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  • If you’ve been feeling like things are falling apart and you have no idea what you’re doing…listen to this episode.

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  • This week has been a difficult one for me, as I’m sure it was for many of you. I went through 10 stages of grief, and I’m still crashing out as I type this. 

     I have received so many comments and DMs asking for guidance on what you should do if a person in your life has voted differently than you in this presidential election. I wish I had an easier answer for you, but I hope today’s episode gives you some clarity. The answer to your question about someone is in their actions. When people show you who they are, believe them. 

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  • I was taught that keeping quiet kept the peace until I realized whose peace is it keeping?

    After voicing my opinion in a video last week, I received a few comments that read, "I used to like you, but now I need to unfollow." My first reaction was to laugh it off, but as I sat with it, I felt as if I did something wrong. I knew I stood behind what I said in that video, I was proud of myself for voicing how I felt, but I still felt as if I made a mistake by posting it because it upset a few of my followers. This isn't the first time I've felt shame for speaking my mind and truth. 

    There has been multiple times in my life where I have defended myself, stood up for others, or even just shared an opinion, just to be told that I was starting drama or fueling a fire. I have tried to bite my tongue and stay silent to avoid being called an instigator or drama queen but in doing that, it has also caused me pain.

    If you have to sacrifice your voice to keep the peace, it is no longer peaceful.....so let's talk about it.

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  • ADVICE SESSION #10!!!!! ALL THINGS FALL 🍂🌲🧸☕️🧣 In today’s episode, I’m answering your seasonal questions to help you get through the next month.

    How to deal with seasonal depression, being alone during the holiday seasons, balancing work and festive activities, feeling guilty about food, stressing about money, skincare tips and how to dress cool but comfy this fall!!!!!

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  • It's much easier to point out when someone else makes a mistake or is acting out of character than it is to check yourself. In today's episode, I talk about holding ourselves accountable and checking ourselves when we're not being the best that we can be. It's important to take a step back and look at how we're behaving and how we're treating others. It's not enough to talk about how good of a person you are; you also need to show up as her. Actions speak louder than words.

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  • Thank you for leaving my life (I never would have walked away on my own)!!!!! In today’s episode, I talk about being grateful that relationships and friendships didn’t work out. 

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  • If you can’t stop overthinking, listen to this episode. 

    Last week I went on my first brand trip, and it was INCREDIBLE. The days leading up to the trip, I was so nervous and was thinking about every possible thing that could go wrong. It got to a point where I almost backed out of the trip because I was overthinking and SPIRALING. Thankfully, I pulled it together and forced myself to go, and I’m so glad I did because it was a huge reminder that OUR THOUGHTS AREN’T ALWAYS CORRECT. Just because I tell myself that I’m going to have a bad time or that no one’s going to like me doesn’t mean that’s what’s going to happen. In today’s episode, I talk about why we overthink, how overthinking robs us of experiences, and letting go of control. 

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  • I COULD CRY TEARS OF JOY THAT FALLS FINALLY HERE!!!!! Today's episode is all about glowing up this new season. As the seasons change, so should you! Listen to this episode if you want to become a better version of you, change your mindset, switch up your routine, or just be more present this season. We're talking new priorities, being intentional, making changes, and things I'm doing this fall to make my life better.

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  • If you're a people pleaser, listen to this episode. We are stepping into a new era where we are saying no to other people so we can say yes to ourselves. Here are a few things that I am going to be doing less of for my own good.

    Not taking on more than you can handleNot being contactable 24/7Staying away from people who make you feel badNo longer being negative or meanNo longer allowing disrespectNo longer being mean to yourselfSaying no to others to say yes to yourself

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  • If you’ve ever felt like giving up because things aren’t working out the way you planned, listen to this episode. There’s been so many times where I felt discouraged because I saw others achieving things quicker than me. I would doubt myself and think that I was less deserving or even believe that things just weren’t going to work out for me. Today’s episode is a reminder that it doesn’t matter the speed in which you do things, but the direction you move in to achieve them.  â­ď¸DREAMS DON’T WORK UNLESS YOU DO! SO DON’T GIVE UP⭐️

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  • This is your reminder that it's only a bad day, NOT A BAD LIFE. If you're feeling down or things just aren't going your way, listen to this episode. I talk about being consumed with negativity, feeling your emotions, taking things slow, doing more of what you enjoy, letting go of what you can't control, and having gratitude for the little things.

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  • It can be tempting to make your life seem much more luxurious and interesting than it actually is. We think if we post videos at a cool party or photos of us in an expensive car, it will wow others and make them envy our lives. But what is more important? People thinking our lives are so cool, or us actually enjoying our lives? Instead of focusing so much on trying to curate this perfect image of what our life is supposed to look like, let's focus on trying to make our life something worth living. Stop focusing on what your life looks like and focus on what your life feels like.

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  • Episode 126

    ADVICE SESSION #9! I asked you on Instagram what big sister advice you needed and today I'm answering your questions.

    QUESTIONS I ANSWER IN TODAY'S EPISODE:

    Should I give the ugly guy a chance?

    How to feel comfortable with my sexuality and coming out?

    How to not get nervous before kissing someone?

    How to shave down there without it hurting?

    How to put a tampon in for beginners?

    Advice on going to the gynecologist?

    Are you on birth control and do you recommend?

    How to deal with feeling guilty after eating?

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  • #125

    I used to have a lot of social anxiety and was afraid of how people perceived me. I didn't think I was cool or interesting, and I didn't think people would like me. Before going out, I would always have so much anxiety because I didn't know how to talk to people or what to talk about. In today's episode, I share tips on how to be more confident and become the most interesting woman in the room. 

    DO THE INNER WORKDRESS FOR YOUBE CONFIDENT IN WHO YOU AREDON'T BE AFRAID TO BE SEENBE BOLD AND UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOUSKIP THE SMALL TALK AND BE OPEN AND REALASK PEOPLE ABOUT THEMBE KIND NOT JUST FRIENDLYBE SELECTIVE ABOUT WHO HAS ACCESS TO YOU

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  • You don’t have to spend time around people who have hurt you or engage in things that you’re no longer interested in. In today's episode, I talk about my experience with not wanting to be around certain people after taking time to work through things and heal. If I spent a year getting over a friend who hurt me, why am I going to hang out with someone who treats me the same exact way? If I spent time trying to become a more positive person, why am I going to spend time with people who are only negative? LET’S TALK ABOUT IT âœ¨

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  • Self care doesn't have to cost money. In today's episode, I'm sharing some free self care ideas as well as my girl therapy favorites. If you're looking for ideas on how to cheer yourself up or romanticize your life, listen to this episode! 

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  • At the end of 2021, while I was working at my old job, I was struggling with my mental health, personal issues, and paying bills. I felt so lost in life and was so unhappy with my situation. 

    Up until this point, I made excuses for why I couldn’t leave my job and pursue posting on social media full time. Excuses like, “What if I don’t make money? What if I can’t pay my bills? What if I embarrass myself? What if it doesn’t work out?” In December of 2021, it finally hit me that I didn’t have much to lose. Either I stay at my job that makes me unhappy or I leave it and find something that does. I hit rock bottom, and although it was scary, it forced and motivated me to work hard and build an entirely new life. I was able to pursue my dreams fearlessly because I had nothing to lose. 

    In today’s episode, I share my experience with leaving my job and why I think sometimes hitting rock bottom is a blessing in disguise. If you’ve been in a funk, struggling mentally, or feel like you’ve hit rock bottom, listen to this episode as motivation. 

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  • This one is for all the lover girls that try to see the best in everyone. In today’s episode, I talk about confusing control for love, my past relationships, what love is and is DEFINITELY NOT!!!!!

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  • If you're having FOMO watching others enjoy their summers in the Hamptons, are unable to afford the trending summer products you see on TikTok, or are feeling bad about yourself after seeing "aesthetic day in the life" videos online, listen to this episode. Today's episode is a reminder that you don't need to spend a lot of money (or any money at all) to enjoy your life. I walk you through my ideal summer routine and provide ideas for romanticizing your summer without breaking the bank.✨HOW TO ROMANTICIZE YOUR SUMMER ON A BUDGET✨

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    SUMMER PLAYLIST

    SOME OF MY FAVORITE PODCASTS:

    Mindset Magic & Manifestation Podcast - Mikayla Jai

    80/20 - Lily Rakow

    On My Mind - Ava Jules

    Moments Podcast - Lexi Hidalgo

    For You From Eve - Olivia Shabo

    Skinny Dipping - Kela Rose

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  • LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE IF YOU ARE CONSTANTLY WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU. Being a successful content creator has always been a dream of mine, but I didn't start pursuing that dream until a couple years ago. The reason it took me 10+ years to start posting online is because I was afraid of others thinking I was cringey and making fun of me. I look back on those years with regret, but I missed out on something that was super important to me all because of others and their perception of me. In today's episode, I talk about getting in your own way, being afraid of judgement, not knowing how people actually think of you, and living your life to the fullest. 

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