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  • Have you ever read a book to your kids and been so disappointed by how uninspired the story is? Or how half-baked the visuals are? Or how poor the grammar is? Same. That's why when you come across the truly great ones, you elevate them and celebrate them. Maine author and illustrator (and father of two) Chris Van Dusen joins us to share about all that goes into creating purposeful, high quality children's literature.

    Episode 115 of Modern Dadhood is our holiday episode. The guys open with a discussion about The Clement Moore classic "'Twas The Night Before Christmas" and debate the merits of modifying classic material in the public domain before transitioning to their conversation with author, illustrator, and father of two, Chris Van Dusen. Chris shares his story of coming up in the art world, and the path that led him to writing and illustrating classic kids books such as Circus Ship, the Mr. Magee series, and the If I Built series as well as illustrating the Mercy Watson series for author Kate DiCamillo.

    After the interview, Marc shares a story of connecting in person with one of our early guests, singer/songwriter Martin Sexton.

    From our families to yours, we wish you happy, safe, and fun holidays. - Adam & Marc

    LINKS:
    Chris Van Dusen (Official)
    Chris Van Dusen (Instagram)
    Chris Van Dusen (Facebook)
    Martin Sexton
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • Any parents of teenagers? (...Or have kids who will be teenagers before you know it?) The seismic shifts that take place during the teenage years can make parenting feel impossible. Inspirational speaker Ed Gerety joins the conversation to impart some wisdom on how to raise curious, grateful, resilient, and self-sufficient teenagers in today's fast-paced world. Hand around after the interview to hear Adam share a recent Instant Regret.

    Episode 114 of Modern Dadhood opens with a quick chat between Marc and Adam about gratitude. Adam shares a story about his 7 year old daughter receiving a gratitude award at school, and the guys talk about modeling thankfulness to their kids. The guys transition to Adam's recent conversation with inspirational speaker Ed Gerety who has built an impressive career visiting middle schools, high schools, and companies to inspire kindness, leadership, empathy, and more. The conversation touches on topics such as:

    • The significance of being truly present parents
    • Creating a list of family values to guide your decisions
    • Communication strategies for teenagers who don't want to talk
    • The value of fostering curiosity in our kids
    • Modeling empathy and vulnerability by admitting your mistakes
    • Debunking myths about entitlement
    • Separating behavior from identity
    • And more!

    Listen to the end to hear Adam try to talk his way out of explaining something wholly inappropriate to his 10 year old kid in a new installment of Instant Regrets.

    LINKS
    Ed Gerety (official)
    Shine Your Light (Ed's new book)
    Ed on Instagram
    Ed on LinkedIn
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

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  • Every new parent stumbles and bumbles their way through learning the responsibilities of their new job, and adapting to their new lifestyle. Most of the "what to expect" books for dads seem to focus on swaddling and potty training, when what we really need is resources for loneliness or advice on how to keep your cool when you're totally overwhelmed. Today's guest, Joe Gidjunis, spent so much time contemplating fatherhood, that he decided to produce a documentary series about it... and PBS loved it so much, they made it available to millions of people. A father of one and former journalist, Joe opens up about his show Grown Up Dad, and how he hopes it will help new dads find joy in being present and in control. Listen to the end for an uproarious (and disgusting) installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud?

    The guys open Episode 113 of Modern Dadhood with a quick catch-up on the 2nd Annual Checket Family Halloween Party before welcoming Joe Gidjunis into the conversation. Joe is the creator and host of Grown Up Dad, a documentary series airing on PBS that explores many of the same topics that this podcast explores. Joe shares about his early ideas for a film exploring fatherhood, and how he landed on a docuseries which has found him traveling the globe, meeting dads, and diving deep on the value of present fatherhood.

    After the interview, Marc shares an installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud? that has Adam splitting a gut.

    LINKS:
    Grown Up Dad (official)
    Grown Up Dad (PBS)
    Grown Up Dad (Instagram)
    Joe Gidjunis (Instagram)
    Grown Up Dad (Facebook)
    Grown Up Dad (LinkedIn)
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • What do happiness hacks, magic mushrooms at Bonnaroo, and suburban dadding have in common? Comedian Pete Holmes, that's what. Pete (You Made It Weird podcast, HBO's Crashing) has been a "pie in the sky" guest for since the wee beginnings of Modern Dadhood, and the conversation didn't disappoint. Pete opens up about being a vulnerable dad, the importance of emotional transparency, working six-year-old Lila into his jokes, and more. Listen to the end for an Instant Regret which left Marc feeling like a dink.


    Episode 112 of Modern Dadhood opens with the fastest catch-up in the history of the show, so the guys can get straight into their conversation with comedian Pete Holmes, who has been on the Modern Dadhood bucket list since the show was conceived. Pete brought the goods, and the dudes had an in-depth conversation about what it means to be a dad. The conversation took many twists and turns, and includes topics such as:

    Listen to the end to hear about Marc's recent Instant Regret!
    • How to balance being a friend and a parent to your kid
    • The emotional extremes of parenting
    • The value of teaching your kids that you are a human
    • Modeling behaviors we want to see our kids embody
    • Embracing vulnerability to foster a stronger relationship with your kid
    • And more!

    LINKS
    Pete Holmes (official)
    You Made It Weird (Apple Podcasts)
    I Am Not For Everyone (Netflix)
    Faces And Sounds (HBO)
    Crashing (HBO)
    Comedy Sex God (book)
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) is a stressful, emotional path to becoming a parent. Adding a surrogate to the equation introduces a new set of risks and stressors. For Ryan O'Connell and his wife, when the stars aligned and their healthy, perfect baby was born, it was nothing short of a miracle... and then they hit the lottery a second time. During our conversation, Ryan opens up about the deeply personal and intricate process of having children via surrogacy, shedding light on the highs and lows that come with it. We explore the emotional challenges, legal complexities, and moments of triumph that the O'Connells faced along the way. Listen to the end for an ego-deflating installment of Kisses and Disses.

    Episode 111 of Modern Dadhood opens with a quick catch-up with the guys about the back-to-school process and the crazy, overwhelming nature of parent life. The guys waste no time getting into Adam's conversation with fellow girl-dad Ryan O'Connell, an event manager and prolific blogger. Ryan lives in New Jersey with his family, including his two daughters, nine and four.

    Ryan opens up about the highs and lows of dad life, navigating the world of surrogacy, and the emotional rollercoaster involved in starting a family. We discuss the challenges and triumphs he and his wife faced on their path to parenthood, including their experiences with surrogates and the intricate medical and emotional processes involved. Topics include:

    • The process of finding a surrogate
    • What attributes make a couple and potential surrogate click?
    • A brief overview of IVF
    • The potential risks and setbacks of working with a surrogate
    • The emotional and physical toll of miscarriages
    • The legal and financial side of surrogacy
    • And more!

    Listen to the end for an ego-deflating installment of Kisses and Disses.

    LINKS
    Giddy Up America (Ryan's blog)
    Ryan O'Connell (LinkedIn)
    Reproductive Possibilities (surrogacy agency)
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • Do you feel perpetually behind? Or so stressed each day that it’s debilitating? Well, it turns out you’re not alone. (Far from it, actually.) The US Surgeon General reports that 48% of parents say that most days, their stress is “completely overwhelming.” How do we know this? Because the Nation's Doctor told us himself. US Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy, joins us to discuss his new advisory report “Parents Under Pressure,” which explores why so many parents are struggling, and what we as a country can do to begin to reverse this trend.


    In Episode 110 of Modern Dadhood, the guys catch up briefly on the beginning of the school year, and offer a quick explanation for why the episode release schedule has been a little slow lately. They reflect on interviewing Dr. Vivek Murthy, US Surgeon General and dad of two, about his new Advisory, "Parents Under Pressure," including what inspired him to write it, how his own fatherhood experience informed the topic, and what he sees as solutions to reducing stress and improving the well-being off parents. Topics include:

    • What factors are causing so much stress in parents?
    • Parenting should be seen as a team effort, not an individual pursuit
    • The lack of support available to dads specifically
    • High levels of loneliness, especially among single parents
    • How do technology and social media play a role?
    • Societal capability to make significant changes
    • Dr. Murthy's thoughts on solutions / interventions
    • And more

    LINKS
    Read The Advisory "Parents Under Pressure"
    US Surgeon General (official)
    Dr. Vivek Murthy (Instagram)
    Surgeon General (Twitter/X)
    Surgeon General (Facebook)
    "House Calls" Podcast
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • Still riding the high of seeing Beck perform with a live orchestra (and getting the rare chance to say hello to him post-show), Adam chose to resurface our 2021 interview with Beck's step-dad, the multi-talented Sean Carrillo, for this week's Rewind episode. Sean's story of marrying into a family with two kids who were only 10 and 12 years his junior, is a wonderfully unique tale of a blended family of artists which, at times, felt more like a group of peers hanging around, inspiring each other.

    At 60 years old, Sean Carrillo's career has taken him from the performing arts to commercial and film production, directing, and editorial, to curating live events... and that’s only the tip of the iceberg. Sean has been a stepfather for 40 years, and his family dynamic is far from typical. His wife Bibbe Hansen is a performance artist and actress, a protégé of Andy Warhol when she was young. Bibbe’s late father is Al Hansen, the renowned Fluxus artist. And his stepchildren are artist Channing Hansen, and musician Beck—a longtime favorite of Adam’s.

    Sean shares about growing up in Los Angeles in the 60s and 70s, meeting Bibbe while a member of the performance art group ASCO, and marrying her in the early 1980s when Beck and Channing were 12 and 10 years old, respectively. In a particularly unique step-parenting situation, Sean found that hanging with Bibbe and the boys, along with Rain Whittaker, a family friend who they took under their wing, felt more like hanging out with a group of peers than a traditional parents/kids dynamic. Topics include:

    • The idea of marrying someone with kids close to you in age
    • Beck and Channing’s biological father David Campbell
    • Los Angeles’ Troy Cafe, owned by Sean and Bibbe
    • Did being a stepfather change when Beck and Channing began seeing commercial success?
    • Beck and Channing as fathers
    • And more

    LINKS:
    Sean Carrillo
    Bibbe Hansen
    Beck
    Channing Hansen
    Beck and Al Hansen: Playing With Matches
    Troy Cafe
    Red Vault Audio
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • Have you ever wondered about the true value that a doula brings to pregnancy, childbirth, and beyond? We're joined by Timothy Gant Jr., also known as "Teddy The Doula," a trailblazing male doula from Houston, Texas. Timothy shares his journey into the traditionally female-dominated field, the unique challenges and joys of his practice, and the vital role of educating and empowering dads-to-be.

    Episode 108 of Modern Dadhood opens with the guys swapping stories about their evenings, with Marc venting about being emotionally beaten down by his kids, and Adam enjoying some beach time and booking a dream guest. The guys transition the conversation to the topic of doulas, and introduce Timothy Gant Jr., known professionally as Teddy The Doula, into the conversation. Teddy shares openly about his full-spectrum doula practice, and how being a man in a female-dominated industry awards him some unique opportunities. Topics discussed include:

    • What unique challenges come with being a male doula?
    • Why did Timothy pursue his passion in the face of adversity?
    • What are the unique benefits of having a male doula?
    • The importance of education around pregnancy and childbirth for both partners.
    • The various ways that a doula can support and advocate for the new parents
    • And more!

    LINKS
    Teddy The Doula (Instagram)
    Teddy (the documentary)
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • This "Rewind" episode doubles as our Father's Day 2024 episode! The guys chat about what an ideal Father's Day would look like, play a fun quiz game, and then throw back to the 2022 interview with trans dad Tessa White who shares candidly about her unique journey of trans fatherhood. Tessa opens up about her family's dynamics, the challenges she faces with public scrutiny, and the profound impact of a meaningful pin she received, which reads "She/Her/DAD."


    The guys open Episode 107 of Modern Dadhood with a chat about what an ideal fathers day would look like (spoiler alert... pretty much anything as long as the kids aren't fighting!) They discuss beers on the beach at night, a giant ball of snakes, and then play a Father's Day Quiz before throwing to their 2022 interview with trans dad Tessa White. Tessa owns an HVAC company in Oklahoma City, is a transgender woman and proud LGBTQ+ advocate and activist, and is a parent to 5 children (including two sets of twins) who call her DAD. The powerful conversation touches on topics including:

    • The meaning of the phrase "She/Her/DAD" found on a pin by Dads Hug Too
    • Navigating the world as a trans woman and a parent
    • The debate over transgender athletes
    • Trans discrimination, and the effects on Tessa's kids
    • Giving kids some space and distance to accept who their father is
    • Pronouns, including nonbinary pronouns

    Happy Pride Month, and Happy Father's Day to EVERYONE who identifies as a dad.

    Links:
    Dads Hug Too
    PFlag Oklahoma City
    OKC Pride
    Diversity Center of Oklahoma
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Stuffed Animal

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • According to Men's Coach and Somatic Practitioner Sean Hotchkiss, everyone carries traumatic experiences with them from when they were young. These can be major emotional traumas like the divorce of your parents, or they can be micro traumas... but when they are left unresolved, they can shape who we are as adults (and parents), how we navigate life, and how we relate to others. In this episode honoring Mental Health Awareness Month, Sean Hotchkiss joins the conversation to discuss the real value of expressing anger and the benefits of unpacking our traumas of the past, all the way down to a cellular level.


    Episode 106 of Modern Dadhood, Adam and Marc open the show by welcoming new listeners, and giving shout-outs to Hark Audio, where Adam recently created his first Harklist, and Pocket Casts for generously highlighting Modern Dadhood in the Kids & Family category. The guys acknowledge Mental Health Awareness Month and introduce the guest into the conversation. Sean Hotchkiss is a Men's Coach, Somatic Practitioner, and Embodiment Guide. He works with men (many of whom are dads) to uncover and process traumas of their past. The conversation gets deep, covering topics like:

    • What it means to be a somatic practitioner and embodiment guide
    • What inspired Sean to transition from fashion writing to coaching
    • What are the most common sources of trauma for men?
    • How are repressed traumatic experiences accessed and processed?
    • Who can benefit from this kind of coaching?
    • And more!

    Marc rounds out the episode with a quick installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud?


    LINKS
    Sean Hotchkiss (official website)
    Sean Hotchkiss (Instagram)
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • It's Mother's Day 2024, and we dedicate this episode to ALL the moms—the real superheroes who make our families run like well-oiled machines with their dedication, selflessness, and boundless love. Marc and Adam wager guesses on what would make for an ideal Mother's Day for their wives (and then hear directly from their wives about how accurate they were!) Then we turn the mics over to some of the top podcasters who specialize in all things MOTHERHOOD to share their insights and sound advice for us dads.

    THANK YOU to all the amazing motherhood podcasters who shared their recordings with us! You are awesome!

    LINKS
    Bite Your Tongue (Podcast)
    Oh Crap! Parenting (Podcast)
    Momwell (Podcast)
    Real World Peaceful Parenting (Podcast)
    Modern Mom Probs (Podcast)
    Moms On Call (Podcast)
    Peaceful Parenting Podcast
    Motherhood Simplified (Podcast)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • In July 2021, Dateline NBC reporter and Today Show personality Craig Melvin joined us to talk fatherhood. He shared candidly about the process of writing his book Pops: Learning To Be A Son And A Father, including stepping out of his comfort zone to conduct a number of interviews with his own dad. Craig reflected on his childhood, his relationship with his father, and how the men in his life have shaped the dad that Craig is to his own kids. Listen to the end of the episode for a round of dad Confessions.

    In this Rewind episode, the guys welcome NBC anchor/personality Craig Melvin’s new book Pops: Learning To Be A Son And A Father, a book he began working on during a 2020 quarantine. For much of Craig’s life, he and his brothers didn’t have much of a relationship with their father Lawrence, largely due to his alcohol and gambling addictions. A 2018 family intervention cleared a path to recovery for Lawrence, and an opportunity to redefine relationships with his sons and grandchildren—Including Craig’s son and daughter. Craig shared candidly about his family, and the process of interviewing his father for Pops. Topics include:

    • The inspiration for writing Pops
    • The fear of interviewing a parent
    • The importance of other “father figures” in Craig’s life
    • The nature of addiction
    • How the notion of “it takes a village” has shifted
    • Craig’s kids’ relationship with their grandfather
    • What “Modern Dadhood” means to Craig
    • And more!

    The guys round out the episode with a new batch of dadhood Confessions.

    LINKS:
    Craig Melvin (Instagram)
    Dads Got This!
    "Pops: Learning To Be A Son And A Father"
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Stuffed Animal
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • Dads, raise your hand if becoming a parent resulted in falling out of healthy routines like exercise and mindful eating? Yeah, same here. And it's only natural... when there's a new baby in the picture your priorities immediately shift to your partner, the baby's well-being... and your own survival. But months (or years) later, it can be very intimidating to think about combating that "dad bod," and often, we don't even know where to start. Fitness founder Ryan Cooper joins us to share some actionable tips dads can use to revitalize their fitness journeys. As a bonus, Ryan extends listeners an exclusive Modern Dadhood discount code for his online fitness program CooperFit. Stick around to the end for an emotional roller coaster of a Kisses & Disses segment!


    Episode 103 of Modern Dadhood opens with a chat about the infamous "dad bod" and the factors that contribute to it being so common among dads in the earliest stages of parenthood. The guys talk about their own relationships with diet, exercise, and wellness around the time when their kids were born, and where things stand now, years later.

    The guys welcome Ryan Cooper into the conversation. Ryan is a model, an actor, a producer, and founder of CooperFit, an online physical fitness program for men and women in which Ryan programs weekly routines that include exercises, pilates, meditation, breathing, and more. Ryan shares about his personal journey as a dad of one daughter, what led him to start CooperFit, and how his program can benefit dads who might not now where to start when it comes to getting their health back on track. Conversation topics include:

    • What CooperFit is, and how it offers structured convenience for busy dads
    • Fitness as a form of therapy form to tackle the root of problems
    • The importance of stepping out of your comfort zone
    • The real value of breathing and breathwork
    • How modeling behavior can positively influence children
    • And more

    Ryan generously offers a deeply discounted rate for listeners of Modern Dadhood using the code DAD50 when you sign up for CooperFit using this link.

    After the interview, the guys share a very nice podcast review from a happy listener and a... not-so-nice one. Leave your review and you might be featured in a future episode!

    LINKS
    Cooperfit (homepage)
    Cooperfit Modern Dadhood Exclusive Offer - Use code DAD50
    Ryan Cooper (Instagram)
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • Episode 59 originally aired in February, 2020.

    Becoming a new parent can be a special kind of mayhem. Add a global pandemic into the mix, and the chaos of the first few months are elevated to a new level. But depending on your situation, those challenges may be coupled with opportunity. In Episode 59, podcaster, producer, actor, and all around creative human, Matt Gourley, joins the conversation to discuss the joys, challenges, and insanity of new fatherhood—and how this shift has helped him discover some new perspective on what’s truly important.

    Episode 59 of Modern Dadhood kicks off with a short discussion about the podcast's brief winter hibernation where the guys describe life chugging forward and the typical madness of having young kids. Adam shares the story leading up to landing a conversation with new dad Matt Gourley. Matt is the host of Superego, producer and co-host of Conan O'Brien Needs a Friend, actor, musician, and designer. In our time together, we discuss topics including:

    • Finding peace in the first few months of parenthood
    • The importance of a paternity leave
    • Redefining work/life balance
    • The importance of maintaining a sense of self
    • Anxiety associated with trying to keep your newborn safe during the pandemic
    • What kind of dad Matt envisioned he'd be before having kids

    Post-guest, Marc shares a whopper of a Did I Just Say That Out Loud? which can't be described... the story must be heard to be believed.

    LINKS:
    Matt Gourley (website)
    Matt Gourley on Twitter
    Matt Gourley on Instagram
    Housecat And Home
    Keys to the Kingdom
    Mallwalkin'
    Townland
    Superego
    Conan O'Brien Needs a Friend
    With Gourley and Rust
    I Was There Too
    James Bonding
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Red Vault Audio
    Stuffed Animal

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • For those of us who grew up watching Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, Fred Rogers taught us many lessons via his cast of characters in the Neighborhood of Make-Believe; the most prominent of which is that there are many ways to express your love and appreciation for someone. One member of that cast in particular, Dr. Francois Clemmons ("Officer Clemmons" on the show), carries forth that message even today. Dr. Clemmons joins us to discuss his "cosmic father, cosmic son" relationship with Fred Rogers, spreading love and kindness through music, and how paternal love can flourish even in the absence of a biological relationship.


    The guys kick off Episode 101 of Modern Dadhood with a short therapy session where Marc vents about the illnesses that have run rampant in his home and the unfortunate passing of the Checket family dog. The guys quickly celebrate crossing the 100 episode threshold, give major thanks and props to audio engineer + mixer Pete Morse, and let the audience know about the passing of Aram Delgado, the son of the late Modern Dadhood guest and Sesame Street star Emilio Delgado.

    The guys transition to their recent conversation with teacher, actor, singer, and "cosmic father" to many, Dr. Francois Clemmons. For decades, Dr. Clemmons played the beloved character Officer Clemmons on Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, and in the early days, he quickly developed a professional relationship and close personal friendship with Fred and Joanne Rogers. Dr. Clemmons joins us to talk about his lifelong desire to be a father, and how he has achieved that despite not having biological kids of his own. He also shares about experiences working with Mister Rogers, including the famous scene where the two men bathe their feet in a kiddie pool on a hot day. Other conversation topics include:

    • Fred & Francois' mutual love of studying and discussing the Bible
    • Francois' sexuality and how it was handled on and off the show
    • Life lessons that Francois learned from his time on Mister Rogers' Neighborhood
    • Francois' passion for mentoring students in a fatherly manner
    • The Harlem Spiritual Ensemble
    • The historical significance of the most famous "Officer Clemmons" scene
    • Francois' ability to identify cosmic parents around the world
    • And more!


    LINKS
    Dr. Francois Clemmons (homepage)
    Most Famous Officer Clemmons Scene (with commentary)
    Won't You Be My Neighbor documentary (Netflix)
    Francois Clemmons' GoFundMe
    Aram Delgado GoFundMe
    Red Vault Audio
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    AdamFlaherty.tv
    Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (YouTube)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • What do bugs, sandwiches, skateboarding, comics, Saved By The Bell, mural painting, a chicken coop... and DADHOOD all have in common? Well, they have author and artist Brady Smith in common. (Duh.) Brady returns to the podcast to chat about many of the seemingly random things listed above... but most of all, how much he and his wife Tiffani Thiessen love being Harper and Holt's parents. After, Adam shares a straight-forward but delightfully odd Did I Just Say That Out Loud?


    Despite being a rather epic milestone, Episode 100 of Modern Dadhood starts off like most other episodes, with a quick catch-up between the guys. Marc shares about his twin boys' epic Star Wars themed 6th birthday party (complete with home-made games) before they welcome author, artist, and friend to the show Brady Smith back for a second appearance. Brady shares what's new in his fatherhood journey (Spoiler alert: lots of skateboarding & Sephora), how he and Tiffani work hard to raise creative, kind, and empathetic kids, and he shares a teaser of his newest book "Bug Sandwich." Topics include:

    • The feeling of celebrating your partner's 50th birthday
    • Getting comfortable being the "dorky" skateboarding dad
    • The freedom of self-employment
    • The unexpected challenges of painting a mural
    • The first time Brady's daughter watched "Saved By The Bell"
    • Involving Brady's kids in his work
    • And more!

    After, Adam discloses an odd dinnertime exclamation in an installment of "Did I Just Say That Out Loud?"

    Episode art photography by Rebecca Sanabria

    LINKS
    Brady Smith (official website)
    Brady Smith (Instagram)
    Bug Sandwich (Powell's books)
    Random Acts of Drawness!
    You're Missing It!
    Red Vault Audio
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Stuffed Animal
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (TikTok)

    #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

  • A Day-Glo orange splatter of paint. A geyser of green slime. A seductive forearm tattoo named Petunia. If this doesn't conjure up some serious nostalgia, you either weren't a kid in the 90s, or your mom banned you from watching Nickelodeon. We invited Nick veteran and new dad Danny Tamberelli to the podcast to chat about growing up in the spotlight and how fatherhood is treating him 19 months into his journey. Tune in to find out whether Danny and Adam have actually been cosmically linked ever since one fateful day in 1997 at Universal Studios. Also, Marc exclaims profanities as he is doused with bodily fluids.

    Episode 35 of Modern Dadhood opens with a brief conversation about milk, and speculation on why Adam's daughters both decided that they no longer care for it. The guys briefly address their guest selection process before introducing Danny Tamberelli into the conversation. Danny is best known for playing little Pete on Nickelodeon's The Adventures of Pete and Pete in the 90s, though he continued with the network for over a decade, appearing in seasons of All That and the game show Figure It Out. Additionally, Danny appeared in films such as Igby Goes Down and The Mighty Ducks, acting alongside former Nickelodeon pal Kenan Thompson, and has voiced many animated characters for television and video games. Danny discusses the events that led to him landing prominent acting roles as a child, as well as his own experience as a new dad to 19 month old Alfie. Topics include:

    • The joy of being the fun uncle
    • An examination of Sandra Boynton's catalog
    • Old fashioned names coming back into style
    • Being a child actor
    • Weezer's Blue album
    • How creativity can evolve when you become a father

    The episode culminates with a rather "shitty" installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud?

    [Episode Transcript]

    LINKS:
    Danny Tamberelli (official website)
    Tuesdays With Alfie (Instagram)
    The Adventures of Danny and Mike
    Jounce
    Nostalgia Personified
    Man Boobs Comedy
    The Undone Sweaters
    The Adventures of Pete And Pete (YouTube)
    Danny + Katelyn's books
    Red Vault Audio
    Caspar Babypants
    Spencer Albee
    Stuffed Animal
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (TikTok)

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  • When you hear the phrase "Lead Dad," what does it make you think? A "stay at home" dad? A dad who prides himself on being the more involved parent? To Paul Sullivan, Founder of The Company of Dads, being a "Lead Dad" is much different... and many of us naturally fall into the category. Hear Paul discuss The Company of Dads' mission to inspire more men to be Lead Dads, and inspire families to experience their full potential. At the end, Marc shares a curious installment of "Did I Just Say That Out Loud?"

    Modern Dadhood Episode 98 opens with a brief catch-up between the guys before Adam shares about a video that recently crossed his feed about a group of dads who meet at a local elementary school to greet kids as they arrive for their school day. The video was shared by Paul Sullivan, Founder of the Company of Dads and father of three daughters between 6 and 14. Paul joins us to chat about his organization, its mission, and what it means to be a "Lead Dad." Topics of conversation include:

    • How did The Company of Dads come to be?
    • What is a Lead Dad?
    • By labeling oneself a Lead Dad, is it taking credit from the mom?
    • Average maternity & paternity leaves in the USA
    • Resources available to Lead Dads
    • And more!

    Stay tuned for an installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud? featuring the newly 6-year-old Checket twins.

    LINKS:
    The Company of Dads
    The Company of Dads (Instagram)
    Paul Sullivan (LinkedIn)
    Red Vault Audio
    Spencer Albee
    Caspar Babypants
    Stuffed Animal
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (TikTok)

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  • What fresh hell is this episode all about? Well, it's a collaboration with our new friends Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables, hosts of the popular momhood podcast What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood. The four parenting podcasters waste no time digging into why there are so many more motherhood podcasts than fatherhood podcasts, the value of gaining new perspectives, and how the role of the father has dramatically shifted over the decades... and could stand to continue evolving!


    Episode 97 of Modern Dadhood kicks off with Adam ribbing Marc for neglecting to call or text him on his birthday which he shares with both his dad and his daughter. Marc clearly feels no guilt, and Adam proceeds to inhale a helium balloon to introduce the show. The guys quickly welcome Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson, hosts of the podcast What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood into the conversation to discuss the "WHY" behind each podcast, the moms' take on the current state of fatherhood, and more. Topics include:

    • The story behind the name (and phrase) "What Fresh Hell"
    • How topics are chosen for their motherhood podcast
    • The benefits of having access to experts and people we admire
    • How "Modern Dadhood" is different than "Modern Fatherhood"
    • How women and men often prioritize the role of "parent" differently
    • Shifting gender roles
    • And more!

    After the interview, the guys share a roller-coaster-of-a Kisses & Disses segment.


    LINKS:
    What Fresh Hell (Podcast)
    What Fresh Hell (Website)
    WFH (Instagram)
    WFH (TikTok)
    Red Vault Audio
    Spencer Albee
    Caspar Babypants
    Stuffed Animal
    Modern Dadhood (website)
    MD (Instagram)
    MD (Facebook)
    MD (TikTok)

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  • Being a single parent may result from an unplanned pregnancy, the relationship between two partners evolving or ending, or a purposeful decision. No matter the reason, it's fair to assert that single parents will navigate some unique challenges when raising a kid. George Basil (HBO's Crashing, Netflix's Flaked) joins us to reflect on raising his teenage daughter as a working actor and improv comedian, and how their relationship, in many ways, is a true partnership. George hangs around for a round of Confessions!


    The guys kick off Episode 96 of Modern Dadhood with a quick discussion on dinnertime conversations with our kids and the types of questions which can inspire them to open up and share about their school day. The guys waste no time introducing actor and improv comic George Basil who listeners might know as Lief from HBO's "Crashing" starring comedian Pete Holmes, Cooler from Netflix's "Flaked" acting opposite Will Arnett, or the clothing shop proprietor in the Barbie movie. George is a proud parent to his teenage daughter Lula, and he joins us to share his story of bringing her up as a single dad and working actor in LA. Topics include:

    • George's self-described partnership with his daughter.
    • The joy of traveling abroad with his kid
    • Acting with, and directing his daughter
    • The benefit of introducing new partners to your child
    • The importance of inspiring a love for creativity in our kids
    • Getting the call to be cast in Barbie
    • And more!

    At the end of the chat, George sticks around for a gut-busting Confessions session.

    LINKS:
    Crashing (HBO/Max)
    Flaked (Netflix)
    Six Pack (Short Film)
    Peanut (Short Film)
    Red Vault Audio
    Spencer Albee
    Caspar Babypants
    Stuffed Animal

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