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In this dynamic episode of My Rejection Story, Alice Draper brings together highlights from past interviews with thought leaders whoâve transformed rejection into resilience and success. Through inspiring stories and actionable advice, this episode dives into how to turn setbacks into opportunities, rewrite your personal narrative, and embrace vulnerability as a strength.Featured Clips & Highlights:1. Tina Wells: Packaging and Turning a No into a YesTina shares how to package your ideas and opportunities in a way that transforms rejection into a resounding yes. She reveals the art of reframing and how perseverance and creativity can lead to breakthroughs.Learn more about Tina Wells:Website: www.tinawells.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/tinawells/2. Rohit Bhargava: Cultivating Difficult Experiences to Increase Rejection ResilienceRohit discusses how intentionally seeking out challenging experiencesâwhether skydiving or cold plungesâcan build rejection resilience and increase confidence in navigating lifeâs hurdles.Learn more about Rohit Bhargava:Website: www.rohitbhargava.comLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/rohitbhargava/3. Jason VanRuler: How to Rewrite Your StoryJason shares practical and empowering advice on how to rewrite your personal narrative and make your past work for you. This clip will inspire you to take control of your story and turn challenges into triumphs.Learn more about Jason VanRuler:Website: www.jasonvr.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/jasonvanruler/4. Jason VanRuler: Share Scars, Not WoundsJason emphasizes the importance of sharing stories of healed experiences (scars) rather than raw, unresolved pain (wounds). This perspective provides a healthier approach to vulnerability and storytelling.Learn more about Jason VanRuler:5. Kimberly Brown: The Perfection Box and Fear of VulnerabilityKimberly highlights how successful people often fall into a "perfection box," where vulnerability feels like a risk. She shares how breaking free from this mindset leads to deeper authenticity and growth.Learn more about Kimberly Brown:Website: www.kimberlybonline.comLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlybcareer/Links & Resources:Subscribe to the Podcast: Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google PodcastsFollow Alice Draper:Website: www.hustlingwriters.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/alicedraperLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/alice-m-draper/Get Involved!Share your rejection stories! Send your submissions to [email protected], leave a review, and share this episode with someone who could use a little rejection resilience!
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Geraldine DeRuiter, a James Beard award-winning writer and author, discusses her experience with a negative review of her book and how her community turned it around to make it a bestseller.
Geraldine also reflects on her ambition as a child and the importance of perseverance and authenticity in her writing journey. Geraldine shares her experience of how her blog gained traction and how she navigated rejection in her writing career. She emphasizes the importance of putting yourself out there and not being afraid of rejection. She also discusses the fear of stating what you want and offers advice for aspiring writers and creators.
To find out more about Geraldine and read her award-winning blog, visit: https://www.everywhereist.com/about/
Follow Geraldine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheEverywhereist/
Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background
01:33 The Negative Review and Emotional Impact
16:00 Childhood Ambition and Writing Journey
29:58 Traffic Increase and the Power of Authenticity
33:50 Gaining Traction and Overcoming Rejection
36:06 Transitioning from Anonymity to Recognition
37:29 The Impact of Viral Success
38:24 The Condensing Timeframe of Success
40:19 Dealing with Rejection in Personal Life
43:19 Protecting Oneself from Rejection
46:21 The Fear of Stating What You Want
48:06 External Motivation and Accountability
50:18 The Love of Having Written
52:58 The Fear of Rejection vs. Actual Rejection
54:24 Setting Audacious Rejection Goals
59:06 Reaching Out to Influential People
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This episode originally appeared on The Best Advice Show hosted by Zak Rosen. Find the original episode here: https://bestadvice.show/episodes/you-need-to-get-rejected-a-lot-more-with-alice-draper
In this episode, Zak speaks with writer and publicist Alice Draper about the transformative power of embracing rejection. Alice shares how taking on the "100 Rejection Challenge" not only improved her freelance journalism career but also revolutionized her personal life, from dating to building resilience after her father's dementia diagnosis. Learn how seeking out micro rejections can build your rejection resilience muscle and lead to unexpected successes.
To check out The Best Advice Show: https://bestadvice.show/
Follow The Best Advice Show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bestadviceshow/
Support The Best Advice Show on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/bestadviceshow
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
01:01 Why Alice used to avoid rejection at all costs
02:11 How Alice's ambition fueled her rejection resilience
03:01 Discovering the 100 Rejection Challenge
03:41 How rejection shaped Alice's personal and professional growth
04:26 Why rejection leads to better work -
In this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper speaks with Rohit Bhargava about his experiences with rejection, the importance of non-obvious thinking, and the journey of founding Idea Press Publishing. They discuss how childhood experiences shape our relationship with rejection, the impact of confidence on overcoming challenges, and the significance of storytelling in conversations. Rohit shares insights on hybrid publishing, marketing strategies for authors, and the value of networking through weak ties.
Find Rohit Bhargava here on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rohitbhargava/
To find out more about publishing with IdeaPress, click here: https://ideapress.com/
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Rejection and Non-Obvious Thinking
02:52 Childhood Experiences of Rejection
05:58 The Impact of Rejection on Confidence08:51Career Choices and the Fear of Rejection
11:46 Building Resilience Through Life Experiences
15:04 Networking and the Power of Weak Ties
17:59 The Journey of Idea Press Publishing
20:59 The Benefits of Hybrid Publishing
23:58 Marketing Strategies for Authors
26:49 The Importance of Timeliness in Publishing
29:50 The Role of Confidence in Dealing with Rejection
33:06 Storytelling Questions and Active Listening
35:58 The Concept of Option C in Publishing
38:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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In this episode, Alice Draper reflects on the journey of her podcast, celebrating its recent award while grappling with feelings of imposter syndrome. She discusses the importance of agency and resilience in the face of rejection, emphasizing the need to embrace vulnerability in content creation. Alice shares insights on navigating the challenges of low status and self-sabotage, encouraging listeners to pursue their passions despite fears of failure.
Substack post mentioned in episode: https://usefulfictions.substack.com/p/how-to-be-more-agentic
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In this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper interviews Nick Courtright, the CEO of Atmosphere Press, a hybrid publishing company, and author himself, who shares his journey through rejection and the lessons learned along the way. Nick discusses the impact of rejection on his career, the importance of hybrid publishing, and the support authors can receive in this model. He emphasizes the emotional journey of writing and publishing, the significance of audience engagement, and the need for authors to take charge of their creative destinies. Nick also explores the themes of his latest book, 'The Forgotten World', which reflects on American identity in a global context.
Do a free author interview with Atmosphere Press here: ââhttps://atmospherepress.com/free-author-interviews/
Submit your manuscript to Atmosphere Press here: https://atmospherepress.com/call-for-submissions/Chapters:
00:00 Nickâs Rejection Story
04:11 Building a Hybrid Publishing Company
11:00 Author Questions About Hybrid Publishing
20:23 The Support Offered By Hybrid Publishing
27:16 Navigating Thoughts on Hybrid Publishing
29:47 Choosing the Right Publisher
32:08 Resilience in the Face of Rejection
33:58 Craft Improvement and Taking Risks
36:43 Nickâs Writing and Influences
53:07 Taking Charge of Your Creative Destiny
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In this episode of My Rejection Story, Alice Draper speaks with Sarah Bullen, a multi-published author, writing coach, and literary agent. They discuss the journey of overcoming rejection in the writing process, the importance of developing a thick skin, and the role of literary agents in navigating the publishing world. Sarah shares insights on market trends, the unpredictability of novel success, and the significance of genre in writing. They also explore the challenges of writing standout books in a saturated market, the realities of book sales, and the value of writing as a passion project. The conversation concludes with Sarah's commitment to promoting her new book and the vulnerability that comes with putting creative work out into the world.
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In this conversation, Alice Draper and Ayodeji Awosika explore the multifaceted journey of self-publishing, from overcoming the fear of failure to the intricacies of writing, editing, and marketing a book. They discuss the importance of building an audience, effective time management strategies, and the decision-making process behind choosing self-publishing over traditional routes. Ayodeji shares insights on personal growth, accountability, and the evolving nature of careers in today's world, emphasizing the need for adaptability and self-awareness. The conversation concludes with practical advice for aspiring podcasters and content creators, highlighting the significance of focusing on what works and continuously improving one's craft.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy "An Honest Guide to Self-Improvement" here: â https://www.amazon.com/Real-Help-Honest-Guide-Self-Improvement/dp/B084YWT78R/â
To find out more about Ayodeji and grab his free course, head over to: â https://ayotheauthor.com/â
Follow Ayodeji on LinkedIn: â https://www.linkedin.com/in/ayotheauthor/â
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This episode originally aired on ADHD-ish hosted by Diann Wingert. Episode link here: https://www.diannwingertcoaching.com/blog/risk-rejection-resilience
In this conversation, Alice Draper is interviewed by Diann Wingert, the host of the ADHD-ish podcast. Together, they discuss the complex nature of rejection, its historical roots in human survival, and the psychological impacts it has on individuals, particularly those with ADHD and marginalized identities. The dialogue explores the science behind rejection sensitivity, cultural conditioning, and a gendered perspectives on failure.
Check out: The ADHD-ish Podcast. This podcast alternates between straight-shooting solo episodes, guest interviews with other successful female solopreneurs, and client success stories of women who have worked with Diann to transform their businesses and mindset.
Connect with Diann Wingert:
Podcast: https://www.diannwingertcoaching.com/podcast
Free guide on Mastering Your Entrepreneurial ADHD: https://diann-wingert-coaching.kit.com/mastering-your-entrepreneurial-adhd
Diannâs LinkedIn newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7018282741351817216/?displayConfirmation=true
Chapters:
04:36 The Science Behind Why Rejection Is Hard
08:00 Exploring the Depths of Rejection
05:53 The Science Behind Rejection Sensitivity
09:12 Marginalization and Its Impact on Rejection
11:06 Cultural Conditioning and Gendered Perspectives
15:00 Building Rejection Resilience: Strategies and Insights
17:54 Community Support in Overcoming Rejection
21:13 Navigating Personal Rejections and Emotional Responses
24:08 How To Handle Personal Rejections
27:13 Practicing Perspective-Taking When Dealing with Rejection
35:18 Surprising Insights About Success and Rejection
39:01 The Weight of Expectation and Rejection
41:00 Making Big Rejection Goals By Finding Your Intention
46:35 The Secret To Unstoppable Rejection Resilience
47:00 Conclusion And Closing Thoughts
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In this episode, Alice Draper reflects on her journey through the first 11 episodes of her podcast, focusing on the theme of rejection and personal growth. She shares her own experiences with rejection, trauma, and caregiving, emphasizing how these challenges have shaped her resilience and identity. The conversation explores the duality of rejection and success, highlighting that both can coexist and lead to personal transformation. Alice encourages listeners to embrace their rejection stories as sources of strength and motivation for growth.
takeaways
Rejection is a universal experience that everyone faces. Using rejection as a growth tool can lead to personal fulfillment. Personal trauma can significantly impact one's resilience and identity. Caregiving can shift one's sense of self and purpose. Finding support is crucial in navigating difficult life changes. Transformation often comes from facing adversity head-on. Rejection can serve as a catalyst for positive change. Confidence is built through action, not just belief. Both rejection and success can coexist in our journeys. Embracing our stories of rejection can fuel our ambitions. -
Tina Wells shares her rejection story and the pivotal moment in her life when she felt rejected. She talks about the changes in the agency world and how she had to confront the rejection and make a decision. Tina emphasizes the importance of taking a pause and becoming present with oneself to navigate through rejection.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of The Elevation Approach: Harness the Power of Work-Life Harmony to Unlock Your Creativity, Cultivate Joy, and Reach Your Biggest Goals on Amazon: https://a.co/d/boRRTDv
To find out more about Tina Wells, her books, services and courses, visit: https://tinawells.com/
Follow Tina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tinawells/
I will also be giving away a copy of Tinaâs latest book to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
Distribution Partners:
A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
Special shout out to Eva Langston. Eva created a writing resources newsletter with the goal of giving the advice, encouragement, and resources she wished sheâd had at various stages in her writing career. Her Substack newsletter for writers on the journey to publication now has over 4,500 subscribers. Subscribe here: https://evalangston.substack.com/
If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perryâs guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away.Chapters
00:00 Confronting Rejection and Embracing Change 07:05 The Power of Work-Life Harmony 19:09 Finding Inspiration and Supportive Communities 24:55 Finding Your Community 29:10 The Value of âFriend-torsâ 31:47 Strategic Networking: Mentors vs. Sponsors 41:22 Effective Communication and Presentation 45:13 Turning Rejections into Opportunities -
In this episode of My Rejection Story, Kimberly Brown shares her personal journey of rejection and redirection in her career. She discusses the emotional impact of job rejections, the importance of vulnerability, and how to navigate the job market effectively. Kimberly emphasizes the significance of asking questions during interviews and the need for self-coaching in professional development. She also opens up about her experience as an author, the challenges of promoting her book, and the importance of community support. The conversation concludes with practical advice for growing a podcast and engaging with an audience.
Takeaways:
Rejection can lead to unexpected opportunities. It's essential to ask questions during the interview process. Vulnerability is a crucial part of career transitions. Building a community can provide support during tough times. Self-coaching is vital for personal and professional growth. Aligning with your core values is key to job satisfaction. The pain of regret is often worse than the pain of trying something new. Creating engaging content can help grow your audience. It's important to understand what makes your work unique. Being authentic can help you connect with your audience.For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Next Move, Best Move, on Amazon: https://a.co/d/74iDP5I
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
To find out more about Kimberly Brown, her book and company, Brown Leadership, visit: https://www.brownleadership.com/
Follow Kimberly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimberlybonline/
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Rejection and Redirection
04:22 Kimberly's Job Rejection Story
07:22 The Impact of Rejection on Career Paths
10:23 Navigating the Job Market and Interviews
13:14 The Importance of Asking Questions in Interviews
16:12 Vulnerability in Professional Growth
19:27 The Journey of Writing and Promoting a Book
21:58 Building a Community Around Your Work
24:51 The Process of Self-Coaching and Leadership Development
28:04 The Challenges of Being Visible and Authentic
31:47 Advice for Growing a Podcast
34:53 Conclusion and Future Aspirations
Distribution Partners:A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perryâs guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Hereâs the link:
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com -
In this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper speaks with therapist and author Jason VanRuler about the complexities of rejection, particularly in relationships. They discuss the importance of rewriting personal narratives, the necessity of grieving losses, and the journey towards authenticity. Jason shares his experiences with rejection and how they shaped his path to becoming a thought leader in the mental health space. The conversation emphasizes the value of community, the challenge of faulty beliefs, and the growth that comes from embracing rejection.
Takeaways:
You can rewrite your story and make it true. Grieving a future is a different kind of grief. Growth comes from feeling and grieving loss. It's better to share scars than wounds. You need a purpose greater than yourself to take risks. Simplicity scales, complexity fails. Practice saying no to build confidence. Surround yourself with people who uplift you. Rejection can prompt personal growth. Authenticity is key in relationships.For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Get Past Your Past on Amazon, here: https://a.co/d/gIGMvYQ
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
To find out more about Jason VanRuler and his work, visit: https://www.jasonvr.com/
Follow Jason on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jason.vanruler/
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Elizabeth Fremantle shares her experiences of rejection, starting with being expelled from school at a young age. She felt unjustly labeled as a bad influence and struggled to overcome the rejection. However, her desire to be a writer motivated her to go back to university as a mature student and pursue her passion.
Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of finding a way back from early rejection and not letting it define one's future. She also discusses the impact of rejection on her writing career, including the rejection of multiple novels before finding success with her fourth book. Elizabeth reflects on the constant drive to achieve more and the role of luck and timing in her success. In this conversation, Ellizabeth discusses her journey as a writer, including the process of getting her book, Queen's Gambit, published and the challenges of being a visible author.
She also talks about the experience of having her book adapted into a film and the importance of letting go of creative control. Elizabeth emphasizes the need to not take rejection personally and to understand that external factors can influence the success of a book. She shares her ongoing goals and challenges, including writing a screenplay.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Firebrand, as well as Elizabethâs other books, on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Firebrand-Novel-Elizabeth-Fremantle/dp/1668005360
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
To find out more about Elizabeth Freemantle and her books, visit: http://www.elizabethfremantle.com/
Follow Elizabeth on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizfremantle/
A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
f you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perryâs guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Hereâs the link:
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
Chapters
00:00 Early Rejection and Expulsion from School
02:32 Finding a Way Back from Rejection
12:07 The Role of Luck and Timing in Success
26:55 The Constant Drive to Achieve More
34:24 Navigating Rejection and Visibility as a Writer
38:23 The Challenges and Rewards of Book-to-Film Adaptation
44:37 Letting Go of Creative Control
50:06 The Importance of Continuous Learning and Setting New Challenges
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Jill Mansell shares her journey as a writer, from her early experiences with rejection to becoming a bestselling author. She talks about the challenges of finding an agent and receiving rejections from publishers. Despite the setbacks, she persevered and found success with her unique style of writing.
Jill discusses the fear and anxiety she still feels with each new book, as well as the joy of connecting with readers and making a positive impact on their lives. In this conversation, Jill discusses the importance of constructive feedback and incorporating diverse perspectives into her writing. She shares how she creates rich and colourful characters by drawing inspiration from people she knows and combining different aspects of their personalities. Jill also talks about her writing process, including her preference for writing with fountain pens and her daily word count goals.
She explains why she chooses not to include explicit sex scenes in her romance novels, the challenges of coming up with new ideas after writing 37 books, and the desire to have her books adapted into movies or TV series.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Promise Me, as well as Jillâs other books, on Amazon: https://amzn.eu/d/g83pZ26
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
To find out more about Jill Mansell and her books, visit: https://jillmansell.co.uk/
Follow Jill on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillmansell/A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with. If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with: Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perryâs guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Hereâs the link:â https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Chapters:
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Jill's Early Writing Experience
02:25 Jill's Journey from Rejection to Success
10:23 Transitioning from a Full-Time Job to a Full-Time Novelist
17:16 Dealing with Rejections from Publishers
21:55 Life Changes After Finding Success with Hachette
25:10 Navigating Fear and Anxiety in the Writing Process
28:19 The Power of Positive Impact on Readers' Lives
29:02 The Power of Constructive Feedback in Writing
31:03 Incorporating Reader Suggestions into Writing
33:04 Creating Rich and Colorful Characters
36:33 Drawing Inspiration from Personal Experiences
37:00 Writing Process and Daily Word Count Goals
38:21 Writing with Fountain Pens: A Source of Joy and Inspiration
41:49 The Story of the Lost First Manuscript
43:35 The Importance of a Writing Community
48:03 Finding Inspiration in Everyday Life
51:43 Challenges of Generating New Ideas
55:42 The Desire for Book Adaptations
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Haley Jakobson, a writer and playwright, discusses her relationship with rejection and the journey to publishing her debut novel, 'Old Enough'. She shares her fear of rejection and the mantra of choosing herself, which worked until she had to face the vulnerability of publishing a book. Haley talks about the 40+ rejections she received and the tools she developed to navigate rejection, including zooming out and realizing that her career is not defined by one project, leaning on her community for support, and finding joy in other aspects of her life. She also discusses the changes in her life since the book launch and the responsibility she feels to educate and advocate for her audience.
Haley explores the concept of vulnerable storytelling and the challenges of being unpolished and messy in her writing. She shares that while her book 'Old Enough' is inspired by her own experiences, the protagonist is a separate character with her own journey. In this conversation, Haley Jakobson discusses her journey of healing and reclaiming her innocence after experiencing assault as a teenager. She shares how she grew into innocence and embraced her silliness and vulnerability. Haley also talks about her writing process and the importance of staying true to her values in navigating the capitalist nature of the publishing industry. She offers insights into manifestation and the power of community in achieving her goals.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Old Enough: A Novel on Amazon.
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
To find out more about Haley Jakobson and her writing, visit: https://www.haleyjakobson.com/
Follow Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haleyjakobson/
A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perryâs guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Hereâs the link:â https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Hayley Jakobson
00:43 Hayley's Relationship with Rejection
03:03 Navigating Rejection and Choosing Herself
05:22 Developing a Relationship with Rejection
10:17 Life Changes After Publishing a Book
15:28 The Challenges of Being Unfiltered in the Public Spotlight
22:33 Understanding Vulnerable Storytelling
29:38 The Inspiration Behind 'Old Enough'
31:02 Growing into Innocence
36:00 Writing as a Tool for Healing
37:39 Navigating Capitalism and Staying True to Values
51:07 Manifestation and Building a Supportive Community
56:36 Balancing Creativity and Marketing in the Publishing Industry
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Paulette Perhach, an award-winning writer and author, shares her experiences with rejection and failure.
She emphasizes the importance of being open and vulnerable as a writer and navigating the challenges that come with it.
She discusses her journey with ADHD and how it has influenced her relationship with rejection.
Paulette also talks about the importance of self-compassion and seeking external help when needed. She shares personal stories of infidelity and how she stays open despite past experiences.
In this conversation, Paulette Perhach discusses the importance of feeling and embracing vulnerability, the power of acceptance, and the journey from victimhood to survivorship. S
he emphasizes the need to tap into our emotions and experiences in order to grow and transform. Paulette also shares insights on negotiation, self-education, and the value of having a vision. She encourages aspiring writers to read, write consistently, and start with small projects before submitting their work.
Paulette's personal story of resilience and growth serves as an inspiration for anyone navigating the challenges of life and pursuing their creative passions.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Welcome to the Writer's Life: How to Design Your Writing Craft, Writing Business, Writing Practice, and Reading Practice on Amazon.
To find out more about Paulette Perhach and her writing coaching, retreats and pieces, visit: https://www.pauletteperhach.com/
Follow Paulette on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulettejperhach/
I will also be giving away a copy of Paulette's latest book to a listener who subscribes to the podcast (your entry will count twice if you also review). You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women's spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perryâs guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Hereâs the link:â https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If you're looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Background
02:17 Embracing Rejection and Failure
06:04 The Power of a Beginner's Mindset
10:07 Navigating Rejection and Failure with ADHD
24:34 Staying Open and Vulnerable as a Writer
29:56 Embracing Vulnerability and Growth
30:23 The Power of Acceptance
31:31 Negotiation and Self-Education
33:18 Having a Vision and Setting Audacious Goals
36:33 Starting Small and Building Confidence
41:17 Navigating Rejection and Persevering
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Neil Patel, a renowned marketer and author, shares his insights on rejection and success. He emphasizes the importance of not letting rejection sting and the need to embrace rejection as a part of life and business. Neil discusses his own experiences with rejection and how he learned to be patient and persistent.
He also talks about the mindset of not having much to lose, which allowed him to take risks and pursue his dreams. Neil shares his thoughts on long-term planning, adapting to change, and the importance of community and support in overcoming rejection. He also highlights the value of taking action and not overthinking, as well as the need to own your dreams and not just rent them. Neil provides advice on navigating disagreements and criticism, and he suggests pitching Ray Dalio as a potential guest for the podcast.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Hustle: The Power to Charge Your Life with Money, Meaning, and Momentum, as well as Neilâs other books, on Amazon or at your local bookstore.Link: https://www.amazon.com/Hustle-Power-Charge-Meaning-Momentum/dp/1623367166
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
To find out more about Neil Patel, his courses and books, visit: https://neilpatel.com/
Follow Neil on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilpatel/A special thank you to our distribution partners!
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perryâs guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Hereâs the link:â https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35
00:00 Introduction and Neil Patel's Background
02:03 Embracing Rejection and Persistence
09:35 Dealing with Rejection and Overcoming Challenges
11:24 Creating Your Own Luck and Trying Different Paths
13:13 Learning from Mistakes and Finding Your Path
14:16 The Value of Big Markets and Broad Focus
19:47 Taking Action and Owning Your Dreams
24:17 Navigating Disagreements and Criticism
26:16 Pitching Tips: Getting a Warm Introduction
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Nokuhle Kumalo shares her journey of feeling rejected by her accounting career and making the decision to leave and pursue her own business.
She discusses the challenges and doubts she faced along the way, as well as the support she received from her community. Nokuhle emphasizes the importance of finding a career that aligns with your personality and values, as well as the satisfaction that comes from living according to your purpose. She also talks about the audacious confidence she has always had and how it has helped her go after what she wants in life.
In this conversation, Nokuhle discusses her confidence in achieving her goals and the support she received from her father.
She also talks about the challenges she faced as a Black woman in corporate South Africa and the need to constantly prove herself, sharing her experiences of code-switching and the importance of language and cultural identity.
Nokuhle introduces her book, 'Get Ready With Me Work Edition,' which serves as a survival guide for young professionals in the workplace.
Nokuhle shares her experience of self-publishing, including the challenges of finding a printer and obtaining a barcode (who would have guessed!). Despite not actively marketing her book, she has had success in sales and has even had bulk sales from corporate clients. Nokuhle also reveals her plans to write a second book aimed at high school students.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Get Ready With Me Work Edition, on the Lomaku website, here: https://8266e8-3.myshopify.com/products/grwm-work-edition-book-get-ready-with-me-navigating-corporate-as-an-adult.
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
Subscribe to Nokuhle's popular Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeRUdQBuR1zX7uhVIV6oRkQ
Follow Nokuhle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nokuhle_kumalo/If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.comEmily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry's guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here's the link:https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35
00:00 Introduction and Background
01:29 Feeling Rejected in the Accounting Field
04:30 Leaving Corporate and Facing Backlash
06:57 Dealing with Self-Doubt and Setting Targets
10:08 The Power of Speaking Your Goals into Existence
11:27 Finding Alignment in Your Career and Personal Values
27:24 Confidence and Support: The Key to Achieving Goals
35:41 Challenges Faced by Black Women in Corporate South Africa
39:28 The Experience of Code-Switching
40:25 The Importance of Language and Cultural Identity
44:23 Introducing 'Get Ready With Me Work Edition': A Guide for Young Professionals
55:18 The Journey of a Self-Published Author
56:34 Building Relationships and Leveraging Social Media for Book Sales
58:30 The Power of Reviews and Feedback
01:04:43 Partnering with Corporations for Sales and Speaking Engagements
01:13:44 Writing for a Specific Audience: High School Students
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Gay Hendricks shares his personal journey of transformation and finding his zone of genius. He discusses how a moment of clarity after falling on the ice led him to discover a state of pure consciousness.
Gay emphasizes the importance of facing and accepting our emotions and experiences in order to transform our lives. He also highlights the role of meditation in connecting with our true selves and finding inner peace.
In this part of the conversation, Gay discusses the importance of self-acceptance and making new choices to create positive change.
He introduces the FAC method. Gay also shares his experience with the upper limit problem, where he encountered self-sabotage after experiencing success. He emphasizes the power of wonder and asking questions to uncover limiting beliefs. Gay offers advice for aspiring writers, highlighting the importance of voicing ambitions and taking action.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Your Big Leap Year, as well as Gayâs other books, on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Big-Leap-Year-Next-Level/dp/1250292794
I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to [email protected].
To find out more about Gay Hendricks, his work and his books, visit: https://hendricks.com/
Follow Gay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hendricks.gay/
A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.comEmily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in womenâs spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If youâre looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Chapters
00:00 Gay Hendrickâs Journey
05:54 A Moment of Clarity
11:52 Facing and Accepting Emotions
18:34 Meditation and Inner Peace
24:52 Committing to Your Gifts
30:14 Embracing Unpleasant Experiences
32:22 Self-Acceptance and Making New Choices
36:00 The Upper Limit Problem
46:02 The Role of Wonder and Asking Questions
51:21 Advice for Aspiring Writers
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