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In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara share their transformative experiences at a festival (OZORA) in Europe, where Chiara’s boobs in particular had many adventures :).
They discuss the concept of Openness, the importance of curiosity, and what it means to feel comfortable in your own body, opening the doors to a profound sense of freedom and connection.
They highlight the contrast between people who are “open” and willing to share (their stories and themselves), vs. those who are more reserved, as a way to learn how to overcome fears, setting boundaries, and building trust in relationships.
The whole conversation is an amazing metaphor for how life can be lived.
As all our episodes, this one too is filled with personal anecdotes and insights into how openness can lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling life.
!! Don’t miss our book recommendation at the end !!
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Our fav summer reading: “Wild Nights” by David Deida
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TIME STAMPS
01:36 We Are On A Mission To Help People Open Up
03:08 OZORA: Our Psytrance Festival Experience in Europe
03:55 Lesson #1: Openness + Nakedness = Freedom
07:19 Lesson #2: The Purity Of Being Naked
08:59 Goodbye Boobs!
09:29 Feeling Comfortable vs. Feeling Confident
10:27 It's Not About You, It's About Them
11:43 A Triangle Of Love And Bodies In A Fairy Tale
13:43 Dancing Topless On Your Shoulders
15:12 Naked Does Not Equal P0rnographic
16:20 Fun Fact: Unexpected Car Mayhem And How Will Kept His Cool
20:19 5,000 Heart Stickers To Spread Love
21:45 You Gotta Overcome The Fear To Love
22:41 Our Fav Summer Reading: Wild Nights
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF certified professional Intimacy Coach with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and become truly "comfortable" rather than just "confident", so they can embark on more intimate and sensual adventures.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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In this episode of Deeper Sex, we delve into the importance of communication in enhancing sexual relationships.
Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on initiating open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with partners.
As always we want to emphasise on creating a safe space for vulnerability, avoiding blame, and using various methods like scheduled talks, emails, and listening to shared content.
We also discuss overcoming fears and the transformative power that honest and empathetic communication can bring to relationships.
This is super useful, don't skip this episode!
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02:37 Who we are and why we are telling you this
04:05 What you will learn today
04:45 This is for you if...
08:20 Deconditioning
09:52 Who has this fantasy?!
13:00 Tip 1: Let it flow
14:31 Tip 2: Don't blame
16:10 Creating a safe space to talk with your partner
18:07 It's sexy to shamelessly ask for what you need
19:14 Tip 3: Choose the "right" time for a conversation
20:23 Tip 4: Listen to content together
21:36 Ever talked about your partner's cervix?!
24:52 Tip 5: "Please can you help me to understand..."
26:48 Tip 6: Show that you're listening
28:21 Tip 7: Have an "exploratory" vs. a "decision-oriented" conversation
29:36 Tip 8: Write sexy emails to each other
34:37 Sexy time or no sexy time?
36:47 When in doubt, say what's on your mind!
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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Puuttuva jakso?
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In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara answer some of the most common questions they get form clients and listeners about improving their sex life and intimacy.
We go from dealing with lack of sexual desire to the risks of opening a relationship, tackling jealousy, trust, male/female dynamics, same sex and group play.
All the answers provided are based on real life personal experiences as well as patterns observed when coaching clients.
Do you have a question too? DM us on Instagram!
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>> Mentioned Link to episode 02: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify to learn how exploring sex with others has strengthened our relationship
>> Mentioned Link to episode 10: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify to learn more about Chiara’s first and only experience as a Unicorn
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01:42 Let's Answer Your Questions Live: Relationship Dynamics
02:54 Q1. My Partner Does Not Feel Like Having Sex With Me: Should I Open My Relationship?
04:06 The Risks of Opening a Relationship
05:53 You Gotta Build Trust and Communication
07:54 How To Explore Non-Monogamy Safely
09:18 Q2. How Do I Know If My Partner Is Into Kink?
12:47 Q3. I am So Jealous! How Do I Deal With Jealousy?
16:56 "Can I Kiss Him...?" - Play This Game
25:23 How To Navigate Relationship Insecurities
26:36 Embracing Jealousy Can Keep You Safe
27:48 Your Body Knows and We Have All The Answers Inside
28:53 The Importance of Respect and Boundaries in Non-Monogamy... and in Monogamy Too!
30:41 How To Communicate Clearly and Gain/Give Trust in Relationships
33:51 Q4. Am I Bi-Curious?
40:35 Q5. How Can A Man Have Sex When Another Man is Present?
42:22 Let's Explore Male Energy and Group Play Dynamics
45:25 Sexual Conditioning: What It Is (Not) Doing For You
46:41 Open Conversations Lead To Heavenly Bliss
47:31 Get In Touch
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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Today we are exploring more fantasies…
Have you dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication.
In this episode, we share another intimate experience where we pushed our sexual boundaries further than ever before: Will is away on an expedition, but agrees to “lend” Chiara for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband…
He talks vulnerably about his internal struggle between a positively erotic idea and the negative social conditioning around masculinity and ownership that would mark this as “wrong”.
He also explains the strong bond he created with Allie’s man, the complete trust and clear communication that they have, highlighting the significance of male, brotherly energy and trust.
Our goal in sharing this story is to show you what’s possible when the bond in a couple is so strong, and complete trust has been achieved: we would have not been able to do this before our sexual deconditioning journey began!
We want to inspire others to embrace sexual liberation by learning communication, vulnerability and fun in a relationship.
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00:00 A Charged Night on a Cold Mountain
01:32 A Our Goal For Today’s Episode
02:44 The Unicorn Experience
02:57 What Is A Unicorn
04:29 A Bold Experiment: Lending My Girl for a Night
04:29 The Caving Expedition
05:05 An Unforgettable Night
06:02 The Sexy Shenanigans Begin
08:28 No Panties Date!
10:11 A Buffet Of Toys
12:03 A Wild Night On Top Of A Mountain
13:01 Reflections and Revelations: The Aftermath of an Erotic Adventure
14:06 Allie's Experience
14:23 What The Depth Of A Strong Bond Can Bring
15:12 The Potential Risks Of Damaging Relationships
15:56 Chiara's Side: What It Feels Like To Be A Unicorn
16:32 Your Husband Made Me Feel So Safe I Could Relax
17:22 The Mind Battling With Conditioning
18:36 Don’t Fuck It Up
21:10 Will's Takeaways
22:43 You Need A Healthy Balance
24:05 Testing Boundaries: Now We Know What We CAN do
24:58 Why We Do This
27:15 Your Husband Is A Honorable Man
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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What is “The Lifestyle” with capital L? Who are “Vanilla Friends”? Should you tell them that you are curious and “Spicy”? We discuss all this and more in this very raw, honest and heartfelt episode of Deeper Sex.
While we could not wish for deeper connections and the personal growth that we gained from diving into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), we have also discovered how many common misconceptions most people (including our old selves) have about it, and we address the careful communication that is required to avoid fu**ing up friendships and relationships.
The hosts Allie, Will and Chiara share personal anecdotes about assessing friends' readiness to hear about alternative sexual experiences, emphasizing the importance of respecting friends’ boundaries. They also discuss the delicate balance between potential risks and rewards of dragging vanilla friends into their s*x play.
Our objective is, as always, to demystify society’s misconceptions, promote open mindedness and sexual liberation: this is the secret recipe to a great sex life!
If you’re looking for practical advice on how to navigate conversations about your curiosity, interest and/or participation in non-monogamy, this is it!
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01:12 Let’s Explore Alternative S*xual Lifestyles
03:45 Being Open: The Struggle Is Real!
05:52 Maintaining Friendships While Being Your Authentic True Self
07:14 A Journey to Acceptance + Finding Like-Minded Friends
08:01 The Challenges of Mixing Vanilla and Spicy Worlds
08:40 Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) and Swinging: A Liberating Experience
18:43 Deep Emotional Bonds and Deeper Trust
20:55 When "Coming Out" Can Be a Challenge
25:58 Is the Lifestyle and ENM Superficial?
27:26 What “Normal” People Think Of the Lifestyle: The Misconceptions We Didn’t Expect
29:06 Our Podcast’s Mission
29:50 Aren't You Jealous...?
32:52 Trusting Yourself and Your Partner
37:03 Should I Drag Friends Into This?
38:43 Have S*x With Friends: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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Join Will and Chiara live from the podcast bed this weekend in Berlin, the latest stop on their sexy European tour 2024. We check out some new kinky corners of the city’s vibrant underground scene – from a sophisticated penthouse swingers party to wild nights making new friends in sex-positive clubs for beautiful, soft connections.
We reflect on how mood and atmosphere can make or break a night – and how pausing to set intentions can be a total game changer.
Whether you’re in a monogamous or ENM relationship, or venturing into this world as a single dude/dudette, you’ll get plenty of useful tips on how you can get curious and push your sexy boundaries in a safe space.
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>> Link to episode on Body Image (04) and how to become “comfortable in your own body”: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify
>> Link to episode on Sensuality and Soft Touch as a way to connect deeper with your partner (07): Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify
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01:21 Live Streaming From Berlin
02:02 An Unexpected Penthouse Swingers Party
05:38 Night N. 1: Our First Visit To Insomnia - A Hedonistic Lifestyle Club
12:41 How To Safely Connect With A Woman Without Being Intrusive
19:01 Night N. 2: KitKat Club
19:59 How You Perceive Your Own Body Heavily Impacts Your Experience
20:32 Choosing the Perfect Outfit
21:00 KitKat Club: Getting In
22:10 People Watching at KitKat
23:45 How Setting An Intentions Can 100x Your Night
24:29 More Female Energy Please!
25:45 Dancing and Making Connections
26:23 A Sensual Experience
27:15 Holding Hands and Making Friends
32:02 Exploring Boundaries
33:27 A Blowjob On The Dancefloor's Podium
34:45 Unexpected Scenes
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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In this episode we discuss the transformative power of sensuality and soft touch to enhance sexual experiences.
Will describes his birthday surprise, when he was blindfolded and treated to an erotic experience, not knowing who or how many women were touching him…
We explore how to be present with sensations, how to drop into receiving touch, and what happens when we remove goal-oriented thinking from intimate situations.
We also give you a glimpse behind the scenes at our signature Sensuality Workshop, where couples and individuals learn to connect more deeply using intentional touch and presence.
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01:42 Beyond Sex As “The Goal”
02:36 Introducing Our Signature Sensuality Workshop
03:42 Will's Sensual Birthday Surprise
11:56 The Dom/Sub Relationship Parallel
14:05 Mindfulness in Sex and Sensuality
16:23 Learning To Receive Touch as a Man: Vulnerability and Masculinity
20:58 Exploring Sensuality Beyond the Bedroom
21:29 Inside Our Sensuality & Soft Touch Signature Workshop: What to Expect
21:51 Sensuality versus Sexuality
23:17 “Eye Candy”: Sensual Energy Beyond Touch
25:45 “Mind Candy”: Fantasies and Sexy Talk
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment.
Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them.
In this super-sexy episode, we made ourselves vulnerable by sharing with each other some fantasies that we had never revealed before. We explore what makes it hard to express desires that our conditioning labels weird or dirty. We reflect on how liberating it feels to take that leap of faith and be rewarded with love (and sexy opportunity!).
You’ll hear about public sex in kinky clubs, blindfolds and restraints, anonymous touch, and playing with multiple people. Perhaps, listening to us might inspire you or trigger a spicy conversation with your partner...
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01:17 Exploring The Unspoken Desires
03:25 The Allure and Limits of Fantasies
04:01 The Fantasy Of Being Taken…
05:02 It's Shameful to Express Sexual Fantasies… NOT!
05:51 Conditioning of Female Sexuality: Why Can't I Be A Slut??
07:28 Embracing and Expressing Fantasies: Playing Within a Group
09:00 70 Virgins or 7 Sluts?
11:35 We All Have A Masculine And Feminine Side
15:44 It's Important For A Woman To Feel Respected And In Control
16:02 Anonymous Sex In A Club Anyone?
16:41 Another Spicy Fantasy: Tying a Woman up to a Pole in a Club
19:03 When Fantasies Become Real: Experience a Sex Positive Club!
24:09 The Power of Eye Contact in Erotic Spaces
25:44 10 Men Watching??
26:35 Voicing Your Fantasy Will Set You Free
28:10 Recap of Today’s Top 4 Learnings
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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It’s the Origin Stories episode! Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of our lives.
We explain how we “fell” into non-monogamy, survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus.
Hear spicy stories about our first experiences with group sex and how we learned to communicate, trust and stand up for ourselves.
Perhaps you can’t picture yourself in an Eyes-Wide-Shut sex party, and that’s fine – we’re not kink evangelists! We use stories from the fruity end of the spectrum to explore ideas that can empower everybody – singles and monogamous folks included.
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01:14 Introduction to The Episode
02:27 You Should Listen If...
02:51 Will's Journey: From Vanilla to Exploration
05:21 Finding Freedom and Rebirth through Love and Exploration
06:04 Chiara’s Transformation: from Catholic Roots to Kissing a Woman (!)
08:57 From Fantasy To Reality
10:56 Communicate Clearly Before Swinging!
12:52 “Sexperts” Night
14:40 Fun4Two: Our First Swingers Club
15:39 The Dark Room
18:29 "The Hot Tub Lady" Encounter
21:21 I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It
25:11 Allie's Life Adventure: from Small Town Girl to Adventurous Sex Lover
28:08 If We Cheat We Cheat Together
29:29 The Sexy Castle Adventure... Attempt
33:14 Sorry - I Already Came!
34:30 Swinging CAN Strengthen Relationships
39:59 How Swinging Environments Can Gift Body Confidence
41:24 How to Navigate the Swinging Scene
43:25 Is Swinging for Me?
45:44 Keeping the Spark Alive
51:02 The Hot Tub Story: The Good, The Bad And The Ugly
51:45 No Condom Asked
55:23 What We Learnt From Our Mistakes At Our First Swingers Club
56:19 Be Open! (To Listen AND To Communicate)
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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Today’s episode is all about a very common problem for both men and women: body image.
You’ll hear how negative perceptions can impact intimacy and relationships, and how healing and personal growth can transform your sex life and deepen your relationship.
Women in particular often feel negatively about their appearance due to societal standards, so Chiara vulnerably shares her journey to overcome shame that her boobs were “too big”, and then “scarred”. We explore how the lens of positive self-perception can boost sexual confidence: deeper sexiness comes from feeling confident and comfortable in one's skin, rather than conforming to external beauty standards.
For those that might be curious, you’ll also hear how non-monogamy and swinging can be platforms for receiving genuine feedback from others that don’t necessarily have a vested interest in just giving you a compliment - like a husband or friend would do.
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01:13 Body Confidence for Better Intimacy
01:19 Body Image and Self-Perception: “my boobs are too big!”
02:09 The Impact that Body Image Can Have on Intimacy
02:26 Overcoming Body Image Issues
02:29 The Role of Mindset in Sensuality
03:41 The Influence of Media on Body Image
04:06 The Disconnect Between Appearance and Self-Perception
04:53 The Importance of Self-Acceptance
05:37 Redefining Attractiveness
06:17 “Beautiful” Doesn’t Mean “Sexy”: The Impact of Arrogance on Attractiveness
07:12 The Journey to Feeling “Comfortable”, not “Confident”
09:17 How Moderate Physical Activity can Improve Your Body Image Perception
11:04 The Importance of Healthy Eating
12:06 The Power of Positive Self-Perception
12:58 Embracing Your Body is Liberating!
13:51 Chiara's Breast Reduction Experience
13:55 Embrace the Changes in Your Body
19:15 Men's Perspectives on Body Image and Self-Acceptance
21:46 Redefining Sexiness: Beyond the Physical
22:13 The Impact of Confidence and Comfort on Sexiness
28:32 The Importance of Compliments in Relationships
32:11 The Power of Feedback and Self-Acceptance
33:21 The Beauty of Imperfection: Embracing Your Body Post-Childbirth
37:53 The Impact of Physical Appearance on Self-Perception
37:53 The Incredible Impact of Feeling Good on Your Sexual Life
39:13 Practical Tips for Improving Body Image and Confidence
39:59 Positive Self-Talk and Compliments
42:18 Conclusion: Embracing Happiness and Confidence in Your Skin
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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In this special edition which we recorded naked (!!), we cover the differences between transactional sex vs. deeper, more intimate and sensual connections.
We share our personal journey of learning how to shift boundaries in the kinky world that we sometimes play in, and draw lessons for how intimacy and sensuality can supercharge erotic connections in all kinds of relationships.
We talk about how rare it is to find partners who share a similar emphasis on slow, intimate play, and we will provide a few tips on how to communicate intimacy in your relationship, so that you can harness the power of focusing on the present moment to have mind blowing experiences.
01:56 A bold start: we are recording NAKED today!
02:31 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Norm
05:16 Personal Boundaries and Evolving Relationships
07:44 The Power of Sensuality
17:55 The Impact of Trust and Respect in Sensual Encounters
22:48 The Essence of Sensuality: Being Present and Connected with Each Other
30:07 Navigating Safety and Comfort
36:56 Is He Worthy Of You?
38:11 Exploring the Paradox of Intimacy in Swinging
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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In this episode we talk about how non-monogomy can strengthen relationships, contrary to what many people fear. You’ll learn something seemingly counterintuitive: how can adding more “bodies'' into a relationship strengthen a bond?
We unpack concepts like open communication, trust, honest conversations, respecting boundaries, and navigating complex emotions together.
Allie shares how she made her man’s fantasy come true by organizing a surprise birthday party, where he got to play with a bunch of naughty secretaries in his office… While you might get excited by the hot details, this story is actually a great example of how communication and trust made the whole experience even stronger.
We’ll give you the ins and outs of how to prioritize the couple’s intimacy, desire, and mutual pleasure while maintaining a strong emotional connection with each other.
We also talk about: personal growth, how sharing fantasies can help you increase trust, how to communicate that there is something wrong by processing information before making a scene, and how to ask for what you need.
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02:49 Exploring Swinging: Strengthening Relationships Through Shared Experiences
04:18 Allie’s POV
04:18 The Power of Communication and Boundaries in Swinging
04:48 Unleashing Fantasies: The Journey of Sharing and Exploring Together
05:11 Chiara’s POV
06:48 The Best Birthday Present: A Naughty Fantasy Come True
15:56 Will’s POV
21:06 Chiara’s View On Respect
21:13 Navigating Challenges and Emotions in Swinging
26:31 The Importance of Confidence and Teamwork in Swinging
28:59 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Relationship Dynamics
40:36 “We Don’t Need This”
42:59 A Magical Connection When Sharing Pleasure and Intimacy
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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In this first episode we dive deep into the challenges that couples face in maintaining a fulfilling sex life, especially as responsibilities grow and the initial spark fades.
We have a very open and honest discussion about the importance of creating time for intimacy and sensuality - which is not just having “sexual intercourse” as your main goal.
We share our own experiences and learnings, such as how we communicated in tricky situations, how we made ourselves vulnerable and how to create a safe space for each other.
We also discuss how non-monogamy might be an option for some, as a catalyst for deeper connection and exploration beyond what traditional society teaches us.
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02:16 Welcome to Our Sensual Journey
03:07 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Sexual Fulfillment
04:50 The Common Struggle of Maintaining Intimacy
06:46 Prioritizing Your Relationship Amidst a Busy Life
10:50 The Importance of Quality Over Quantity in Sexual Relationships
15:43 Exploring Non-Monogamy and Its Impact on Our Relationship
22:18 The Role of Inner Work in Enhancing Sexual Connection
37:38 Advice for Couples Struggling with Intimacy
39:25 What Actually Worked for Us
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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>> Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”
>> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist
>> Send us your questions and suggestions
>> Follow us on Instagram
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This is a podcast about sex where three sex positive friends - who also happen to be globally accredited coaches - share their own journey through super sexy adventures and incredibly fulfilling sex lives.
By learning how to effectively communicate needs and desires to partners, we unlocked our own sexual energy, and our erotic lives have been completely transformed.
We have seen it all: we have been through marriages, kids, divorces, affairs, heartache, frustration, resentment… So we do know how it feels to be stuck and unfulfilled in a relationship.
But we’ve discovered an amazing new world of possibilities, where you can actually feel safe to fully express yourself sexually, guilt- and shame- free.
No matter if you’re single or coupled up, vanilla or spicy, this is where you’ll find the fuel for your sexy fire.
We believe we’ve found our holy grail. And we hope to inspire you to find yours too.
>> Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”
>> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist
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