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Ever feel like you're the only one wrestling with hard questions in marriage? 😥 You’re not. In this raw and unfiltered Q&A from our most recent EROS Marriage Weekend in Columbus, we dive into the stuff that usually stays in the shadows—awkward sex talks with teens, grief masked as irritability, emotional shutdowns, and why initiating intimacy can feel impossible after trauma.
What if naming the hard stuff is the first step toward healing it? Could learning a new emotional language change the way you connect? Tune in for real questions from real couples—and honest answers we all need to hear.
Resources:
🎟️ Don’t miss your chance to join us at the FINAL EROS ever—happening Sept 12–13 in Nashville!
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🎯 What if the greatest threat to your marriage wasn’t another person… but a habit hidden in plain sight? Hear Adam pull back the curtain on a devastating epidemic affecting 7 out of 10 Christian men—pornography. It’s not just a “struggle,” it’s a brain-altering, soul-crushing addiction that thrives in secrecy.
So why can’t good men with strong willpower just stop? And how do they actually start to heal? This episode dives into the real reasons men get stuck—and how they can finally get free.
Curious about the science behind porn addiction? Wondering what true healing looks like? Don’t miss the conversation—and don’t go it alone.
If you (or someone you love) are one of the men currently fighting this battle, we have a life-altering opportunity for you: Adam is leading a 6-week Porn Recovery Group starting June 18th, meeting Wednesdays from 11am–12:30pm PST (through July 23rd). This focus group of 6-10 men is designed to give you practical tools that will help you not only find recovery—but stay in recovery. Heal the past. Win the present. Build a future that addiction can’t survive in.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
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See Men’s Recovery Group Testimonials Here!
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Ever feel like you’re doing everything and thinking about everything—and no one even notices? 👀💬 Or maybe you're the husband who’s wondering, “Why isn’t my help enough?”
In this eye-opening conversation with psychologist and author Dr. Morgan Cutlip, we unpack the invisible weight that’s quietly crushing connection in so many marriages. Discover why the mental load isn’t just about chores—and how sharing it could be the secret to deeper intimacy and better sex.
Could the way you're managing the everyday be pulling you apart? What would it look like to finally feel like you're on the same team again?
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
A Better Share by Dr. Morgan Cutlip
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Previous Episodes w/ Dr. Cutlip
Our Beef with SELF CARE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000626057962
The Sex Standoff
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000493766715
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Ever feel like you're grinding hard but still going nowhere fast? 🚀This episode is for anyone who's ever asked, “Will I ever make a difference?” Adam and Karissa get raw about one of their most humbling seasons—single-bedroom-living, weed-whacking-in-the-heat, tears-outside-a-gas-station kind of raw.
But in the midst of that, something shifted: belief. They unpack how changing your inner dialogue could be the most powerful move you make toward a better future. Are you stuck because you’re failing—or because you’ve actually succeeded and thought that was your ceiling? What if this is just the floor of your next level?
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
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🎈Ever wonder what makes a child feel deeply known, safe, and joyful—not just in the moment, but for life?
This episode explores the power of delight in parenting and how tiny moments of joy can quietly shape your child's sense of identity, emotional health, and their view of God. From bath bombs to sticky note lunchbox quotes, we unpack how delight isn’t spoiling—it’s soul-building.
What do your kids think makes your eyes light up? Do they feel enjoyed or just... managed? 💭 Listen in for real stories, practical tips, and questions you can ask your kids tonight at dinner.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
Attachment Theory by John Bowlby
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❤️🩹 When trust shatters, rebuilding isn’t about rushing to forgiveness—it’s about slow, relentless pursuit. In this episode, we unpack what it actually takes to rebuild trust after betrayal, and why “just moving on” doesn’t work.
What does a betrayed spouse truly need to feel safe again? And how can the one who broke the trust stay present in the pain without getting defensive or giving up? If you're in the thick of repair—or know someone who is—this conversation offers real hope and tangible steps forward.
Are you showing up—or just showing off? Can you name the pain, or are you trying to avoid it? Let’s talk.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
80 Healing Questions for Broken Trust (FREE PDF)
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/BrokenTrustQuestions
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📲 What if the very screens that entertain your kids are sabotaging their character—and your authority as a parent?
In this jaw-dropping episode, Dr. Leonard Sax joins Adam and Karissa to expose the shocking truth behind the culture of disrespect dominating today’s youth. From the dopamine addiction of TikTok to the dangers of AI girlfriends and porn-fueled expectations, Dr. Sax shares the science—and the soul—behind why kids are spiraling and what parents must do to turn the tide.
Why are girls abandoning boys in record numbers? How is screen time sabotaging family connection? And what does it really take to raise respectful, resilient kids in today’s chaos? What changes are you ready to make in your home? How are you modeling respect to your kids? Let’s talk.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
Why Gender Matters by Dr. Leonard Sax
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Girls on the Edge by Dr. Leonard Sax
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Boys Adrift by Dr. Leonard Sax
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The Collapse of Parenting by Dr. Leonard Sax
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What if one conversation could save your future marriage from years of pain? 💭 Hear Adam and Karissa uncover why premarital counseling is so much more than a checkbox.
It’s not therapy-speak or couch confessions—it’s strategy, clarity, and tools you’ll actually use when life gets real. Think: reusable, confidence-building recipes for communication, conflict, and connection.
They’ll unpack five make-or-break conversations couples often ignore... until it’s too late. So ask yourself: Do we know how to fight fair? Are we headed in the same direction? Or are we just hoping love will be enough? ❤️🔥
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
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You’re planning a wedding—but are you preparing for a marriage? Hear Adam and Karissa pull back the curtain on three major blind spots that engaged couples often overlook. Why does communication seem so easy before the vows—but crash and burn after? What if marriage wasn’t designed to make you happy... but holy? And how do love and respect actually work when you're frustrated, not infatuated?
Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or have been in the game for years, this episode will challenge what you think you know about marriage and inspire you to build something stronger, deeper, and more Christ-like.
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You’ve heard the phrase “when you know, you know”—but is love alone really enough to build a lasting marriage? 💭
In this episode, we’re diving into the 10 essential conversations every couple should have before they say “I do.” From spiritual alignment and family dynamics to sex, conflict, and forgiveness, these aren’t fluffy questions—they’re the deep, sometimes awkward, always necessary topics that shape your future together.
Are you just planning for your wedding, or are you preparing for your marriage? Grab your fiancé (or send this to someone who’s engaged) and start asking the real questions today.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
💬 Download the free conversation guide PDF mentioned in this episode: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/MustHaveConversationsBeforeMarriage
📝 Take the Love Languages quiz: 5lovelanguages.com
🧠 Take the 16 Personalities assessment: 16personalities.com
♥️ prEquipped: The DYMC Premarital Course: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/prequipped
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Is praying together awkward? Do you struggle to make Bible reading a “we” thing instead of just a “me” thing? If your Bible is collecting more dust than highlighters, this episode is for you! 📖 We’re sitting down with Dr. Philip Nation—pastor, author, and VP at Thomas Nelson Bibles—to talk about why spiritual habits in marriage so often stall out and how to build rhythms that actually bring life.
Dr. Nation shares practical wisdom on creating spiritual intimacy with your spouse, moving past the pressure to “lead perfectly,” and how to make your faith a daily, shared experience. Don't miss this conversation—it could be the key to transforming your marriage from spiritually stagnant to spiritually thriving.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
The Open Bible - 50th Anniversary Edition
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Habits for our Holiness by Philip Nation
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Spiritual Leadership by J. Oswald Sanders
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Humility by Andrew Murray
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What happens when you have everything you’ve ever wanted—yet you still feel empty? In this powerful conversation, Pastor Cortt Chavis shares his deeply personal journey through trauma, depression, and the unexpected road to healing. He opens up about childhood wounds, battles with unforgiveness, and the moment he realized that retribution would never bring peace.
If you've ever felt unseen, if you've wrestled with unspoken pain, or if you’ve struggled to understand why you're not okay even when life is good—this episode is for you.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
How to Win Friends and Influence People
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The Bait of Satan
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The Center for Apostolic Counseling
https://www.apostoliccounseling.org/
Wild at Heart
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Captivating
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The Traveler’s Gift
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Relational Intelligence
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Boundaries
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*disclaimer* This episode includes discussions on pleasure and anatomy. If you’re not comfortable with your little ones hearing these details, consider popping in your headphones or saving it for a private moment.
Most couples struggling with mismatched sex drives think the problem is obvious—one person wants it more, and the other wants it less. But what if that’s not actually the issue? 🤯
Let’s sit down with Dan Purcell, founder of Get Your Marriage On, to uncover the hidden dynamics behind sex drive differences. What if the real issue isn’t desire, but something deeper? And what if understanding this could transform not just your intimacy but your entire marriage?
Listen in as we tackle the unspoken truths, the role of female pleasure, and what makes a marriage truly thrive.
Resources:
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13!
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
Previous Episode with Dan Purcell
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000553295587
Connect with Dan Purcell
https://getyourmarriageon.com/
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Feeling stuck in a cycle of closeness and withdrawal? 🌀 In this episode, Adam and Karissa reveal why your spouse may pull away—even when things are going well—and share 5 steps to build lasting emotional security. ♥️ Don't miss this game-changing advice for deeper connection!
We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now!
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
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Let's into a live Q&A session recorded at the EROS Marriage Weekend in Heath, Ohio! 🎙️ Adam and Karissa answered real questions from couples about love languages, navigating mismatched desires, and navigating sexual trauma and dysfunction in childhood. They even addressed ways for wives to avoid going into "mom mode" on their hubbies. 🤪
📚 Resources Mentioned:
Truth Book Co – Thoughtful books for kids and adults that celebrate God's design.
https://linktr.ee/truthbookco
Monthly Live Date Night – Join Adam and Karissa for in-depth conversations on building stronger marriages.
https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/monthlylivedatenight
EROS in Nashville – Don’t miss the next EROS Marriage Weekend in Nashville, TN, on September 12-13, 2025.
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
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Stress doesn’t have to tear your marriage apart! 🤯 The way you and your spouse handle stress is likely different, and without understanding those differences, it can create tension. In this episode, we unpack the three stress styles—fighter, fleer, and freezer—so you can identify yours and learn how to work through stress as a team. Plus, we share a simple tool to help you stop stress from escalating. Ready to handle stress better together? Tune in!
Resources:
We had a fabulous time at EROS in Ohio this past weekend! Join us in Nashville, TN September 12-13. 🥳
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
Register for Monthly Live Date Night on 3.28 ♥️
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Are old survival habits silently sabotaging your marriage? 🤯 Dr. Dan Allender joins us to unpack why even the smallest conflicts—like a baked potato debate—often stem from something much deeper. We dive into how past wounds shape present struggles, why marriage is meant to reveal both our best and worst, and how to move from good to great connection. 💛
Resources:
EROS is just a few days away! Are you in the Columbus, OH area? Register now!
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
Deep Rooted Marriage by Dan Allender
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Another episode with Dan Allender: Healing the Wounded Heart
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000536138064
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💭 What do you do when cultural differences clash in your marriage? Or when postpartum challenges put intimacy on pause? In this LIVE recording from the EROS Marriage Weekend, Adam and Karissa tackle real questions from couples and share practical tools to strengthen your connection.
You’ll hear about creative ways to initiate intimacy (hello, candle system 🕯️), navigating emotional differences shaped by upbringing, and the power of non-demand touching. Adam and Karissa also talk about how simple, daily acts of thoughtfulness can completely transform your relationship.
Want to add more fun to your intimate life? Check out the SENSATIONS card deck for creative ideas to connect. - designed to help you prioritize intimacy and keep the spark alive 🔥
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🎉 Near Columbus, OH? Join us for the next EROS Marriage Weekend on February 28–March 1! It’s your chance to dive deeper, ask your questions live, and invest in your marriage.
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
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We’re back this week with another round of anonymous questions from our live text line at the EROS Marriage Weekend! So many thoughtful, heartfelt, and vulnerable questions came in that we couldn’t address them all during the event—so we’re tackling them here on the podcast!
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We’re keeping it real, unfiltered, and packed with practical wisdom to help you and your spouse grow together. And this is just part 3—so if you missed the others, go back and catch up!
♥️ Join Us at EROS 2025!
The EROS Marriage Weekend is where couples come to strengthen their bond, navigate tough conversations, and deepen their intimacy. Don’t miss your chance to be part of this transformative experience in 2025!
📍 Columbus, OH: February 28-March 1
📍 Nashville, TN: September 12-13
🎟️ Register now to secure your spot: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
Song of Solomon Greeting Cards 💘
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We’re back this week with another round of anonymous questions from our live text line at the EROS Marriage Weekend! There were so many insightful, heartfelt, and spicy questions that we couldn’t get to them all during the event—so we’re answering them here on the podcast!
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We’re keeping it honest, unfiltered, and packed with practical wisdom to help you and your spouse grow stronger together. And this is just part 2—part 3 is coming next week!
♥️ Join Us at EROS 2025!
The EROS Marriage Weekend is where couples come to strengthen their bond, navigate tough conversations, and reignite intimacy. Don’t miss your chance to be part of this life-changing experience in 2025!
📍 Columbus, OH: February 28-March 1
📍 Nashville, TN: September 12-13
🎟️ Register now to secure your spot: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros
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