all while being relatable and ICONIC at the same time. I highly recommend signing up for her next Pleasure Salon: Elemental Courtesan. Lydiaās words from this podcast episode conversation: Selfie Siren with Davina Fear! Y'all ready to break the internet (and your brain) with some LIT, sexy, powerful images of yourself? BY yourself? Selfie "culture" ala the instafamous-influencers and Kardashians gets a bad rap.... BUT what if you allowed the time and pleasure to capture radiant photos on your PHONE could change your life? Your self-concept Your confidence Your creativity Your self-trust You sexy relationship to SELF. Listen to our conversation and learn a few great tips on creating a powerful Selfie Session~ Lighting Set up Editing and getting ready mentally! Get to know Lydia Feldman: website instagram Learn More about The Selfie Siren Sessions HERE.
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Warriors!
Our brains want to cancel/ignore all of our awesomeness!!
Donāt let it!
This week Iāve done so much brave and bold stuff!
YOU HAVE, TOO!!
Last night as I was prepping for bed, my brain was like:
Wow. Youāve not accomplished your goals. You didnāt get 50 new clients.
(Mind you, my goal was not 50 new clients but my brain likes to be VERY dramatic.)
I said to my brain:
Hold it right there, Brainiac Maniac.
You are wrong.
W-R-O-N-G
I know you like to scan for whatās wrong.
I know thatās your job and all so I can stay alive
And not get a fever and die
And not get kicked out of civilization
And all that
But
You are completely overreacting.
Iāve done A LOT OF AWESOME STUFF!!
Then I recounted a big long list of things I did this week that Iām really proud of.
I pat myself on the back for those things.
Then pat myself on the back for calling out my brain.
Then I gave myself a hug for my awesomeness.
And gave myself a hug fir my brain to tell it itās okay Iāve got this covered.
I know youāre worried.
Then I danced it all out so I get my awesomeness in my body and not just in my head.
Iām sure if you were watching me youād be thinking:
What the heck is happening over there?
But dancing to your own music and awesomeness is a great way to live your life.
Pause right now
Stand up
Tell yourself all your delightfully awesome ways youāve been showing up
š„Tiny
š„Little
š„Sort of cool
š„Very cool
š„Big
š„Ginormous
š„No one noticed but you
š„That thing you did when you were feeling bold and brave
š„The project you started or finished
š„The mind blowing insight you had
š„The time you told your brain to shush and did the scary thing
š„The time you told your brain to zip it and didnāt listen to it tell you all the ways you arenāt enough
š„ When you took that nap
š„ It all counts!!
You have lots to celebrate.
Iām here to tell youā¦
You made it through this incredible human experience this week and you did it gloriously
Dance it out, Warrior.
DANCE. IT. OUT!!
Looking for a song?
Iāve got lots of celebration songs for you on Spotify. (Link in comments)
Go dance your heart out, my Dear Warrior.
I wanna hear what youāre celebrating!! ššš
Do tell!
Click this link to talk about working together.
Check out some awesome dance playlists on Spotify here!
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What if you couldā¦ š¤š¤©
Be your own magical š« :
ā¢YODA who compels you to do the hard thing, take the risk, and 100% believes in you even when you doubt
ā¢KINDNESS ADVOCATE who doesnāt let you say mean things to yourself
ā¢PERSON WHO SAYS to you āIām here for you, no matter what youāre going through, no matter what youāre feelingā
ā¢SWEET & LOYAL DOG who stays by your side and sits with you when youāre sad
ā¢MOM who rubs your back while you cry about feeling like you have no friends
ā¢BEST FRIEND who tells you all the reasons youāre awesome and everyone else is missing out
ā¢TEACHER who says youāre doing great, youāre learning, and youāre so proud of you
ā¢MENTOR who believes in you and the impact you are and will have in the world.
ā¢FORGIVER of everything youāve ever said or done
ā¢MONK who is filled with wonder at your being-ness
ā¢YOUNGER SIBLING who thinks you are genius and believes everything you say and do is also genius
ā¢DELIVERER from your past regrets
ā¢PEACEMAKER with who you are and who you arenāt
ā¢DAD who protects you and keeps you secure
ā¢GRANDPA who speaks deep wisdom to you with zero judgement
ā¢LIGHT GIVER who helps you see both your light and gently shines light into your places the light has not yet reached
ā¢MERCIFUL BENEFACTOR who bestows mercy on yourself when you say something weird or want to lean toward beating yourself up
ā¢THE RICH RELATIVE who gave you so much money
ā¢LOVE GURU who pours out love on you every second of the day, who believes you are lovable no matter what is going on with you.
ā¢GRANDMA who loves you when it feels like the world is against you and bakes you cookies, hugs you every time you need it, and kisses you on the forehead.
ā¢WIZARD who knows the magical and cryptic things to say or do that help you tap into your own strength, magic, and genius
We see these awesome people depicted in movies or books and believe we should have had that kind of person in our life.
Sometimes we look around and think everyone else got all these people in their lives and we didnāt.
Stop looking around.
Insteadā¦
Be all these things to yourself.
Choose one of the above. Be that to you today. š
Believe all of these people are within you, ready to help you and guide you.
You deserve it. šš„°
Want to share the one you chose? Please do! Tell me in the comments. š
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Youāve done something youāre totally proud of, at some point, right?
Like totally thought you rocked it?
And thenā¦.
Bum bu bummmmā¦.
Your brain comes in like a freight train T-boning a car sitting on the tracks and says:
Wow. You sure messed that up.
What were you thinking?
Why did you say that?
You took over the conversation.
You are so selfish.
You donāt ever think about other people.
You only think about yourself.
Youāre too much.
Youāre over the top.
People are not going to like you now.
Youāre kind of a joke.
No one really cares about what you have to say.
If this has ever happened to youā¦
Youāre not alone.
Not only thatā¦
News flash:
Youāre human.
We both are.
Because I, too, have had this happen to me.
Recently.
Hereās what I realized.ā¦
Two things you can do, in this episode.
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Have you ever said, āI feel like Iām sabotaging myself?ā
Youāre right. Kind of. Itās not your fault, though.
Hereās whyā¦
Brains have two parts:
PrimitivePre-frontal cortex
They basically like OPPOSITE things.
If you sometimes feel like youāre fighting with yourself or constantly torn between two thingsā¦
Guess what?
Nothing has gone wrong AND
You are not a mutant.
One part of our brain loves routine.
It gets all giddy about doing the same thing over and over and over again.
This part of your brain loves familiarity, comfort, pleasure, and it does everything it can to avoid pain.
We love this part of our brain!
Itās what keeps our heart beating regularly and all of our blood flowing like itās supposed to.
It the part that does everything it can to keep our body at the exact same temperature all the time.
It does all of this without you even being aware.
It all happens under the radar.
So when we get a fever, it freaks out until it gets us back into the same old, boring, keeping us in, you knowā¦
Loving, breathing, homeostasis mode.
If youāve ever said, āI just did that without even thinking.ā
You were most likely operating from this part of your brain.
This is the place you drive a car from if youāve been driving for years.
Itās basically the auto pilot of your life.
Not as helpful when youāre trying to stop eating crap. š«š
Or start loving your dreams of being a writer or starting a business
You knowā¦the stuff that scares you a little or is NOT routine.
Itās kind of the whole āold dog that doesnāt want to learn new tricksā mode of your brain.
Second part of your brain: Pre-frontal cortex
It LOVES novelty, new things, growth, new opportunities, spontaneity, change.
Itās the part of your brain that lights up when you feel a new feeling, do something new.
Itās not as reliable as your primitive brain but it can be trained.
This is the puppy version of your brain. Excitable but trainable.
Both parts are capable of change but one part is more willing than the other part.
If youāre trying to:ā¢Change your eating habits
ā¢Create a new routine
ā¢Do something youāve never done before
ā¢Meet new people
ā¢Go to an event by yourself
ā¢Stop being bugged at your close family
ā¢Start working out
ā¢Create a business
ā¢stop doing some habit you want to quit
ā¢ā¦you get the ideaā¦
Your primitive brain is going to lay on the floor, basking in the sun and give off the vibe:
Donāt fix whatās not broken.Move along. Nothing to see here.
Or get a bunch of attitude and walk away from you and lay down in another sunny spot where it doesnāt have to listen to you.
On the other hand your pre-frontal cortex is going to be jumping around barking and saying:
Yes! Yes! Such a good idea!Letās go!
This is the most epic plan ever.
Iām all in!
Youāre the best!
I love you!
Youāre so awesome!
Youāre a genius.
Soā¦.
If you feel like your brain is always sabotaging youā¦it probably is.
These two parts of your brain, when left to themselves, end up making you feel like youāre in a never ending hamster wheel of trying to start new things only to fail again and again.
Itās not your fault.
This is what we do in coaching:
Train that puppy brain of yours so the old dog part of your brain doesnāt feel so annoyed when you attempt to make those awesome changes. š
We watch the old dog part, see all the patterns and things it does on auto pilot.
The daily ways it acts and the vibe it gives off.
We notice itās attitude.
That awareness is the starting point.
It makes a MUCH bigger difference than you would think to be able to see all of its patterns out in the wild.
Suddenly, they donāt seem wild or untamed at all.
You see exactly what that old dog is doing and it kind of makes you laugh how tame it is.
And at how it likes to hide behind making you think itās so wild and untame-able.
The truth isā¦
It just wants to be seen.
Old dogs (primitive brains) CAN learn new tricks!
I promise.
Ready to teach your brain some new tricks? Click HERE.Previously published HERE.
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I love The Lord of the Rings.
I've not read the book. I've watched the movies MANY times!
Eowyn is one of my favorite warriors in this series.
I decided to research more about her and discovered some awesomeness. No surprise.
Enjoy this episode!
If you'd like to bring out your Warriorness more, click HERE. Let's chat!
Previously published here.
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Maybe youāre disappointedā¦ In you.
In the way youāre showing up.
In who you are being.
Knowing what youāve been thinking, feeling, doing or NOT thinking, feeling, doing...
It makes you want to:
Be hard on yourselfā¦
Beat yourself upā¦
Say a few mean things to yourself.
You and meā¦
We are human.
Our brains do this.
They think they are helping.
The truth isā¦
What really helps, is thisā¦
Notice youāve been judging yourself.
Thinking unhelpful or unkind or unloving thoughts about you or maybe about someone else.
SIDE NOTE:
Youāre not alone. I have totally done this! Many times!!
I realize Iām judging someone else or myself.
I feel terrible.
I think things like: why you gotta be like that?
In no time, Iām piling shame on myself.
And then I want to stop so I tell myself:
Iām going to think something nice about themā¦
Or about me.
If you try to jump to all the positives right away, too, I invite you to pause right there.
STOP.
Before you start trying to think of something nice and positive and upbeat to say or doā¦
Insteadā¦
Tell yourself:
Of course, youāre thinking unkind things about yourself.
Youāre not showing up the way you want to show up.
I love you anyway.
I know it can be scary to compare yourself.
I know you donāt want to do it.
I love you and Iām here for you.
You donāt have to beat yourself up about it.
I know you.
I love you.
All the parts of you.
The parts that get jealous
And the parts that are confident.
You donāt have to be unkind to yourself to be loveable.
I love you in your struggles and in your triumphs.
Iām here for you.
Iāll always have your back.
I understand where youāre at right now
And I love you.
Youāve got this.
Next time you start to beat yourself up, before you jump to trying to be a better person right awayā¦
Experiment with loving yourself
Even when you feel a mess.
Notice what happens.
To find out more about coaching with Davina, click here.
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ā¢You are making yourself wrong and shoulding yourself ā¢You aren't having compassion for yourself right where you are, accepting how you feel, look, act right now ā¢Not soothing your nervous system ā¢Not allowing yourself to rest and receive and accept If any of these sound like you, tune into this episode to learn how your affirmations could have more power in your life. Ready to create what you want in your life? Tired of doing affirmations that don't seem to be working? Sign up and talk to Davina today. Previously published HERE.
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What people think REST means: ā¢Doing nothing ā¢Being lazy ā¢Wasting time when you could be working ā¢Playing hooky from work/trying to get out of working What REST actually means: ā¢Restoring, rebiuilding, re-energizing ā¢Purposefully letting your brain, body, emotions have space ā¢Allowing yourself to slow down and process the work you've done ā¢Giving yoursel a change to hear God, your won voice, and gneiurs ā¢Soothing your nervous system ā¢Offering yourself compassion, love, gratitude kindness ā¢Celebrating and acknowledging the way you and your brain show up by refueling them ā¢Letting your brain do things it can't do at any other time To incorporate more rest into your life, sign up for a call with Davina. Previously published HERE.
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Eight year old Davina was afraid of not being perfect. Teenage Davina was certain God was disappointed in her. Young mom Davina thought she would always remember her mistakes when she looked in the eyes of her baby. Fifty-one year old Davina has very different views on how God feels about her and about repentance. Tune in today to hear how amazing repentance actually is. Ready to have a new relationship with repentance and your Heavenly Parents, sign up to talk with Davina HERE. Previously published HERE.
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Maybe youāre disappointedā¦
In you.
In the way youāre showing up.
In who you are being.
Knowing what youāve been thinking, feeling, doing or NOT thinking, feeling, doing...
It makes you want to:
Be hard on yourselfā¦
Beat yourself upā¦
Say a few mean things to yourself.
You and meā¦
We are human.
Our brains do this.
They think they are helping.
The truth isā¦
What really helps, is thisā¦
Notice youāve been judging yourself.
Thinking unhelpful or unkind or unloving thoughts about you or maybe about someone else.
SIDE NOTE:
Youāre not alone. I have totally done this! Many times!!
I realize Iām judging someone else or myself.
I feel terrible.
I think things like: why you gotta be like that?
In no time, Iām piling shame on myself.
And then I want to stop so I tell myself:
Iām going to think something nice about themā¦
Or about me.
If you try to jump to all the positives right away, too, I invite you to pause right there.
STOP.
Before you start trying to think of something nice and positive and upbeat to say or doā¦
Insteadā¦
Tell yourself:
Of course, youāre thinking unkind things about yourself.
Youāre not showing up the way you want to show up.
I love you anyway.
I know it can be scary to compare yourself.
I know you donāt want to do it.
I love you and Iām here for you.
You donāt have to beat yourself up about it.
I know you.
I love you.
All the parts of you.
The parts that get jealous
And the parts that are confident.
You donāt have to be unkind to yourself to be loveable.
I love you in your struggles and in your triumphs.
Iām here for you.
Iāll always have your back.
I understand where youāre at right now
And I love you.
Youāve got this.
Next time you start to beat yourself up, before you jump to trying to be a better person right awayā¦
Experiment with loving yourself
Even when you feel a mess.
Notice what happens.
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1% more creativity.
Ohmiheck. Itās so good for your brain and your heart and soul.
Itās magic!
It can be so simple.
For me, that 1% happens when I get dressed.
I choose something I havenāt worn and then pair the item with something I would NEVER put with it.
Sometimes this is the opposite shoes (maybe Iād usually wear heels but I pick kicks instead)
Or a crazy accessory
Or my husbandās tie
Or S P A C E buns in my hair!
(Make sure to click on the pics below. These S P A C E buns make me laugh every time I see them. Hello, Who-Ville!ā)
What I love is that I get to find out something awesome
About myself
About my creativity
I get to push my own boundaries
And challenge the rules that live inside my head
You can do it, too!
Imagine the you who is just 1% more creative for five daysā¦
Itās totally doable
With magical results waiting for you!
Jump in, Warrior!
Letās do this! Sign up for your free consultation HERE.
Ready to create āFuture Youā today? Come join Warrior Women Less Fear | More Fierce
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Bubble braids.
Until two weeks ago I had never worn them.
I was a little afraid of them.
Several years ago, someone I respect suggested I was wearing braids to keep people from taking me seriouslyā¦to soften my intense personality.
I donāt think she was wrong.
I stopped wearing two braids.
Not because she told me to but because I wanted to experimentā¦
See if there was some truth to her theory.
I started paying attention to allowing my intensity without apology.
I didnāt return to the two braids.
Mainly, because I didnāt think I needed them anymore.
Her suggestion DID help me to own who I was.
I no longer try to soften my strength, intensity, passion.
Several months ago, someone suggested I try bubble braids.
I didnāt know what they were.
I looked them up and immediately thought:
I canāt wear those. It will be me trying to hide my intensity.
So what made me decide to try them?
I decided Iāve come a long way.
Wearing bubble braids would feel different because Iām different than I was all those years ago.
Now, I feel stunning and fierce.
Now, I donāt feel like Iām sending a mixed message of āplease like me even though I can be really intense and passionate.ā
Now, I love me when I look in the mirror.
I see the woman I am now, and I think:
You are intense fiery awesomeness. I love you!
Evolution is amazing.
Iām not saying we do or donāt do things according to what other people may or may not think of us.
In fact, Iām saying the opposite.
Coming to know and love yourself opens up to you all the rules you may have been believing and not realizing.
I hadnāt realized that I was trying to make my intense self more palatable for other people with my cute braids.
That awareness allowed me to begin to embrace my intensity without trying to soften it with cuteness through braids.
Now, I can fully own these bubble braids in all my fierceness without believing I need them to help people to like me.
Understanding and loving yourself on entirely new levels and in completely new ways is mind blowing too s super powerful.
Getting to show up in your life more on fire and beautiful and passionate and real than you ever have in your life is incredibly sexy.
I LOVE IT!
I wouldnāt be here without the coaching Iāve received over the years.
Nearly everywhere I go, people respond to me without being able to stop themselves.
Last night at dinner I walked into a restaurant and a woman there gasped the moment she saw me.
She said: Oh my goodness! Look at you!! I love your hair!!
She kept saying effusive things all the way to our seats.
Another woman came to our table and did the same thing.
I used to be embarrassed about standing out butā¦
Longed for it at the same time.
Now, Iām showing up for myself.
Not expecting anyone to adore me but me.
Iām the process, itās changed the way I am with people and the way they are with me, in the best ways.
This can happen for you, too.
Coaching helps you to love and adore yourselfā¦
YOUR strengths, YOUR goodness, YOUR flaws, YOUR darkness AND your light, YOUR humanness,
The parts you think are ugly and the parts you hope have beauty in them.
You see your judgements toward yourself and you understand them and then eventuallyā¦you let them go.
You see yourself differently, with more love and honor and respect and compassion than you ever have before.
All those years ago I would think: Iām good! I like myself. Iām not mean to myself. Iām a strong woman.
I wasnāt wrong.
I also didnāt realize what it could look like to take all of that belief (and all
of the underlying insecurity I was afraid people might see) and become the woman I am now.
If youāre wanting more for yourselfā¦
Youāre ready for coaching.
I know exactly how to help you.
The big surprise with figuring out how to love yourself more isā¦
You become even more open to increased love and less judgement toward others.
Itās a win for everyone.
Ready for more of your own awesomeness in your life?
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An open letter to Davina, It may seem like youāre retreading old patterns. Youāre not. Youāre at a new level with greater awareness than youāve ever had. You are not stuck. You are blowing my mind with your bravery and rawness. Iām grateful you are willing to share, ask for help, and see yourself in ways you never have before. Thank you. You are making a difference to me and in the process, making a bigger difference than you may realize. Iām sending you hugs and the deepest gratitude. Iām cheering you on. You donāt yet fully see what I see. I keep sending you glimpses because I want you to both see and believe your awesomeness. Iām so proud of you. I love you. Thank you x 1000!! , Future Davina Sign up for your Discovery of Awesomeness HERE.
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Does one or more of these sound like you?
I still havenāt lost the weight I want to lose.
I still havenāt started my book.
I still donāt have the relationship I want.
I still donāt have the spiritual life Iāve been longing for.
I still struggle with one (or more) of my kids.
I still havenāt started my podcast
I still am not writing
I still feel confused
I still feel like Iām not enough
I still havenāt figured out my marketing and my niche
I still struggle with my teenagers
I still feel stuck
I still am reeling from what happened last week, last month, last year
I still havenāt made the money I want to make
Iām still not successful
Iām still trying to figure out how everyone else knows what they are doing and I donāt
I still [insert what it is for you].
Whatever comes after āI stillā¦ā
Is the reason you need to hire me as your coach today.
Go from:
āI still havenātā¦ā
To
āIām rockin my life!!ā
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Wish someone all the blessings you want.
I was skeptical of this idea when I first heard about it.
At the same time, I immediately loved the idea.
If I could wish someone the blessings I wanted, it felt like I would be able to be so much open to possibility and the belief that thereās enough for all of us.
Me having the blessings didnāt mean someone else couldnāt have them, too.
Today, think about what you want. What are all the blessings you wish for?
Ask God for them for you.
And then ask for them for someone else, too.
When you walk by someone in the store, secretly say:
ā¢āI wish for you that all you need and all you want comes to you.ā
Or
ā¢āI wish for you and me everything we want in life.ā
Notice what happens to you the more you do this.
Magic.
What wishes are you sending yourself and others today? I'd love to hear about them. Write them in the comments below!
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Think about what you wish to become.
Most people do not think more than a week or a month into the future.
Studies have shown that once we hit about 30 years old, we stop dreaming.
We stop looking forward to the next big milestone or goal or dream in our life. We stop believing there is something incredible ahead of us.
We get into believing every day will be like the next and the one before it.
Decide today, this wonāt be you.
Spend some time today dreaming about āfuture you.ā
Close your eyes.
Imagine 6 months into the future.
Where do you want to be? What do you want to have done? How do you want to have changed? What do you want to have learned?
Let yourself get a clear picture of this āFuture You.ā
Make yourself the (s)hero or leading lady of your life movie. Imagine some cinematic music playing.
Let yourself see and get energized by whatās up ahead for you.
What is 'Future You' doing six months from now?
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