You need to learn to regulate yourself, your emotions - and to connect with someone else. – Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle – Podcast

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In fact, neither extreme represents the experience of many men. The truth is that many men who have sex with men aren't gay or even bisexual
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
To assume that men who have sex with men are "in denial" and need help to recognize and accept their "true" homosexual orientation. In fact
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
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During the last three decades, in reaction to prejudiced and destructive anti-gay attitudes, we've seen the pendulum swing so far
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
Gone to gay porn websites, he insists that he isn't gay. He says that he isn't homophobic either; if it turns out that he is indeed gay/Bi
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
He explains that his therapist has tried, unsuccessfully, to help him come out as gay or bisexual, but even though he's had sex with MEN
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
The following scenario happens many times: A man comes into my office, referred by his own therapist and clutching the coming-out literature
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
HOT TEA: Why might a straight man be romantically or sexually attracted to other men? Why did the straight guy in the video kiss the gay guy
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
In that post I addressed why gay men might be attracted to straight men, but that question raises another: Why might a straight man be roman
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
Steve Grand's song "All-American Boy," in which a gay man falls in love with a straight man and they share a quick kiss.
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
Although their mental and emotional state resembles that of the initial stages of coming out, gay and bisexual men go on to develop a
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
Sex workers bisexuality Why Some Straight Men Are Romantically or Sexually Attracted to Other Men Many men who have sex with men aren't gay
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
Safety and co regulation can still be full of passion and excitement - just, potentially, without the jail sentences.
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
You need to learn to regulate yourself, your emotions - and to connect with someone else.
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
You don’t need to fight or chase love. It doesn’t need to be full of chemical hits. You need to learn to regulate yourself, your emotions -
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
Why is this? Because to get to close that true emotional intimacy is terrifying if we haven't experienced it in our parental relationships.
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
If your childhood has taught you disconnection and neglect, and you find yourself attracted to men that aren’t going to get too close to you
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
Often when we are attracted to emotionally unavailable partners and bad bad boys, it points to a potential emotional unavailability within o
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
THE TRUST: neglect you experienced as a child has led you to repeat these patterns - chasing love, working for it, and not just expecting it
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
PHD: you may have been brought up by a dysfunctional family, where there were absent or erratic caregivers. It is likely that the dysfunctio
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
If the above sounds all too familiar to you, it is likely that this type of behaviour was normalised to you during your childhood
6 marras 2022· Les_Immatures_Said_Hallo_Thug_Lifestyle
- Kuuntele Kuuntele uudestaan Jatka Soittaa...
- Kuuntele myöhemmin Kuuntele myöhemmin
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Episodit

In fact, neither extreme represents the experience of many men. The truth is that many men who have sex with men aren't gay or even bisexual

To assume that men who have sex with men are "in denial" and need help to recognize and accept their "true" homosexual orientation. In fact

During the last three decades, in reaction to prejudiced and destructive anti-gay attitudes, we've seen the pendulum swing so far

Gone to gay porn websites, he insists that he isn't gay. He says that he isn't homophobic either; if it turns out that he is indeed gay/Bi

He explains that his therapist has tried, unsuccessfully, to help him come out as gay or bisexual, but even though he's had sex with MEN

The following scenario happens many times: A man comes into my office, referred by his own therapist and clutching the coming-out literature

HOT TEA: Why might a straight man be romantically or sexually attracted to other men? Why did the straight guy in the video kiss the gay guy

In that post I addressed why gay men might be attracted to straight men, but that question raises another: Why might a straight man be roman

Steve Grand's song "All-American Boy," in which a gay man falls in love with a straight man and they share a quick kiss.

Although their mental and emotional state resembles that of the initial stages of coming out, gay and bisexual men go on to develop a

Sex workers bisexuality Why Some Straight Men Are Romantically or Sexually Attracted to Other Men Many men who have sex with men aren't gay

Safety and co regulation can still be full of passion and excitement - just, potentially, without the jail sentences.

You need to learn to regulate yourself, your emotions - and to connect with someone else.

You don’t need to fight or chase love. It doesn’t need to be full of chemical hits. You need to learn to regulate yourself, your emotions -

Why is this? Because to get to close that true emotional intimacy is terrifying if we haven't experienced it in our parental relationships.

If your childhood has taught you disconnection and neglect, and you find yourself attracted to men that aren’t going to get too close to you

Often when we are attracted to emotionally unavailable partners and bad bad boys, it points to a potential emotional unavailability within o

THE TRUST: neglect you experienced as a child has led you to repeat these patterns - chasing love, working for it, and not just expecting it

PHD: you may have been brought up by a dysfunctional family, where there were absent or erratic caregivers. It is likely that the dysfunctio

If the above sounds all too familiar to you, it is likely that this type of behaviour was normalised to you during your childhood