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Kink Is - An Anthology of Surprisingly Relatable True Stories about Sex, Power and Joy is the name of a remarkable new book about everyday kink people, presenting them in a beautiful collection of pictures and stories. It is published by Unbound Edition. We talk with the group behind the project from Divine Deviance: Race Bannon, Beatrice Stonebanks, Lola DeMilo, Adam Ouderkirk and Jörg Fockele.
About the book:
In this groundbreaking anthology, featuring a foreword by Margaret Cho, kinky people from around the world reveal in intimate detail their true stories of embracing the non-traditional practices that have informed or defined their identities, sexualities, relationships, connections, and communities. Filled with first-person narratives and stunning photographs, Kink Is captures the universal presence of kink across cultures, private lives, and public events. In these stories – as vulnerably honest as they are bravely bold – real people share what motivates and animates their desires to experience human-to-human connection in novel ways, most often in the pursuit of increased emotional freedom, physical autonomy, individual power, and mind-altering joy. Featured here are activists, rebels, and professionals alike: Readers will meet a teacher, a technology guru, a priest, a political prisoner, a therapist, an astrophysicist, and a grandmother, among many others.
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In this provocative interview, Fetlife's John Baku tells the story of the kinky social media site and it's origin story. He discusses some of the challenges that exist when trying to be a site for all people. And he answers direct questions from the audience. If you have ever wondered what goes on behind the scenes of this site, this is a must see interview!
About John Baku:
John started FetLife because he didn’t want anyone to ever feel alone.
This platform exists to help people feel comfortable with who they are sexually and know that there are other people like them out there.
Since 2008, we wanted people to feel like they had a home, a place where you were accepted for who you are.
We designed FetLife to be a safe space for the kink community to openly explore and discuss their sexual interests, without judgement. At our core we seek to connect people and normalize different sexual expressions, we put community well-being first and always try to do the right thing. Overtime we have grown but our vision stayed the same, to help 10,000,000+ people feel more comfortable with who they are sexually. -
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With the US Release of "Playing to Lose: How a Jehovah's Witness Became a Submissive BDSM Model," Ariel Anderssen returns to the show to discuss challenging the norms set by society and how she is thriving in doing so.
Here is what the book is all about:
PLAYING TO LOSE: How a Jehovah’s Witness Became a Submissive BDSM Model
In this bold and intimate memoir Ariel Anderssen charts her journey from a strict, religious upbringing as a Jehovah’s Witness to her current position as one of the most widely recognized BDSM performers in the world.
Her route between the two includes a period as a wretchedly miserable, teenage political activist, a phase touring with a Christian theatre group, and accidentally discovering a talent for posing for art nude photography.
This surprising and unconventional career path led her to a life-altering introduction to BDSM-themed erotic artwork and a whole world she never imagined existing.
This is a book about BDSM, and about sexuality, but most of all it is about one woman’s struggle for self-acceptance and the rewards that come from confronting who you are with honesty and compassion.
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They found their joy in the bonds placed upon them and ever since Heavy has found their safe place within the ropes and chains of the places they go. They talks about their love of captivity when they visit HiThereCatsuit in this second part of the Bondage event Powered by Clips 4 Sale.
Here is Heavy in their own words:
Hello, my name is Heavy, and I’ve been a sex worker for about 8 years now. Most of my work revolves around the art of helplessness, more commonly known as bondage. Of which, I’ve been partaking in one way or another since my age was still in the single digits. It began when I was about 7 or 8, after seeing a series of bound and gagged characters in books, movies and magazines (Charmed and Aladdin were pivotal). Since that very first time, I could never get the thought out of my head. I was absolutely mesmerized. I didn’t know why at the time, nor was it sexual. I just knew I loved it, and I wanted to try it myself. Immediately afterward I began tying myself up nearly every day, using various household items. Sneaking rope and tape from my dad’s work bench, and bandanas/ scarves from my sisters rooms. This stayed consistent throughout the remainder of my childhood. As I grew older I began playing with a few friends and partners before diving headfirst into bondage modeling after I left the Marines. A lot has transpired since that time in my life, and now I run my own bondage website, and appear on many others. I also offer in-person, bondage sessions as well. So if you ever want to know what it’s like to experience true captivity, or witness it first-hand, take a peak at my websites or come see me in person!
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She has a true love of bondage and has realized that there is freedom in restraint. From enduring the most intricate of binds to subjecting others to imaginative real situations that inspire dreams, meet Elise Graves of Bondage Liberation in the first part of a two part event on the program Powered by Clips4Sale
About Elise:
As a practitioner of bondage-focused BDSM for nearly 20 years, Elise has intimate experience with the powerful, yet subtle, transformational power of bondage. She credits her own bondage experience for serious advancements in her own personal journey of self discovery and evolution.
Upon first hearing the word “bondage” every cell in Elise’s body lit up - she knew this was something she wanted to explore. Indeed, Elise dove head-first into the world of bondage play, specifically using the vehicle of professional bondage video shoots to be able to experience intense BDSM experiences. Indeed, the bulk of Elise’s entire bondage journey has been filmed and shared with the world. After working as a model for various bondage sites such as Into the Attic, House of Gord, Kink.com, and the Insex sites, in 2011 Elise moved to Oakland, CA to work for and mentor under PD of Insex. It is here that she learned that she can be any kind of top that she wants - she doesn’t have to fit any particular style.
In 2016, Elise embarked out on her own, creating her own bondage-focused website, BondageLiberation.com. Being in complete control over everything really suited Elise! :) It is here that Elise showcases her many interests in bondage play alongside her deeply-kinky friends. Though these scenes are filmed, they are nonetheless real and powerful to the participants. It was also around this time that Elise began offering private bondage-focused sessions via BondageTherapy.com. Though not the same or in any way a replacement for actual talk therapy, Elise wanted the name of her practice to reflect her intention behind creating a safe, grounding, explorative, and yes, therapeutic container in which bondage play takes place. Both of these projects have brought so much joy to Elise, and she is grateful every day to be doing this work.
Elise wants to change how people perceive bondage. She wants to demonstrate how sexy agents for change can be. Elise's desire is to show both BDSM-curious and seasoned practitioners how sexy it is to trust, to be a witness to a person's suffering, to be vulnerable, and how exciting it can be to engage in exploration in one's life. Bondage has the unique ability to offer these experiences and Elise Graves brings a deep understanding to this process.
Elise is honored to be of service to those who choose to embark on a journey of self-discovery through the art of bondage therapy.
Interested to see what Elise Graves has been up to in the world of erotic video? Please visit www.bondageliberation.com to get an understanding of how Elise likes to play!
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Join us for a visit with Philadelphia Femdom extraordinaire Mistress Isadora is an alluring Domina. A purveyor of bespoke BDSM and fetish experiences for the kink connoisseur. The Priestess of Debauchery has over a decade professional experience and a lifetime of breaking the male ego.
More about Mistress Isadora:
Mistress Isadora, the Priestess of Debauchery, boasts 15 years of experience as a professional dominatrix and a lifetime of breaking the male ego. This Philadelphia-based Domina is an artisan in the realm of depravity and decadence, specializing in creative CBT, bondage, and edge play, along with an array of other skills in her extensive repertoire. Isadora has participated in esteemed events such as the Order of Indomitus and Dom Con, and has performed at multiple Diabolique Fetish Balls. Her career as a professional provocateur extends into the nightlife scene, where she has been captivating audiences since the early 2000s. She began as a go-go dancer at fetish parties and continues to wow as an award-winning burlesque performer. Mistress Isadora's creativity and expertise are evident in her video clips and photo sets, available on her various clip stores and fan site.
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/mistressisadora
Website: http://www.mistressisadora.net
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She calls being a dominatrix "her safe place," and for 28 years, Mistress Simone Kross has experienced it all from her days at The Shadows to her recent induction into the Dominatrix Hall Of Fame.
Here is how Simone describes herself:
My personal and professional discovery in kink truly began in 1995 at “The Shadows,” a house of Bondage and Discipline in Oakland, California, deepening my understanding of human sexual psychology and my own. My style of play and what I require from a submissive, slave or masochist: I am genuine in my approach and my applications. I provide a wide array of intense, professional precision tactics for the serious submissive who is genuine in pursuing the optimum experience. I expect a submissive to be able to honestly express and articulate what their personal needs and expectations are. I feel that communication and proper negotiations are the foundation for honest relationships that prove to be beneficial for the “Mistress/slave” dynamic. I am a very imaginative, intuitive and intense Mistress. I am very diverse and can play on many levels from light to moderate to hard core. My style of play is very sensual and seductive, playful and I can be very sadistic if the session calls for it. Not necessarily for the faint of heart. I have always had a sincere passion for BDSM and always will. I am an advocate of safe, sane and consensual play and play within the limits of the submissive or bottom. My range of play is extensive; my dominant style is versatile, intuitive, seductive and erotic in nature combining both sensual and sadistic applications and administrations. I specialize in the psychological fundamentals that pertain to specific contextual composition that feeds the mental and physical. I can be a strict, domineering, condescending or severe as well as a compassionate, caring, and playful Mistress who is in control. I can play at any level depending upon the experience and limits of the submissive. I have a sincere passion for all aspects of bondage, discipline and sadomasochism as my philosophies are very firmly based in the concepts of power exchange. Primarily I thrive as a live session Domme in person or on-line and I tour the United States and Europe. I am also a Fetish Model & Fetish Film Star.
You can find Simone on the web here.
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HiThereCatsuit dares to enter the lair of Lilith Corruptela to meet this incredibly wicked pro domme in our first ever in person interview. A special edition of the show comes your way from the Jean Bardot Studio.
(Originally aired March 5 2022)
Mistress Lilith Corruptela, a Minneapolis based Dominatrix and Dark Goddess. She is an artist, performer and lover of all things macabre and perverse. With a fascination for horror, occult and demonology, she embodies lust in a way to make you worship through sin. She will corrupt and seduce you into living and breathing for Her.
Are you brave enough to enter Her lair? -
Sybil Minnelli - Being Beside Bardot
Sybil Minnelli is one of the stars of The Jean Bardot show, and has lived a life of adventure as her authentic self while balancing a family life of a different character. From public performances to private moments, we visit with this amazing personality in our second video version of the show. (Originally aired in September of 2022)
Sybil says: I’m the luckiest gurl I know :) I’ve been crossdressing part-time for 30-ish years, no interest in transitioning, but I would love it if I had more time to spend as Sybil. I am happily married, hetero (or lesbian depending on point of view), and wifey is supportive of my CD activities.Much of what I do is tied to Jean Bardot as she is as much a BFF as one could ever be, and I support Mistress Jean’s business ventures in a variety of ways. Have you seen the Jean Bardot Show? Check it out on YouTube - it is one of our current projects we’ve been doing strictly for fun, and hopefully that comes through in the show.You can find me fetish and drag themed nightclubs around town with friends, or maybe attending full scale fetish events as well, being surrounded by all types of kinky folk. I love fetishwear - latex, leather, lacy lingerie, corsets, stockings, garters, high heels... And BDSM (especially bondage!) is a huge kink of mine. I’ll take just about any opportunity I can get to spend time tied up, whether it is for fun or for a modeling job.On occasion I teach crossdressing classes, I assist in teaching kink classes and sometimes I even produce fetish play parties. I do stay busy, but if you can catch me, I’ll be glad to chat with you!
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It's a very personal show when Mistress Mary, shares her story and is then joined by her best friend, Professor Grey to discuss a scene they did with our HiThereCatsuit himself! (Originally aired 5-3-22)
Mistress Mary is a Professional Dominatrix working in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area. She is like no other D type you've met. A sadist, sensualist, and caring Domme who genuinely wants to make your dreams come true. With a captivating smile, you will be wondering what kinky activity she has in store for you... but be forewarned, if you make a mistake, you will be punished.
She has continuously dedicated her free time to learning, exploring, and perfecting all things kinky! Trust in her to push your limits, learn new kinks and fetishes, and experience a new level of passion. She creates an environment where her subs feel safe to explore and keep honest communication flowing.
From Mistress Mary, "I'm extra unique, my whole aura screams talent. I can't wait to meet you and explore your fetishes! Together, we will push your limits past your wildest dreams. Dream big, then dream bigger." -
She is a Supermodel. SuperActress, and SuperDomme, and a legend in the fetish world. Minneapolis based Dominatrix Jean Bardot joins the show to discuss how this legend came to be, her career, and what lies ahead for this amazing woman in a chat with HiThereCatsuit (Originally Aired 12/14/21)
Jean Bardot is a legendary fetish model, performer and actress, based in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Jean Bardot first became part of the fetish world in the 90’s when she was a student at MCAD (Minneapolis College of Art & Design). Jean, along with friends and colleagues, started a weekly fetish party called Bondage a Go-Go at Ground Zero in Minneapolis and Mistress Jean was born at that time. In the 2000’s, Jean became internationally famous, having developed and starred as the character “Rubberella” in dozens of full length fetish films. Jean’s efforts in these films and others helped to pave the way for not only her career, but also for an entire industry of latex fetish, fashion and domination. As a fetish supermodel, Jean has been featured in all of the contemporary fetish publications, and as a performer, she has graced kink’s biggest stages, headlining all the major kink and fetish events. As Mistress Jean Bardot, she is also a very well known professional dominatrix, making dreams come true in her well-appointed Minneapolis dungeon. Her dungeon is multi-level, with several themed rooms to satisfy different kinds of fantasies. Over the years, Jean has also amassed a world class collection of latex fashion, gear and toys, that she regularly puts to use in the dungeon, on the stage and in front of the camera. More recently, Jean has also become a fetish and kink educator, teaching online, in person in Minneapolis, and also on YouTube, where the Jean Bardot Show is hosted.
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Burlesque Hall of Famer, Professional Dominatrix, Health Coach and Event Producer Queen Pea joins HiThereCatsuit for a very personal conversation about her career on the stage and in the dungeon. (Originally aired July 5, 2022)
“Yes, Queen Pea.” -Music to my ears: the sound of My submissive subjects, offering their compliance, their bodies, and their most intimate secrets. Serving a Queen is a particular enjoyment, one that requires respect, communication, strict protocol, deep self-care, and a desire to relinquish control to a Superior Woman. Do you have what it takes to be one of the chosen few?
I am a 5’ 2” powerhouse, 5’7” in heels. A naturally dominant, fun-loving kinkster with a passion for perversion and creative sadism, I am deeply physical in nature, being both a professional dancer and certified fitness coach. One of My favorite things is to use My slaves as jungle gyms, so I can get a workout in while I dominate you. Also love the physicality of strap-on play, rough-housing, impact, and dancing you into a trance. If you have ever wished for a beautiful woman to literally whip you into shape, perhaps a fitness routine with Me is what you need to reach your fitness aspirations.
The psychology of domination and submission is a deep devotion. The certified therapeutic lifestyle coach knows how to guide you in an alternative intimacy, creating a brave, safe space for you to prioritize pleasure (and pain), to shed shame, and to experience the healing benefits of fetish and power dynamics. Your servitude will transform you, allow you to show up more fully in your daily life, and overall - set you free in your greater purpose of devotion to a Queen.
Many of you may know Me from my success as an internationally celebrated burlesque performer. That attire, elegance, regal glamour, and seduction is infused into everything I do. I’ve always been interested in kink, and for the past six years I have hosted the Twin Cities bdsm community with the monthly event, Kinky Friday. #KinkyFridayMpls welcomes the curious to the kinky to an accessible sensory circus - one that celebrates patrons no matter their stage of their bdsm journey. (Exhibitionist clients may enjoy a session that culminates with being paraded around and taken up on stage to perform with Me. Spend an evening with Me as my public playtoy if you dare.)
I offer professional sessions at Castle Diabolica in Minneapolis and frequently travel to San Francisco, Miami, and other cities in the US. I adore patrons who wish to experience their submissive self in luxurious surroundings and am amenable to global travel to accommodate.
Professional Dominance allows Me to take my interests in BDSM to a deeper level. In early 2020 I sought formal study and began apprenticing under Mistress Amanda Wildefyre. A few of My interests include: forced feminization, sissification, slave service, slut training, toilet training, full-body sensation play, sensory exploration and deprivation, impact play, spanking, OTK, ownership, slave protocol training, medical scenarios, pet/puppy play, age play, shibari rope bondage, foot, stocking and heels worship, corsetry, garter belts… Working from one of the elaborately equipped dungeons in the Midwest, I will dazzle you with an array of bizarre gadgets and unusual leather, metal and latex gear rarely seen outside of Europe. Your fantasy is well within My grasp, and, through regular training, I will take you beyond your wildest fetish dreams. -
When you see him, he is usually Robin, but with a fishnet top on! He's Dick Dastard, Superhero for Hire and this talented content creator joins fellow superhuman @HiThereCatsuit for a discussion on playing the hero in distress and his love of tickling. It's a fun interview you won't want to miss. And ladies, he's a hero for hire!!!
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Podcast host and educator of Sinagogue BDSM, The Rabbi joins us on the show to talk about Kink Education, pervertables, out of the ordinary classes and podcasting.
About the Rabbi:
Born to kink on International Sex Day, June 9th or 6/9 (nice), The Rabbi (he/him) is a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. He has been called the "Prince of the Pervertables," "The Pied Piper of Brats," and "The Carrot Top of Kink." (That last one was a compliment, right?) He creates his unique toys with a sadistic flair that would make the prop master on Cutthroat Kitchen jealous, including ceiling fan paddles, Lego nipple clamps, and a mop head flogger. The Rabbi has electrified people with slinkys, broken all ten commandments (over someone's ass), and hit people with everything he can get his hands on, including a literal kitchen sink. By day, he is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist. By night he's a kink podcaster and educator who has, with his partner (and ADHD squirrel wrangler), Lil' Bit , taught 100+ classes on kink and related topics in-person and virtually for groups nationally and internationally, including Guild of Deviated Standards; Beyond Leather, SouthEast LeatherFest; Indiana Pet, Pup, and Trainer Contest; Planned Parenthood; Sexuality Training Institute; Wicked Grounds; Frolicon; DomCon; FetishCon; Star Trek II: The Wrath of Con and many more. The Rabbi received the 2022 Leather Leadership Conference New Leader Grant and is currently the Marketing Director for KinkSchool.ca a virtual kink education conference. Follow him on FetLife as SINagogueBDSM and find all other social media and podcast at SINagogueBDSM.com.
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She is the Reiki Practitioner & Teacher, Sacred Intimate, and Founder of Reiki Bondage. Meet Rev. Rucifer, who brings together the art of Shibari with the wellness of Reiki to help people find their better selves. She joins HiThereCatsuit in this interview powered by Clips4Sale
About the Rev.
I meet you where you are - without judgement - and with compassionate understanding. Together we can walk on the path along your healing journey.
Reiki can help balance the physical body and electromagnetic and subtle energy fields in and around the body. It is intelligent, self-organizing and cumulative in its benefits.
In August of 2018, I began my exploration into Shibari rope bondage and immediately took to it as it mirrored a similar frequency of connection, intimacy and presence. As these modalities continue to meld, I am constantly surprised by how reiki shows up to support life and healing. -
She comes from the learning tree of legends like Tara Indiana and Sanctuary LAX, and now in her home of the Pacific Northwest, Miss Stella Liberty is a leader in Domination, Content Creation, Foot Content and now, a whole new way to watch fetish. Her conversation with HiThereCatsuit is powered by Clips4Sale.
Here is Miss Stella's Bio:
Miss Stella Liberty is a Pro Domme, fetish content creator and cam model known for her perfect feet, seductive performances, and verbal creativity.
With a strong online presence across a multitude of adult platforms, Miss Stella excels at producing custom content for her fans. Her expertise includes foot fetish, Femdom, height humiliation, leather, full-feminization, rope bondage, and giantess. In addition to her digital content, Stella offers exclusive in-person training, specializing in full-feminization and predicament rope bondage experiences.
Beyond her digital persona as a Fetish MILF and Femdom Boss, Stella is a nature lover, nurturing her urban farm with the same passion she applies to her craft. The continued success of her Femdom Empire allowed her to relocate in 2021 from Southern California to the Pacific Northwest to build the garden of her dreams. She lives with her sub Candi Cumdump, partner Jett Jangles and three dogs near Portland, Oregon.
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She brings the movement of the dance even when every motion is restricted, Meet Portia Everly in this very fun interview from Fetishcon where there is something definitely going on during the conversation. Our show is powered by Clips4Sale.
Here is what Portia says about herself:
I love all things tight, slinky and wet.All Bondage, all things water, and the two together are my happiest place of all! I am an exhibitionist at heart, a former professional dancer, and a contortionist wannabe.I bring all of my experience, old and new, to the art I create with photographers and content producers. The creative process of bringing a vision to life is something I missed from past days as a dancer. I am so excited to have found a fun and juicy venue to bring out my creativity again!Thank you for being a part of my journey as I learn and explore all the kinks!
Special Thanks to HelpSophia and K9Blitz for the fun!
You can follow Portia here: https://linktr.ee/portiaeverly
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From Fetishcon 2024, we are treated to a Behind the Scenes interview with the Queen of Kink Transformation, Ami Mercury as she prepares for the Superheroine Showdown where she will play MojoJojo as the main villain. She shares her love of her art and how she got into doing kink as characters.
Ami Mercury is a fetish model and has been in the adult industry for over a decade. She specializes in monster and transformation fetish, where she uses her love of cosplay and creature design to turn herself into a variety of monstrous characters. She finds her transformations to be more than just an erotic experience, but also a therapeutic one. She hopes that others can find comfort and identity in her creations, as well.
You can find her on Twitter: @amimercury
Her website: amimercury.com
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Blueberry Sage: The Latex Apocalyptic Gardener
It's the incredible story of Blueberry Sage, who has created a world on Instagram and YouTube of a post-apocalyptic world spent in Latex in the garden, building computers and more. But the real story of this remarkable human is so much more interesting and this show comes with a most surprising ending. Make sure you watch till the end!
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Madalynn Raye: A Raye of Awesomeness
She is the fetish model that may be among the kindest we know. Meet one who understands the sensation of nylon and lycra, the Award Nominated Madalynn Raye, whose charm will capture you in so many ways.
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