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    Episode 111:
    Self-Care as a From of Self-Advocacy

    In this episode I discuss the essential practice of self-care, emphasizing its role as a form of self-advocacy. I share my personal journey of integrating a daily self-care practice, advocating its importance for maintaining balance and well-being. I offer practical suggestions for incorporating simple self-care rituals into daily life and discuss how self-care can extend to advocating within relationships and the wider community.

    This episode encourages listeners to reimagine self-care not just as a personal practice, but as a foundational step towards fostering more intentional and conscious relationships.

    00:00 The Importance of Self Care

    00:17 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    01:08 Redefining Self-Care

    03:00 Self-Care as Self-Advocacy

    03:24 A Busy Summer and the Need for Self-Care

    04:20 Lessons from Brett Chamberlain

    05:40 Practical Self-Care Tips

    08:50 Advocating for Yourself in Relationships

    11:13 Taking a Break for Self-Care

    13:11 Closing Thoughts and Staying Connected

    Episode 20: Self-Care is NOT a Luxury!

    Episode 104: Advocacy and Support for Non-Monogamy with Brett Chamberlin

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    Episode 110:

    Is There a RIGHT Way to do Non-Monogamy? with Emma and Finn from Normalizing Non-Monogamy

    In this episode, I have an enlightening conversation with my friends, Emma and Fin, the hosts of the Normalizing Non-Monogamy podcast.

    They discuss the endless possibilities of relationship structures, their personal journey into non-monogamy, and the lessons they've learned from interviewing hundreds of people over the years.

    The episode emphasizes the importance of living an authentic life, the power of community support, and the fact that there is no 'right' way to do relationships. The conversation addresses the challenges and rewards of non-monogamy and provides insights into building and maintaining various types of relationships. Additionally, they explore the origins and growth of their community and the value of in-person and online connections.

    01:49 Meet Emma and Finn from Normalizing Non-Monogamy

    02:39 Emma and Finn's Relationship Journey

    06:30 Exploring Non-Monogamy: Early Experiences

    13:37 Challenges and Growth in Non-Monogamy

    19:54 The Inspiration Behind the Podcast

    23:19 Takeaways from Hundreds of Conversations

    28:54 Navigating Autonomy in Long-Term Relationships

    29:52 Exploring Solo Polyamory

    30:19 Challenging Relationship Norms

    33:06 The Importance of Community

    34:56 Building and Growing a Supportive Community

    38:18 In-Person Retreats and Events

    43:04 Workshop: Is There a Right Way to Do Non-Monogamy?

    50:20 Embracing the Messiness of Relationships

    52:29 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    Website | Podcast | Community

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    Episode 109:
    The Mono/Poly Relationship: Challenges and Solutions with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

    In this episode I speak with my friend, renowned researcher and coach Dr. Elisabeth Sheff returns to discuss the mono-poly relationship dynamic. We explore the challenges, misconceptions, and potential strategies for making such relationships work, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners' needs, effective communication, and mutual understanding. Dr. Sheff shares insights from her research and personal experiences, offering guidance for those navigating relationships where one partner desires monogamy and the other seeks polyamory.

    We also discuss the emotional and social hurdles often faced by couples in these dynamics and the significance of seeking support and continued re-evaluation in relationships.

    Connect with Dr. Eli:

    Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | Waitlist for Eli’s Mono/Poly Course

    Episode 42: Conversations with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff about the Evolution of Diverse Relationships and The Bonding Project

    Mono in a Poly World: What to Do When Your Partner Is Polyamorous and You Aren't by Tazmyn Ozga

    00:00 Introduction to Relationship Compromises

    00:45 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    01:47 Introducing Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

    05:15 Personal Journey into Polyamory

    07:12 Challenges and Realizations in Polyamory

    13:56 Understanding the Mono-Poly Dynamic

    25:48 Understanding Monogamous and Polyamorous Wiring

    28:40 Navigating the Mono-Poly Relationship Dynamic

    31:47 Debunking Myths and Addressing Shame

    34:48 Finding Balance and Compromise

    45:58 Resources and Support for Mono-Poly Relationships

    50:53 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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    Episode 108:

    Is Polyamory an Identity or a Lifestyle Choice? With Rich and Siobhan of The Poly (Pod) Cast

    In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I have an inspiring conversation with Rich and Siobhan, the hosts of The Poly (Pod) Cast, to talk about some big discussions present in non-monogamous communities.

    We discuss the significant topic of whether non-monogamy and polyamory are lifestyle choices or identities and tackle common myths and judgments surrounding polyamorous relationships.

    Rich and Siobhan share their personal journey from monogamy to polyamory, highlight challenges they’ve faced and provide insights on handling societal misconceptions.

    Rich and Siobhan aim to normalize diverse relationship structures and dismantle the stigma around polyamory and bisexuality.

    Connect with Rich and Siobhan:

    Website | Instagram | TikTok | YouTube | Podcast

    Email Rich and Siobhan: [email protected]

    00:00 Debunking Non-Monogamy Myths

    01:28 Meet Rich and Siobhan from the Polly Podcast

    02:40 The Journey to Non-Monogamy

    04:19 Navigating the Transition

    06:47 The Emotional Impact of Coming Out

    08:22 Exploring Identity and Choice

    14:06 Personal Growth Through Non-Monogamy

    25:14 Debunking Common Myths and Judgments

    29:06 Navigating Monogamous Mindsets

    32:12 The End Goal of Non-Monogamous Dating

    34:43 Handling Judgments and Microaggressions

    40:19 Hypersexualization and Stereotypes

    45:17 Re-Education and Normalization

    51:08 Promoting Relationship Diversity

    51:50 About The Polly Podcast

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    Episode 107:
    Healing a Sexless Relationship: Rebuilding Trust and Emotional Intimacy with Katie Ziskind

    In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I talk with holistic marriage and family therapist Katie Ziskind about the challenges and solutions for couples facing sexual avoidance and emotional disconnection. Katie, an expert in addressing high-conflict cycles and intimacy issues, shares insights into understanding attachment styles, the importance of emotional intimacy, and the role of inner child work in healing relationships. Through her experience, Katie provides couples hope and practical steps to rebuild trust and intimacy, even in cases of long-term sexual avoidance cycles, infidelity and emotional turmoil.

    This was an amazing conversation and I learned so much from Katie’s wisdom.

    Connect with Katie:

    Website | Podcast “All Things Love and Intimacy on Spotify | Podcast “All Things Love and Intimacy on Apple Podcasts

    00:00 Understanding Relationship Cycles

    01:57 Meet Katie Ziskind: Holistic Marriage and Family Therapist

    03:58 Exploring Sexual Avoidance in Long-Term Relationships

    06:10 The Importance of Emotional Intimacy

    08:30 Re-Education About Pleasure and Intimacy

    22:13 Addressing Infidelity and Rebuilding Trust

    29:41 Inner Child Work in Relationships

    39:03 Katie Ziskind's Relationship Coaching

    43:07 Conclusion and Resources

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    Episode 107:
    From Monogamish to Somatic Therapy: A 2024 Mid-Year Podcast Review

    In this mid-year review episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I provide a comprehensive overview of the first 25 episodes of 2024, covering a wide array of topics related to relationship diversity. These include somatic therapy, overcoming rejection, non-monogamous relationship structures, and the importance of community and authenticity in diverse relationships. I also reflect on key milestones, such as surpassing 10,000 downloads and publishing the 100th episode. The episode aims to make it easier for listeners to find specific episodes of interest, offering quick recaps and insights from various guest experts.

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    00:00 Introduction to Biannual Reviews

    00:33 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    01:23 Reflecting on 2024 Milestones

    02:20 Mid-Year Episode Highlights

    03:45 -27:56 Episodes 81-106 Recaps

    27:57 Closing thoughts

    Episode 28: Year-End Review: A GREAT 1st Episode to Introduce You to this Podcast

    Episode 52: So Much to Listen To! Where to Start? A Mid-Year Review of the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    Episode 80: Struggling with Your Relationship? Jump to Your Best Resource in this Year-End Review

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    Episode 106:
    Finding Tenderness While Facing Relationship Challenges with Molly Reagh

    In this episode, I welcome relationship coach and associate social worker, Molly Reagh. We discuss the intricacies of how relationships act as mirrors and messengers for personal growth. Molly shares insights on differentiating between pain and suffering and emphasizes the importance of tenderness towards oneself during challenging periods. The conversation delves into the value of parts work, understanding and embodying personal values, and how to cultivate self-compassion. Molly also provides practical advice on how to navigate complex emotions and relationship dynamics consciously and intentionally.

    00:00 Understanding Pain vs. Suffering

    01:44 Meet Molly Reagh: Relationship Coach and Social Worker

    03:09 Diving into Relationship Dynamics

    07:03 Exploring Bonobo Relationships

    13:06 Navigating Emotions and Relationships

    27:33 Connecting Physical Sensations to Memories

    28:08 Healing Through Self-Energy

    28:35 Wisdom from Past Experiences

    28:50 Acknowledging and Greeting Your Inner Child

    29:48 No Bad Parts: Embracing All Aspects of Self

    30:05 Humanizing Our Behaviors

    30:27 Unshaming and Tenderizing Our Experiences

    31:38 The Role of Safety in Our Actions

    32:38 Internalizing Safety and Judgment

    34:34 People Pleasing and Relationship Dynamics

    37:29 Empowerment Through Self-Reflection

    38:41 Cultivating Self-Compassion and Tenderness

    40:43 Values Work: Guiding Principles for Authentic Living

    43:59 Embodiment and Attunement to Values

    45:07 The Importance of Quiet Time and Self-Care

    47:57 Connecting with Molly and Her Work

    49:46 Conclusion and Podcast Information


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    Episode 105:

    Is Compersion Easier For Some More Than Others? Exploring How Social Positionality Influences Compersion with Dr. Marie Thouin

    In this episode, I welcome back Dr. Marie Thouin, a leading expert on compersion, to discuss her most recent research and findings. We delve into the complexities of compersion and its intersection with social positionality, examining how factors like age, race, gender, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status, and geographical location influence the experience of compersion in consensually non-monogamous relationships.

    Dr. Thouin shares insights from her new book, detailing the socio-psychological aspects of compersion, its broader applications beyond CNM, and the importance of supportive communities. The episode also highlights future research directions and practical advice for those navigating non-monogamous relationships.


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    Compersion Website | Website | Instagram

    Buy Marie’s Book:

    Roman and Littlefield | Amazon

    Episode 51: Embracing Compersion: The Transformative Power of Joy in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Dr. Marie Thouin


    00:00 Introduction and Hypothesis

    00:22 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    01:27 Introducing Dr. Marie Thouin

    05:23 Defining Compersion

    11:14 Social Positionality and Compersion

    22:12 Age and Compersion

    30:13 Geographical Location and Compersion

    32:52 Socioeconomic Status and Compersion

    36:09 Race and Compersion

    40:20 Sexual Identity and Compersion

    43:03 Future of Compersion Research

    50:27 Conclusion and Resources

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    Episode 104:
    Advocacy and Support for Non-Monogamy with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director for OPEN

    In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I talk with Brett Chamberlain, the executive director of OPEN, an advocacy nonprofit for polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Brett shares his personal journey, the foundational values embedded in non-monogamy, and the significant impact it can have on society. We discuss the importance of visibility, community, and legal advocacy in advancing acceptance and rights for non-monogamous families. The conversation covers tangible steps for advocacy, OPEN's organizational strategies, and the upcoming Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy. Brett provides valuable insights for those interested in supporting diverse relationship structures and contributing to a more just and joyous future.

    00:00 Introduction to Non-Monogamy Values

    00:47 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    01:49 Introducing Brett Chamberlain and OPEN

    02:47 Brett's Journey into Activism

    04:41 The Birth of OPEN

    10:45 Strategies for Non-Monogamous Advocacy

    17:45 The Importance of Community

    22:42 Future Visions for OPEN

    26:28 Steps for Legislative Change

    32:49 Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy

    32:58 Introduction to the Week of Visibility

    33:55 Feedback and Expansion to a Week

    34:36 Organizing Local and Online Events

    36:03 Daily Themes for the Week of Visibility

    38:27 Supporting Non-Monogamous Individuals

    40:56 Volunteering and Donations

    44:31 The Broader Vision for Non-Monogamy

    47:03 Challenging Norms and Personal Growth

    54:50 Final Thoughts and Resources

    Join OPEN's email list: | Week of Visibility | OPEN’s Non-Monogamy Reading List | Join OPEN’s Community Discord

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    Episode 103:
    From Monogamy to Monogamish: Reimagining Modern Relationships

    In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I dive into the concept of 'monogamish' relationships—a hybrid between monogamy and open relationships.

    Coined by Dan Savage, this term represents relationships that blend primary commitment with some degree of sexual or emotional openness. I explore the origins of the term, its benefits, and various examples of how monogamish arrangements can be personalized to fit unique partnership needs.

    I emphasize the importance of communication, trust, and flexibility, and offer practical advice for those considering this relationship structure.

    The episode also includes reflective questions to determine if a monogamish setup could be right for you and your partner, along with steps to navigate the transition from traditional monogamy.

    00:00 Introduction to Monogamish Relationships

    00:47 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    01:38 Carrie Jeroslow's Personal Journey with Relationships

    04:16 Exploring the Term 'Monogamish'

    09:16 Examples of Monogamish Relationships

    12:40 Characteristics for Thriving in a Monogamish Relationship

    19:47 Steps to Transition to a Monogamish Relationship

    24:06 Conclusion and Additional Resources

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    Episode 102:
    The Art of Non-Monogamous Matchmaking: Insights from Matchmaker, Daniella Guimaraes

    In this compelling episode, I dive deep into the world of non-monogamous matchmaking with pioneering matchmaker Daniella Guimaraes. Daniella, the founder of Velvet Ties, shares her unique journey from modeling to becoming a key figure in the non-monogamous community, driven by her passion for fostering honest and meaningful connections.

    Daniella shares her innovative approach to matchmaking, where transparency, openness, and intimacy are at the forefront. She discusses the complexities and nuances of non-monogamous relationships, offering valuable insights into her methods and strategies for helping clients find their ideal matches. From navigating different levels of openness to understanding intimate preferences and libidos, Daniella's expertise shines through in every aspect of her work.

    Learn about her offerings from hosting upscale, curated events that promote deep, respectful connections to full-service matchmaking, and discover the significant impact of thoughtful matchmaking in a world increasingly open to diverse relationship structures.

    Whether you're curious about non-monogamy, exploring it yourself, or simply interested in the art of modern matchmaking, this episode is a treasure trove of information and inspiration.

    00:00 Opening Thoughts

    01:41 Conversation with Daniella Guimaraes: A Non-Monogamous Matchmaker

    02:20 Daniella's Journey into Non-Monogamous Matchmaking

    04:47 The Matchmaking Process and Importance of Honesty

    06:03 Exploring Non-Monogamy Spectrum with Clients

    06:34 The Role of Coaching in Matchmaking

    13:54 Events and Social Club: Expanding the Non-Monogamy Community

    19:25 The Future of Non-Monogamy and Closing Thoughts

    25:44 Final Words and Resources

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    Daniella’s Events | Matchmaking Services | Free WhatsApp Community | Instagram

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    Episode 101
    Exploring the World of Solo Polyamory


    In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I dive into the concept of solo polyamory. I discuss the integration of autonomy and independence in multiple romantic relationships, common misconceptions, and how the solo poly structure fosters personal growth and emotional fulfillment.

    Listeners will also learn how to determine if this unique relationship style aligns with their values and how to communicate it effectively to potential partners.

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    Learn more about intentionally shifting your relationship structure by listening to these episodes:

    Episode 24: Do these 3 Things Before Attempting to Open Up a Monogamous Relationship

    Episode 48: Shifting Your Relationship Structure: How Timing Can Influence Your Decision

    Episode 56: Opening Up Your Relationship – Part 1: When You Want to Open Your Relationship and Your Partner Doesn’t

    Episode 58: Opening Up Your Relationship – Part 2 When Your Partner Wants to Open Your Relationship and You Don’t

    00:00 Introduction to Solo Polyamory

    00:34 Exploring Relationship Diversity

    01:24 Personal Encounter with Solo Polyamory

    04:02 Deep Dive into Solo Polyamory

    09:35 Addressing Misconceptions and Judgments

    14:13 Is Solo Polyamory Right for You?

    16:50 Communicating Your Solo Poly Structure

    19:00 Conclusion and Invitation to Explore Relationship Diversity

    19:37 Announcements and Resources

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    Episode 100
    Celebrating 100 Episodes: Reflections, Intentions, and a Giveaway!

    In the 100th episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I reflect on the journey of the podcast and the exploration of relationship structure diversity.

    Marking a significant personal milestone, I delve into the evolution of relationship diversity (whether soloamory, monogamy, open relationships, non-monogamy or polyamory and everything in between), highlighting the concept's role in enabling people to create relationships that align with their identities.

    I also look at how the podcast started and how it’s going. I see if I am holding true to the vision and to all I spoke about in Episode 001 from September 2022.

    Celebrating the growth and learning over 100 episodes, I announce a giveaway and invite you to enter a giveaway to win an energetic guidance session with me.

    To enter, leave a review for the podcast here or on your podcast streaming service. Take a screenshot and email it to me at [email protected]

    If you podcast service doesn’t allow reviews, you can email me a review to use on my website. The deadline is May 31, 2024 and a winner will be chosen on June 1, 2024 and notified on June 3, 2024.

    The commitment to expanding the dialogue on relationship diversity and challenging conventional relationship paradigms remains strong, with anticipation for the next 100 episodes.

    Read testimonials about my sessions here.

    00:00 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

    01:18 Celebrating 100 Episodes: Reflections and Future Visions

    02:16 The Journey of Relationship Diversity Podcast

    03:15 Exploring the Depths of Relationship Diversity

    06:06 The Impact of Conversations and Connections

    06:58 Navigating the Complexities of Relationships

    08:51 The Power of Personal and Collective Evolution

    12:08 A Special Giveaway: Engage and Win

    15:03 Looking Ahead: The Future of Relationship Diversity

    16:08 A Heartfelt Thank You and Invitation

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    Episode 099:
    The Intersectionality of Race and Non-Monogamy with Dr. Christopher Smith

    This episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast features a deep dive into the intersectionality of race and ethical non-monogamy with Dr. Christopher Smith.

    Dr. Smith, an equity advisor, and diversity expert, shares their journey and insights into supporting underrepresented relationship communities. The conversation covers the challenges African American non-monogamous individuals face, including racial, economic, and intergroup discrimination, as well as phobias around sexuality and gender identity.

    They emphasize the importance of being an ally and advocate for marginalized communities by being a disruptor in societal norms and legal systems. They highlight their academic studies on the lived experiences of consensual, non-monogamous African American college students and discuss future research and advocacy plans.

    We also touch on the history of non-monogamous structures, the impact of religious and societal programming, and the need for more inclusive support systems in academia, local and federal governments, and beyond.

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    Email: [email protected]
    Advocacy and Support:
    APA Division 44 Consensual Non-monogamy Task Force
    Chosen Family Law Center

    00:00 Exploring the Intersection of Race and Non-Monogamy

    01:27 Diving Deep with Dr. Christopher Smith: Race, Non-Monogamy, and Advocacy

    04:55 Dr. Smith's Personal Journey into Non-Monogamy

    09:26 The Historical Context of Monogamy and Non-Monogamy

    18:29 The Impact of Non-Monogamy on African American College Students

    25:52 Advocacy and Future Directions in Non-Monogamy Research

    33:17 Becoming an Ally and Advocate for Marginalized Communities

    44:18 Final Thoughts and Resources

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    Episode 98
    The Tension Between Authenticity and Belonging in Diverse Relationships

    Drawing from the wisdom of thought leaders like Gabor Mate, we delve into the complex tango of attachment and authenticity that defines our interactions and self-concept.

    My own story of emerging from the shadows post-divorce, armed with newfound self-awareness, sets the stage for a candid discussion about the courage to live life on our own terms.

    We have an innate need to belong.

    And yet, we also have a profound desire to express our individuality.

    These are many times at odds but what if they could support each other?

    In this episode, I explore small steps you can take to learn who you are, and embrace your authenticity day by day while also delicately balancing your need to fit in, belong and connect.

    And of course, we do this through the lens of relationship diversity. Whether you are exploring soloamory, intentional monogamy, open relationships or polyamory, this episode will invite you to go deeper into your own self-exploration.

    This is Relationships Reimagined.

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    Episode 097:
    Wisdom From Our Polyamorous Elders with Susan Bratton Part 2

    Discover the keys to unlocking the joys of relationship diversity as I sit down with Susan Bratton, an authority on intimacy who brings a treasure trove of insights into the realms of polyamory, communication, and deep connection. This episode is a roadmap to understanding and nurturing the unique needs within any relationship, especially within the intricate polycule dynamic. Susan, with her infectious enthusiasm, unpacks the lessons from generations of relationship diversity, offering strategies from sexual biohacking to fostering lifelong passion. You're in for an enlightening discussion that not only highlights the beauty of diverse relationships but also the pivotal role of communication in making every intimate encounter meaningful.

    Susan introduces you to the "platinum rule" of relationships, underscoring the importance of treating partners according to their desires and needs. You'll learn how this rule distinguishes itself from the old "golden rule" and how it can enhance understanding and fulfillment within your own relationships.

    This episode is your invitation to transform your relationships through the profound journey of self-exploration with practical steps and exercises that can set you on a path to more compassionate and loving connections.

    Connect with Susan:
    Website | Instagram | the 20store | BetterLover.Com

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    This is Relationships Reimagined.

    Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.

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    Support the show

    Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

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    Episode 096:
    Wisdom From Our Polyamorous Elders with Susan Bratton Part 1

    Discover the keys to unlocking the joys of relationship diversity as I sit down with Susan Bratton, an authority on intimacy who brings a treasure trove of insights into the realms of polyamory, communication, and deep connection. This episode is a roadmap to understanding and nurturing the unique needs within any relationship, especially within the intricate polycule dynamic. Susan, with her infectious enthusiasm, unpacks the lessons from generations of relationship diversity, offering strategies from sexual biohacking to fostering lifelong passion. You're in for an enlightening discussion that not only highlights the beauty of diverse relationships but also the pivotal role of communication in making every intimate encounter meaningful.

    Susan introduces you to the "platinum rule" of relationships, underscoring the importance of treating partners according to their desires and needs. You'll learn how this rule distinguishes itself from the old "golden rule" and how it can enhance understanding and fulfillment within your own relationships.

    This episode is your invitation to transform your relationships through the profound journey of self-exploration with practical steps and exercises that can set you on a path to more compassionate and loving connections.

    Connect with Susan:
    Website | Instagram | the 20store | BetterLover.Com

    Get your Relationship Values Workbook

    🔥 Up Your Pleasure with this Pleasure Protocol

    This is Relationships Reimagined.

    Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.

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    Support the Show.

    Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

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    Episode 95
    The Monogamous Programming in Our World Runs Deep!

    Have you ever found yourself questioning the long-held belief that monogamy is the one-size-fits-all solution to love and commitment?

    In today's episode, I peel back the mononormative curtain that has shrouded our views on relationships for centuries.

    Navigating the tides of traditional relationship expectations, this episode dives into the stigmatization and stereotypes facing those who choose to love differently. We challenge the misleading narrative suggesting that growth is exclusive to monogamy, and instead, we celebrate the personal evolution that occurs across all forms of relationships.

    I share insights from my own ongoing journey of unlearning mononormative views, inviting you to reconsider and reshape the way you think about forming deep, lasting bonds. This isn't just about questioning the status quo—it's a call to action for inclusivity and an embrace of the diverse tapestry of human connection.

    This is Relationships Reimagined.

    Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.

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    OPEN (Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy

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    Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

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    Episode 094:
    What Makes Polyamory Work (Part 2) with Libby Sinback

    This week's episode is super special to me. I got to have a conversation with my friend, Libby Sinback, a relationship coach and host of "Making Polyamory Work." We've had several long conversations, but this is one that got recorded!

    This is part 2 of our conversation. Check out Part 1 here.

    In this part, we go into Libby’s expertise with the questions,

    “What makes polyamory work?”

    And

    “What makes polyamory NOT work?”


    Libby has so much experience personally and with the thousands of clients she has worked with individually and through her group program.

    You don't want to miss this one!

    Connect with Libby:
    Website | Making Polyamory Work Podcast


    This is Relationships Reimagined.

    Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.

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    Website

    Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good

    Podcast Music by Zachariah Hickman

    Support the show

    Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

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    Episode 093:
    What Makes Polyamory Work (Part 1) with Libby Sinback

    This week's episode is super special to me. I got to have a conversation with my friend, Libby Sinback, a relationship coach and host of "Making Polyamory Work." We've had several long conversations but this is one that got recorded!

    It's a heart-to-heart talk with the insightful Libby,

    Inspired by her AND wanting to include everything we talked about, I broke this conversation into 2 episodes with Part 2 coming out next week.

    In this part, we share our personal experiences about relationships, healing, leaning into discomfort and so much more. Libby also shares her past experiences with her own journey into polyamory.

    Libby has so much experience personally and with the thousands of clients she has worked with individually and through her group program.

    You don't want to miss this one!

    Connect with Libby:
    Website | Making Polyamory Work Podcast

    One of my favorite MPW episodes: For Your Mom

    This is Relationships Reimagined.

    Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.

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    Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.