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In this week's episode, host Steve, celebrating 1,202 days of sobriety, welcomes back Chad to continue their conversation on sobriety, fitness, and competition after bonding at OutSport's OutVivor event. Chad shares his experiences in various competitions, from marathons to soccer, and how pushing his limits has been a crucial part of his sober journey. He also provides insights into balancing fitness, fun, and personal growth while staying connected to recovery. The conversation delves into both solo and team competitions, how sobriety has transformed their approach to challenges, and the importance of a balanced social life inside and outside of recovery. Chad also reflects on his journey through sports leagues, OutVivor, and the growth he’s experienced from taking part in these events.
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Chad shares how competing against himself, rather than others, fuels his drive.Steve reflects on how pushing his limits in sobriety has transformed his relationship with fitness and competition.The importance of balance: staying active in both recovery and personal fitness goals.Chad's experiences with group sports, including joining sober leagues, and later expanding his circle in non-sober environments.The parallels between training for marathons and staying sober, focusing on taking things one step at a time.Advice for anyone interested in trying a new challenge like a marathon, sports league, or competition.If you’re curious about pushing your limits in sobriety, join Steve and Chad as they explore how competing can be a powerful tool for personal growth.
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Host Steve celebrates 1,195 days of sobriety and welcomes Chad to share his powerful journey. Together, we explore the importance of self-discovery, overcoming toxic relationships, and building a life rooted in recovery and community.
Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,195 days sober and introduces Chad to the show.Starting Early: Chad’s journey to sobriety and the struggles he faced along the way.Overcoming Challenges: From toxic relationships to personal growth, Chad opens up about the hardships he conquered in early recovery.Community & Transformation: Chad’s experiences in sober community activities and how they’ve shaped his recovery.Advice for Newcomers: Chad offers valuable insights and advice for those in early recovery or facing challenges.Looking Ahead: A teaser for a follow-up discussion on competing in fun events in sobriety.Tune in next episode for part two, where we discuss participating in competitions sober.
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In this episode, Sober Steve celebrates 1,186 days of sobriety and welcomes Melinda Dixon, the first member from Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families (ACA) to join the show. Melinda shares her powerful journey toward emotional sobriety, shedding light on how ACA has profoundly shaped her life. The conversation explores the importance of emotional regulation through human connection, the power of community, and the impact of understanding one's core wounds on maintaining healthy relationships. Steve and Melinda also discuss the evolution of their queer identities in sobriety and the pride they’ve found in their unique personal journeys.
- Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,186 days of sobriety and introduces Melinda as the first ACA guest.
- Emotional Sobriety: Melinda’s journey to emotional regulation through connection and ACA meetings.
- Understanding Core Wounds: How this understanding has helped Melinda establish healthy boundaries and relationships.
- Queer Identity in Sobriety: The pride Steve and Melinda have found in their unique queer identities within and apart from the LGBT+ community.
- Self-Care Practices: Exploring the role of gratitude lists, exercise, and fine dining in maintaining recovery.
Tune in for a heartfelt conversation on emotional sobriety, queer identity, and personal growth in recovery, and leave a rating and review to pay it forward for the next person who might find the show!
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Steve welcomes back Dale for part two of their interview to discuss their experiences exploring and embracing leather and kink after entering recovery. Warning- this episode is *very* sexually explicit!
Our experiences (or lack thereof) with leather and kink before entering recovery.Unpacking and getting in touch with our kinks and fetishes in sobriety and step work.Ways the Leather and Kink community and Sober communities intersect, both socially and with their principles of safe, sane, and consensual fun.The importance of communication in sobriety and in leather and kink.Suggestions for getting started if you are new to leather and kink in recovery.And much more!!
Opening Discussion: "How do YOU celebrate your birthdays in recovery?"
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Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,172 days of sobriety and introduces Dale W., who is 205 days back in sobriety, sharing his powerful journey in this first part of a two-part episode.
Dale opens up about his struggles with meth addiction, the isolation he faced, and the joy he found in building connections within the queer community. The conversation delves into overcoming emotional hurdles, finding acceptance, and the critical role of honesty in sobriety. Together, Steve and Dale explore the importance of authentic connections and offer a glimpse into their shared experiences within sober kink communities, which they’ll discuss more in the next episode.
- Dale's Journey: From meth addiction and isolation to finding community and recovery.
- Overcoming Emotional Hurdles: The challenges Dale faced and how he overcame them.
- Building Authentic Connections: The importance of honesty and community in sobriety.
- Sneak Peek: A preview of their upcoming discussion on sober kink communities.
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Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their support, highlighting the new fan mail option before welcoming Jaycee K. Clark, a 34-year-old trans woman, to share her experience, strength, and hope, along with her inspiration for activism today.
Jaycee discusses her past struggles with addiction, her experiences in sex work, and her journey to sobriety. She emphasizes the importance of building connections, overcoming shame, and transforming past traumas into a source of hope and activism. Jaycee also talks about her experiences navigating healthcare and dental work as a recovering addict, offering valuable advice for newcomers on the impermanence of emotions.
- **Celebrating Sobriety:** Steve marks 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their engagement.
- **Listener Impact:** Nick made history as my first text fan mail!
- **Jaycee's Story:** Her journey from addiction to recovery and activism.
- **Overcoming Shame:** Turning past traumas into hope and activism.
- **Navigating Healthcare:** Insights into managing healthcare as a recovering addict.
- **Advice for Newcomers:** The importance of understanding that emotions are temporary.
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In this episode, Sober Steve welcomes Holden, host of The Sober Unicorn podcast and author of 'Hold'N It Down'. Holden shares his journey from addiction to recovery, the impact of his memoir, and the growth he's experienced. They discuss the importance of connection in sobriety and offer advice for those new to recovery.
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In this episode of the 'gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show,' Sober Steve interviews Drake G, who shares his remarkable journey of early sobriety and his transformative experiences within the queer and recovery communities. Drake discusses his past struggles with addiction, mental health, and his path to recovery, emphasizing the importance of community and support in his newfound sobriety.
00:00 Updates and Gratitude
01:53 Meet Drake: Early Sobriety Journey
03:42 Drake's Struggles with Addiction
09:48 Turning Point and Recovery
13:12 Life After Rehab
18:51 Future Plans and Final Thoughts
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Home in Sobriety: An Interview with Ginelle Testa
In this episode of the Queer Sober Hero Show, host Steve interviews Ginellle Testa from Boston, who has been sober for over ten years. They discuss their sobriety journey, the importance of community, and Ginelle's upcoming recovery addiction memoir, Make a Home Out of You.
00:00 Fitness and Sobriety Journey
02:52 Interview with Ginelle Begins
03:22 Ginelle's Road to Recovery
08:10 Challenges and Growth in Sobriety
14:27 Writing and Forgiveness
19:05 Future Aspirations and Community
21:30 Conclusion and Farewell
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In this 201st episode of the Queer Sober Hero Show, host Sober Steve celebrates over 1,132 days of sobriety by answering questions from influential guests who’ve been significant to his podcast and recovery journey. This second part of the 200th episode mailbag extravaganza features Steve reflecting on his transformation, the ongoing battle with alcohol-related thoughts, and the joys of living a sober, authentic life while addressing key questions and providing insights on sobriety and community.
Celebrate by binging past episodes by the amazing guests who asked this week's questions!
Charlie's Episodes:
#23 At Least I'm Not The Frog
#81 Listen To Yourself
#116 The Frog's Bottle
#135 Sexuality
#180 The Frog No More
Christina Hayes Scott:
#194- Unraveling Recovery
Jason R:
#125 Give It Your All
#168 Sex in Recovery
Eric from Sobervation:
#67 Not Afraid
#191 Sobervation
Alex S
#77 You're Not Struggling Alone
#192 Journaling and Community
Brandy Jo
#53 You Get Better
#83 Discovering Your Identity
#104 MarriageSupport the show
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In this milestone episode, host Sober Steve celebrates 200 episodes with a special mailbag Q&A featuring questions from some of our amazing previous guests.
Celebrate by binging past episodes by the amazing guests who asked this week's questions!
Phil's Episodes:
#172- A Change in Perspective
#143- It’s How You Carry It
Elsa's Episodes:
#163 Managing Career in Sobriety
#33 One Day at a Time
Jimmy's Episodes:
#159 Don’t Take Yourself So Seriously
J9's Episodes:
#184- Creating with ADHD
#140- Making Music
#64 Just Start, Don't Stop
Dave from Sober Gay Sunday's Episodes:
#160: Sober Gay Sunday
#97: Sober Travel
#87: Dating Sober
#88: Sex and Communication
#70: I Don't Do That Anymore
Danielle's Episodes:
#155 Sobriety & Recovery
#121 Fearless & Thorough
Also mentioned- Steve's Storyteller Sunday at Church:
#183 Finding My Way Back To God
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Sober Steve celebrates 1,123 days of sobriety by reflecting on a recent pride experience and the value of friendships. He welcomes guest Sam to discuss the journey of overcoming alcoholism and drug addiction, sharing candid stories about choosing sobriety over harmful habits. They delve into the challenges and joys of living authentically in the queer community, redefining personal truths, and cultivating genuine friendships. Key topics include recovery steps, embracing one's true self, dealing with societal expectations, and forming supportive relationships in sobriety. The episode emphasizes acceptance, continuous self-improvement, and the importance of living an authentic life.
00:36 Introduction and Gratitude
04:54 Interview with Sam Begins
10:31 Sam's Journey to Sobriety
22:41 Living Authentically in Sobriety
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Sober Steve Chats with Johnny Bear from Belly Talk on sobriety and bear community wellness
Sober Steve celebrates his 1,117 days sober by sharing his gratitude for the supportive Sarasota community and exciting Pride Month activities. He then interviews Johnny Bear from the Belly Talk podcast, who opens up about his tumultuous journey through addiction, self-discovery, and eventual sobriety. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of remaining sober while being active in social and bear communities, and share advice on building a support network, seeking help, and maintaining daily sobriety practices. Johnny also highlights the importance of authenticity, community support, and promoting wellness within the bear culture. Full of personal insights and inspirational stories, this episode offers encouragement and practical tips for anyone navigating their path to sobriety.
00:00 Introduction and Gratitude
00:50 Interview with Johnny Bear
01:49 Johnny's Journey to Sobriety
04:38 Challenges and Turning Points
12:31 Finding Community and Self-Discovery
16:31 Overcoming Abuse and Seeking Help
21:51 Rebuilding Life and Embracing Sobriety
26:01 Maintaining Sobriety and Community Engagement
31:22 Conclusion and Contact Information
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Sober Steve welcomes Richard to share his experience, strength, and hope with getting sober in the queer community, as well as their philosophy of the 3 T's of Sobriety
Facing TrialsOvercoming TribulationsCelebrating TrumphsDiscovering Self-ConfidenceEvolving in RecoveryAnd much more
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Sober Steve welcomes Jewels and Emily from Swift Steps to discuss their experience navigating sobriety and building a recovery community centered around being a fan of Taylor Swift. (Get it, now?)
Finding A CommunityBuilding A CommunityRedefining RecoveryIdentifying Addictions in Art/MusicMental Health in RecoveryAnd much more
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Sober Steve welcomes Alex from LGBTQ Mindfulness to discuss their experience navigating sobriety in the queer community while living a mindful life.
Mindset TipsFinding A CommunityBuilding A CommunityBeing Around AlcoholBeing Around DrinkersDaily Care PracticesAnd much more
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Earlier this month, Steve had the opportunity to ask his local community, "What Does Diversity Mean to You?"
Find out what it means to the people of Sarasota, live from Diversefest at The Harvest Church on 17th Street.
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Sober Steve welcomes Christina Hayes Scott to discuss the significance of sobriety and holistic recovery.
Recognizing burnoutEmotional regulationFacing challenges like breakups and health scares, Exploring the 12-step program and cross addictions like overeating.
Topics includeChristina shares her personal journey to sobriety, emphasizing the transformative power it holds in dealing with emotions and progressing in life. Both Sober Steve and Christina stress the importance of holistic recovery by addressing underlying issues for a successful sobriety path, alongside promoting nature connection and positive social media presence for support and inspiration.
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Steve shares a bonus audio diary episode about his experiences at this years Florida Roundup, with takeaways such as...
What the heck is a roundup?Not letting travel difficulties impact the experience at your destination.Overcoming social insecurities like judgement and rejection.The positive experiences from workshop and social events on site.Adventuring out for firsts and letting go of "I can't"sStay tuned for our usual episode Thursday!
Want to hear more, check out Instagram- Live on release day or saved afterwards @gayapodcast
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Sober Steve is joined by Alex Sphon to discuss recovering out loud in his community as well as tips and advice for anyone who is sober or sober curious.
**Episode Highlights Include**
- **The Role of Journaling in Recovery:** Alex shares how his journaling has helped him from the beginning of his sobriety journey and continues today.
- **You Say I'm an Alcoholic Like It's A Bad Thing:** Alex shares how recovery out loud has changed his perception and sense of community over the years.
- **Friendships in Recovery** Many people worry about how sobriety changes their friendships and relationships, so Alex and Steve reflect back on how those has changed over the years since getting sober.
- **And Much More! **
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